#idgaf about you or your parents
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just saw someone’s post on reddit in which they said that their girlfriend had said during a fight that she was not attracted to her anymore because she has gained weight saying quote-unquote that she let herself go and i honestly want to kill this girl and her entire family
#and i want to kill this other girl who said that it’s physical attraction blahblahblah she’s young so that matters and tried to justify her#argument w her parents being overweight i’m sorry did I ASK#idgaf about you or your parents#just don’t make someone feel bad about their body and feel like they have to lose weight and control their eating because of you#is that that big of a concept#idk man i have an eating disorder since i was fucking 11 i wouldn’t wish ANY of this on anyone#i’d hate myself if i knew i was the reason someone doesn’t like what they see in the mirror or why someone#is no longer comfortable with eating#i just can’t cope with how comfortable people are in commenting and making judgments on peoples bodies and on how they eat#fuck that seriously fuck that#nothing makes me angrier than people like that#your girlfriend will get someone who'll fuck her good and make her feel loved like you never managed to do#and you'll be forgotten in no time lame ass dumb bitch
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Guys I thought we hated the shroud parents- I thought this was a whole thing one time when we talked about how they’re probably not the best parents- guys am I going insane I swear there was a point in time when we hated them- guys-
#also I’ve been thinking about this but#shroud mom looking through Idias personal belongings (files) is BAD right#can we all agree on this?#I’m not on jp so I don’t know all of the context but#from what I have seen she went through his computer files???#and that is.. concerning to me?? going through your child’s stuff is bad right guys? can we agree on this?#I don’t care what the reason is it’s still a really gross thing to do right ?????#are we acknowledging this?#because all I see is people finding it funny and doing comics and stuff#which is FINE. as long as we acknowledge this is not. something that a parent should do#I think it gets very uncomfortable for me the longer that joke goes on but WHATVEER#its FINE I guess#I’m just being dramatic but idgaf#idk it just seems that everyone* loves them now?#*I know not evryone does but a lot of people do#and why? is it their designs? the way they act?#but whatever#💛!me talking💀#this was kinda Ranty sorry if you made it this far
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welp . due to "unforeseen" circumstances, imma have to leave my toxic ass household :D
#like lolllll who is surprised#i just didn't think i'd potentially have lesser of a relationship w my sibling bc of it#but it is what it is#idk what it is about male-centered women standing behind their man when they're manipulative violent assholes#but again - how can i really blame a victim like i get it ig ur in a hostage situation yourself babe#anyways. idk where my dad got this bat from but i got it in my room just in case someone wants to put their hands on me again#mind you - my situation is literally so easily solvable but bc these ppl are stubborn ...#like. the entitlement is crazy idk#like u want me to be down in the basement with YOUR kids that u neglect and don't even watch#and get mad when i set ground rules for them to follow? which is cleaning up after themselves???? oh brother#like you would think you'd wanna be down here to monitor ur kids but nooooo#they literally want the room upstairs and it was *decided* before we moved in (i didnt even have a chance jdksks)#and they want it bc they want to be far away from their own kids as possible.... like yalls actions are shitty.#imagine if i did ts to them where I have kids - I have them near you - and I DO NOTHING to parent them . thats a frustrating situation for#anybody i feel like ??#and before we moved - i DID have the upstairs like woopty doo ig nicer ofc and they were STEADYYYY trying to get me out of that room#(mind you - i have lived there since i was 12/13 and they came wayyy after)#like ... r u kidding me lolololol u want authority so bad over a basement ur not even in anymore#like mind u im not trying to overstep and be their parent ? ik im not . im just their auntie#its just so wilddddd to me they dont see how silly this is?#like maybe im wrong ? but having ur kids stay downstairs when ur upstairs was already off to me. like bffr u want them kids out your face#and u tryna pass them off to me and it's not subtle. but then get mad when i say smth abt behavior OH BROTHERRRRR#but anyways. the straw that broke the camels back was the fact this ngga spit on me. AND then put his hands on me. like omg???#i wanna break his shit so bad w this bat but chile....that is not productive and that is not me#but the rage i have omgggg. i wanna cus its like?? fuck you. ur literally an ABUSERRR idgaf about ur feelings btch.#chatter
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I love watching movies that try to be The Big Short and fail
#just watched Dumb Money#Paul Dano as always I am in love with you#the movie wasn't actually that bad#in terms of movies a pretty mediocre one#but in terms of chosen subject and how to explain the subject to non-finance bros it was pretty good#also paul dano pete davidson and sebastian stan? sign me up baby#pete davidson is hilarious to me sue me Idgaf#sebastian stan is never beating the mid filmography allegations😍😍😍#also there was Nick Offerman. Man I love Nick Offerman.#so yeah go see Dumb Money if you want to make a least a little bit of sense#of what that whole deal with Reddit and GameStop and Wall Street was about#dumb money#dumb money (2023)#warning though cause there are Meghan Thee Stallion songs (wap included) in the movie#and they slap because of course they do but if you watch this movie with your parents and they understand english#it can be preeeeetty embarassing
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fnarf fanbase is so fucking annoying anymore if i shared my au and got a single "oh this is just willcare..." comment id kill myself in front of them to change the course of their lives forever
#i dont care about the books and i never willlllllll. ill kill you ill kill you#'oh but he canonically doesnt gaf about his kids youre just beinf stupid' IDGAF. I STILL HATE HIM BUT ITS MORE COMPELLING IF HE CARED#ABOUT HIS DAMN KIDS AT LEAST IN HIS OWN WAY. ILL KILL YOU#🪦.txt#also like parents who are abusive to their kids do usually have Some level of care for their children. it doesnt mean what they're doing is#right! but it doesnt mean that they completely hate their children#its entirely possible that william could have been mildly abusive pre-bite or whatever and then after it happened#he blames mike so much for it that he becomes much more abusive both to mike and elizabeth. thats not. breaking canon .#or maybe kt is according to the books. the thing about the books is that idgaf and im not going to read them ever.so.
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Using a female characters quotes and characteristics to attribute them to a male character instead is sooo crazy like I knew batfans loved to do this but being this overt about it is mad 😭
#cassandra cain i will avenge you!!#i wont put any serious tags on it but this is so pervasive in fandom spaces that i really do feel that at this point it SHOULD be called out#i dont like to police others in these spaces but when it contributes to this problem of tokenization idgaf about your comfort#describe a female character in comics with a term other than 'girlboss' 'girlfailure' 'queen' QUICKLY i want specifics!!#silencing everyone with my mind if they havent read comics but want to speak on this#fanfiction doesnt equal knowing the character you guys SUCK like#fanon is an evil curse and this is all the fault of those harry potter parent bitches damn you!!!
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got sent that video about how to ask smth from a person with adhd and it was just top 5 ways to make them feel guilty & anxious... well guess what buddy: we get used to it! if you dare say 'yea id ask you to do this thing but i know you wont do it' you will receive a loud & clear 'alrighty!!! go do it yourself then ^_^'
#i got used to this shit at the ripe age of EIGHT ive been a much respected general in the idgaf war ever since#oooh youre disappointed bc i forgot the butter.... who cares lol find a real problem to worry about!!! stupid#bc its always about the simplest things too#i can understand if its serious but even then? just remind me. just say hey can you do this now so you wont forget it or get distracted#not uhhhh emotional manipulation. what are you? a parent? thats giving mother
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Bruh, I kept seeing that post about mama bear from the Berenstain Bears being 27 years so I went and checked to see if it was actually true…Well, it is but I also learned that papa bear is canonically 39 years old, which wouldn't be that disturbing except for the fact that their eldest son is 10-11 years old (!!!) and now I'm genuinely grossed out
#put this fucking creep in bear jail idgaf#seriously tho...why?#apparently the bear parents were based on the original writers who were the exact same age#actually the wife was like 3 months older than her husband#so why does the father bear has to canonically be a child predator like what the fuck????#everything about this serie has such a fundamentalist christian vibe which is kinda funny because it's not#gonna be fair to the franchise and mention that i don't remember ever mentionning the parents age at all#so i feel like it's more a case of them chosing random ages that looks like they makes sense without thinking of the implications#more than of them actively trying to pass a fucked up and harmful message#but still that's high key gross to me like who chose those ages??#we need to have a talk about why you decided that the mother of your idealized nuclear family got pregnant at 17 from a 29 yo man...
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customer not wearing a mask: *gestures to my mask* do they make you wear it or are you just doing it?
me: oh no one makes me. im just wearing it
him: oh ok. not to shame you or anything. i get it, people are gross, haha
me: haha.
#if you ever make a comment about my mask as someone who does not wear it. idgaf what your intentions are#just merely commenting about the fact im wearing it certainly makes me feel like youre shaming me#especially bc who is ‘THEY’ ??#the government?? there hasnt been a mask mandate since 2021#(wait no sorry i think it ended 2022)#my manager at work??? shes not wearing one im literally the only person in this store employee or customer wearing one#my .. i dont know … my fucking parents? im 21 i make my own decisions#like who tf is ‘THEY’ ????#brot posts#the solidarity i have w the handful of people still wearing masks is unmatched#i had a customer who was wearing a mask compliment me on mine and it was like hehe yeah i like yours too ^w^ !!#so im fine with people commenting about it#its just wildly different connotations depending on what you say and if youre also wearing one#someone who doesnt wear one asking me why i wear one will always come across as antagonistic#and it will literally always put me on the defensive#especially fi it comes from a customer and im forced to be polite in mt answer#like yea customers are fucking gross AND i love the privacy of not letting customers see my face#but i cant say that. to a customer. and like what do you want me to agree with you? you put me in an awkward position#where i can either defend myself and possibly offend you or have to lie to be polite#so i always have to go the non answer route and just laugh it off and not actually say anything in response#its just so uncomfortable like why are you putting me in this position#just let me fucking wear my mask why do i always have to be on the defensive about it
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am i the only one who doesnt know shit about caste and caste systems and what it all means
#like#how does everyone know this#did i miss something#did your parents sit you down and tell you this#HOW DO YALL KNOW THIS SHIT#i dont know anything i just get to know stuff from conversations or like internet ofc but its all very upar upar se#idgaf about caste man why does everybody care so much#like in the past 1-1½ year is when ive been really getting 'exposed' to talks of it irl ykwim#people be talking as if its common knowledge#gargi is keysmashing
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winning the way i was listening to a song like alas that these very lowest bits in this tenor performance are probably juuust below my range. than i hummed sang along like oh nvm i mean totally already in my range, i got it. tessituraed right tf up
#what a coincidence it's often like now wouldn't it be fun to simply be able to sing This lively characterful song#& it's performed by some guy with a higher ended tenor range as well like oh haha perfect#really the difference in being like rats; say; things to ruin recording ewm son of a gun goes a bit too low at its lowest usually?#(idk if there's an Extra bit lower than expected note or two i Can manage but usually forget how. i don't much know abt singing save whatev#i've got from uninstructed / no secret technique experience; though like w/acting wouldn't it be fun to know a bit more abt it)#(or anything in the Performer's Repertoire. the one area i Do have instructed technique'd experience? some ballet like well. zzz though#like yeah it'd be fun to knock out a pirouette in the kitchen but like only just. a bit primed for other dance but like eh. at most the fun#i have w/dance is that Live Stage Performance / Theatre Adjacency & at times minor overlap. just like with: so you're a queer teen & your#parent is big Go To Church Every Week so yeah tenor harmonizing in the choir loft? don't mind if i do. Do mind it's like oh tenors dial it#back; the two dozen sopranos can't keep up w/the three point five of you. well tell them to get good up there huh)#anyway but the thing is then oh will roland live son of a gun performance? yeah i do Not then struggle w/that slightly higher range'd one#as in don't even have to maybe remember how to unlock a half or full step lower bit of range anyways so that's fun. yahoooo#when you see meeeaaaheee....#truly my villain origin story is telling my Singing / Acting / Bway Enthusiast College Roommate i'm a tenor#and them going ohh you can't be a tenor tenor is boys :) like i'm gonna go sicko mode. are we talking about vocal range or not.#idgaf abt what's Well; Traditionally; yeah no shit the gender binary & its Assigned Correct Traits are ''traditional'' i'll kill you#anyway not that coincidental i mean that when like The Funny Little Guy is the dearest category it also happens to oft be Higher Tenors#well that works out alright enough for me. & my kitchen karaoke singalongs; or my ''oh wait i Can sing this just fine'' hum-alongs#which is to say Yaaayyyyyy Yahooooo Wheeeee
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anyway im having fun with colors now that ive sworn off the Nefarious Orange Undertones. i always hated anything that i can see orange in tbh But i have not grown up on not only pretentious storytelling but also 2000s school moviesand i have chronic outdated person syndrome so i am not immune to propaganda. for clothes
#i feel like i should write something about this topic because sure im vain but its not just about vanity after a certain point#im vain when im doing cocomelon shit with eyeliner but im not vain when i try to look like my skin is clearer than it actually is#or when i try to unfrizz my hair because i idgaf about either of those things in a vacuum#when we had lockdown and nobody perceived me oh brother#i damaged my hair on Purpose cause i thoufht it looked fun and whimsical#but when im out and about more its not fun anymore cause i get like. people working in stores following me around if i look too messy LMFAO#but if i do certain things its completely different.#it kind of messes with my head idk if my interest in the topic is all that healthy but like#its kind of really interesting. the way small details make people see you in a completely different way#ive had people both ask what subject i teach in my uni/if im married and say i was familiar and ask like where my parents are#or Really hesitate to serve me alcohol#and dont even get me started on gender business i could write essays on it#presenting feminine is a scary high stakes gamble#though iit remains true that people often think im a lot older than i am which im kinda obsessed with#hope i never ruined any chatty uber guys marriages by giving them relationship advice despite never being married.#ive told ppl my mom is my work bestie and they believed me .#Like ok caring about looks is annoying but girl it goes beyond customizing the avatar you can customize your life#and i sure do enjoy my office lady persona i should start trying to emphasize my fine lines i wanna see what wpuld happen#.txt
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HOLY SHIT, I'M LIKE 98% SURE I FOUND THE FUCKING BOOK
#suicide tw#i'm not gonna buy it obviously bc it frankly doesn't look too interesting anymore#and clearly the most memorable part was the unrelated girl killing herself in the opener#but i'm 98% sure it's g.irl p.arts by j.ohn m c.uisack (not the actor)#it's so unmemorable that the only thing that rang a bell was the android girl's name#APPARENTLY IT'S TWO GUYS WHICH. I FULLY FORGOT ABOUT. I THOUGHT IT WAS ONE DUDE AND HIS ROBO GF#there's Popular Boy and Loner Boy and Popular Boy's parents by him a robo girlfriend bc he's got dissociative tendencies????#but like. they can't fuck ig???? and he's bummed???? so she starts opening up to his loner friend???? idfk#i'm guessing the suicide in the prologue was to like. idk set the tone of ??? current teen struggles of the last 10 or so years????#but like goddamn dude when the thing that sticks with me about your YA novel is the prologue#where a teenage girl blends an entire bottle of tylenol into a coke slushie#and sips on it while watching her favorite movies until she passes away in her sleep#like. clearly you peaked at the very start idgaf about these boys i care about this barely named npc girl#it was exactly the Wrong book for me to read as a teenager with severe suicidal ideation let me tell you#ANYWAY shout out to r.ose the robo girlfriend ig#christina.txt
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Why does this guy suck so much
#idgaf about your 1st lost young love mistress why are you such an awful parent 😭😭😭#THEY ARE IN THEIR WHAT. 30S?? 40S???? AND YOU'RE SCOLDING THEM LIKE THAT???#nillas
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Do people think that "I hate children" types are just. going to the park to beat up five year olds? What the fuck is up with all these people taking it so personally that some people find kids unbearably annoying and don't want to be around them? It's actually fine to not like kids, mind your own business.
#ive been seeing so many post about how ''if you dont like kids youre a TERRIBLE EVIL PERSON being a kid is so hard :(''#like bruh idgaf that has fuck all to do with me#literally wtf do you want me to do. try to be friends with random kids in public?#probably their parents wont appreciate strangers coming up to their kids im ngl
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Maybe I'm misinterpreting or just being silly, but like...it very much feels like my father is making an earnest effort (whether he admits or not) to replace every aspect of his previous marriage and consequently family with this new woman and the "childless carefree bachelor" life he "deserves"
#your brothers arent 'my' sons so i shouldnt have to care about them#deserves in quotes bc he's an ass about it#but! its there?#its in the way he refuses to talk to or have any interests in his kids sans my younger brother#since he basically represents everything my father wanted in his youth#the star athelete the professional sports potential hell bros basically a spitting image of my father#posted this before i finished my thoughts but#its also in like...this new lady he only introduced to my younger brother & actively tried to prevent the rest of us from meeting her#and some bs like like....#you stupid idiot dumbass youre sayijg raising 2 children for 20+ years makes them not yours because it wasnt your sperm??#fucking#anyway. he also straight up said to me. me directly. to my face. that he didnt want to be a parent anymore#and im not gonna tell someone how to live life but if you didnt want to be a parent and have kids then you shouldnt#have been fucking someone with 2 kids??? aint nobody ask you to do all that you CHOSE to not wrap shit up#but yeah no um...my therapist says i should try talking to my dad and forgiving him for shit but uh....no?#why would and should i do that??#anyway im just gonna get through these 2 days and then move on#ive tried my little bit and if im not gonna fight for attention from any other loved one i sure as hell arent gonna fight for a father#whatever idgaf anymore
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