#mens dating advice

[theambitiouswoman]

Types of relationships that look like love but are not:

Infatuation: This is an intense emotional or sexual attraction to someone that can give the illusion of love. However, infatuation is often based on idealized perceptions rather than a deep emotional connection.

Codependency: Codependent relationships involve one person excessively relying on another for emotional or physical needs. This dependency can mimic love, but it is rooted in the need for validation, control, or a sense of purpose.

Unrequited love: This refers to a situation where one person has romantic feelings for another, but those feelings are not reciprocated. It may involve one-sided affection, longing, or an obsession with someone who does not feel the same way.

Limerence: Limerence is an intense and obsessive form of attraction characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and an idealized image of the other person. It can feel like love, but it often lacks a genuine emotional connection.

Conditional love: In relationships based on conditional love, affection and care are only given when certain conditions or expectations are met. This type of relationship lacks unconditional acceptance and can be manipulative or controlling.

Trauma bond: A trauma bond forms when two individuals share intense emotional experiences, often negative or abusive. Despite the harmful dynamics, there may be a strong attachment due to the shared trauma, leading to a mistaken perception of love.

Transactional relationships: These relationships are based on mutual benefit or convenience rather than genuine emotional connection. Partners may stay together for financial security, social status, or other practical reasons, rather than genuine love and affection.

Manipulative relationships: Manipulative relationships involve one person exerting control and power over the other through emotional manipulation, coercion, or gaslighting. The manipulator may feign love and affection to gain control or exploit their partner's vulnerabilities.

Fantasy relationships: In fantasy relationships, one or both partners create an idealized version of the other person, often based on unrealistic expectations or fantasies. The relationship may lack a true emotional connection, as it is based on the person's fantasy rather than the reality of who their partner is.

One-sided relationships: These relationships are characterized by an imbalance of effort, care, or emotional investment. One person may consistently give more while the other takes without reciprocation. It can create an illusion of love, but it lacks equality and mutual respect.

Love addiction: Love addiction refers to a compulsive or obsessive pattern of seeking out relationships and being dependent on the euphoric feeling of being in love. It can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships, as the person seeks constant validation and excitement without addressing underlying emotional issues.

[femininedating]

How to receive Princess Treatment from men:

Raise your standards. Never settle for the bare minimum or less.

Expect the best. Have high expectations.

Act like a princess. Take being called "boujee", "high maintainence" or "gold digger" as a compliment. Not everyone can have access to you or afford you. You are a luxury.

Look the part. Looks matter. You have to look good. The reality is men will treat you better if you look good

Have a PRIZE mindset. Know that you're the prize.

Be Feminine. Feminine Energy is a valuable asset to have. Heal your wounded feminine energy and embody your divine feminine self. (My How to be more Feminine playlist)

Learn how to RECEIVE. Get comfortable with receiving. Say "Thank You" & express gratitude. (Learn to receive)

[hermajestyimher]

I think I finally cracked the code as to why this happens. The men who feel jealous and threatened by your beauty as a woman and the attention you gathered are the narcissists with a self-induced same-sex attraction. Hear me out.

Regular gay men who are happy and at peace with their sexuality don’t feel the need to tear down women because they live life happily and authentically, understanding they are not women and thus not expecting to navigate life as women either.

Now, the men who can’t stand to see women get treated right are the ones who want to always be the center of attention, the ones who view themselves as the price and because deep-down their self-esteem is so low, they require external validation (see narcissistic supply) to feel at ease with themselves. When the woman they are with “robs” them of this attention, they become hostile and resentful towards her. They wish they could be her and live life in her shoes.

These archetypes tend to be the ones who are DL and having encounters with other men because the only thing that eventually turns them on is to be intimate with someone who they see as another reflection of themselves. Gym bros and red pilled incels who tend to be obsessed with their looks usually fit this archetype pretty well. That’s why they crave so much the validation of their “bros”, and why it is known that inside male gym locker rooms and saunas a lot of secretive sexually degenerate activity occurs.

This is why as a woman you should NEVER feed the ego of a man. A narcissist will be with you because you are a convenient facade for him to use to pretend to be heterosexual before the world - so long as you don’t become a threat towards his narcissistic supply, otherwise you will turn into an enemy in his head, which can lead to dangerous outcomes down the line.

How can you prevent yourself from being in this situation? Don’t chase men, don’t feed their gigantic egos whether in person or online, and cut off all contact with dates the moment you witness that they cannot handle you being the center of attention for your looks. A man that’s into you will find the attention you command something to feel pride in, never as a threat.

[feminineenergylife]

Date a man who provides 100%, no matter how much money you make #ProviderMenOnly

[isawthismeme]

[oasisr]

When men neg you by putting down your talents, run. Things will not get better.

Even if you aren't good at something and are just a beginner, he should not be mocking you or bullying you for that.

I'm not a great singer or painter, but I enjoy singing and painting sometimes. My ex would mock me and tell me that he wanted to marry someone who could actually sing.

I gave him another chance after he hurt my feelings. He was good for a couple of weeks, and then went right back to mocking me and putting me down.

Just run. You are beautiful even if you aren't good at everything you try. You don't need someone to put you down and try to harm your self-worth.

You are worthy of someone who will treat you like you are a special and beautiful woman. Because you are.

[classycookiexo]

Constantly imagining who else a woman could be sleeping with and planting seeds of doubt in other men to make them just as insecure lol a mess

Constantly thinking and dreaming of other men ….. unserious 💀💀💀

[theereina]

[meganfoxrocksmyworld]

[feministfang]

As a straight woman, a relationship advice i would like to give to other straight women is to never settle with a man who is not adding value to your life.

Some of you radfems in heterosexual relationships are literally dating men who put bare minimum effort. You people keep crying about the bar being so low for these men and then proceed to date them when they only give you respect, attention or are loyal or have integrity. These things are just bare minimum.

If i am dating a man, i would expect him to serve me. He should make my life easier, struggle-free, support my dreams, spoil me with romantic gestures like dates, flowers or opening doors. He should worship me literally and make me feel special because i know i am a goddess and deserve high value treatment.

This is how i treat myself. And if i am treating myself better than how he is treating me, or if i am struggling with something and he is just sitting there with his verbal "you’re so strong you can do it yourself" gesture thinking that would make me fall for him more,i would literally dump his ass. He is completely useless.

Take advantage of your relationships! If your relationship with this man is not benefitting you, then he is just another burden in your life. Men are literally built to serve women, so raise your standards!!

It’s always the broke or 50/50 mentality mediocre ones crying about high standards of women. And it’s always the women who are not aware of their worth settling with these losers. These low standards you people have for these men are not even my standards for platonic relationships.

Start valuing yourselves!! Decenter men, stop chasing them, stop replying to their texts if social media is where they approach you… it’s literally embarrassing, and just live your best life loving yourself and being obsessed with yourself.

It’s because you’re so focused on finding a right partner, you limit your standards in the process. If you actually start utilising all that energy in yourself instead, you will realise that you’re out of so many men’s league and their low effort behaviour will make you wanna puke on their faces.

You disrespect yourself when you lower your standards for men. If a man cannot afford my standards, that’s his problem not mine since i would reject him. His loss! My attraction to a man will never become a reason to date him, it will always be my high expectations. I don’t care about my love for him. I love myself first.

I don’t need a man for anything. I am independent and can live happily on my own. But just because i can provide for myself does not mean i would settle with someone who does not have a provider mentality.

I am not blessing any man’s life with my presence if i am not welcomed like a goddess in it. I won’t even give him attention. As long as he’s bothering me, he’s my server or he’s a nobody to me.

[theambitiouswoman]

A person who cares about you is never going to let you abandon your goals or yourself for them. They won’t let you be low maintenance because they want the best for you as an individual. They won’t let you revolve your whole world around them because they know that you are powerful individually and want you to become your best self. They know that by hindering your individual power, they are hindering the growth and success potential of both of you as a couple and individually.

[femininedating]

Men who are serious about you will INVEST in you.

They invest:

Time

Energy

Effort

MONEY

[sweet-lil-darling]

If a man jokingly says:

"I'm the worst"

"You deserve better"

"I'm trash"

"I know nothing"

"I'm useless"

You had better believe them. No amount of "🤣🤣🤣" or "lmfaooo" makes those statements any less true. Take the statement at face value and walk away. All laughter aside, he knows what he is talking about.

[feminineenergylife]

Don't decenter men if you want a man...

Be careful with jumping on these trends.

They'll have you living the life you don't want lol