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bendiciones444 · 5 months ago

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don't think i enjoy calling myself a witch very much. what if i called myself a sorcerer

#me #idk weird bad gender feels #sorcerer is cooler #dear diary #but i like bruja?#idk

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inkskinned · 18 days ago

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okay is she being actually immature or is it just a woman over 30 expressing a human experience you find to be immature.

like yeah. at certain ages... let shit go. im not defending the real immature shit. im not defending the karen you're picturing. i worked in retail i hate those people too. (once somebody got mad at me because she didn't like how our winter window decor was a snowman smoking a pipe. i wish i was joking).

but men at 57 will write books about how 17 year old girls are soooo sexy. they will invent worlds where women have to be naked for "armor reasons." they will write songs that treat women as objects. people rush to defend them. meanwhile a woman at 35 will be like "heartbreak is hard, actually" or "i feel betrayed by a friend" or "i am struggling with something emotionally." immediately people will say stuff like this woman is 35 by the way. by the way this woman is SO OLD to be experiencing this. BY THE WAY.

im 31, almost 32. the other day a poet was blasted online because at her "big age", she had written a poem about feeling unloved. top comment was "this woman is 29 by the way." this woman is too old to still be useful, by the way. she has to behave better . maybe if she was a good wife and mother she could stop existing loudly, and the story could continue on without her. this woman has served her purpose, by the way. she's so cringe, by the way. at 29 - so old! - she still hasn't figured out that her existence should be one of shame.

#what the fuck.#unfortunately by the time i'd switched accounts (from personal to my poetry one)#i couldn't find it :(#this is why u SEND URSELF THE POST. WHICH I KNOW TO DO BUT!!!#i was so mad i just was like “i'm about to tear this commenter in twain” and . lost da post #if u urself are the 29 and got recently flamed by instagram #i love u. come here. write with me. i was about to pick up a sword for u.#i mean a BIGASS sword.#like we all know im a wlw girlie but the way ppl will be like ''id NEVER write sad poetry about a MAN not LOVING me!!!"#..... wowwwww ur so cool. anyway. people often experience emotions regardless of what u consider cringe.#& if ur gonna shame straight/bi women for feeling a certain way. hope u never write about the #weird relationship between u and ur father. or feeling different from ur brother.#or how ur male best friend fucked u over. since it's SO CRINGE. to have ANY feelings caused by a MAN #like be so for real. beloved. nobody is fucking saying this when men do it.#''oh it's cringe to like a woman or feel heartbroken by her.''#controlling women's feelings and actions???? it's more likely than u think.#btw op is nonbinary do NOT be gender essential on this post i'll kill u with my teeth #edit: btw for the person who dm'd me ''when is it misogyny and when is it actually valid''#pretty easy. if a man had done it #would it be cringe? . like if a man sang a sad song about ''she broke my damn heart''?#if he said ''i want to have kids with her'' or something sexually explicit?? like would u even LIKE IT if a male poet had said it?#& if it's like. nah a 35 yr old man being upset about this is cringe too. yeah it's just cringe. that exists. we both know it does.#but .... often i see this ONLY about women. and i can't help but hear like. how back in middle school #we were fed the lie ''girls mature faster.'' ... why do i have to be emotionally regulated? but if a man wrote about the same things?#..... idk . im pretty anti cringe culture to begin with. but this one feels so bad to me . ur still a person past 33.

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bogkeep · 5 months ago

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i think the one thing that makes me feel the most autistic forever is Fashion. it's difficult to describe how, because i think i have a decent grasp on Character Design - like i have a sense for what *i* think looks cool!! and i'm sure i'm swayed by trends just as much as anyone, like i have a distinct memory of suddenly being Really Into Purple as a teen, and i thought it was just a thing i had discovered by myself but it was actually a year when purple was a really trendy color and they were selling cute purple clothes everywhere. i can rummage through my old clothes and recognise that wow, these pieces are heavily reminiscent of the early 2010s. sure!!!!

but when people talk about Fashion it's greek to me. 95% of the time i am presented with a picture of allegedly Bad Fashion i cannot understand what's wrong. we make fun of the way people dressed ten years ago but if ten years ago could aee how we dress today they'd be laughing at us?? and it's really so anxiety inducing to consider i might have zero self awareness about whether i dress ok or like a clown in other people's eyes, so i have no choice but to own it. my understanding of Dressing Good is finding pieces that are comfortable on your body and look flattering to you, whatever that might mean.

idk i just feel like an alien that can't understand earth language but i'm doing my very best to pick up on words as i go along

#PERSONALLY. i have no need to be fashionable #but. i need to be a professional adult man. and i'm frantically trying to find out how i dress the part #genuinely the thing i miss the most about being a Weird Girl in the 2010s was that i would put together absolutely bonkers experimental fits #without the stress of being perceived as the wrong gender...#sometimes i hear about a men's wear expert guy on twitter who dunks on shitty people for wearing the wrong color shoes #and i try to read his tweets to understand men's fashion a litle better......#except they make me understand Even Less #idk why i am suddenly so incensed by all this but i needed to write it out #me not understanding a bad outfit is the same as me not understanding a bad actor in movies #like a real person is dreasing/acting that way so it feels real and legit to me

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spaciebabie · 12 days ago

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YOURE A WOAMAN???

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

no im very much an agender/genderfunky individual but the term lesbian resonates with me so thats why i use it

#spacie splains #idk with genders its weird when labeling romantic attraction. ive mostly had attraction 2 women so skfhkjds #so im attracted to women. and then possibly other genderfunky peeps it depends #i wont get into my tastes thats unneeded #just know if u like me u gay #gay as hell #if i liked men and dated one they would be gay #we would be gay lovers #but im pretty sure i dont lol #yay!!!!!!!!!!!!#i am a person who has a lot of rizz apparently. mostly w/women as well which is a blessing (although i cant tell when it happens)#thats (part of) my target audience!!!!#i feel bad tho b/c i mostly reject people b/c i have very specific tastes/criteria 😅#and then like i said in the post there's the demiromantic part of my whole romantic identity

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leviiackrman · 6 months ago

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UMETAROU NOGUCHI - Demon Slayer [full colour]

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innocet · 1 year ago

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gotta be honest it’s REAL WEIRD to me how yall keep talking about how 14’s gender Gets It Wrong compared to 13 and how her gender is the Real genderfluid experience. Your experiences are not universal people can and do experience a wide range of strong internal senses of gender throughout their lives. Hello. Why are you all acting like 14 being A Man and also genderfluid is impossible. What the fuck are you guys talking about

#not maintagging this #I do strongly identify with the way 13 experiences gender #but idk. this doesn’t feel out of character or inconsistent. different doctors experience gender to different degrees #more than that it’s just weird to me how it’s suddenly Bad Representation to show a genderfluid person who identifies with a binary gender #you’re allowed to do that. I do that. what

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the-autism-album · 18 days ago

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What happened today uhh . Got 2 show off 3ds minecrap boggled some pplz mindz at school . One of tha guyz who was watching me play was really treating me like a dude, or at least it felt like it . Honestly it was probably pretty neutral but compared to being treated like a girl it felt like heaven

#worlds clockiest tboy no fuckinf surprise he she/her'd me a few moments later but like #swagever #was tha attitude that counted #i was a little awkward about it tbh which made me feel weird about myseld cause if im a guy shouldnt i Act Like One #and then i remembered im autistic and gendered behavior is a learned trait #so like yea man no shit youre bad at it nobody comes out knowing how 2 talk and act and you dont practice !!!#so . swagever #idk what this rant is

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the-casbah-way · 2 months ago

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i found loads of pictures of my uncle i am going 2 cry

#he looked so sweet…..he looks SO much like my dad #i found the last picture of him that my granddad took a month or so before he died it’s so sad #trying to decide if i should tell my mum that i know about him or if i should just keep it to myself #idk if somethings wrong with me maybe it’s because i was already grieving before i found out #but it’s really getting 2 me i can’t concentrate on my uni shit i just keep thinking about it #i think i rlly need to talk about it with someone but i have no idea who or how or what i’d say. but it’s weird because it’s a secret yk #like i’m not even supposed to know he existed #idk. i have a gender clinic appointment next week and i’m going to ask if they can recommend any therapists #me being very very brave and trying therapy again after being forced into it my whole life and ending up a bit traumatised #idk. i feel bad that i’m alive and i’m wasting my life when my uncle got killed when he was just a kid #it makes me feel like i should be more grateful and do more with myself.#and i am going to try but i’d rather he was here instead. same with my granddad #every time i experience something beautiful or good i wish my granddad could experience it because he deserved it more than me #and the best i can do is experience it for him and be grateful. but i would chance places instantly if i could #him and his kid deserve to be here they were so special. i know i don’t know his kid but i’ve heard they were similar #so i know he must have been special too #i found a fb comment today from a family friend i’ve never met and she was saying that she only met my granddad once #but she called him gentle and it made me cry. because he was very scottish and sweary and traditional and masculine #so everyone just assumed he was tough and scary but if you knew him he was really quiet and kind #and i’m glad someone who only met him once could see that #i’m going to be half asleep for the rest of my life i think. i’ve been dreaming since my granddad died and i don’t feel like i ever woke up #nothing has felt real since i was nine years old. everything just stopped and never started again #i’ve just been waiting. i’m waiting for him to change his mind and come back. idk. i don’t know what to do with myself #and i continuously feel fucking insane and stupid for being this way. it’s like fresh grief all the fucking time #but it was fifteen years ago. why does it still feel this way #i can’t even tell people because they won’t understand why i’m still so bothered by it #he was my parent for nine years. i lived with him he was my sole caretaker #i was nonverbal and him and my brother were the only people on the planet who knew what my voice sounded like #he’d think it was silly if i failed my exam because i was crying about him instead #he’d tell me to whisht and stick in. so i will

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revancchist · 8 months ago

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i’m. so confused

#not necessary to read i’m just sending words into the void bc these past few months have been so stressful and then my brain is like #do you know what we should do right now? we should develop a crush and spiral over NOTHINGGGG #normally i shake crushes off in a week’s time maybe a lil longer if we’re talking a lot #but Man.jpeg i’m down bad for a friend of mine and the weirdest thing is: it’s a girl #i’ve always had thoughts about gender and how i didn’t feel like a girl but more like girl lite but this is totally new to me #literally get nervous and can’t make eye contact with her for more than a second at a time. my stomach feels weird when she giggles #planning a hangout feels so high stakes bc i wanna make sure she has fun #we chat every day and make consistent plans and i’m literally rethinking everything i thought i ‘knew’ about my relationship preferences #i kinda wanna hold hands with her and see where this goes but i’m so scared of leading her on if it’s just my brain goin crazy #idk man #jo tag

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marblebees · 3 months ago

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Rlly sad and disappointing when an artist you like starts posting shit abt how 4th dimensional their OCs genders are and then makes a positivity post for trans ppl who dont transition and cis ppl who do 😭😭

#like. idk im just kinda losing patience with people acting like having contradictory labels is #inherently more radical than just transitioning 😭😭😭😭 like it feels like a slap in the face #a direct admission that you dont really look into or take in the experiences of the people youre trying to portray #like idk. its just a weird privilege to like throw these labels around for fun when it feels like you dont ever just talk #to/about trans women it just feels bad. like #idk i rlly have started to hate the label of ‘binary trans women’ bc i feel like whenever someone uses it #they use it to imply you’re basically cis. that you chose to conform to ‘woman’ as your gender and thats easy #and it just shows a complete lack of solidarity or understanding with transfemmes idk

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unnonexistence · 6 months ago

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does anyone else have a weird fashion mismatch between what they think they like and what they actually like wearing?? half my style icons wear, like, waistcoats and wool trousers, but i'm usually at my most comfortable dressed like a bug type pokemon trainer. or a camp counselor.

#personal #it's weird and complicated and i frequently feel bad because i don't like how im dressed #like not because im Trying to wear stuff even though it feels wrong. more like i can't figure out what would feel right #kind of in a dysphoria way but idk if it's truly dysphoria #i think i still have Some Gender Weirdness going on thats a little more complicated than being a truly binary trans dude but like #it's hard to separate that out from internalized bullshit about gender roles #some of this also might be because of complications finding clothes that fit right + sensory issues + practicality issues #+ trying to minimize dysphoria about specific parts of my body #worst fashion advice ever is Just Be Yourself. who is myself??#don't really know but this ain't it

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blirpus · 6 months ago

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bald guy at work asked me what he should do with his food because "women are usually smarter than men with food related things" ???

#ive never felt so uh.. gendered? as i do at my workplace everyones so weird about women here #sorry idk what other term to use #i feel like everywhere else im just some person #but here im Woman who knows about Food and such #and im not saying this because of this one interaction cuz its not the first time ive heard similar things here #either directed at me or heard in passing #same bald guy said 'girl power' to me when it was just me and another female coworker in the morning shift #like ok man im literally just working here idk what to say to that.#i never remember his name so hes bald guy to me i dont mean anything bad by it (and i dont call him that at work)

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mallo-person · 6 months ago

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Yk, I for some reason get gender dysphoria when I like a fictional dude.

Like just makes me feel like "Wtf man you straight woman or something?" Which is weird bc I honestly like the idea of dating a dude for the most part :P

#lol #♣️.txt #like by dating i am ace so uh #idk why i feel bad saying the word dating bc I'm demiromantic aswell #today is just a weird ass day for my gender and life #huh

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forestgreenlesbian · 7 months ago

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hmmmmb private rites. what did everyone think

#guys was it bad i think it was kinda bad :(#i loved our wives & her short story collection but this just didn't connect with me idk what it was #it felt sort of fanfic-y in writing style which sounds mean lol but it really read like someone trying to imitate her writing style based #off of her first two bookswhich is crazy because it is literally by her lol. the characters felt a little tropey especially jude & like #maybe not my place to be discussing nb representation my own weird gender feelings aside but they felt like such an undeveloped paper doll #of a character. soo weird like they were only relevant to reflect the protagonists and i thought maybe that was because the perspective is #from the main three sisters but even when we got jude's perspective they didn't feel like a real fleshed out person. idk idk. and the endin #i was warned the book falls off towards the end but i hadnt been enjoying it all the way through so by the end i was like. yeah that tracks #i'm bummed about it lol idk maybe i'm being too harsh ive seen a lot of positive feedback

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moonmoonthecrabking · 7 months ago

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