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How does one fucking flirt?
#she speaks#i did try the dating apps#and I'm now talking to a dude and it's fun but nggggg#i am too introverted for this#being flirty on here is very different to that#in my head at least#working harder every day to turn this into my personal blog#promise I'll reblog some normal program posts soon
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remember during the pandemic when everyone was just dropping out of college early bc it was too hard yeah so basically i wish that was still socially acceptable
#just started college#already hate it#i am too introverted for this#i miss my family#and my best friends#and my pets#and my room#i hate it here
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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Been thinking about how Donnie and Leo’s insecurities juxtapose each other.
Donnie is insecure about his place in the family, but confident in who he is outside of it.
Leo is secure about being a part of the family, but thinks he’s nothing outside of it.
I think it’s a very interesting comparison that reflects their respective personalities, Donnie’s “Will all I have to offer be enough?” versus Leo’s “Do I even have anything else to offer?”
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt donnie#rottmnt leo#rise donnie#rise leo#‘I’m not good enough for my family’ versus ‘I am nothing without my family’#as a middle child they are Very Much Middle Children#willing to bet this is a big part of why they clash so much too#they both have what the other wants#I ALSO think they’re both introverts - yes even Leo - and that social exhaustion makes this all even harder for them#should I also get into how facts and science matter so much to donnie#while leo is into fiction and magic tricks and the like#BUT despite their interests donnie is less prone to suspicion than leo and I think that’s so interesting too#one day I’ll talk about it
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post canon laishuro prelude :>
#laios touden#toshiro nakamoto#shuro#laishuro#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#pulling this out of my ass at 3 am im sorry if its weird#woooweee im embarassed sharing this tbh#i never make anything like this b4 idk making dialogue and stuff aaaaa#also 'friends' who fight like them irl have stronger bonds going forward this is fact#toshiro warming up to laios post canon and them understanding each other better /sigh#i need a slow burn fic of them so bad#idk how to put this but#the way toshiro just letting them call him shuro for years really speak volume about how extremely introvert he is#like!?!#bfrrrr dude#he's way too good at bottling shit up#the contrasts between him and laios.... peak fiction imo#p.s my pc crashed 10++ times when im making this i almost lost a page it was terrifying
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mike is such an instigator, zendaya just follows him in his chaos and josh is being josh
and then there's me smiling like an idiot, watching the chaos unfold
#when introverts get comfortable with eo#my fav interview of them so far#am i posting too much challengers content?#mike faist#zendaya#josh o'connor#challengers movie#challengers#tashi duncan#art donaldson#seqom;film
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For jjong month ♡ part [3/4]
#stylish and flavourful Mr. Bling 🌙✨️#he's a goof and i love him for it~#i wish his other vcr's were available in nice quality too but alas :'))#jonghyun#kim jonghyun#shinee#mygifs#speakofgifs#jjongmonth#the agit “the story by jonghyun” vcr#shinee jonghyun#analook#lol my shy ass confirming with you multiple times if it's okay to tag u. haha thank you for your patience <3#you've invited me in like the introverted vampire i am. i'm staying for afternoon tea; can't get rid of me and my gifsets now heh~~ :)
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𝑴𝒊𝒉𝒍𝒊 𝑴𝒊𝒉𝒈𝒐 : 𝑺𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒉 𝒐𝒓 𝑷𝒂𝒔𝒔?
Quick Facts:
Height: 4'9"
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Sexuality: Bisexual
Pronouns: She/Her
Pros:
You will never be bored again. Mihli has an adventurous spirit full of wanderlust and wonder. It's incredibly hard for her to stay in one place and she's always looking to dabble in new experiences. This is of course unless she's settled into her favorite cozy window nook with a good book.
Much like adventure Mihli craves knowledge. When she's not galivanting around as a courier for Firelight Trading Company, her nose is often stuck in a book. But being both street and book smart has a lot of advantages. Mihli is a wealth of information, and often has the answers to many questions. Think of her like a walking, talking Encyclopedia Eorzea. She is also well versed in several languages.
Despite her love of being out in the world Mihli is a very hard worker who strives to pay back or pay forward whatever good has been passed on to her. A great example of this is when Mihli and Lysander met, she wound up earning her board (living under his roof) by volunteering to take care of his home (which was in shambles).
She's not a chef, but she's a great home cook and some of her homemade dishes will definitely win over a hungry soul.
Mihli will always do her best to be there when you need her, but never over step into your affairs. She does her best to not cast judgement and offer a safe and comfortable space for those in need of help.
Cons:
She requires a lot of attention. And I mean a LOT of attention. Mihli's partner, Lysander is often victim to her shenanigans which includes her sprawling out over his paperwork and research if he does not pay enough attention to her.
While she won't pry into your affairs, Mihli does struggle with boundaries and personal space. She'll want to be in the middle of everything, much like a feral cat. Doing chores? She's getting in the middle of it. Trying to work? She's either trying to help or getting in the middle of it. Going somewhere? ...there's a crimson haired cat girl blindly following after you. Mihli always wants to be involved and sometimes or depending on the person, this is to a detriment.
The memories of her old life are still a bit fuzzy. She's reclaimed most of it, but sometimes she'll find herself frustrated by a foggy lack of detail. She'll have nightmares about her old life, but find herself even more unnerved and frustrated when she wakes up and struggles to remember what so vivid in her dream world just moments before she opened her eyes.
Reading Fixations. If she finds a topic which is particularly fascinating to her, its almost impossible to get her out of the house and her nose out of that subject until she's consumed enough material to be satisfied. This means she can spend up to a week in her book nook completely invested in the pages and forgetting to care for herself, and sometimes those in her home.
Will not and does not keep up with her doctors appointments. This is in part because she's terrified of her Doctor, Shiro, but also just because she hates check ups and medication in general. Lysander also struggles to help Mihli stay medicated. ...Imagine trying to medicate a feral stray cat. That's what it's like trying to get her to take her meds.
Extra Details:
Sexuality: Ultimately, Mihli is a brat. At heart, she's realized she's a submissive who enjoys giving up control after living a life where she's had to be in control and accountable for so long, but only to the right person. She's also a touch starved tsundere who no matter how much touch affection she receives, will never be fully satisfied, but will be angry that you're giving it to her.
Romantically: Mihli just wants to be loved. She doesn't need to hear it, she just needs to know it in her heart. Despite being tsundere about receiving affection, she craves giving it and her love language comes in many colorful and plentiful forms.
So, tell me...
#riftdancing - prompts#character - mihli mihgo#Angel tagged me in this TWICE so you will be hearing more from me#but I thought Mihli was a great place to start#also thank you for tagging me#and Sea too once I called her out on it /affectionate#I would tag people but most the folks I know have already done this!!#I am a liddol introvert
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plucky, outgoing character who is kinda weird but otherwise generally fits in well with their peers: [exists] me:
#shut up chelle#actually autistic#autism#neurodivergent#neurodiversity#i mean autistic people can be outgoing and sociable too#the stereotype is that we're introverts (which i am lol) but#not necessarily true in all cases
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I love that his bodyguard is clearly A-grade but I fucking hate that it’s come to the point that he needs one at all
I suppose it's inevitable when you get this popular but... :(
#käärijä#i know it's for the best not only for him but the whole team#but...ugh#stalkers are wild to me#because I feel like I've become as horny/insane about him as one can get#and yet I can't even begin to imagine doing anything insane enough to warrant my idol needing security#even when i was a teenager with poorer judgement skills#my self-preservation instincts have always been stronger than my love for any man lmao#but fr you gotta let your idols come to you#nothing's guaranteed ofc but it's happened to me before with a popular artist in Canada and was an amazing experience#but it only happened at all because i respected their personal space and didn't push on when the conversation had reached a natural end#NOTHING good comes out of harassing them#this seems obvious to me#or am i just too shy and introverted lol#sorry i wrote a book in the tags#oh fuck i just realized i hope his gf doesn't need one too :(
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how do i tell this girl in my ceramics class that i want to be friends without sounding weird 🤔
#we added each other on insta and shes soooo cool#i saw her in the studio today and i wanted to talk to her but im already freaking out about this stupid piece that just HATES ME#by the time i was done she was already gone 😭😭#my partner and i take the class together too so we're always together and like idk i dont wanna like leave them alone and awkward#we're both introverted but they are even more shy than i am so im like the spokesperson when we're in public 😭#anyway#hopefully shes in the studio next time and i will DEFINITELY talk to her#hopefully 🤞
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"Proud loneliness"
#chel#cheldobryakk#doodle#It's becoming more and more difficult for me to convince myself that I'm happy being alone#No I'm not happy. I feel bad and I'm losing my mind#I would love to be someone's friend but I'm too introverted and boring#No one will ever want to be friends with me. I'm sure of it#I wouldn't be friends with myself either if I had a choice#There is a chance that I will delete this post later but I am not sure#Depression is cringe. I hate depression.
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I’m sorry about your grandpa. Please, take all the time you need to grieve.
thanks! it's not so much a matter of grieving tbh, i wouldn't say he was a bad grandpa, but his manner of stubborn rural folk-ness and his way of teasing his grandkids didn't really work great for me lol i didn't have the closest relationship with him. it's more a matter of handling all the travel and family interaction in such a hurry.
#i love my family but when we're all together at grandma's house they can be so tiring#i am too much of an introvert for all this
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i came home to visit family for my bday and it’s been nice but i can’t wait to go back to my place bc i suddenly got the urge to gif a show that aired 2 years ago 😕
#any guesses?#i love them but i am also very tired and would love some silence#im too much of an introverted hermit that needs to recharge after being around my nieces and everyone for extended periods#fivemind
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i hate those couple reels weird stuff people do but then i realise i am also partaking in many things that people call cringe so what is really the point of the hate? why hate when you can literally have rose sharbath?
#thinking about that ask again#and also i was going through my gallery and my pics with bf during our initial stage#made me realise something i just had an existential crisis again i am not surprised#sometimes i just love to talk about my relationship and then i realise#how i used to react as a single when i saw those couple reels on ig#but tbh those reels are kinda weird though ngl#or maybe we’re just both introverts idk#also why is he so pretty i just like to stare at him sometimes#technically my internship is wfh kinda so i can take a train to bangalore#moots don’t mind me i’m just yapping to myself#via tags (as it should be)#i just love him he’s been there for me#at a time where it was a huge clusterfuck in my life#he also makes the best butter chicken that too#and his eyes so pretty#medu rambles
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got invited to a social event with 10+ people i don't know and my social battery is starting to run out so quickly it's bad for me
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