#i fucking hate gender lmao

[xamaxenta]

Suddenly feeling incredibly dysphoric in this chilis tonight

[marshmellowtea]

i desperately need people to realize there's a difference between "women need to coddle (cis) men's feelings even when they're being misogynistic uwu" and "we shouldn't tolerate misogyny but actively keeping men separate from women and treating them like they're inherently dangerous to women is only going to worsen the problem (and also this mindset causes IMMEASURABLE harm to nonbinary, trans, and intersex people, who are already incredibly at risk right now)" and i need people to realize that NOW

[yardsards]

im like the lorax when it comes to women's body hair. we should let it grow.

[disguisedcheezed]

it's so funny to me when people just believe that john is straight because he said "i'm not a homosexual" once because

1. you are believing the words of a 13 yr old who was 12 the day before.

2. people forget that he's 13 when he said that, and that he is not old enough for a proper romantic relationship.

3. john egbert doesn't think. in fact, he'd rather not AT ALL. like. EVER.

4. why would he think about ever liking a girl? can't he just say it out right if he does?

also, this part in a nutshell:

karkat: DO YOU WANNA BE IN A RELATIONSHI-

john: i am not a homosexual. 👍

5. god king of repression had you fooled FOOL.

and the most ironic part is that it's the same shit homophobic parents say like "yeah, but when you were 13 you said you liked girls soooo"

[storygremlin]

I have just discovered the offensive reality of straight people A/B/O through Bridgerton fanfics—truly a misogynistic patriarchal reinforcement of gender stereotypes that horrifies me to my soul.

Straight people should not have access to this trope, they have no concept of how to use it. Like, if you’re determined to do a “family legacy” thing for the Bridgertons, they’re all horny Omegas looking for love.

However, if we’re being more INTERESTING with it:

Simon/Daphne should be Beta/Omega, and you could use Simon being a Beta to play into his daddy issues.

Kate/Anthony is Alpha/Alpha, anyone who tries to make Kate an Omega is out of their fucking minds. Also, that is a woman who wants to fuck her husband, let’s be so for real.

Penelope/Colin would be the actual Alpha/Omega dynamic but Pen is obviously the Alpha. Colin wants to be good for her SO BAD. I don’t make the rules. (Except I DO and I’M RIGHT).

John/Francesca are a couple of autistic Betas who just want the crazy Alphas and Omegas to leave them out of their messy drama so they can be quiet nerds together.

As for Eloise and Benedict, there’s a few options.

Eloise as an Alpha or Omega can be used to explore how that effects her as a woman in 19th century regency who feels like she SHOULD be able to do the same things as her brothers but is restricted either bc she’s a girl (Alpha) or bc she’s an Omega, and how that’s affected by her internalized misogyny (against omega girls for example). Could also contribute to her and Pen’s friendship dynamics—if she’s an Alpha, as a bonding point for not quite fitting, but if she’s an Omega you can make it a like she thinks Pen being an Alpha is cool/is envious of her.

Benedict I feel like you could argue for any secondary gender and make it interesting, cause that’s the kind of character he is. But I think most interesting would be making him a Beta to really play into the way he’s trying to find his place without having a set role in his family.

Have I put way to much thought into this? No, I literally came up with this as soon as I thought about it, it’s so easy and way more interesting than “the boys are alphas and the girls are good little omegas bc i hate queer people and prefer to write boring uninteresting worlds and dynamics and fetishize terrible gender stereotypes”.

The only way ur allowed to use A/B/O for het couples is if ur messing with the secondary gender shit. Otherwise it just feels inherently misogynistic and homo-and-transphobic to me.

[bawltongue]

green

[rockwgooglyeyes]

Obsessed with people who pine so much after the object of their affections that their desire becomes an ugly thing, festering within them. A longing that becomes violent, not against the subject of the love but instead the person who loves, a sword in the gut, a knife in the back from that which they trust most- themself. Yearners who don't hate the fact that they're in love but nonetheless loathe themselves for loving at all and being unable to act, for holding this thing in their chest and letting it destroy them. Yearners who view their own love as a virus that infects them, a cancer growing inside of them, and yet they are unwilling to remove it. They would rather keep it behind their teeth, hidden by their lips, than utter it aloud and yet it destroys them with every second they let it go unspoken.

[marshemillow]

you're a self-hating miserable homophobic woman who's ready to throw all lesbians under the bus and make us even more vulnerable to 'corrective' r*pe attempts by vile lesbian-fetishizing het males by claiming they can 'identify' into lesbianism despite being male heterosexuals - the literal opposite of lesbians aka female homosexuals. you're doing a great job peaking any self-respecting homosexual, hell even empathetic bisexual into realizing how your transhet anti-scientific brainless rhetoric is the most dangerous fake progressive aggressive homophobia. I was one of the biggest trans supporters in my circle a few years ago but thankfully I don't have worms for brains so I realized your conversion ideology is antithetical to gay liberation. in a few years no gay person would will support you mentally ill homophobes, thanks I guess for helping more people see the light

Gender essentialism is poison and it will rot your brain. How am I the homophobe for showing compassion to queer men? Do you know how many queer men are killed in hate crimes every year, especially black and disabled men? Why do they get locked out of spaces that could help them just because you're uncomfortable with them?

If you seriously can't see how bigoted this ask is, how hateful it comes across to someone who feels alienated by "men dni" bullshit because of my supreme butchness, then idk how to help you. You need to do some serious self-reflection on why you think women are always safe and men are always dangerous and why you think intersex people are fake and undeserving of support. Would you trust a racist female karen over a black man? Would you spit in the face of a lesbian rape survivor because she said her rapist was a woman? If you saw a cis woman with a beard due to Hirsutism, would you scream and throw up and tell her to get lost, even though going home could be a death sentence?

I think I know.

NOW BEGONE, TERF!!! ✨✨✨

[ciderjacks]

The JD vs Amber Heard stuff was actually insane. I didn't keep up with it because I disagreed with the sheer principle of publicizing something like *that* but the misogyny was MASK OFF...

NO LIKE FRL IT WAS SO INSANE

[caffeinatedopossum]

I'm experiencing symptoms of the mental illness known as Been Awake Too Long

[buttercup-barf]

Under the cut are mostly self-insert doodles of decreasing quality. Again, not much directly tied to Team Fortress 2. Might as well toss these out while I have no access to my puter. Much yapping under the cut and in the tags incoming.

Another self-insert, this time less of a "here's me as a tenth class" and more of a "here's my game experiences translated into the class I would take the place of". The Cleaner. Although I guess they could still be wearing either suit. It doesn't matter that much.

That one Convict's Case taunt with Backup would be extremely funny, because the man would be on the verge of a breakdown (he does not want to go to jail so bad you have no idea). The second image- I owe no explanation. You know what I am. You see the pattern with my favourites.

The duality of the man. Resting face versus "just heard you express interest in religion/Russian folklore" face. He's not that hard to make friends with, when you pull him away from all the explosions.

Some doodles of trying to figure his face out. Unfortunately, the more I stare at him, the more I worry that he looks like A Certain Guy With The Last Name "Kazarin", and the fear of never being original in my life caught up to me.

Don't look at me, don't perceive me, I refuse to explain any of my actions to you.

[paging-possum]

3.5 hours of sleep does crazy things to ones brain and by that I mean. Murderbot gender thoughts

[squuote]

saying I ship them is not enough, I need to carefully and intricately explain exactly how their dynamic works and what they mean to each other and how they rely on the other in a detailed fashion that encapsulates exactly how their relationship effects me as a person. I need to put their relationship in a way that is more than just ‘I think they should kiss’ because kissing is gross and I think they should fight each other and fight for each other instead as an act of love. And because there’s so many ways to love, defining it through only a small selection of actions does it no justice. I need to explain the ways they care for the other, especially the parts that are never spoken. The intricacies of love as a concept that aren’t bound to a simple romance will be spilled once I get my damn hands on it

[one-time-i-jumped-off-a-cliff]

[radelenagreco]

it sucks so bad to see intelligent women talk about transmisogyny

[zzzzzzepis]

Genuinely mindboggling to see "x queer identity isn't oppressed" every six months for some new fucking group. I don't give a fuck about it they're all fucking queer and need support from a community that doesn't police them for having a confusing or complex identity. I think that some of you are like mentally puritan catholic schoolteachers masquerading as tumblrinas. Kill the cop in your brain or you're not welcome at pride either lol!