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Associate with the noblest people you can find; read the best books; live with the mighty; but learn to be happy alone.
Saul Bellow
#saul bellow#bellow#quotes#philosophy#wisdom#life#literature#writer#books#write#psychology#learn to be happy alone
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she would've told them unlike her canon! version who decided not to be an ally smh
#one piece#trans!sanji#sanji#kiku#yamato#ワンピース#I'm practicing my japanese shhhhhh#(日本語のペラペラ人:俺は文法とか書く方とか間違ったら教えてください😅ありがとうございます)#translation:#Yamato: I'll be able to get as strong as Oden?#Sanji: Probably... 🤔#[meanwhile Kiku is remembering the time in the hot spring]#(Sanji: Nami-chan!!!)#(Nami: Shut up!! The women's bath is supposed to be a peaceful place!)#Kiku: I am also ⚧️ ... o.o#(y'all english speakers had me all to yourselves for a decade it's about time I start to also sometimes make stuff in my next language lol#notably for media *from* that language#same as it made sense to make fan content in english for [american superhero franchise we don't talk abt anymore] back in the day#(happy seasonal reminder that Ren Is Not A Native English Speaker and This Is My 5th Language hi 😅))#while looking up reference for this I learnt that the straps to tie back the kimono sleeves are called tasuki#also I decided yamato get big muscles cause he got them kaido genes in im (I also gave him his dad's young-man-facial hair)#the more I do transition projections for one piece characters while tryna adhere to the style the more I learn that sometimes stylisation#uses bones less as literal determinants for where things go and just kinda exaggerates shapes based on vibes alone instead#meaning trans characters' bones wouldn't literally stay looking the same in that stylisation in the way they do irl#they'd get exaggerated differently based on what the surrounding stuff is doing#I still think oda's transition demonstration when we first met iva was unreasonable even with that in mind tho
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Love, Dhes
Parker,
It's unfair how time with you feels so short. How the last 10 years have felt like no time at all. I like to think there are other versions of us out there, somewhere. Maybe in another timeline, another universe. I like to think we find each other no matter where we are or what we're doing. That we're together and happy and I get to love you in a dozen different lifetimes. That's what I hope, anyway. And I hope when this lifetime ends, we get to start over and do it all again. Because once just isn't enough. Not for me. Not with you.
I hope the next 10 years pass slower.
Love, Dhes
#ts4#simblr#ts4 edit#ts4 render#sims 4#myedits#sue#dhestyn#kelly#bow#stella#duder the cat#marky#jax#i'm not fucking recovering from this#critical damage has been dealt to me#GODDDDDD this edit took me so LONG.#the GOOD news is there ARE other versions of them & they DO in fact find each other in every universe !!#whether or not they are happy though. well. that's a different story#cough monster boyz. cough slaughter house.#:-)#ngl a lot of the time i was working on this edit all i could think about was how much dhes has grown as a character#like baby dhes genuinely was such a punk. wouldn't be caught DEAD writing a love letter#let alone to kelly of all people#idk i'm just proud of him. seeing him so comfortable with himself... how he's able to show that to others & not feel afraid or ashamed...#it's really sweet!!!#like ik y'all don't know a whole lot about the boys as kids (bc i'm v protective of them so i don't share a lot lol) but trust me.#dhes has come a long way.#genuinely feel like i have watched him grow & learn & change & it does. give me feelings.#n e way. that's it.
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A Christmas Carol, featuring Lord Barok van Zieks and his migrane.
Silly sketches below the cut
#this is the third time I’ve tried posting this#ace attorney#the great ace attorney#tgaa#tgaa spoilers#barok van zieks#kazuma asogi#gina lestrade#maria gorey#klint van zieks#lady baskerville#tobias gregson#albert harebrayne#ryunosuke naruhodo#susato mikotoba#iris wilson#herlock sholmes#I KNOW IM LATE LEAVE ME ALONE IVE BEEN BUSY#happy new year I guess??#year of the Kazuma Asogi#last post of the year if it actually posts this time have a good one everybody :)#thanks for the support#500 for two separate posts is crazy thank you#dai gyakuten saiban#dgs spoilers#dgs#iris is of course Tiny Tim who did NOT die#instead of four ghosts van Zieks gets visited by one ghost and three annoying gremlins#but it’s okay he still learns to keep Christmas all the year#watch Muppets Christmas Carol and play Great Ace Attorney okay bye
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#we trade pain for wisdom#whatever the case may be if it’s you or if it’s me growth and change and learning from the mistakes are all that we can do#to add to it didn’t deserve to know me like that* or appreciate my time etc#but throughout all the hardship I’ve been through with people that I didn’t work out well with (familyfriends romantic relationships)#ive learned a lot throughout my life from people and myself included#I’m grateful and appreciative of the wisdom I’ve gained and how I’ve overcame it but sad & angry at the thought of remembrance#I know what I’m saying is vague and this post isn’t about a specific person but just looking at it as a whole#people who genuinely like you and care about you want the best for you and will want to make things work no matter what#people who value you don’t treat you like shit people who value you show appreciation for you#people who love you let you know just like people who don’t they all let you know#but there’s been some instances where I’ve been the one who made mistakes and caused issues and things of that nature#I’ve taken those mistakes and learn from them and have grown from them since they happened#that’s the point of life learning experiencing understanding and growing#with or without you I will be fine :) I’m happy whether you’re in or out of my life#that statement alone if I had been told that before I would’ve cried my eyes out but now I’m like I’m fine with or without I don’t need#anyone or anything but if you want to tag along that’s fine if you don’t want to that’s also fine the freedom is there#it’s freeing in my heart to say that tbh#I know my worth and what I deserve I’m not going to settle for less
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I am so fascinated at Buck's impulsive jump to move in. Like, this is something he's done twice now. And this time, he couldn't even bring himself to say I love you first. He's talking about moving in together, he's talking about engagement and marriage because they would have the right, he's talking about "why be apart when we can be together," but he can't bring himself to say I love you.
This man wants to love and be loved so badly, he wants to have a partner beside him who will become his forever so badly, but he just doesn't feel it and he just hasn't found it, and he keeps trying to force every relationship to be what he needs when they just aren't and my heart breaks for him.
#i'm going to be honest#if they don't go for buddie#(which i absolutely think they're going for buddie)#buck is actually the character who would make the most sense to end up alone but come to peace with that#learn to love himself and who he is when he's not trying desperately to find and please a partner#he just doesn't love#and accept that he doesn't need someone else to make him happy#now i don't actually think that's where they’d go#i definitely think it's eddie#but if it isn't then buck is the character whose other option would be to find happiness alone#anyway#baby boy you're going to find the love of your life he's right in front of you#but also you've got to love yourself and seek the things that actually make you happy instead of the things you think should#evan buckley#911 spoilers#911 s8#911 8x06#random 911 thoughts
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Was just thinking about the amount of animals Obi-Wan interacts with compared to literally everyone else and in the Clone Wars episode where Kamino gets attacked he literally gets saved twice by the same ray-like animal and just...
The growth from judging Qui-Gon for the 'pathetic lifeforms' he picks up to whatever he has going on during the Clone Wars era. He must have gotten that from Qui-Gon though, right?
And because it's my brain and it's rotting with all the star wars stuff I am consuming I was thinking of Obi-Wan saving all these creatures and the 212th having to deal with that. Surely they made one of the rooms pet proof in case one of them needs a new home. There also have to be clones who love that because of course Obi-Wan can't really take care of rescues on top of all his duties.
After the first few times this happens Cody learns to order animal food and other necessities. And if the Republic doesn't fulfill these requests or asks too many questions he'll just have to make sure to organize them on planet during the campaigns.
#maybe they even keep a tooka or two#for the morale#but seriously#i have been thinking about writing a soft crackfic about this#just the 212th travelling with a whole zoo#already made up my own clones and all#cody is very done but it makes his general happy so who is he to complain?#when the 501st learn about it they start bothering Rex about it#or they ask Anakin ans Ahsoka to do thr same type of Jedi magics#they want pets too can you blame them?#obi wan is pretty oblivious to all of this#he just wants to help!!#and the tenth tooka was looking just *so* sad what was he supposed to do? leave it all alone and sad and scared?#it's just chaos all around#but also so soft#clones don't get a lot of chances to pet any animals during their training and war doesn't really offer these opportunities either#so whenever other battalions work with the 212th and learn about their zoo they get excited#accidental therapy animals for the clones#and the jedi because what better way to find the energy to keep fighting and bonding with an innocent lifeform that gets affected by the war#adoptions go wild#the wolfpack asks Plo for wolves#Plo struggles to say no#star wars#tcw#obi wan kenobi#212th attack battalion#commander cody#accidental animal acquisition#I just remembered vaguely that in one of the Jedi Apprentice books Obi Wan has a bird on his shoulder??#maybe he didn't get this from Qui Gon after all though I'm sure Qui Gon encouraged and reinforced that behaviour
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She gave up her dream, took over her mother's cafe, raised her niece as her own daughter and cared about her brother all this time. I swear if she'll do some stupid little things in the future episodes i'll forgive her for everything
#she's not just female lead she's THE female lead#i cried my eyes out at those flashbacks ngl#i love her already with my whole heart#the female lead we deserve#i just... can't imagine how hard is this i hope she'll find happiness in that future romance with the male lead#and learn to lean on someone else and not to do everything alone#crying again#jey talks#crash course in romance
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I'm 31 and I've never been in a relationship, nor I ever felt attachment, belonging, or desire for affection. I never felt like I needed anyone but myself. I thought highly of me because of that, and I made it my strength as I pursued greatness and enjoyed my life. Playing bg3 made me realize how wrong I was, as everyday I long for the touch of someone that doesn't even exist and for the first time in my life I cry, because I'll never be able to hold him close, hear his voice calling my name or feel his hands touching my own. I cry because there's nothing I can do to change that. And while all of this eats at my soul, I feel pathetic because in the end, I'm not so strong. I'm nothing like the person I've always thought I was.
#whether you want those things or not has nothing to do with strength or weakness#youre just learning new things about yourself its okay#youre not pathetic#and youre not alone here#i hope you find happiness whatever that looks like for you#not dirty confessions#general confessions#queue'd
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I feel like Vi should have gotten a monologue. Vi should have gotten an 'is there anything so undoing as a daughter?' moment where she really thinks about her relationship with her sister– just vi and her thoughts. her real thoughts. I want to see why she finally felt okay with letting jinx go. I want to see her consciously deciding to choose herself for once, instead of just being dragged around by the rest of the characters' motivations or trying to do what she thinks is best for other people. I want her to be selfish and not regret it. I wanted to see Vi making the (unforced!) decision to choose her own peace over trying to help her sister. I feel like jinx saw it and wanted that for Vi, and I wanted Vi to realize that, too.
#like i feel like she got there in the end but i really really wanted a scene where vi legitimately chooses her own happiness and needs#i think that the sex scene did that to some extent– but it also felt a little jarring?#i don't want an implication– i want vi to realize that her ENTIRE LIFE has been spent prioritizing her sister#and now vi needs to learn to prioritize herself#idkkkkk#i think i need to rewatch the act and form more thoughts tbh#but idk. family will ALWAYS come first for vi. she literally can't let her sister go and that was why jinx had to die#i'm glad that jinx recognized what vi had done for her and finally decided to put vi first instead of vi putting everyone else first#but i also wanted vi to put vi first lol#IDKKKK i'm sleep deprived leave me alone#arcane#arcane season 2 spoilers#arcane s2#arcane s2 spoilers#arcane season 2#arcane spoilers#arcane season two#arcane vi#vi arcane#jinx arcane#powder arcane#arcane powder#arcane jinx
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He laid at the brink of death once more, staring at the face of despair. He remembered the path that led him to this purgatory, and with a smile could only ask:
"Shall we be friends?"
#ffxiv#digital art#concept#zenos yae galvus#endsinger#endwalker spoilers#adventurer zenos#eurydice#is just the tag im going to use for the post endwalker endsinger stuff I'll draw#alisaie lives in zenos' head rent free-#but for a man with no fear i find the potential idea of him reaching out to a weakened endsinger both sweet and kinda funny#“oh hey she was right- im not alone here- lets see if I can actually do better” <- the beginning of adventurer zenos#part of Adventurer!Zenos motivation is finding examples of happiness he sees and finds himself to tell her whenever he visits the ultimatum#the eternal question: did he adopt the bird or did the bird adopt him#Also thus begins Zenos having to dig through his own recollection on how to help people- i.e emulating the WoL lol#and endsinger having to deal with reading his mind only to probably get very random thoughts/static and only occasionally something helpful#she very quickly learns that nihility bounces off this man like a ball#he is simply immune
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it’s funny to me that every season of house needs a christmas episode. the one indication of the passage of time
#I wish the indicator was house’s bday. with people slowly learning exactly what date it is#and being prepared to surprise him#UNLIKE IN S1 where he had a lil drink at home and played a sad little happy birthday song on his piano#all alone#shioshpam
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who wants to talk about the political ramifications of a dellamorte & de riva marriage with me. because while the idea of teia planning a rookanis wedding is wholesome and all, let's not get swept up in that. you can't tell me those houses in an alliance (which by default includes cantori too, because you know, teia & viago) wouldn't seem like a threat to the other houses and at the very least ALMOST cause a crow civil war. in other words thank you @7talons for bringing this up literally once because i've thought about this ever since.
#🏹⠀ ── ⠀ ooc : whispers from the fade .#“rookanis live happily ever after and have 50 children” INCORRECT BUZZER NOISE#i feel like we should be thinking about this.... more deeply...#TALK TO ME ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR MARRIAGE OR NOTHING ELSE#they don't GET the luxury of just being able to settle down and have kids. rook and lucanis have work to do together and alone.#also let's not pretend it's realistic for them to rush into marriage. it's not. lucanis was in the ossuary for a year.#rook would have to learn the innerworkings of high society not to mention all the other places in need of help after the gods are defeated#jay and i haven't plotted out a timeline for post-veilguard yet.... but we both know they're taking their sweet ass time whatever happens#the gritty parts of their relationship and the hard parts they'd need to work through are so much more compelling to think about than#playing happy families
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I never stop thinking about how tragic it was that Gojo was only 29. 29 years old and the guy acted like he was the old guard. 29 years old and he was already thinking about leaving everything to the new generation so they could improve society. 29 years old and many act like him being used as a weapon his entire life, both before and after he died, without receiving a funeral or being remembered properly was the best ending he could have.
#gojo losing his powers completely and having to learn to be a normal person would have been the perfect ending for him#BUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO LEAVE HIM DEAD. at least. show me that someone besides Yuji remembers him#that his actions were appreciated that he received a proper funeral and that he will at least be remembered as more than just a weapon#The only thing that makes me happy is at least that my boy Yuji is safe. And that he is not alone#(even when the world is objectively worse than when it all started)#but oh well#Jjk#Jjk spoilers#Jjk Gojo#Jujutsu kaisen
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Chat I was thinking about color and Francesca by Hozier again like an idiot
#houndshowlings#color sans#color!sans#colour sans#othertale sans#othertale#utmv#sans au#sans aus#the way this could fit with killer sure#but also#him and papyrus??#he notices that despite the hardship of having grown up alone until meeting Undyne#papyrus is happy with his sister now.#happy never knowing him.#and never knowing.#no mercy runs.#no deaths.#no resets.#no Deja vu.#no nightmares.#even if colors choice led him to his worse possible ending.#everyone else got their happy ending.#they are happy and safe#’put me back in it’#put him back in the void.#need to think about color was likely such as mess when he got out of the void.#like.#people needed to learn to have patience for him.#instead of the other way around
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im only gonna say this once but i should have known supercorp was going to end up breaking my heart bc why did they have the entire season 1 build up kara and james’ relationship only for it to end up after one date like what are you telling me i had to sit through an entire season of supergirl fawning over james only for them not only to break up but for kara to actually be so annoyed with james like im SO happy they weren’t endgame but that was so unnecessary
#jessrambles#i should have learned#to never trust a show to cater for my heart desires#let alone cw#smh#supercorp had so much eras#evevn a divorce era except for an era for them to actually be together#ARE YOU ALLERGIC TO HAPPY ENDINGS#supergirl#supercorp
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