#just queerphobic and racist and nasty

[nightmareinfloral]

was not into comics in the early 2000s but were people as awful about kate and renee and other queer characters as they are now? like godamm it seems like half the fandom are utter pos

[sunnibits]

I swear to god white cishet boys are like the most baffling species ever because sometimes you will meet these guys who are truly so funny and nice and lovely to hang out with with really genuine kind sides to them once you get past the jokey-ness but THEN suddenly they just come out with the most off-color nasty joke out of NOWHERE and it’s like WOAH WOAH WOAH buddy I thought you were better than this??? hello???????

[jejushipbracket]

hey, anon here again

i was thinking of maybe submitting something from there, but i also suck at explaining things so i was hoping that you might already know what happens in it, so i could just say something vague and you'd understand anyway

after a little thought i decided i probably won't

sorry, that ask did look a little weird

Sorry! The tags felt a little on-edge but I also suck at portraying anything but contempt or devotion online.

Don't be afraid to submit anything from it, doesn't matter to me if the media in of itself has a lot of problems (unless it does become hard to ignore and/or the mention of it is prone to causing everyone in a 10 mile radius to groan) since we've already had a lot of Vrisrezi in here or if your explanation of the media is lacking. Some people have submitted very unconvincing thoughts in it and I'll still take them because I also do some research and/or ask some people who might know more. Modding isn't just me taking your word for fact, I promise there's at least a little bit of investigation going on so things go by smoothly.

I'm being very cautious with some asks however since I've had some forays into running public tumblr blogs and sometimes anons think I'm attacking them directly and/or want me to say something and take it as an absolute truth and then get mad at me for it.

This does not mean that any person sending in an ask or a poll submission should feel as if I, Jejushipbracket mod Tox am going to go to their house and kill them. I'll probably just delete your submission and/or ask if it sucks ass, but it /really/ has to suck ass for me to delete it.

Apologies for the perceived hostility on my part, too!

[awakefor48hours]

Update: they’re now @dailyanimeships (I'm blocked so no tag there :/) but it's the same person. Update 2: they’re blocked again. Let’s celebrate

Hello everyone, I need your help getting rid of someone that's been harassing people (myself included).

This is the person in question and I need your help to get rid of them and stopping any future harassment.

Even if you're not in the Black Clover fandom, I would appreciate a moment for your time to read this. For a bit of context, if you haven't seen Black Clover, the main ship in the show is Astelle (Asta x Noelle). In the show, Noelle has a massive crush on Asta (think Amity to Luz/Marinette to Adrien/Hinata to Naruto/etc, etc). It's pretty clear that Astelle will be canon but sometimes canon doesn't matter and people ship different things. Now onto this whole shit show.

Harassing in DMs

To start off, they're basically every shade of bigot. My moots and I have gotten really nasty DMs from dailyasnoel and I'm going to censor them because there's pretty bad slurs in them.

The first one was sent to me and the second one was sent to @the-geek-librarian

We're both in a server and everyone in this server (nearly 15 of us) have been blocked. Keep in mind, not a single one of us had ever interacted with them in our lives. We've all tagged our posts properly and haven't said a single negative thing about Astelle or their blog. They went out of their way to send us these DMs with very hateful slurs all because we don't want the same fictional teenagers kissing.

Harassing others

This isn't even the first time that dailyasnoel has gone after people simply for just shipping Noelle with another character. These two, ramiliadoesstuff and kcuf-ad have also posted about been harassed.

Along with that, there is now a ship week for Kahonoelle (a femslash ship involving Noelle) being run by moot @t-f-t (Alex) and this was the response to the original post (a post that was tagged properly and no malice towards anyone) announcing this.

This could've just been the end of it but they felt the need to send an ask to Alex expressing their disgust because there's people who don't want the same fictional teenagers kissing.

Then there's this lovely comment on that post.

Guess who's going to be extremely annoying during Kahonoelle week. (BTW, wouldn't it be really funny if we got them off the internet before their shit ass Astelle week).

Fanfiction

This harassment isn't just on tumblr either, it's on AO3 too.

I scrolled through the Yunoelle (Yuno x Noelle) tag on AO3 and the comments on some of these fanfictions are so vile. There's so many hate comments and I didn't even screenshot all of them because there's so many of them.

I found comments left by people with the username "dailyasnoel" and other guest users with different usernames that make similar comments to dailyasnoel because I assume it's the same person.

Making the Devils Cry

Yuno and Noelle Oneshots

When the Sea Goddess Snaps

Hot Tub Accident

While scrolling the Yunoelle tag, I noticed that there's people who have started limited their comment section, have deleted comments with responses like "dude, calm down," or have made their fanfictions private.

And even as a little side note, I want to make it clear that I was able to look at every single Yunoelle fanfiction on AO3 because it's not even a popular ship. There's only 31 fanfictions for them so a lot of these fanfictions are written by the same authors. On the other hand, Astelle has been consistently the most popular ship in the fandom and even has the most fanfictions. So it's not even like Astelle fans are hurting for fanfictions or that Yunoelle fans are invading their spaces.

The actual blog

The icing on this queerphobic, harassing, racist cake is that they're an art thief. Their blog only has art and all of it is from other people. There's no indication these are reposts, there's no signs that they got permission to repost these, nor any links to the original posters. (original art links > 1/2/3)

If you know nothing about Black Clover or the fandom, I want to make this abundantly clear, this is behavior is unacceptable. This fandom has been very peaceful as of late and this one person does not speak for Astelle fans in the slightest. The Astelle fans I've interacted with are quite lovely, and if Asta or Noelle or Tabata (the creator) saw this, they'd be disgusted.

Whether or not you're in the Black Clover fandom is irrelevant. This is a horrible person and art thief, please report and block this person. Together, we can get rid of this person.

@dailyasnoel I know you have me blocked but if you happen to read this, I want you to know that if this small part of you that you show on the internet is even a modicum similar to how you behave in real life (joking or not), you are going to live a very sad and lonely life.

I hope you enjoy your own company because no one will want to be your friend, no one will support you, and above all else, no one will mourn you. Your absence will be treated with nothing but joy and whimsy because you are a sad and pathetic parasitic monster.

[mueritos]

Hey! Asking about your experience with being punk/punk adjacent and also in academia. How do you handle the two? Punk action and activism is grassroots, which I try to be involved in, but I feel like I’m just speaking big words and writing into an echo-chamber about gender. Like the only good I do is explaining to a group of cis people terminology. What are your experiences on this, if you have any?

Hmm. Yea this was difficult for me to balance too. I'll insert a readmore cuz this got kinda long.

I enjoy academia and research and being able to have more advanced conversations with people, but I was also sick of being in classes or circles of people who I knew would speak "woke" for the sheer fact of looking like good people, but on the down low were incredibly racist, classist, queerphobic, and just down right nasty carceral people. It was difficult trying to sift through who was safe to open up to and who wasn't, because many people were actually liberals in disguise (even if they called themselves leftists or leftist aligned). I also was never shy about being an anarchist/punk, I was the only person who wore my spiked jackets and boots to class, my outfits were loud, but I also began seeing some other queer people I knew wear their own jackets because they were encouraged by me (so that was nice).

I was doing activism on campus while in undergrad alongside the usual academic theory/research stuff, and it turns out that people actually will hate your guts the moment you start pointing out problems. The usual "YOU become the problem the second you point out THE problems", so I faced a lot of social backlash, even from other marginalized people who I had confided in about problems. My advice is that unless you're willing to become one of the most hated people on campus, don't do your activism on campus. It's a surefire way of making enemies, even enemies in people you have never met in your life. There are plenty of local orgs, food banks, and churches with programming that you could be way more productive in than trying to combat institutionalized oppression like that of an academic institution. You can try, believe me because I did, and while I learned a lot about organizing, I also learned when to give up and focus on my community instead of changing systems.

You pointed out that you're getting sick of explaining to cis people. This is definitely something you can stop doing, if you'd like. I stopped giving up my labor to educate other people (within reason) because I was one of the few trans people on campus. But I also have this value that I am not about to let some person walk around with the wrong idea about marginalized communities, so I always speak up when people say incorrect things (this has also caused some yt people to avoid me lol). Of course, you do this with compassion and with the goal of making sure their future interactions with marginalized people go better, but after a certain point, you need to be able to hold your energy for where you want to put it. Put more pressure on your institution or adjacent orgs to have things like safezone training (or bring in queer orgs for trainings/lectures). You can also just tell people some websites to check out instead of answering their questions, because surprise to them, their questions can in fact be solved by a simple search, they just are far too lazy to do that.

I dunno tho. I still struggle with growing so much in terms of punk/anarchist theory and ideas, but i have a serious lacking in actual community organizing. I'm introverted, don't like big noisy crowds, and I am quite socially anxious. Being punk is like my armor in a world that doesn't like me, because I find people fuck with me less when Im in spikes and boots. I find theory and academia so fulfilling for my virgo brain, but I also don't shame myself for not being active in local community. I know there will be a time I will be, but I also know that everyone is helping in the movement in the ways they can. It doesn't matter if that is at the food bank, in protest, on the computer, or by reading theory. All of it is equally important, and some of us aren't going to be good at everything.

I found myself feeling far more productive and alive when I was working with communities I knew would keep me safe. Started surrounding myself with more BIPOC queer people who were also working against carceral thinking, and I found my life to be way more enjoyable. connecting authentically with people who you feel safe with is just as important as organizing or protesting. You can organize or protest, but if you don't have a community to turn to, you'll burn out and won't be able to sustainably stay in the movement. Focus on energies, peoples, and love, connect authentically and have difficult conversations about love and politics and theory. You can be an academic, but still maintain the punk values you love in your daily life. Humans are made of contradicting values and experiences, we shouldn't shame each other for that and instead hold the multiple and contradicting truths in us all.

I can go on and on, but ill leave it at that. feel free to ask anything else in specific tho.

[wolfnanaki]

What Happened To Me Yesterday

Figured I might as well catch people up, since this all went down on 4chan and Twitter. Some nasty words are said so tread lightly.

I used to frequent 4chan in my younger years, and just by happenstance, I was scrolling through their /co/ Comics and Cartoons board yesterday during some casual off time between job hunting. I saw a Helluva Boss thread, and within it, some people have developed a conspiracy theory regarding Loona.

If you're a fan of Helluva Boss, you'll recognize that in the past three episodes of season 2, Loona, one of the most popular characters in the show, has had no speaking roles. People attributed to this being because of the death of her partner a few years back, but Erica Lindbeck, her voice actress, confirmed this to not be the case, so there was still heavy speculation. And a few days ago, Erica was harassed by AI bros after she requested a video using an AI replication of her voice to be taken down; the harassment got so bad that Erica deactivated her Twitter.

Anyway, 4chan users concocted a conspiracy theory stating that: Vivziepop's funds were being bled dry by changes to Hazbin Hotel requested by A24, Erica recognized how popular Loona is and was demanding higher pay, and Viv was retaliating by cutting her out of the show and is trying to replace her, either with an AI replication or a new, cheaper VA. A Loonaspiracy.

(Ah yes, A24, famous for "family friendly" content like Hereditary, Midsommar, The Witch, and Ex Machina. Trying to make a show about demons more family oriented. Right.)

It was so on-its-face ridiculous that I took a screencap of the posts and I posted them on Twitter so I could laugh at them with a few of my friends and maybe some other Helluva Boss fans.

What I did not count on was Viv herself responding.

Viv then went on to start a separate thread about the topic and cleared up the misinformation and conspiracy theory. Because season 2 is longer than season 1, all the episodes had a tighter budget and therefore, they didn't have Loona speak in every episode to save costs. This is an independently funded show, after all.

So anyway, my phone notifications start blowing up with people liking/retweeting/replying to my tweet, and my tweets get shared on 4chan. The response was not great.

Why am I showing you this?

Because I think it illustrates an incredibly important point. These people believed so hard in an obviously bullshit conspiracy that when confronted with the truth, they'd rather attack a marginalized person than admit they were wrong.

This is no different from how almost all conservatives act.

There are people who cannot - and will not - be convinced their beliefs are wrong, even when the truth is in front of them. You cannot convince these kinds of people to stop being racist, sexist, queerphobic, or whatever. They are told their actions and beliefs are evil, and their response is "Evil will have to do."

Don't waste your breath praying they become better people or trying to convince them to change. The best things you can do are to stay away from them if you can, but step in and protect the people they're trying to harm.

And as for 4chan... just stay away, lmao. There's nothing of value there, except maybe a life lesson of how not to be.

[roodles03]

🌈 Roodles03 🌈

My name is Roo, and my pronouns are they/them! I'm 20, queer, and autistic.

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NOTE: I DO NOT have Twitter or Tiktok or any other social media platforms. (Excluding Discord with is NOT listed here for privacy.) Any art of mine that you see on those sites IS A REPOST. Anyone with my username on other sites IS NOT ME.

(Last Update: 10-11-24)

I post Hazbin Hotel & Owl House fanart/comics and shit like that. Pretty much exclusively Alastor, radiosilenece, and Huntlow/Dadrius content because those are all my hyperfixations right now. If you love those things then you've come to the right place! I actually do more than just art! I also post fanfics on my A03 and occasionally post memes and discussion posts here on tumblr.

DNI LIST:

Pedophiles, Queerphobic people, racists, misogynists, ableist people, or if you support any other form of bigotry. (Obvious)

Trump Supporters. (Also obvious)

Proshippers. (This is a mostly* minor safe blog, so please keep your weird fantasies far away from of places where minors can see it. FFS be responsible.)

If you are an AI-Bro without believing regulations or protections for people (Go fucking make something productive on your own.)

Huntlow/Dadrius/Hazbin Hotel antis who are going to be a dick about me liking those things. (Ffs just ignore and/or block me and move on. There's no reason to be nasty about it. Polite antis of each are welcome.)

Pro-Iseral (Get the everloving fuck away from me)

Minors can interact but be aware I swear a lot within my own speech and speaking patterns. Most of my TOH content I try to keep swear free outside of shitpost comics. HOWEVER, I personally don't consider swearing taboo and don't see it as an adult topic. Like I know most of us started swearing when we were like 10 lmao. Anything sexual I consider an adult topic. Hazbin just naturally has these elements. Please acknowledge that Hazbin Hotel is out of your age range if you are a minor. 16+ is the MINIMUM age. I know there's not much I can do to stop children from consuming the show and therefore my fanworks, but In the future if I ever include something remotely sexual in a Hazbin comic even if it's as small as a sex joke, I'm going to slap the 18+ fliter on it for safety purposes. I will geninuely try to do something.

Repost Rules:

Thinking about reposting my art/comics? Please check this list first.

Are you just reposting the art/comic by itself with no original spin on it? DO NOT REPOST UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. IF YOU ASK I WILL NOT GIVE PERMISSION.

Are you reposting my art/comics on youtube? ASK ME FIRST.

Do you want to voice dub my comic? ASK ME FIRST, AND YOU MUST SPECIFY HOW YOU'RE DUBBING IT. I ONLY WILL GIVE PERMISSION IF YOU HAVE REAL VOICE ACTORS IN YOUR DUB. I WILL ALWAYS REFUSE IF YOU WANT TO USE AI GENERATED VOICES. I DO NOT WANT AND ACTIVELY REFUSE TO HAVE ME OR MY WORK ASSIOATED WITH AI IN ANY WAY.

Do you want to dub my comic in another language? LET ME KNOW FIRST, AS I WILL ACTUALLY HELP YOU. I WILL SEND THE PANELS WITHOUT THE ENGLISH DIALOGUE.

Do you want to use my art for a meme? NO PERMISSION NEEDED JUST GIVE CREDIT.

Do you want to use my art in an edit? ASK ME FIRST.

Do you want to use my art as a profile picture or header? NO PERMISSION NEEDED JUST CREDIT.

Do you want to color one of my unfinished drawings? ASK ME FIRST. PERMISSION WILL ALWAYS BE GRANTED.

Do you want to redraw one of my drawings? ASK ME FIRST. PERMISSION WILL ALWAYS FOR GRANTED (JUST DON'T TRACE!)

Do you want to take inspiration or use my art/comics as references? NO PERMISSION OR CREDIT NEEDED.

If you have any questions or if something here isn't listed, ASK ME FIRST.

Other things:

Please be resonable when simping over my art. All of my art is strictly SFW (outside the occasional sex joke) and it makes me really uncomfortable to make visually suggestive shit. (Asexuality spectrum coming in lol) So again, if you simp, please keep it reasoable. Don't say some fucking vile shit you wouldn't say to me irl if you want to simp over my art. When people over sexualize shit it makes me uncomfortable.

However, this all goes out of the window if you simp over a character I've drawn that's a minor, unless you specify you're a minor yourself, that's an instant fucking block.

Blank/Default PFP blogs with no content will be blocked due to safety concerns with all these fucking tumblr bots swarming the site recently.

Feel free to send me asks in the askbox!

Commission Status: Closed until further notice.

I don't really do requests, but if you send an ask and I happen to like your idea, there is a small chance I'll put it in my queue.

[teaveetamer]

Another part of the problem is that Tumblr social justice ideology has a massive "loophole" in it:

In theory, it's considered wrong to commit aggression against others. But the loophole is, you're allowed to be as nasty and mean as you want (and do things like threaten to kill people in Discord servers) if you can first Cast the Other Party as an Aggressor.

So, for example, you're normally not allowed to express racist hatred against the Japanese. But you ARE allowed to do so if you can first paint them as a nation of pedophiles because you dislike Japanese art styles. So not only can you be a racist bigot, but you can disguise it as "anti-oppression".

Or for another example, you're normally not allowed to hate bisexuals. But you ARE allowed to do so if you can first paint them as "secretly straight, and thus secretly bigoted towards gays and lesbians". So, you can be as nasty to bisexual people as you want if you can cast them as aggressors to gay people first.

And a final example, you're normally not allowed to support imperialism, colonialism, and warmongering. But you ARE allowed to be a warmonger if you can first paint people who object to war as "misogynists afraid of female power". So not only can you be a warmonger, but you can phrase it as "anti-sexism".

So, that's the "loophole" in Tumblr social justice: you're technically not allowed to be a bigot or oppressor, but you can justify similar behavior if you can somehow cast the other party as an aggressor first.

I’m picking up what you’re putting down Anon, but I’d like to offer a counter in the form of a duo of videos

Noah Samsen’s “Solving the Debate Bro Problem”

And Noah Samsen’s follow up “The Vaush Effect”

Collectively it’s about an hour and a half to watch both, but I recommend you do. Watch the debate bro problem video first, as it contains context for the Vaush Effect video.

But the TL;DR of both is that leftist/lefty “debate bro” types prioritize “winning” over honest exchange of knowledge or achieving greater understanding of the other side. Whatever is true and right and just is simply the viewpoint of whoever “wins” a debate about it. And you “win” by looking bigger, tougher, stronger, and more confident than your opponent (and if all else fails, by brutally attempting to silence your opponent. If they’re silent then they aren’t fighting back, and if they aren’t fighting back then you’ve “won”).

It’s a system that rewards ignorance and lacks self-awareness. If you were to question yourself ever at any point or change your views then that would be the same as conceding the win to the other side. The best way to avoid “losing” is to never learn, never listen, and never grow.

This often leads to the (primarily cishet white) debate bros saying and doing shit that is extremely fucked up, because again the priority is on winning. They would say women deserve rights and then in the same breath engage in blatant misogyny if they thought it would win them an argument.

The video also points out that this is a very bad thing. It is essentially just grafting the Alt-Right’s strongman tactics onto a new ideology, and it ultimately leads to many marginalized people being silenced or brutalized. Not to mention how it rewards/reinforces racist, queerphobic, misogynistic, etc. attitudes and a general lack of critical thinking or self-reflection in leftist spaces.

I watched these videos and I swear so many things clicked into place with regard to how certain Edelgard stans have been acting for… basically the entire duration of the fandom.

I mean look at what’s going on now. We’re quite literally being stalked and harassed by a (afaik cishet white) guy who prioritizes “kicking the asses” of people who disagree with him over all else. He has no self-awareness as to how his actions are hurting the group of (primarily marginalized) people he is aggressively attacking, no interest in actually listening to us beyond what he can take out of context to posture for his buddies and win “”debates””, and no concept of boundaries or acceptable behavior. He didn’t oppose Diaphin making “jokes” about genocide on my posts out of concern for me as a human being, or because it’s wrong. He opposed it because he thought I (or I suppose Nilsh, since everything bad that has ever happened always comes back to Nilsh) could use it to make him look bad and therefore lose.

Because this is a game to him. Our lives and our feelings are the equivalent of NPCs for him to mow down on the path to proving he’s the biggest, strongest, most rightest debater on the internet. And when we don’t have an interest in playing along he melts down and tries to force us back into the game so he has a target to take pot shots at.

And if you’re acting like that? You can say all the leftist shit you want, but you’ll never be an ally. Allies don’t stab you in your pain points for the sake of their petty pride.

[mortus-f-art]

hullo! welcome to my art/writing blog

check out my general/reblogging blog @mortus-jpeg

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name: Mortus (nicknames and petnames welcome and appreciated)

age: young adult (November 4th)

pronouns: they/it (xe/void/he/star/fae)

rainbow: acearo, genderqueer

favorite animals: sloths, chickens, cats, bats, snakes, and aye ayes :3

favorite scent: coconut! i am obsessed

favorite quotes:

"No matter how ridiculous the odds may seem, within us resides the power to overcome these challenges and achieve something beautiful... and one day we will look back at where we started, and be amazed by how far we've come" -Technoblade

"I don't need you to respect me; I respect me. I don't need you to love me; I love me. I just want you to know you can know me if you change your mind." -Steven Universe

favorite color: green

favorite genera: for music, indie folk. for novels, scifi or fantasy. for movies, everything. (i really love movies)

favorite art supplies: pen, but i also enjoy

multimedia!

digital or traditional: i can't even choose! i honestly love them both. i enjoy sketching buildings and plants traditionally, but do a lot more character art digitally. (not that i share even half of it.)

fandoms:

Undertale/UTMV

Hermitcraft

SCP Foundation

S&D Tier by Lighthouse Raiders (vaguely)

The Owl House (vaguely)

DSMP (formerly, mostly. Technoblade never dies 07)

FNAF (formerly)

7DS (vaguely and formerly)

Warrior Cats (formerly) (but it was my first fandom experience, so it has a special place in my heart)

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feel free to chat with me and stuff. i'm willing to beta read most anything and help out wherever i can, within reason of course. i'm a generally friendly, although a wee socially awkward, person. tone tags are appreciated. my asks and dm's are most usually open, so feel free to hit me up!

please dni if you plan on starting an issue. i will not tolerate bigotry for any reason. this space is intended to be safe and i intend to keep it as such!

remember your own mental health; if you don't like it, don't consume it. if you have any issues, please feel fres to dm me! but remember the difference between personal preference and moral objections. i try to be sensitive to differences in accessibility, cultures, triggers, ect, but i'm not perfect, so lemme know if there's something i could be doing better! if your issue is one of not enjoying something, simply scroll. it makes it easier for everyone.

(a general dni list: queerphobes, racists, sexists, n#tzis, toxicity glorifiers, pedophiles, overly argumentative people, generally nasty people)

feel free to dm me with any questions, comments, or concerns! i'm more than happy to chat or have a discussion. :) /genuine

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my tags:

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#mortus writes - for my written works

#mortus answers - for asks

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anyways, please check out my linktree to find me elsewhere and enjoy my works! have a day :)

[daydreaming-en-pointe]

DO NOT INTERACT if you are:

Transphobic

Homophobic (or queerphobic in any way)

Racist

Sexist

Ableist

A proshipper

A p£d0ph!le (or if you read/write smut about minors. that’s fucking nasty <3) aging them up DOES NOT CUT IT. you know what you are doing and you choose to do it anyway. don’t even try using the excuse ‘i’m the same age as them so it’s ok!!’ NO IT’S NOT. fuck off and take your weird fantasies involving literal minors with you.

Toxic atsv/other fandom shipper

Just toxic in general

Rude for no reason

MDNI/NSFW blogs 💀 follow ur own rules PLEASE

I can and will at any given point use the block button. (I’ll probably give u a warning first tho)

[plantpest]

in general it is best not to post a message from someone anonymously accusing someone else of something if you are not 1000% sure they are correct. or even then, you could just block and move on. idk anything about the people involved here but it is a very common tactic to send a message to a popularish blog accusing someone of something because people love to dogpile.

m8 if someone tells you a person you like actually is a deeply hateful person and you find evidence of the claim during a 15min cursory search then yeah i do take that as good enough reason to publish the claim lmao

granted, after spending some more time looking into this whole mess i wish wasn’t so hasty in publishing the ask. however, that is more because i’m having a hard time wrapping my head around my feelings regarding That blog being by kate or someone else, as well as the claims that the anon sending these messages is a vile piece of shit. i’m fairly certain she holds some weird transphobic views (specifically against trans women)

and no. “block and move on” is what i do when someone is a regular asshole. or someone outside of my circles is a nasty pos and i want to avoid to accidentally interact with them. if someone within a community i move in holds dangerous and hateful ideologies i can and will drag it to the surface. i’m not gonna sit here and be all “aw shucks, this person is racist/queerphobic/what-have-you and very active within this community, but i’m gonna block ‘em in secret and let others accidentally promote them”

i wish she would spend an hour to try and sort out this mess and clearing her name - something i truly encourage her to do if this is a baseless 4+ year smear campaign against her. like, i may or may not owe this woman the biggest apology, but she’s not giving me anything to work with and so i’m gonna choose to protect myself even if that’ll drag her name through mud unnecessarily

[shevr]

arguably nothing """serious""" , someone pointed out the cheese enemy designs based on native americans are Maybe Not Great & accompanied that with excerpts of the game's discord server from 2018 showcasing some nasty edgy toxic 4chan-like humor & mentality ( including but not limited to the dev himself ) >( that's over in that drive folder ) &lt;

The dev's apparently reacted to it on that discord as well simply saying he's "not exactly proud" of that & "theyre just very shallow and not funny at all lol" which like that's whatever i'd be inclined to admit this guy is neutral at best, potentially ok, whatever

but then if you scratch a bit like on discussion threads on steam you can clearly see the type of people calling the game based ( as in hateful-queerphobic-racist lingo based ) and laffing about that kinda criticism and your usual online bigot stuff and frankly just knowing they're around and probably still hanging around this game's community unquestioned is icky to me

[v-for--valentine]

Gonna be replacing my normal ramblings with this before any info about me. Something something target audience

Howdy

My name’s Valentine or V, whichever. Though just Sophie is always an option. I like bugs, music (mostly Slipknot and QOTSA), @tm0g, @hourglaaaaaa, my beautiful gorgeous gf Bonnie <3, ULTRAKILL, plants, rain, and like, 80% of animals.

As my bio thing said, i’m a genderfluid girl, and i’m the physical embodiment of the phrase cringefail girl. Currently (at the time of writing this) 18 and already exhausted from dealing with people

As far as pronouns go, you can use literally anything, but if you’re feelin stuck, “she” is always a safe option. Go nuts honestly. The person who finds the most obscure preexisting pronouns (cuz if you make something up it’ll automatically be the most obscure) to call me by wins... uh... a kiss on the forehead

What tags mean what

#blab my talking about stuff, and misc stuff that doesn’t fit into any other category

#it speaks additions to other peoples posts via reblog usually

#my art self explanatory

#drip pictures of mine and other folks amazingly gender wardrobe

#nya pictures of my cats cuz i love my little baby-cats so much

#story time with auntie Val my shitty writing stuff (at the time of writing it’s just the printer saga)

#it me stuff about me or pictures of me that isn’t necessarily #drip

Please note that this is very susceptible to change and i’m gonna be adding to and removing from this list a lot, so some old stuff is gonna be tagged wrong, and frankly i don’t care enough to go back and change all of it.

Also i’m pretty bad at remembering to tw tag stuff so feel absolutely more than free to ask me to

DNI list

Terfs/transmeds/truscum/general transphobes

ANY sort of queerphobes

ANY sort of racist

MAPs/whatever they call themselves now

Misogynists of any sort

Few other nasty folks, who i didn’t think of when typing this

[notarsonists]

meet the overlords

Sage - She/her - #1 polysho fan trust 🔥🔥 pjsk enjoyer and artist! i post very little but when i do you can be sure it’s not worth it

Kenny(prixe)- she/her I LOVE WOMEN also pjsk, ouran highschool, hetalia, and HISTORY!!!

Winged Flower - she/her(them/they is fine as well) - Lil poet and artist - Rain World enjoyer and growing slowly into Dandy’s World enjoyer(GLISTEN AND SHRIMPO <333 not shipping them), Waning Crescent my beloved <3

Laladragon- she/her - i be a goofy lil ghost with a severe Malleus Draconia obsession <3 i draw/write abt random crap, ya enjoy :D

Rocky - she/her - Me like Lackadaisy, Ramshackle, Peanuts (the comic series), ect ect. Im multifandom so i like to draw anything that i like :3 I like cute animals <333 SEALS ARE SOOO CUTEEE!! :)))

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DNI LIST!

The obvious stuff (no racists, queerphobes, sexists, etc)

TERFS

Zoos

Anti-therians and/or anti-furries

maps (not the Multi-Animator Project one the other one)

Exclusionists

Anyone who supports the genocide happening in Gaza

NSFW blogs (we’re all minors here)

Despair Sisters, Junkan, or Shingujicest shippers (wthat’s just fuckin nasty)

Floyd x Jade, any iterator x slugcat, survivor x monk, or Freckle x Rocky shippers

This blog is meant a safe space for everyone! If you came here with the intention of being a douchebag, we can and will block you quite easily :)

[the-bjd-community-confess]

People have commented a lot of nice things on confessions of mine, some of them offering to be friends or to link my socials to support me, but I’ll never do it and I’ll tell you why. I don’t trust a single damn one of you. I’ve seen so many people on this blog saying nice things in one place and nasty things in others. Some of y’all seem cool and then you show your ass by being transphobic or queerphobic or racist in the comments on some other post. I don’t trust the people on this blog, call me paranoid, but I don’t. In general I don’t trust this community which is why I have no presence here. I don’t post any dolls I own that I don’t make myself or playline dolls and I only post those in hate-free hobby spaces that are specifically not bjds.

The only reason I come here is because people in my real life are tired of hearing me talk about dolls, so I confess my enjoyments and frustrations here in the safety of the anonymity. I have a business in the real world that relies a lot on my social media presence and the last thing I want is for someone to think it’s funny to fuck with my livelihood over some kind of nonsense that people do on this blog.

Some of y’all are genuine and I appreciate that, but based on all the shenanigans and hateful shit that goes on in this blog over literal nothing, just makes me confident that my mental health and job will be better if I stay anonymous. Also I always have the worry that if I post my dolls which I’ve wanted to because I’ve very proud of their faceups and whatnot, that nasty assholes are gonna come out of the woodwork and offer unwanted criticism on my elaborate story work or my paint skills because as a neurodivergent person I have a very hard time keeping negative experiences away from my love for things and I know it would probably ruin my love for my dolls.

I’ve already had that happen once when my mother made a joke about how the one anime doll I owned looked like a child and she thought I was sexualizing a child which I wasn’t but it pretty much made me put the doll away and eventually scrap it for parts and I don’t need that after I’ve spent so much love, money, and time on my dolls. It’s safer not to interact. I’d love to have doll friends or whatever, but I can’t with the aggression on this blog and in the community.

~Anonymous

[perkeleen-lavellan]

I need to know why you tagged that transphobe bargaining post as bimboland I’m over there too

Well, it’s somewhat of a long story. I used to be AlienPrinceFromVenus and later AlienPrince hotfix 2.0 on Bimboland btw but I quit due to the stuff I’m about to talk about.

So basically. Bimboland’s volunteer workers, ie Prime Bimbo, the forum mods, the queerphobic Polish coder Mariolka, and many of the long time users are various shades of trans and homophobic and racist. And various members of the LGBTQ+ community that were on that site and tried to like. Make them stop or get into positions where they could have some power to go against that shit.

There have been multiple callouts of multiple people, the last one I witnessed was of LillyAnn being called out for misgendering a trans person and then it devolved into her and all the other powers that be blaming the ’nasty rainbows’ for not shutting up about it after her very disingenuous apology. And just recently Dye96 totally shifted blame on that on the mean gays, as if it was our fault that they refused to deal with the homophobia of anyone in a position of power in the site, so that shows me there has been no growth. The worst case of that dismissiveness was in my opinion that of the incredibly vile coder Mariolka who drove off most of the sites designers away with his constant vile garbage in our designer discord server. He’d be saying straight up homophobic things, making angry threats like I’ll break your legs, constantly misgender people, and he’d always try to shift blame on us because that was all just his opinion. And no one had the power to kick him out but in the very least more could have been done to protect users from him. Letting him into that server where he had no business being in the first place was already dumb as shit.

That post in question just made me think how on Bimboland the kind of transphobia apologism is exactly what these people want. Like I have literally seen the ”I don’t hate all lgbt people, it’s just this specific set of loud obnoxious users I have a problem with” sentiment, I have been directly told that, even. And it’s definitely a manipulation tactic on Bimboland to spin it like there’s no queerphobia happening they’re just dealing with ”bullies.”