#life is not a checklist

[hum-tittle]

Next time you're feeling unaccomplished for your age, just remember until you're over 36, you've spent most of your life as a child.

Until 50, you've spent less than half your life with a fully developed brain.

It's okay to take your time

It's okay to restart

It's okay to change

Life milestones don't have age limits

You're doing amazing going at your pace.

[theusernameiwantisntavailable]

You become obsessed with your blorbo to the point of no return (hitting them with the babygirl beam)

[egoryann]

Daily Self Care Guide . ݁🌼₊ ݁✧⋆｡🛁˚⋆✴︎

Prioritizing self care can be a task, especially if you have a lot going on in your life. Your mental and physical health can take a toll, making it easier to neglect your needs when it comes to self care. If you are wanting to become more mindful about caring for yourself or have been struggling to find the motivation throughout the day, I have the perfect feel good daily self care checklist for you.

Daily Checklist

☐ Wash face twice a day (morning & night)

☐ Do a 10 minute yoga workout on YouTube

☐ Do a 5 minute journal routine

☐ Drink some water

☐ Make a 30 minute meal - make sure you eat

☐ Listen to a feel good playlist

☐ Say an affirmation, use the app I AM for inspiration

☐ Take a break from social media

☐ When needed, allow yourself a moment to breathe

☐ Take a nice shower or bath

☐ Read a book or listen to a podcast

When life gets hectic little things can easily get neglected. Make sure you take the time to care for yourself. Self care is self love. These are little things that can make a world of a difference in your day.

[seelestia]

got accepted into dream uni!!! ૮ ˶ˆ꒳ˆ˵ ა

[ktsumu]

thinking about how matsukawa issei offers you a smoke at your cousin's funeral, a 'break from the grief', and subsequently changes the entire trajectory of your life you once thought was so feeble

[caligvlasaqvarivm]

wanna ask how you feel about the eridan bpd headcanon/theory(?? not sure what to call it!) you're so good at your character analysis and i'd love to see your outlook on it

Since I don't have a degree or any formal training in psychology, I feel deeply uncomfortable diagnosing characters. I've made an autism joke before but only because I'm on the spectrum. He's definitely traumatized and anxious, but I mean those as descriptors of his behavior rather than capital-D Diagnoses. I try to focus on those when I can - the cause and effect of cognition, self-image, and behavior - and those factors may very well match up with DSM criteria, but I try not to touch an actual diagnosis with a ten foot pole unless the author has explicitly stated that X character has Y condition.

[maeamian]

Bitch ass supreme court tbqh. Send every republican appointed justice to the fucking Hague.

[harrykim]

the 'everyone should be bi' thing rly does piss me off bc like well obviously it's homophobic but it really just falls into that whole buzzword progressive identity thing where people seem to believe in order to be The Most Progressive you have to be all the 'open minded' things and that everything you are has to be about some out of bounds ideology like everyones gotta be bisexual and being trans is about smashing boundaries because actually being non binary is the most leftist thing you can do and they'll often throw in that you have to be polyamorous too and probably hardcore kinky but don't forget to be platonically in love with your friends as well because we have to prove that friendship is just as important as cisheterosexual marriage and it is always, always just your choice to be the Progressive Person with Progressive Identities and you ARE wrong for not conforming to these ideas of non conformity!

[simpotat]

Hey chat who the FUCK was I talking about here

[loveadviceforanxiousbeings]

Things to bring when sleeping overnight at someone else's place

Obviously not all of these will apply to everyone, but here are some suggestions for those who may worry about not taking the right stuff/forgetting something. Some of these items are included specifically to accommodate disabled people and the neurodivergent. If you have any others feel free to reblog or reply with your suggestions!

Any medication you may need, and an extra day's dose if possible

Any mobility aids if needed

Hairbrush

Deodorant

Toothpaste and toothbrush

Wet wipes/intimate wipes

Makeup remover/wipes, any skincare you like to do everyday

Contraception (could include birth control, male and/or female condoms)

Sanitary towels/tampons if you use

Hair ties/bonnet

Shower gel and shampoo

Clothes for the next day (or more depending how long you're staying) and an extra pair of underwear

Phone charger

Headphones/earphones

Fidget/stim toy(s)

Fluffy socks/slippers if you wear them

Something warm to wear (coat/sweater)

Snacks, especially if you have food issues and would prefer eating a safe food

Wallet with some money (cash and/or card)

Any comfort items that might help you feel safer in a new environment (stuffed animal, blanket, etc)

Feel free to reblog/reply with any other suggestions!

[therussiancourier]

au again

-Don't touch me, employee. You're a psychopath

translating only snooore mimimimimi snoooooore mimiimmi

[spawksstuff]

The De Completionist Checklist Part 1/?

1945-1949

My score: 11/ 13 (If I've only seen De's parts but not the rest of the movie/show, I'm still counting it.)

Missing: Gypsy Holiday and Duke Of Chicago

Favorite Movie: Fear In The Night

Favorite TV Show: Public Prosecutor

Favorite Quote: "Will you stop and listen to me or do I have to use judo?" (Variety Girl)

Feel free to reblog and add your own thoughts.

Edit: Forgot Malaya 🤦‍♀️

[snzydarling]

Close Quarters (Gen/Shin, CynoNari)

Hi um. Me after posting late to my own event. nyways this is for @hachiibun !!!!! thank you So much for your patience i hope you like this. I tried to go insp from some art you've posted so i hope its to ur liking!!!!

Cyno was familiar with Tighnari’s nose. Sensitive and easily set off, it wasn’t uncommon to witness one of his fits if you spent a day with him. His ears would twitch and flick, tail swishing with agitation, nose scrunched up against a wrist until he finally succumbed. His awareness is what led to the sinking feeling in his stomach as he watched the other. 

The two were cramped together in a small inlet, waiting for the moment to strike against a large group of enemies. They crouched side-by-side, shoulders pressed together. Cyno quietly observed, watching the furrow in Tighnari's brows, the flick of his tail, watching him scrub a gloved hand against his nose. The two locked eyes, Tighnari’s eyes red-rimmed and watery with unshed allergic tears. He worried his bottom lip against his teeth, sending a message they both knew. Tighnari needed to sneeze, and there was very little he could do to stop it.  

The specks of pollen coating every surface was the clear culprit. While neither of them were allergic, it was nearly impossible to not feel itchy with the sheer amount of it. Even Cyno, prideful of his own control, had to resist the urge to rub his irritated eyes. Tighnari, however, was fighting a losing battle. He aggressively pawed at his nose, leaving it red and angry looking. They both knew his sneezes could never go unnoticed- Tighnari’s fits were pitchy and desperate, demanding attention whether he wanted it or not. 

Cyno adjusts, freeing a hand, prepared to help if needed. Sure enough, Tighnari’s slow, controlled breath snagged, entering a desperate cresendo as he fought against the itch, battle quickly lost. Cyno watches as he crushes the release against his glove, knowing the control will not last. Tighnari’s nose is never satisfied with just one, and a wet sniffle and the crinkle in his nose confirms his theory. He gives cyno a watery look, warning him of what he already knows.

He slowly manevours around so that he's facing tighnari, ignoring his quiet hiss of “what are you doing?!” then, he brings up his hands, gently presses tighnari against his body, and locks eyes with him. Tighnari  nods, breath already stuttering. Cyno can almost feel the tickle, watching his nose wrinkle as he brings up another glove to scrub at it. His breath takes on an almost desperate whine, and he buries himself into Cyno’s shoulder

As it came to a peak, Cynos hands wrapped around hjs head, pressing him further into him. The fabric against his nose set him over the edge, as he tries desperately to silence the much-needed release. 

“h’NGT! h-N’’gXT-h’NdT’iew-! hhI- hN’GT-hH’NDGT-ieww!” Tighnari panted against the rapid releases, and Cyno felt a dampness in his shoulder. “Done?” he whispered, knowing Tighnari’s sensitive ears would pick it up. Tighnari lets out another whine-like breath, hitching and stuttering. “I don’Hht-! Don’t know how many more I.. nGHT-! snF! Can hold back..” he mutters, congestion clear in his voice. 

Cyno presses his hands against the back of Tighnari’s head and presses him further against him. “Let them out. It’ll be okay.” 

Tighnari opens his mouth to object, but with his loss of focus, the need for release overcomes him. He buries himself in the crook of Cyno’s neck, each sneeze more desperate and itchy sounding than the last. 

“hIH-iSHhiew-iShh-i’tSCh’iew-! hAh.. hiDT’sCHh’u! a’TSCHh-sCHh’ieww-! n’GTCh-! iSCHh’u!” Tighnari gasps for breath against Cyno as he watches their targets warily pack up their camp and leave, made nervous by the sudden activity. He releases a deep breath, but there’s no use in being angry. It was an unavoidable outcome. He releases his grip on his companion, trying to plan a next move as he listens to Tighnari’s wet sniffles as he attempts to clean himself up. 

“I’m sorry, Cyno.” He says after a few moments, voice thick and raspy from strain. Cyno shakes his head in response. “It was bound to happen. I’m sure they’ll return.” He stands, dusting the dirt from his clothes, and offers a hand to Tighnari, who takes it after another itchy sneeze aimed into his shoulder. “You need to go home and wash the pollen off.” 

[lilrebelkat69]

[thedevotionaltour]

looking at a reply to some of my tags and i do wish i had chosen another word than mentor for hal kyle dynamic bc even i dont actually see them as mentor-mentee but my defense? late at night and i was already in the realm of idek what im trying to say. my words got away from me. < he doesnt know anything

[eeveeas123]

My goals for now and future years❤️