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Okay, so my younger sister has anxiety and therefore a psychiatric Service Dog. He is certified and trained, and has had experience going to restaurants. However, he is young, so while he follows rules, doesn’t chase others, and doesn’t make noise/disturb, he tends to sit by us instead of laying at our feet (just his comfort level).
We are currently on vacation in Northern Wisconsin, and visited a restaurant called Maiden Lakes Supper Club. While there, once we were seated and had ordered, I noticed a balding man side-eyeing us. He soon came over while our dog was sitting behind us, by the wall. He immediately told us that he had never seen a service dog “that didn’t just lay down at the owner’s feet and didn’t eat”. He was extremely critical and as soon as we said that he was staying by us and was still in training, he stormed off without giving us his name. We were incredibly upset - our dog was obedient, quiet, and stayed underneath our table, even when the waitresses came by.
We spoke with him afterwards, and he stated that as the owner, he was simply trying to protect the place. From the incorrigible beast of murder and mayhem known as the “service dog”. Now from what we’ve heard he was the manager, not the owner, but regardless we were furious with his behavior. If you or someone you know has a service dog and lives near Wisconsin or is planning on visiting, please turn them away from Maiden Lakes Supper Club! However, all of the food and other waitstaff were wonderful.
I am going to go love our dog severely while seething in my chair. Hope you all have better experiences with your service animals! Also, PLEASE don’t put fake service dog vests on your animal. It’s incredibly illegal and hurts the treatment and reputation of trained service dogs. Thank you for respecting our animals!
(Edited for grammar)
#service dog#service dogs#service animal#psa#I’m so furious#How can someone be so rude#towards an animal?#he wasn’t even polite about it#just critical before storming off#oh great job#my sister has anxiety#and you just made it worse#this is why we have a service dog#you absolute fucking moron#you eggshell#I hope all of your socks have a long hair in them#I hope all of your bread is end pieces#I hope you’re always a little late to your airplane terminal#I hope you sunburn your shoulders#I hope all of your pale shirts get grease stains#I hope your shower is always a little too hot or too cold#I hope your water tastes slightly plasticky#I hope one leg of your chair is just slightly shorter than all the others#I hope you always get a small pebble stuck in your shoe#I hope there’s an invisible splinter in your sock and you can’t find it#I hope your palms itch#I hope you get a mosquito bite on your ass directly before a meeting#I hope that your sleeves are damp#i hope that when you cut a lemon you fine a cut on your hand#I hope that you always have a hangnail
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I posted this on twitter at the beginning of the show haha joke on me.
#star wars#star wars the bad batch#THE END WAS HHHHH#me now:#HAAAAAA#I WANT TO FANART THIS SHOW FOR THE NEXT FOUR MONTHS COMING#People who don't follow me from my other blogs aren't really gonna get this but I'm referencing a niche 80s BL here#anyway#I've got fanarts to do I said#because it's been a week I haven't posted anything I'm getting anxieTY#delete later#also no I don't look like this at all#rip my friend tho#who has to endure me calling every character babygirl#and the character is Grievous/Crosshair#and squeaking at the night sisters#yeah definitely delete later this
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A scene I have planned for the hazbins fallen au, for odette/clara/vaggie, family bonding horray!
Vaggie who wants to take a nap: ookay- oh my god- what the actual fuck??
Clara and odette chilling on the couch: hi!!/hello
Vaggie: what the fu- how the fuck did you two get into my house- WHY are you in my house!? How did you even get past the hotel lobby!? How did you get past the ward?!
Emily: yeahhhh uh.....listen- I- I love you.....but....I'm a bit worried about you? Also if they try to harm you the ward will throw them out the window so....
Vaggie: Em- im perfectly fine!! I don't want to talk to people!
Emily: I know!! Which is why I brought them! You 3 seemed to have a good time at the carnival bonding-
All 3 in denial: we were not bonding
Emily:.....yeah, sureeee you weren't. You 3 bickering liek siblings and making stupid bets totally wasn't bonding
All 3 look away
Emily:.....anyways, Charlie's at that meeting, Husk is gonna show me how to bake a pie, Angle is at work, Nifty is somewhere in the vents-
Manic muffled laughter
Emily:....pentious took the children to the park, keekee is doing cat things, and Baxter is in the basement, I didn't want you to be alone because I know your anxiety is up with this meeting and stuff-
Vaggie: okay okay I get it!
Emily: good. Have fun then! Bye!
Vaggie:.....
Odette:.....
Clara:.....
Vaggie:.....I'm going to go take a nap
She gets woken up by...something I'm not sure yet I havnt planned that far lol
#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel au#hazbins fallen au#hazbin hotel vaggie#hazbin hotel emily#hazbin hotel charlie#mentioned tho#the meeting is with adam....i should really post the episode list soon#chaggie#chaggily#chaggiem#vaggily#specifically about those 2#hazbin hotel husk#mentioned#hazbin hotel odette#hazbin hotel clara#carmine sisters#found family#emily and charlie worry for vaggie somtimes. especially since she isn't as social as them#Vaggie has anxiety and ptad and maybe a little depression because i say so....and shes autistic because of course she is#look at my girl!! my neurodivergent moth girl!!
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started watching heartstopper and i've been super careful because of the whole eating disorder. turns out that isn’t even the issue anymore. what absolutely blindsided me was the scene where their mum sends tori to get charlie before dinner. tori being so worried, tori noticing that there’s something wrong when their parents joke about the lack of seasoning. siblings being there for siblings because their parents suck at actual parenting or even worsen a situation at times...... seems like years of therapy can help you manage disorders but what's even harder to overcome is the feeling of absolute despair, being completely alone in the world with no one to turn to or even to trust
#heartstopper#sorry this is depressing i know#ep2 just hit me in the face and i wasn't prepared for this#my oldest sister has borderline#my older brother was addicted#then there's me with eds since i was 12 and anxiety and depression since i was 15 but diagnosed only in my 20s#and then my little sister who's trying..... i know she is but she's just as broken but won’t let anyone near her#my dad working 60 hours a week completely overworked narcissistic hothead leaning towards alcoholism#and my mum suffering years of generational trauma - a super nervous anxious perfectionist with an eating disorder herself#both parents reqlly hard working but no access to education and any progressive ideas such as how to properly treat your children's issues#mental health#what's that#talking to therapists???#nope that's for actually sick people#damn.......#i can't believe this triggered so much#charlie spring#tori spring#spoilers
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the icarly writers really missed out by forgetting they made spencer an artist because in reality he would be a part of the greater seattle polycule and that's already a good set up for spencer-related hijinks
#💭#icarly#spencer shay#from most to least normal about it i think it would go - his bff gibby - carly - sam - freddie - and then freddie's mom#i originally had sam before carly but realized she would actually be really annoying about it by asking him whatever question came to her#and carly is like . his sister and loves and cares for him and even if she thinks hes weird she doesnt give a shit#anyway no one asked for my icarly polyamory analysis but here u go 👍🏻#edit: sorry my bestie reminded me carly has anxiety akin to a doomsday prepper switch carly and sam back to where they were#frankly perhaps put her under freddie
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once again, antis on OWOT calling me a pedo for. sitting next to my sister in pony game. (currently protected bc insane ppl linked my site in global chat, so the assholes in global chat are ALSO spamming me)
anyway here we are! aren't our ponies cute? she's on the left, i'm on the right
#genuine question. am i doing something wrong.#it is once again becoming very unclear if me simply sitting next to my sister as leyley is like an inherently bad thing.#would like to add AGAIN that we're not roleplaying as them. we're just siting next to each other. so. can someone just reassure me?#my anxiety is acting up and i'm worried i genuinely am a groomer somehow.#which i don't think is how that works - i think that sorta thing HAS to be intentional. right?#proship#pro ship#proshippers please interact#proship please interact#the coffin of andy and leyley#tcoaal#🏁🎸
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Watching MLP:FiM as an adult is basically realizing that the show is just about a group of twenty-somethings figuring their shit out and finding their place in the world while getting into interpersonal conflicts that would do NUMBERS on r/AmITheAsshole
#aita for calling my future sister in law evil and being right?#they also basically moonlight as cabinet members of the national government but shhhhh#like one has severe anxiety issues#one has boy troubles#one is an orphan#and one is basically a single mother tutored by god#mlp#mlpfim#mlp fim#mlp: fim#my little pony#my little pony friendship is magic
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I’m going to the Phour with my phmother and as excited as I am I’m also fearful for how gay it’s going to get and how she’ll perceive me when we leave that theater 😭.
Is anyone else going with someone whose not homophobic but who may be surprised at the content?? If so do you guys have any tips to stop that anxiety??
(I’ve struggled with similar issues like Dan when it comes to my queerness and this show is something that means so much to me but my worries are overpowering this :( )
#Im so excited for the queerness of this show and I don’t want to be ruined by anxiety#my mother is super excited too but she has no clue who they are#she also mentioned before we got tickets how she doesn’t like when people dress up as nuns#well shoot!!!#she’ll never know my love for sister Daniel it’s okay#dan and phil#phil lester#yes she’s the only person I can go with because of the city we’ll be in#terrible influence tour#dan howell#the tit tour#izzy yaps
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had a conversation with my mother yesterday in which she was very clearly looking for reasons to be convinced I'm going to lose my job any minute (taking vacation time, spending too much time on performing arts, enrollment being down because of FAFSA issues, just being generally unsightly) and it really makes me feel like confirming her priors about education and Liberal Hypocrisy and nobody wanting to look at fat people is more important to her than my continued success and happiness in life
#sigh#she has spent my whole life telling me that everyone is out to take advantage of me#and that no one would ever want me around just for my own sake#except of course my immediate family#who generally do precisely nothing to make me feel that they don't find me gross and embarrassing and generally incompetent#(there's always a lot of 'well *i* don't think you're gross and useless and unbearable to be around but i know what other people think!'#anyway i am in a bad mood this morning exacerbated by the sidewalk between the parking garage and my workplace being blocked off for repair#ALSO LIKE#she has exactly the same kind of generalized anxiety i have#albeit expressed very differently#and also: everyone around her enables it#if she is worried about something?#it is EVERYONE'S PROBLEM#and because i struggled a lot in my twenties and thirties#this usually means i am everyone's problem#also she gets really offended when her adult children want to get away from the household and lead independent lives#which is why my sisters are her faves
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Super Mario Bros Movie Headcannons
When Luigi was young, and learned about how the sun was destined to explode and destroy their universe one day, he would stay up at night crying, and worrying about it
Mario would read him the same statistics about how the sun wasn’t due to explode until they were both long gone, over and over again whenever this happened, to help him calm down
Mario has a tendency to over-worry about Luigi, because he knows that his brother has an almost detrimental anxiety disorder, but also hand no idea how to help him
Luigi has a tendency to over-worry about Mario’s over-worrying
Mario talks with his hands- he waves and flaps them around while he’s talking
Luigi also talks with his hands, but only really when he’s excited, or talking with Mario
Peach doesn’t talk with her hands- in fact no one in the Mushroom Kingdom does. The first time she saw Mario and Luigi talking to each other while waving their hands around, she thought they were going to fight
Whenever Bowser sees Mario and Peach flirting, he makes sure to make some sort of fuss about it. Every. Single. Time.
Luigi pretends to throw-up whenever he sees Mario and Peach flirting
Bowser appreciates this, and thinks they have some type of commorodority in hating their relationship
They don’t.
Peach loves to bake, but she’s horrible at the decorating part. She can never get the frosting through the pipping bad without a mess, and fondant is never smooth. The treats themselves are delicious
She’s too stubborn to ask for help, so her and her treats just suffer in silence
Luigi, the Penguin King, and the rest of the prisoners keep in touch after they escape, and sometimes they’ll all meet up to play cards
Luma is not invited.
#Super Mario#super mario bros#super mario movie#super mario movie spoilers#luigi#mario#princess peach#bowser#luma#*slaps peach and luigi* these bad boys can fit so much projection#no but when i was a kid i used to be TERRIFIED of the sun exploding#unfortuneatly for me my sister also has anxiety#so she was also scared of the sun exploding#we would make each other more anxious by accident and our mom would have to seperate us#also i looked it up#the penguin king doesnt have a name???#this is unacceptable#especially since i want him to play a major role in my 'luigi sparks a revoultion fic'#ill just name his larry#his name is larry#also pls be kind of any spelling errors- i am dyslexic and doing my best#izzy haz ideaz
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I think we as a society need to watch more Monk in 2024.
#monk#snacktalk#imagine a man so riddled with anxiety due to trauma that he develops severe OCD#his life is upended but he remains a damn good detective and warm and openhearted#tony shaloub#monk's actor has said it's not all that hard for him to identify with OCD#and there's a new movie with so much monk fanservice#the movie's ending made me and my sister cryy#it's the kind of movie to see where you realize how much time has passed for all of us#and how even through the worst times you've remembered how to be happy whenever you watch monk overcome his struggles#with living in SF
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I am so tired of being paranoid.
I just wish I could go to sleep without worrying about anyone doing anything to me
#my mom LOVES having her male friends stay the night and every single time I am too paranoid to sleep#i don't trust any of them#my mom has had a male friend over every night this week so far I am so tired#and then they touch my favourite cup and toothpaste and it triggers my ocd#i should go to my sisters house soon#vent#vent post#i am not doing okay rn#mental health#paranoia#i keep thinking that i shouldn't use the term paranoia bc “its just anxiety” but I am literally losing sleep over this#i refuse to sleep around men#tw sa implied?#i guess
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everything sucks so bad i'm afraid
#i feel like everyone is leaving me but i can't do anything about it because finals are around the corner😭#like. a master's degree ended up being WAY more demanding than i thought i feel so stupid#i got through all my readings just fine but the linguistics portion of the curriculum is so intense and technical#and honestly it's SO interesting. i really do enjoy it. but the fact that i have to take a final for it is stressing me out#because the material is so rigorous and i'm afraid i won't be able to give it the time it deserves#meanwhile all my friends are drifting apart and my fuckarse sister has decided to go no contact with me/us so i'm lichrally just.#by myself all the time. working and studying#please god bring decemeber quickly and give me the strength to pass everything with flying colors so i dont feel bad about all the people#i lost on the way💀#don't even get me started on my work-related anxieties#how does anyone get by in this world i'm so tired i'm SO. TIRED. AND NERVOUS😭
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What's your all-time favorite Bob's Burgers episode? Like this is YOUR episode? (You can list multiple if you want!)
Oooh my all time all time favorite is Carpe Museum! Its the first episode featuring regular sized rudy who's one of my favorite characters now and i love how that friendship with louise started and its such a sweet bob and louise episode as well.
Its also the first time the show explores the dynamic between gene and zeke which of course gave birth to my life long love affair with genezeke, their personalities mesh so well and the silly nicknames/pet names on zekes part??? I live for that.
Its my sisters favorite episode too and bc the belchers are eerily similar to my own family its always been something my family watches and enjoys and loves together so it makes me happy that me and my sister have the same favorite episode and that fact only makes me love the episode even more.
Plus cute boblin and isn't that the first henry haber episode too? Lots of good stuff.
Close seconds include in no particular order of importance:
Gene it on (cheerleader gene lives rent free in my heart i like to think he still does it just off screen)
The runway club (breakfast club episode? The little bits of school staff lore? Especially mr branca? The cotton candy festival which i desperately want an episode about? Iconic)
Poops! I didn't do it again (when i say the belchers are eerily similar to my family this is one episode id point too and i will not elaborate)
Work hard or die trying girl (im a theater kid at heart)
#asks#bobs burgers#listen my dad is a grumpy cook who lobes old movies but doesn't know that much about them and has a dead mom#and a bad relationship with his own dad and the same sense of humor as his youngest daughter#my mom is a loud dramatic italian woman who sings everything and is overly positive sometimes to combat my dads pessimism and anxiety#my older sister has strong morals and has always been a huge book worm wrote a lot of fanfic in her highschool and college years#and has always been much more romantically motivated and 'boy crazy' than me#we don't have a middle brother#but my sister jokes that i have too many interests and too much personality so Loren bouchard was forced to split me into 2 characters#and im very similar to both gene and louise in a litany of ways#blah blah i guess i did elaborate i just think its funny i can't believe he based that show on us fr fr#those are just the sweeping generalizations i could get SPECIFIC with my examples
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If Jane Austen could write about my family from the outside and I could read it then maybe I would be healed.
#moving out has helped! but is there is not a new social life/core for me yet#maybe ever? idk#but within the actual family unit there is ….. so much going on#so much suffering. so much change. unbelievable levels of stress and anxiety and depression#like I really cannot emphasize enOUGH how much#and my parents are essentially full time caregivers#and I both want to help and be a stabilizing factor and I also want to be honest about how much of a toll it takes on me#because i think it’s A Lot#but also I don’t like modern rhetoric on any of these difficult topics and I reject it even though I use a lot of the language#hence why I need Jane Austen to do it for me#to bring this full circle#anyways if you could say a prayer for us. for my parents especially but also my sister#well all the sisters and my brothers!#anyway reflecting angsting etc.#tbh I would love to know the medium of the average family’s unhappiness and stress#Because I think ours is off the charts#But idk. Would love to know more tbh#I would love to know if a lot of it just the human condition! But sometimes I’m just like this is not normal lol#thanks for listening
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starting to think maybe waking up with an anxiety stomachache every single morning and then needing to spend the entire day trying to get rid of said anxiety just to maybe have a few minutes in the evening of feeling relaxed before going to bed is perhaps not normal
#the first thing i do when i become conscious is check my phone to make sure nothing terrible happened to anyone i love while i slept#i never ever ever have plans and if anyone Else has plans i feel sick with anxiety until they’re back from them#if i have smth planned that week i feel completely tense and on edge until it happens#i didn’t used to be like this i hate hate hate it#i used to feel safe in my little house in the forest where i knew everyone in town and knew my way around with my eyes shut#it’s still the only place in the world i feel safe. that’s so unfair#my separation anxiety is ridiculous. if my mom goes to the store and doesn’t answer a text right away i start panicking#if my sister goes to a class or smth idk what to do with myself until she gets back#if i’m in the shower or have the fan on or headphones in suddenly i’ll think i hear someone shouting and i’ll have to quickly turn it off#ever since i moved here it’s been getting worse. i don’t feel safe here to begin with i feel so out of place it’s unreal#but then covid and trauma with my mother’s health and my uncle dying and multiple relatives getting sick and things happening to my friends#i know i have ptsd from very specific things that happened and i live on a hospital path so every day i hear sirens#and every time i do it fully triggers an anxiety attack in me for at least an hour. and my mom too#since being here my hometown burned and friends i thought would never grow apart did and my brother moved out#i know a lot of that is just Being In Your Low Twenties but also some of my worst trauma has happened in the last handful of years and now#now i’m just always scared. always uneasy. always worried. never fully relaxed. never feel fully safe. & idk how to be myself through that#i’m always paranoid and i never trust people irl anymore. ppl my mom or sister meet. i am so suspicious of them constantly.#if anything small changes at all i can’t handle it. my ability to deal with change has gone so downhill#in the last 5 years of being here i realised i was autistic which led to me unmasking a bit and that. comes with pros & cons doesn’t it#my own health has declined. my body changed a lot in ways i wasn’t prepared for and i had to get rid of most of my comfort clothes#sometimes i just wanna sit on the ground and cry about it and not have to also be the one that picks myself back up. y’know???#but at the very least i’d love to just wake up One Day w/o feeling sick with anxiety already. just one day i want to wake up feeling rested#i want to be myself again but can i start with not being scared? not being tired? i don’t know what to do anymore#i just watch my comfort videos and read my comfort fics and stay in my daydream world
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