#mspec omni

[scr-ppup]

Personal omnisexual/-romantic flag redesign.

[ID: Two identically designed rectangular flags of 5 even horizontal stripes, the colors go from top to bottom as teal, light blue, off white, warm lilac, and reddish purple. In the first flag there is a symbol consisting of a moon crescent with three heart-shaped different size leaves overlaid on it (the first leaf is bigger than the two others and conceals the two leaves beneath it almost completely, only leaving the tips to poke out on either side of it.) With a lily flower overlaid on top of the crescent and leaves. It's all in the colors of the flag; dark teal, light blue, off white, warm lilac, and reddish purple. The crescent is a gradient color of dark purple to off white through warm lilac and the second flag is blank./end ID]

So, the colors of the og flag looked good but we're a bit off to me due to how dark they were making the flag look a little eyestrainy if I do say so personally.

Color meaning stayed quite the same; The teals for masculine gender & presentation, off-white for those outside of binaries regarding gender and presentation, and reddish purple & warm violet for feminine gender & presentations. I did realize that I flipped the blues and pinks like much after I made the flag and compared it, but I don't mind that lol. Looks better imo.

[ID: symbol consisting of a moon crescent with three heart-shaped different size leaves overlaid on it (the first leaf is bigger than the two others and conceals the two leaves beneath it almost completely, only leaving the tips to poke out on either side of it.) With a lily flower overlaid on top of the crescent and leaves. It's all in the colors of the flag; dark teal, light blue, off white, warm lilac, and reddish purple. The crescent is a gradient color of dark purple to off white through warm lilac./end ID]

So heres my flag + the symbol I whipped up for it; it consist of the general crescent that is seen with the mspec mono labels & the bisexual symbols, but it also utilitizes a lily for flower symbolism (as I found out that one of the many symbols of bisexuality was at some point a trillium flower, which belongs in the order of liliales. The flower (trillium) hasn't been further used in other flags or as a symbol for bisexuality save for the Mexican bisexual flag to my knowledge.). No specific lily mentioned for now (if ever). And also leaves that are supposed to be closer to Smilacaceae's leaves (another flowering plant under the order of liliales.), however they did end up on the shorter end. I'm not proposing the symbol for other omnis or folks who use the flag to use as it was originally made for personal usage, however if they want folks and such can use it and if needed I can upload the separated layers for it as well.

The reason this is labeled as both omnisexual and -romantic redesign is because I'm both on some level and I don't care to have different flags for the romantic counterpart personally. Y'all can do whatever y'all want, it's just the Omnirose attraction label redesign lol.

Taglist: @radiomogai @obscurian

Also here's it on the general Omnisexual flag + the symbol on its own.

[ID: Two identically designed rectangular flags of 5 even horizontal stripes, the colors go from top to bottom as teal, light blue, off white, warm lilac, and reddish purple. In the first flag there is a symbol consisting of a moon crescent with three heart-shaped different size leaves overlaid on it (the first leaf is bigger than the two others and conceals the two leaves beneath it almost completely, only leaving the tips to poke out on either side of it.) With a lily flower overlaid on top of the crescent and leaves. It's all in the colors of the flag; pink, magenta, dark purple, dark blue, and periwinkle. The crescent is a gradient color of dark purple to off white through warm lilac and the second flag is blank./end ID]

[ID: symbol consisting of a moon crescent with three heart-shaped different size leaves overlaid on it (the first leaf is bigger than the two others and conceals the two leaves beneath it almost completely, only leaving the tips to poke out on either side of it.) With a lily flower overlaid on top of the crescent and leaves. It's all in the colors of the flag; pink, magenta, dark purple, dark blue, and periwinkle. The crescent is a gradient color of dark purple to pink through magenta./end ID]

[paintology-the-alien]

‿ omnipan flux flag ‿

⇢ ˗ˏˋ omnipan flux ‿‿✦

╰┈➤ ❝ Omnipan flux is a mspec identity where someone identifies as both omni and pan at the same time or switching, even fuild! Reasons why someone may identify as both of these is:

✦ their preference for certain genders fades or comes in spikes for any reason

✦ both definitions of pan and moni correlate with their identity

✦ they are a system with an alter that is omni and an alter that is pan.

✦ any other reason they feel!

(using the genderflux symbol)

[lilliaace]

I'm giggling at the she/her pronoun on the achillean gay boy flag. Share it to scare a baby terf queer.

[transgender-png]

the mspec to aspec pipeline is real and it happened to me

[ID: a collection of m-spec flags (including bi, pan, poly, omni, and multisexual) at one end of a pipeline with a collection of a-spec flags (including aro, ace, greyace, greyaro, demi, demiro, and aroace) at the other end. end ID]

[noahizslay]

unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.

[nonconformityhub]

Mspec Lesbian Infographic - repost from my friend thelesbianbakugou

Since his account got terminated a few years ago, me and thelesbianbakugou decided to replatform this lil info sheet! There's one on lesboys too! I also recommend checking out my other friend thegendertheives' black lesbian flags: butch femme and futch

Sadly we don't have access to the original image credits, if you know who made some of the images, please let us know and we'll credit them here!

tagging some of the first rebloggers of the last one and some bi lesbian accounts for reach woo! @kissingwomenat3pm @lavendermeowzers @the-playrooms @the-astropaws @mogai-germ @germtimes @in-a-mello-mood @genderstarbucks @biblically-accurate-chaos @mspeclesbianpositivity678 @bilesbianblog @bilesbianpositivity @mspeclesbianpolls @bilesbian @bilesbianwriter

[lesbianpolls]

happy international lesbian day!! especially to:

male lesbians and lesboys and boydykes

transmasc and transfem and transneu and transfemmasc and all other trans lesbians

nonbinary and multigender and xenogender lesbians

intersex lesbians

lesbians who use he/him pronouns and neopronouns

aromantic and asexual and aplatonic and afamilial and all other aspec lesbians

queerplatonic and alterous lesbians

polyamorous and nonmonogamous lesbians

bi and omni and ply and pan and abro and all other mspec lesbians

gaybians and straightbians

butch and femme and stud and futch lesbians

lesbians with stigmatized disorders

[genderstarbucks]

[ID: 2 images that are a drawing of a white hand with the middle finger up with a lesboy bracelet and an mspec lesbian ring on the middle finger. They both have a white background. They both say "FUCK OFF!" on the left side of the image. The image on the left has "FUCK OFF!" in a black text and the image on the right has "FUCK OFF!" in a red text.

I'm tired of the exclusionsinism within the queer community. Lesboys and mspec lesbians have been here for decades (since AT LEAST the 70's) Read up on your queer history. We're not leaving this community.

[isabellascarlett1]

Exclus: “Bi Lesbian is a new made up term”

Actuality: “Bisexual Lesbians are a large and irremovable part of the Lesbian community, even if many Lesbians treat them with insults, ignorance, stereotyping, exclusion, rejection, invalidation, and worst of all, silence”

- Bi Women Quarterly, 1983

(Not that it matters if the term is “new” or not to begin with)

[scr-ppup]

Clingy Omni flags

Clingy Omni: a flag for someone who experiences omnisexual or romantic attraction and is clingy.

My personal + the general Omni flags mixed with @winecovered's clingy flag.

[ID: two identically designed rectangular flags of 5 even horizontal stripes with differing color schemes. The first flag has a color scheme going from top to bottom as reddish purple, lighter reddish purple, off white, warm desaturated pale brown, and muted green. And the second flag has a color scheme going from top to bottom as pink, hot pink, near black red, orange, and yellow./end ID]

Taglist: @radiomogai @obscurian @orientation-archive

[thehealingsystem]

happy mspec lesbian week 💜

[lilliaace]

I'm going to put this as nicely as possible.

You're fifteen, according to your bio/pinned post. I'm 30. I have been alive literally twice the time you've been alive in this world. You are a baby queer. I don't mean that demeaningly. I mean this as to say this - you don't know smack about the LGBTQ world beyond the walls of the internet, maybe a queer club at your local school (high school if you're in the USA).

The online and club spaces for the LGBTQ world are so incredibly sanitized, period.

No, bi lesbians and their sister labels (pan lesbians, omni lesbians, polysexual lesbians, straightbians, fagdykes, lesboys, asexual lesbians, aromantic lesbians, etc.) ARE NOT putting their lesbian/dyke sisters in danger, period.

Pushing that the idea of "m spec lesbian" is somehow damaging...

victim blaming for ladies attempted to be 'forced converted' by straight men

Xenophobic towards MANY global gender IDs that are specific to certain cultures (2-spirit for indigenous USA tribes, Hijra in India, etc.)

Shifts the blame from the rapist to the victim, regardless of circumstances

Also minimizes the fact that asshole men are going to be asshole men, regardless of whoever they're being a jerk to. A jerk is going to be an asshole, regardless.

The idea of a "m spec lesbian" has been around FOR YEARS. Documented since at LEAST the 1950s.

I strongly recommend reading "Stone Butch Blues" and "The Stonewall Generation" as well as "PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality"

You might get lucky and find them at your local library. There's a free PDF floating around of Stone Butch Blues. I got Stonewall Generation by going to a LIVE PRIDE event that was local. You should be able to find them on Google Shopping, Amazon, Ebay, and/or Mercari.

Human sexuality is complicated, period. Many women who were exclusively (or almost exclusively) attracted to other women often paired up with men for the sake of affection, protection, and companionship rather than genuine attraction (Elenor Roosevelt and Virginia Woolf are the first two famous people who come to mind). Also, Kristen Stewart recently came out as a bi lesbian in a recent interview.

We exist, period. NO ONE is helping by LGBTQ identity policing. Y'all are only hurting yourself. PLEASE talk to real life queer people face to face, beyond the safety net of social media and school clubs. You will learn so much.

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

I made some art for mspec lesbian week :)

It's not very good and I made it in like half an hour. Still though, a very happy mspec lesbian week to all mspec lesbians, and lesbians in general.

[bilesproblems]

Just in case any baby mspec lesbians are here, that might still be unlearning the validity bullshit and drawing lines in "acceptable" vs "unacceptable" lesbian identities:

You are not gonna be one of the good ones. Even if you're one of the ones who isn't attracted to men at all, the exclusionists will never accept your mspec identity because it goes against their hatred. The transmasc bigender lesboy who's primarily a guy but still feels like a lesbian will validate your identity and affirm your simultaneous lesbianism and mspec attraction. Even if you're a SAM user so clearly you're experiencing 2 distinct identities, exclusionists will decide on a whim that SAM users can't be lesbians and they'll demand you leave the community. The omni lesbian who's got a heavy preference for women and so calls themself a lesbian will validate your distinct experiences as two different things, deserving of having both labels.

You have to learn to give these people the same acceptance. They are your community. They are the people that will listen to you when you explain how you're simultaneously mspec and a lesbian, and they're the ones who will validate your identity. You need to unlearn the things exclusionists say. You need to unlearn "nonmen loving nonmen" as the One True Definition of Lesbian. It will take a little bit, I know. It's an adjustment. But if you push away the community you have, then you'll end up alone. The people who would have accepted your identity don't want to associate with you because you invalidated them. The people who most of your beliefs align with hate your identity. So please, don't push away the community. Take time to learn it, accept it, and be part of it. Ask questions if you want to, in good faith. If you have to, make up an explanation like exclusionists do, but instead of something bad faith, make up something you'd accept (I did this with binary trans man lesboys when I was still attached to nmlnm, because I was thinking about orchid aces and how despite not fitting a definition they're still a part of the asexual community because their unique experience makes them feel more like an asexual than an allosexual, and I realized that would totally apply to a lot of binary trans man lesboys). Whatever it takes to accept the rest of your community because if you reject it, you're aligning yourself with people who hate you.

I learned this from experience. I wanted to be one of the good ones for a hot minute. I was against pan lesbians despite being a bi lesbian because I hadn't even thought of split attraction and I thought "well bi is compatible with being a lesbian because 2+ genders and nmlnm don't contradict but pan lesbian isn't because all genders and nmlnm do." I was resistant to non-SAM mspec lesbians that liked men. I was resistant to lesboys. But thankfully I held my tongue long enough to hear them talk about their history, their experiences, and point out how genderqueerness and multigenderism would very obviously allow men to be lesbians (before I had my epiphany about binary trans man lesboys). I am forever grateful that I didn't voice my shitty baby bi lesbian opinions and immediately push away the community that accepted me as a lesbian, as a biromantic, as a term collector, and as all of me. I got the chance to grow as a person.

So even if none of this stuff makes a lot of sense to you yet, I promise you will get it in time. Do not try to be one of the good ones. You'll never be accepted by the people you're trying to appeal to. The people who will accept your explanations, will also accept the rest of the community and their explanations. You don't have to other anyone to be accepted by the people who are willing to accept you.

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Yummy good faith userboxes

[lesbianpolls]

happy lesbian visibility week to all lesbians!! all lesbians are important and valued members of the lesbian community!! this includes trans lesbians, intersex lesbians, he/him lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, lesboys and male lesbians, transmasc lesbians, multigender lesbians, butch and femme lesbians, aspec lesbians, polyamorous lesbians, mspec/bi/pan/omni/abro/etc lesbians, gaybians and straightbians, any and all good faith lesbians!! you belong in the lesbian community!! fuck the exclusionists!!