#like genuinely i have to respect this dude
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the tyupping wuirk is involentrary &ihave 2 actively go outof my way to coirrect stuff but
"can i see one fuckin post abt transguys that doesnt fuckin feminize & twinkify them 2 oblivion because it feels like u guys r just fuckin allergic 2 directing positivty 2 anybody who looks like a gender conforming man and its genuinely really fucked that the futrher u transitionj the less and less and less sipport and community you get beacuse going from "uwu !!!! pretty girlll ooohhh big booby womman!!!!" to "ewww grosss yuckyy disgusting evil man!!!!" isnt cool and #leftism enough, its not fucking normal or ok 2 treat trans people like an inharent fucking threat even if youre doing it under the guise of "ewwww men i hate men ewww gross gross groiss" u shouldnt have to fucking undercut your own fuckin bodily autonomy and happyness just to be fuckin accepted by ur communitey & yet thats something that literally every fucking trans dude (barring the ones that are just completely comfortable with just looking like a cis girl) has to fucking do !!!!!! im do tired of it!!!!!!!"
&then 4 the commic
"hi i would like some respect and bodily autonomy"
"noooo but ur a girl you have to be constantly aggreable and passive because if you show any emotion about being constantly treated like shit that makes you a hysterical crazy bitch woman whos fuckin stupid and should let the men do the talking"
"thats really stupid"
==> one testosterone later
"hi i would like some respect and bodily autonomy"
"noooo but ur a man you have to be constantly aggreable and passive because if you show any emotion about being constantly treated like shit that makes you an evil fuckin disgisting mysogenist whos fuckin stupid and should let the people with actuawl real issues do the talking. #feminism #transrights btw"
"thats really stupid"
imnot transalatingthe tags idont feel likeit
cani see onefuckinhgnjn post abt transguyz that doesntfuckinhgnn feminize& twinkifythem 2 obliuvion becauzeit fealslike u guyz r just fuckinhgn allergic 2 directtingg positivety 2 liekk anybodywho lookzliek a gendr conforminhgn man &itz genuinely rlly fuckd thatthe further u transitionthe less&less&less support& communitea u get becauze goinhgn fromm uwu!!! pretty girlloooohhhh big boobywomman !!! to ewww grosssyuckky disguytzyingg evilll mnann!!!!! isntt cool & # leftism enoughf,,, itz notfuckinhgnn normal or ok 2 treat transppl liek an inharentt fuckinhgn threat evn if ur doinhgn itunder the guise of "ewwwww men ihatemen eww grossgross gross" u shouldvnt have2 fuckinhgn undrcut ur own fuckinhgn bodiley autonomey & happynessjust 2 befuckinhnn accespted by ur communitea &yet thats smthnnthat literally evry fuckinhgn trans dude (barrinhgn the onesthat r compleatley comfortabl just looking like a cis girl) hass 2 fuckinhgnn do!!!!!!im so tiredof it!!!!!!!!
#ikinda hatedouing transalations cuztryinhgn 2 typefuclly correctktly justmakes me realizelookingbakc at thestuff thatwowww imlike rllyrlly#badat iteven wheni amgenuinely trying 2 dotype good#the beast speaks#screaming and scampering
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Why is Jack public enemy number 1? Sorry I don’t go on twitter but I keep seeing it here on tumblr
According to some folks on Tumblr, Jack Hughes didn't smile at them or was rude to them or something at the team signing event last night.
Anon, you're in for a treat, because I will be defending a white man on main. lets go!
I want to first reiterate a few things...
this was a team signing event. not a meet and greet. meaning, Jack Hughes and the other players were there to sign things, any further interaction or anything would have been a plus. I think someone actually shared the rules of the event on twt, posted below. you couldn't even take selfies or pictures with the players. it was literally just a line where you handed over something that you wanted signed and it got signed. of course, there were players that personalized the signatures or let people take selfies and posed with them, but this wasn't actually a part of the experience nor should it have been an expectation.
2. this is not "part" of Jack's job or any hockey players job for that matter. I think people need to realize that although hockey players are celebrities in a certain sense of the word, their interactions with fans are not a necessary part of their job. I'm seeing a bunch of people say that he's being unprofessional and if he can't be good with fans than he shouldn't be a hockey player, and thats, frankly, idiotic. Jack's job is being a hockey player. that is what he gets paid to do. anything on top of that is on top not a part of his job. please understand that a hockey player does not need to have a social media presence to do their job, doesn't ever need to interact with fans to do their job, and actually can play a hockey game without any fans and still get paid!
3. I genuinely don't believe any of the things being said on Tumblr are actually true or if these incidents of him being "rude" did occur I don't believe they're being interpreted the right way or are being relayed in the right context. Rather, I feel like this is just another instance of folks looking for a reason to dislike or even hate Jack. he's a very easy player to dogpile on because of how he plays and how he is portrayed by the media and his fanbase. you don't need a reason to hate the dude, go on and hate him, but please stop making up stories.
anyway...
as far as things I have seen and first person accounts I've been told, Jack was perfectly normal with everyone and especially nice to the kids.
folks are just mad that he didn't rise to whatever lofty expectations people had of Jack during a team signing event where everyone's time with the players was incredibly short and heavily policed. maybe be upset with how it was organized (like why did they have three player tables, it didn't make any sense!).
plus, I have seen several accounts of people hearing folks in line talking shit about Jack while waiting for him, so like what exactly do you expect to happen when he hears you waiting in line for his autograph and being entitled to his time and his generosity and you're chatting shit? like that he's gonna be all sunshine and roses with you? naaaaaaaah.
and finally, we speak so often about respecting the privacy of these players, taking into account their mental health, etc. but then you're gonna turn around and judge someone because they didn't do exactly what you wanted to do when you met them for fifteen seconds? so we're giving grace to players on one end and turning around and blasting other players. make it make sense.
this is essentially the "people pay to watch me play" incident all over again where that quote is taken out of context and then everyone and their mother runs with it because Jack is a very easy target.
#Text#Anonymous#Question#Ask#Jack Hughes#New Jersey Devils#taking a chance and tagging this with Jack#because why not#I already feel like this is not going to be a good decision#anyway no more defending white men#Im done! closing up shop!#and honestly if this weeds out the weirdo fucking fans Jack seems to attract then so be it#it is actually the most annoying thing how misunderstood the Hugheses brothers are by hockey fandom#this gets into my dislike of the fandomification of hockey players#where people expect their favorite players to act like their favorite characters or their favorite celebrities#whats the thing people say#touch some grass#take a hot girl walk (gender neutral)
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i constantly see people on tiktok going on about how charles is an asshole for invading everyone’s privacy with his telepathy and like yeah he is but
HOW ARE YOU ANY BETTER?
LIKE IF YOU HAD MIND READING ABILITIES YOU WOULD HAVE TO HAVE SO MUCH RESPONSIBILITY TO RESPECT PEOPLES PRIVACY
LET BRO RELAX FROM TIME TO TIME
imagine being oppressed, hated, and feared by both humans and mutants god damn
MUTANT AND PROUD MEANS NOTHING APPARENTLY 🤨🤨
like i can get why people dislike charles sure but come on
he can quite literally not help reading what ur thinking ITS IN HIS GENES???
imagine how often he would hear “stay out of my head!” “get out of my head!” “are you controlling my mind?!”
i don’t know how dude hasn’t just forced everyone to live in coexistence atp i’d be sick of them all
these people piss me off genuinely like hate charles all you want but you gotta put this into perspective that he didn’t choose to be one of the most powerful telepaths alive??
people acting like they’re all high and mighty tf
dude would have to hear all the hate he gets regardless damn 🥲
anyway mutant and proud including telepaths
#charles xavier#x men#professor x#telepathy#leave the bald guy alone ���#he’s done shitty things but come on#cherik#not even about erik but still gotta include cherik#tiktok doesn’t get it 💔#i have a hc charles can’t read body language/read the room so he relies on telepathy but he still tries to respect boundaries#i’m definitely a charles xavier defender but also that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t face consequences of some things#i have a feeling in another life i’m someform of an empath or telepath#even though i kinda want the powers of the avatar like from atla/lok#nobody understands telepaths like i get telepaths 😔
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Week 1 - Rushed, Unfinished Cross’s Birthday Thingy
Creator: Me :)
Word count: 1,401 Notes: Something intended for Cross’s birthday but I never finished. Keep in mind, most updates will probably be fanon like this one:
It was never quiet.
Until Cross would walk into the room.
Usually it was only Killer who had the guts to talk.
“Heeeeey there Crissy Crossy!!!” It was still weird to have someone call him by a silly name like that. He had barely just gotten used to people calling him ‘Cross’ over ‘sans’ never mind whatever weird code names Killer uses.
He gave a silent nod, looking around the room, assessing the situation.
“It’s your birthday, ain’t it?”
“My what?”
“Birthday!”
“Um….. sure.” He took a spot on the same couch Dust and Killer was sitting, but well away from them. He didn’t want to cross any boundaries. Metaphorically and physically.
“C’mon Crisscross, don’t act like you don’t know!” Killer exclaimed, quite loudly. It felt off with how quiet the room was. “Don’t tell me you’ve never celebrated a birthday before? How stuck up was your AU that you didn’t even celebrate birthdays?”
“No. We did.”
“Killer, lay off ‘em.” He heard the gruff voice of Horror speak. It was weird to hear a voice like that. It sounded strained and itchy and like it hurt. They didn’t even have throats, how did that happen?
“I just wanna know what he wants ta do for his birthday!”
“No, you’re going to try and twist it into something you want to do.” Dust cut through. “You know the new guy is uncomfortable so you’ll manipulate him and pressure him into doing something you want to do.”
“Me? I would never!”
Cross just sat, quiet and unsure of how to respond. Killer was quite loud and passionate, Dust seemed to be the voice of reason. The serious one. Be wary of him and act carefully around him. Horror was a sort of middle ground? The one to call them down if they got too rowdy and heated in an argument or conversation.
It would take a while to analyze them all and figure out their respectives roles to see where he could fit in with the mix.
“So, Applesauce, what d’ya wanna do for yer birthday?”
Cross looked to Killer, they laid in Dust's lap, feet resting on his own lap.
“Thirty what years?” Killer asked. “Damn, you’re old.”
“You’re one to talk, dude.” Cross shoved their feet off his lap. “You’re way older than me, cryptid.”
“Thank you, I identify as Mothman thank you very much.” Killer fought back, moving their feet now on Cross’s chest.
He couldn’t help but laugh, shoving the other now fully onto Dust.
“Ey, don’t give the dumbass to me.” Dust spoke, pushing Killer off his lap.
“OW- HEY!” Killer exclaimed, making contact with the floor and looking back up at them. “RUDE! After all I’ve done for you!”
Cross and Dust laughed as Killer continued to complain. It was strange to think that just a couple years ago he was so intimidated by the other.
Suddenly, the lights went out.
He went quiet, quickly reaching out for Dust’s hand and holding it tightly. An unconscious decision he made to make sure the other was okay.
He assessed the situation. He knew it was probably fine. Maybe a power outage? It was an old castle nearing the middle of October.
But he didn’t have to worry as he heard a voice behind him.
“Happy birthday to you.”
He could immediately recognize the voice as Horror’s.
The way it was gruff and deep and honestly really nice to listen to, but Cross would never admit that out loud.
And don’t even get him started on him singing. Beautiful.
It only got better as Dust and Killer joined in, Horror now walking in front of him to show a cake, lit up with multiple candles on the top and side of the cake.
“Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to Croooooooossss”
“Applesauce.” He chuckled as he heard Killer mutter under their breath. They saw the sliver of a genuine smile on the other's face as they saw their silly little joke made him laugh.
“Happy birthday to you!!!!”
Cross laughed as they hit a final note. And it was just….. indescribable.
Blowing out the candle, everything went dark as he heard the others cheer for him.
He laughed along, until he felt something grab his ankle.
“OH MY FUCK-“
The lights flicked back on, as he instinctively kicked whatever had grabbed him off. His foot, happening to make contact with Killer’s skull.
“Dumbass!” He cried at the other, sliding off the couch and onto the floor with Killer, grabbing his shoulder and holding his face gently, inspecting the impact.
“Hey there handsome~”
Cross made a face at Killer’s comment, a mix between disturbed, amused, and judgmental.
“You boneheaded.” The two chuckled as Cross clinked their foreheads together.
“You okay, Kills?”
“Never.” Killer responded, holding Cross back.
“Alright chucklefucks, save it for after cake or get a fucking room.” They both looked to Dust who looked disapprovingly at them.
“Wanna get back up ona couch?” Horror asked, setting the cake on the table in the middle, before getting out plates.
“Yeah, get up here fucker.” Cross grunted, pulling himself and Killer up on the couch they were sitting on before, placing the other on his lap.
“Hey! You stole them from me!” Dust complained as Horror started cutting the cake.
“There’s still plenty of space, Sweetheart.” Killer invited the other, patting their lap and Cross’s chest. “I don’t mind sharing~”
“Gross actually. Nevermind. You can keep them.”
“Asshole!”
“Bitch.”
“Dickhead!”
“Loser.”
“Poopyface!”
“Woah guys, chill out! This is a safe space. That is no way friends talk to each other.” Cross spoke with an exaggerated teacher voice, breaking the two up.
“Hoe I sleep with that motherfucker. That bitch is more than just a friend.”
“Yeah I am. And I love you.”
“I love you too!”
“You’re great and I love you.”
“You’re amazing and I’m so happy to have you in my life!”
“You brighten my day and make my existence a thousand percent better.”
Cross just laughed, pulling Killer closer and hiding his face in their shoulder.
“Oh my stars, I love you all.”
“We love you too, Cookie.” Killer spoke, putting an arm around him.
“Cake?” Cross looked up to see Horror handing him a plate with a slice of cake on it.
“Thank you, Hun.” Cross smiled, taking a bite.
They all sat down, eating cake. Joking and laughing.
It was weird to think about, to Cross at least, how he’s come. How much he’s changed. How much he’s gotten to know the others. How much he had to face and overcome to get here. All the people he met, and all the people he had to say goodbye to.
His first birthday here was a lot less eventful and a bit more awkward.
Cake, generic presents because he was still new, no murder spree (to Killer’s dismay). But, that was about it. He didn’t even want to mention it was his birthday, he was surprised when Killer knew and blatantly asked him about it.
And now here he was. About five years with the Bad Guys. And he’s shoving them around, openly and comfortably telling them he loved them, making jokes and laughing.
He was glad it turned out okay in the end. He got to know everyone, and lived long enough to see today.
He was going to say something, no doubt something sappy, before he was interrupted by a voice behind them.
“….. Did you all really start without me?”
“Sorry Night.”
“Yup!”
“You were busy, didn’t wanna disrupt.”
“I blame Killer.”
Nightmare just sighed, taking a seat in his normal comfy chair. “Well, I’m here now. You’re lucky I care about you all and this is your birthday, Cross.”
Cross smiled softly, watching Nightmares dish a slice of cake. His first year, Nightmare didn’t even show up, too busy with his work. So he sent Killer on the job. That’s how Killer knew his birthday.
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“….what?”
“It’s your birthday, right?”
Cross wasn’t sure, he hadn’t been keeping track for he days.
He turned to Killer who looked at him expectantly. And then to Horror who held the lit cake before him. And Dust, walking back over from turning off the lights.
“Well, what are you waiting for? Make a wish!”
This was weird.
He barely knew these people.
Sure, he’s known them a little over a year, but he didn’t think they were close enough they’d do… all this…
#Weekly Underverse#undertale#underverse#xtale cross#cross sans#killer sans#dust sans#horror sans#nightmare sans#writing#writers on tumblr#fanfic
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Oh, screw it. I'm throwing my hat into the ring too. Putting it under a cut.
I genuinely don't understand the pure level of vitriol the entire fanbase has for Jimmy in the main tag. It's ridiculous how much fanart is dedicated to harassing him, assaulting him, making him suffer. I get it to a degree, I hate rapists as much as the next dude.
The point of the damn game is that we aren't our worst moments. Anya says it herself.
I don't know any other way to put it than that.
At the very least make a separate tag for Jimmy hate.
We're a system, alright, and we split easily. We split a Jimmy fictive. It's making him genuinely really damn upset to see this in his tag. He's a person, not a character. So, at the very very least. Make a separate tag.
I'm not saying you can't hate Jimmy! I don't like Jimmy the character. But something I feel so very inclined to add is, canon Jimmy is just that, a character. They're vehicles to explore darker topics.
The game has many different topics and points simultaneously, and spending your entire time despising Jimmy for not knowing how to cope with the pressure cooker he put himself in is just, not reasonable fully. It's ruining your own experience of the game, and the fandom. I get it, justice for victims. Jimmy is as much a victim of circumstance as the rest are.
Yes, he made himself a victim in a sense.
That doesn't detract from him being a victim of the perpetrator of the overall causes of the game, capitalism, rape culture, toxic masculinity, lack of proper education and coping skills. There is so much that could've been prevented had Jimmy been taken seriously before this point in the game.
You spend most of the game in his head. You can attest to how much negativity he spreads constantly. He was never taught how to manage his emotions properly, otherwise the envy and jealousy that ate away at him constantly at every other crew member, wouldn't have caused this.
He's jealous of Anya, because she shows a level of pure determination, a level of success that he could never achieve. It's painful to see how much he truly respects and hates her in the same breath.
He's jealous of Curly. Obviously, right? He's also Curly's best friend. He clearly had good qualities to draw Curly to him in the first place, right? We only see the negative, because that's all Jimmy himself focuses on.
He's jealous of Daisuke. He sees Daisuke as a cushy little spoiled brat, right? He sees him as an entitled kid who's taking up space and energy the others could be using for their benefit. He wants the attention Daisuke gets, the love and care. Jimmy can't stomach being around Daisuke. It's part of why he talks to Daisuke next to the least.
He's even jealous of Swansea. Swansea has more than enough experience and resolve to outclass the rest. Jimmy is new to the freighter job, Curly says so. But, the thing is, Swansea is clearly doing more than his best to maintain order without overstepping his bounds. (We should also acknowledge how he didn't do anything to Jimmy before Daisuke died. He couldn't have, to be frank, but like, that's a whole different post.)
He's jealous of everyone. It's why he's wearing fucking green in the spaceship when everyone else is wearing blue, pink, yellow. Color theory is important, folks.
but like I do wanna say, this is all an interpretation of the character. I can't claim what wrong organ intended to do with him. They left a lot out on purpose, we don't get to see their day-to-day. We don't get to see so much of their lives in the crashed, or pre-crash Tulpar. That's very intentional, I'd argue.
But, to circle back to our Jimmy fictive. Like I said. He's just... A dude. He's a person. Like you, like me. He's not going to go out and rape and abuse people left and right. He's just a guy, with a ton more coping skills now. He's leveled out a ton since joining our system. He's not a walk-in, or anything, he's just an introject. He's just a man. Like the character is. Let the character exist before you scrutinize him for even existing in spaces to be analyzed and written off. He's not just an angry piece of shit, he's a nuanced, complete character with more flaws than most, but he's got to have more to him than that. There's genuinely no other explanation. The game is from his pov, so we only see what he deems as important. Please. Let him exist.
Make a separate tag for the hate. That's all I want.
#jimmy mouthwashing#mouthwashing#mouthwashing jimmy#mouthwashing anya#mouthwashing spoilers#mouthwashing 2024#mouthwashing curly#mouthwashing crew#character analysis#jimmy analysis#mouthwashing analysis#system stuff#traumagenic system#actually traumagenic#did system#rape cw#abuse cw#long post
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in a wild turn of events, the professor teaching the early christianity course im taking was and continues to be the only one treating the election results with any sense of proper gravity
#college#us politics#the way im taking a ccm class on rhetoric and the professor gave a cursory#‘this is why education matters’ speech and proceeded to power on through without mentioning it#meanwhile this old white guy went on a whole diatribe about truth and learning#and keeps connecting what we’re learning to contemporary issues#and it’s not surprising that he’s doing it just to be clear#dude was tying biblical eschatology to the us’s problematic handling of israel’s genocide against palestinians#what’s surprising is how much less my other professors are doing#poor dude’s trying to uphold academic scholarship on christianity in college settings so hard#he keeps bringing up the recent conservative evangelical turn in the scholarship overall#like genuinely i have to respect this dude
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Look I like Roger enough, I understand what he represents and I generally don’t think he was a bad dude. I do however think he was shit at interpersonal relationships because, what the fuck. Whitebeards crew is infinitely more well adjusted and I’d say he arguably had the more traumatic death.
Like what even, what kind of planning leads a 53 year old man to sire a child knowing he is dying of an incurable illness and is about to turn himself in to be excuted by the marines where he will cause so much chaos it is literally still turning the world on its head 22 years later. He knew he was going to cause so much of a stir that he literally disbanded his crew and told them to spread far and wide to keep them safe. Because he knew the marines would hunt them far and wide But yet he still brought a baby into the world. Babe. What the fuck? What even is that? What was the thought process. I sincerely hope it was an accident and not a deliberate attempt to bring about a new era.
Because if so babe I need to see the recipe or I’m afraid we can never let you cook again
#even tho that baby was ace and I love ace#it’s the way I don’t think there is a single former member of his crew that we’ve seen that I would say is currently happy#like don’t get me wrong I respect his will he seems like a great dude#but you know what they say about great men they’re often not good men#like definition he burned to bright he couldn’t help but leave all his loved ones in the dust as he burned himself out on a fiery explosion#the absentee father vibes are strong with this one#I would argue that he gave all 3 of his sons complexes#fucking ace has such terrible self worth issues and lived his life waiting to die.#shanks is also trying to drink himself to death is so chill it is literaly hazardous to his health and had his dreams arrested at 15#and Buggy is the worst case of forgotten child syndrome and arrested development that I have ever seen#I wouldn't say someone like Marco is currently happy but you can definetly see a future where he is after the grief settles a little more#but it’s been 22 years and Rayleigh is still drinking himself into a stupor and waiting for the second coming of his captain#gol d roger#portagas d. ace#gol d. roger#roger pirates#whitebeard pirates#throwing thoughts to the void#one piece#op#one piece thoughts#one piece meta#I know people like to paint his as this mastermind that practically orchestrated the current happenings in canon#but I think they forget just how much that would make him a giant asshole. pulling the strings of peoples lives#which is such anthesis to everything we know about him and his resemblance with luffy he’s never try to control his crews lives#especially not from beyond the grave#I genuinely think he planned none of it he was just a man trying his best and falling short in some areas#shanks#silvers rayleigh
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i understand the frustration with “i made this gay pairing cis x trans so they can still have biological babies” with no thought to other methods and how ppl assume thats the case when it comes to mothpool aus where mothwing is also the mother of the three, but also…. idk i kinda dont give a shit if someone wants to do that and i dont really think its inherently transphobic as long as its handled with care and respect.
what really concerns me about this debate is how some people are adamant that you cannot portray trans people having biological children in media or youre being disrespectful. and im gonna say as a nonbinary person who doesnt want children for themself- thats kinda fucking weird? like i understand that for some people, theyre trans themselves and theyre speaking from a place of dysphoria, and i absolutely get that, which is why i think the topic should be handled with nuance and diversity in trans characters, but like…. guys. pregnant trans men exist irl. trans women get people pregnant irl. trans ppl’s ability and right to parent and have biological children are being debated irl. we get denied the opportunity to adopt as well.
in a climate like this, are we SURE we want the stance on rewrites and headcanons in the silly cat books to be “if you portray trans characters having children, especially with a gay couple, youre a transphobic freak no matter what!” does it really matter? especially if its being done by a trans person handling the topic with nuance who has a lot of trans characters with varying perspectives?
obviously yes, remember that thats not the only way certain gay couples can have kids, remember that not every trans person is fully comfortable with it and keep that in mind, remember that surrogacy and adoption are also perfectly valid ways to give fan babies- but remember that there are OPTIONS. not that you need to condemn the idea of transgender parents in the first place unless they fit the very specific criteria of “proper transgender representation” and anything that dares deviate from that is proof the op is a transphobic monster (bonus points if theyre a trans creator bc i mostly see trans people getting shit for this and it kinda pisses me off. although idm if cis people do it either as long as theyre handling it with respect)
#and this isnt getting into how trans mothwing outside of mothpool is a really good way to read her character#sorry. remembered the shit bonefall got despite being trans as well and got annoyed#that especially annoys me bc hes got plenty of surrogacies but the second hed touch a trans pregnancy#‘’no you cant do that!!! you freak!!! obviously you only see trans people as a loophole for gays to have babies!!!’’#also my gf and i were talking and obviously take this with a grain of salt bc this is our experience#but…. i think a lot of the ppl saying this……. havent really talked to trans women?#dude some of the ones i know LOVE the idea of getting people pregnant#did you know trans women have sex? did you know trans people in general have sex?? did you know trans people irl wanna start families?#did you know that? did you? or do you black out at the idea of a trans woman being anything but strictly pure and nonsexual#and OBVIOUSLY this is not every trans woman. some do have dysphoria around the idea#but im genuinely starting to wonder how these people act around irl transgender parents#whether they had kids before or after coming out#bc ngl. the attitude that thinking about this makes you a transphobic pervert?#directed at trans people making content for themselves?#im starting to think you all just dont want us to reproduce. if we reproduce we arent ‘’good’’ trans people#because a ‘’real’’ man wouldnt carry a child. a ‘’real’’ woman would carry the child. and god forbid the gays even THINK about reproducing#and being around children!#if we have children then we’re doing things that might make cishets look at us and declare we’re not perfect#we’ve proved we’re not just identical to cis ppl!! (and therefore deserving of respect!)#idk. i think this was mostly a case of tumblr going ‘’oh someone said no to this so lets push this to an unhealthy extreme!!’’#and i cant help but notice nobody really brings up nonbinary parents at all in this discussion#not that we have it ‘’better’’ or anything for that but yknow. are we supposed to swear it off?#is the idea of us having kids inconcievable? or worse…. does it mean we ‘’picked a side?’’#so its not even worth getting mad at a pregnant nb person bc ‘’well thats a woman so who cares’’b#HMMMMM.#ohhhh i bet they also get mad if you make transfem pregnancy possible too. no winning#idk really think about it when you go ‘’you can NEVER EVER portray a trans person starting a family. bc REAL trans people would never.’’#ohhh you probably get mad when trans ppl dont get surgery for one reason or another dontcha#whether we want to or its not in the cards for us for whatever reason like cost and such#(while also getting mad if we do bc we cannot win in this no matter what)
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just read this part of the adventurer's bible and
do you think toshiro was originally attracted to falin (whilst still being irritated by many of her same traits in laios) because he thought his father would find her interesting???
#undescribed#eliot posts#dunme#dungeon meshi#dm spoilers#idk how i feel about him#my first impression was positive bc he had a cool character design (and i found him quite handsome personally lol)#but also he was mean to laios :(#but also laios was asking him intrusive questions and messing up his name#but also he should have just spoken up instead of expecting others to just read his mind#but also dude was a nobleman in what looks like feudal era japan#which to my (albeit limited) historical knowledge had even more intense politeness rules than like. the victorian era#so if the dunmeshi world is like the irl era then it could be a cultural thing that he felt he couldn't vocalize that stuff directly#and also he was in love with falin and seemed to like her weirdgirl tendencies. which i appreciate and respect. like. me too dude.#but also how much was genuine feelings and how much was seeing her as a novelty?#BUT ALSO did his family own fucking SLAVES??? and was he cool with that???#or did i miss something/am i misunderstanding something?#like is the guy having a sixpenceee moment here#or am i just misunderstanding context/history here?
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love when new ppl ask how me and my bf met and I have to choose whether to tell them "oh we met at a party" or the actual real unsanitized truth of "we met at a party where he got absolutely plastered and trailed after me the entire time failing to hit on me and then again at a separate party where he spent the entire time glued to my hip grabbing my waist and hitting on me until we made out in my friends closet but it's ok bcos I was into it and kinda baited him and he was respectful with it". literally have to become a PR professional trying 2 decode my target audience in any conversation. which is awful bcos its usually like the first question people ask. man I don't know you like that.
#it sounds so bad but i was also so aggressively dragging him along the entire time#he wouldnt even kiss me first i had to literally bait him closer to me cos he got shy#jay says a thing#boytoy tag#rly funny cos while i was having the time of my life flirting with this cute boy who came on so strong#my bff was fighting 4 his life trying to get this supposedly 'chill' dude to leave him the fuck alone#words cannot describe how genuinely respectful bf was the whole time#if i told him 2 chill he did if i wanted to back off he gave me that space#only reason i kissed him is cos i knew he was an actually good guy#and now we're here <3 deeply madly in love#all bcos i wore platforms 2 a party i knew he would be at bcos i knew how much he liked tall people
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“stizzy” and “edizzy” this “steddyhands polycule” that i’m being violently sick on my shoes actually
#ofmd spoilers#fucked in the head if you think stede would touch izzy with a ten foot barge pole#stede might come to respect his skills as a pirate but fucking hell#he actively daydreamed about killing him for hurting ed#he left ed for fucking dead on the ship#and you think this is gonna be a love story that includes izzy#i’m seeing people genuinely thinking their ‘arc together’ this season is a love one#bro 🤡#it is fucking not and sometimes you really are just wrong#like you’re actually radged. off your rockers#just. you have this beautiful love story between ed and stede#and you want to invite the dude who almost killed them both to the party#who is racist and homophobic and emotionally abusive to the point of pushing ed to suicide#the fuck is wrong with you actually#fandom wank#quill to paper#swinging a bat at a hornet’s nest i don’t care. ship what you want but it’s a no from me
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sometimes i think abt towa and argentine in the very last manga chapter n cry
#*・゚⊰ 𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐃𝐒. ⊱ ✦ › OUT.#waaaa waaaa my lucifer my boy-king and the respect and power he doesn't even want but deserves sm#dark wouldnt want towa n argentine's help if he could go without it!! all his theft has been bc he cared#n its the fact he n dai care tht they genuinely deserve the sort of trust respect n acknowledgement from the niwa fam#that the rest of the world who doesnt properly or intimately know the likes of dark n dai doesnt afford them#i justttt wooooughhhh towa argentine gratefully graciously bowing themselves with fealty#to dark who's always been bearing all this insane burden and self-expectation alone#all by himself#afraid even of that solitude but nevertheless doing everything he could for the sake of#what he felt was right saving the artworks saving precious things even if he had to steal them away and disparage himself#more and more (the more he succeeds the more he disgraces himself as a villain and a criminal)#aaaa waaaa INNER NIWA FAM CHARAS r just so special.... THEY GET TO SEE IT ALL...#how heavy the pressure is on dark n dai both actually despite the superficial layers like elmroot says#the 'outer self' that enjoys being a phantom thief and then the inner that 'hunts his own kind'#how tired dark is sometimes...#well. w/e. point is niwa fam chara writers who ever take this into account ill kiss u forever#dark can be annoying or behave in spoiled/lazy/belligerent ways sometimes but it rlly makes him and dai more like the#rebel angel leader / boy king example i try to write them as. they still care ofc they doooo#it's just they're the equivalent of the highest seat holding together their little country#their miniature empire that dark n the niwa have built up over yrs n yrs n yrs!!#dark never claims himself a king or a prince he doesn't throw his weight or titles around like that#but between paradise lost and POTO's occasional angel of darkness/PRINCE of darkness#the vibes are there in between the lines. they r right there. this dude has so much hes taking responsibility for#even though he doesn't even Have To. but in doing so- he is. and SHOULD rightly be supported#in the manner of someone in service demonstrating loyalty to him#ok. ramble over
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i get why people would opt to say walter was a terrible person since the beginning, but i think that's like, the most boring takeaway you can get about his character. he was already insecure and prideful from the start, and it's what would hurt him and keep hurting him. but like, being insecure and prideful are regular traits any regular person can have. the actions that he makes because of these traits, which in turn keep fueling his ego more and more, are what makes him an interesting character. and he was already pretty capable of hurting other people, but he wasn't doing it out of malice, but more because of careless selfishness at first. what makes walter terrifying is that the more he does it, the more he becomes aware of what he's doing, and the more he keeps going and keeps being more and more meticulous and deliberate about what he does that hurts people and even to the point when it was specifically to hurt people.
i think the traits were there in walter from the beginning—the pilot did a pretty good job of establishing how powerless he's felt all his life and just how susceptible he is to letting this newfound perceived power get to his head so easily. he even says this explicitly in 5x06 "Buyout" when he tells jesse "i'm not in the money business, i'm in the empire business". but saying he was this monster from the start kind of implies he didn't undergo through a character arc throughout the show when it's quite literally what he did. he got worse. so much worse. through mostly the fault of his own fragility.
#idk if i put it into words right but i'm just musing#was walter a good person when brba started? up in the air. but his family genuinely adored him. despite feeling like a loser teacher#some of his coworkers actually really liked and respected him. he was just as much of a regular person as anyone else was tbh#you know it's interesting that he and gale basically have the same motivations. why jump to meth of all things. why go from 0 to 100 when#it sounds COMPLETELY ridiculous. but they were both very passionate about chemistry who felt like their potentials were wasted and felt#like they were finally putting their skills to good use again. getting to flex their muscles and shit. whenever they cook better purer meth#than most other people. i think it's a really genius idea to have this premise for the show lol#cz as much as walter is motivated by him feeling like he desperately has to take control of his own life he also is a scientist at heart#who desperately needs to apply his knowledge and skills somewhere where it would feel gratifying#seriously dude you could've tried to get a paper published or two or something. djhdidhd#but the academe has its own Politics and whatnot. so one could only speculate why walt didn't get to pursue that any more#(aside from the whole grey matter industries thing)#anyway uhhh i hope i get the post across lol not to sound cheesy cliche but brba is a corruption slash character deterioration arc#quite literally the whole point is that he Didn't Start Off Like This And He Gets Worse#again. he already had some of his bad tendencies and traits but it's like. we all do that's not necessarily inherently make or break#it's what he DOES and KEEPS DOING. CONSCIOUSLY that turns him into the horrifying man he is by the end of it all#so i just think if your biggest takeaway is Walter Was Always A Monster then you're just missing the whole damn point#op#brbaposting
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sorry i just. need to rant for a second
#cause dude the whole joost situation is SO fucking upsetting#he's mentioned over and over again how overwhelming this whole overnight success thing has been for him and to respect his boundaries#and instead of yk respecting his wishes “fans” go and make things worse by constantly overstepping and being creepy and weird like hello???#like why can't we all just be normal and take a step back and enjoy things#these people are gonna end up driving him off the internet and i wouldn't blame him one bit#and the worst part is the people who should get the memo obviously don't (or refuse to) bc this isn't an isolated instance#like its been going on for a while now#idk man i just think about how hard it must be for him rn#one of the things that turned me into a joost fan (besides his music) was his personality#like i obviously dont know him on a personal basis#but from the little bits ive seen he comes across as a really genuine and sweet and kind dude#super thoughtful as well. like i just love the way he thinks and his take on things#like i remember watching his eurovision interviews and just thinking oh man this dude's a ray of sunshine LMFAO#also the literal definition of resilience like dude's been through so much stuff and hes always managed to come out on top despite of it#and thats something i really admire about him too. like the way he put it as not letting your traumas be just that#but also something that can drive you forward#but yeah dude's had more than enough like he deserves to be happy and have some peace and ppl keep ruining it for him and it makes me upset#like i actually slept like shit last night and woke up feeling terrible and i wonder if what went down yesterday w the whole live thing#has anything to do with it lmfao#and you may be like ok well youre taking it too personally and letting it affect you#and yeah maybe youre right LOL but i cant help it i care about the guy and i want him to be okay#he seems to have a really good support system though so i hope things blow over soon and he can finally have some peace#anyway. rant over! 💋#raquel speaks
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It’s so insane that my job here got so bad so fast I relate it to loml of all fucking things
#like how did I go from feeling like I was literally born to do this#and having been promoted to BAR MANAGER in 2 months#to feeling like I’m the stupidest idiot alive and genuinely EMBARASSED to be taking up space#in 3 weeks flat#it’s fucking insane#and like#yes dumb misogynistic asshole boss is the answer#but it’s like actually some kind of psych warfare not being able to have a single opinion that’s respected and not turned into an ARGUMENT#like full on argument#it’s just WEARING on me dude#I’m so tired and I am so fucking sad#it should not be like this#whatever you say it isn’t right whatever you do it isn’t enough there’s nothing like a mad woman etc
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENSEN!!!!!
#honestly no words can describe the love and admiration and pure respect I have for this person#his mere existence keeps inspiring me on a daily basis#his songs help me through my depressive episodes#i love him i genuinely i love him#im lucky to be alive in the same time period as him#like im not ashamed to say he's become my idol#i adore this guy dude
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