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comfortableinthesilence · 2 years ago
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Have some random selfies of me because I've felt I look half decent of late! Sure I'm scruffy, my skin is blotchy, my beard needs trimming etc etc but hey ho. I could pick a hundred faults I see in my reflection but I'm trying to be more positive and kind with myself with my words and thoughts. So here I am, negatives and all!
Be kind to yourself and learn to love the body you're in now💛
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Male Boudoir Photography: A Bold Expression of Confidence and Strength
Are you ready to take a leap into the bold and empowering world of male boudoir photography? Now, for a limited time, I’m offering a free boudoir photo session as part of an exciting project to expand my public catalogue of male boudoir images. This unique opportunity gives you the chance to explore your own confidence, vulnerability, and strength while receiving a set of professionally edited,…
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gainusbeefus96 · 1 year ago
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Really starting to feel confident in my thickness. For the first time in my life, I feel I have a man's body. I feel like I could take on the world.
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admirerofmeat2398 · 2 months ago
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This guy’s TikTok is honestly a gold mine of great shirtless dancing videos! I wish I could post them all here for you guys to see but that would take forever and I don’t feel that is fair to him.
It is obvious that he is very comfortable and confident in his body which is so hot!🥵
The way his belly jiggles as he dances is rather cute too!☺️
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idesofrevolution · 1 year ago
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Party Animal
Danny smiled his signature perfect smile, posing stereotypically as the phone sat propped up on a sidewalk trashcan with a timed camera counting down. While it was his 21st birthday, and he'd invited nearly twenty people to come out clubbing with him in New York City, he wasn't entirely shocked when everyone had some lame excuse as to why they couldn't come. Victoria was in the middle of watching Yellowjackets and couldn't be bothered to get up off her couch. Taylor was stuck at the airport in Nashville, unable to board his connecting flight due to "inclement weather." Felicity couldn't find a dog sitter for the night (bullshit), and Kyle just didn't even respond to the text. This was relatively par for the course for poor Danny, who'd gotten all but used to the feeling of his "friends" ditching him when it was plans of his own.
There were absolutely reasons in their mind as to why going out with Danny was less than an ideal evening: he was a wallflower. Sure, like everyone else in his small town, he had a fake ID. So one would assume that his relative experience in bars would at least teach him something about how to have a good time in one. Unfortunately, this was certainly not the case. Danny was the friend who would get to the bar, order two Long Islands and drunkenly cry for the rest of the night. He couldn't hold his liquor, he couldn't hit a joint without having a fifteen minute coughing spell, his moves on the dancefloor were generously described as "cringe," he would leave early and complain about it the next day. Yet, without fail, the next weekend would roll about and he would be the first one in line at open. His messy party ways had completely eradicated any chance of an entourage going with him, even on his birthday. Thus, as he posed rather stereotypically on the side of West 17th Street, alone and underdressed for his first gay nightclub of legal age, there was a level of disappointment.
Chelsea was bustling that evening, with stunning people in outrageously skimpy outfits strutting from building to building. All were in their little cliques huddles together until they made it to the doorman, where they'd quickly disperse into the drunken crowd within. Guys like him were the ones standing in line, waiting for someone to leave so they could have a chance of getting in; wallflowers, all of them. Thus, as he finally arrived at the club he'd heard so much about on every gay travel blog imaginable, he wasn't shocked to receive a quick look up and down from the bouncer and a head shaking no. Dejected, alone, and not even buzzed, Danny pulled out his phone to call the Uber back to his hotel. That is, until he felt a subtle tap on his shoulder. He sighed and turned around, locking eyes with an unexpected but very welcome sight.
He was tall, maybe 6'4 in a cutoff white tank top, a golden chain hanging from just beneath his nipples. His abs sat like the cobblestones on the street against his chiseled torso, flanked on either side by two huge, vascular arms. His fly was undone, with his thumbs suggestively holding it open. He had a gentle, yet sultry face: perfectly manicured facial hair and sweaty, wavy curls atop his head. He smiled as he leaned against the wall, illuminated brightly by the streetlight above them both.
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"Baby you're not gettin' in looking like that." He had a thick accent, perhaps Cuban or Dominican, but it rolled off his supple lips like the drool which had begun to slightly dribble down Danny's jaw. The man smiled and ruffled his hair, getting ready to walk back into the club.
"Hey! Uh... I really like your outfit. You wear it really... really well." The stud turned back, a small chuckle under his breath.
"Thank you baby! I wasn't sure about the chain, but it draws attention to all the right places, am I right?" He ran his large hands over his abs, winking at the salivating 21 year old. "I'm Mateo, by the way." The two shook hands, Danny barely able to contain himself.
"So, you come out to these clubs often? It's my first time in the city. My twenty first birthday, actually." Mateo's face lit up. Tossing his arm around Danny's shoulder, he leaned in close to hopefully be heard above the hustle and bustle of the chattering crowd outside. Danny blushed. He could feel the heat from Mateo's pit on the nape of his neck, the smell of wet armpit after a night of dancing tickling the hairs in his nostrils.
"Where's your party? You better not be out here alone on a Saturday night!" Danny looked down, trying to hide the thirst which had overtaken him.
"Ahh, they all cancelled. It's just me tonight." Danny felt an immediate yank, as Mateo squeezed him tightly against his pillowy pecs.
"Nahh. It's just you and ME tonight. C'mon." Mateo began guiding Danny down the street, chatting about the nightlife in New York City, how it's better than anywhere else, how it has the hottest guys and the best vibes. Mateo had been a staple of the ballroom scene for a couple years at that point, and was well acquainted with the bars and their owners. Any place of any note, he'd be able to waltz right in. Though in this instance, he decided to do something special for this little guy who he'd found meandering the streets. "It's definitely an in-the-know kinda place, if you know what I mean. And you're not getting in wearing that, so I guess we're just going to have to get you a birthday present." The two strolled up to a relatively inconspicuous apartment building, Mateo flashing his card to open the heavy metal door. Two flights up and ten doors down the hall, Mateo opened the door to his apartment. It was tidy for the most part. Plants sat on every imaginable surface, even hanging in macrame slings from the popcorn ceiling. Mateo flipped the lights on in his bedroom and opened his closet door.
"Uhhh, what are you looking for?" Danny nervously shuffled from side to side. This wasn't going to be one of those makeover scenes a la Clueless, was it? Mateo flashed several articles of clothing in front of his face, each vastly different from the one before: leather pants, a silk button up, a ripped up tank top, a latex polo... Under his breath, Danny could hear the quiet mutterings Mateo whispered after each one. Too young, too bulky, too preppy, too kinky.
"Hey. Like what's the vibe you're going for? If some hot guy walked up to you and was looking you up and down, what would you want him to see in a perfect world?" Danny sat there a moment, pondering. He wasn't entirely sure. He'd never thought about it. Closing his eyes, he tried to go back to his days of fantasizing about what a perfect Danny would look like. What he'd always wanted to look like. Though, for him, those days were far behind him. The years of being ditched and cast aside, while he understood why, had taken a toll on him. He'd only ever seen himself as that annoying friend who ruins the mood. Danny shuffled his feet beneath him, hanging his head.
"I don't know... just not... this." He motioned up and down, alluding to the rather sad appearance he'd taken on. Mateo stopped what he was doing, chucking a pair of sunglasses at the frowning young man, hitting him square on the nose.
"You stop that. This is not a pity party, it's a birthday party." Danny nodded, picking up the sunglasses from his feet: Balenciaga. "You know what you need? You need a confidence boost." Mateo pinched his chin, analyzing his closet. "And I have just the thing." It was like a frenzy. Within seconds, clothes were being tossed at him. Looking down at them, he anxiously investigated them. A long, almost see through tank top, a well worn sleeveless leather jacket, and a pair of wide, baggy pants- all of which about two sizes too big.
"Uh, hey, I really appreciate it but I don't think I'm gonna fi..." Mateo had plopped a heavy pair of beat up combat boots on top of the pile in his hands, nearly spilling the whole outfit out of Danny's arms.
"Shut up and go put this on, I promise you'll look great." Sighing, he started headed toward the bathroom, only for Mateo to stop him. "Here, just..." Mateo grabbed the wrists of Danny's shirt, pulling the gaudy top off his frail body. Snatching the tank top from the pile, he ripped it off the hanger and slipped it over his arms and head. The shit was undoubtedly massive on him. Danny was after all 5'4 and 100 lbs soaking wet, the tall hunk which stood before him would obviously be wearing way larger clothes than him. "Arms back!" Mateo slid the sleeveless leather jacket onto him. Danny could smell that this item was well loved, catching a subtle hint of weed, cigarettes, and sweat gently wafting from it. "Pants off!" He directed, Danny followed. Pulling his skinny black jeans down to his ankles, and taking off his brown loafers. He stood before Mateo in his whitey-tidies, and an unimpressive flat bulge. "Yeah, take 'em off and burn them. Besides, easier access for the lucky guy later tonight." He winked, causing Danny to blush. Any time his gal-pals had tried to do a makeover it always ended in a trip to Hollister or Abercrombie to look like every straight high schooler in 2013. He'd never had a guy, let alone a gay guy take the time to dress him. His guard finally down, he dropped them, quickly snatching the lightweight pants and pulling them up his legs, tightly pulling the drawstrings to keep them up.
Mateo looked him up and down, clearly thinking about what was missing as Danny slid his feet into the massive boots, feeling the squish of gogo boy sweat bubbling up onto his soles. Mateo snapped his fingers, grabbing the sunglasses and sliding them onto his face. Danny couldn't deny feeling cool in these ill-fitting clothes, whether or not he felt hot in them or not- if this sexy club kid thought he looked good he probably did.
"Awesome, here, take this bag. Happy Birthday, we gotta go!" Danny didn't even get a chance to peer into the mirror before a large leather bag was tossed at him and he was pushed out the door. He tripped over the baggy pants dragging on the ground, and the clunky boots which slid around on his now damp feet. "You look great," Mateo said as they hopped down the stairs. "I got just the place to take you."
The two walked for perhaps only a block or two before they turned into a dark alley, only a single red lamp far down the brick walled canyon illuminating the surroundings. They strutted up to the rusted metal door, Mateo knocking only three times before it swung open. The huge bouncer blocked the door with his arms crossed, though the moment he saw Mateo, he silently stepped aside. Thrust inside from behind, Danny entered the club.
From then on, the night was a blur. The few moments of clarity and recollection told quite the story. The club was packed, sexy guys dancing on eachother, gogo boys on the bar, discarded ecstasy pills littering the floor brightly glowing from the blacklights. A DJ played derivative beats as they approached the bar. The last clear decision that was made was to take a round of shots.
"Zayn! Could you get us two blowjobs?" Danny turned quickly, shocked at the prospect. He was slightly less anxious when the two cream topped shots were placed in front of them. After a quick birthday toast, the two downed their shots. Immediately, Danny felt an instant release. The nervousness had subsided, and he felt ready to enjoy the evening. He couldn't help but notice, before Mateo had ordered round two, that the sexy bartender seemed to smirk with every shot, heading to the back room for a moment only to come back with two perfect drinks. Round 2 felt just as good as the first, feeling himself smile and sway to the music. It was followed up by round 3, then round 4, then round 5... The shots just kept coming, and by round 7, the world was spinning.
From what little could be recalled, he hit the dance floor with Mateo, showing off the notorious dance moves which had caused him so much grief back home. Though, as the night progressed, he felt the music in a patently distinctive way. Every beat, every note hit differently. His body seemed to just move on its own, his hips swaying, his hands slowly wandering around Mateo's firm waist. The unfittedness of the clothes seemed to dissipate, and they began to feel... right. He liked the way that they showed off his broadening shoulders, his widening biceps... As he dropped, effortlessly pulling off spins and dips, his strong, muscular legs kept him firm in his stance, rooted in the perfectly fitted boots.
He could remember Mateo running his hands over the light tattoos sprawled on his pulsating forearms. He'd even done a few of them himself in his boredom during a relatively crazy shroom trip a few years back. In fact, as the two of them stood there in eachother's arms, looking eye to eye and towering over the dancefloor, he was so grateful that his bestie Mateo would give him such a night out on his birthday. Though, it seemed every year got more and more wild. The two didn't waste any more time. This was going to be a wild birthday, as Mateo planted a deep kiss onto his lips. Their sweaty, muscled arms wrapped around eachother, passionately making out on the dancefloor, before Danny reached into his bag, pulling out the magnum ribbed condom he'd gotten earlier that day, hoping the two would arrive at that point sometime during the night.
Mateo smiled and nodded, the two heading outside to wait for the Uber to take them back to the apartment. As Mateo eagerly tapped away on his phone, Danny leaned against the street pole, thrusting his sizeable package toward his boyfriend.
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The next morning, Mateo woke up to an empty bed. Sweaty sheets tossed from one side of the room to the other, the stench of kinky sex still wafting in the air. He rolled out of the stained bed, walking past Danny's still warm, musky combat boots splayed on the hardwood floor. After a night of being railed with his face buried in it's ripe opening, he couldn't help but take a quick whiff down memory lane before going down to the front door. There, perched on the step, in all his blonde, shirtless glory sat Danny smoking his American Spirits.
"Good morning, sexy bitch." His velvety voice soared like the wind to Mateo's eager ear, something about that cocky, confident swagger behind his words always hit just right. He plopped down next to his boyfriend, sensually nibbling on his pierced ear. "Gonna get the neighbors all hot and bothered." Danny chided, Mateo knowing full well he loved being seen in even more compromising positions by anyone who stumbled across them.
"That's the idea." The two laughed and kissed, hoping old Mrs. Prallatt across the street was huffing and puffing in an indignant rage. "Hey the house is performing later tonight in the Bowery, I think you should show off the new number. Kick the LaBeija's ass off the floor." Smirking, Danny took a long drag and let out a large cloud of smoke before turning to Mateo.
"They don't stand a chance." Mateo stood up, kissing Danny's smooth hand before getting ready to head back up to get dressed for the day. "Hey, babe." Mateo turned and looked down at the beautiful creature which had been the wildest ride he'd ever taken. "How about you take those sweats off and I show you a couple more moves before we head out?" A strong grope of Mateo's growing bulge and a wink from behind his Balenciaga shades was all that his man needed to see.
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filthykel · 7 months ago
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Somewhere in Malibu
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thebirdandhersong · 1 month ago
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#theres nothing quite like your mother saying Well maybe you shouldve been more careful because now your boss might think youve been flirting#with this male coworker (whom i like splendidly as a friend) and now maybe she thinks youre not trustworthy#and maybe she regrets hiring you because you said you feel like youre making a lot of mistakes this week and she might assume thats because#your head is filled with this boy.#so dont make her regret hiring you.#MA'AM I TOLD YOU I WAS ALREADY ANXIOUS BECAUSE I MADE SO MANY MISTAKES TODAY WHY ARE YOU MAKING ME ASHAMED#OF SOMETHING THAT I HONESTLY HAD NO CLUE I OUGHT TO BE ANXIOUS ABOUT AT MY FIRST NEW JOB AFTER IVE GRADUATED????#anyway going to bed i cant take this anymore LOL she said it so lightly and im like. well i never even considered#being afraid of making my boss regret hiring me somehow because of some kind of behaviour that i had no idea was sending some kind of signal#anywaysssss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#and then she was like why are you crying?? 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀#not to be like this is partly why i didnt want to move home but confound it all why are things like this#can i not simply confide in my mother my anxieties and worriws#worries#and not also have to worry about her potentially being like Well have you considered you ARE right and it IS your fault?#idk man something something firstborn child eldest daughter can i have some room to breathe. please#also not to whine but Not my father walking in on me eating dinner at 10pm because i was holed up#in my room in a semi depressive state after so many gong shows in a work day and straight up having no appetite#but deciding my body needs the food anyway its better late than never.....walking in and then saying#you know if you eat this late you'll gain weight. SIR??????????????????#sorry to complain and rant again i simply cannot in this house and whats more am doing my best to honour my parents#but why is it so hard out here and how can they say stuff like that with a smile!!!!!!!#also i DO have an inner critic who is always like Its your fault you are the worst you should be ashamed always........why do my parents#not understand after knowing me for so long and watching me grow up#that i can make myself so ashamed of the smallest thing so easily and that what they say drives me to shame almost as easily?#ANYWAY LOL WHAT A DAY#you guys!!! i am working so hard i promise i PROMISE I am!!! it is my first full time job ever and i am working so so hard#i am doing my absolute best and no one sees it and that is FINE i just wish my parents would see that i AM trying!!#i come back home so dead every single day because i put in 120%! this is literally my first job after graduation#and my parents KNOW this has been the most exhausting taxing and soul crushing year ive had in my very short life so far
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unrealdilfs · 1 month ago
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💪✨ Never skipping leg day… or lace day! 😎🖤
Who says you can’t rock lace and spikes at the same time? 💁‍♂️ Whether it’s lifting heavy or lounging in style, it’s all about feeling good in your own skin. 🔥
Remember: underwear is for you, not the haters. 👏👏
#OwnIt #BodyPositivity #RealMenWearLace #ConfidenceLooksGoodOnYou #UnderwearGoals
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hwajin · 11 months ago
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me @ men today
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comfortableinthesilence · 1 year ago
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When I wake up with crazy bed hair and figure I might as well share a pic because I'm trying to re-learn loving my reflection despite the imperfections screaming out at me 😅😅😅
Ps - yes I have fairy lights wrapped around my bed! I love ambient lighting 🤓😋
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peridyke · 9 months ago
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sometimes I will get very conflicting gender feelings oftentimes changing freely depending on the situation and I will start feeling nervous and I have to remind myself that there is nothing wrong with being both a man and a woman
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girlsgirl06 · 3 months ago
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THOMAS SHELBY GUIDE⚡🔥💥
(PART 2)
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WELCOME BACK IN PART 2 OF THOMAS SHELBY SERIES. IF YOU DIDN'T READ PART 1 HERE IT IS:
(PART 1)
LET'S CONTINUE LEARNING TRAITS OF THOMAS SHELBY:
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1. LISTEN
IN THIS WORLD THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO KEEP ON SPEAKING BUT LESS PEOPLE WHO LISTEN. THIS WORLD NEEDS PEOPLE WHO HEAR THEM AND NOT ONLY HEAR THEM BUT ALSO UNDERSTAND THEM. LISTENING WITH ALL YOUR FOCUS IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAIT. THOMAS SHELBY LISTENS CAREFULLY AND UNDERSTANDS WHAT OTHERS SAY. SO JUST LISTEN UP!
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2. LOWKEY
THOMAS SHELBY IS MYSTERIOUS. WHAT MAKES HIM MYSTERIOUS IS HIS QUIET NATURE. HE IS LOWKEY. HE NEVER REVEALS EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM AND WHAT HE'S GOING TO DO. QUITE PEOPLE ARE VERY OBSERVANT. NO ONE KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE UPTO, PEOPLE KEEP ON GUESSING BUT THEY CAN'T GUESS THOUGH! BEING QUIET IS GOOD FOR BOTH HEALTH AND OVERALL BEING, BECAUSE PEOPLE CAN'T STOP OR GRAB ANYTHING FROM YOU AS THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GONNA DO. SO JUST BE QUIET AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, ONLY SPEAK WHEN IT IS NECESSARY.
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3. CONFIDENCE
OBVIOUSLY CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY TO BE LIKE THOMAS SHELBY! THOMAS SHELBY IS ALWAYS CONFIDENT NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION SEEMS LIKE! JUST BE CONFIDENT! IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT TRY TO BE CONFIDENT IN ALL SITUATIONS. PRACTICE MEDITATION.
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4. DON'T TRUST
THOMAS SHELBY IS NOT THE ONE WHO TRUSTS EVERYONE EASILY. BUT HE BE THE ONE WHO EVERYONE CAN TRUST. HE NEVER EXPECTS ANYTHING FROM OTHERS AS HE KNOWS IT ONLY HURTS WHEN WE EXPECT FROM OTHERS. HE IS INDEPENDENT AND DO EVERYTHING BY HIMSELF.
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5. SELF CONCEPT
THOMAS SHELBY NEVER LOWERS HIS VALUE FOR ANYONE. HE KNOWS WHO THE F*CK HE IS. HE RESPECTS EVERYONE, AND THE ONE WHO DISRESPECTS HIM HE DON'T EVEN TAKE A SECOND TO CUT THEM OFF FROM HIS LIFE. HE IS GOOD WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE GOOD WITH HIM AND HE IS BAD WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE BAD WITH HIM. HE IS CONFIDENT IN HIMSELF.
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6. FEEL AND RELEASE
THOMAS SHELBY ALLOWS HIMSELF TO FEEL THE EMOTIONS AND RELEASE THEM. BUT HE NEVER LETS THOSE EMOTIONS STAY FIXED ON HIS MIND AND KEEP KILLING HIM. DON'T IGNORE OR AVOID YOUR FEELINGS/EMOTIONS LET THEM BURST OUT. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS/EMOTIONS CONTROL YOUR MIND OR LOWER DOWN YOUR VALUE.
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CONCLUSION: BODY LANGUAGE AND PERSONALITY IS VERY IMPORTANT. IT IS WHAT MAKES YOU LOOK ATTRACTIVE, STRONG AND SMART.
THANK YOU FOR READING MY BLOG ❤️
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curiouschaosstarlight · 5 months ago
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WAIT YOU'RE FICTO TOO!?!? (saw your tags) (has also only ever been attracted to fictional characters)
Ye! o/ Aromantic/Aegofictosexual! (Aegosexual + Fictosexual)
(For anyone that doesn't know, that means I'm only attracted to fictional characters, and only when I'm not involved)
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ali-ali-al1 · 3 months ago
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Can a local butch pleeeeeeeease donate all their autumn clothes to meeeeee right nowwwwwww let me innnnnnnn to my final formmmmmm
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growmydarling · 2 years ago
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so i am planning a lingerie party next month for a friend's birthday. what should my male partner and friends wear? suggestions for fat men's lingerie? dm me plsssss
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principiumindividuationis777 · 10 months ago
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