#pro para (no contact for the big 3)

[i-dont-just-suck-blood]

(irl) children can't consent. If you think differently, block me because i hate you 💀

[unholy-vessel]

Non-Contact / No-Contact / NC Flag

I didn't coin this term. It's been in use in the para community for a long time to refer to when you personally aren't going to make contact for one (or all) of your paras, so I made a flag for it

What counts as 'making contact' varies per individual, but most of the time I don't see people counting fiction or roleplay, just the real thing. You also don't need to be anti-contact to be non-contact

Simplified/Alt flags:

Specific Paras:

🗺️

🐾

💀

You're free to use the template and make your own (I'd love to be tagged in cool shit you make), or send me asks with the flag you want and I'll make an NC version if I can

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[zoophilic-disorder]

🌱 Affirmations for zoos who aren't out...

You will be okay, you do not need to tell people you do not want to,

You are not betraying your loved ones by not telling them about your zoophilia,

You did not trick your loved ones into getting close to a "bad person", you're not a bad person and have done nothing wrong,

You are not hurting them by not telling them of your urges or attractions,

You do not need to tell anyone you don't want to,

You are not evil or manipulative for not letting them know,

There are people who will love and support you, zoophilia and all.

Having such a stigmatized paraphilia while being close to people who don't know- especially people who don't seem accepting, is terrifying. But, you will be okay, you will find people who it's safe to confide in, who will love you just as much.

[bupsafr3ak]

Transbig3para

[trans-big-3-para]

an individual who think they sould have / identify as someone with the big 3 paras. coined by me

[will-pilled]

Are these anti contact para symbols?? I'm pretty sure they are but someone verify.

[parasol-culture-is]

anti-contact culture is seeing how normalized it is for people to treat their pets like shit and just thinking 'wow but im the dangerous one'

para culture is

obligatory A/N: we do not support romantic/sexual contact with animals/children/corpses. this is not a place for abusers.

[para-self-help]

Super scared that I’m a pedo. I would never hurt a kid, I’m actually acespec anyway. It’s still really bothering me, so you have any words of comfort?

the best thing to remember for any paraphilia really is this: your thoughts are not anything but thoughts and they can't hurt anyone. You arent a child abuser if you've never abused a child yknow?

If you're scared you may hurt a kid, then please seek out professional help as thats out of my scope of abilities.

[moriphile2]

Well hello folks! It happened. Over a fucking antishipper, stupidly enough. Needless to say, I am currently very pissed. And also extremely paranoid. I hope Tumblr deletes your fucking account and IP bans you for harassment. Because that's what you did.

By the way, telling me to kms isn't very creative. It's actually kind of pathetic.

Anyway! Sorry for the long break. I'm still on break. I've just also been notified I have been banned. I'll probably re-follow my old moots later, that I remember at least. But if I look at this site much longer right now I'm going to go fucking insane.

I knew I should've archived that account.

[burnercuzimapussy]

Fellow paras, does fiction make your urges worse or is it just me?

[3dsmade]

Térrybenic

[pt; térrybenic, end pt]

a 🪦🍐4⚙️🪦🍐 dynamic in which one partner fantasizes about themselves as a morgue worker committing a 🪦🍐 act, while the other fantasizes about being the corpse in question. the name originates from the 1999 🍐🪦 film don't let me die on a sunday, in which the two main characters, térésa and ben, have this dynamic.

[soloquel]

raquel | 24 | she/they

relevant info in the tags. have a nice day 👋

[zoophilic-disorder]

🌱 Welcome to my account for people like me (but really anyone).

This is a primarily positivity blog for those with zoophilia, but I will work to have education, discussion, and community as well.

If you're a zoophile and struggle with finding any sort of community outside of pro-contact/animal abuse rings, please have hope. There are resources and places for you to be okay and not worry about harming an animal. These thoughts can be violent, scary, and deeply uncomfortable and unsettling, but you will be okay, and you will not act on them.

Feel free to send requests for posts! (ie. "Can you make affirmations for zoos who..."Can you make a positivity post for zoos who are..." or anything really, as long as it's relevant).

🌱 This blog advocates for:

• destigmatization of paraphilias, primarily zoophilia.

• anti harassment against anyone.

• pro fiction- acting out fantasies and attractions in fictional settings to cope does not make you a bad person, and you are not failing at "repressing" your paraphilia.

• anti offending/contact stances for any paraphilia that's harmful to act on. there will be no posts that cater towards other stances.

• understanding that paraphilias cannot be "cured" and instead must be accepted and coped with healithy to survive.

• saving people. you should not die simply because you have a paraphilia, your life is valuable and wanted, and you are not disgusting.

🌱 About Me & Tag Key below the line...

My name is Sprout (they/them)!

I'm 21 years old, and I'm physically disabled, which may cause me to post less than I want due to flareups. I'm also wasian- I'm unsure if this will be entirely relevant here, but I'm mentioning it regardless in case discussions come up about the POC community (especially asian) when it comes to paraphiles, and the differing experiences.

And of course, I've suspected being a zoophile since I was a young child.

I've struggled with thoughts, urges, and attractions for a long time, bringing in self-harmful or otherwise self-destructive behavior. I've been riddled with guilt for simply existing and having a disorder I had no control over, one that made me absolutely miserable (and still does to an extent).

Looking for community was impossible. It felt like there were two sides- people who wanted those like me dead, and people who genuinely wanted to act on their thoughts. Both were insufferable, but I ended up choosing the side that hated zoophiles out of disgust and fear.

I also wasn't certain at the time whether what I was experienced was zOCD, or an actual zoophilic disorder. This year, 2024, is when I finally came to the understanding I do not have zOCD, it became impossible to ignore anymore. I felt so ashamed and embarrassed, with nowhere to go.

I wonder if the reason the pro-beastiality side of the community got so large is because people kept running out of options and eventually gave up looking for a better one.

So I want to try and help mend that, and try to start proper support groups for those like me, who just want a shoulder to lean on, someone to talk to, and comfort.

🌱 Tagging System

#🐾 discussion - talking about zoophilia in any way. I wish this was a general tag that all zoos would use so we could find each other, since any other zoo tag is entirely taken over by people who want us dead.

#🐾 help - resources and advice.

#🐾 positivity - positivity posts specifically for zoos.

#🐾 therian - posts catered towards therian with zoophilia.

#🐾 system - posts catered towards systems with zoophilia.

#🐾 sadist - posts catered towards zoosadists. (im not a zoosadist, if I spread misinformation please let me know).

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#🍐 positivity - general posts for positivity, not aimed specifically at zoos.

#ask recieved - answering asks.

#snarling - discourse or potentially triggering discussion.

[parasol-culture-is]

Para culture is seeing this “P.E.A.R” acronym on DNIs, usually next to MAPs and sometimes Proshippers, and wondering what on earth PEAR is supposed to stand for because searching it just gives you the fruit.

para culture is

PEAR as you are talking about is an acronym sex workers i think made that stands for Pro Expression, Anti Repression as far as I know. No idea how people started decided it was related to MAPs.

if anyone knows who coined it please let me know as I'm going off what folks on a discord server have told me and I could be wrong.

[asses-to-ashes]

Pedophiles don't belong in the proship community. Zoophiles don't belong in the furry community. Can we stop conflating these communities.

If you're recovering from a paraphilic disorder, great! Can't afford a psychologist but are anti-contact and anti-enabling? Also great! I wish you the best.

My problem comes from the normalization and celebration of paraphilic disorders on this site specifically under the disguise of disability or queer activism. A psychologist will NEVER, EVER recommend that you post about it or engage in an online community of enablers. Paraphilic disorders are not kink. Embracing paraphilic disorders is not disability activism.

You can be anti-contact and anti-enabling without being hateful or making assumptions about people who have a disorder, but people who run Para Blogs are not anti-enabling. The ProPara community has turned into a cesspool of enablers and legitimate pro-contact pedophiles who hide behind the fact that people have empathy for those with disorders they can't control. They've created a space where people brag about being pedophiles and celebrate attraction to children. This is the opposite of how the disorder is treated by professionals.

Stay away from fiction & communities that could cause you to relapse or backslide. Proshippers are not attracted to minors, our stories don't exist for pedophiles to displace their attraction onto.

The reasons paraphilic disorders are different from fetishes is because:

1. They include unwilling people or people who cannot consent, such as voyeurism or pedophilia

2. They cause the participant or others harm that is potentially lifelong

3. They prevent a person from functioning or adjusting in society

I'm going to address a post I saw earlier. EXTREME TW for the defense of pro-contact "big 3" paraphilias

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Being gay harms nobody. It is an attraction between two consenting adults.

PARAPHILIC DISORDERS are not normal attraction. Comparing being a pedophile to being homosexual is not the #WOKE PEDOPHILE WIN that you think it is. It's insanely regressive and harmful.

To reiterate, you are not evil for having a paraphilic disorder.

You are not a bad person. You are a bad person for glorifying it, enabling yourself and others, fighting for your right to harm other people without consent, and engaging in an online community of pedophiles.

[livinglycan]

☽ ~ The sand shifts beneath your paws and the scent of salt fills your nostrils ~ 𓃥

‧͙⁺˚*･༓☾ "𝚂𝚝𝚊𝚢 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚍, 𝚖���𝚘𝚗 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍" ☽༓･*˚⁺‧͙

Ello!! You can call me Theo, Ari, or Feng! I'm transmasc and my pronouns are He/It/That + any dog or (were)wolf related neos! I'm (feralromantic) aroallo, MLM/Gay, wolfdog freak, and objectum.

Feralromantic and wolfdog freak are both coins termed by me!

I am a werewolf. This is not a kintype, I am physically a werewolf. I’ll still post under the werewolfkin tags because I feel like werewolfkin can relate to my experience. I am a therian and otherkin but stuff relating to that can be found on my main blog, @confused-canid where I interact from. I appreciate the use of tone tags for me!

This blog is for me posting about me being a werewolf, or werewolf related things! This could be my selfships, art writings, etc.! My tags are: #Running with the wolves🐺 - Talking with my mutuals! #Howling at the moon🌕 - Original posts that are text! #Weird little claw marks✏️ - My art! This will usually be paired with text so it will be tagged as #Howling at the moon🌕 and as #Weird little claw marks✏️! #yapping back🌙 - Responding to asks! #Tasty posts🦴 - reblogs relating to this blog but not therian related or my own (usually used for posts I’m saving for later), #Rabies🥩 - Gore, animal death, angry stuff, and other things that make me hungry, #Home🌲 - Heart-home (Vancouver island) stuff, #Mother🏹🦌 - Artemis worship related things, #Little wolf🐾 - Agere posts (rbs and original ones

Theriotypes:

~Harlequin great Dane

~Bottlenose dolphin

~Western coyote (unsure what type but one that lives in or near Kansas, prairie dwelling)

~Leopard seal

~ Rocky mountain Bighorn sheep

Kintypes:

~Merfolk

~Two legged dragon

~Marble fox Kitsune

Others:

~Equidae clado hearted

~Changeling holothere

~ Lemon shork (Kaiju paradise)

~ Like slime pup (Kaiju paradise)

~ Nightcrawler (Kaiju paradise)

~ Chocolate sprinklekit (Kaiju paradise)

~ Lockheed SR-71 blackbird

DNI: Basic DNI criteria+, NSFW blog, make a lot of nsfw posts about werewolves, Radqueer, RCTA, Proship or any variants of it, Demonizes cluster B disorders or delusions/are an ableist, Zionist/pro Israel (Get tf off my blog. Seriously. Like, leave right now. I will maul you.), antikin, fakeclaimer, anti researched self diagnoses, pro Trump, pro Biden (Trump is bad and so is Joe. He is directly funding the genocide against Palestine.), anti ACAB, Pro contact for harmful paras (People w/ big 3 and other harmful (if acted on) paras can interact but don’t go against the rest of my DNI. I hope you can recover, I'm proud of you. You can do this.), anti atypical dysphoria, or are here to debate me about my identity.

Anyways, bye creatures!

Last updated July Fith 2024

I live in the central daylight timezone / CT, in case you want to talk

a lot of this was just to show off these dividers

^silly little werewolf gif collage ^^

[3dsmade]

☆ ;; Sunday Ficto🪦🍐/Sunday Autoficto🪦🍐

[pt; sunday ficto🪦🍐/sunday autoficto🪦🍐, end pt]

attraction to fictional dead bodies/attraction to yourself as a fictional dead body. colour-picked from the 1999 para film don't let me die on a sunday because the autism always wins.