#i love collages and vision boards

[littlemut]

made a bnuuy-centered vision board 🐇

[bisexualadamparrish]

made myself a 2025 vision board <3

[ecstarry]

🖊️ hehehe

okay i think we could have a pleasant afternoon doing collages i love working on my graphics with someone else he he

send me a 🖊️ and i'll tell u what i'd do from this list

[milo-is-rambling]

Mommy issues going hard

[prkbun]

i made this vision board in January as an excuse to do something offline for a few hours. hoping it actually manifests some positivity for me, because so far, 2025 is off to a pretty rocky start. i put "be at your best when times are tough" on there and the Monkey's Paw curled, like, "okay, bet, times are about to get real fuckin tough, babygirl." (my skin is improving, though, so i'm holding out hope.)

[heartlilith]

Moon Sign & Manifestation

Manifestation is aligning your feelings, goals, and actions to bring your desires into reality. Based on your Moon sign, there are ways to manifest that can better align with who you are.

Aries Moon: Sound and frequency meditations (741 Hz), visualization, taking action towards desires, and letting go.

Why: Aries rules the head, making sounds & frequencies a natural highway to manifesting your desires, as well as visualization. Taking action either by pursuing your goals or asking upfront is what Aries is all about, considering it's the first sign and fire sign of the zodiac. For Aries Moon, letting go of expected outcomes is crucial, as frustration and disappointment can hinder your manifestation efforts.

Taurus Moon: Vision board collages, affirmations, and gratitude

Why: For Taurus Moons, creating something tangible in alignment with your goals and visions can satisfy your eye for beauty as well as your creativity. Since Taurus is the sign of stability and security, repeating affirmations in the mirror and practicing gratitude can increase your self esteem and overall happiness, making manifestation a lot easier and faster for you.

Gemini Moon: Getting specific, 369 method, scripting

Why: With a Gemini Moon, thoughts can get a little scattered, making specific goals and plans a little harder to focus on - but this is essential. Figure out exactly what you want and write it down. The 369 method can help you focus on your desires by writing them down morning, afternoon, and night. Scripting is also helpful for getting specific, while writing is a usual tool to channel your energy.

Cancer Moon: Moon rituals, crystals, mediations

Why: Cancer is naturally ruled by the Moon, making Moon rituals perfect for you. New Moons especially are great for manifesting and making Moon water, which you can use to wash your floors, wash your face, or simply dab on your wrists and neck like perfume every morning. (New) Moon water is great because you can use it throughout the month. Crystals and meditations are also amazing for calming the mind and in conjunction, are a super powerful way to manifest.

Leo Moon: Affirmations, vision board, and acts of faith

Why: Affirmations are so Leo-coded. Like Taurus, it's essential for you to raise your confidence and esteem in order to manifest, which is why acts of faith is also included on the list. Acts of faith, for example, is when you buy supplies to make candles because you know one day you'll have a candle store. Or, when you book a vacation a few months out because you know by then you'll reach your fitness goals. A vision board will satisfy your need for creativity, while serving a reminder to stay focused.

Virgo Moon: Letting go, trust the process, and scripting

Why: Since I'm a Virgo Moon myself, I know how this placement can overthink and scramble for a sense of control. You need to let go and trust the universe. Scripting, like Gemini Moon, can help organize your thoughts. As long as your clear about your goals and do every writing exercise you can think of to help it come to life, you'll be fine. You got it.

Libra Moon: Artistic rituals, law of attraction, visualization

Why: Using artistic rituals like drawing, painting, singing, or other creative outlets can help your desires come to life. For Law of Attraction, when you show the Universe and others generosity, kindness, and love, it will be returned 3-fold. Visualizing your goals in a harmonious and aesthetically pleasing way is sure to fast track turn your manifestations into reality.

Scorpio Moon: Energy alignment, water rituals, and meditation

Why: Channeling your intense energy to manifest your desires is a key way to get your dreams into your reality. Embodying your desires is crucial for Scorpio Moons. Do you want to be a CEO? Think, dress, and act like one. Water rituals like adding cinnamon and roses to your bath or enchanting your body soap through intention can help as well. Manifesting and uncovering your hidden desires can further put you into alignment with who you are and your higher self.

Sagittarius Moon: Visualization, taking action, believing in yourself

Why: For Sagittarius Moons, visualizing not only how it feels once you get you what you want but the adventure of getting it can be super helpful. Taking action and believing in yourself is super important as well, because who is Sagittarius without a little optimism and confidence?

Capricorn Moon: Detailed plan, crystals, setting intentions

Why: I feel as though detailed plan is pretty self explanatory for Capricorn Moons, as they thrive on structure and discipline. Crystals can help ground your energy and reconnect you with your element - Earth. For setting intentions, getting up every morning with a small goal can further manifest your dreams into reality.

Aquarius Moon: Meditation, journaling, acts of faith

Why: Meditation can help Aquarius Moon uncover what they truly want, even better if they listen to 741 Hz (the manifestation frequency). Journaling is also a great way to do this and can help you stay on track. Acts of faith can help put this process into motion, buying things, clearing out a space, and taking small steps like you've already attained your goal is super important.

Pisces Moon: Guided sleep meditations, solitude, shadow work

Why: A little different than just meditating, your power is most potent when asleep and in solitude. Guided sleep meditations can be most usual for you when your literally between dreams and reality. Doing shadow work and reflecting on yourself and who you are can throw away baggage that keeps you from manifesting your goals into your life.

MASTERLIST

[borderlinereminders]

Self-Soothing

Self-Soothing skills are mostly physical techniques that use different senses. This is one of the distress tolerance skills. Different things work for different people, but the goal is to use one (or more) of the five senses to give yourself a comfortable experience when you are feeling in distress.

(These are also really great ideas for grounding!)

Here are some examples to try, but don't hesitate to add your own!

Vision:

Go visit a place you love (a museum, aquarium, maybe the beach, or a trail/view point you love.)

Watch a slideshow of your favourite pictures

Look at an aesthetic collage/board you made

Light a candle and watch the flame flicker and the wax gradually melt.

Find a video you like like a wood stove burning, or maybe rain or snow falling.

Touch:

Use a stim toy that you enjoy that has an interesting texture (slime, soft things, etc).

Pet or cuddle your pet!

Hold a favourite blanket, or maybe a stuffed animal.

Take a warm bubble bath

Lay in the grass

Hearing:

Put on your favourite music

Use an auditory stim toy you enjoy (pop tubes, snapperz, etc.)

Listen to nature sounds

Listen to your pet snoring

Go to a park and listen to the sounds of children laughing and playing

Taste:

Have a nice cup of tea, hot chocolate, coffee, etc

Suck on a hard candy

Chew on gum

Eat one of your favourite snacks

Cook a favourite meal

Go grab a favourite drink from somewhere

Smell:

Light a scented candle and focus on the smell

Use incense

Use your favourite body spray/perfume

Go for a walk somewhere where you can smell something you enjoy like the ocean, or fresh baking at the bakery

Bake or cook something to smell it in the oven

Set up a new air freshener

We sometimes feel like we don't deserve these comforts, or it's hard for us to self-soothe on our own without someone to help us. You absolutely deserve these comforts, and while it's valid to get help from others, being able to work on self-soothing for ourselves can be really beneficial to us and our relationships. I made a deal with myself that I will try self-soothing first and then reach out for help if needed after I make a solid effort on my own. The comfort that I still have the option to reach out makes me more willing to try to self-soothe on my own.

If possible, make yourself a goal to try a new self-soothing technique a week to try when you aren't in distress to see how it feels! Trying these distress skills when we aren't in distress can be really helpful to us being able to use them in distress. When you are trying them, make sure to try and focus solely on the technique. If you are using a taste technique, focus only on the taste and enjoyment of whatever it is. (Using mindfulness techniques to achieve this can be helpful!)

[hopefully-saturn]

28 days later and i finally made my vision board!

i’m pretty happy with how it’s come out. i’ll likely tweak some things here and there since i couldn’t find pictures for everything i wanted to put (minor details, maybe some text). that could also be addressed in my ‘ins and outs’ list, which is next!

for anyone wondering, i used canva & pinterest :) i’m using the free trial for canva pro but barely used any of the pro elements minus the scrapbook lettering for ‘vision board’.

((also, peep the subtle guest appearance :p))

i just remembered, we're 14 days into the new year and I still haven't made my vision board, ins and outs list, and/or bucket list for the year :')

i think this year, i wanna do a mix of both digital and paper versions of that kind of thing, so maybe i'll post them onto here? inshallah.

[deminetly]

—ㅤ꒰ྀིㅤ ACTIVITIES FOR SHIFTERS ಿৎ

(mostly in your cr)

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⋆ journal as your dr self

⋆ make a collage about your dr self (face claim, hair claim, body claim, hand claim, pets, room, house, style, general vibe)

⋆ write love letters to your s/o

⋆ watch storytimes of other ppl shifting to ur dr

⋆ make your social media profiles (twinote)

⋆ make moodboards for your drs/people in your drs

⋆ design your outfits (everyday, red carpet etc)

⋆ make a uquiz called “which one of my drs are you”

⋆ think of a trend to start in your fame dr

⋆ make up slang that people in your dr use

⋆ make shifting memes

⋆ make your dr room in roomsxyz

⋆ design your dr camera roll (from pinterest or go for a walk and take the pictures yourself)

⋆ go out and take pictures of places that remind you of your dr

⋆ draw/make picrews of your dr selves/friends

⋆ fill in pinterest templates about your dr self and your dr friends

⋆ make up a holiday and script it in your dr

⋆ make your own notion script template

⋆ make your own timetable for your school dr (make up new classes)

⋆ make a shifting bingo card of things you want to do in your dr

⋆ make posters about your drs (movies you acted in, your band, your school etc)

⋆ make yourself look like your dr self

⋆ go on google maps and walk around the area you want to shift to/serach up a yt video of someone walking around that place

⋆ organize your wardrobe and outfits (pinterest, combyne)

⋆ make up the whole film lore for your actor dr

⋆ write down (or even make up new) foods you would like to eat in your dr

⋆ make a playlist about your s/o or just dr in general

⋆ make up shifting methods

⋆ write down shifting methods, try them out and rate them

⋆ research the void state

⋆ make new places ans their lore for your dr, find pictures

⋆ watch documentaries about shifting

⋆ scroll through shifting tumblr and reddit

⋆ write down what a typical day in the life looks like for your dr self and follow that schedule for a day

⋆ write articles about your fame dr drama

⋆ script in a new tiktok trend you can do with your s/o

⋆ plan a halloween group costume for your dr self and friends

⋆ make a vision board for each dr

⋆ invent your own currency system for your dr

⋆ design a flag for the place youre shifting to

⋆ design merch for your fame dr

⋆ give random memes a twist so they would be about your dr

⋆ script a secret society (a hidden group in your dr with its own rituals, symbols and purpose)

⋆ design and script in tattoos for your dr self

⋆ write fanfic about random people in your dr/you and someone else from your dr

⋆ create new seasons for your dr

⋆ invent new amusement park rides to ride in your dr

⋆ invent a new zodiac system for your dr

⋆ make a board game based on your dr (locations, inside jokes etc)

⋆ script in a new restaurant and menu specifically for you

⋆ start a tumblr blog just for your dr (post things like day in the life of me, haul of what i just bought, new concert announcement etc)

⋆ make comics about your drs

⋆ make your own shifting school system (script: schedule, homework, building, uniform, topics you study, friend group, foods they offer during lunch, dorm room etc)

⋆ make a wikipedia about your (fame) dr self

⋆ make a magazine/newletter about your dr

⋆ take the rice purity test as your dr self then as your cr self and compare them

⋆ write a story/journal page/blog post of a success story as if you shifted (where did you wake up, who did you first talk to, what did you do, how did it feel, what was better than you expected, etc)

[444you]

manifestion guide for overthinkers and pessimists

MY MANIFESTION JOURNEY

*caution: mentions of personal limiting beliefs* you can skip through this if you want, but it’s mainly talking about my own journey and what i struggled with 🦋

for me, i’ve been heavily into law of assumption and law of attraction for about 7 years now. i tried many different manifestation techniques, i never found one that fit. i got into sammy ingram when she first made her youtube channel. she was one of my fav youtubers. not just because of her advice but i loved her personality. i binged her videos. she always gave good information but i knew for me, affirmations never helped. i always looked into the 3d, even when i knew i shouldn’t. anytime i saw a sign, i would freak out because i thought i would continue to manifest signs instead of my desire. i also overthought a lot and felt like if i had one opposing thought, that my manifestation wouldn’t come. the thing is i’m aware that this stuff doesn’t affect how your desires come in, but i still freaked out over it. this is just a few of the many issues i had. i tried scripting, water methods, subliminals. i even had a subliminal channel, people would get results but i never got any from my own or others. now i’m highly aware that i have limiting beliefs yall 😭 this is what is causing me to not achieve what i want. this is something that i’ve been working on for years and i know that i’ll gradually move past it.

WHAT IVE BEEN CURRENTLY DOING TO MANIFEST MY DESIRES

vision boards. i make them for multiple desires or specifically just one. if i want something to come fast, i put a 2 month time frame on it and then i also put the year. so say i wanted to manifest a car right now. , i’d make a vision board of my dream car. then i’d write a text that says “july - august 2024”. i had this strict belief that manifestations come in 3 days or less. however, i always put a 2 month time frame because i know i can easily get upset and doubt it. id make the collage of that i want on my phone. then i’d put it as my wallpaper for 3 days or more. i did this because i’d gradually look at it multiple times a day, this way my mind could be familiar with my desires. with this however, i can talk to my friends about my desires. i can have so many doubts and think the opposite but somehow it still works for me. but anyway, i’d look at it for a few days and then change it to something completely different, any wallpaper. i delete the vision board from my camera roll. (if you go to settings and wallpapers, it’s still there as a choice to view in the future) then i’d just forget about it. sometimes but no always, i’ll put a reminder to check my vision board after the timeframe i put it. so for the car example, i’d put a reminder after august. then i go back and see what manifested. at the end of the day, we all think differently. we all have different ways to manifest. and if you’re somebody like me who has a lot of limiting beliefs, don’t feel discouraged. i used to get upset that everybody got subliminal or manifestion results, but i eventually found something that worked for me. and you will too.

[theblackfemininesociety]

HOW TO: Unlock Your Potential with a Vision Board for 2025!

(clickable links and resources below)

Have you ever felt the excitement of setting goals but struggled to visualize them? A vision board could be your secret weapon! Discover why creating a vibrant vision board for 2025 can ignite your motivation and help you manifest your aspirations. It's time to bring your dreams to life and make this year your most fulfilling one yet!

‘How Do I Set Myself Up For Success?’

STEP ONE: ENVISION IT

This is the very reason why the BFS recommends making physical and digital vision &/or prayer boards! So yes, absolutely, use this moment to visualize the life you desire, the woman you aspire to be, including every detail from your behaviors to the type of neighborhood you'd like to live in.

Tools You Need:

Create a Pinterest account

Download Shuffles to make a digital collage vision boards directly from your boards you created on Pinterest!

Go your local Dollar Store ! Your physical vision board does not have to break the bank!

Utilize your local Library! 📚 There’s many libraries that let you print things for free with a library card ! ( if you don’t have a library card get one pretty girls read )

A 🔥 playlist! 🎶 We recommend you to vibe out to music that motivates you ! Have you heard our “Kingdom Vibes” playlist? Click here to listen to the latest Christian r&b/rap out right now! 🎧

STEP 2: ALIGN WITH IT

Dreams should never only be alive in your head. Step one is done and yes you can always close your eyes and make changes when you need to. ITS YOUR REALITY. You can and will always find yourself doing step one, but do not stay there.

What’s going to set you apart from the rest is the work, discipline and commitment you have to making your visions of life come to life. You have to align yourself with it. That’s the secret: your new life is going to cost you your old one babe!

STEP 3: DO NOT GIVE UP

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

This is a sisterhood, it’s our duty to always tell you the TRUTH ! It’s not going to be a walk in the park after your vision board is made, you will still have hard days, days where you’re not going to have any drive to get things done. There will be days where you fall back into old habits.

Luckily for you, we not only made resources for you to use but we created a safe space for you to come and get back on track. We will help you unpack and bounce back everytime!

‘Breaking Habits’ Guide: Part One • Part Two

Join our free “The Ladies Room” Groupchat for support, guidance and advice. Click HERE to accept our invite !

Other Free BFS Resources: HERE

Accountability is key on this never ending journey of self discovery. This does not mean you have to beat yourself up and get stuck in a rut! BFS women acknowledges the facts and move accordingly (pray, indulge in self care, seek help— get back to the drawing board and try again) this is why we are a circle of WINNERS 🏆 Our members don’t give up on themselves and we will never give up on them! 🩷

“To learn, you must love discipline; it is stupid to hate correction.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭12‬:‭1‬ ‭NLT‬‬

STEP 4: WATCH IT COME TO LIFE:

Do you know what happens after you plant seeds in the physical and spiritual world ? Harvest season! It’s only a matter of time! Your hard work, sweat, tears, and dedication will pay off! When that time comes, give glory to GOD, you will be fully equipped and ready to step into that season of your life.

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[witchygirlgray333]

Some journal prompts I like (writing and creative) :

I’m going to do a separate list for some chronic illness journal ideas bc I’ve found it’s so helpful!

Write out the lyrics to your favourite song and/or do a drawing / painting / collage of your interpretation of the song

Books you want to read

Films you want to watch

Diary entry about your day

Bujo style - plan out your week or month

Pressed flowers

Scripting (manifestation)

Vision board (manifestation)

Notes on a topic you’re learning about (for example I like to watch lots of nature or history documentaries and sometimes I make notes on them in my journal or if it’s witchy stuff I write it in my grimoire)

Letter to past you / future you / someone in your life (remember they don’t have to read it, this has helped me so much in certain situations so I can get out whatever I want to say without upsetting people) / someone you love who has passed on / the god or deity you worship if you worship one / to your future children / future partner

Wishlist

Ideas for things (like stories you want to write, photo shoots, fashion, films, art etc)

Poetry (either that you’ve written or that someone else has written that you like)

Get to know me page so if you want to look back on your journal in the future you can see what you were like then

Films you’ve watched / books you’ve read / favourite songs from the past month

Positive affirmations

Shadow work

Sticker / photo dump

Recipes

Go sit in nature and draw or write about what you see or feel when you’re there

Draw out your alter ego

Stick in scraps from throughout your day (such as receipts, labels from things, stickers, pictures etc)

Book reviews

To do lists

Design your dream room

Your childhood (draw or write about childhood memories, hobbies, things you used to collect, stick in childhood photos, the toys you used to play with etc)

Travel bucket list

Life bucket list

Family tree

Write a list of things that make you happy

Stream of consciousness

Write about your dreams and what you think they might mean

Brain dump (I sometimes do this before I go to sleep if somethings going on)

Doodle page

Stick in notes your loved ones have written to you

List of favourite quotes

Self care ideas

List of songs / playlist

Goals in life / 5 year plan

Plan a day out or a holiday

Plan content you want to make for social media

Tattoos you want to get

Things that make you happy

Outfit ideas

Hobbies you currently have

Hobbies you want to try

List of things you collect

Yoga / exercise routine

Seasonal bucket lists

Things you want to learn or research

Mood tracker

Stick in any colouring pages you’ve done

Daily skincare routine

List of Studio Ghibli films and tick off the ones you’ve watched

List of your favourite things

List of things to do when you’re bored

If you normally write about your day, draw pictures of all the things you did instead of writing (a bit like in a comic book)

Advice people have given you that has been really helpful

Ideal morning / night routine

Notes from therapy / hospital appointments

Page of all your cinema tickets

List of people that inspire you

Angel numbers

Crystals and their meanings

Your favourite artists

Worry tree

Favourite memories

Write your dream wardrobe

Reasons to stay alive

Stick in photos and write a bit about them

Names you like

Favourite words

Write about an event (a description of what happened, how it left you feeling, who was there and what they said and did, what you wish had happened instead, the reasons why you find it hard to let go, steps you could take to start to move on)

Notes on a language you’re learning

Collage about a film you’ve recently watched

Glow up check list

Write about a tarot reading you did

What does heaven and hell mean to you

Flip through a magazine and do a collage of pictures from it

[jibbmanifests]

More talk about manifesting appearance changes

I noticed my post about manifesting appearance/body changes got a lot of traction. It never occurred to me how common those types of manifestations are. So, I wanted to write another post that's more so focused on the appearance changes aspect.

How is it possible to manifest appearance changes?

When it comes to manifesting, your only limit is yourself. It is possible to manifest any appearance changes you want, the potential difficulty of it is just based on how you view the change. Like, for instance, you're manifesting yourself to be a significantly different height (let's say you're going from 5'7" to 5'3"). You're 26 years old now and you've been the same height since age 12. Of course it's going to feel like a drastic difference and might feel harder for you to believe as possible because of that.

But, the how is never something you have to worry about when it comes to manifesting. There are an infinite number of ways that your height, weight, eye color, etc. could change. Like, maybe your metabolism improves, which leads to you losing the amount of weight you were manifesting. Maybe your body shrinks earlier in your adulthood which changes your height. You never know. But don't try to focus on the how and don't try to apply logic to it. Just affirm to yourself that it's possible.

Why do we manifest these changes?

One thing I will say is to never manifest an appearance change to attract or please someone else (ie. a romantic SP), especially someone else who's putting you down. You are your own SP when it comes to manifesting appearance changes. You are focusing on yourself and how you desire to look. Do it because it's something that boosts your confidence and pleases you. It does not have to correlate with any other manifestation, like, you do NOT have to change your appearance to get your SP to value you more.

Understand why you want these changes and, like I said, make sure you're manifesting it because you want to. This is related to how you look. It is 100% up to you.

Techniques to help you get into the end state, if you're struggling

Obviously when it comes to appearance, it's based on what you're seeing in or on yourself. So, visualizing your new appearance is important and, with that being said, visualizations can easily help you when it comes to manifesting appearance changes.

I've talked about creating vision/manifestation boards. In the case of manifesting appearance changes, these can be very helpful because you have something to physically look at. Put together a printed collage or a Pinterest collage of pictures that reflect how you want to look. Maybe put it somewhere that's close to your mirror or your bed, because then you have that visual there to boost/hype yourself up. You can look at it and say, "That's me" without looking down on yourself and saying something like, "hey, why don't I look like that now?"

You can also do what I did and set a person you admire appearance-wise as your profile pic. I love how Sabrina Carpenter looks and I'm using her as my own visual reference for how I want to look, because there's things she has that I'm manifesting for myself. Setting her as my profile pic on here helps because that picture of her is right there every time I log onto Tumblr. It's right there in the corner of my post, every single time I'm writing something or reading a post back to myself. You could even set it as your phone wallpaper. Most of us are checking our phones a lot, so that's a way to consistently visualize.

And, of course, affirming is also most important when it comes to manifesting anything. Let's use the example again of manifesting a height change. You can robotically affirm to yourself something along the lines of, "I'm [this height]." Maybe imagine a conversation in your head with a friend where they're like, "Wow, you're so short/tall! How tall are you?" and you're like, "Oh, I'm [this height]." Or, affirm to yourself, "Dayum, I look so good today!" It's a simple affirmation that can easily make you feel good. I'll always encourage you to be your own biggest hype man. It is so good for your mental health to cheer yourself on.

Does me wanting appearance changes mean I'm insecure?

No. Manifesting changes in your appearance does not automatically mean you're an insecure person. And, to be fair, it is 100% okay if you do feel insecure about something - we all feel insecure about ourselves in some sort of way, appearance-related or not. Don't point fingers at yourself and put yourself down, thinking, "I shouldn't be manifesting this. I should love myself for how I look now." And certainly don't let other people tell you things like that, too.

Let me be clear: Manifesting how you want to look can be an act of self-love. You can love yourself enough to know what you want/prefer and what will make you happy. Part of why we change over time is to help ourselves grow as a person. Part of why we make changes to ourselves can be to make ourselves feel better and happier if we aren't in a good place.

You can also still be happy with how you look in the 3D realm now but prefer to change things about your appearance. It's healthy to have that feeling of preference over the feeling of desperation. It's the same as being okay as a single person but preferring to be in a relationship because you like that feeling of companionship or being okay with your current job position in an office but preferring a WFH position.

BUT, let me also clarify, you obviously don't have to be okay with how things are in the 3D realm. Realizing what you don't want/like in the 3D realm is what gets the ball rolling on manifesting something different. Use your lack of self-confidence to fuel that push into the end state. You care enough to change something - you can. But, of course, don't leech onto your appearance in the 3D realm and tell yourself you need to change right this second. Remember: ignoring the how, ignoring the time, and being indifferent towards the 3D is what pushes you right into the end state. It's a massive paradox, I know.

[litrly-justagirl]

Be THAT GIRL in 2025

Hey loves, let’s talk about something that’s been heavy on my heart—vision boards, and why they might not be working for you. It hit me when I realized: so many vision boards are missing the secret ingredient—God’s guidance. We can stick as many dreamy pictures on that board as we want, but without God at the center, we’re just throwing darts in the dark.

Vision boards are not just about making pretty collages. They’re about faith moves. The truth is, we’ve all been guilty of setting our own plans and goals, but so often they aren’t in alignment with what God truly has in store. We chase what we want, instead of what He’s calling us to.

Recognizing Where You’re Misaligned Misalignment looks like this:

• Thinking you know better than God. • Getting frustrated with His timing when it’s taking longer than you imagined. • Forgetting that true success is rooted in surrender, not just hustle.

But here’s the kicker: when you align your dreams with His will, everything starts to fall into place. It’s like switching from blurry vision to crystal clear. When you’re walking in alignment with Him, you’re not just manifesting wishes—you’re walking in purpose.

Shifting to a Vision with Purpose Creating a faith-based vision board means seeing your dreams through God’s eyes. It’s about setting goals that honor Him, then taking the action steps to make them real. Here’s how to make that shift:

Submit Your Plans to Him It all begins with surrender. Proverbs 16:9 says it best: “People can plan what they want to do, but it is the Lord who guides their steps.” Stop trying to force your plan and trust that His plan is always better.

Take Action, Not Just Wishes Faith without works is dead. Dreaming without doing is like saying you want to eat and never getting up to cook. If you’ve got dreams, get moving. Whether it’s launching that business, starting that book, or stepping into a new career, take the first step.

Stay Consistent Consistency is key. Whether it’s your vision board, your fitness goals, or your faith journey, it’s the steady effort that brings the breakthroughs. Trust the process and stay the course. Keep your eyes on the bigger picture—God’s got you.

✨ Let’s Make 2025 Your Best Year Yet ✨ This isn’t just about creating a vision board with pretty pictures. This is about crafting a life that reflects your faith, your purpose, and the amazing plan God has for you. It’s about transforming from the inside out, stepping boldly into what He has for you.

If you're ready to get started, grab your supplies and let’s make 2025 the year that our dreams are fully aligned with His will. Drop a comment below and let me know: What’s one thing you’re believing for in your vision this year? Let’s talk about it and keep each other accountable.

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[hermajestyimher]

How do I stop letting depression/anxiety control me and how I view myself? I’ve gotten better, but I just feel like my appearance has so much control over me. I am black, but I’ve just been so insecure of my nose and it being on the bigger side, especially compared to other black women (this isn’t to out them down or anything! I think they are absolutely beautiful people and I love them :D). I just feel like I’ve been dealt such a bad hand in life by being unattractive and that all my hardships especially with my relationship with others (romantic and platonic) just stem from me being/feeling unattractive and being a naturally awkward person doesn’t help. I constantly day dream about being a woman like Anok Yai or even someone with the sort of energy as Mia goth. I don’t want this to turn into some pity post, but I want to be able to be beautiful while also replacing this awkward personality of mines. This feels super childish and all over the place, but I just feel a little lost with myself and who I am.

So TLDR is: How do I become/start feeling attractive and become a more confident and charismatic person? Thank you and Im so sorry for the messiness of this post!

Hi my love, it sounds like you need to do a lot of self-concept work to change your internal dialogue and improve how you see yourself. It's essential to build a strong foundation of self-worth and confidence that isn't easily shaken by external influences. Here are some practical steps you can take to begin this transformative process:

1. Eliminate All Forms of Negative Stimuli

One of the first steps in enhancing your self-concept is eliminating the stimuli that contribute to self-doubt. This involves a thorough examination of what you consume daily, whether it’s media, people, or experiences. Start by unfollowing individuals and accounts on social media that make you feel inadequate or pressured to conform to unrealistic standards. Pay attention to how certain songs or films make you feel; if they perpetuate feelings of self-doubt or insecurity, consider removing them from your playlist.

It's crucial to be mindful of what you're feeding your mind. Often, we internalize negative messages without realizing it. These can come from people who appear close to us or through entertainment that subtly promotes insecurity. Perform a detailed assessment of who you’re listening to and determine if their influence is healthy. If not, create distance, whether that means unfollowing them online or spending less time with them in person. Surround yourself with people and content that uplift and inspire you rather than bring you down.

Pro Tip: Make a list of accounts, shows, and songs you consume regularly, and categorize them into “Positive,” “Neutral,” and “Negative.” Actively replace those in the “Negative” category with something positive.

2. Surround Yourself with Positive and Aspirational Content

After you've cleared out negative influences, it's time to replace them with content that uplifts and inspires you. Look for media and role models that align with your aspirations. This could mean following influencers who promote body positivity, self-love, or healthy lifestyles. Find women who embody the qualities you admire and whose lifestyles you aspire to emulate.

Comparison, when used wisely, can motivate us to strive for more. Instead of comparing yourself to others out of insecurity, use it as a tool for growth. Observe the habits, routines, and mindsets of those you admire, and learn from them. Incorporate their positive traits into your life in a way that feels authentic to you.

Additionally, consider expanding your social circle by engaging in environments where aspirational people frequent, such as networking events, workshops, or fitness classes. Being around people who have achieved what you’re aiming for can provide real-life inspiration and show you that your goals are attainable.

Pro Tip: Create a vision board or digital collage of people and things that inspire you. Include images, quotes, and achievements you aspire to. This visual reminder can be a powerful motivator.

3. Reprogram Your Mind with Positive Affirmations

Changing your internal dialogue is critical for improving your self-concept. One effective method is using subliminals and affirmations, which can help rewire your brain with positive messages. These techniques work by bypassing the conscious mind and directly influencing the subconscious, gradually replacing negative beliefs with empowering ones.

Find subliminal audios or affirmation tracks that resonate with you and your goals. For instance, if you're working on self-confidence, look for recordings that focus on self-assurance and self-love. I recommend listening to this one for about 30 minutes daily, ideally in the morning when you wake up or right before bedtime when your subconscious is most receptive. You can find a variety of these resources online, just be careful to read the comments before listening to ensure the affirmations are safe and vetted by others.

As you integrate these practices, remember that consistency is key. Regular exposure to positive affirmations will slowly build a new mindset, one that's more aligned with your true worth and potential. You can also use affirmations to help change your physical appearance as well.

Pro Tip: Write down a set of personal affirmations that resonate with you. Repeat them to yourself every morning and evening as a daily ritual. This practice will reinforce positive beliefs about yourself and your abilities.

4. Improve Your Physical Health

Taking care of your physical well-being is a vital aspect of boosting self-concept. Exercise regularly, not just for physical benefits but also for the mental and emotional gains that come with it. Engaging in physical activity releases endorphins, reduces stress, and builds self-discipline, all of which contribute to a stronger sense of self-worth.

Create a balanced workout routine that you enjoy and can stick to consistently. Whether it’s yoga, running, weightlifting, or dance, find what resonates with you and keeps you motivated. Pair this with a nutritious diet that fuels your body and mind, helping you feel energized and confident.

Remember, discipline in maintaining a healthy lifestyle not only improves your physical appearance but also enhances your mental resilience and self-discipline. These are foundational qualities that contribute to a greater sense of life satisfaction and fulfillment.

Pro Tip: Set realistic fitness goals and track your progress. Celebrate small victories along the way to stay motivated and recognize how far you’ve come.

5. Cultivate Self-Acceptance and Reject Self-Pity

Finally, the ultimate goal is to cultivate a mindset of self-acceptance and reject any form of self-pity. Pity is a toxic emotion that disempowers you and feeds into a cycle of negativity. Recognize that your worth is intrinsic and not solely dependent on external validation or appearance.

Understand that you have the power to transform your life through consistent effort and self-belief. Your value is not determined by how you look or by the opinions of others, but by your inherent qualities and the actions you take to improve yourself. Embrace the fact that you are wonderfully made, unique, and deserving of love and success.

Pro Tip: Practice gratitude daily by acknowledging your strengths and achievements. Keep a journal where you write down three things you are grateful for each day. This practice will shift your focus from self-criticism to self-appreciation.

Remember that the journey to a positive self-concept is ongoing and requires patience and commitment. As you embark on this path, know that you are not alone and that every step you take towards self-improvement brings you closer to becoming the best version of yourself. Keep your head up, stay true to your values, and be proud of the person you are becoming.

You are not lesser than anybody else; you are wonderfully made, and you should be glad to be who you are.

[drgnflyteabox]

I love making collages and vision boards for original stories

plus it feels like I'm being productive even though I'm not even writing