#nightly chats

[forever-deep-below-creation]

sometimes the pipeline of little girl to trans gay guy isnt as deep as parents make it out to be. “oh but you wore a fairy dress all the time back then!” yeah and im a fairy now what of it

[xxplastic-cubexx]

eternally grateful that no matter the verse within cherik either one of them will always have long lushish hair the other can lovingly comb through

[finniestoncrane]

listen it’s shit for her but i do find it very handy that when i wake up at 2am and get the social zoomies, my mum and her insomnia are awake and waiting to hear my utter shite talk until i go back to sleep 15 minutes later u-u

[vessel-token]

hear me out, but i think a collab between sleep token and starset would absolutely fuckin SLAP

they have similar lyric styles (in my opinion), both of them are almost poetic in nature, and they both have that lovely touch of devotion, longing, self-loathing, and anger throughout their songs

i dunno, just a totally random thought i had but i think it would be such a cool idea!! plus, both sleep token and starset deserve so much more attention 😭

[blackmosscupcakes]

Playing BG3 with my husband tonight.

Me: Let me go over to this one corner of this one room in Last Light so I can show you my favourite tapestry.

Him: ... Favourite....... tapestry?

Me: I'm really starting to see why my first playthrough was double the length of yours.

[miraculosus]

Nightly Nino 71

[maximumsunshine]

Found this on Facebook. And look. I'm not judging. I fully believe i WAS a cat in my last 8 lives. I have no room to judge. Would Mozart probably have thrived as a furry? Yeah. I'm not judging that either. I don't personally get it, but I don't have to. It's whatever does not effect me in the slightest.

My only issue with this meme is that when I'm scrolling tumblr I'm already braced for these sorts of new facts. Facebook is home of cursed old lady memes i inflict on my friends in the group chat at 1am while they are sleeping, assuring they wake up to my cursed offerings come dawn. This is not a Facebook meme. This is a tumblr meme.

So here. I've collected it and restored it to its native habitat.

[cocolacola]

a quick comic. integra should probably sleep. (more below the cut)

[inevitably-johnlocked]

Random - I was so inspired by you that I thought about making a blog about my fics recs but I don't even know where to begin. It's too overwhelming!! How do you even do it 😭😭

Hey Nonny!

Ooof, don't have a life is my suggestion LOL 🙃

Seriously though, I'm honoured that I have inspired you and I hope that you find the time to create your own fic rec blog!! The secret for me, anyway, is that I generally don't really have a life outside of work, so I spend a lot of time on my blog, AND I also have a compulsive disorder that actually benefits in the sense that I have an obsessive need to file and organize things, and in turn it benefits you guys, LOL.

I've written several posts in the past that you can reference back to:

I want to start a fic rec blog, but I’m insecure about it

I want to start a fic rec blog in another fandom, any advice?? (Long post with links to my other informative posts... Essentially a masterpost and the best one to read)

I also want to start a fic rec blog, any advice?

How do you go about collecting your fics?

How do you keep track of and organize fics

Have you thought of keeping an excel sheet

I want to make fic recs, may I use your formatting for mine?

How Do I Go About Collecting Fics for Fic Recs

Those hopefully will answer all your questions :)

But yeah, some starter tips:

Come up with a method right away on how you're going to file fics. Mine took 4 years, and I STILL am revising it. By this I mean, are you going to rec only fics you've read, or stuff you find? Will you be an interactive blog (which again eats up time). Have a system in place. Mine did well initially because I usually ONLY rec fics I've read. Now people like it here because they feel like they're a PART of the blog, because I add their recs to my posts, and will rec fics suggested to me. It's how I've lasted a long time here.

That's another thing, allow yourself to evolve with "what needs to be filled". There was a gap in the fandom for recs, I just started doing it and then suddenly I became THE rec blog. It just HAPPENED. I never intended on it, but I enjoy it.

Don't let fic recs comsume all your free time. Running this blog is a LOT of work, and most of my evenings AFTER my full-time job, and weekends were consumed with blogging. I struggle a lot with my mental health because I constantly feel like I have to have something always for y'all. Nowadays I let myself have most of my weekends to myself, and I'm doing a bit better because of it.

People will criticize you for what you rec. It will bother the shit out of you, but also understand that they don't KNOW how much work running a fic-rec blog is. Just... let it roll over you and continue with what you like.

Take breaks. I'm overdue for a Blog Break™.

Add fics to lists AS you're recced them. It saves a lot of time.

Have a tagging system. It's ALSO saved me a LOT of time.

Do your lists offline, and copy-paste into Tumblr after. I make each rec post on a Tumblr draft, copy-paste it into notes, and make my list from there. That way the formatting is consistent throughout.

And finally, DON'T let yourself get overwhelmed!!! That's when it feels like more of a chore than a fun-time. Seriously, just take a break and go back to it.

I hope all these tips help, Nonny! And when you do start your blog, let me know, and I'll rec it for you! 💜🖤

Have a great day Nonny!! 💜🖤

[blossoms-phan]

I need to print out or pin that post somewhere about taking breaks from dnp to just like focus on your own life bc they’ll always be there I’ve been an avid viewer since 2014 only taking a small break sometime in between the hiatus but obviously like everyone else my online phannieism has come back full force since the comeback i only started using tumblr again around december but I would use another blog just to lurk and like posts I made this blog less than 2 months ago which is insane to me I feel like I’ve lived a thousand lives since then and it’s been so much fun being able to interact with other phannies and share my thoughts in a way that I haven’t interacted with the phandom since like 2015 but it has also rapidly increased my brainrot i already spent most of my free time just rewatching old videos and edits but I’ve noticed since like gamingmas my mind is constantly occupied with dnp and posting and whether my ask got answered and like I’m unemployed lmao so it’s all fun and games to a certain point but I’m also a student and I genuinely think me being weak and flawed in the brain and getting easily distracted has derailed me in my last semester of uni which is kind of not good I’m like oh lol it’s so funny and relatable I just love dnp!!! but there’s also phannies in med school and other stuff which is great and I genuinely feel like I’m holding myself back personally and professionally with how much time I spend thinking about them again I don’t think it’s a bad thing I just need to train myself into being More Normal and maybe blocking off times for blogging and watching and actually focusing on my life y’know

[official-firefox-nightly]

@everyone

This is a VERY important notice all United States Residents who use this platform. READ THIS.

In light of the recent data breaches Discord has taken the wonderfully stupid step of removing your rights to a jury trial against Discord

This means that if you do not opt out of this Arbitration Clause by the end of April 30th in your timezone, you cannot bring a jury trial against Discord Incorporated, nor can you participate in a Class Action Lawsuit against Discord if you need to. You are agreeing to waive your right to a Jury Trial.

How do I opt out?

There is an important step you can take right now, however, to make it clear that you’re not waiving your right to a jury trial. According to the TOS, you may opt out of this forced arbitration clause by “emailing an opt-out notice to arbitration-opt-out@discord.com within 30 days of April 15, 2024 or when you first register your Discord account, whichever is later.”

Here is an template for you to follow;

I DO NOT AGREE TO THE AGREEMENT TO ARBITRATE FOR THE ACCOUNT(S) LISTED/DESCRIBED BELOW:

<discord name>, and in the event I should change my username or discriminator, <ID>

Why is this so important?

With the recent databreaches that Discord has suffered, it is out of the question that your personal data is being leaked. For Nitro users this is incredibly important due to the fact that Discord has your Credit / Debit card information saved, meaning that if you suffer financial loss due to Discord negligence in Data Security, and someone opens a Class Action against Discord, You cannot participate to recover your damages.

(this message was originally written by jacksonleona on discord im just stealing it/formatting it for Tumblr cuz its well written)

[chococookiez]

kinda delirious n i wanna spill my guts.

he looks and sounds so pretty in this clip it's not fair how did i even get here. i don't like irl men Except for vic who let him do this to my brain im so mad. i thought i was done with celebrity shenanigans after i got out of my bts phase why didn't anyone tell me it was gonna come right back around like this what is wrong with meee im gonna explode . fuck it this is the nightly ptv post what day is it 161 left until i see them live? (coherent edit like 2 hours later: it's 125 DAYS LEFT YOU DUMBASS) it's like almost 6pm which is a bit early but whatever idc rn

[xxplastic-cubexx]

so like do you think they made the plastic wheelchair ALONGSIDE the plastic prison as a Just In Case situation, only after they realized charles was going to be a frequent visitor, or both as in because they knew charles was going to be the only person visiting him during planning they decided to make him a chair ahead of time

[cherry-shipping]

buckle up everyone skenp is about to have a daydreaming session like a fucking idiot again

[magnusbae]

hi! dropping in to tell you that I love your thoughts, how you write and describe dream and what you share with us. I want to talk to you about dreamling very bad. okthankyouthat’sallbyeee (lil’ goth heart for you 🖤)

This is the kindest thing I've heard all week 🥺💖

I appreciate you taking the time to message me and letting me know of such warm and lovely thoughts 😭💕

I find it most endearing when someone says they like one's mind/thoughts, I think it's one of the kindest things there is to say.👉🏻👈🏻

Always feel free to send me Dreamling asks heyyyyy it sometimes takes me time to respond bc of, well you know, life, but I LOVE interacting 💛🌻🐇

[gh0st-city]

Sometimes I succeed at a social interaction so well that I think to myself "Why did I ever feel anxious or insecure talking to new people? It's so easy actually!"

But then there's other times where I am suddenly reminded that socializing is a fucking mine field and there's no telling which step will set off an explosion