#prioritize your life

[purplebutterflies-blog]

Monday, Monday, Monday! A new week! 💜🦋 I hope it goes well for you. I hope you receive whatever it is that you're working for. May you meet your goals. I hope you do what's best for you and not what other people want you to do. Remember to take time for yourself. Remember to take care of yourself. Check in with yourself.

Purpose is our goal. Not pressure. 💜 You've got this. 🫶💪

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[readsserenes]

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[feminineenergylife]

A peaceful life ♡

Life of Ease daily affirmations

[ae-cha08]

[chimerafeathers]

i know we love to rag on Siffrin for feeling so miserably guilty and manipulative for the crime of [checks notes] “doing nice things for their friends so that they’ll be happy and care about him even if it’s not perfectly sincere on his end”

but like. in context i don’t think that thought process is anywhere near as nonsensical as it always sounds written out like that

i’m sure i’m just stating the obvious here but it’s not really about the “crime” of making people happy. it’s about what he’s not doing, which is anything that would allow their friends to have any real knowledge or agency over the situation they’re all in.

it’s about never acting according to his real feelings in the moment and letting them see the messier version of him that exists now, never allowing their relationships to evolve or develop meaningfully beyond the “safest” iteration, the thing that is Known and produces the Correct Results, because anything else has the possibility of leading to negative emotions towards Siffrin.

Siffrin knows he’s not really doing all this for their benefit, not entirely, because the “right” thing to do would give them the full context to choose how they feel and what to do about it. they’re happy, but in a way they don’t get to keep. they’re happy, but in a way that keeps Siffrin safe from anything more complex and real. they’re happy, but only because some Siffrin in the past said the right things once, and this new, bitter, lonely, desperate version wouldn’t know how to get the “correct result” without a script to follow. they’re happy, and it was real once, it meant something once, but not anymore.

they cared about that Siffrin, yes, but would they still care about this one, if they knew? if Siffrin ever allowed them to know? (he won’t, he can’t, he refuses.)

and there’s something that could have been said in favor of Siffrin allowing himself this “selfishness” if it made him happy anyway, if it could be a genuine source of comfort in a difficult situation—but it doesn’t! not really! because that guilt is there, because that fear is there, because of how flimsy it all inevitably feels.

so they’re not doing it for their family’s benefit, because that happiness is predicated on lies and ignorance. he’s barely doing it for his own benefit, because they’re torturing themself by revealing things they no longer want to reveal, concealing things they no longer want to conceal, acting out of fear of rejection rather than genuine desire for connection. who benefits from this hollow “kindness,” really?

that’s why the last loop had to be the ugliest one. Siffrin had to see that the worst could happen and there could still be love and connection on the other side. that even when the party sees the worst of him, when they have the agency he’s been knowingly denying them, they will still choose to love him.

[moonshynecybin]

The Marquez family dynamics is like crack to my brain i think about it way to much. Like you've got marc and Alex the most codependent siblings to ever live who shared a bedroom until they moved out of their family home in their 20s just to move in with eachother. From some stuff I've seen Julia and Roser divorced (I have no clue when) they are always following marc and Alex's careers and are very involved and Marc and Alex both speak really highly of them but sometimes I look at how marc and Alex are and some stuff in old articles and go there childhood was definitely not all sunshine and rainbows and happiness and Marc's talked in the past about how he was raised by his grandfather cause his parents always worked but them the economic crisis in Spain made a teenage marc the main money bringer in the family with is crazy. Like Marc and Alex are closer than a lot of twins even are and Marc is like a father figure/brother role and Alex is one of the only people in the world that probably knows Marc's inner thoughts. Like I'm constantly thinking about his post for marc when he left Honda and the stuff he must have seen marc go through in those injury years. And the stories about Marc's injury in 2011 where marc was apparently the most calm one and was the one calming his parents down is crazy to me like 18 years old possible career ending injury and he's the one with the most level head. This got so much longer than I expected.

no i agree its one of those things where even if your parents arent absent or abusive per seee, it also doesnt mean that they are like perfect parents who leave you baggage free. and i think marc and alex CERTAINLYYYY have parental baggage lol

[oflights]

i know in retellings draco always befriends hermione because he's a nerd or whatever but this morning i was thinking of a retelling where draco befriends ron because he literally just bribes him. like he sees that harry won't bother with him and lbr no one wanted to be friends with first year hermione but ron seems like he'd be easily bought and draco's dad told him those are the easiest people to get on your side. and also wouldn't it be fun to steal away harry potter's anointed best friend?

so he's like "i'm willing to forget you laughed at my name on the train" and literally just buys ron things until he stops being indignant. he buys him a new wardrobe. endless sweets and toys. he writes to his mother like "hello i'm working on something here can u help" and narcissa is immediately on board.

and ron totally is easily bought. he really is. he pretends to still hate draco but also his mother taught him some manners so it's only polite to accept the little git's gifts. his siblings are sick with jealousy, it's great.

and slowly ron's like "maybe he's not so bad" and progresses to "yes he's weird but i've gotten him to stop with the slurs so" to actual friendship that harry and hermione eventually come around to, too.

[watermelinoe]

i know i use radfem as a shorthand for the gyns on here who Believe those Beliefs but i think radical feminism is something one does, not an identity, and i think part of our collective problem is that we're all still submerged in the deep fryer that is identity politics

[flwrstqr]

tip / advice of the day ( or would you call it motivation TT ) decided to do these every other few days

becoming the best version of yourself isn’t about perfection. it’s about growth. it’s about waking up every day and deciding that you deserve better. better habits. better thoughts. better people in your life. it’s about choosing yourself in a world that constantly tries to make you someone else.

self-care is not just face masks and bubble baths. it’s discipline. it’s knowing when to rest but also knowing when to push yourself. it’s choosing what nourishes you instead of what drains you. your life is yours. stop living for other people’s expectations. stop making choices out of fear of judgment. stop waiting for permission to be happy. 

invest in yourself. learn new things, explore your interests, take care of your mind and body. read books, travel, pick up new skills, surround yourself with people who inspire you. your future self will thank you for the choices you make today. 

life is too short to spend it hating yourself, doubting yourself, or waiting for the “right” moment to start living fully. the right moment is now. focus on yourself. build the life you want. become the best version of yourself. not for anyone else, but for you.

[storm-of-feathers]

sorry for being inactive; life dropped a lot on me at once from many different angles. won't be active again until at least the other side of the weekend.

[feminineenergylife]

Prioritize yourself, your needs, your happiness, your peace & your goals first ♡

[ae-cha08]

[coquelicoq]

fan jian is the best he's like well call me crazy but personally i want my son to live. rip to ur empire but im different. but he says it to the emperor. as if he's not the guy who could straight up have him decapitated?? girl think it thru....

[moonshynecybin]

he really does this alex is his baby lol there’s an interview somewhere where he says that the closest he can get to understanding how his parents must feel seeing him ride is how he feels watching alex…

the way when alex was in moto2 and was racing while marc was doing press stuff he couldn’t even pay attention to the questions bc he was just watching the screen…. hands anxiously climbing all over jose luis’s and alex’s hat… that’s his BABYYYY

[fivepebble]

my psych genuinely doesn't understand how much i need my ritalin just to survive and be a normal person and it's incredibly frustrating

[theragamuffininitiative]

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