#intimacy direction

[eph-em-era]

hey so i am so so pleased they hired an intimacy coordinator this time around! and you can tell that the actors are much more comfortable too! the intimacy is much much better!!

let's do a lil intimacy breakdown from my knowledge as an IC in training and a director just in general

(this is a long post so it's under the cut)

fact is, there's some awkwardness in the ed/stede s1 kiss, which i am ninety percent sure is due to body placement. i'd wager there was a discussion on set that was like "hey this is a stunning shot, we love what it looks like, let's get the actors in" and they got the actors in and got to the blocking for the kiss and everyone was like "hey this is a bit awkward but we'll muscle through" - cause that awkwardness fits the character arcs.

but it's not actually all that easy turning all the way to one side to kiss someone without moving where your legs are! it's weird! it's an awkward angle! - or more accurately, it's the angle that two people would kiss at if it was a very impulsive, awkward surprise; or if your two lead actors are very good friends faced with playing lovers for the first time and not sure what to feel about that (we've all been there) - there's reticence, but it fits the scene so it's fine.

(Lucius and Pete and Olu and Jim also have moments of intimacy, which for the most part are fine, and I suspect that's a combo of a) their staging is SO MUCH BETTER, b) character choices, c) different directors and d) less of that "OMG WE'RE PLAYING LOVERS NOW" anxiety)

~~onto season 2~~

for the record, intimacy direction isn't just for kissing/sex scenes, ICs can come in for intimacy building exercises and additional blocking, as well as things like nudity, childbirth or any similar sensitive work, but I'm going to be talking mostly about kisses in this. anyway!

Beautiful! Kind, lovely, tender! The backdrop is super nice too. Honestly, the Lucius/Pete stuff has really been so nice all the way along; that's great casting! Especially in S2E5, everything reads as very earnest and space is used very well.

Archie and Jim. Now, we don't have anything to compare it to from S1, but I'm flagging it cause yeah, they definitely have similar staging to Ed/Stede from S1E09. I would say there's a much better range of movement in this one, likely because they're sitting on the floor, braced against the bed, so they can compensate for the weird angle better than E/S could. This might come off as a lil rude but it's also more likely that these two actors are slightly more flexible and can make this staging work better than Taika and Rhys.

Cannot for the LIFE OF ME find a gif of their hug, but they have fantastic chemistry! despite only showing up for like 2/3s of one episode. I've seen people whining about how they absolutely should have kissed - and you know what, I would have liked that too!

however, I suspect that what happened here was that one or both of the actors didn't want to kiss on screen, and voiced their objections to the IC, who found a work around. It was likely not cause of any kind of ill will or homophobia, for the record - sometimes you just don't want to kiss people. Maybe you're sick, maybe you're feeling weird, maybe you're just not in the right headspace, but a kiss might be off the cards that day.

This is behaviour we want to encourage, btw. The goal is to ensure that actors feel comfortable and that the shot isn't be all end all. I've done something very similar, we had 20 mins to get the blocking done and the actors weren't at a point where kissing felt comfy, so we did a kiss on the cheek and a hug.

it is better that the actors are comfortable than your ship is fulfilled.

Hey yknow what I was saying about how ICs aren't just used for blocking, they're used for chemistry building? That's what they've HIT ON HERE. This is genuinely a very lovely kiss. It's deeply appropriate for the characters, and it's private and simple. things get a little more raunchy, and hands start moving, but then it's stopped, for a narrative reason, and the chemistry remains with the hand hold. It's really very nice, well blocked and well performed. the hand placement! the tenderness! it's great. there's none of that s1 reticence, whether that was from characters or actors.

I think the intimacy work, much like the writing and the characterisation is much, much stronger in this season, and that's to the show's benefit. I know we're only halfway through, but I'm thoroughly interested to see where things go in the remaining episodes. I will update this post if anything exciting crops up in the final five.

and this is why you need to hire ICs! they make life easier for actors, directors and crew alike!!

[em-edwards]

Getting Back Up to Speed

There is quite a substantial gap since my last post, so as a quick recap, I spent the majority of the past year adjusting to being full-time theatre faculty at NJIT. I have been teaching a wide variety of classes such as directing, theatre history, play analysis, and acting as well as assisting with school productions with all things movement-related. Last fall I also had the opportunity to create a brand new course at Rutgers-Newark that focused half the semester on intimacy and half the semester on unarmed stage combat.

With this being my main focus, my outside activities have become somewhat more infrequent. Which in not to say they have halted completely. Here are a few of the latest...

New Website

If you made it this far, that means you have seen my new website revamp. Designed and implemented by the genius Carol Mazhuvancheril. With headshots by the incredible Kent Meister. This has been a long time coming and I'm *very* pleased with the results. If you need a website or photos, I highly recommend these fine gentlemen.

Rent

Bergen County Players, Photo Credit: Richard Frant

I was very honored to be asked to be Bergen County Players' first intimacy director for their season opener production of Jonathan Larson's iconic Rent. This show means the world to me and I was so excited to help bring this production (directed by Steve Bell) to the stage. It is playing through Oct. 14th. Tickets are $29 and can be found here.

It's Getting Tired Mildred Season 9

That's right, we're still going. Last season your favorite late night 80's soap opera for the stage became your favorite primetime 80's soap opera for the stage. We now perform at 8pm instead of 10:30pm which is definitely a step up. Roger Nasser's scripts are as funny and gasp-inducing as they have ever been with the ever-expanding cast continuing to be a joy to share the stage with. Lacy Verdon (that's me) will be making her Season 9 debut in this month's episode, which is on Sat. Oct. 14th. Tickets and details can be found here.

The Dysfunctional Swingers

While we have been much less active in the past year, The Dysfunctional Swingers are still working on creating new dance videos for our Patreons. Here's a sneak peak at a still from our latest video which should drop before the end of the month. This particular video featured our biggest cast and crew to date and I'm very excited to share it with everyone. You will be able to find it on our YouTube channel with the rest of our videos very soon.

[theatricavities]

I’ve never felt so seen

if gender is a performance then my gender is "musical that flopped on broadway initially but is widely loved by gay people"

[theatricavities]

RANT ABOUT BFA PROGRAMS

something they really don’t tell you is how exhausting gig life will be. ESPECIALLY if you have to work a survival job which, in this economy, is necessary. I work 7-3 and then 5:30-11 MOST DAYS.

[rin-sith]

Ages ago, I promised a sequel to my Ruthlessness sketches with my new Poseidon design, and well... See, I had a very specific vision for this, my beloved 🫶 favorite song in the whole entire musical. And I guess I was finally brave en- I mean, found the time to bring it to life. Enjoy 🙈🌊🔱

@glisten-inthedark look at what I've done now

[vinylfoxbooks]

March 20 - Intricate | @into-the-jeggyverse | wc: 510

“Just ask him out, Prongs.” Sirius sighs, getting frustrated with James’ insistent pushing, “He fucking likes you, for some reason, and that’s not going to change if you don’t do an elaborate and big, weirdly intricate ritual to ask him out.” He moves to sit on the bed with James, because despite his tired tone, he can see the way that James starts to fidget and bite at their lip like they do when they’re nervous, “In fact, he’d probably be less likely to say yes if you asked him out with something big.” 

“I know,” James breathes, fully deflating into their best friend, “But that’s… I don’t know how to actually do it.” Sirius knows that they won’t admit it, but he knows that they use the big dramatic proposals to hide from the vulnerability of actually putting themself and their heart on the line. Sirius has seen them put on a character in front of the people they want to like them far too many times to realise that it’s anything more than them protecting themself. 

“You guys go up to the Astronomy Tower all the time, right?” Sirius hums, pulling them into his chest. He waits until James nods, “Just… write him a letter or something that you can give him if you don’t think you’ll be able to say it to him yourself. If you can’t muster the courage, just give it to him before you guys leave for the night.” 

James is quiet for a while, and Sirius is at a loss for what else he can say to help them. Then, “You really think that he’ll say yes?”

Sirius hums and takes a moment to figure out the careful wording for his answer, “I think my little brother is stubborn and unbelievably guarded, but I also know that he likes you romantically.” Sirius rests his head on theirs, feeling the curls settle against his face, “I think that he’ll not give you an answer immediately and he’ll take a couple days to process and work things through with himself. I think you’ll panic about that and feel like he rejected you and shut down.” He’s quiet for a minute, closing his eyes, “But I think, in the end, you two will get together because it’s what you both want and you’re both stubborn as all hell and alway try to get what you want.” 

James is quiet for a long while, and Sirius doesn’t miss the way that they try to regulate their breathing, nor does he miss the finger that taps against his thigh rapidly. Sirius puts his hand on their wrist, rubbing their thumb along it in what he hopes is a soothing motion. James hums. 

Eventually, “Would you help me write a letter to him?” 

Sirius laughs gently, “I think it might be best to get Moony’s help with that, yeah?” James nods, “Thank you, Sirius.” Sirius doesn’t say anything for a long while, but he doesn’t have to. The anything to make you and Reg happy goes unsaid between them.

[pearlcaddy]

locklyle + hands: part 2 [part 1]

[eph-em-era]

OFMD intimacy breakdown eps 6-7

Oh hey, it's me! Back again with an intimacy breakdown for episodes 6-7. prefacing this, once again, that I'm not a certified intimacy coordinator, I'm an IC in training, choreographer and director. I'm also not affiliated with the show, just have interest in the subject.

Check out episodes 1-5 here.

Massive spoilers so it's under the cut.

(I do note that there's not an IC credited in these episodes - I know there's one attached to the project so perhaps they weren't utilised in these ones, or were uncredited. Who can say!)

Let's start with - I don't know why these two episodes were so deliriously fucking fast. Potentially scheduling issues with Taika? Alternatively I heard that they lost some budget, which would have cut things a bit.

HBO Max I am in your walls.

regardless, not a fan! I think the acceleration of the relationship worked, just because of what we know about their characters, but the wider plot was too fast for my liking. Hoping in the event of a season three they take that to heart.

Anyways, onto the intimacy!

Calypso's Birthday

On a whole, I found this episode deeply charming. I love a bit of whimsy, and the ep felt like a tribute to their queer audience. Felt very seen!

It's quite challenging interpreting intimacy in these scenes as an interloper, cause I don't know how much is purposeful, vs how much is staging. Regardless, we will forge on.

One -

I would have loved a little more closeness during Izzy's first singing scene! There's what feels like a metre of space between them; something as simple as arms brushing or leaning against each other helps build that intimacy. I am guessing the gap is for shooting space - you need to see what's going on behind them - but it really loses something. It's not bad intimacy, I just would have liked more.

An alternative character interpretation is that Ed & Stede are still trying to fumble their way through things and public displays of intimacy are too much for them - which could also be the intended effect.

But as we all know - a hand touch can ignite a thousand feelings, and I would have liked a little more.

Two -

Lucius and Black Pete emerging after their day-long fuckfest. I've said it in the past and will happily say it now - I think Matthew Maher and Nathan Foad have the best chemistry out of this entire cast. It's so sweet, and so honest in a way that's very grounded compared to the rest of the cast - which is surprising considering who their characters are!

Lovely positioning! Very simple staging but effective, it makes the moment feel so, so private and intimate. It's really lovely.

Three -

Ed and Stede finally get it together and have sex. Okay, so this is obviously intercut with Izzy singing, so I'll lay it out in stages.

First, the jacket grab.

What does this say about Stede? He's been buoyed by his weird night and he wants to do something about it. What does this say about Ed? He's willing to go along with it, but it is not necessarily his first reaction. He's clearly feeling qualms about something - whether that's his relationship, or being a pirate - and he's not the one to initiate. This comes back later.

Regarding the staging, more technically - this is pretty common. A grab using the lapels or jacket is a very easy way to show intensity and passion. Does Ed respond with the same passion? Not quite.

Oh hey, an up against the wall kiss! Very fanservicey, consider me impressed. I think this is a fun bit of staging, I suspect they were given very strict hand placement, cause nothing moves that much, it doesn't look particularly improvised.

Rhys Darby does something very specific with his hands when kissing that I've noticed now and I will never not notice, which is deeply annoying.

It's a very nice moment, but honestly, I would have loved a pause? There's something very sexy and very charming in a scene like this where one character makes the other character wait for it. A little holding back, breathing together, finding the moment. More of a seduction than this brute force omg we need to do this now thing.

I saw someone on Twitter say "Ed and Stede fucked but haven't made love" and that's the vibe I'm getting off the scene. Both of these characters have had a weird day, they're probably tipsy, there's been a lot of emotions and this is a desperate spilling over I need to feel your skin against mine now thing, from two people who don't really know where they both are yet. There isn't seduction cause it's not the place for seduction, cause no-one here properly knows how to communicate yet! They're saying everything but saying nothing.

I hope, in the event of further scenes like this, they have the moment to breathe.

And finally, the third piece - the closing of the curtains.

What does this say about the characters? Hey this is a private moment, you're not allowed to witness this. It's the same as Ed/Stede other moments of intimacy. Everything is private, it's hidden, it's on a remote beach on an island or unobserved under the moonlight.

These dudes might talk about each other constantly and are unashamed to say they like each other, but they sure as shit can't show it publicly. There's also clear reticence within Ed - which echoes him saying he wants to take things slow, as well as his hesitance in the next episode.

This reticence is also shown in their costuming. This isn't a we spent care and time taking each other's clothes off energy, this reads more like Stede Bonnet is emboldened for one of the first times in his life and got naked way too fast. Hey, he's the one taking charge. He's the one closing the curtains.

Man On Fire

Not a whole lot of intimacy in this one. I'm not going to spend long on it, because it's not particularly meaty, but I think the Olu/Zheng hand grab over the table is adorable and a perfect way to show two people on the same page after going through it. It's balanced and sweet.

Now, the other thing:

This staging is suuuuuuch a missed opportunity, but I also think it works considering the later context of the scene.

Y'know how you'd usually show a morning after? Snuggling up together, shoulder to shoulder, legs intertwined. Hazy and precious and lovely.

It's a bit harder with this particular set piece - you can't shoot them from the reverse, cause of the window, so everything needs to be pointed out towards the camera, making snuggling side by side harder to shoot. In theatre you'd just angle the prop differently, but you can't do that on film in a room that has established locations.

Initially when I watched this, I was like "okay rookie move, they've missed the obvious".

But.

It makes sense with the characterisation of this episode. Stede's killed a guy. He's had probably the first bit of pleasurable intimacy in his entire life. Man's ego's the size of the room. He's got his chest out cause he feels good.

Ed, however. He's fully clothed. He's doing the good thing, doing the right thing, getting breakfast in bed but it's still not quite right in the way "it should be" (the twine), and he's buttoned up to the neck. No swagger, no body showing. What does that scream? Avoidance. Weirdness. Maybe even a bit of discomfort.

Keep in mind that in the last 12 hours he's seen Stede, who he fell in love with because of his whimsy and difference from other pirates kill a guy. He's seen him threaten other peoples' lives. He expressed the desire to take things slow and instead, in a feat of piqued emotion, they hooked up, and they probably shouldn't have.

They're not cuddling because it's weird. The whole moment is weird. It's almost a walk of shame but they're on the same damn ship together. They might have hooked up, but the pair of them clearly still aren't on the same page.

I doubt we'll see it next week, but I hope these two can find their peace. This is a genre comedy, not just a romance, so I doubt it'll be anything explicit, but I would love to see a scene that's deeply passionate, building the intimacy without building the pace. Take us in closer, let us feel what the characters feel without immediately cutting away.

Loathed as I am to link some of these clips because of their nonsense dialogue, here's some moments in other mlm media that do well at building that intimacy.

This Bill/Sam clip from True Blood that doesn't even have a kiss but holds the tension really well. Another nonsense dream sequence scene from True Blood that still has nice staging. Agron and Nasir from Spartacus have incredible chemistry with a variety of clips to choose from. There are so many options and I would love love love to see them explored in the final episode of S2 or in S3. Very excited to see them both on the same page - ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT FOR THE WIN.

Thanks for reading! Reblog if you liked. If there's anything juicy in ep 8 I'll cover it as well.

[sunfortune]

CHERYL DUNYE WORKED ON BRIDGERTON??????? this is crazy. kanthony has the lesbian gaze fr <— hasn’t watched bridgerton

worked on it? she directed the gazebo sex episodes. we literally have FINGERS IN HIS MOUTH bc of HER!! i owe her everything !!!

[thestarlightforge]

I’m gonna wait a few days to delve all the way in so I can speak on it with full spoilers without ruining it for too many people, but—

THE COSTUMES & MAKEUP. THE MUSIC & SCORE. THE SET DESIGN & SUBTLE PROP WORK. THE CINEMATOGRAPHY. THE DIRECTION. THE PERFORMANCES. THE INTIMACY CHOREOGRAPHY 😭

Here checking on the people that have watch tbosas… how are we doing? How was it?? Pls share🐦‍⬛🐍

All opinions are welcome

[em-edwards]

Fall Away!

Another season is off and running and here's the recap of what I've been up to, as well as my upcoming projects for the next month!

Alien Hearts

I worked as an Intimacy Consultant on the indie film Alien Hearts this summer. Based on the Guy de Maupassant' novel of the same name, Alien Hearts tells the story of artist André Mariolle as he intersects with the rich Miche de Burne, a patron to artists. It was a delight to work with writer/director Kevin Townley and the amazing actors on this modern queer romantic fantasia.

It's Getting Tired Mildred

Season 10(!!) of It's Getting Tired Mildred kicked off with a sock puppet episode this past weekend! Enjoy this backstage shot of me with my counterpart, Sock Puppet Lacy! Next episode is October 12th.

Dreamcats! The Musical

I'm so excited to be a part of this show, created by one of my favorite groups, Midnight Radio Show! Not only am I acting in this hybrid puppet/live action sci-fi fantasy show, but The Dysfunctional Swingers are debuting a brand new dance piece! Happening Saturday at 7:30 as part of the Evolution Festival at the gorgeous space at The Center at West Park. Tickets and info can be found here.

Feejee Mermaid

I'm thrilled to be intimacy/violence director for the debut play for the new theatre company Drops in the Vase! On the eve of the 19th Annual International Taxidermy Championships, four experts of the trade gather in a hotel room. Fueled by competitive tension and a whole lot of alcohol, they spend the night vying for supremacy. Who can master the act of creation, and achieve perfection? By the end of the night, one of them proves they are willing to push the boundaries of their craft further than anyone ever thought possible. The show runs Oct 16-Nov 2. Tickets can be found here.

Peter and the Starcatcher

The fall production for NJIT, I'll be helping out with some of the fights for the show. It's such a fun show and I'm looking forward to jumping into rehearsals soon!

[msmargaretmurry]

I'm sure you've watched it already but another documented mcstrome moment has hit the pentagon.

https://x.com/graveyardgayme/status/1893746686696001823?t=JE6brYCWRpOd2g9daC793A&s=19

(link + bonus link) oh my godddddd anon no i had NOT seen this because i was on a TRAIN for most of the game today and so i just now watched this 500 times in a row and oh i feel UNWELL and INSANE. thank you for sharing this will fuel me for weeks

[pegasusdrawnchariots]

Every day, I wish I knew Japanese so that I could read Cyrano de Bergerac in Japanese

[theatricavities]

Concord Theatricals play haul!!! So excited to dig into these mostly POC/Latine plays!!

[andwhatnot1]

it's indeed unbelievable that I found yet another excuse to draw her half naked reaction image stolen from @zhoudadudugongjin