#maybe thats just neurodivergency

[theoneandcody]

Idk why people are surprised when I first thought I was transmasc

I listen to radiohead and have the navy bedsheets? My bed has no pillows and I use 2in1 shampoo for fun

Everytime my hair starts looking good I cut it off and oftentimes I am hit with the urge to Construct shelves and furniture

What about me says 100% woman 😭 My room fan never turns off and I will wear those shorts in the winter/jeans to the beach, I am your average run of the mill garden variety stereotypical biwife energy man

[enemywasp]

I HATE tiktok and the Internet in general rn for the obsession with "oh this person's smellyyy" "Brother it STINKS over here" "BOO 💧🧼🧽🚿" and stuff like that. I wish I could put into words how demeaning and patronising that whole idea is and people implying anyone they don't like doesn't wash.

For one there's something grating about being insulted in a manner like we're in nursery again. But also WHY is that the go to insult. Why do you associate these things? Especially to those you deem "chronically online". Like I don't want to sound pathetic but it feels so nasty to me.

is it extreme to say this feels tied to ableism? And classism too?

[littlesapphicraccoonguy]

They’re both fueled by rage and homosexuality to varying degrees i think

[anxiouslyextroverted]

do you have any dsmp neurodivergent headcanons? I have many

YES! thank you for asking!! :D

these are how i personally view the characters + whats canonically stated and I was debating to myself for an hour whether c!Tommy should go in alexithymia or not

[rebellum]

I feel like... Perhaps... Arguing that transphobia is defined by murder and that anything other than murder doesn't even matter... May NOT be conducive to fighting for trans rights.

Like... people want the right to exist as they are. They want to have access to hrt and surgeries and prosthetics. People want access to clothes that fit them and reflect how they want to be seen. People want access to medical care (eg. Getting screened and treated for sex-based forms of cancer can be impossible if you have the "wrong" sex listed to receive those tests). People want to be respected and treated well. People want to not be sexually assaulted and beaten and abused. People want to have access to housing and jobs, and the protection to not lose those things for being trans. People want access to shelters for homeless people or survivors of domestic abuse. People want name changes.

Acting like all of those things don't matter because at least they weren't murderered by an individual (and instead die of suicide or state violence, or survive and suffer) isn't okay.

[moonlit-orchid]

Sitting here wishing my ADHD was more severe just so people could realise I actually have a problem-

[planetarythorns]

Every single time someone posts a 4th anni and Bloomfes prediction I die inside a little because something is usually off.

So welcome to my final anni prediction that I've been cooking for the past month and an explanation of my reasoning behind one or two minor massive things

The lineup (IF colorful palette stops chucking curveballs straight at our skulls this year) is going to most likely be An, Shiho, Airi, Ena, and Nene. This is assuming that leaders for anniversary are an every other year thing, and that members of 2nd anniversary cannot have a repeat appearance.

The only character that can possibly be contested is Ena, as Mizuki isn't entirely off the table, just unlikely with the likelyhood of Mizu5 being the next N25 event. (Mizuki being there instead of Ena would also fix the "issue" of this lineup being almost identical to 2.5 anniversary, with the only difference being L/N Miku being swapped for Airi, but eh.)

Now, that's the known part at this point. What people cannot decide on relatively unanimously is who tf is the 3 star. I've seen some people argue on the 3 star being Airi since she just had a lim focus not that long ago, but in my opinion:

The 3 star will most likely be Nene. This is because, if we look at the anniversaries past, the 3 star for an anniversary has been from the unit that gets the focus next anniversary. Anni1 had Kanade as a 3 star, and Anni2 was Mafuyu focus. Honami was the 3 star for Anni2, and Anni3 was Ichika focus. Obviously, this doesn't mean a pattern yet. But it's safe to assume that with Kohane as the 3 star for 3rd anniversary, 4th anniversary is going to be a VBS focus (Unfortunate I know, VBS fans can't catch a break)

So, why does that mean Nene is going to be the 3 star?

If we follow the pattern of the 3 star being from the same unit as the next anniversary's focus member, and assume that An is in fact the 4th anniversary focus, that means the only unit that will be without a focus for anniversary will be WxS. So ultimately, Nene will be the 3 star. (Additionally, if anniversaries are in fact alternating between leaders and non-leaders on lineup, that would mean 5th anniversary would be a Tsukasa focus. Not important to this, just something I find interesting.)

Bloom festival is a whole other clusterfuck. Rin and Rui are in desperate need of a lim, with Rin's last being from Let Your Song Resound, and with Rui's last being from Pandemonium. Rin is going to be on the banner as Bloomfes. One question comes to mind, though…

Will they let an OC be on an anni's banner as a fes card???? The only other time that's happened was 1st anniversary, with Miku and Ichika as colorful festival. The other two had Miku/Luka with Anni2 And KAITO/MEIKO for Anni3. So…it's ultimately unclear. The first Bloomfes being KanaMEI does give me hope that RinRui is possible, but there's truly no way to be sure.

If you read this far you're actually so awesome, ty for reading my 3 am word dump <3 Have a great day :3

[monards]

can a girl ramble aboutthe way you can interpret so many parts of the propaganda and characterization of rhine by other the people/general populace of teyvat as people largely antagonizing neurodivergent traits without being chased with pitchforks and torches.

[vampirefangs]

i know "i saw the tv glow" is very metaphorical but also if you are/have been mentally ill/delusional enough in just the right ways it can be relatable in a literal sense too

[the-kipsabian]

working on organizing a personal discord server so i can have all my shit in the same place for add reasons and holy shit i am Feeling It™

[autisticlee]

sometimes I think about how when I went to college for a year before I dropped out (basically failed out,) the counselors/dean told me they can't help me at all or give any accommodations unless I have an official autism/adhd diagnosis. that might sound logical at first, but when you think about it more, it's actually quite fucked up. if someone is struggling really bad, what's the harm in helping them? why do they require a paper to get even the smallest amount of help? people who don't need help aren't going to be failing miserably without help! even NTs could benefit from some adjustments to the horrible school system! (but changing the entire system is a whole other conversation that the school system isnt ready for)

but even if you do agree to jump through their hoops, you realize it's even more fucked up that the diagnosis process requires YEARS in most cases (in my case it took 4 or 5 years, can't recall exactly now, for autism/adhd diagnosis, which would have meant i finished school before getting it if i managed to mot fail out, or i wait that long before going back, which is a whole struggle itself) and they also tried billing me for THOUSANDS of dollars because of insurance issues!!

so you put a ton of time and money into this, and then get told the only accommodation they are willing to give you for autism and adhd is "a little extra time on tests"

....

my test scores were the best part of my whole class experience. that was NOT what I struggled with!!!!! those tests were all online and could be done in the comfort of your home where you can accommodate yourself and have plenty of time left over when you finish them because you are comfy in your own space, (and also, no one was stopping you from having your notes/books/google open to find the answers,) and you don't even need a time consuming, expensive diagnosis for that!

SO WHAT'S THE POINT!!!!!!!

[justhellacesome]

and yet the thing is, the best feeling of collecting people i love , its when they show you that they actually consider to love you back, i gave a small flower to someone and they kept it in their phone case till it dried, i gave buttons and trinkets and i see them hang it on their id, another knew I liked collecting patches for my jean jacket and gave me one, another invited me and held unto me during a concert when i had the tendency to walk away, another would let me ask for hugs freely when I ask, and another asks for headpats, thee was one who thanked me for treating them right when I loved them a year before, and another thanked me and asked me to be the godparent for their children this years after i helped her through a bad breakup years ago and reconnected, while another just gave me a simple snack, another I love doesn’t allow free things and debts from strangers yet she accepts every gifts and free thing i give her without her having guilt, another would let me hold her hand while we ride home, another i spoke about religion and the differences in our beliefs and we became good friends, and another Id see around and call pretty lady and shed call me gorgeous girl, and one day i had the chance to have more people to love, when they told me how the way i dress everyday inspired them and made them happy to see me. that when they found out i would be moving college programs they find that a terrible miss.

I chose to love this people, not expecting anything back, not even thinking of going any further just that their very existence in my life makes me so incredibly happy that i got to live in the same moment as them. we may just be strangers,acquaintances,classmates, or friends. yet every single one of them who showed that even for a second showed that they acknowledged me. I think that in itself is love. To be worth living when people acknowledges that yes. i see you. you exist. youve become part of my life. I love you i love you i love you. i hope you live the life you deserve where ever you are.

[chronicschmonic]

i have 2 wolves inside me 1 is autistic n cant understand ppls intentions and motives from their tone and the other one has bpd n is constantly questioning everyones motives and in "THEYRE GONNA GET U THEYRE GONNA GET U THEYRE GONNA G" mode

[calamitys-child]

Thank u all for being so niceys abt my little activities cs not to sound lit a whiny bairn but every time I tell my dad anything I've been up to he just immediately tells me the negatives of it and I may be an adult but it still sucks ass every time

[toytulini]

you know whats more annoying than dems calling vance and trump weird is all the condescending posts justifying it actually. like im a bit annoyed about "weird" being used this way but also like man if it fucking works i guess

but do i have to keep seeing daily posts exhaustively justifying how normie midwesterners use weird different or whatever the fuck man just shut up and call them weird then, stop justifying it to me

[iloveschiaparelli]

When I started to drive one of the first cars I drove on a regular basis was my mom's minivan, the Sewmobile.

Then I started driving the most awful moldy disgusting broken-down Kia sedan which I "lovingly nicknamed" the Moldmobile.

I've had my own car for about 1.5 years, driving it since august. I've come to terms with the fact that I will be stuck with this car until the day it breaks down for good and have been thinking about ways I can paint and customize it.

I was thinking about making it autism-themed... but autism-mobile doesn't roll off the tongue all that well.

But then it hit me....

...The Autiemobile.