#idk man someone help me understand how this is not disrespectful

[diazsdimples]

Tell me why this motherfucker is talking to someone 8 years younger than him (he's 26) in the bed we shared for 6 years, giggling like a schoolboy, just over a week after we decided to get a divorce? And he says he's not being disrespectful? Get absolutely fucked mate

[mydogatemymotivation]

Ok I wanna talk about the Zeb of Kalluzeb cuz sometimes I feel like he gets a little overlooked, but I have thoughts. A lot of people, when they're talking about Kalluzeb, talk about how Zeb can see the light in Kallus that he can't really see in himself all the time, and that's true, of course. But the extent of the discourse around Zeb is about Lasan, and I'm not trying to dismiss that or anything, but there's more to it than that. I think Zeb, the people around him, and the fandom, honestly, have this idea of Zeb that boils down to "good for a laugh, good for a drink, good for a game of sabacc, and good in a fight" and that makes a lot of interpretations of Zeb a little one dimensional.

But think of him this way: he was the Captain of the High Honor Guard on Lasan and he's a Rebellion Captain, and part of an ancient Lasat prophecy. These are all very noble, very honorable things. So how bizarre was it for him, then, to resonate with Kallus. If Zeb can see the light in Kallus then I think it stands to reason that Kallus can see the darkness in Zeb. And I think it would be so much more interesting to see Zeb react to that, because that shakes the foundation of who he thought he was. He sees himself as the white knight character, proud and honorable. So why does he like the fight so much? Why does he find kinship with a man soaked in so much blood? To see this happy guy who's always down for drinks and cards be so enamored with someone from Imperial High Command, I think it would rattle a lot of people, including Zeb.

I think Zeb hides a lot underneath his jovial nature, even from himself, and to have Kallus hold up a mirror to all the parts of himself that Zeb tries to hide would make him feel so exposed. Idk how many of you have watched Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but I was thinking about Spike and Buffy (I have a point, I promise, stay with me) and this is very much their dynamic. Buffy, who tries to convince herself that she's 'just a girl' and that she doesn't like being the slayer, likes Spike because he holds up a mirror to all the darker parts of herself. She likes that he's dangerous, she likes that she can be herself, she likes how rough he is, she likes that Spike can see all of that and that he still loves her despite those things, or even because of those things. And I love that dynamic, and I see some of Kallus and Zeb in it. Zeb likes that Kallus is dangerous, he likes the thrill that comes with loving him, he likes that Kallus resonates with darker parts of himself, and that's scary for him.

Kallus gives Zeb an outlet for his anger that can go toe-to-toe with him, he likes that he understands the pain of wanting vengeance and the pain of what happened on Lasan. It feels like, sometimes, the rest of the Ghost crew doesn't quite know what to do with Zeb (and this is no hate to them, I love them, it just bothers me), no one knows how to help him through the anger he has, no one knows how to talk to him about Lasan and he ends ups so alone, even with his family, because how could they understand that kind of darkness. But Kallus does because he was there. (And I don’t mean any disrespect to what Kanan went through, but he had Ahsoka for a long time. And he has Ezra who he can pass the teaching of the Jedi onto. He still has Jedi temples he can go to; we never see Zeb go back to Lasan. He’s also surrounded by other humans, but Zeb’s species itself was under attack. No one else in the rebellion is even breathing air the same way Zeb is. It’s incredibly isolating.)

I keep imagining the two of them in a fight, on the same side finally, and Kallus, being basically a living weapon, is covered in someone's blood and Zeb's first thought is, wow, red really is his color, followed immediately by OH MY GOD WHO SAID THAT. WHO SAID IT. NOT ME. …then again… the way his manic smile reflects off his blood-soaked knife is really - mmmmmnope. Nope,nope,nope not doing that. Not doing it. No thank you. He sees exactly what Kallus is and is incredibly into it. And that would be so distressing for him because he sees himself as this kind, noble person, and he is, but he doesn't want to deal with what it means to love Kallus. And everyone around him sees him as a kind, noble person, so when he starts having feelings for Kallus, he gets pulled to the side by a few who say, "hey, are you okay?" not in a comedic way, but in a genuine, this isn't who you told us you were, what's going on? And Zeb doesn't have any answers because this isn't who he convinced himself he was, either. Everyone put Zeb on this pedestal, but Kallus grounded him, and it’s like everyone is finally seeing this guy at eye level instead of at a distance and Zeb just has to stand there and take it.

Even in Buffy, though, it takes her a long time to accept her feelings for Spike because of how scared she is of herself. When she finally admits to Tara that she and Spike are having an affair, she fully breaks down. Like, she's on her knees sobbing, begging Tara not to forgive her for what she's doing because she wants to be punished by someone, anyone for the way she is, but Tara does forgive her, and she just cries harder. And that kind of shell-shocked, I'm actually as dark as he is, and I don't like that he saw it before I did kind of angst is what I'm talking about.

It's not just Lasan that they have in common. Zeb doesn't just balance Kallus, Kallus has to balance Zeb, too. And that realization that the sunshine character is not the sun at high noon, bright and unobstructed, but rather, the sun at twilight, tinged with darkness and teetering on the edge of falling is so good and there's not nearly enough of it with these two. I mean. Listen. People talk about Kallus' poor mental health but that scene in the finale with the shield generator. That wasn't ~noble sacrifice~, that was an attempt and no one talks about it. I mean, he just lost another member of his family and immediately tried to sacrifice himself. He needs to address his own darkness and work through it because he's not doing any better than Kallus.

Zeb sees the light in Kallus and Kallus sees the darkness in Zeb. They need each other.

[heavenlymorals]

Do you have any tips for how to write Arthur Morgan’s personality in general? I’m trying to write a fic but I feel like no matter what I do it somehow just makes him feel out of character haha. It’s probably since I’m writing one with a reader/oc character x Arthur. Like I don’t want to remove Mary from the story because she shaped so much of his character’s pain (since in my opinion I assume that Arthur probably got Eliza with child from a one night stand trying to bounce back after Mary had told him that she was engaged to some other man). But I also don’t know how to really write Arthur as he’s completely over Mary and how he is instead with someone he considers the love of his life, cheesy I know but I had too haha. I’m also trying to somewhat do a slow burn and trying to instead have Arthur seemingly brood over his love for the reader rather than how he did with Mary in the game.

I don’t know if this makes sense and feel free to ignore it LOL

Ahah here goes nothing- my consensus on a general understanding of Arthur Morgan-

I think the biggest thing that people should focus on when writing Arthur is his personality differences between men and women. There is a pretty clear divide between how behaves with men compared to how he behaves with women. It can change slightly between how close he is with the people, but it's pretty much the same.

With women, Arthur is very respectful and chivalrous. He even gets mad at other men if they don't behave accordingly. He is more interested in them as well in the sense that he'll listen to their dreams and hobbies and either add to the conversation or encourage them in some way that seems more meaningful, even if it can be at times superficial, just a way to be polite. However, he is no push over. You know that meme that's like "Me and my girl don't argue, she tells me to shut the fuck up and I do"? Yeah, that is NOT Arthur. He can raise his voice, call them out, etc etc. when he feels disrespected in some way or if the person is doing something stupid. We see this with Mary, Sadie, and Abigail. He is also more likely to talk about his emotions with women, but not really BE emotional. Idk if that makes sense, but I don't know how else to say it.

However, Arthur is more inclined to be disrespectful to women who don't fit into his view of life and the status quo of the time (ie. Prostitutes, masculine women, etc.)

Honestly, just think of that when writing him with your oc (I'm going to assume they're a woman 😭). Is Mary a big part of Arthur's character? Yes and no. He can obviously make time for her, but she isn't controlling his every action and thought process. His main focus is the collective of the gang and once the gang is safe, that's when he'll actively start looking for love because that's when he'll have the time and energy for it.

Now with men, Arthur is much more rough. He is very much a suck it up kinda guy with other dudes. There is clearly a hierarchy in the game and he enforces it, especially with the men underneath him. He forces them to work, doesn't take their excuses really, will call them out, will be mean, and will even make threats (ie. Sean). He likes men who are hard workers and are always on the go (Lenny) and is more likely to be jovial, open, and willing to talk. He also will take NO shit from other men and that will either leave the other man read to filth or a black eye. Arthur also does not disclose feelings of fear or inadequacy to other men, but he will show more active emotions like joy or anger.

Honestly, whenever I feel like writing Arthur, I just think of the average older American outdoorsman and it helps me out pretty well. Chivalrous and respectful with expectations and a no bullshit attitude.

Hope this helps and happy writing 🫶🏼

[tiredfox64]

Hey! Can I request Bi-han and Tomas (separately) with a fem! reader who is a little taller than them? Preferably an established relationship.

They can be HCS, drabbles, whatever you feel most comfortable with if you want to do it.

Thank you in advance and I really enjoy your blog, it is very entertaining 🧚‍♀️ 🫶

Well, Ain’t You a Tall One

Prior notes: I did my best but mind you I’m someone who lies about being 5’4 because I’m not allowed to have that quarter of an inch added on to actually make me 5’4.

Pairings: Bi-Han x Tall! Afab reader, Tomas x Tall! Afab reader

Bi-Han (he might be 6’2 idk)

If you’re gonna talk to Bi-Han do it at a distance so he doesn’t have to look up at you.

*Ah geez something is out of reach for him. Oh what’s he gonna do-HEY! HEY! FUCK IS YOU DOIN TRYIN TO REACH FOR THAT OBJECT HE NEEDS.

Baby, you asked for it. You left yourself open he punched you I don’t make the rules. It was gentle at least.

Be a good girlfriend and pick him up so he can grab it himself. Don’t make him look like a fool in front of his clan. (He’ll allow it just look at the evidence I provided below)

If anyone disrespects your height Bi-Han will punish them. They wanna make fun of how tall you are well he will just stick their head to a large icicle. How bout that, how bout them apples.

You know what makes him feel like a man? Picking you up. Just because you’re a little taller doesn’t make a difference. He’s the man in this relationship.

He knows that people are staring at you because you are taller at him but he still gets upset that people are looking. You are his everyone should understand that.

Please, please, PLEASE, if someone ask you “how’s the weather up there” please say “it’s raining” and spit on them. Bi-Han will find it entertaining and even praise you for it.

No heels! Even on your wedding day. Any shoes that give more height are not allowed on your feet.

If one of his Lin Kuei assassins aren’t listening well he tells you to go up behind them and smack their heads as punishment. You won’t get punished and the assassin can’t smack you back. It’s funny don’t worry.

Bi-Han won’t tell you this but he is impressed by your height. Every woman he has encountered was shorter than him. You are a rare gem.

Tomas (I think he is 6’4 right?)

If he could he would wear a ‘I ❤️ my tall girlfriend’ shirt.

He is absolutely amazed by you. He has never seen a woman this tall before.

It’s a flex really, you are one of a kind.

May someone help the son of a bitch who insults your height cause Tomas will kick the fuck out of their back and bedrid them for five days

When he first met you he commented on how tall you were and you called him a baked bean for that. You thought he was being mean.

He really likes to show you off. Any chance he gets where he can take you out he will do so.

Do you mind being the big spoon? Just for him pleeeeeeeeease.

You have the perfect opportunity to give him forehead kisses. Do it, it will make Tomas happy :)

You wanna wear heels? Go for it! He wants you to feel confident and powerful in them.

Oh now he’s the one taking your hoodie and keeping it for himself. No givesies backsies.

Did he ever tell you how much he loves you? Bring your face a little closer so he can give you a kiss.

After notes: I’m sorry if this isn’t my best work. I knew a guy back in high school who was 6’7. That man is in the Air Force now serving this country RAAAAH 🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🎆🎆🎆🎆🎆…I have to sneeze now. Adiós!

[drsbutmakeitspicy]

More about this post of Lando sending Carlos pictures of Osco (Also Im relearning how to use tumblr so I hope this looks okay, also not betaread)

Lando: [Link]

Carlos: ?

Lando: Some nice pictures from today at the MTC 😉.

Carlos: hm.

Carlos: Why no one fixed his hair? Charlotte never allowed us to show up like that at.🤦‍♂️

Lando: Dunno man, maybe he is afraid of hair brushes.🥴

Carlos: He's an adult.

Lando: Lewis is afraid of onions.🤷

Carlos: I don't believe that. Anyway, tell your teammate to stop being lazy.👍

Lando: 🥱

Carlos: it's absolutely unacceptable to show up at work like that.

Lando: Okay 😶

Carlos: He knew it was one of those type of events right? McLaren would tell us a day or week before. How can he be that disrespectful with his team?

Lando: It's just a bed hair, mate. 🤔

Carlos: Lando you don't understand!! He doesn't care about the teams reputation? Does he need someone to teach him something so basic¿

Lando: are you okay? 🤨

*Carlos is typing*

Lando: You're taking too long, I get it mate. You want to run your fingers through his hair.🥱

Carlos: NO !!!😡

Carlos: I want to just fix it.

Lando: Same thing, mate.

Carlos: NO IT ISNT

Lando: Hm. I think he would be fine with it, as long as you're doing that while kissing him. 😌

Carlos:...

Lando: 🙂

Carlos: would he?

Lando: Idk mate, I never asked, maybe I should. I'll screenshot this and send it to him. 😘

Carlos: Lando I'm gonna block you.

*Lando took a screenshot*

Carlos: LANDO NORRIS

Carlos: DONT YOU DARE 😡

Carlos: I can see you're still Online you Muppet!!!

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Oscar: Hi, it's Oscar. 👋

Oscar: Lando sent me some screenshots.

Oscar: I'm absolutely horrible with keeping my hair, I am aware of that, I didn't hear my alarm that day and only had time to brush my teeth and put a hoodie on.

Carlos: Oh.

Carlos: I don't know what came over me, you don't need to explain yourself, I'm sorry. 🤦‍♂️

Oscar: But I do accept the offer. 👍

Carlos: What offer?

Oscar: ? Lando said you would like to teach me how to take proper care of my hair ? 😶

Carlos: Oh. hm I can help you with that.

Oscar: Ok, it's settled then, mate. You're in Monaco rn right? We can meet at <this place> later if you're free.

Carlos: The harbour?

Oscar: Yea, Mark is lending me his Yatch for the night. I think it would be nice, Lando gave me this idea some weeks ago.

Carlos: you're throwing a party?

Oscar: Nope. Just us, basically.

Carlos: So I can tell you how to take care of your hair¿?

Oscar: Oh shit, maybe I got things wrong, I thought uh, making out was also included.😬

Carlos: OH.

Carlos: It is, Yes.

Oscar: So, uh are you free? 7pm?

Carlos: 👍

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Carlos: Thanks.

Lando: 😛

Lando: Yatch date huh? Hot.🔥🔥🔥

*Carlos Blocked You*

[natlovespink]

Unpopular options on TLOUS fanfics/ and more

1. Ellie would never let you strap her down😭 I'm sorry if you ok with that, that's fine. I'm not judging, but home girl would NEVER let you do that to her.

2. Stop making Ellie seem like a man. No, she's not gonna pick you up and throw you. I also don't think she's this big dommy, mommy. idk why, but I don't see it.

3. I don't like Ellie x Abby. I'm sorry, I dont see it happening.

4. I also don't like how some people write Abby just because she's built like a "man" doesn't mean she acts like one 😭

My opinions on a the TLOUS game in general.

1. Joel is a bad person. I love him, don't get me wrong, but Joel did some really awful and gruesome things that didn't need to be done, but I understand.

2. All of abby friends deserved it but Owen and Mel which I'll talk about later. But they all deserved it they way they talked about how they KILLED KIDS!? was crazy and Manny showed how cooky a d unfair he was and how disrespectful they were to Joel's body.

3. Mel was not in the wrong for not liking abby. She only wanted Mel to come so she can keep Joel alive so she can keep hurting him. Then abby always seem to get in the way of her and Owen's relationship. Owen isn't perfect but the fact that he told abby not to kill Ellie and he said she went overboard showed how he had a little bit of humanity and what he said about thr fireflies being terrorists.

4. Let's stop acting like Abby is perfect 😭 she's to me sadistic. It's kind of the fact that she liked killing scars and even killing CHILDREN them saying it was their fault!? But not just that it's the way she killed Joel after he helped her it's all Joel knew was that someone was gonna cut a little girls head open to TRY and fix humanity Joel didn't know that man he did what he thought was right.

5. Dina had EVERY RIGHT to leave Ellie🤷🏾‍♀️ people say she left because she thought ellie was dead.but she knows ellie, and she knows she's not gonna let anyone do anything TO HER. She just didn't want to deal with the fact of losing another loved one, and Dina was tired of fighting and having to stick by Ellie and this obsession.

6. Tommy forced Ellie.to go after abby which is why we got the ending that we got I understand how hard it must be losing pretty much all you biological family is hard but damm he saw how good ellie had it and it's got ruined.

7. Naughty dog forced us to feel bad foe Abby Ik she may not know what the fireflies where really up to but other then that she and the other wolf members had it good growing up🤷🏾‍♀️ and I don't know what abby expected not for Joel's love ones to come after her? I only started liking abby because of how she took care of Lev and me.readimg fanfics. 😩 but other then that I don't like her and never will really feel bad for her.

8. I'm sorry but if it was Abby vs Ellie again Abby would win🤷🏾‍♀️ Ellie is a 5"5 skinny girl vs a 5'10 muscles Abby would win and the only reason she didn't was because all her muscles where gone.

9. I like the ending of TLOUS 2 Ellie saw Joel In Abby and she realized she can't hold this grunge and surprisingly I feel Joel wouldn't want Ellie to track down his killer and make it her life mission and he would be PISSED at Tommy for making Ellie track down Abby.

10. I feel like is Abby knew what the fireflies where doing she wouldn't stand for it. Not even if her dad said it was for humanity I feel like she would belive what he was doing was wrong.

11. Ellies NEVER gonna get over Riley that was her first love, and I feel like she loved Dina but never the way she loved Riley, and that goes for her relationship with Cat too.

Hiii sorry for my English again 😅 now these are MY OPINIONS

[dreamer0903]

How much I relate to each Marauders era character:

Sirius = 4, bad childhood, and I tried to escape from my home when I was 8, and then when I was 11 (??) but that's it

James = 7, honestly, I always thought that I was the complete opposite of him, BUT recently I realised I'm basically a people pleaser who doesn't want others to really worry about me 😆 so yeah, that was FUN

Peter = 7, okay, I'm not gonna go around backstabbing my friends 😉 but this guy likes food and sleep. He is a little shy compared to the rest of his friends, and I hc him as ace and Bi, so that's me folks.

Remus = 9, I am full of scars and health problems, and back pain is my BFF. I love to read, and I would actually prefer reading with a cup of tea rather than going out to clubs or parties.

Lily = 5, not much to say, I love her, but apart from -> I like to study and I am anxious if I don't, we don't have much in common

Marlene = 1, babe...idk just never related to her much, the only thing I can think of is the fact that I am vaguely disgusted by men lol

Mary = 3, just for the vibes, I feel like she would be a sarcastic girl and I am very sarcastic

Dorcas = 6, I am mean with people who disrespect me and my friends (!!) also kinda sarcastic, too, so yeah, I feel you, girl

Pandora = 7, I have strange dreams every night, and I try to interpret them as much as I can, I love to daydream and I like to help my friends, I want them to be able to talk to me about everything (I feel like this is relatable also for James)

Regulus = 10000, this man, oh boy, I am basically like him, he is me, sarcastic little shit? check, can't deal with his feelings? check, little sibling that feels like a waste and always compared to his big siblings? check, mean but actually cares but doesn't know how to express themselves? yes, likes to read, quiet, cats, and craves academic validation? Yes, that's me

Barty = 8, I would use violence to get back at someone for begin disrespectful to me/people I care about, kinda crazy, doesn't really care what other people think of me.

Evan = 7.5, for the vibes, I am the crazy friend but also the one that needs to keep the others in check before they go too far, snarky little remarks about people I don't like and I would insult you to make you understand that I care about you

NOW, those are my personal opinions on how I view the characters, obviously, so if you feel like "nah Barty is not like this," remember this is just how I view him and relate to him.

Maybe this was a little too personal but...who cares?

Love y'all babes, take care

[that-was-anticlimactic]

okay for the ship ask game. let's see.... how about riteru, higugin, and jetru?

hiiiiiiii beloved <333

lol answered riteru here - the tags are important i think

higugin

ship it

what made you ship it?

LOOK AT THEM!!! okay so maybe a small part of them reminded me of us but like. that's not IT. it's the silent support, the blind faith, the gin prolly giving higuchi a sexuality crisis once she finds out gin isn't a girl,,, it's the late nights in the other's place, it's protecting each other in battle, it's being friends first, it's higuchi loving gin for gin regardless of gender bc she didn't fall for them bc they were a guy or girl or whatever, she fell for their personality.

what are your favorite things about the ship?

dang man. i kind of just answered that lol

but on another note, i think it's the blind faith and trust. you could argue that goes for both gin and higuchi with any of the black lizard, but it feels... idk different with them. it's the i don't have to know everything about you to love you. higuchi thinking she liked akutagawa when really she liked gin (and, really, higuchi just wanted to be respected like him). it's gin respecting higuchi and going out of their way to show it after people disrespect her. it's bonding about being overlooked. it's--

is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship?

ummmmm i don't think i have any? that or higuchi has ts and gin gives the BEST back massages <333

jetru

ship it

what made you ship it?

tumblr. i thought it was stupid at first tbh and was like “why what is the point of this” and then i saw exactly One jetru fan art and was like “HAHAHAH NEVERMIND THEY ARE IN LOVE” probably like a year after i watched the show??? no but also this art is what like... made me ship it (by @listless-brainrot <333)

what are your favorite things about the ship?

it’s about finding peace and someone to care for you and someone to care for. someone who understands and is willing to help you care your burden and whose burden you want to help carry too. it’s about finding someone who makes you want to be a kid rather than a solider,,, also they are SO SILLY and i love them in my s.okka hanahaki fic lol

is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship?

ummmm this is objectively better than people making jet z.uko's abusive ex???

[vintage-bentley]

Completely floored at this post I saw today where someone said their husband said David Tennant “looks queer.” idk if they’re in a ✨ kweer ✨ relationship, or if that’s just a straight man, but it felt so out of pocket and disrespectful

David Tennant talked about how he was bullied and straight up beaten for “looking gay” as a kid; it just made me think of those kids calling him queer and literally hate crime-ing him, and it feels really, really insensitive. Doubly because, based on what we know, he’s straight; this man basically said “lol he looks like a fag” and this person took it as an “uwu us queers stay together” moment

I feel like I’d be called overly sensitive or muh terf-y dogwhistle if I said this on main, but man, it’s really bothering me. I’ve never had an issue with people self ID-ing as queer, even though I don’t use it myself, but this was sort of a, “oh *wow*, you people really aren’t ✨ queer ✨ at all and have no idea of decorum or respect” moment. I’m glad you have sense and get why this is so wildly rude and borderline (if not fully) homophobic

That’s so wild omg 😭

People have gotten really bold with the terms they use online, I feel like I’ve been seeing things like “queer”, “fruity”, “limp wrist(ed)”, and even the f slur being slung around so often. It’s like people have forgotten what these terms and slurs actually mean, and have reduced them down to some sort of aesthetic. Which unfortunately makes sense, considering how obsessed with aesthetics the internet is. It’s like, you’re either a “clean girl”, a “mob wife”, or a “fruity little queer”. And it’s all just clothes and shaping yourself into something you’re not just to fit a trend.

So at this point, I really don’t think that when they say “wow he looks so ✨queer✨”, they’re even thinking about same sex attraction. They’re just thinking about quirkiness and colourful clothes. And that’s where the problem is; forgetting that this word you’re throwing around is actually a slur used against a minority group, aka same sex attracted people. And that there’s actual pain attached to those words. In the case of a (as far as we know) straight man mistaken as “queer”, it’s just regular pain from being bullied. But from what I gathered from a DT interview where he talked about this, he seemed to understand how much deeper it would hit for a kid who actually was SSA. So yeah, definitely an odd case to be applying the “wow so queer so quirky!” Thing to.

Anyway, the trendification of “queer” is exactly why I tend to not trust people who self-ID as “queer”, too. Because I know there’s a good chance they aren’t actually SSA, they just go by they/them pronouns and wear gnc clothes sometimes. Or they think dressing up in the “queer” clothing trend makes them the same as an LGB person. And they have no respect for or understanding of the history of that word. They just see it as a silly word that makes them cool.

I’m sure there’s LGB people who do call themselves queer, and that’s fine. They have the right to reclaim a slur personally (as long as they don’t go using it for others). But at this point I can’t help but feel like, why the hell would you want to associate yourself with people making an aesthetic out of your innate sexuality and a slur used against it?

[jvrssy]

hello all of tumblr users,today i want to share my opinion about men in these times,so..lets start. at first i want to say that im not saying it about ALL men,but about those who are like this. as you know,in our times men doesnt have respect for women (talking especially about 12 yo boys who had just watched american psycho and they think they are sigma's). but my question is - why men are so disrespectful to women? many women were mathematics,writers and inventors etc. and i've heard about female inventor who found out something about DNA (idk what was that about DNA especially). but then i heard that men stole her discovery and took credit for it, even though they didn't invent it themselves. it shows how men were jealous of her,or just wanted to be seen,but at her expense. men literally disrespected women for centuries,thinking females are worser,not strong enough,that they cant rule country and many things! im just so pissed off by that,cause human is human,and one person cam be good at something,while someone doesnt have to be either. men saying that women belong to kitchen are showing that they are dependent and immature honestly. its like you dont have 2 legs and 2 hands to cook for yourself,but woman does? i have one boy at school,who is/were saying that women do belong to kitchen,and when a girl would argue with them,they would say like "youre woman,you have no rights" bro WTF is wrong with you? or when in history class was topic about feminism,most of boys started laugh. women fights for their rights for ages,maybe even decades. i bet that if men would have to fight for their rights,it would be easier for them. oh sorry,i forgot that they would never experience,how it feels like,how it feels like to be Arabic woman,and have to cover your whole self under hijab and many clothes,and you can only see. imagine its summer and you have to dress like that. thats humiliating in some senses and very uncomfortable i think. the same is about empathy, maybe women are more "emotional" than most men,but they at least have a heart,to help someone,to put yourself in someone elses situation (not all women idk,it depends on personality). and not to be seen as man hater - most fathers are telling to their sons after they example: fall on the ground and little son start crying cause it hurts him,father would say like "real men doesnt cry" i hate it. everyone can show their emotions,not matter if its a boy,a girl,adult,or old person. everyone should show it,cause in 20 years after hearing things like "dont cry,are you a p***y?" they became hard to show emotions to someone,even to be ashamed of them. and about feminism also: men like to manipulate women,and have fun with them,but tell me why? i know that manipulators cant love theirselfs,and nobody else,but its just..really sick and hurting..same thing about sexualising women from men who are 40+ (but it can be every age) i have seen many catcalling situations on tik tok and im honestly disgusted,cause how dare you say it to a teenager or just to any woman?! do you think that "compliment" like "nice ti*s" or "nice ass" is something cool that someone can hear? i had situations like this in my life too,guy smirking at me,and i was already disgusted by him. thats why sometimes i dont understand the second gender. ofcourse anything can work on two sides,woman can got sexualized like men too,so read whole post before judging and typing mean stuff.

[coastal-mangos-one]

I actually think it’s a really bad idea to start treating the kids like they’re younger than they are, like if they’re 16 and you’re calling them 12/14 it’ll get them off your back, but doesn’t do much to protect the kid in other situations when they’re flirting with other older ppl. Sending them off by calling them younger than they are will just cause them to seek validation elsewhere

A tactic that a lot of predators use is telling teenagers that they’re “so mature for their age,” which can be super flattering when people are constantly patronizing to them based on their age.

I’m eternally grateful for the older men who turned me down firmly & politely. I didn’t feel disrespected, my ego may have been a bit bruised, but most importantly it set the precedent for how I should be treated, like a person, a teenager, but too young to really understand what was wrong with flirting with older men. Things you can consider saying that might help convince a kid to avoid potentially dangerous situations:

”Idk, would you feel comfortable dating someone x years younger than you?” (answer being obviously no)

“Yeah, I used to get crushes on older people too when I was your age but I didn’t realize how much different being (current age) is”

“Anyone who wants to date a minor is doing so because women their age can see what’s wrong with them”

“No, I’ve got a niece/cousin/kid/younger sibling who’s your age”

“Age isn’t just a number and people who say otherwise are lying”

“Don’t waste your time with older guys, when you’re my age it’s loser behavior to date someone much younger”

Ik this is gendered because young woman/older man is the dynamic I have the most personal experience with, if anyone’s got some for other gender dynamics I’d love to hear them. Treat kids as they are, whole human beings with needs who sometimes need to be told what’s up

[garden-0f-ed3n]

Oh so eager but you won’t sway me, love. I more than really like you. You are the air I breathe, my darling. Everything and more. But that doesn’t change the fact I won’t be telling you about me. It’s adorable watching you try though. It is not flattery when it is truth. I must admit, it’s good keeping you on the edge of your seat. It means you keep your attention on me. I’ll tell you things that don’t have to do with my identity, how about that? Those questions are fine. Oh, I don’t know how someone hasn’t come along and realized you are the perfect thing to stalk. Even better that you are so naive to the depth of how badly I need you. Obsession is not always one sided, love.

You can crash out as much as you need, I’ll be here to pick up the pieces when you are ready. And I know I can be a real man for you. But let’s just say that the thoughts under that train of thought are ones I cannot say on this blog but perhaps the other one.

Oh I’m not afraid to admit I’m a bit of a mamas boy. Not to that weird degree but I love her dearly. My mother gave me everything she could while growing up in a tough situation and she deserves that expression of love in return. She taught me how to respect women the right way, perhaps that’s how I turned out like this. I could not imagine how some men treat their mothers. Truly disgusting to me. The only person I disrespect would be my father and I think I have good reason for that though. I’m glad I could have your heart aching as badly as mine, love. Now you know how I feel every day. Imagine that ache to an overpowering degree that it takes over every waking thought. Then you understand how I feel. Thank you, a compliment from you means more than you know, Eden. I am by far not the most perfect son but I try. And me too, I have been on overload but today is a day off from work so once the festivities for Mothers Day is mostly over then I can have down time luckily.

- A

of course im eager .. you’ve been active, and you’ve stayed longer than many other people. you are incredibly kind .. cmon, can’t I just get something? what color your blog is, maybe? i don’t think it’s adorable… i think it’s very silly. huff. i would like to know you very badly.. you’ve interested me. i don’t like being on the edge of my seat .. ughhh cmon haven’t i waited long enough? how long do i gotta wait for you to tell me who you are? it better not be forever.. i actually have a lil thing in my notes app im using to keep track of some of the stuff i know about you. sigh i fear i am perfect to stalk because i have so many pictures on here and give my information so freely .. T_T maybe a bad idea but i don’t care. hmmm you’re so silly, A.

ahhh!!! ah!!! got me blushin and kicking my feet… im giggling that’s so sweet.. ghjgjggn idk do you really think that you could be a real man for me? hmmm maybe it’s not enough.. what makes you better than anyone else? /teasing ( well if you have things to say, go ahead and say em .. maybe not on this blog though ehe flutters eyelashes )

that is really so endearing. every mamas boy ive met has been so incredibly respectful.. your mom sounds like an amazing person. it’s so wonderful that she’s helped you so much. mm im sorry that your father might not be as kind as your mother is. ahah you are such a flirt, A. always tryna butter me up .. i can’t deny that it definitely works. i am buttered up. aww, well of course ill compliment you A! you deserve compliments. you’re incredibly kind, respectful, well spoken, so endearing .. you’re awesome!!! oh I really hope you’ll be able to have some downtime, you deserve it!!! whenever you can try to rest, do smth you like ^_^

[nathank77]

5/18/24

5:36 p.m

This isn't mark didn't respect that I didn't work cause i am able bodied... like it's shitty but like it's not the same thing..

He didn't respect everything that I was. The core of my humanity. Everything i worked for.

Me being Nathan is everything to me. I'd be dead right now if I hadn't transitioned.

I think about my aunt Debbie and it's like she doesn't respect me as Nathan either but I'd go cause at least she calls me Nathan.... I'd go for my mother despite the massive amount of shit she talks about me and how she prob deadnames me all the time. It's an assumption I'm prob right about but I don't know for sure. I'm prob 99.99% right but nonetheless...she still calls me Nathan

I wouldn't go to my uncle Kenny's funeral why??? Cause I still remember him yelling my deadname at me and you have a cunt.

He is a gay man and he couldn't get on board with my transition.. he yelled you have a cunt and my deadname so many times at me I wouldn't go... cause yea. It's the core of who I am

I thought long and hard about mark and I wouldn't regret it. Psychosis or not. Now I have to consider how angry my father will be at me and the stone wall it'll put in between us despite my very good reasons for not going....

I'm beyond stressed. My tactile hallucinations with my mental pictures are killing me. My potential auditory hallucination with my mental pictures are killing me cause I'm scared. Idk if it's real xanax but I think it is.

Am I getting worse? I've been seeing a lot of the creature but super segmented... never clear... the deadname Nathan thing has gotten a bit better...

But idk.. once I truly relaxed last night- the auditory hallucination calmed down a bit... i wouldn't say it's getting worse.. but it feels like it is sometimes.

Beyond that seeing my mother today is a lot.. I'm not okay and I have no one to talk to and I really don't need this stress about Mark.

I'm SICK I don't need to see people crying and see a dead body. Unless it's someone I truly loved who loved me.

This isn't fair cause like he didn't see me as Nathan. He saw me as a freak. And I saw him as a pos.

And I don't want to go out of respect for anyone. Other than my dad but psychosis plays a role.

And I mean if you were trans dad and someone didn't respect you said the things he said to me to you and to your sister and mother you wouldn't feel any different than me bc you'd understand this isn't minor disrespect....

He completely rejected my entire identity. And I don't have one molecule of respect for mark. I used to like Melissa but once I saw the fb post she was put on my shit list.

I'm getting anxiety about sleeping again and with my new bottle of Xanax with a pick up date of the 21st coming up and my Dr not wanting to see me monthly anymore I'm worried I'm going to be getting a Placebo.. maybe the insurance is like it isn't malpractice and you don't have to see him every month now idk. But I'm terrified. I need xanax to hit sleep stage one or I have to start smoking weed again and that didn't seem to help.

Idk if I'm even going to try to smoke weed again... I mean last night I considered it. Cause I was like if I don't fall asleep now all I have is 4 options. 75mg of Hydroxyzine... in total..... 3x my daily dose.... another 25mg of Benadryl or another half mg of xanax. Or weed.

[smokingasters]

Idk if you have seen the most recent TomoSeki interview but this is what he basically says(DeepL translated but comments said pretty much the same thing so I’m assuming it’s not incorrect):

1.He doesn’t think Kougami should have a lukewarm(I assume he means somewhat hopeful?)ending.Instead of being happy with someone else he wants Kougami to be executed by Akane or he wants Akane to find his dead body.This is how he envisions Kougami’s definitive ending scenario.Apparently he also discussed it with the director,Shiotani before PPP started recording and Shiotani was very surprised by Seki’s vision.(not sure why?maybe he’d a different vision or something?)He also wants Akane to think long and hard before shutting down Sybil system.

2.He says he doesn’t think Kougami shouldn’t be happy but he should never have a normal life that means peace,regular day to day life or family.I don’t exactly understand what he said but it has to do with burden of sins or something.He probably means after what Kougami has done he shouldn’t be allowed to have that.

3.It also does seem like Seki kind of thought Kougami as an ideal man(who lives and dies in the battlefield for his honour)but writing team just wanted him to be a regular man(?!)

I know this is the voice actor’s vision and everyone has their own vision of how the charecters should end up being.But all these overwhelming negativity surrounding Kougami’s character is starting to irritate me a bit?It’s constantly about how he should die/obsessed with death.If he wanted to die there’s no reason to bring him back in case 3?What’s the point of him coming back to Japan again?He could have easily died in the 5 years he’s in battlefield,off screen.If he wants to die by Akane’s hands now what’s the point?Except traumatising Akane who’s literally suffered more than anyone in the narrative also respects and looks up to him more than anyone?There’s no glory in this way of death.Like I said everyone is allowed to have their own vision but this isn’t what the story is about.Kougami constantly going around with his obsession with death is repetitive and tiring.Of course they might be postponing his death until the last moment because he’s arguably the most popular character.If death is what’s in store for him he should get killed obscurely.That’s how death is.No grand gestures just obscurity.

First off, I apologise, Anon, for the late response. I’m inactive on Tumblr these days. Also, I haven’t read the interview, I’ll look for it later.

I suppose Seki-san wants to make it as depressing as possible. I don’t agree with his view that Kogami should die, especially at Akane’s hands. If he dies protecting her and she’s unable to do anything, that would be a disrespect to Kogami’s and Akane’s character.

I agree that Kogami is becoming a bit repetitive. From a dynamic character, he’s become very static at least in anime perspective. I believe that his inner evolution is more important now, It would be a nice change if they depicted Kogami’s personal relationships, outside the field of work. We’ve seen the dynamic between Gino and Sugo, but nothing much about Gino and Kogami’s strained dynamic. Akane and Kogami have stuff to sort through as well.

Frankly even I don’t see much of a point if it ends with his death, considering that it would be a weird end, Akane and Gino would blame themselves and it wouldn’t be the same. I think the biggest surprise would be if his Crime Coefficient went back to normal. There are a few lines in PP-Case 3 translated novel (kindly translated by @temporarilyunstable) that captured my heart, and it makes me think Kogami won't die an ignoble death and he’ll make a different choice. Kogami's inner monologue with Makishima under the moonlight:

Kogami's reflection as he leaves Tenzing:

Kogami’s purpose in the story that brings him back to where he starts, with Akane and Gino. I believe that Kogami regrets abandoning them, and that is why he’s back to stand by their side and help change the Psycho Pass world.

So, I still have some hope for him ❤️ Sorry, Seki-san, maybe he’s tired of voicing Kogami?

[cats-in-the-clouds]

another day of me finding absolutely no help as to the question of whether or not you as a catholic should call a trans-identified person by the pronouns they say they wanna be called by or if you should refrain from encouraging their delusion with their gender in any way

[evansbby]

i’m just thinking about how dark!ari punishing brat!reader by instructing her to be completely still on her knees and hands and he just uses her as a table for hours…..while she has a vibrating plug in her ass….

LISTEN it's midnight and i just got home from work but this ask has got me LIKEEE ksafjklasj ok ok let's see....

WARNING: NON CON, DADDY KINK, DEGRADATION UNDER THE CUT, MINORS DO NOT INTERACT

"Y-You can't do this." Hatred drips from every word you speak, and you look up at him with the most venomous look you can muster up - yet you still can't help but stutter. It's because he's so intimidating, with his fucking huge, ripped body looming over you, that fucking shit-eating grin on his face.

"What are you gonna do to stop me, huh?" Ari smirks down at you, the tip of his boot stroking your cheek lightly. It's almost a caress with how soft it is, but the degrading nature of the action makes you want to rip your hair out.

You hate Ari with every fibre of your being. He's the bane of your existence. From the moment he sauntered into the tiny bistro cafe you work at and took a liking to you, and every moment after that; he'd help himself to touching you however he pleased, whenever he pleased.

Brushing against you when you walked by - just trying to do your job - to lewdly squeezing your ass in front of customers, to staying until the cafe was closed, acting like he owned the place... Acting like he owned you. And then you'd made the mistake of yelling at him, shoving him, losing you temper at him and demanding he get out.

And that's how you'd ended up in your current position. In the back office - Ari sitting on your boss's chair as if he was the boss, with you at his feet. And you don't even really understand how you let yourself get in this position - except that he's just so much bigger than you, so much stronger.

"Don't act like you don't love this, princess." Ari says, his hand palming his dick from over his jeans as he gazes hungrily down at you. "It was a bit too easy to rip those clothes off of you, to get you naked and on your hands and knees for me. You act all tough but you want this. You just didn't have to disrespect daddy on the way to getting what you want."

"You're an asshole!" You sob, the tears welling in your eyes are borne out of both anger and embarrassment.

"You love it." Ari sneers. "You're so fucking wet, I can smell it from up here. Now be a good little slut and stay still, and maybe I'll let you off your knees in a few minutes."

"Fuck you!" You cry, knees hurting almost as much as your ego. His blue eyes narrow, and he roughly runs his hand through his unruly hair that flops down on his face.

"You're acting too fucking feisty for someone who's about to get their ass all plugged up." Ari says it almost too casually, and you barely have time to register what he's said before his huge arms are mauling you upwards, hoisting you over his lap and giving your ass a few playful slaps along the way.

"LET GO OF ME YOU FUCKING JERK, FUCK YOU!" You scream, but you can't help but rut against the denim of his jeans. You hate him, but he's so fucking big, so manly, so virile. You'd never tell him, but he ticks every box you look for in a man. And he makes you so fucking wet.

"Princess doesn't know when to shut her fucking mouth," Ari tut-tuts, the disapproval mixed with pure lust evident in his tone. You gasp inwardly when you feel his large, calloused hands spreading your ass cheeks, letting out a ragged cry when you feel something cold and plastic pressing into your puckered hole.

"Luckily for you, daddy knows exactly how to solve the problem.

(a/n: IDK WHERE THIS CAME FROM BYE.)