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at this point i bet both ayo and jaw have friends and family in their texts (esp after this season) like “sooooo carmy and sydney???? 👀”
bc the way they try to continually refute it in the press is SO funny.
#the bear fx#the bear#carmy x sydney#jeremy allen white#ayo edebiri#it’s just funny because why are you trying to hard to categorize a dynamic that’s still largely unwritten and entire SWATHS#of ppl perceive something in#trying to throw us off the scent.#literally calls sydney his peace (yeah he’s right about that part) and then talks about their beautiful platonic relationship#K#the writers could absolutely decide against it and all this press refuting it would still be wholly unnecessary
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Something I’ve been meaning to touch on is the whole “KDJ didn’t break the cycle of abuse he’s terrible father” or “KDJ was the best dad y’all lack media literacy”.
Look, Kim Dokja is a human being. He was a 28 year old, lonely, borderline suicidal man who’s never loved another person other than his mother before the apocalypse started (which that itself was a complicated case). In the end, he is a reflection of his mother. Lee Sookyoung made the decisions she did, could she have made better ones? Could she have communicated with her son more? Of course but everyone understands why she made these choices.
I’m not comparing her situation to KDJ’s but more so how they handled them and its lasting effects. It all comes down to sacrificial love. KDJ loves his kids deeply, he feels as though he doesn’t deserve them. But having them see KDJ die or lose himself over and over has undeniably left them trauma. More trauma than the apocalypse itself. His love led to hurting them. I personally don’t think it means he’s a horrible father and I don’t think anyone at KimCom would see it that way either.
Kim Dokja dealt with love the only way he knew how. And everyone knows that love was the truest thing. Because lot of the time, people feel so alone that they cannot fathom that hurting themselves will cause pain to people who love them. Who cannot bear to be without them or seeing them self-destruct or suffer in silence.
I want more orv readers to understand that doesn’t make you horrible. That doesn’t make you selfless either. You’re lost and simply need help.
#let’s normalize seeing kdj as a flawed individual instead of two extremes#he definitely should’ve done better but these kids mean everything to him in the end#idk kdj tried in his dokja way#like I’ve said in my previous posts he’d only sacrifice his life if there was no other perceivable way out#he wasn’t giving up his happiness that easily#omniscient reader's viewpoint#orv#kim dokja#orv novel#sys#lee gilyoung#manhwa#fyppage#tags#lee sookyung#trauma#you cannot reduce this narrative to something so black and white#it’s kinda of a disservice imo#ppl always do that#simplifying complicated situations#KDJ had a lot going on
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DEAN grabs his jacket and keys and starts for the door. SAM Dean, where're you going? DEAN I'm going to go get a drink. Alone.
*in sam's mind* oh no, there he goes again, using alcohol to #cope with his feelings instead of tALkINg to mE
reality: dean just says that to get sam off his back and then....continues working the case
#sam's pov is unreliable (as is the pov of many chars. they are only seeing a limited perspective. we see more.)#his pov ends there but we as the audience see that dean isn't going out for a drink. he's working the case.#this is a very straightforward example but this happens over and over again throughout the show esp w/ regards to dean#sam perceives one thing. and then we are shown something else entirely.#but often ppl will just remember what sam perceived and forget abt what actually happened on screen#esp if sam continues to hammer home his version of events#vics spn rewatch#spn 2x04
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i truly do find it kinda silly when ppl dont grasp that u cannot act like the narcissistic and self-absorbed behavior thats present in lannisters contradicts deeply rooted and intense self-hatred or low self-esteem. like the former doesnt at all dispute the latter lol it showcases it more than anything honestly
#ppl do it with all three and it was esp present with cersei a lot#we are talking about tywin’s children here#like yeah they have an awful relationship with the self and fail to love themselves#intense obsession with how people perceive u is also a key example of how there is clearly something wrong with your relationship w the sel#like most of the time thats their own voice of loathing in there ingrained by not only their society but tywin’s rearing#like them overdosing on copium is not at all evidence of the contrary#ig its bc they are all pretty psychologically complex but i do believe all of this is hard to miss#i do think this is what grrm excels at#jaime lannister#cersei lannister#tyrion lannister#like writing a realistic character dealing with stuff like this is not gonna be them going just ‘i hate myself i suck so had’ on loop#i dont want to take this the pop psych direction however im not psychiatrist lol
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How I sleep knowing I'll never trust anyone that hates Sydney but worships Richie:
#the bear#the bear fx#sydney adamu#carmen berzatto#richie jerimovich#jk kind of#well on days I don't see or think about Sydney haters#under every damn comment section in this fandom is someone saying Sydney didn't take accountability#like I know we all have our biases but yall are really shameless about it#Sydney scored A LOT of Ws for The Beef AND The Bear#but one time she makes a mistake and justifiably walks away from a toxic work environment she's the devil#Richie worked at The Beef for years and Sydney did more for it in what less than four months than he did#on top of being a prick to Sydney in particular because she was changing things he wanted to keep the same#to the detriment of the restaurant but also everyone#and overall being unpleasant to Carmy#Nat and anyone that didn't find him funny or interesting or like his bs#pre-Forks Richie reminds me of those types of people that only listen to people that like them#and I love that because it's realistic to some ppl#I do like Richie#it just leaves a bitter taste in my mouth knowing there are people that hate Sydney#ignore her accomplishments only to raise up Richie#in the same breath when the actual show is showing you what's up#like you'd think there were different versions of the show with how these two are perceived#I get this weird need to defend Sydney when people shit on her because I wonder how often said people treat the Sydneys of the world#but that aside#In Fishes Richie mentions something about wasting potential at the beef#In Ceres it's implied he called the popo on the dealers after Sydney deescalated a situation Richie previously dealt with#in an unorthodox manner#he recognised he needed to change but still was an arsehole to the one person who was facilitating that change effectively Sydney#this show is great but people denying what they're seeing on their own screens is crazy
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purely fanon jason vent below so feel free to ignore
every other fic in the jason todd tag whether its romantic or platonic or whatever just has to include something about the no kill rule or him giving up killing like is it not enough ! have we not hashed out this argument enough already ! can I not read some jason content without having to be randomly bombarded by the morality police and how “oh jasons not killed anyone for x amount of months thats great! we knew u could do it jay”
and I wish I was just joking like I really do but I have scoured the tag almost from top to bottom and it always, without a doubt, has to come up at some point. its his fucking defining character trait apparently. mind u he’s not even the only dc character that kills but yall just won’t let it go! I do not need jason giving up his stance on killing to be written out for me to be able enjoy content about him
and whether its included so that his relationships with other characters can be viewed as ‘realistic’ is just so. what does it matter. its already fan-fiction who the hell cares about justifying the universe that you’re choosing to write him in
#jason todd#dc#red hood#dcu#pls do not interact if u have issues with jasons stance on vigilantism or whatever bc this is rlly not my point#idc whether u hate him for it or not to each their own#I just wish it wasn’t treated as some sort of stain on his character that needs to be addressed in every fic he appears in or else he —#cant be liked or something#like thats a topic that has to be addressed for my love of jason todd and his character and the love other charas have for him to be valid#its giving ‘jason u cannot be loved the way that u are’#and this reiterates the point I made in a previous post about how ppl genuinely dont know how to perceive this conflict and its resolution#the other way around#and how bc of that its always jason who has to be portrayed as making amends or taking a knee#there are so many interesting facets to jason todd so why does it always have to circle back to this one thing#why is it that hes one of the only charas ive seen where a certain plot point can never be looked past when enjoying him in fandom
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bylers when over 350k people don’t have the exact same thoughts and opinions as them
#byler#stranger things#byler tumblr#i know some of us have been singled out or humiliated by others on here insisting we’re delusional for our theories#and so you compensate by doubling down and telling everyone else their theories are actually headcanons and yours aren’t#or maybe you are someone on the other end who is fed up with bylers reaching and are sick of group think having a place here#some advice: just let the show be whatever YOU want it to be#if you think everything you analyzed is right and everyone else is wrong#congrats#you are as pathetic as the rest of the fans who think the exact opposite and also think they're right and you're wrong#we are one of over 350k ppl with differing opinions and thoughts and experiences guiding us to coming to the conclusions we do#i don't mind ppl giving different perspectives to things even if it goes against my analysis (just don't be an asshole about it)#i have changed my mind about certain aspects of the show bc of this and i have changed other peoples' minds as well#without all of us being able to say what we think we would not have near the evidence we do now#but what comes with over 350k people in one space also comes with some semblance majority that feels a certain way about certain things#it's never going to be perfectly even across the board#what is believed and what is agreed upon will always be shifting as different people say their peace and as the show itself progresses#and hell even if you're the 3% that feels a certain way about something and think the other 97% are setting themselves up for disappointmen#bask in your perceived glory WHEN that time comes#but in the mean time... me personally?#i think it would be quite embarrassing if i devoted my time on here to telling everyone else their theories are wrong and mine are right#only to end up being the one that was wrong#let ppl set themselves up for disappointment#save the celebration for when you actually secure that win#for now#id rather be on here discussing my theories/reading others' theories that aren't rooted in tearing everyone else's down to feel superior#all of this is to say it is never worth making ppl feel like shit over a fucking tv show… I’ll never get that#and this is coming from someone who has no (current) plans to say i told you so (not even to that redditor that has a 2 year timer)#bc until s5 comes out...#crazy together
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what’s all this then
#torchwood#mine#am i the only one who feels like theres some weird underlying love triangle thing going on here. subtextually#like ik jack x owen is controversial n im not necessarily commenting on it#i just feel like theres SOMETHING afoot here and i like.. can't figure out what???#like it's a weird facet of owen's characterization and i cant quite settle on what it means#or what to think of it#they literally repeatedly frame him next to janto . for what#or reacting interestingly to them#which as an aside ppl who think it's out of homophobia do not get his character at all#if anything i'd perceive it as envy which is what's so intriguing#bc what's the envy for. ha ha. ukno#that last one is truly nuts.. tosh watching owen watch jack and ianto. literally insane#like what do i do with that.#idk ugh. what do we make of this u guys#also out of context the end of days one is soo funny#owen sees gay ppl and hes like 😨#jk hes a gay people too#torchwood posting
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yall know women can also do misogyny, right? whether or not you say misogynistic shit, engage in misogynistic behavior, proliferate misogynistic policy and ideology, is not ACTUALLY dependent on YOUR gender, like, you know that, right? anyone is capable of enacting any bigotry, its just, some people may also be impacted by bigotry they perpetuate, some ppl may be more likely to know that they shouldnt engage in that shit, and be more likely to shut down that behavior where they have the power to do so? being a woman doesnt make you immune to perpetuating misogyny?
#toy txt post#saw another post about how trans men are men and therefore are more likely to be misogynistic#treating it like its something that comes inherent with whatever your gender is and not just some shit you learn from being raised in a#misogynistic society. anyone saying that trans men are inherently incapable of misogyny is wrong. but so is anyone saying they are#intrinsically destined to be misogynistic by virtue of existing as a trans men as some backwards ass gender validation#yall need to go back and reread your feminism basics until you understand this: anyone is capable of misogyny#ALSO. trans men dont have societal privilege for being men bc theyre not seen as men by society. they might experience CONDITIONAL#privilege if theyre like fully stealth and dont have to worry about any sort of healthcare thats associated with womanhood which is like#1)staggeringly few and 2)still conditional fucking privilege. youre doing stupid ass 2012 terminally online privilege math and you need to#stop. trans men are men. they are marginalized men not treated as men. they might in some very few spaces experience some amount of#privilege for being a man i guess but its so fucking rare and nil that its akin to saying that binary trans ppl have privilege for being#binary and concievably being able to pass and be perceived as their correct gender ever at all outside of like very specific queer friend#groups who know the details of your gender but if you start saying anything like that everyone gets pissed off#and quite frankly we do not have time for this level of stupid petty infighting when all of us are under attack rn you need to go back to#your feminism basics and stop drinking radfem kool aid uncritically. understand that radfeminism is not great besides the trans exclusion#please
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the thing about the whole "different states [of the usa] have totally different cultures that basically have nothing in common with each other and that's unique to the usa" is that it might genuinely feel that way to you! but to me it also feels like my local culture has close to nothing in common with the one predominant in bavaria. but someone who does not come from germany will probably still be able to point out big, glaring commonalities that exist and tie everything together, culture wise. sometimes you're just too inside something to notice the underlying structures of something and that's okay. but it doesn't mean that someone outside of then can't notice them and is objectively wrong when pointing out that they exist.
#spike spoke#the one problem i have with all that is the insistence that cultural differences in different parts of the country are unique to the us#bc we all have them!#this is abt stuff like. how ppl will perceive sth at staring here when that's sth that i never would have seen as that#and even less thought of it as something specific abt germany#doesn't mean it isn't tho
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Im never being a hater again im a reformed man!!! Im a being full of love only, shabby and foolish, but that's okay
#my therapist's positive affirmations that oh if someone else thinks youre stupid thats just their opinion it doesnt define u DONT HELP#bc its not other ppl. it's me thinking this and then being paranoid and projecting it onto others thinking about me#i dont know if the world is really as scary as i perceive it. as ive been told ive been really unlucky. but that wont change...?#unless i become smart enough that 1. everyone will like me and 2. i can have foresight to avoid ending up in unlucky situations#then it'll be fine#and then i'll be fixed#it's not that i hate myself. in a vacuum alone i love being by myself i love my inside jokes i love solitude#but it's when im talking to other ppl i get scared and self conscious#i need to become good at something. at what i love ideally#otherwise whats the point. it's embarassing#i know i made a similar post talking about how im scared to post thoughts on media anymore bc im so self aware of how i lack#eloquence and i feel like no matter how much i love something im like that ogre comic panel. im just too stupid
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'i want my fav to be happy' might be one of the leading causes in mischaracterisation. much to think about
#something something the desire for a character to be happy often leads people to divorce them from the context of the narrative#in order to push them into what the perceive as an acceptable position rather than one that actually fits them#thus leading people to write/headcanon/or straight up SEE that character in a way that facilitated the change they want#which often means ignoring how they actually work#(also ppl end up ignoring what actually makes them happy bc for whatever reason it isnt an 'acceptable happiness')#anyway. something i have been salty abt for a while
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oh god having a complainy tumblr post blow up is so stressful
#so far it’s mostly fellow ace ppl expressing that they feel similarly#which I appreciate#no one actively aphobic has found it yet but I admit I’m kind of bracing for it#altho it might still stop at a couple hundred notes and never escape Aspec Tumblr#even if no one is a jerk about it it’s still stressful to be Perceived#and especially to be Perceived for complaining about / objecting to something#which. was the whole point. I kind of wanted that post to spread. I was expressing a feeling that I wished more ppl were aware of#but why is actually having that happen so nerve-wracking#stars rambles
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yeah sure that's how i'll [re]come out
#zymart#zymtalk#rant in the tags ->#okay listen to me this is really important and also i have a witness. this was not intentionally supposed to be posted on june 1st#the stars just aligned for this to be at its funniest. which means its also easier for me to dismiss LOL#i drew this like a week ago after trying to draw a whole like. 5 page comic about it and then stopping it mid-board#bc it was horrifying imagining being perceived that much. so i needed to make it into a joke instead and this was the funniest route#and then i was like 'UGH. UGH!!!! i can not be 20 and deal with this like im 13. if i dont post it by the end of the week#then [the witness to all my rants on this topic. shoutout to twig bc they got the most of it] can joke abt it as if i did anyway'#and now its the end of the week and i looked at the date and went 'oh my god didnt may just start what happened'#'WAIT ITS JUNE FIRST. GOD. THATS TOO FUNNY TO NOT SAY SOMETHING' and who am i if i dont prioritize the bit honestly#in all honesty. kinda hate it! not bc of internalized homophobia but actually bc of internalized arophobia that has somehow been emphasized#after having my brain shift from '1000% aromantic without a doubt no exceptions' to 'just arospec ig lol??'#but tragically as it turns out. you can not just try and self analyze yourself into speedrunning closure.#horrible news for the oscar zymstarz community frankly#SO i needed a way 2 justify shoving this off my plate and into the trash as fast as possible.#im impatient and cant acknowledge my own emotions. its a flaw im working on it#oh and for all the ppl who know the running gag abt 'my allegations' [i do not have any real allegations for anyone not in jems server]:#that was in fact just a running gag for like well over a year and a half. like that was just a long running bit COMPLETELY unrelated to thi#i only started having this weird sexuality shift or whatever not too long ago lol. like long enough to go through 4 of the 5 stages of grie#[evidently bc like. im posting this. i got close enough to 5 to throw in the towel ykwim]#but on 'oscar zymstarz emotional acknowledgement' time that is....... not long.#but yeah ig tldr like. still ace [thank god] just arospec [probably demiro? i hate trying to figure out my own labels] instead of Aro now#idk none of this is that deep but also like it kinda is unfortunately bc i have to actually talk abt it to be able to ignore it ykwim#but i did! we're done talking abt it now! and now i can act like i dont care and try to make jokes about it to speedrun the rest of it#anyway. Happy Pride everyone. Fukign kitty.#side message to jem. by no means does this mean im not still gonna bully you. its a sign of love but also it is you specific bullying 🫶#you are not safe#edit: this is karma for saying 'thank god'. might be demiace too. this is the worst month of my life /j
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the internet is so unserious. just saw ppl saying they want the new fop show to get a new season bc now the "normies" and "non-fans" are discovering it and the fandom is growing.
normies.
it's a children's cartoon on one of the most popular animated networks. not some obscure niche interest that only appeals to a small number of people lmao
#✏️ - ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴏsᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏsᴛ // (ooc)#// the internet will REALLY start seeing a word or term pass around#// and start using it#// just how ppl used the term 'pearl clutchers' and then started#// started using it a response to critics / haters#// even tho to pearl clutch is supposed to be reacting to something perceived as 'immoral' (when it's not in reality)#// anyway MOST of the fuckin fairly odd parents fans are “normies” by default lmao#// heck - even ppl just misusing nepotism ... the to the point where they were calling RANDOM fictional characters nepobabies#// many other examples too lmao
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I'll take "posts that aren't about SQX but also are completely about them too" for 500
#▌ ◈ SHI QINGXUAN ; ⌜ study ⌟#as i've said previously: LEECH RATE 1000000% CRITICAL DAMAGE.#not to be a tag essayist again but i think a lot about their attachment style/love languages#throws their whole self into it. doesn't care how/if it's reciprocated. it's pure and unfiltered but also obnoxious and overbearing#moss on a rock is a very apt descriptor i thingk....#fascinating to me how interpretations of how she shows affection tend to veer in very different directions#either “childlike and wholly uncomplicated” (WRONG!) or “self-serving and patronizing” (WRONG!)#it's... well not both actually; not in their entireties#childlike in the way they don't hide anything; they don't dress it up or down if they like you they like you if they love you they love you#self-centered in that they do have high opinions of theirself & therefore their personal standards#though i must stress it's not a case self-centeredly choosing ppl who only flatter them/boost their perceived value/can't say no#self-centered in that 'i would never settle for less' = (in their mind) 'nobody i'm friends with is anything less'#breaking news: lain is once again agonizing over how all of sqx's most redeeming virtues are also her most damning flaws#something something. girl who was made to be in love but not built to withstand the trials of love without breaking a little. hrm. um.#moss on rock. moss on rock.....#needs the rock there to persist. she needs that damn rock
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