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gaypirate420 · 3 months

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Why did I cry to Pink Pony Club?

#chappell roan #how do I tag this #chappell roan my beloved #idk man I'm just queer and idk man #pink pony club

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tchotchkez · 10 months

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🏳️‍⚧️ luffy is the ally we all deserve* 🏳️‍🌈

#*idk how accurate this translation is bc I'm watching on a pirate site (lmao)#but I'll take it man #thanks for the questionable queer sponsorship i guess???#one piece #luffy #monkey d. luffy #impel down #emporio ivankov #don't @ me if this is questionable it made me laugh and there is so little happiness in my life #just let me have this #also LOVE that sanji is canonically the apprentice to the queen of queers #if only we could all be so lucky

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lazykurocat · 5 months

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it honestly baffles me that Transphobes or general anti-LGBT will be pro Israel anti-hamas... it makes no sense, and as glad as I am people support Israel it confuses me... all the people who hate me stand for a place I could be safe. yet all the people who should love me stand for a place we would be killed... we live in a mad world... it makes me feel so lost... I don't want transphobes to have my back in one way and then not in another... because I'm scared of transphobes for how they see me and treat me and how much trauma they've caused... but I'm also scared of my own community for playing into their hands and giving them a valid reason to think we're insane when before they had none... I don't know what to do... I feel like as soon as the world moves on from the war the transphobes will just turn on me as they always have... so I find it hard to accept they support Israel and hate Hamas...

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torchickentacos · 3 months

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i will always shout praises of bi4bi but given recent discourse I feel the need to say that I love bi4het too! I just love bisexuality in general in its many forms, and anyone who only likes it when it's 'queer enough' for them is biphobic. Bisexuals should be able to bring their LaMe CiShEt BoYfRiEnD to pride without being made to feel like spectators and outsiders to their own event.

#3 am queer discourse take <3 #anyways hot take number two. cishets do belong at pride. everyone who wants to celebrate queerness should be welcomed at pride #if a completely cishet business major fratboy wants to come to pride and vibe with us then he should be welcomed!#not even like. oh he has a queer sibling. no. if he's just a cishet dude who wants to spend his saturday at a parade then hell yeah #like completely ignoring that you have no way to tell he's definitively those things. it shouldn't matter regardless imo #pride is not a secretive club you need to be let into. it's a feeling and a celebration and a statement and a state of being #and whatever you want it to be #burying my other related hot take under the tags readmore ksdjksdjksdj #idk. i'm just tired of a lot of the things people seem to think about bisexuality's validity relating to bi women specifically #this is frustration with the gatekeepy and straight-passing discourse of it all #I'm tired of people being expected to act and to preform and to BE queer enough for others' opinions.#am I still welcome if I haven't been with a woman in a few years? if I dress boring? if I like m/f? if I don't listen to chappell roan?#joking on that last one but like. idk. never straight enough for the straights but never gay enough for the gays #constantly some mercurial in-between that offers no comfortable easy group to put us in.#what do i have to do to not be judged as a filthy hettie? are my doc martens enough for you yet?#like oh sorry let me cuff my jeans and have a bob and wear a button up over a cami and wear etsy earrings. am I visually bi enough yet?#let me apologize for the cardinal sin of liking men too. let me wash my hands of any time a cishet man has held them.#if it was a bisexual man then just hand sanitizer is fine right? where do you draw the line on my queerness?#let me preform for you in a way that makes me queer enough.#anyways. sarcasm aside. I think I've made my distaste for this whole affair evident #if you don't want cishets at pride then what happens to those you incorrectly deem as cishet? do I need to prove myself to you?#am I passing as straight? am I passing as gay? am I enough for onlookers?#is it not enough to just show up at pride and celebrate? anyone and everyone who wants to?

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lilchaoswitch · 3 months

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I wish dating Sim games/otome games or whatever were gender neutral or you got the ability to choose your pronouns like in The Arcana :( I know gay guys who play dating sims is a small demographic but please please pleasepleaseplease just let me pick my pronouns so I can immerse myself in the Anime Men Romance Simulator without feeling dysphoric 🥲

#idk man #maybe this is just a me thing #but all of the queer friendly sims are locked behind insane paywalls #is it sad and pathetic? maybe #fr I love shit like Love in Deepspace and Tokyo Debunker but it's always a female MC #maybe it bothers me so much specifically bc I'm trans?#I actually think queer otome type games would be a lucrative untapped market #and it wouldn't have to be strictly gay!!#The Arcana isn’t strictly gay bc you choose your own pronouns #and while not a dating sim BG3 has a romance plot/mechanic and obv that isn't strictly gay either #I'm ranting lol sorry 😞#anyway #like to charge #reblog to cast #tokyo debunker #the arcane game #love in deepspace

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dogboymutual · 2 months

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hi everyone. letting you all know that i find the clicker game about the guy who likes clicking. the one called clickolding. that one. it's. hhot

#clickolding #something something objectum control power dynamics anonymity in intimacy desperation for the mundane etc #it's not abt the clicks themselves. it's abt the clickold and his reaction to it. it's abt how much he loves that clicker #he trusts YOU and ONLY YOU with that clicker. but he doesn't trust you enough to show his face #something something ''the waves inside me would break another man''#sorry it's Hot what do you want me to say #starboy.exe #congratulations followers you now know something way too embarrassing abt me :D #edit: OMG HE HAS A WIFE TOO??? BRO... SORRY THE DEAL KEEPS GETTING BETTER AND BETTER EVERY PASSING CLICK #one thing abt me is that i love the fantasy of a straight/straight-passing guy having a weird queer sidepiece. even if his is a clicker #like the Object of the clicker. we're just the vessel through which he gets the clicks #but i mean. sorry. i'm oversharing lmao #i have a thing for unsettling men. idk what that's called other than bad taste generally

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catkin-morgs-kookaburralover · 5 months

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questioning sexuality is so exhausting

#(edit: sorry for the rant in the tags and i just. i want someone to talk to me)#i keep on doing it for no apparent reason #someone was talking about lust yesterday and i realised today that.#even tho id thought i don't experience it. i possibly do. but exclusively towards women.#i hate it here!#for a multitude of reasons i will never have a relationship with a woman but! i may be incapable of having a relationship with a man!#at some point in the last few months i have abruptly pivoted from definitely wanting marriage and kids to being ambivalent on marriage #and not wanting kids. that's such an outlier in my life that it might just be a mental health thing tho idk #but at the same time i. want to be loved.#i don't know what i want anymore and im tired of questioning myself #i definitely overthink it but idk how to stop it #and i hate hate hate how the moral obsessions have bee lately #this isn't entirely related but it kind of is #like Am i a terrible morally bankrupt person for having certain thoughts or is it just religious ocd go brrrr?? am i overthinking it?#i don't know. i don't know!#for a while labelling myself as arospec ace kinda calmed that down but. i don't know #i do't want to be attracted to women. i don't want to have to look away so often. i don't want any of that.#but i don't know how to stop it.#i don't even know if i'm attracted to men at all.#this is a cry for help and encouragement and prayers no matter what your views on these matters are #queer stuff tag #i nearly fessed up to my friend yesterday about same sex attraction and i might've except that it would have probably outed me as #the person who anonymously sent in a question several months ago about the side b movement to a church thing #ive only told one person at church about any of that sort of stuff and it was very vaguely worded #also see: this friend is the mother of the boy i?? i don't even know how i feel about him #i increasingly think it wasn't romantic at all. but i don't know #i would love any encouragement you got. anything at all.#i don't know how much this stuff is affected by the fact that i consider myself unloveable and think it highly unlikely any boy will ever #care for me #now im rambling. sorry

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contagious-watermelon · 5 months

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so, fellow aspec people, what are y'all's relationship to gay as an umbrella term? I've seen a lot of aroace people call themselves gay despite *technically* not being, and personally I've always been confused by that

(and also— I'd imagine that aroallo or alloace people who are gay for their other orientation would automatically include themselves with that term, but what about the arohets and acehets? how do y'all feel about the use of gay as an umbrella term?)

I'm just curious about other people's experiences bc i as an aromantic person feel rather uncomfortable being grouped in as gay because I've never been attracted to another man before, but anecdotally i seem to be in the minority

#I'm sure it might also have something to do with some internalized transphobia of ''well if i think of myself as adjacent to straight rathe #than adjacent to gay that means I'm more masculine and thereof more of a man''#< not true but.#although it could also be that i have a little more in common with straight trans guys than gay ones #having grown up not being attracted to boys when i was expected to be #(just minus the Woman attraction part obv)#aromantic #aspec #asexual #non sam aro #aro #aroallo #aroace #ace #alloace #gay #lgbt #queer #idk. sexuality and labels and stuff are confusing #thats why ive stuck with just 'aromantic' and not even bothered to try and figure out my sexuality really #I'm not interested in sleeping with anyone so why do i need to know lol #maybe I'm asexual‚ maybe I'm repressing it bc internalized homophobia (in either direction)‚ maybe I'm mistaking dysphoria for dislike of i #again #who knows. not me #yall dont have to respond to my tag rant lol; i wanted to give some extra context and then it got away from me. oops

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bonetrousledbones · 2 years

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do u ever think about how crazy it is that undertale came out with its insane amount of unambiguously queer characters in fucking 2015

#trousled rambles #undertale #MAYBE this is just the byproduct of my being 11 in 2015 but while i know things were still getting more normalized back then #i'm fairly certain queer stories weren't anywhere NEAR as accepted as they are now #steven universe was running but iirc it was only just starting to clearly show its gay shit.. its so wild to me idk #hell obergefell v. hodges was only passed 3 months before ut came out. 3 months!!!!!!#you could point at literally any NPC in this game and say that they use they/them pronouns and you'd be more likely to be right than wrong #listen its that time of year again where i start getting emotional about this game ok its just such a treasure man its so much to me!!!!!!!!#it was given a lot of credit for being groundbreaking when it came out for its story & battle system yeah and it def deserved it #but i haven't seen much recognition of this aspect which i think should also be appreciated!! so much!!!!!!

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imissthembutitwasntadisaster · 8 months

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#My issue with side y discourse generally is when they say you shouldn't use queer lables because your identity in Christ should be first.#like yes it should but if you're also comfortable calling someone straight then you're being a hypocrite #because that is an identical kind of lable #and same with other labels! are you comfortable calling yourself your ethnicity? your age? your gender? your job title?#then you're doing the exact same thing and in none of those cases is it considered that you're not putting your identity in Christ first #if I said I'm british people wouldn't be like ooh you're prioritising being British above God #like I COULD but not by using the label itself #I'm British. I'm female. I'm 21. I'm straight.#vs I'm british. I'm female. I'm 21. I'm bisexual.#I think if people have an issue with the latter but not the former that logic just doesn't follow through #and i know some people are more comfortable saying SSA #which I totally respect #but a. I personally am not because it feels stigmatizing and b. that's still a label in the same way #idk man I just don't get this specific approach.#also I know that's not all side y. but it defo is some of them!!!

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angelsdean · 2 years

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im just saying things this morning but i really do love an insane queerbait over canon-right-out-the-gate “representation” characters with labels slapped on them and playing into the most outrageous stereotypes on purpose with the blandest storylines and boring perfect non-problematique lukewarm love interests. like WHERE is the tension WHERE is the 12 yr slow burn WHERE is the complex layering of Issues and Disorders resulting in the most nuanced bisexual man on television precisely because they never intended him to be queer in the first place but accidentally turned the dial up on their sexist funnyguy ladies man too far that it looped over into overcompensation and their 2005 lol gay jokes kept going on beyond funny and the actorman playing him made Choices like looking flustered, uncomfortable at being called out for being too butch and looking aroused and interested in every man place in front of him but especially thee gay angel to the point where said actor somehow made his EYES DILATE and then they told us WE were insane for seeing all of that and oh they started writing it as a romance anyway but were thwarted by the network and others over and over and well anyways, it’s just so delicious and fun but maybe that’s just bc i love theories and puzzles and figuring stuff out and putting things together and connecting dots and also my headcanons and opinions are more important than anything canon could say so idc if i get queerbaited for 50 yrs i’m on another level of existence, living gloriously in the subtext and knowing the Truth. anyways there will never be another ship like destiel

#like if you give me two characters right off the bat as say they're Gay and Bi and push them together right away #without building their chemistry without building their relationship and you tell me THESE TWO are TOGETHER #well. im just gonna start shipping two other characters that are more interesting complex and have looked at each other longingly #the beauty of characters starting off unlabeled and seemingly 'straight' is they get richer inner worlds they get richer characterization #and THEN. they fall in love with someone of the same gender and THEN. they get labels if they want them #im not saying there shouldn't be canon queer characters off the bat either but. we need some nuance and also variety #like you can have those characters (and make them interesting and give them complex relationships w actual chemistry !!)#and we can also have the deans of the world. characters that the general audience don't see as anything but straight #but is queercoded so other queer ppl SEE there's more going on under the surface #and then some many seasons later it's like oh. oh this man likes men !!!!!#and ideally a canon coming out / reciprocated love confession *cough cough*#like they tried !!!! they considered it !!!! thee market research !!!!#anyways. insane morning i'm having idk thinking abt too much #vic.txt

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weed-cat · 1 month

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#in the kindest way possible i think that some of your guys' queer microlabels are predicated on incorrect assumptions #about what is or is not typical of most people's gender and attraction.#you can call yourself whatever you want.#but just be aware that Straight and Gay and Transgender and Bisexual and Man and Woman and Nonbinary and other 'boring' labels #have always held capacity for more nuance and diversity than you've even thought to imagine #rigid definitions of queerness are a new and generally unhelpful development in the history of our community #and i promise that people before the internet era didn't just all have a simpler relationship with gender and sexuality than we do #again. you can call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable. that's the goal.#it just makes me feel weird when people demand or assign microlabels to historical figures or celebs who have not IDed themselves #or strangers on the internet/in their class.#apparently at my brother's very progressive middle school there is such a culture of everyone needing to neatly label themselves #that he just picked a sexuality to tell his friends even though he doesnt know #(which is pretty crazy because my middle school experience was only a decade off and a few miles #and there was definitely still homophobic bullying. but anyway)#i doubt that that's an uncommon story considering how you can log into tiktok #and find pages run by 11 year olds confidently stating a list of queer labels #people absolutely do figure out that they're queer/trans/gay at that age to be clear. kids been be queer and know it and that's incredible.#what makes me worried is kids feeling like they have to scramble to figure themselves out and clearly identify themselves to their peers #so they can be neatly categorized and as an expected virtue signal #<- is aware that this still isn't a problem in most parts of the world and that this is a much better problem to have #than homophobic bullying and internalized homophobia/transphobia #idk I'm rambling here

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the-lark-ascending69 · 4 months

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If Robin were a boy she'd be everyone's favorite character but since she's a girl she only gets to be Steve's gay best friend.

#from the simple fact that male!Robin from alternate dimension would certainly be a gay man #automatically shipped with Steve because Of Course #like of course that's how it'd go. and everyone would accuse the show of queerbaiting because obviously a queer man can't come out to a #male straight friend if it doesn't have some supposed ''romantic subtext'' there #the shipwars among h4rringrove and st3ddie and m/m!St0bin would drive me insane #what really drives me up the walls is people so desperate for canon queer rep they need to make up queerness in characters when it isn't #there. and im not talking abt headcanons or shipping i'm talking about people who wholeheartedly believe byl3r is going to be canon #like beyond it being a theory like these people actually believe mike is gay in canon and was intentionally written that way #it wouldn't bother me if it wasn't so painfully clear the female queer character we got isn't enough.#like idc if people have different opinions from me. if you're a byl3r endgame truther it doesn't affect me you do you #but byl3r and st3ddie being so fucking MASSIVE just shows you how male characters are priorized over female characters. like i get people #liking those ships and characters. i'm just shocked to see the NUMBERS.#and knowing Robin isn't as appreciated as them just because she's a girl #like sometimes i feel almost guilty to fixate on her when she's not like one of the main MAIN characters and she barely has an arc and gets #little attention from the story. but then i remember the eddie/st3ddie fandom exists #idk i just wish i could find robin content in robin tags but it seems like tags such as ''robin buckley internalized homophobia'' (my guilty #pleasure when it comes to angst) is dominated by straight boys steve and eddie. which is ironic

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freckledsweetpea · 8 months

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I'm a bisexual cis woman that doesn't really dream of dating heterosexual cis men, but like... I'm not going to beat myself up over being attracted to men. We exist ✨

#like idk what the deal with bisexual people caving to biphobia from all directions comes from #cowards all of you #I'm also not like 'im basically a lesbian'#no I'm bisexual #and I'm allowed to pick who I date #and rn I just don't see myself dating a straight man #🤷‍♀️#too queer for that #and it's really hard to find a true queer ally who is a straight cis man #🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️#and like I'm not really a prize #so I don't expect cis straight men to work harder for that

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dogearedheart · 5 months

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you have no idea how bad I wanted that jo and dean friendship, man...

#like...later seasons dean and jo coming to terms with who they are #maybe figuring out that they are both queer and that's why they connected the way they did?#idk man....maybe I'm just craving friendships at the moment #but it's the same with charlie #like....they were besties and then they killed her #ugh....#spn stuff

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xandirnich · 7 months

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Sooo, gender is weird, right?

I've identified as male my entire life up to this point. A few years ago, I fully accepted that I was bi. I'm 31, and very few people know this about me. But now I've been questioning my own gender recently. The thought of calling myself male just doesn't fully sit right with me lately, just the phrase "I'm just me." I don't find any offense with it if other people call me it, but maybe that's just because I'm so used to it by now, 31 years being a long time and all. I haven't told anyone I know about this yet, not even my other enby friends or even my wife who i know would 100% support me. Change is scary tbh. I tried not to think about it too much, but it's really been gnawing at me. I know this won't reach too many people, but if anyone has any advice on this, I'd gladly hear it.

-Signed, your possibly closeted neighborhood enby

#enby #lgbtq #questioning #idk man #send help #i'm just me #queer #genderqueer

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