#it girl blog

[succulentsiren]

How to Prioritize Yourself

(in other words, how to put yourself 1st)

1. Before making a decision, ask yourself, “Is this beneficial for me?”

2. Second ask yourself, “Do I want to do this? If so why?” Make sure that whatever you do is serving your best interests.

3. Always take care of your needs. Treat yourself like you would your child. Maintain your basic hygiene. Make sure you've eaten and drank water. Keep up with your skin care. Give yourself compliments and support your dreams. Be financially stable and provide security for yourself. Give yourself everything you desire.

4. Don’t rush or let others push you into doing something you don’t want to.

5. Put your standards on the pedestal. Form your own judgement about things and don’t be persuaded easily.

6. Do what you set your mind to regardless of opposition.

7. Always be in tune with what you desire and never compromise your standards.

8. Fill your own cup first. Invest in yourself.

9. Set clear boundaries and start saying no when you mean it.

10. Release all shame surrounding your self prioritization. Understand, people won’t care about your wellbeing. You have to be the one looking out for you.

11. Gate-keep yourself from those undeserving of your love and energy.

12. Don't tell all your business. Move in silence and cherish your privacy.

13. Stay self-sufficient.

14. Do the things YOU enjoy. Have your favorite cup of coffee. Eat your favorite snack. Watch your favorite show. Do tarot readings. Read occult books. Wear makeup. Dress up. Don't shrink your beliefs, lifestyle or presence just because someone else disagrees with it.

15. Ignore unsolicited advice.

16. Stop trying to prove your worth and just be. You are already enough as you are. You habe nothing further to prove.

[coven-of-genesis]

Beauty Magic Ideas for Soft, Feminine Rituals

1. Perfume as an Aura Activator

Charge your favorite perfume under the full moon. Spray in a heart shape over your body

Set an intention with each spritz:

“I attract love.” / “I radiate calm.” / “I am irresistible.”

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2. Lip Gloss Glamour Spell

Before applying gloss, whisper your desire into the tube

Use colors intentionally:

• Pink = love & charm

• Red = passion & power

• Nude = honesty & connection

Apply in front of a mirror and say: “My words are sweet and magnetic.”

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3. Crystal-Infused Skincare

Keep rose quartz or amethyst near your skincare products

Use a crystal roller with affirmations like:

“I glow from within.” or “I am radiant, soft, and powerful.”

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4. Moon Bath Beauty

Take a ritual bath on the full moon with rose petals, milk, honey, or bath oils

Set a candle near the tub and imagine the water cleansing your energy

End with body lotion or oil applied like a soft love spell

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5. Hair Brushing Spell

Brush your hair slowly and lovingly, visualizing strength, beauty, and clarity

Say: “With every brushstroke, I clear stagnant energy and restore my shine.”

Bonus: use rosemary or lavender-infused hair oil for goddess energy

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6. Mirror Affirmation Ritual

Light a candle or wear your favorite gloss

Look into your eyes and say:

“I am beauty. I am softness. I am worthy of everything I desire.”

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7. Nail Polish Manifestation

Paint your nails while focusing on a specific goal

Colors as magic:

• White = clarity

• Pink = self-love

• Green = abundance

• Black = protection

Let each stroke “seal” your intention

[auranya]

⋆˚✿˖° February Sunday Reset ⋆˚✿˖°

delete unnecessary apps from your phone. do some yoga. put on a face mask. organize your closet. catch up on tv shows. cook a nice meal. dust around your room and house. watch a new move. take a hot shower or warm bath. get some fresh air. paint your nails. pray. sleep in or go to bed early. meal plan for the week ahead. do something creative.

[staronline1]

All I want is a strawberry matcha 🍵

[dreamyglowdiaries]

Dreamy Glow Diary Log I - Mentality

Welcome to Log 1 of our Dreamy Glow Diary – your safe space for self-discovery, growth, and transformation. In this log, we’re diving into the foundation of any glow-up: your mentality. Think of this as the heart of your journey—where we confront the "why" behind your desire for change. This isn’t just about outer beauty; it’s about cultivating the mindset and self-concept that align with the radiant, confident person you aspire to be.

Why Do You Want This Change?

Let’s start by getting real. Why do you want to glow-up? Is it about feeling more confident, breaking out of a rut, or finally aligning with the version of yourself you’ve always envisioned? Understanding your "why" gives your journey purpose and keeps you grounded when challenges arise. Write it down, reflect on it, and when things get hard come back to it This is the first step in creating a change that lasts.

Why Are You Not Happy With the You Now?

This is a tough question, but it’s essential to ask. What is it about your current self that makes you unhappy? Now, I am not saying you only chose to glow up cause you are not happy, but I know some of us are on this journey because we are unhappy. Maybe it’s self-doubt, negative self-talk, or feeling stuck in habits that no longer serve you. Take time to acknowledge these feelings without judgment. Recognising what’s holding you back allows you to start dismantling those barriers. Remember, growth begins with awareness.

The "Why" Behind Your Current State

Now let’s explore the deeper layers. Why do you think you’ve been stuck in this mentality? Is it because of past experiences, beliefs, or fears you that gave you this mindset. stage one is about confronting the roots not blaming yourself. Understanding yourself and your partens will help you in creating the version of yourself you want.

Steps to Shift Your Mindset

Reframe Your Thoughts: Replace self-doubt with affirmations that uplift and empower you. For example, change “I’m not good enough” to “I am worthy of all good things.”

I- Set Intentions: Decide how you want to feel and act moving forward. Intentions are your emotional compass.

II- Practice Gratitude: Celebrate the parts of yourself and your life that you’re already proud of. Gratitude shifts your focus from lack to abundance.

III- Visualise Your Future Self: Close your eyes and imagine the person you’re becoming. What do they think, feel, and believe? Start embodying that energy today.

VI- Be Kind to Yourself: Change is a process, not a sprint. Celebrate small wins and give yourself grace along the way.

A Mental Glow-Up Affirmation

Here’s an affirmation to carry with you:

I am stepping into a new chapter of my life with courage and clarity. I deserve to feel confident, radiant, and at peace with myself. Every day, I am growing into the best version of myself.

Closing Thoughts

This log is about more than just tackling mental hurdles; it’s about reclaiming your power and rewriting the narrative you’ve been telling yourself. You’re not just embarking on a glow-up journey—you’re redefining who you are and what you deserve. And it all begins here, with the mentality you choose to nurture.

So, let’s take this step together. Let’s embrace the why, confront the now, and dream of the glow we’re stepping into. You’ve got this, and I’m so excited to be by your side every step of the way.

What’s your "why"? Share it below, or keep it close to your heart. Either way, this is the beginning of something beautiful.

[pwppypaws]

Journaling does not have to be neat and aesthetic!!! Writes as messily as you want, use glitterpens because they make you happy, color an entire page with black marker because you needed a distraction and the repetitive movement is soothing, write paragraphs and paragraphs about your favorite tv show or how you make your favorite coffee, doodle silly pictures, fill an entire page with lipstick kisses and coffee spills

Journaling is supposed to make you feel good. It's a safe space you can pour your heart into and help ease the weight on your shoulders. It's not supposed to be another factor of stress because it doesn't look "aesthetic" enough

[heartselfcare]

MEAN GIRL MOTIVATION  

Regina George is one of the most iconic and misunderstood female villains of all time. 

One question reminds: is she really a mean girl?

No doubt we have a mean girl inside of all – but it's Regina’s self assured attitude that makes her stand out from all the rest.

Being a product of the early 2000s– the character of Regina has captivated me for years.

Mostly, her ability to control herself; and everyone around her. 

This is not a column for manipulation and bullying others – rather doing it to yourself.

I always admired Regina’s ability to flip any situation into her own favor.

She uses personal challenges, and her own raw emotions to regain control.

Regina is constantly turning lemons into lemonade: 

Bra Situation

Remember when Cady, Damian, and Janis were plotting against Regina; and the girls destroyed Regina’s top exposing her bra in an attempt to embarrass Regina in front of the whole school– 

But what does our queen bee do? Struts her stuff.

Regina doesn’t spend 1 second harping over the attack on her; instead she uses it to make her own fashion statement that influences everyone around her.

She acts as if the rips and cuts were purposeful; and through false confidence she continued to win the attention, and affection of others. 

2. Turning the Book on Herself

Nearing the climax, Regina is betrayed by all those around her, and in an attempt to regain control over her social status – Regina turns the burn book on herself – proving once again her ability to redirect every situation into her favor.

Yes, the burn book is a shitty thing. 

But when Regina was at risk to being exposed;

she knew exactly how to play her cards.

Regina was always 2 steps ahead~

Already prepared for what she would do if she was at risk of being exposed. 

Although it may not have given her the desired outcome; later being hit by a bus– but it kept her social status in check – which is what she was fighting for the entire time.

3. Flowers at Prom

Remember when Regina got hit by a bus, broke her spine, and still managed to be one of the most beautiful girls at the Spring Fling? Yeah she did that. My admiration for her character is strong with this one. I adore Regina’s Spring Fling dress. Despite gaining weight, losing her friends, and getting run over – Regina turned out. 

Regina’s decorating her back-brace will live rent-free in my mind for decades. Regina used what she already had – her looks, and her personal style.

She NEVER let a bump in the road slow her down.

She wasn’t going to let anything stop her from going to the dance. 

She showed up with flowers in her brace and a smile on her face.

And we ♡ her for that!

4. Anger into Motivation 

Throughout the entire movie Regina and the girls are on a journey of self realization and acceptance. By the end of the movie ��� the cliques disband and the girls branch out into new ventures including

Regina who uses her pent up aggression to become a star athlete. Again, redirecting her anger and frustration onto something that will project herself forward. No longer held back by friendship or relationship drama – Regina is free to express herself and let off steam. She is set free by her redirection. Regina breaks the cycle by finding a hobby that allows her to relieve stress and feel validated by her success instead of drowning in her old clique. 

5. Mindset

I just came across this video TODAY! it definitely goes into detail of Regina's ability to loved -- and feared; and all the things that make her a true IT GIRL

[azsdiary]

University OVER and Out xoxo

I’m actually feeling happy that something good happened! Love my emotions aligning with my situation it can be rare. Glory to God. Y’all. God wants you to prosper this isn’t that go get the life you want it’s easy - sure it’s easy with God walking in His prosperous plan 4 u but be aligned with God. It’s good when good things align

But you have to promise me 1 thing: that you’ll believe

Matthew 9:29 Then Jesus put his hands over their eyes and said, “You will have what your faith expects!” Then he touched their eyes and said, “According to your faith let it be done to you” Then He touched their eyes, saying, “It shall be done to you according to your faith.”

Alexa play Keke Palmer dance alone from 3:37

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV -

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

3 John 2:2

Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well

Psalm 84:11 -

For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord will give favor and glory, for no good thing will He withhold from the one who walks uprightly.

[princessofwallachia]

[theaftersundown]

fanfiction truly being the savior for everyones sanity

[succubunniii]

[succulentsiren]

Girl, it’s time to get out of your own way. You’re too gifted to rot away and suppress your magic. Start facing your fears and conquer them. For once, allow yourself to flourish.🌹

[coven-of-genesis]

Mirror Talk: Affirmations Every It Girl Needs to Hear Daily!

You’re glowing, you’re magnetic, and your aura speaks before you do. Whether you’re entering your main character era, tapping into your divine feminine, or just need a soft reminder of your power — say these affirmations while looking into your mirror. Feel them. Own them. Watch your energy shift.

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It Girl Affirmations

1. I am the type of woman who makes everything look effortless.

2. My energy is soft, but my presence is unforgettable.

3. I attract love, luxury, and aligned opportunities with ease.

4. I am allowed to take up space, speak softly, and still be heard.

5. Everything I desire is already on its way to me.

6. I am the love of my life — everything else is extra.

7. I glow from the inside out — my beauty is effortless and eternal.

8. I am in my era of receiving. I deserve softness, rest, and abundance.

9. People are drawn to my energy. I radiate grace, confidence, and warmth.

10. I move with purpose, style, and divine feminine power.

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How to Use Them:

• Say them slowly while applying skincare or perfume

• Write one on a sticky note & put it on your mirror

• Record yourself saying them & play it back while journaling

• Whisper them before leaving the house like a little spell

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Tag your faves or add your own below. What’s your It Girl mantra?

[auranya]

① I choose to love myself at every step of my journey.

② I am enough even on my toughest days.

③ I deserve to be happy and loved deeply.

④ I choose thoughts and words that align in the life I desire.

⑤ I am proud of where I am and excited about where I’m going.

⑥ I accept myself unconditionally.

⑦ I deserve to be here.

⑧ My worth is not determined by the opinions of others.

⑨ I forgive myself for past mistakes.

[nephritebabie]

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