#i'm too introverted for that

[the-oracle-of-the-lost]

it is funny how many non-aspec and non-poly people think that aspec identities and polyamory are somehow at odds with each other. like 1) you can be aspec and polyamorous. i know of many such cases. 2) even if you aren't, both identities/experiences involve unpacking amatonormativity and realizing that traditional romantic and sexual monogamous relationships aren't the be all and end all of human connection.

[moonlitkissing]

How does one fucking flirt?

[speakofcompersion]

For jjong month ♡ part [3/4]

[canisalbus]

Have you considered selling merch? Some stickers pins or patches of the boys would go hard

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[uhbasicallyjustmilex]

(full interview here)

[moonshadow-thoughts]

I don't think people understand what it means to be lonely and misunderstood for an entire life.

When I was a lonely child I was always thinking to myself "It will be okay, I will have friends when I'm a teenager."

When I was a lonely teenager I always thought to myself "its okay, I will have friends and a relationship when I'm an adult."

But now that I'm an adult I realize, its much more likely that it will stay that way forever. I will never belong anywhere.

[twelvemartha]

whoever wrote martha's blog was sick in the head for this

[shalom-iamcominghome]

The amount of jews I know who are planning on or are currently running private libraries is a non-zero number. Can't beat the well-read allegations for real 😭

[tumblweeds-omegaverse]

random omegaverse thought:

There must be people who experience specific instinct things with indifference or boredom.

Procreative cycle coming up? "Crap, I've got plans this weekend...stupid skip weeks."

Caught an intriguing scent while walking? "But I need to get to work! Shut up brain."

Had a snap response to a distressed sound? "Who was it?! ...right, it's my day off, I can go back to sleep."

Somebody growled at them? "Kid, I'm not a rival, that's my sibling."

Super cozy cuddle session happening nearby? "I'm gonna pass tonight guys, no social battery left, maybe next time."

Group of friends heading out to flirt and check out other singles? "I'm coming with you but only to make sure you all get home safe."

Setting where fated mates or soul bonds or permanent marks are a thing? "Meh. I don't really want one or care if I ever get one."

People in the actual omegaverse would get as bored of their stuff, as we do of ours, you know? It could be interesting to see that kind of vibe in fics. Biological demands faced with all the excitement of paying bills or doing laundry or tying your shoes.

Even if that kind of energy might not drive a plot, it could be interesting to have as a contrast to the people who do have big feelings about them - good or bad.

There's the friends who can't wait til they have a pack of their own, and the one friend who isn't against it but couldn't care less. There's the group in the office who are all about scent compatibility tests and figuring out one's best match and what sprays most highlight it, and the coworker who has no intentions on putting that much effort in. There are parents who hover and protect their offspring by scenting them multiple times a day, and others who don't see what the fuss is as long as it's done in the morning.

...also: packs with introverts who show care by giving each other space. So often, closeness is depicted through physical touch and tactile affection, but comfortable silence is meaningful too. Knowing people are near, but not having to interact until you're ready. Sitting in the same room doing different things, knowing that all it takes is a "hey, look at this" to share what you're up to. People understanding and accepting each other's differing or fluctuating needs for how and when to recharge. Seeing somebody reaching out or sharing space, beyond what's their norm, as a signal of the fact that they care.

[doctor-disc0]

You may think I'm quiet but actually I never shut up in my head

[we1rd-girl]

I love you introverted tumblr girls!♡♡

[electricea]

also i was talking about this earlier while plotting and i really do think this - i feel like ryuji isn't at all deterred by quieter or more introverted characters, he's not put off by it - he can fill an entire conversation by himself if he has to without totally taking charge of the conversation and being rude about it. i genuinely think that he'd actually more inclined to take quieter and more introverted muses under his wing, take a liking to them - even if they don't talk half as much as he does, he just likes them and wants to make them feel comfortable and look out for them.

[adamnablelittledevil]

Extremely important and necessary topic: is Gerard Way a Lestat boy or Armand boy? Who is his favorite character?

[bugzheadquarter]

Good god... How I've became so introverted online...

I'm already introverted in person that it's reached my online persona.

I haven't talked to a single one of my mutuals or people I've became mutuals with... Which makes me feel guilty but like...

How do even strike a conversation?

I'm just so awkward. So. Apologies old and new mutuals.

[catreginae]

No Notes > No Motivation > No New Posts > No Notes

[perditus]

OCs are super valid by the way and i absolutely adore every single one of yours, whether it's a Rook or one doing their own thing (I don't know if Rooks count but all of the ones I've written with are so different and I absolutely love love love getting to know each one) .

You know what's so fun? Opening people's carrds and reading about them and then thinking about how we're going to interact etc. I also love how it ends up with each OC experiencing different versions of my muses because they react different and change over time and y'know? I love the OC experience so all my mutuals you guys are so valid for that honestly <3 You should feel super proud of the work you've put into your Rooks/OCs and you'll always be welcome here even when I'm having one of my super introverted no talk days