#idk about your mum
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HHHELP MEEE OMFG?!?!
Me and my friend got that widgitable pet child thing to take care of, and we're both super forgetful ig because he always ends up a right state and I woke up one morning (after sleeping for 24hrs straight*) and
HE RAN AWAY???!!
I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THEY COULD FO THAT SILLY IM SORRY COMR HOME
*this could possibly be a very core reason as to the fact our child ran away, considering I neglected him for a full 24 hours while I was snoozing, and the other parent is so busy with BG3 to check their phone regularly enough I guess
#SILLY WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU#PLEASE COMR BACK TO US WERE SORRY#well i am#idk about your mum#widgitable#widget pet#my son has left the house in search of the love i cannot provide#i have failed as a guardian and i will never recover#ill give you cake if you come home please#silly come home
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staff still hasn't given me polls, what should i do?
🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪 their moms 69%
🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪 their dads 31%
grace image os i get to look at her
#edit: edited the og post to what i want but to set the record straight i edited to the post to be mathematically correct right after the#first person pointed it out which was like ten mins after i posted the og post. now fuck offf !!!!! the rest of the tags r from the og post#for some reason i feel very immature making your mom jokes about tumblr staff. which i shldnt !!#bc they suck nd they still havent given me polls. but i ig i feel imature bc it a your mom joke 😭 but still i tihnk its kinda funny#EDIT: edited the post to what i want bc yall were getting annoying . but to set the record straight i edited to post to be mathematically#also its *mum* not mom okay i am NOT !! an american . but if i say mum everyone will j be like 'omg british' like i dont know i am#anyway. i want polls please. give me the rigght to force my mutuals chose between the most inane things#also i tihnk it wld b cool for the cs weekly blog. like w each episode#i cld do a poll of like. out of five stars what do u think of this ep#and it wld b a cool thing of which eps r ppls faves#also i cld have like. whose ur fave in team red whos ur fave in acme etc#id prob just have to go with vile faculty bc theres more than 10 ppl in vile. and ppl wld kill me if i didnt include nel the ell or whoever#it wld b fun !!!#oh btw csweekly thats i thing i want to start. prob on uhhh the 11th of feb ill post abt it more but its basically#a tag/blog for watching cs one ep a time watching one ep every saturday#ya !! :3#flappy rambles#inaccessible#ask to tag#(<- idk. just in case)
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parents will see their own kids and be like "is anyone gonna be overly judgemental about that?" and not wait for an answer
#guh! in general i get on really well with my parents but whenever i go home i feel like im back go being seen as a Kid#like my mum sometimes gets weirdly judgy about me having like.... a snack#& idk they care a lot about how i accomodate my misophonia (in a bad way) in a way that nobody else i know is!!!#just because im youre “daughter” doesnt give you a free pass to be judgemental!!!!#kas yapping
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Look, I don't believe in preferential treatment, it's not right.... BUT ☝️ if we're gonna have changbin saying sydney is skz's second hometown I just think maybe australia could not be charged things like 60+ dollars shipping.... or 75 dollars for a normal album at the most prominent music retailer when other places pay 15-20 for the same thing.... lol
#like sometimes i think ppl think im being dramatic but over the years ive had ppl randomly look up how much we get charged for randon stuff#and every time theyre like WHYS IT 50 BUCKS MORE FOR YOU EVEN WITH EXCHANGE RATES FACTORED#and im like... idk ?#ausflation#like there are these little anime figurines my little cousin really liked and in jp yen which is equivalent to aud roundabout#theyre from about 36 to 42 dollars and in aus theyre all like 86+ dollars ? why. maybe 10 dollars more okay but why twice over ?#why#someone play why by skz#Why#like you can go online and find better deals but its sorta a hassle#and a regular old mum who has a 15 yr old who asks for a skz album for Christmas will probably just go in store and then be like why tf#lmao#we're being finagled#but also this just reminded me of last xmas when i saw a mum in the kpop section and she was so pissed off bc '#and i quote 'none of these albums have NAMES ON THEM' and then i looked and she was right#like there were numerous groups but very few had boxes that actuslly said NCT WISH or what#it was just like random graphic art or a couple were actually just plain boxes with a symbol#like if youre a kpop head you know the symbols but if you are aunty jen and you dont know this shit? fucked time really funny
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as ludicrous as it would be I'd love it if dnp announced they're having a kid just to see people bend over backwards to defend the concept of platonic friends n unconventional child sharing parenthood methods or whatever instead of just respecting that when someone says they wish to keep their relationship private it probably just means they're not hard launching via gay sex on instagram stories and that you're not forbidden to assume they're together until they officially introduce eachother as my romantic life partner with whom I regularly practice homosexual intercourse
#this is totally unserious#like i get ittt i get that after decades of hardcore shipping people decide to go the opposite way and assume they are actually just friends#but sometimes it feels just a tad disrespectful to go well they dont call eachother boyfriends online so it must mean they have a special-#weird strangely romantic friendship that's so special we would never get it#because they don't kiss in their YouTube videos. after repeatedly talking about wanting to keep their life private#idk maybe it just reminds me of when your mum talks about your uncle and his male best friend who's lived with him for 35 years#and that's why it feels kinda iffy yk#dnp#dan and phil#dip and pip
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I am going to CRY. of JOY/hj
#it feels like recently just generally#i've been treated a lot kinder than usual#even before today#my friend hugged me and let me talk about my interests and drew a character of mine#my mum got me a brownie (sorry sis if you see this--)#i chatted with a really nice moot at like midnight#and now when i'm not feeling great i get a RUSH of positivity from ye#idk if its just because my post coincidentally hit all ur dashboards or something but#i love you all. so so much.#it's not something i tell people irl enough. i should try to more. even if its over text or once a week.#i may be affectionate with ye online but irl not so much lol#i guess it just. makes me nervous of what others think. being affectionate to your friends with hugs and i love yous.#sorry for the rant hsshdbcejcjjed#talking
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mothers. oof.
#she just told my sister that she doesn't wanna ask my dad for anything so they're gonna have to make sacrifices#and it's like. well no my dad is legally obligated to provide for his kids and if he wont do it unfortunately youre gonna have to remind him#it's not like my dad is violent or dangerous in any way they just don't get along as exes tend to do#but i think it's my mum's job to put aside her own feelings of discomfort around my dad#to tell him that my sister needs x y and z#my dad pays for things when he's asked he just won't inquire about finances of his own accord#he needs to be asked#and idk i think saying that my sister needs to sacrifice their needs because my mum doesn't wanna communicate with my dad#is selfish#and yeah sure my dad sucks like he literally doesn't try at all#it would be nice if he just did his job as a parent#but he doesn't. and as the parent who's more present in my sister's life i think my mum should be the one to contact him#idk#i know it's tough and far from ideal#ideally my dad wouldn't need to be asked anything he'd just provide#but he's kind of a piece of shit#so yeah#i don't think my sister should be the one to bear the consequences of my parents' lack of communication#rain.stuff
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It is interesting with Antoinette. I could see it being that Lestat genuinely had affection for her, even if he would certainly have killed her had Louis personally asked him to -- or it could be that she was just familiar, and he wanted the closest thing to intimacy he could get, so someone who knew him was better than someone who didn't. And the whole possibility that she reminded him of Gabrielle in some ways...
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Yeah, I totally agree, anon.
I actually unfortunately suspect that Antoinette isn't a character the show will really come back to, and I think I'm one of three people that cares about that, haha, but where I tend to land on her relationship with Lestat is the fact that neither Lestat nor Louis actually have any friends.
That's not to say that I think Lestat and Antoinette were just friends, I don't, they obviously fucked a lot (which like, also comes down to the fact that Lestat doesn't know how to have friends he doesn't fuck, haha), but I do think the reality is that Lestat and Louis have very different racial and cultural contexts, hobbies and areas of interest which aren't things they can easily share with each other, especially not in early-1900s America, and I think that's a bigger factor in their relationship breakdown than either will admit to.
It's why Louis' able to reconnect with Jonah so quickly - they might be leading different lives, but they have more overlapping factors than they don't, whereas he and Lestat have less than they do - and for Lestat as a white theatre kid, he needs to be around other performers. I think with Antoinette, she's obviously a talented vocalist and an ambitious artist, and I can see that genuinely just being company that Lestat wants to be close with. They probably talk shit about crap theatre they've seen and do vocal runs together and fuck, and honestly for a part of Lestat, that would lowkey be a dream relationship, haha. Do I think they have a deep emotional connection? No, but given even Louis' willing to admit she's talented, and his own complex relationship with not succeeding as an artist, I wonder how much that factors in to his portrayal of her and his insecurities around their relationship (to say nothing of the fact that she's both white and a woman).
This feels like it's going on a hundred tangents, haha, but my point is maybe they'd step out on each other less or descend into unforessen levels of chaos and destruction if they both had a few friends they could talk about their identities and niche interests with!!
#this is not actually related to your ask but i've been thinking a bit about different family make ups lately#and while i was hungover this morning after yoga and getting breakfast with my mum#i told her about how one of our production coordinators at work - let's call her A - had a baby last year with her wife#and they had a very good friend who's gay who became their sperm donor#and he's like#LOVING being fun uncle and A and i were talking about it the other day at work because she was genuinely shocked because he's#been very open about how much he does not want kids of his own and it caused a lot of hesitancy with her and her wife taking him up on offe#but how much he's stepped up#she said he's been amazing#and he's been so helpful and supportive and done so much running around for them when they've been knocked sideways with having a newborn#and he loves being with his little niece who's actually his biological daughter and getting to give her back#and A was like we were close before but now he's my daughter's uncle and now he truly feels like my brother#and A and her partner and him are already talking about having another baby in the next year or so#idk why your ask made me remember this#maybe i was just thinking about it still after talking to mum about it over breakfast#but idk maybe it comes back to this whole idea that queer family units are inherently unconventional in our current structure#and applying conventional tropes to them doesn't work#which again has nothing to do with your ask haha just something i'm thinking about#lestat asks#iwtv asks
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I don’t think I shared this yet but I want to! I came out to my dad a few weeks ago as trans! I told him that I wanna go by Xavier now, and (cause it’s pretty hard for the name thing, but pronouns are easier) he’s calling me X (we agreed on that nickname together). My sister has joined in on the X train.
We are seeing how long it takes until my mom catches on that I’m trans.
#didn’t come out to her cause it’s gonna be harder#idk what it is about the parent who’s the opposite of your agab being more accepting/understanding#personal#my dad#my mum#my parents#my sister#my family#trans#transgender#transmasc#trans guy
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My mother refuses to watch any of the videos coming out of Palestine, and she refuses to read the details of the horrors happening there.
I tell her she has to - people are being slaughtered, we cannot look away even for a moment. She says she can't handle it. She says she'll break down, and then she'll be of no use to anybody.
Today she managed to raise £700 for Medical Aid Palestine, while I was too busy crying.
Maybe my mum still knows best.
#i do still think it's important to watch the videos though#palestinians are begging us to listen and pay attention and i think ignoring it for your own comfort is shitty and cowardly#but. something to think about i guess#how to maximize your help. sometimes that is stepping back#my mums quite excessive with it though like normally she refuses to engage with the news at all#the only reason she has any idea whats happening is because i tell her every day#idk i'm very proud of my mum though ig and the point is everyone can help in different ways#gaza#palestine#israel#free palestine#ceasefire now#mental health#world news#politics#god i feel like i am going crazy
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also like i partially found out i might be intersex because i was looking at trans stuff and there was like "(however many) months on t and finally seeing some bottom growth" and like pictures of t-dicks and i was like.... um.... that's kind of just what my clit looks like anyways. so i was like "hey google give me a quick rundown on this" and learned what clitoromegaly was and then i was like. hm. intersex resources. and it's like a sign? symptom? side-effect? of certain intersex conditions
#i mean like pcos runs in the mums side of my family but i dont have all the symptoms of that#i do also have like. more hair?? than the average afab person#like dark hair on my stomach and chest and back#and my face. whats disappointing about the face hair is that it isnt enough to be able to grow a beard#so i cant even fuck with gender that way#tagging as nsft just because of like genital mention#genital mention#nsft#shoutout to transmascs on t who show their t-dicks on the internet it was really helpful#also i dont know how to describe it but like. my natural face shape is kind of masculine??#like it would be plausible for a cis amab perisex man to have my face without looking feminine#if you get what im saying??#if it sounds like im reinforcing sex or gender essentialism please say i am struggling to find words#unshoutout to the boys in primary school who made fun of me for having hair under my arms and starting a whole decade of insecurity-#-about having hair on my body lmao#for the record i dont think certain face shapes are indicative of gender and all im just going by like. patterns?? in afab vs. amab faces#also not that i think afab vs. amab is the entire categorisation of human sex characteristics but um. working with what vocab i have here#i think what also really kicked it off. was relating to a fair few experiences intersex people have socially#particularly intersex ppl who were afab and faced a lot of pressure to make their bodies conform to feminine beauty standards#and it was like.... oh lol.... my mum did that to me!!#it comes from her own internalised shit bc she has pcos (idk if she identifies as intersex even tho she could if she wanted) but still.#dont project that onto a 10 yr old lmao. she keeps buying me hair removal products#ALSO floored by an experience i have. in which apparently half my friends dont feel pressure to shave their legs#because the hair on their legs is like. light and thin and barely visible and i was like?? huh??#what do you MEAN your legs don't look like your brothers/fathers if you dont shave??#im starting to think they dont shave their arms. their arms might just naturally not have a load of hair#i dont shave my arms though. cannot be bothered with that and also like. why would i do that#also you know that like. happy trail i think its called?? on “men's” stomachs??#yeah i have that naturally yeah thats right im naturally sexy#if you cant tell i am putting “girls” “mens” “boys” “womens” etc. in quotes to indicate that is just the normal society way of saying it
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for the past few days i've had the same few lines of Strange Frontier by roger taylor stuck in my head, which is mostly fine except for those lines being, y'know, the ones about an ever present threat of nuclear annihilation, and the fact that i often switch between humming the melody and singing the words quite at random. so i'll just be sitting here, absently humming to myself, and then "but there's nowhere you can run" *back to humming again*
#this exact thing has happened multiple times#for anyone who doesn't know the song the lines in question are#take your children while you can / but there's nowhere you can run / no more tears and no more fun#/ someday soon they'll drop the big one / no more dad and no more mum#so y'know. real cheerful#that's what's been on repeat in my brain for about three days now#haven't even heard the song recently so idk where it's come from
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I think i’m adding the word “doxxing” to the list of words drmstans aren’t allowed to use until the learn the actual meaning of them.
As far as I’m aware nobody has actually been doxxed after Tommy’s video.. like I’m sure there was a lot of in fighting and a couple people might move gotten a harassed and like, yeah, that’s shit! no one deserves that kind of treatment, but like.. just cos some people shared a screenshot of your public post on your public profile and had a laugh about it doesn’t mean you got doxxed.
#Tommyinnit#seriously stop saturating the meaning of these words cos your feelings are hurt#also if you’re gonna complain about being harassed#maybe don’t also harass Tommy’s mum and ask her to beat her son#idk just a thought…#seems like the least y’all could do
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My Favourite Episode Of:
Engine Sentai Go-Onger Grand Prix 25 ~ Goodbye Mother
#engine sentai go onger#go onger#go-onger#sentai#super sentai#this episode grabbed me by my shoulders looked me deep in the eyes and said:#'what if we hit so close to home that you'll swear this ep was written specifcally to hurt your feelings???'#idk fam of all the dead mum stories sentai has done this one feels a little too real - a little too much like looking in a mirror#this ep made me realise two things#one: Renn's my favourite because of just how much he reminds me of my partner#two: i'm much more like gunpei than i'd like to admit#i could talk for HOURS about the themes of grief and loss and mourning in go onger#but i wont <3#also side note but i'll never get over how happy they are to see renn after he was missing all night (im sobbing)#gif post tag#best of the best
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Little rant about my friend and consuming media lmao
Ok how do you consume media and still have NO IDEA who even the main character's name is? I recommended tma and bsd to a friend - well he started both. I ask him about it - like who his favourite character is or what he thinks of it - and he's so.... Confused almost? Like he just shrugged and said that he actually had no idea what was going on - which ok is kinda fair with bsd but like. you know the characters at least. Each one of them is introduced in some dramatic way, you can't MISS any of that and surely there's at least one character that gets your attention/that you relate to/that you find interesting. I mean ok maybe you forget the name or sth, but you at least remember the characters when I describe them to you, right? But no, my friend had no idea who for example Dazai was - DAZAI?! Like. What???? Or Atsushi.. the fucking main character???? Or chuuya???? Or - anyone??? I was so perplexed. How can you watch something and still have no idea about what you're watching?
The same happened with tma. I recommended it, he listened to the first few episodes. I asked him what he thought of Jon. HE DIDN'T KNOW WHO JON WAS I MEAN WHAT???? Oh idk he's just the guy reading the fucking statements. Before every statement he says "audio recording by Jonathan Sims" like how can you... miss that?
Idk, am I just consuming media so intensely or is he just... I don't even know.... Disinterested in engaging with the media one is consuming? It's not even that he doesn't like it. I asked him and he said it was good. But what exactly does he find good when he has no idea about. like. anything.
#vent post#personal#ranted to my mum about it as well and she said it might be bc he's stoned out of his ass the whole time#hhhhh#but i think more and more people don't have media literacy anymore#like they don't consume media critically they just watch whatever gets their attention first#it feels so dystopian....#like wasting your time on those types of media just so that you're passing the time and not engaging with it#idk if that makes sense#i think I'm kinda hurt as well bc i thought we could talk about these series together#i even watched some of the things he enjoyed but he doesn't have a clue about them either#he always says that i become the “expert” on those mediums anyways so he doesn't have sth to add to the conversation#but that's not at all what i want? like I'm not the expert of anything i just want to talk about what he enjoys#and maybe get him to talk about things i enjoy as well#this all feels so bitchy I'm so sorry#ok rant over ig#thank you for reading all of that🙏💕
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#little noa in the front of her dad and uncle's service#reminds me of riley doing forward rolls in the front of Sara's#there's my mum! she called out every shot of sara in the montage#so every shot#sudden senseless#anger has morphed into the type of dead stump that takes the bull bar off your neighbours' pajero trying to take out#idk about gods grace#cos where is that in senseless death#tw: death#tw: grief#yes its 2am and im watching a funeral and henry (cay not popstar) is chasing a moth around the room
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