#lesboys are valid!

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

I always wonder why people don’t like lesboys then I remember that not everyone knows people can call themself a boy in a nonbinary way. I’m a nonbinary boy and a lesbian, so by definition I can call myself a lesboy if I want to, and for a while I was too scared to because I don’t want people to think I’m a binary boy who calls myself a lesbian when I’m very much NOT a binary boy!

I understand that a cis guy calling himself a lesbian in bad faith gives lesbians the ick (including me!) but that’s not the case for 99.9% of people who use the lesboy label. Yes it includes binary trans men, but some can’t help that they still feel a connection to their lesbianism even after their egg cracks, they used to ID as girls/women after all!

I, personally, wouldn’t date a trans man even if he calls himself a lesbian but that’s just me, and a lesbian dating a binary trans man who also calls himself a lesbian in good faith doesn’t affect me personally in anyway. This is the same for Turigirls (the counterpart to Lesboy) but I’m not a girl or romantically/sexually attracted to men so that’s not a label I feel like can talk about.

Conclusion: Lesboys and Turigirls are valid, and they’re our fellow queers and belong in the community regardless <3

[thurio-edau]

um, actually yes, trans men can and will be lesbians. and each time you complain about them 3 (three) more trans men convert to lesbianism

[everyones-favorite-butchboy]

friendly reminder that “boydyke” has existed for a very very very very long time and transmen, genderqueers, trans women, transfemmes and transmascs have been a part of the lesbian community for as long as its been around and we ain’t going no where!

[genderstarbucks]

Lesboys who smoke weed? Real? Never.

Inspired by this bc it's so cute

@someguythatdrawsstuff

[gonzosslaughterhouse]

My lovely wives

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

[bloodpopsoda]

When women engage with mlm / nwlnw, it’s fetish.

but when men engage with wlw / nmlnm, lesbians aren’t being inclusive enough.

What is this double standard ?

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Controdictory label culture is having people close to you be anti-good faith and just having to sit there while they go on rants about how "MAN ARE TRYING TO INVADE LESBIAN SPACES!" And "I'm an inclusionist but I don't support -"

God it's really dumb, I'm not gonna act like I have all the lesbian history in my goddamn head but Butch lesbians that are boys..like that kind of gender non conforming are really not crossing their minds, huh? Also the last one- eugh.

[gg0dzzz]

[scientificbiosecurity]

"lesbian men" when they realize that they aren't lesbian and just making allat up to look special (they are straight)

[cryinginthefkncorner]

Do you accept m-spec women into all sapphic spaces and understand they are individuals not responsible for the actions of people who hurt wlw like a normal person, or do you demonize them and blame them for the fetishization lesbians face at the hands of perverted cishet men like an exclus misogynistic pick-me freak?

Please note there is a right answer and the validity of your opinions on the queer community rely on giving and holding true to the right answer.

[plague-and-creatures]

People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me

And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian

Apparently????

It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation

Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men

And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"

Literally grow up

[cybrfngzz]

gender and sexuality is complicated. im a lesbian, my boyfriend is gay, its a sapphic relationship, but also an mlm relationship.

[ilviloebseie]

I find it funny that if you call out people for being lesbophobic who are usually mostly immature minors, and that mspec "lesbians" don't exist they'll literally prove how lesbophobic they are, and will talk about how so and so existed in history, as if there wasn't several problematic flags/terms, that were used in history and called out later, this is literally one of the dumbest excuses Lesbophobes use. There was a time with other problematic things existed but couldn't be focused on because the had other problems, but now as we have involved we can call out these problems that's literally how you grow over decades it doesn't matter if you think it's small it's not to a person who's whole identity is being talked over by a person who's not even lesbian. I'm not lesbian so I don't have a place to talk over lesbians or have a say on lesbianism but I can: listen to their voices because I know just from this app alone how isolated you all make them feel, because they're the only sexuality that doesn't like men, and you villainize and seem to only talk over lesbians and gay men, not only that some of you stereotype them as any other type of queer phobia to other communities, when they speak on their issues respectfully and when really any queer phobia comes from every community and it's just as lesbophobic to them. You can easily call out any type of queer phobia to EVERY community, without targeting a one whole community.

Lesbian: a person who's NOT a man attracted to anyone who's NOT a man (zero attraction to men, sexually or romantically it's not possible, there's a thing called bi-romantic homosexual, because that's an umbrella term, lesbian is not an umbrella term.) Please for the love of god learn the difference between sapphic and lesbian.

But I'm not gonna argue with minors or immature adults, who like to pretend they aren't lesbophobic and tbh they just don't like when they're not involved, and when it doesn't affect them, and They know they're wrong too when they turn off the comments or when they have a petty reply "lmao" "womp womp" how original. You are proving the point, even Tiktok is not as bad as this.

[arlosworld91]

Friendly reminder anyone can be a lesbian. <33

All gays and lesbians are valid.

Fuck the label/identity police.

[gonzosslaughterhouse]

Part 2 to the OG post that’s literally being reposted on every other platform

Thank yyoi everyone I will definitely post more objectum kissing if you want!! <3

IF YOU SEE THIS I WANNA SEE YALL REBLOG THIS WITH YOU KISSING YOUR OBJECT PARTNERS WITH LIPSTICK!