#lessons i learned

[not-really-a-writer]

I used to downplay the importance of a good sex life in a relationship. Now I know that while sex isn’t everything, it is a strong indicator of the relationship health overall. If you don’t feel safe or respected expressing yourself during sex, then the same goes for your relationship. Toxic sexual dynamics mean that you’re in a toxic relationship. No healthy relationship will have you feeling sexually inadequate or unwanted. No one who genuinely loves and respects you will ridicule you in the bedroom or make fun of what you’re into.

[fleshia]

“ perverts “ — filet crochet by me

[amicemetanoia]

I have learned a few lessons.

1 - Always plan events up ahead or you‘ll be disappointed

2 - Don‘t let people get too comfortable at your home and be extremely picky about who you invite over

3 - Don‘t invite over people who wouldn‘t invite you over to their place unless they have a very good reason to

4 - Don‘t spend any money on people who don‘t give anything back and never do any favors for you or give you any gifts even if they could based off their financial situation

5 - Don‘t fucking let people eat at your place unless it‘s at the table or you know said person is very neat when eating on your couch

6 - If someone makes a mess at your home, it‘s their duty to clean up and you don‘t invite them over again

[batsyheere]

"So, handling your archnemesis," Danny starts. The room falls quiet, heads slowly turning to look at the man as he writes the words on the chalkboard. When finished, the characters somehow both messy and neat at once, Danny places the chalk back down and claps his hands.

"I typically call them fruitloops. Often they're in a better position than you are- older, richer, more powerful. They may have some sort of status that protects them when facing the public."

Tim wondered where Dick was right now, and if he was laughing. His brain was lagging like a computer as he tried to process what Danny was saying, and how seriously a few of his fellow teen vigilantes were taking this.

"Some of their more common tactics are-" the chalk was picked back up, and Danny writes as he speaks.

"Manipulation, isolation, conditioning, and empathy."

MICE.

Tim stares at the board, and quietly slips put his phone.

-What have I done to deserve this.

Enjoy your lessons Tim-

His head thumps against the desk. Conner leans over, gives him a pat on the shoulder but returns to taking notes as Danny goes on to explain the conditioning tactic.

[chloesimaginationthings]

FNAF Abby and Gregory discover Michael is an artist too

[tippenfunkaport]

You know, it would be amazing if Hollywood learned the right lesson from the success of Nimona. Something like "Hey, maybe don't throw out a nearly done movie as a tax write off" or "people want queer stories" or even "don't be afraid to take some storytelling risks and be original" but you just know they're going to come away with some absolutely batshit takeaway like, "next time delete all the evidence and burn it to the ground so the gays can't make us look bad!"

[lunian]

made a couple of posts about Astarion being hilarious gremlin but never made a collection of Gale's silly talks?? I should've fixed it

[shannon41511]

Lessons I learned from dating - by Shannon Dickinson (substack.com)

[hinamie]

playing around w slightly different hair renders

[snazzycicada]

[unhappy-sometimes]

Becky’s dark past

becky will never live that down

honestly, the whole episode where becky relentlessly flirts with loid was so hard for me to watch, i was DYING from second-hand embarassasment. when i first read it in the manga, i think i just skipped that chapter altogether

[wise-blue-cookies]

Dick, training baby robin: If a guy in white looks like a wannabe Batman shows up, you start throwing things at him and spray water in Bruce's face and tell him " Doomed yaoi is not the way to go"

Robin!Jason: Why would I need to do that ??

Dick , w/ a thousand yard stare: You don't wanna know...

[wannabemasterofwindintraining]

Morro's not a very good mentor

[boredth]

But he's still... John Wick

[chanstopher]

Boom