#influencer FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)

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Cardano (ADA): Sell it for Solana? 

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Cardano (ADA): Sell it for Solana? 

Cardano (ADA): Sell it for Solana?

Cardano (ADA), the brainchild of Ethereum co-founder Charles Hoskinson, has been a hot topic in the crypto space. However, with a recent barrage of bearish news and influencer skepticism, some are questioning whether ADA is all it’s cracked up to be. Let’s delve into the world of Cardano, separating hype from reality.

Influencer FOMO and the Solana Shadow:

Social media is flooded with “Cardano killers” like Solana (SOL) boasting lightning-fast transaction speeds and lower fees. Influencers, often swayed by short-term gains, are hyping SOL to the moon, leaving Cardano seemingly stuck in the dust.

Cardano’s Different Path:

However, Cardano takes a much different approach than the “move fast and break things” mentality of some competitors. Cardano prioritizes meticulous research and a peer-reviewed development process. This methodical approach, while slower, aims to deliver a more secure and scalable blockchain in the long run.

Cardano vs. The Hype Machine:

Recent bearish articles highlight Cardano’s slow development progress and missed deadlines. While these criticisms hold some weight, it’s important to remember Cardano is building a complex ecosystem.

The ADA Price:

Cardano’s Bullish Trajectory: A Technical Analysis Glimpse

Cardano (ADA) has been on a tear lately, and technical analysts are using charting tools to predict its potential price path. Here’s a breakdown of three possible targets based on different timeframes:

Short-Term (1-2 Months): Applying the Fibonacci retracement tool to ADA’s recent price surge suggests a first target of around $2.20. This level represents the 61.8% retracement of the current upswing, a common support zone after a price increase.

Mid-Term (3-6 Months): If the bullish momentum continues, a more ambitious target could be $14. This aligns with the 161.8% Fibonacci extension level, indicating a potential doubling of the current price within the next half year. However, reaching this target zone would require sustained buying pressure and positive news surrounding the Cardano ecosystem.

Long-Term (1+ Years): For the long-term hodlers (holders on for a dear life), some analysts are charting a much more aggressive target – a staggering $55. This aligns with the 261.8% Fibonacci extension, signifying a potential 25x return on investment from current levels. However, reaching this price point would require significant adoption of Cardano’s blockchain technology and widespread recognition of its functionalities.

Remember: This is for informational purposes only and should not be considered financial advice. Technical analysis is just one tool, and market conditions can change rapidly. Always conduct your own research before making any investment decisions.

Is ADA a Worthy Investment?

While some influencers are quick to dismiss ADA, it’s crucial to conduct your own research and understand Cardano’s unique value proposition. Here are some key aspects to consider:

Scalability: Cardano’s Ouroboros proof-of-stake consensus mechanism aims to achieve high transaction throughput without sacrificing decentralization, a challenge faced by many blockchains.

Smart Contracts: Cardano’s smart contract platform, Plutus, is built with security and formal verification in mind, aiming to minimize bugs and vulnerabilities.

Interoperability: Cardano’s vision includes interoperability with other blockchains, allowing seamless transfer of data and assets across different ecosystems.

Bearish News and Price Performance:

Despite the recent bearish sentiment, it’s worth noting that ADA started the current market cycle at around $0.20 and reached a peak of over $3.00, a significant increase. This demonstrates that long-term investors still see value in Cardano’s long-term vision.

Is ADA Right for You?

The decision to invest in ADA depends on your risk tolerance and investment horizon. If you’re looking for a quick pump based on influencer hype, Cardano might not be the best choice. However, if you believe in Cardano’s long-term vision of a secure and scalable blockchain platform, ADA could be a worthwhile investment for your portfolio.

Remember:

The cryptocurrency market is notoriously volatile and prone to hype cycles. Always conduct thorough research, understand the risks involved, and never invest more than you can afford to lose.

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The Fear of Missing Out

According to a new survey, three in four Americans are experiencing FOODMO — the fear of missing out on new food trends.

According to a new survey, three in four Americans are experiencing FOODMO — the fear of missing out on new food trends. Image Credit: http://www.shutterstock.com/https://www.shutterstock.com/g/magdanatka The poll of 2,000 Americans who use social media found 77% felt food-related fear of missing out (FOMO), and nearly as many (75%) said they instantly crave food when they see it online. To…

[jingwei]

Class A Event Cafe Business Model

Analyzing Gakushu's school festival business plan from a comprehensive finance and psychological perspective reveals several key strengths and potential risks. I'll delve into the intricacies of the revenue model, cost structure, operational efficiency, and psychological tactics for a nuanced understanding of his business strategy and its implications. (This may get wordy.)

The event cafe's primary revenue source is the 500 yen entrance fee, which provides attendees with free food, drinks, and access to performances. This model banks on repeat visits, assuming high engagement levels. The psychological underpinning here is the ‘fear of missing out’ (FOMO), as events are scheduled at one-hour intervals, creating urgency and encouraging multiple payments.

Examining the cost structure, Gakushu’s reliance on free performances by pop stars pals and comedian buddies significantly cuts entertainment expenses. This cost-saving measure, however, hinges on personal relationships, posing sustainability risks. If these relationships wane or if performers seek compensation in the future, it could disrupt the cost structure. Since this is a fictional case scenario, I'm going with the possibility that Gakushu's network can be relied on.

The endorsement deal with Suzume Izakaya food services provides substantial financial support and in-kind contributions. This sponsorship not only reduces operational costs but also enhances the festival’s credibility, as Suzume Izakaya’s brand reputation can attract more visitors who trust the quality of the food and beverages.

Offering free food and drinks is a double-edged sword. On one hand, it is an attractive feature that can draw a large number of attendees, enhancing perceived value and satisfaction. On the other hand, it presents a significant cost burden. Effective inventory management and supplier negotiations are crucial to balance cost and supply. There is also a risk of overconsumption, which must be managed to avoid resource depletion.

Operational efficiency is another critical component of Gakushu's plan. Organizing events at one-hour intervals on different stages maximizes space and time utilization, keeping the audience engaged and minimizing downtime. This continuous engagement strategy ensures that attendees are constantly entertained, increasing the likelihood of repeat entrance fee payments. The immediate start of subsequent events also helps maintain a steady flow of visitors, reducing congestion and enhancing the overall customer experience.

Psychologically, the one-hour event intervals create a sense of urgency and scarcity, compelling attendees to make quick decisions to attend multiple events. This tactic leverages the psychological principle that limited availability increases perceived value, driving higher engagement and repeat visits.

The use of celebrity performances taps into social proof and authority. Featuring well-known pop stars and comedians draws their fan bases and generates buzz, enhancing the festival’s attractiveness. This social influence can significantly boost attendance, as people tend to follow the actions of those they admire. The endorsement by Suzume Izakaya also adds an element of authority and trust, reassuring attendees about the quality and safety of the festival’s offerings.

The all-inclusive 500 yen entrance fee creates a high perceived value, making attendees feel they are getting a good deal. This pricing strategy increases their willingness to pay, especially when considering the continuous entertainment and free provisions. The plan also aims to foster customer loyalty by ensuring a captivating experience that encourages repeat visits.

Quoting what the Virtuosos said, such a complex and multifaceted plan is particularly challenging for a third-year junior high student. The management skills required to coordinate performances, manage resources, negotiate partnerships, and ensure operational efficiency are significant. Gakushu’s ability to pull off this plan and win the school festival showcases exceptional organizational and leadership skills. This ability to leverage personal networks and psychological principles to drive engagement and revenue are commendable. Successfully managing such a demanding project at 15 could be foreshadowing of his future as an executive when he started a business in Silicon Valley after receiving an MBA at MIT.

[louandhazaf]

ANNUAL WRITING SELF EVALUATION 2023

List of works published this year:

Wanted: Dog Walker // Louis needs a dog walker. / Harry answers the ad. A Social Construct // Five times Harry and Louis try to lose their virginity and one time they finally do.

Tongue Tied // Louis’ new bestie placed a hand on his shoulder; he turned with a sway and looked into his blue eyes. ”What do you wish?” / The world spun for a moment, and Louis shrugged. It was easy. The only thing he wanted. “I wish that I could tell Harry that I love him, instead of getting all tongue tied and chickening out.” / The Irishman winked. “You never know, your wish may just come true.” / “From your lips to God’s ears, mate.” He gave the man a hug. “I gotta go before my Uber leaves me.” / He stumbled to the door, and that was the last thing he remembered from the night. ‘tis the damn season // Harry returns to her small hometown over the holiday season and starts to think about the road not taken.

Work you are most proud of (and why): ‘tis the damn season because I have always said that there was absolutely no way I could write an advent fic day by day. And yet, when Nov 30th came around and I only had two chapters, my fomo won over my fear of failure and I thought I’d give it a try, because the worst that would happen is that I wouldn’t finish it, which would’ve been fine! But then with the help of everyone who read along, I actually did it! 

A favorite excerpt of your writing: unlike most years, when I quickly scrolled through my works, nothing specific jumped out, so I’ll just say that I really liked how ch 6 rolled into ch 7 in ‘tis the damn season! 

Share or describe a favorite review you received: literally every single one.

A time when writing was really, really hard: oh boy. Okay. so if you go back and read my 2022 recap, and 2021, you’ll see that writing has consistently been hard for me for a few years. So, this year I told myself not to worry about it, that I could not write a single thing and not feel bad about it. I didn’t do a ton of writing this year, but having the internal pressure off sure helped. Even though I really miss the way it used to be. 

A scene or character you wrote that surprised you: I’ll say Zayn in ‘tis the damn season, because I didn’t have a role for her when I started, and I really liked her as minor threat slash Louis’ bff and sometimes hookup. I want someone to write a story in her pov. lmaoooo How did you grow as a writer this year: I really tried to get rid of my perfectionist tendencies and tried to write without putting pressure on myself. 

How do you hope to grow next year: i dont even know, tbh. I’ll be very happy if I match my 2023 fic count. 

Who was your greatest positive influence this year as a writer (could be another writer or beta or cheerleader or muse etc etc): I adore everything that @disgruntledkittenface put out this year. The way she keeps pushing herself is really inspiring.

Anything from your real life show up in your writing this year: ummm, I guess the ‘moving back home thing’... idk. Nothing i wrote this year hit particularly close to home. 

Any new wisdom you can share with other writers: i love you. please keep going!

Any projects you’re looking forward to starting (or finishing) in the new year: what I would give to be able to write the next installment of Swallow My Words. Thank you so much to @kingsofeverything @allwaswell16 @lululawrence and @haztobegood for tagging me! @phdmama want to join in the fun? @disgruntledkittenface did i miss yours? anyone else??? (also, here’re my responses from 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022)

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There are a lot of people who say that the problem with modern media—specifically tentpole franchises like the MCU and “Star Wars”—is that there’s too much “pandering” to “wokeism” as opposed to “just telling good stories.”

And I want you to walk with me as I tell you about how “Wokeism” has always been a part of these franchises and that the stories are STILL GOOD actually. But how YOU’RE engaging with these stories is the problem.

Comics have literally always been woke. Superman was created by Jewish men with a specific goal in mind—he represented Jews. He was a response to the rise in Nazism.

The X-Men are, well, we know who they are—they represent persecuted minorities, be they race or sexual/gender minorities.

Star Wars was heavily influenced by the Vietnam War—and was on the side of the Vietnamese!

And don’t get me started on “Star Trek”. Cuz in that universe, people don’t even use money anymore. It’s a socialist utopia.

“Wokeism” has been baked into all these stories from the jump. It’s just that when we were children, we didn’t have the worldview that we do now (as adults) to see what it was.

A lot of people say that these “woke” writers are “reimagining great comic characters” and making them worse. Yet, the Tony Stark everybody loves in the MCU? Not comics accurate. The Superman Snyder made? Not comics accurate.

It’s ok to not like versions of characters that people choose to make. That’s why they’re adaptations. They’re not meant to be analogous. I accept Snyder’s version even though that was not Siegel and Shuster’s original vision. It’s Snyder’s take. And I engage with that as its own piece of media.

Has this era of these franchises been more inclusive? 100%. And will that appeal to everyone? Absolutely not. But there’s a reason for that.

I believe the problem is that, due to the interconnectedness of the MCU/Star Wars etc., fans feel forced to watch programs that don’t appeal to THEM. And then blame the show for that. When, perhaps, you were not the target audience.

“She-Hulk” was not made for everybody. It was made for people who would like to follow a female character with special abilities who just kind of wants to be normal and deal with everyday, normal stuff. But can’t. Because she’s a Hulk. But also a woman in the modern world. I found it funny and charming because it appealed to ME. And I often watch shows about women dealing with their careers and love lives.

It’s “Ally McBeal” if she got Hulk powers. And if you were unlikely to watch “Ally McBeal” why do you think you would like “She-Hulk”?

“Andor” is in many ways a good show. But I did not like it because I did not find it entertaining. I understood every political message it had. And share the politics of the show. I just didn’t find it to be a show that I enjoyed. So I didn’t watch it past the first couple episodes.

The problem is FOMO—fear of missing out. Not diversity. Not inclusion. But fans don’t realize that it’s ok to not consume everything from a franchise. That doesn’t make it bad. It just makes it not FOR YOU.

And saying that the work is bad because of “Wokeism” and “bad storytelling” (which is subjective), sounds like a YOU problem. If you can come to me with an objective take, I will engage with it. I’m not saying these new things are above criticism. But the problem isn’t that it’s “woke”.

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Blurb of Yan ROTMNT with y/n who has huge fomo?

I'm just writing 75% comfort blurbs at this point haha

Tw: nothing too bad I don't think, Mikey praying to you again

✦Rome Fome Pome Home Homo✦

(Try saying that name out loud bitches)

You will never have to worry about anything with him. He is stuck to you about 24/7 so no worries at all. If anything, you're just feeding into his dependency.

✦Leggy Meggy Peggy✦

You already know he absolutely loves it. You'll want to stick him. You'll want to spend time with him. And he is going to completely indulge himself.

✦Damn The Alaskans ate the British Columbians✦

He doesn't leave the lair too much in the first place, and if you have a fear of missing out, then it can only mean you'll stay with him. This means you'll be safe in a beneficial environment without bad influences.

✦My Princess Soda Poppin' Toenail✦

Stop giving him excuses to love you even more. He'll want to do everything with you at that point. Burning houses, cooking, praying (well he's praying to you but um-), and anything else you can think of.

(Help I've been doing weird swooshes with my newly gained bowl-cut for like 5 minutes now).

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undercomsuption core e como estamos anestesiados de tanta informação

Por Duda Eloy

Num mundo onde diariamente algum influencer, ator, atriz ou cantor lança uma marca de maquiagem, cabelo ou roupa nova, nos ultimos meses, vem viralizando uma corrente de resistencia a isso: pessoas que usam o mesmo perfume desde a adolescência, que usam suas maquiagens ate a ultima gota, que nao compram roupas com frequência. apresento a voces o underconsumption core.

Jornais esclarecem que e isso é um reflexo natural de como o excesso de informação e propaganda basicamente deturpou nossa capacidade de conhecer novas coisas. Como toda nova base é a melhor base, todo shampoo tem uma especialidade especifica e nenhum é realmente eficaz… num cenario onde todo produto novo é o melhor, ninguém sabe o que é real e o que é publi, então a gente acaba se apegando as coisas que ja conhecemos.

Em paralelo a isso, existe uma grande estratégia de marketing é a FOMO: fear of missing out. Para não ficar fora do assunto, a marca gera um frisson nas redes sociais de pessoas falando sobre, fazendo comentários e gravando reviews sobre colecoes inteiras de produtos que quem esta de fora se sente intrinsecamente ansioso por nao poder debater sobre, sendo delicadamente incentivado a comprar. Um exemplo é a Rhode, marca da influencer Hailey Bieber que sugere, intimamente aos seus consumidores a gravarem videos dos seus produtos assim que estes chegam, dando importância ao comprador e causando desejo em quem nao tem ainda.

O grande problema, segundo o artigo, sao as constantes novidades e o perenidade do que está em alta, causando uma ansiedade e necessidade de pertencimento que esta nos cansando. A fomo pode ate incentivar a compra, mas a consciência acerca dela, e das dividas que ela gera em muitas pessoas por ai, vem aumentando muito e fazendo a geração atual buscar mais por qualidade e se interessar menos por variedades repetitivas do mesmo produto e coleções sazionais, por exemplo.

Eai? me conta o que voce achou e nao me fala que tem 30 variacoes do mesmo gloss em casa nao se nao eu vou ai puxar seu pe de noite!!

(Helena Sbeghen/Superinteressante)

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The Bitcoin Bombshell: Analyzing Trump's Hypothetical Move to Make BTC a Treasury Reserve Asset

In the ever-evolving landscape of finance and politics, few scenarios could send shockwaves through the global economy quite like a major policy shift involving Bitcoin. Picture this: Former President Donald Trump announces his intention to advocate for Bitcoin as a US Treasury reserve asset. While purely hypothetical, such a declaration could potentially catapult Bitcoin's price to unprecedented heights and reshape the financial world as we know it. In this blog post, we'll dive deep into the implications of this speculative yet fascinating prospect, exploring why it could lead to a parabolic surge in Bitcoin's value and what it might mean for the future of global finance.

The Power of Political Influence on Markets

Historical precedent shows us that statements from high-profile political figures can significantly impact markets and investor sentiment. Trump, with his substantial following and controversial yet influential persona, has demonstrated the ability to move markets with mere tweets. If he were to endorse Bitcoin as a treasury reserve asset, it would mark a seismic shift in the perception of cryptocurrencies, potentially cementing Bitcoin's status as a legitimate and mainstream financial asset.

Historical Context: From Gold Standard to Digital Gold

To grasp the magnitude of this hypothetical move, let's revisit history. The US once used gold as a treasury reserve asset to back its currency, a system known as the gold standard. This approach solidified gold's status as a valuable and stable asset for decades. A similar endorsement of Bitcoin could position it as "digital gold" for the 21st century, potentially offering a hedge against inflation and economic uncertainty in the digital age.

The Mechanics of a Potential Parabolic Price Surge

Supply and Demand Dynamics: Bitcoin's fixed supply cap of 21 million coins is fundamental to its value proposition. An announcement of this magnitude would likely trigger an unprecedented surge in demand from retail and institutional investors alike, colliding with Bitcoin's limited supply and potentially driving prices to new all-time highs.

Market Psychology and FOMO: The fear of missing out (FOMO) is a powerful force in financial markets. As news of Trump's endorsement would spread, investors might rush to acquire Bitcoin, creating a self-reinforcing cycle of buying pressure and price appreciation.

Institutional Adoption Acceleration: Many institutions have been cautiously observing Bitcoin, hesitant due to regulatory uncertainties. A move like this could be interpreted as a green light for widespread adoption, potentially leading to significant capital inflows from hedge funds, corporations, and even sovereign wealth funds.

Economic and Geopolitical Implications

Impact on the US Dollar: Holding Bitcoin as a reserve asset could potentially strengthen the US dollar by diversifying the country's reserves and providing a hedge against inflation. However, it could also challenge the dollar's status as the world's primary reserve currency.

Global Ripple Effects: Other nations might feel compelled to follow suit, fearing economic disadvantage. This could spark a global race to accumulate Bitcoin, further driving up its price and integrating it deeper into the global financial system.

Regulatory Challenges: Such a move would likely face significant legal and regulatory hurdles. It would require changes to existing laws and could face opposition from traditional financial institutions and some policymakers.

Environmental Considerations

It's important to address the environmental concerns often associated with Bitcoin mining. Any move to make Bitcoin a reserve asset would likely intensify debates about its energy consumption and carbon footprint. This could potentially lead to increased investment in renewable energy sources for mining operations.

Expert Opinions

Dr. Saifedean Ammous, economist and author of "The Bitcoin Standard," states: "While the scenario is hypothetical, it underscores Bitcoin's potential as a neutral, global reserve asset in a world of competing national currencies."

On the other hand, Nobel laureate economist Paul Krugman cautions: "The volatility of Bitcoin makes it a risky choice for national reserves. It could introduce unprecedented instability into the global financial system."

Impact on Other Cryptocurrencies

A Bitcoin-focused treasury reserve policy could have mixed effects on other cryptocurrencies. While it might lend credibility to the broader crypto market, it could also concentrate investment in Bitcoin at the expense of other digital assets.

Conclusion: Navigating the Potential Financial Revolution

While the idea of Trump advocating for Bitcoin as a US Treasury reserve asset remains speculative, exploring this scenario highlights the growing influence and potential of Bitcoin in the global financial landscape. Such a move could indeed send Bitcoin's price on a parabolic trajectory, fueled by increased demand, institutional adoption, and geopolitical dynamics.

However, it's crucial to approach this hypothetical scenario with a balanced perspective. The potential benefits in terms of financial innovation and hedging against inflation must be weighed against regulatory challenges, environmental concerns, and the potential for increased market volatility.

As the world of cryptocurrencies continues to evolve at a rapid pace, staying informed and critically evaluating new developments is more important than ever. Whether this scenario comes to pass or not, it's clear that Bitcoin and blockchain technology will play a significant role in shaping the future of global finance.

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The FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) Psychology and minimalism

The term "FOMO" may be unfamiliar to many people. It stands for "Fear Of Missing Out," which means the fear of missing out on interesting things/activities that others are experiencing.

Under the influence of this psychological effect, we tend to believe that others have better things or are enjoying a better life. We, who have the FOMO psychology, are afraid of being left behind by those who have a better life. For this reason, we make impulsive purchases, wanting to prove that we too are living a good life by owning more possessions.

With the influence of major social media platforms, FOMO is no longer an occasional psychological state. As long as we browse the information online, we will see countless posts, pictures, and videos shared by others, which are more and more glamorous. However, when we put down our phones and return to our own lives, the originally calm and peaceful life will become dull and uninteresting in comparison. This sense of contrast and the need for dopamine will promote our FOMO psychology and drive us to make impulsive purchases every time.

In the context of FOMO, minimalism can serve as an antidote. By cultivating an inner sense of fulfillment and gratitude for their current lifestyle, minimalists are less susceptible to the external pressures and social comparisons that fuel FOMO-driven consumerism.

Minimalists recognize that the constant need to keep up with the perceived "better lives" of others is often an illusion perpetuated by carefully curated social media posts. I truly hope that by practising being a minimalist, we can understand that true happiness and contentment come from within, not from accumulating more material possessions.

[antylope]

How social media takes away your will to live

Hello. Today I would like to talk a bit about the dangers of social media. I know this topic has probably been brought up countless times in your life and that I will probably sound like your parents, telling you to not sit in front of a screen all day, but I still would like to elaborate on the topic.

Social media are destroying your brain. They take away all the things you love in life.

As you all know, social media is free to use by everyone. You don't have to pay any money for it. Then, the question arises - why are they so prevalent in modern society and how do they make the service profitable? See, the thing is: you pay for the service with your data and your attention.

1. Data and information about you

Social media want to know EVERYTHING about you. and when I say everything, I really mean EVERYTHING. Your age, name, gender or your email? These are the things that an average person would name, but in reality - it's just a tip of an iceberg. Then in fact know your interests, what posts you like, how much you look at a certain post, even how long do you hover your mouse over a post or a search result. All these things are recorded to create a bundle of perfect suggestions and advertisements just for you. Siri, Google assistant? Yeah, if you have them turned on, they listen to everything you say aswell. If not, then how would your phone know when you said "Hey Google/siri"? They HAVE to listen to you 24/7 for it to work.

There also was a scandal more than 10 years ago, where the things for pregnant women - like diapers, baby food etc. started to be adversied to a girl. Her father was furious about it why they would show it to a young woman like her daughter. Turns out - she actually was pregnant. The advertisements knew she was pregnant before the father did. That is the extend to which the ads are invasive. They interfere with your privacy scanning your private messages and search results.

Also, terms of service of pretty much every social media platform are becoming increasingly worse for the customer. You constantly have to agree to worse conditions, to they point that we have to allow them to spy on us in order to even use their service. If you actually read the ToS, it turns out they can ban you off the platform at ANY moment, without any particular reason. Also, every item / service / licence which you buy, is not actually owned by you, but instead you "rent it out" indefinitely. Meaning, you it is NOT AN OWNERSHIP of the item. But that's a whole another issue, so I won't talk about it today.

2. Your attention

Social media FIGHT for your attention. Your attention is a scarce, limited resource. Every day, you have only about 16 hours of it to spend (actually, some people rather sacrafice their sleep time just to scroll a bit more). They do everything they can to win just a little bit of it and make you use their service.

Do you know why you feel like there is a constant ideological / gender war? Because social media rewards controvertial topics. They KNOW you will feel emotional, you will become angry or irritated, they know you will watch the whole video or read the whole post, and probably even react to it / comment on it, promoting such posts even more.

They create artificial FOMO (fear of missing out) by using clickbait titles or fear mongering that the world is about to end. There are many 'influencers' who only live to propel another worthless, mindless drama. They provide absolutely ZERO value to your life, yet you listen to them daily. Think about the stuff you watch / read carefully. Ask yourself a question - do I really care about that? Do I care that some guy, on the other side of the world, who I will never meet in real life offended someone? Do I care that some troglodyte influencers will fight each other in a cage? Is it actually that interesting that some guy counted to a million in one sitting or watched a paint dry for 12 hours without moving in his chair? What value does it provide for me? How do I benefit from it? The more often you are mindful of that, the more you question yourself about the content you consume - they more you will realise - almost everything is crap which you shouldn't spend even one minute on.

Social media also makes your life miserable in other way. It creates 'life dysmorphia'. Just as with body dysmorphia, you are always unsatisfied with your body, because you have unrealistic standards, life dysmorphia has the same impact on you but on every single aspect of your life. People who got popular on the internet most often are lucky, or are a very small fraction of the actual population. Whether that is being very handsome, muscular, rich, whatever comes to your mind that you're jealous of. Seeing top 1% of people on earth and comparing yourself to them is NOT healthy.

Do you wanna hear what's even funnier? Even they are showing only a small fraction of their day, picking only the best moments in their lives, which are also fake, since they often take hundreds of photos, only to choose one and even then to modify it even further, so it makes more perfect than it already is. They can make their muscles a bit bigger, waist a little smaller, hair a bit more luscious.

EVERY person has struggles. Their lives are not perfect. Behind every photo where they are smiling on the beach you don't see the antidepressants they take, the steroids they inject, the horrible acne they got (so they use filters to hide it), how their relationship is failing, even though "they seem so perfect on the camera".

Look at this as an example. Left picture - instagram, right picture - real life. And this is a guy that injected steroids in his body and has top 1% genetics for building muscle. This is the exact reason why social media is a cancer to society - you have unrealistic expectations, when even the people you aspire to be like don't look like that in the real world.

That is how social media makes you miserable. You are chained to your phone, consuming things which are not even interesting to you. They take away your privacy, they prey on your fear of missing out on a new trend which will die in a week. Your life has no meaning. The first thing you do after waking up? Check your phone. The last thing you do before going to bed? That's right - checking your phone. It is an amazing device - to suck the life out of you and make your life worthless.

Okay, I explained why social media are awful for you. Now your question is most likely - if they are so bad for you what I am supposed to do with my time then? Instead of consuming - create. Stop watching people getting to the top of the mountain - do that yourself. Instead of looking at someone playing an instrument - learn that on your own! It is harder, it won't always be easy and pleasureable, but trust me - the long term satisfaction achieved by it will be much greater than watching some random guy on the internet doing that. In a day you will forget what stupid video you watched. Things you do on your own, on the other hand, will create much more memorable moments :).

Thanks for reading this post. Of course, there are some possible advantages to social media. For example, youtube some has educational content, but I find it extremely difficult to not succumb to the desire to watch something for pure entertainment while I'm already here.

As always, if you have any questions regarding my life, opinion about certain topic, or want me to discuss something further - go for it, ask me. I will be happy to respond to everyone.

[granadapsychiatry]

The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health

Social media has become an integral part of our daily lives, offering a platform for connection, information, and entertainment. However, its impact on mental health is a topic of growing concern. While social media can foster a sense of community and support, it also has potential drawbacks that can negatively affect mental well-being.

One of the primary issues is the tendency for social media to create unrealistic expectations. Users often present idealized versions of their lives, leading others to compare themselves unfavorably. This constant comparison can result in feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and depression. The pressure to maintain a perfect online persona can be overwhelming, particularly for young people who are more vulnerable to social influences.

Additionally, the instant gratification provided by social media can contribute to reduced attention spans and increased anxiety. The need for constant validation through likes and comments can become addictive, impacting one’s ability to focus and engage in real-life interactions. The fear of missing out (FOMO) further exacerbates anxiety, as individuals feel compelled to stay connected and up-to-date with every trend and event.

Cyberbullying is another significant concern. Negative interactions, harassment, and online bullying can lead to severe emotional distress and, in extreme cases, mental health crises. The anonymity provided by social media can embolden individuals to engage in harmful behavior that they might avoid in face-to-face interactions.

Despite these challenges, social media can also be a valuable tool for mental health awareness and support. Online communities and resources can provide education, support networks, and a sense of belonging. It’s crucial to use social media mindfully, setting boundaries to protect mental health while leveraging its benefits for positive connection and support.

[skannar]

Kai Cenat, Influencers and how to fight FOMO

As you may have heard, a well-known video game influencer, recognized for streaming on Twitch, has been taken into custody following an event in Manhattan’s Union Square that attracted a large number of young people and resulted in chaos. The Friday afternoon gathering, organized by Kai Cenat, an immensely popular online streamer, experienced unanticipated issues well before its scheduled 4 p.m.…

[frawgs]

i know ur not a therapist and i shouldn’t be asking this of u but i’m in a relationship of 3 years, i love him sm but i also don’t feel like i (23f) can be committed to somebody forever the way he wants me to be at this point in my life but the idea of leaving makes me feel sick but also im scared bc i feel so much FOMO and anxiety about being in a relationship 😀 any advice queen ?

hey!! it’s not problem really i’ve experienced this before so i gotchu! i understand the fear of missing out but the only thing you’re missing out on is what you need/want you know? what if he wants to get married tomorrow but you want to explore your 20s more, you’ll always be thinking about what you’re missing out on! you can talk to him about how you feel in a way that doesn’t seem like you want to leave you just maybe want him to slow down? give him a timeline of when YOU want to progress the relationship so maybe he can decide if he can wait or not. but at the same time i understand maybe wanting to breakup but not wanting to see someone you love with someone else but also trying to think of it as well if i can’t give him what he wants it’s unfair to keep him like a possession, and maybe if the breakup goes smooth you can still be friends that way he’s still around! but really outweigh your options make a pros and cons list and make sure this is REALLY want you wanna do and not something influenced by the worry of is the grass greener? love u goodluck (also side note being with someone who cares about you is extremely rewarding and may feel boring because it’s repetitive and healthy but the streets are evil and selfish)

[pablo9306]

Overstimulation

We all have TikTok, Instagram, or Twitter, these social media apps are great for finding all about the new news or trends going around, in reality, social media platforms bombard us with an overwhelming amount of information, including news, updates, opinions, and advertisements. This constant stream of information can lead to information overload, making it challenging to process relevant and reliable content. Additionally, we have decreased productivity, Spending excessive time on social media can significantly reduce productivity. Constant notifications, scrolling feeds, and the temptation to check social media frequently can distract us from important tasks such as homework, responsibilities, and even work leading to decreased focus and efficiency this happens to me as I just don't want to do my homework and just get distracted by social media. In addition, we have one of my favorite topics Fear of Missing Out! or (FOMO), Social media platforms can induce a fear of missing out on events, activities, or experiences that others are sharing. one good example is the Napoleon trend on TikTok, It's one I've seen all over TikTok usually containing a picture of Napoleon with the text “There is nothing we can do”

So many people are following this trend just because of fear of missing out they see all the likes people are getting and want to get that same feeling with the dopamine they get from a few likes.

I would also love to talk about the overstimulation social media has on mental health, the overstimulation from social media has been linked to various mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, loneliness, and decreased overall well-being. In fact, spending more than six hours on social media a day causes you to have a higher chance of developing symptoms of depression.  

Time mismanagement, social media can be highly addictive, causing individuals to spend excessive amounts of time scrolling, liking, and commenting on posts. This is happening to my brother right now, instead of doing his homework right away he sits on his bed scrolling TikTok, texting people until his phone dies. This can lead to a mismanagement of time, with hours passing by unnoticed and important tasks being neglected I've seen people miss work because of it or forget to study.

Finally we have a false sense of reality, one big exemple is Instagram most social media platforms offer various filters, editing tools, and photo enhancements that allow users to present an idealized version of themselves or their surroundings making themselves or others appear amazing in there photos which leads us to believe we have to look like them, even if they have 7 pounds of makeup on there face and 20 different filters. Similarly, Influencers and celebrities on social media often post about how there lifestyle that can appear glamorous, luxurious, and unattainable for many which again leads us to a false sense of reality.

In conclusion, social media in my opinion has its benefits, overstimulation from these platforms can have detrimental effects on our daily lives. It is important for us to be aware of the potential negative impacts, such as information overload, decreased productivity, FOMO, mental health issues, time mismanagement, and the false sense of reality it can create. Finding a balance and practicing mindful use of social media can help maintain a healthier relationship with these platforms.