#idk im just exhausted man

[teenagefeeling]

it's been kind of tough to strike a balance between being interested in both feminism and girly girl pop culture shit this year. the pinkwashing and commercial feminism are just reaching such a fever pitch that we're swinging back around into a new, more exhausting form of misogyny where women's appearances, attitudes, and actions are turned into political statements and strict gender roles become standards by which to measure someone's dedication to femininity. it's almost becoming like more feminine = more feminist

[glitchedcosmos]

I’m ace, aro and tired

Reblog if you are also LGBT+ and tired

[inkskinned]

he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

[deoidesign]

Btw just want to be clear that Time and Time Again is set to, and will if I don't pause, conclude in May 2025!

Webtoon didn't want to renew or give me any extra episodes so I'm trying to work with what I have. I'm sorry it's ending sooner than I'd like, it's been difficult to come to terms with and challenging to condense my plans.

You deserve a solid conclusion, and I've spent months writing to try and reach that. If there's anything you'd really like to see before it ends, do let me know in case I can (and want to) fit it in.

I'd rather not work with them again, and I hope I won't have to! But coming off of years being overworked and underpaid does not make that easy, to say the least...

I'm doing my best, and I hope you like what I have coming up.

[worstloki]

brodinsons AU where they are both acting the entire time the plot occurs. They both know both sides of what is happening at all times.

[meansevika]

i said it over on twitter but i‘ll say it here too! it‘s crazy to me that not even smth as little as a bit of banter about meljay can stay exclusively about meljay w/o being co-opted by jayvik or meljayvik at some point? like imagine i‘d go to a jayvik screencap tweet and comment "aww that‘s how he looks at mel"… that would get me ripped to shreds.. like the times i had comments or tags on a meljay post trying to swap her out??? wdym you‘re (figuratively speaking) swapping mel out on the mel post?? at this point if they actually do the pregnancy plot i‘m just gonna call it now and say general fanon will be vik raising mels child while she runs off to be evil woman™

[ispyspookymansion]

some of you guys post on here like.

LOOK at the campaign promises youre being STUPID if you cant understand the clear great option in this usamerican election year:

view of: TRUMP BIDEN

finding atlantis ❌ ✅

UBI** ❌ ✅

genocide ✅ ✅

“trans rights” ❌ ✅

cars 5 movie ❌ ✅

ending gravity ❌ ✅

just LOOK at the list its all right there the obvious right answer because politicians never lie and we have NO term to look back on to showcase whether or not thats true so just VOTE BLUE!!!!

[pixlokita]

Nobody:

My dumbass: crying because my friend just said the dragon from Minecraft is a mom and you gotta kill her

[sh1-n0bu]

my fav genre of men, the type who lose their breaths and stand there in their spot like an idiot for a good minute or two because their woman/the one they’re pining for looks absolutely drop dead GORGEOUS in their armory

[thebeegalaxy]

hi, if you don't know me, Im Bee, I've got plenty of disorders, but I'm just going to be talking about DID and NPD in this post.

DID and NPD fucking HATE each other, I'm screaming man (hyperbole)

its so... ANGER inducing when i have a vivid memory of one thing and someone tells me that it actually happened completely differently; that my perspective/memory is wrong

NPD immediately gets flared, because how dare you assume that i, ME, the one and only, doesn't know my fucking shit

the issue is,, as a system, THERE IS NO GUARANTEE THAT I DO KNOW MY SHIT

memories get mixed around and so blurry that its often pointless to figure out what actually happened but of course NPD doesn't care, it just wants to be seen as superior, i have to be on top somehow

its just ,,,,,,,

AAAUUUGGGGHHHHHHHHH

yknow?

~ Unsure ~

[thebirdandhersong]

Lol

[milkweedman]

Made another spindle. It's very small. Also very irregular and lumpy due to the wood (I wanted the raised brown lines to stay and erred on the side of caution in how much I cut away...but that did lead to a very irregular spindle).

It also wanted to crumble as I carved, so pretty much all the fine tuning I just did by sanding it, which helps to compress the fibers down as well as remove material without crumbling or splintering.

It really came to life when I oiled it. Probably will be best after a few good coats and some time. My woodburning kit seems to be totally gone, which is a bummer. So I'm not woodburning anymore.

Spins well. Obviously being so tiny and light it was always going to be a fine spinning spindle, but effortless thread from an unprepped piece of fleece is pretty indicative as well. I seem to find myself carving mostly thread spindles at the moment. They're always so small and light in the hand, they remind me of holding baby birds.

[bitchfitch]

this is a stupid pet peeve but idk. 'Cooking is an art baking is a science ' is bullshit. you can follow a baking recipe step by step mirroring the original cook Exactly and still get a crap end result.

this is because your kitchen is not their kitchen. unless you live very close to them, their ingredients might be Radically different from yours even if they're technically the same thing. and worse of all. even if you're roommates. if they made their thing first the conditions will be different when you make yours.

like. baking is just ratios. ratio of starch to water to binder to leavener to etc etc.

But you have to include things like. ambient humidity and temperature and where the crop your flour is from was grown and what strain of yeast your using and when your starch was harvested and what the cows and chickens who provided the eggs and dairy were fed and what microbes exist in your environment and how thety hurt or aid flavor and rise time. like. You have to know how to account for the messy nature of reality and there is no formula for that. just repetition until you figure out the flow.

[blamemma]

idk personally i dont think its incompetent or bad of a team to realise these problems BEFORE the race. they're trying hard to fix them as quickly as possible. y'all would have had a much bigger issue if this had happened DURING the race. i have faith. i trust them.

[slumbergoblin]

[coloncurlybracket]

The Athena themes coming through in Odysseus were GORGEOUS like hello