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I’m reaching out because my sweet kittens, Miro, Ms. Midnight, and Bandana, need urgent medical care. They’re battling eye infections and likely pneumonia, and we’re still feeling the loss of their brother, Soot, who we had to say goodbye to too soon. Your support means the world to us—every little bit helps cover their vet bills and keep them healthy. Please like, comment, and share this post to help us spread the word and find more friends who can help these little furballs! 🐾💔 #gofundme
#gofundme#fundraiser#vet bills#tw pet death#tw animal death#help#need assistance#please donate#i hate having to ask you guys but i can't get the kittens in for treatment because I can't oay the bills from their brother#will reblog with pictures of the kittens if asked#im on disability and need help#kittens#cats#anything helps#please help#any amount helps
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god shadow the hedgehog is so disabled . like im hesitant to label him as a canonically disabled character because i doubt that sega intended for him to be interpreted this way but also how could i see this stuff and Not think hes disabled
like oh your body functions differently from whats expected and you have to use certain devices to help you in your day to day life and you could seriously hurt yourself by not using them? okay . cool . tell me more about how youre not disabled
#also so sweet how maria helped design his inhibitors. THE DISABLED SIBLINGS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥#sonic x shadow generations#sxsg spoilers#im certain that shadow needing to wear his inhibitors or else his power will overwhelm him isnt new info#im just failing to think of any not shadow generations-related sources for it rn. sorry fake ass fan moment#but also i think the journal in particular is good evidence for the disability angle
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im curious about something. when you imagine which companion or advisor or npc is helping your inquisitor with the effects of the anchor, who is it? is it their friends or partners? is it the entire inner circle? is it maybe a companion or advisor that your inquisitor doesn't actually get along with very well but trusts them out of necessity? do they try to brave it out on their own instead? curious minds want to know (me)
#dai#dragon age#dragon age inquisition#da:i#the inquisitor#da inquisitor#inquisitor trevelyan#inquisitor cadash#inquisitor adaar#inquisitor lavellan#lavellan#cadash#adaar#trevelyan#kinera trusts solas vivienne dorian and varric the most. but wont say no to sera bull or cole. he doesnt trust cass and blackwall.#but once morrigan shows up he exclusively trusts her and vivienne as his bond with solas fractured#mescha trusts vivienne and thats kind of it. she tries to tough it out otherwise. she feels too responsible for the others to let them help#gerard braves that shit out on his own with the demon kicking around in his head.#ethena will khs before he admits he needs help as hes already disabled and hates the idea of being dependant on others for help#only gonna to them rn tagging my other inqs is too much and im lazy
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shadows pride is getting the way of getting down the stairs
#side effects of electrocution include loss of balance and he only had 1 leg soooo he’s gonna need some help walking#same buddy#i I hate balance issues#sonic the hedgehog#sonic#sth#art#sonic fanart#fanart#sth fanart#shadow the hedgehog#artwork#digital art#voices!au#silly#low effort#disability#makes think of Shadz would cope with everything#not well im sure
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Does anyone have recommendations for books about disability/with disabled characters in?
#Im planning something#its going to take a while and I need a bit of help but Im hoping itll work out#disability#disability books#books#book recommendations
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one thing I have learned about being poor is that you cannot for a moment stop thinking about it
#theres no peace#every little thing reminds me we are poor#seeing friends having electricity wifi heat food gas. it all costs money. and bills and fees and charges happen all the damn time#im constantly worried that i am measing up somehow or im not keeping track of my finances properly#the person handling our disability assistance application keeps coming back with question after question about my job#and i have so much doubt and fear that ive made some mistake in my answers that will disqualify us from support#and theres this sick backwards stupid thing where applying for and being on disability support is discouraging me from trying to make money#because the more i make the less likely we'll get support but i need to make money to live#its just fucked. and once we're on support i have to make monthly reports of my income so ill feel like im explaining myself all the fuckin#time#cus the system isnt built in a way that makes sense for self employed ppl who have business expenses to account for#sorry for the ranting i cant sleep#truly truly i think poverty is making me a worse persin#more anxious more resentful more jealous more miserable more spiteful#i have so little and there is so little i can do to help it#i want things in a more desparate and even childish way than i used to eant things#spend a lot more time fantasizing about magically having expendable income#not to mention the constant exponential guilt that comes from asking for help or recieving help. its guilt i need to unlearn but i feel it
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I get the urge to make jokes about media that is actually dark and depressing (I do this often too) but I wish people were a little more careful with the themes in Mouthwashing
#mouthwashing spoilers#sorry i forgot to tag this until now#its been said before but the more i look at fanart the more im like :/ come on :/#i think this is one of those things that do not need a shipping fandom...#especially if it involves the rapist character or his friend....#and its like okay the first instinct is to make jokes about the characters main traits and when you look at curly you see the state he is#in and it is grotesque . but he is literally disabled at that point. you can make jokes about him that doesn't involve that#'what if curly did his best and actually helped anya [cute fanart of them]' thats like what if laura palmer had a normal life#that's a completely different story and it's missing the point#jokes about swansea throwing it back are funny though lol
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Ok so, I'm considering using a cane because standing for more than a few minutes and bending over/standing up are all really really hard on me. I've never used a cane and I'm not sure where to find this information, do any cane users who work in fast food/work with their hands a lot have any tips on how to utilize a cane while working? I just don't even know what that would look like or how to manage it
#cripple punk#cane user#disability#mobility aids#yap city#i dunno if this makes sense or if it would even be helpful at work#im very shy and scared about using mobility aids because i can technically do it without them its just exhausting#and im not sure if I really need them or if im just being a big baby idk
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Oh my adhd having students, I mean this in the most "I'm trying to help u pass this class" way possible: what the fuck am I supposed to do with you? And I mean that as an earnest question. If u have advice pls let me know.
#bc the thing is. u have to be in attendance to get credit for labs and u have to turn in assignments to get credit#and i dont kno how to make those things happen for you. so like???#and u can have flexible attendance but u dont get credit if u arent there and we cant do makeups for all the labs#bc that infringes on our lab manager's time in a way that doesn't work#and u can have flexible deadlines but like if u dont turn things in there's no credit to be given. so again???#i dont know how to help and i dont kno how much of this is im a dumb 18yo who is used to arrangements being made for me. bc i get that#from students who dont have learning disabilities vs how much is a genuine inability to keep things on task#and like how much am i expected to give? im just a graduate TA. i cant hold ur hand thru everything. im not paid to do that#but i want to help however i can. so like??? i dont kno what to do and i understand the frustration#as someone with a learning disability that isnt really helped by the accommodations i have access to#but is it a case of: u need to try harder or even trying ur hardest it's nnot possible. i dont kno. i cant kno#and what the fuck am i supposed to do if its the latter? it just sucks#unrelated
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The only thing I have to say about the autism support needs & masking discourse:
There are people who haven't been talked to like a baby by a stranger in real life, and it shows.
#autism#high support needs#actually autistic#autism things#masking#tw infantilization#i am visibly autistic/disabled#and i know my fellow autistics and disabled friends who have higher support needs know what I'm talking about#I'm too tired to get involved#but a lot of friends have interesting and valid points#i know that a lot of folks are helped by things being broken down and That's fine#im that way sometimes too#I'm talking about others being condescending and assuming your needs without talking to you like anyone else#because of being visibly autistic
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immortals whose body did not Quite adapt to the immortality evenly or whose immortality did not take into account everything there is to take.
Immortals with fake teeth, with completely shot sense of taste because tongue cells are fragile and lose sensitivity within a few decades. Immortals whose eyesight's kinda shit. Immortals with bad joints and strain injuries. Immortals with replacement hips. Immortals with so so many surgery scars. Immortals that can't hear as well anymore or at all. Immortals whose immune system hasn't quite held on the entire time, with bone problems, broken noses, worn out or even replaced livers and other organs. immortals subject to time anyway despite being denied the grace of really aging.
Bodies that were not built to go on forever being forced to anyway.
#idk total frozen in time body immortality is not as interesting to me. theres gotta be quirks#especially with ones that were canonically from pre industrialization#you can only hand knead dough and do that one stitch for So Long mr werewolf from the 1400s something's gotta give#imo it also helps define your immortals as a Distinct Age from just 'adult' or even 'regular human old' the anachronism of it all#at least make your immortal sailor man farsighted from staring at the horizon so much idk it adds some much needed texture#its usually hard to truly 'sell' an immortal as one in narrative without copious flashbacks and it's one of those things that really helps#and is sure less research intensive than looking up slang from specific decades lets be real#plus like. if your guy made it through two world wars and no safe surgery unscathed without a Single disability... press x to doubt you kno#also im disabled and i want to see it described like at all in any form because it's dire out there chief esp in genres i actually like
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Whoop! Im in debt and its crushing!
I haven't been able to pay off my balance on my credit card for months because of poverty and emergency moving in the spring. This is all survival/medical debt from 2020, I have not used this card in years. I LITERALLY need $81 exactly to keep my card open, if my acct gets closed my credit is gonna be unfixable.
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I need $81 by July 7th or Imma get my acct closed!
CA: $sleepyhen
VN: wildwotko
Dm for PPL
#emergency donations#disability pride month#disabled poc#community care#black lesbian#i just need $81#im so tired of asking for help
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hey uh. this month is extremely critical for me as i gear up to find a more stable work situation- i'll be going to conventions with the help of a friend to look for a small art business or collective to join. my health has been badly interfering with this. so any support i get within the next 2 weeks will have my eternal gratitude in return
#.txt#i need to make more money so i can cover health insurance premiums. thats the long and short of it really#i am getting too disabled to freelance solo without burnout making my health worse#and i want to be able to help my friends#if youre sick of seeing my ko-fi posts believe me i am sick of making them. and im doing all this to get to a place where i dont have to
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D0N0 post for helping my dog pass peacefully.
Cw pet death, sickness and passing
Donation link HERE
Bean is on his lasts..it's really really bad. i'm devastated and i can barely put myself together i put it better in this tweet to put it shortly, i have till tuesday to gather the total of the euthanasia and incinerating. adding the fees, it rounds up to 300 euros to have him pass as soon as possible and cut his suffering as soon as possible, too.
#grim.txt#pet death#pet loss#pet sickness#pet passing#crowdfunding#donation post#donations needed#help needed#signal boost#im genuinely desperate i dont know what to do anymore#i'm a disabled artist with no income all i can give is mediocre art in hopes of giving him respite as soon as possible
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i'm not sure i'll ever finish the wip i have where Near has a white cat named Jetfire
#but i wanted you guys to know it exists#bc im very like#over the top about this idea#i love giving Near a white cat idk#and having him name it Jetfire???#yeah#gimme 14 of em#usually its an emotional support animal#but that shit is half fake anyway so it doesn't really matter#its funny giving near a pet though#bc he cant even properly take care of himself#so its just someone else feeding her all day#and near gets to cuddle her to sleep every night as a reward for doing absolutely nothing#like gevanni is cleaning fucking white cat hair up every day and gets nothing but a paycheck in return#poor guy#oh also i love having the cat reflect near a lot#like a somehow disabled cat#a lot of white blue eyed cats are disbaled/deaf#and i love that#also jetfire is such a good name lowkey#im proud of that one#cant lie#oh and someone realizing how much jetfire reflects near urgh#the character study potentiald#my drafts for this are not few and far between guys#like if she were an emotional support cat then she would alert for when near is distressed and shit#i imagine a younger autistic near needing a little more help with emotional regulation#death note#nate river#near death note
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aye can i get a fuckin uuuhhhh
break. on my burger
#shit chat#family cw#got sicker than i have been in years my bank closed my checking account on accident work is nightmarishly busy#and my mother is sending strings of long voice memos in the family group chat again#i simply will not be listening to them. at most i'll ask my dad or brother for the sparknotes version#bc her pattern for the better part of this year has been radio silence. no attempt at communication whatsoever#and then BAM like 5-10 min worth of voice memos screaming crying sobbing shaking#I DON'T KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO FORGIVE ME. I'M CRAWLING ON MY KNEES ON THE DESERT FOR A HUNDRED YEARS REPENTING#WHAT THE FUCK IS FAMILY FOR YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING AND I'M SUFFERING SO MUCH AND I'M ALONE BECAUSE#MY FAMILY ABANDONED ME. I HAVE NO ONE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID BUT I'M BEGGING. I NEED HELP I NEED MY KIDDOS AROUND ME PLEASE I'M DYING#followed by several minutes of sordid updates on her shitty miserable life#which is tbf pretty shitty & miserable. she's extremely physically disabled & mentally ill#her partner had a severe stroke a couple months ago and is still recovering. they've both been in & out of hospital#neither working. partner's adult son who lives with them is the only income in the household#partner's permanently disabled mother also lives with them. plus 2 large dogs 6 cats and 3 each of chickens & ducks#they're in court suing their landlord bc he's trying to evict them but the property is an uninhabitable shithole to begin with#but like. whenever i do make the mistake of responding to one of her groupchat tantrums#she's just like 'oh you know me im a survivor :) i just miss yous is all :) now that you're here i'm gonna bitch about my life for an hour#and ignore everything you have to say and show active disdain & boredom whenever you tell me anything about yourself or your life :)'#and if i offer help she refuses it#like it's just a bid for attention. expecting unconditional love and absolution and salvation from us bc That's What Families Do#she doesn't actually seem to give a shit about any of us as real people. just this ironclad delusion of unconditional family support#that she frankly has not earned#my brother actually did go visit her in the hospital on thanksgiving. driving 2hrs out of his way to do so#and she was a raging passive aggressive bitch to him and threw the gift he'd brought her back in his face#ma'am i know you're Going Through It but so are the rest of us & frankly you've given me zero reason to want to interact w/ ur caustic ass#plus this is petty but yet another way in which she doesn't listen to me & makes no attempt whatsoever at genuine relationship#i've told her numerous times that responding to groupchat voice memos is hard for me. that i love & miss her#and if she wants to see me or needs help or whatever to please contact me one on one either by call or text#nope. refuses to respond to/initiate individual contact. ONLY traumadumping in the fam chat. TLDR MY MOM IS A DISFUNCTIONAL TOXIC NIGHTMARE.
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