#it's a sad one

[realagentajisobssesed]

New TWST animatic release today! Grab your tissues as it's based on book 7 part 5 as a celebratory of it coming to EN along with my tears. this gave me motivation to try and finish the how bad can I be gender bent animatic but we all know that's not happening. Anyways, I hope you enjoy it.

[r3d-f0xs-blog]

Who is Voss Mendelson Anyway?

“It didn’t matter how much I tried to reclaim my body. Eating lost all its flavour. Drinking just left me with worse hangovers. Working out didn’t even give me the same hit of endorphins. Sex was great but dissociating killed the mood. I could tell Kerry was getting frustrated and struggled with my need for space. Felt the cut of his tongue and his words. They stung but nothing hurt so much as his face when I said I had to stop. He wants to understand. Tries to pull me out of the pit, chase the shadows away. He also wants us to be the way we used to be. We both knew that wasn’t going to happen.

We used to always be so in touch with each other. Casual brushes of the hand, quick kisses, cuddling up on the couch. I slept alone some nights, if I could sleep at all. Rarely did I actually sleep in the same bed as Kerry.

I love him, but at the time I panicked. Shut down and blurted it out that I needed a break."

[fabiolajyx]

New Olivia and Gil video tomorrow 😭

[stevenrogered]

Dame Maggie Smith as Muriel Donnelly The Second Best Exotic Marigold Hotel (2015)

[inkskinned]

the tradwife movement is the same as it has always been - back in the kitchen, back to breeding - it just has better branding.

when i was younger, i hated pink. i was not like other girls. this is now something i'm embarrassed of - this was not me being a "girl's girl."

but it was expressing something many of us felt at the time: i literally wasn't what girlhood was supposed to be. this is a hard thing to explain, but you know when you're not performing girlhood correctly. it isn't as easy as "i liked x when girls liked y" - because there were other girls that liked x, too - but i never figured out exactly the correct way to like x, or to be interested in y.

now there is the divine feminine. this is the same rhetoric it has always been: women are biologically driven to like pink and ribbons and submitting to our husbands.

the problem is that the patriarchy found a better PR team. because yes, actually, i want every woman to have the choice to be a homemaker. i also want her taken seriously for her legitimate home-making labor. i want her to be recognized as also having a job, just unpaid. i want men to have this opportunity, too.

but it is no longer "i made this choice and I love it." instead it is a sixteen-paragraph rant about how selfish it is that my generation isn't having kids. instead it's long videos about how if you feed your children processed foods, you're going to kill them. instead it is "this is what womanhood is supposed to be. i feel bad for any other choices you're making."

the shame spiral is just prettier. it is large houses devoid of personality. it is the implication: if you don't have this, you aren't happy. the solid, everlasting assurance: women are actually supposed to be submitting. this is the default. this is the natural state of things. all other attempts inflict suffering.

but you can no longer say i'm not like other girls. you can no longer reject this image completely. you cannot find it revolting, even if you know that the underbelly is toxic and festering. sure, it is the same repackaged patriarchy. but the internet does not have shades of grey. you should support and reward other women! your disgust is actually internalized misogyny. not because you are seeing a vision of yourself the way they're trying to train you to be. not because you feel her ghost pass within an inch of your earlobe. not because your father will eventually ask you - why can't you be like her?

because they figured out how to make it beautiful: women will sell other women on this idea, and we will find the singular loophole in feminism. sure, she's shaming you in most of her videos. sure, she implies that a different life is obscene. but she just wants you to be happy! you'd be happier if you were listening!

and the whole time you're sitting there thinking: i'd actually just be happier if i had that kind of money.

[ookaookaooka]

do you ever remember your dad telling you about an obscure folk song he used to love as a kid and then look it up based on a single lyric in the hopes that the tune will be familiar only for it to be completely new to you. and then years later you get a random little ditty your dad used to whistle stuck in your head and then you realize it's the tune of that same folk song but your dad's family's version is just different enough that the more popular recordings of it didn't bring up the memory

[stump-not-found]

i don't think the theraprism is a good thing, guys

[artkaninchenbau]

Crocodile finds a strange stray cat an 11-year old Nico Robin (AU where they met 13 years earlier. Robin's been on the run from the World Government for 3 years. Crocodile's 27 and has not set up base in Alabasta yet)

It seems like I have become possessed. By some sort of demon.

Bonus:

[kuuhaiyu]

i really can't emphasize how heartbreaking it is that the recent harassment campaign against @/90-ghost (among others; see: 1, 2, 3) has led to well-meaning people telling others not to listen to him. he is one of the most visible survivors of the genocide here on tumblr. his entire journey of escape is so well documented! and yet, it only took a few people confidently pointing fingers to create an entire witch hunt accusing him and other palestinians of being disreputable scammers and liars.

i can't help but feel like the reason why people were SO eager to believe those accusations, is because it was uncomfortable to see posts from palestinians every day asking for our time, attention, money, and support; so when someone presented the perfect excuse to ignore all those posts and asks while also taking the high ground, people just LEAPED onto it. they wanted to believe it, because it would be more comfortable.

honestly, i understand feeling overwhelmed by bad news, by the number of asks and messages in your inbox, and so on and so forth. i understand needing to set boundaries for yourself so you don't get burned out. i think this is really when you have to have a set of principles to fall back on, even when you're tired, uncomfortable, angry, and/or sad. so here's the one i suggest, which has been working for me best: don't make your discomfort with this situation into someone else's problem, and for god's sake don't make it a public problem.

if you hate seeing fundraiser posts or news about gaza, i can't emphasize this enough, JUST MOVE ON. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND SCROLL PAST! all you have to do is absolutely nothing. which is what you were doing anyway, so it shouldn't be hard. if you don't have the heart to read, or reblog, or share, or donate, or support in other ways, at the very least, don't obstruct the efforts of people who ARE trying to make a difference. this is, quite literally, the least you can do.

[monkesupreme]

ref

a satisfactory answer for Selina

[crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington]

"Why did I do that?"

close up

[barghest-land]

ancient sun cast your light cause there’s no hope in endless winter

Bogolubovia

[kidokear]

Imagen how entertaining it would be if these 2 interact. And I'm a fan of possessive/jealous/protective Stolas (Which I don't see enough of <(＿　＿)>)

[wojtekaneko]

That's how it went

[arckalia]

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer

[chloesimaginationthings]

Elizabeth Afton bets on losing dogs in FNAF..