#Turigirls too!

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

I always wonder why people don’t like lesboys then I remember that not everyone knows people can call themself a boy in a nonbinary way. I’m a nonbinary boy and a lesbian, so by definition I can call myself a lesboy if I want to, and for a while I was too scared to because I don’t want people to think I’m a binary boy who calls myself a lesbian when I’m very much NOT a binary boy!

I understand that a cis guy calling himself a lesbian in bad faith gives lesbians the ick (including me!) but that’s not the case for 99.9% of people who use the lesboy label. Yes it includes binary trans men, but some can’t help that they still feel a connection to their lesbianism even after their egg cracks, they used to ID as girls/women after all!

I, personally, wouldn’t date a trans man even if he calls himself a lesbian but that’s just me, and a lesbian dating a binary trans man who also calls himself a lesbian in good faith doesn’t affect me personally in anyway. This is the same for Turigirls (the counterpart to Lesboy) but I’m not a girl or romantically/sexually attracted to men so that’s not a label I feel like can talk about.

Conclusion: Lesboys and Turigirls are valid, and they’re our fellow queers and belong in the community regardless <3

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

Nyan cat is a Lesboy and Tac nayn is a Turigirl mwah

Nyan Cat is a lesboy and Tac Nayn is a turigirl!

[loveletterliom]

TURIGIRL && LESBOY -BODIMENT

— TURIGIRLBODIMENT - (1ST IMG) - a gender related to being the embodiment of (a) turigirl, the embodiment of the turigirl experience, etc — LESBOYBODIMENT - (2ND IMG) - a gender related to being the embodiment of (a) lesboy, the embodiment of the lesboy experience, etc

looked everywhere for turigirlbodiment and couldn't find it so made these ourselves (if someone actualy made these & we couldn't find them ill lose my mind /LH)

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

contradictory label culture is IDing as a lesbian and a lesboy at the same time bc I'm both a man and not a man 💅✨️

💗

[sirenium]

I know we like to talk about people who claim to be for queer weirdness and really aren't, but it's also important to point out that there are people who will wholeheartedly say they don't want us to 'make up more weird shit'. There's a certain brain rot circulating that makes queer people with relatively baseline queer identities throw the queers with more complex and non-normative identities under the bus. I reckon it's a strain of the pick-me virus that causes a monogay or binary trans person with 'normal' pronouns to go 'you make us look like jokes!' or 'not all queer people are like THOSE freaks!' when faced with, say, someone like me: the loveless aroace, m-spec boybutch multi-agender individual who uses neopronouns and xenogenders.

Making cishet society question their ideas of sexuality and gender does not end at Kevin the monogay trans man with he/him pronouns. While that is more digestible than m-spec lesbians and gays and, god forbid, lesboys and turigirls, sweeping these very real queer experiences under the rug to make yourselves more palatable to cishets just makes things worse for queer people. You are only fighting for the acceptance of part of the community, and you're leaving the rest of us in the dirt.

[denversucksdik]

somebody please explain to me, not what, but HOW a lesboy or gaybian or turigirl or whatever you wanna say is. because the only thing i can think of is a trans man/woman who still has a deep connection with their agab, at least in terms of sexuality, which i can understand as a tmasc lesbian. but i genuinely do not understand how a fully cis man can call himself a lesbian.

[fournets]

am i allowed to say lesboy brian bc. yeah . lesboy brian...

[hauntedaether]

need more mspec positivity posts. lesboys and turigirls of all kinds i love you

[our-turigirl-experience]

I’m actually trying to figure out if I’m a turigirl

What is it exactly?

(note: the wiki doesnt include every example of why someone may be a turigirl, just a few examples)

[the-gentleman-of-the-dark]

Radinclusive gay/turian flag

So, i just wanted to make a gay flag that will be absolutely inclusive for every gay person.

purple stripe represents gays who identify with man, male or masculine genders;

red pink stripe represents gays who identify with woman, female or feminine genders;

yellow stripe represents gays who are non binary, androgynous, multigender or intersex gays;

white stripe represents inclusivity, mspec gays and turigirls positivity;

turquoise stripe represents queer attraction to men in any form and shape.

This flag can be used by everyone who identifies with term "gay" in any way and who feels queer attraction to men!

[freakgendered]

PTSDcorpse: a gender that's under the gender corpse system that means being a corpse and having PTSD, being a corpse that has PTSD.

OCDcorpse: a gender that's under the gender corpse system that means being a corpse and OCD, being a corpse that is OCD.

HPDcorpse: a gender that's under the gender corpse system that means being a corpse and having HPD, being a corpse that has HPD.

NPDcorpse: a gender that's under the gender corpse system that means being a corpse and having NPD, being a corpse that has NPD.

All ids in alt // tagging @revivedgender

( side note: I am having so much fun with making these gendercorpse flags w/ disorder flags oml)

[en8y]

i need to streamline the tagging system on @/turigirls bc its really frustrating rn

[loveletterliom]

PUPPY LESBOY && PUPPY TURIGIRL — lesboys + turgirls who feel connected to dogs or puppies in some way, are otherkin therians whtevr, etc... if u like dog aesthetics too idc !!!!!!

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

why am i a butch ans a femboy at the samw time hello

Because you're cool 😎

[sirenium]

Give me more lesbians who date men too, who aren't MISERABLE and forcing themselves to do so because of compulsory heterosexuality. Give me more lesbians who ARE men: cis, trans, somewhere in between, both, neither. Give me gay men who also date women happily, who are women themselves to whatever extent. Give me queerplatonic relationships between a gay guy and a lesbian. Give me a lesbian and a gay guy who are friends with benefits. Give me multigender turigirls and lesboys. Give me an individual who is polyamorous and aroace, more gaybians, more nondysphoric trans people, more she/her guys and he/him women, more it/its and nounself users, more queer teens who go by Arson. I could go on and on, but to sum things up: give me the sides of the queer experience that are hidden even by other queer people. Show me the box breaking, the line crossing, the beautiful complexities that arise from being queer. Give me the 'cringy' identities. Give me the historical identities that people are trying to erase. Preserve what they're trying to snuff out.

[corporatecoinings]

DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK

Emojicode : 🐲🌈🔥/ 🐉🌈🔥

LINK TO THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK CARRD

A new label! Dragonqueer/dragonpunk (either name works, same thing!) is a queer stance about not being afraid to show how prideful you are about yourself, not being afraid to show yourself, or at least have a desire to want to express how you TRULY are and give the bird to the societal norm standards and those that hate you, existing to spite them; dragonqueer/dragonpunk beings can still live in caves (be closeted) too, however. A major aspect to dragonqueer/dragonpunk is also hoarding a shit ton of labels that describe yourself! Dragons love their hoards :) 

Due to history of dragons, they are seen as either evil and terrifying or benevolent and kind. Dragonqueer/dragonpunk aims to be both; be punk, be scary, be yourself, be unforgiving for who you are while also being a kind-hearted and loving being. There are dragons of all kind; western, easter, wyverns, wyrms, hydras, and so there is too in queer communities. Whichever kind of dragon you are is completely up to you, and you alone; you decide who you are. 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk supports/believes…

LGBTQ+, MOGAI, LIOM, etc.

Xenogenders, neopronouns, etc.

Neoagabs/xenoagabs

Good-faith labels

Systems of all origins

Arissomei, desirdae, chronosians, aldernic, aldersex, allions, vesil, vior, xenonatured, eiment, etc.

Otherkin, therians, non-humans, alterhumans, etc.

Neurodivergent, mentally ill, disabled beings

Beings with munchausen's syndrome, factitious disorders, etc.

Hypersexuals 

Gender hoarders / gender collectors 

Multigender / polygender / etc.

Safe and anti-contact paraphiles (not acting on illegal shit??? This should make sense.. If its harmful. Dont act on it.)

Microlabels

Atypical dysphoria

PLUR

M-spec lesboys, turigirls, etc.

Contradictory labels

Systemarchy 

Pluralpunk/systempunk

Furries

Age/pet regressors

MAD pride

Reclaiming labels you can reclaim (queer, dyke, fag, freak, etc.)

Anti-psychiatry

Being endogenic/willogenic is not the same thing as being “transplural”

Educated self-diagnosis

Fiction affects reality

You can be trans without dysphoria

You can be a system without trauma

OC x canon is epic as long as its legal

Objectum and robosexuals

Supporting ex-cops, ex-gov, ex-military, ex-radqueers, ex-transids, etc. that have left their community and wish to recover

Abortion rights, womens rights, animal rights, etc.

Atheism

Kink at pride (when there are no bodily minors)

BDSM (as long as everyone consents and there are no bodily minors)

recovering/ex-religious beings

Consentual recovery for those that want it 

Supporting victims 

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk does NOT support/believe...

Harmful and pro-contact / neu-contact zoophiles, pedophiles, necrophiles, etc. (yet again if its harmful dont fucking do it)

Minors in nsfw communities, minors in kink, or having public kink where minors are around

That “all men should die” or “all women should die”

Harassing innocent cishets

Active radqueers and transids/transx

Terf, radfem, transmed, sysmed, etc. views

Harmful religion

Demonizing or stigmatizing disorders

Singlets in syscourse

“Superstraight”

Heavy political views, such as conservative and liberal

Proshippers, comshippers, darkshippers, etc. (how hard is it to say no illegal, abusive, etc. ships holy shit)

Lolicons and shotas

Racism or prejudice of ANY kind

Ableism

Forced recovery

Mental asylums

Exclusionists

Bigots

Dragonqueer/dragonpunk is neutral on...

Religion in general (dragonqueer/dragonpunk is inherently atheist)

catqueer

THIS IS THE OFFICIAL DRAGONQUEER/DRAGONPUNK. PEOPLE THAT WANT TO "RECLAIM" THIS LABEL WILL BE FACED WITH FIRE !!!

@ghosting-plural-userboxes thought you'd wanna see this, just comment if you want us to remove your tag from this post ^-^