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pleasedontanalyzeme · 1 year

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I'm moving out soon so I wonder if I can persuade my dad to give me our living room table

Like the thing is scratched up and chunks of the carvings are missing. I know exactly how to fix it but he won't let me and he's been saying he wants a new one so it's literally perfect

#man won't even let me clean and seal the grout #his executive disfunction is so bad he disfunctions everyone around him #my sister and I had to bully him into letting us buy a mop #infuriating house to live in

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strangestcase · 8 months

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Ever After High can be so easily spun as reform vs revolution it’s not even funny. The children of fairytales figures being pigeonholed into retelling the same stories all over again, only with different characters in different contexts. Royals defending good people holding up the status quo vs Rebels realizing the system itself is bullshit. Like moving past the obvious theme of “should stories be retold or reimagined?” there’s Something to be said about how a DOLL LINE accidentally said being a liberal dooms you to become your parents

#doc talks #ever after high #Apple is like. THE blueprint for That Kinda Teen #the socially conscious but out of touch rich girl who wants to do good and help others #but ultimately she’s a rich girl who lives in a big house and has a cop dad #and GASPS infuriated when you suggest that if he was a good cop he’d quit the force

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brionysea · 6 months

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this man is pissing me off

#the ballad of songbirds and snakes #first it was with his annoying ass thoughts about the superiority of the capital and the dehumanisation of the districts #but now he's having like. NORMAL thoughts. that would be EXPECTED when living in a dystopia #he's seen two classmates die and realised it could've been him and that sejanus saying the capitol not protecting its citizens had merit #and he started acting like a decent human being about lucy gray's situation #forgetting about his own bullshit in the face of her suffering because it's clear that hers is more immediately concerning #the parallels between katniss and coryo drive me INSANE #they've both impoverished young adults who've been in survival mode trying to keep their families from starving to death #forced to actually acknowledge the real world and decide on their own sense of morality #with good influences trying to push them towards the right side #eg. katniss having gale and peeta's voices in her head when she makes a stand for rue #but i KNOW snow doesn't listen to lucy gray and sejanus #i KNOW he doesn't #i've seen the ending! so the possibility of him getting over himself and becoming better is pissing me off because i know he doesn't!!!!#it would be so much easier if he was pure evil. it would be so much less infuriating and so much less horrifying but he's not #he had the potential for goodness and instead he murdered countless people #including thousands of children and any political opponents who got in his way #AND ALSO LUCY GRAY AND SEJANUS #(lucy gray's fate is a mystery but he still chose to kill her and that at least changed HIM)#i hate this. these books are so good i HATE IT #but also some of these lines are so ironic #his tendency towards obsession is likely to kill him one day if he doesn't learn to outsmart it #almost like an obsession with the mockingjay #and calling dr. gaul crazy for her extreme measures to ensure he doesn't lie to her #when he ends up doing the exact same thing to katniss #maybe minus the overt show of violence but like. he doesn't have to. he's in her house threatening her loved ones #it's so fascinating #i want to eat it #but i won't cause i haven't finished reading yet

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ccrabapples · 2 years

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I kind of hate the way mental illness is treated nowadays. Like it’s wonderful there’s less of a stigma around it but it’s been so normalized that no one takes it seriously anymore and everyone thinks they know how it works bc they watched a tiktok abt it once.

You can’t say that you have depression or anxiety because “everyone has that” so who gives a fuck?

OCD means nothing to anyone because “we’re all a little OCD amiright??” And the illness has been misrepresented and misunderstood for so long that no one understand how anyone with OCD could be suffering from it. (Hint: it isn’t keeping your room nice and organized)

Even Body Dysmorphia means jack shit because “no one likes how they look, we’re all insecure.” Like that even begins to cover the extent of the illness.

We’ve all had our sad spells, anxiety, little obsessions and self hate. What people don’t seem to understand is that all those experiences do not represent what it’s like to have the actual mental illness. Everyone experiences anxiety now and again, its part of being human. It’s when it starts interfering with your life— coming about randomly and incapacitating a person— that it becomes a disorder.

You’re not “a little OCD” because you like your room organized, and you definitely don’t know what it’s like for people who have actual OCD because you get sort of bugged when something’s out of place.

These mental illnesses can interfere with every aspect of a persons life. They’re life-altering. They’re not just fun little labels to prove how quirky and unique someone is.

#like I don’t just hate the way I look homie I couldn’t leave my house for over a year and I almost ended my life over it #bc I didn’t feel like I deserved to live #but haha yeah so relateable #ocd is another one that just infuriates me #it’s OBSESSIVE compulsive disorder #OBSESSIVE #there is always a part of your brain dedicated to it in every scnerio always!#it’s soul sucking time consuming exhausting no end in sight #I can’t do normal things and act like a human person because my life is controlled by my obsessions and compulsions #SO true bestie WHAT A MOOD #anyways rant over #this is fine to reblog btw

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haarute · 19 days

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just now, someone broke into my very next door (our buildings are connected) neighbor's place as they were away on a trip. they noticed over security cam livestream footage and contacted everyone. a bunch of cops with rifles and shotguns then showed up right in front of my bedroom window, broke into their house, and took away this singular unarmed woman who had snuck in and was hiding inside of their trailer in the garage.

the sergeant told my mom not to worry because they took several items (like a fire extinguisher) from my neighbor's place and were going to straight up lie about why she was being brought up to the precinct by saying that she was stealing/using said items so they can detain her for longer.

i'm feeling a lot of things right now

#of course everything that i just told you sounds deeply infuriating but i need you to understand that i am a very paranoid person #due to a history of having my house broken into before which has severely affected every waking moment of my life living in society #and the fear i'm feeling right now combined with this sense of hopelessness from every angle is too much right now #i just want to move. i want out. i need to move to a place where this isn't common.#i'm not only afraid of someone breaking into my place at any given time. i am also afraid of the deeply corrupt justice system #that would just tell that to my mom's face like yeah! this is a good thing that we do !#and not the most disturbing thing you've ever heard in your life.#while i am terrified for my life every moment that i spend living here. i can also see the skinny young woman surrounded by guns #being taken with her head down right in front of my window.#while unlikely. she could have just been seeking shelter or food for all we know. one look at her tells you that she's probably dirt poor.#and thinking about the way that cop just said they were going to treat her by just Lying. is the most disgusting thing i've ever heard.#i don't want to live here anymore.#i don't want to live in a neighborhood where it's a constant tug and pull between the marginalized and the corrupt #where My House is the stage. somehow.#i just want the fuck out of the country altogether. straight up.

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shadowfloofster · 1 year

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People on twitter seriously doesn't know what being friends is at this point

Q!Roier thought Q!BBH likes Q!Vegetta because he keeps going to his house so they've immediately taken it as true.

They use the evidence of "I thought I liked Vagetta till he put mines around my home" (or something along those lines) when like doesn't mean a crush or love, it usually means he thought they were on good terms! He thought they were friends! He just doesn't think so anymore because of this!

(Slightly off topic but is linked to the conversation with Roier Bad had.)

While Q!Bad probably shouldn't be breaking into Q!Vegetta's home, he'd done it with Q!Foolish and Leo around, so he'd think why wouldn't it be okay? They'd have seriously told him not to if they didn't want him to right? If you don't want people using your things, don't put them somewhere people can get to easily! (This is in Q!Bad's head)

Q!Bad shows this thought process himself! Dapper's room is hidden away from the main house so is incredibly hard to get to, the farm and the main home are in the open so anyone could see it. So Q!Bad thinks this is how it works with everyone, if they really didn't want someone messing with something, they wouldn't just put it in the open in their house.

This is supported by other people! Q!Phil and Q!Missa made it so people can't break into Chayanne's home and now into the basement where Tallulah and Chayanne live. So if Q!Vegetta didn't want Q!Bad in his house and using the villagers, why wouldn't someone stop him till now?

Q!Bad might have let it go and just acted offended until Q!Vegetta put Dapper in danger around their own home by placing mines around the place, now having to be careful not to step on any while just walking around their own home! Sure it didn't damage anything important and didn't seem to want to cause damage to anything big, but they put Dapper's life (and any other egg who happened to visit his farm) in danger if they couldn't find and remove each one safely! Q!Bad then took it as a direct attack, because Q!Vegetta put every egg that could possibly go there at risk, especially Dapper! Q!Bad doesn't let endangering the eggs go easily, proven by his constant mistrust of Q!Quackity (And a bit Q!Slime but not as much due to it being just after Juanaflippa died and never seeming to try hurt them again) so that isn't going to be let go easily.

#Shadow rants #Qsmp #qsmp badboyhalo #qsmp vegetta #Twitter is infuriating about things sometimes #People can be FRIENDS!#not everything is romantic or love #Also neither Q!Vegetta nor Q!Bad are in the entirely wrong here #Q!Bad shouldn't be breaking into Vegetta's house uninvited and using his things #While Q!Vegetta shouldn't have placed mines around the farm Q!Bad and Dapper live at!#One does more damage than the other but they both did something wrong

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illogicalghost · 3 months

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why do people get dogs just to keep them outside all day? like tied to a post or in a tiny kennel or in their garage or whatever. do you even want a companion animal at that point, or do you just see it as a nuisance? you should get your animals taken away for that kind of shit.

#and i dont mean working dogs like sled dogs or whatever. i mean suburban dogs that sit outside and look miserable all day #its heartbreaking! its infuriating! ive had and have neighbors like this that drive me up the wall #growing up i lived across a poor dog who was kept in a small kennel beside my neighbors house #i think it had a roof but it was otherwise exposed to the elements.. in wisconsin!! the weather is shit here!n #i always felt so fucking bad for that poor dog. and furious at my neighbor #people are the worst

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liazrad · 4 months

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GRRRRR I HATE IT HERE I HATE LIVING WITH MY DAD AND STEPMOM IT'S THE WORST!!!!! I AM FUCKING MISERABLE.

#weed screams #i just wanna snap and yell at them for traumatizing me. I'm so angry. I'm so pissed that I've had to deal with so much bullshit here #I've only been here a week after moving out of the apartment i shared with my brother and I'm already going insane again #i have to buy my own food despite there being plenty in the house. I'm not allowed to bring dishes to my room even for just a few minutes.#there's two large excitable not well trained dogs that bite and scratch me #the cats in the house have to hide in the basement all day (to avoid the dogs) and i feel so bad for them #i feel like im the only one who actually tries to relate to my stepsister. i feel bad knowing she has to stay here too.#my stepmom makes rules without TELLING ME. and then gets all bothered when i don't automatically pick up on em #and the wifi sucks shit so i can't play splatoon #i can't wait to move to New York i just have to wait a little bit longer #enduring the horrors once more till i can escape to the big city #this living situation is both infuriating and saddening. there is NO REASON to justify how stressful it is to be here.#like. when i moved out of this place the first time my mental health improved so suddenly my therapist said i didn't need to see him anymore #that's not a fucking coincidence. my stress and anxiety has a root source and it's this hellhole of a house.

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bugpoasting · 4 months

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the ballad of john and yoko is such an evil song (affectionate) i genuinely love it so much

#the personal reason #well it's a long story but the tldr is that a girl in my sophomore year friend group two-timed two guys in our dorm #(in that she was hooking up with both of them without telling the other) and also we all lived in a house-dorm of 35 so we all. were very #familiar with each other #and one of the guys was a super senior/masters student and the other was a sophomore and also in our friend group #full disclosure my account is biased but he was suuuuper into her and took her out on a bunch of dates and was rly sweet #while the super senior was insanely rich and kind of a dick and did none of that beyond sleeping with her #there was a biiig blowout fight the one week i wasnt there which culminated in the girl locking herself in the bathroom and the super #senior banging on the door and screaming at her #and then. she ended up dumping our friend and dating the shitass super senior #and we all told her like hey....this guy rly isnt good for you we care for you and he's been treating you like shit #and she was like idgafffffff #and. to their credit they're still together lol props to them but she kinda got dropped from our friend group because of the whole shebang #anyways. the super senior was a HUGE beatles fan and would caption all his ig photos with lyrics #and he posted a pic of the two of them dressed in all black and turtlenecks with 'the ballad of john and yoko'#and now as a beatles understander i realize how fucking insane that is. and also they will never be Them it's infuriating in that regard too #also the fact that the bassline is soooooo present like that one quote aboht george choosing mot to participate because 'it's the ballad of #john and yoko' not 'the ballad of john and yoko and george'. ignoring that paul was Right There with them in da stu #insanity. what a good fucking song

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edwardshundredyearoldspunk · 10 months

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#i hate that i'm like this but the girl we're hosting used my mug and it makes me irrationally angry #like #i didn't ever tell her ''hey don't use this mug because i have my own stuff and i don't like cross contaminating''#so i KNOW i have no right to be angry #and it coooouuld have been one of my family members who used it but i doubt it because they know i don't like sharing mugs and glasses etc #but either way this is just a symptom of how chaotic i feel in my own house and i hate myself for being like this #i never say anything because i KNOW its crazy people talk to be like ''hey that's my seat. why? because i always sit there and like it?''#and i know it doesn't affect anyone how the spoons are organized and how the plates are stacked and where the pots are stored #but its just infuriating to see things in places where (in my mind system) they don't go #i know it's the autism but that has never found me any sort of sympathy in my family (diagnosis or no diagnosis) so i can't say that #and if i skirt around it and say ''i like things a certain way and not having them like that causes me severe emotional distress''#it makes me seem controlling and abusive (which are things my mom has implied i am when i explain these things to her)#i know the real reason for these issues isn't our guest but also at this point she isn't our fucking guest because SHE'S BEEN HERE A MONTH #and she is clearly overstaying her welcome imo #i don't say anything because i'm not a mean person but i'm sure everyone around me can tell i'm stressed about something #i just need my space back but i don't even feel like i have a claim over that cuz mexican families are full of the ''my house my rules'' bs #which is untrue because a) the house isn't even owned by my parents anymore #(they made some stupid financial choices years ago and my uncle had to buy the house from them or risk foreclosure)#and b) we're all adults (except my brother obviously) and we all contribute however we can #so i should have some say in how i feel if i'm living here imo #and i am trying to make money however i can so i can move out soon #but just going out twice a week has me like this i can't imagine working a traditional job atm #(i did apply for a grant for autistic people of color so hopefully something will come of that)#anyways that was my rant i'm just really stressed and constantly on the brink of a meltdown #it's not this random girls fault #she just happens to be the final drop in my very very small bucket very often these days #(y'know because she's a fucking stranger in my house and i hate having to mask in my own home idk i'm awful i probably won't post this)

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clancyycat · 7 months

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everyone in this workshop class praising the god awful piece this girl wrote. be so fucking serious

#the fact that she was offered a TA position over me is so fucking infuriating. i know ur undergrad students write better than you #i wrote more compelling prose in elementary school #i’m not being hyperbolic either i wrote a short story in third grade about a witchy old woman named mrs. gramdilly who #lived in a haunted house and it was better than this juvenile ass writing

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boimgfrog · 1 year

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best part of my job is helping people from different countries and seeing little kids run around. worst part of my job is telling gentrification family #459 why they should absolutely move here it's such a lovely place they'll absolutely love it (I'm mentally stabbing and killing the realtors who recommended this town 2 them w sharp objects)

#LEAVEEEEEEE STOP MOVING MORE RICH WHITE PEOPLE HERE AND JACKING THE HOUSING PRICES UPPPPPPPPPPPP #NO ONE BORN HERE CAN FUCKING FIND A PLACE TO LIVE AND THE HOMELESS POPULATION KEEPS RISING AND MORE FUCKING #MIDDLE CLASS WHITE COUPLES KEEP MOVING IN AND TAKING UP BEACHFRONT PROPERTIES AND BUIKDING HOUSES ON OUR GREENSPACE #jay says a thing #work rambles #its infuriating #and its not their fault. not always. and its my job to talk good abt my town and its got so much good to talk about #but UGH. ugh please i cant keep seeing more churches running out of food at drives and more teachers taking summer jobs and winter jobs #and i cant keep watching parks get bulldozed and made into aparments that no one who needs a place to live can afford #it makes me insane

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rico-tyrell · 9 months

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Covid VS my immune system

Covid: >:( Immune: >:)

Strep Throat VS my immune system

Strep: >:) Immune: >:(

#its infuriating #WHYY do i only ever get sick with strep #why is this a yearly thing now #i was free from it for like 7 years after i graduated #it was every year in high school then it stopped for a while #didn't get covid ONCE and my BOYFRIEND HAD IT we LIVED TOGETHER #the only people i'm aware of with strep are at people's houses like I haven't even crossed paths with them

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stevethehairington · 11 months

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