#hard limits

[celestialdollsworld]

Plz read this before DMing me.

Hi am Celeste! I’m a transgender woman. Pronouns she/her/they/them. I’ve been transitioning for 6 years now. I’ve been involved in and constantly educating myself on bdsm for 5 years now. I’m a gothic bimbo! If it’s not pink and/or black I don’t want it.. I’ve been into bimofication for just as long as I’ve been transitioning but I’ve just recently like completely embrace and accept my bimbofication.

How I describe myself.

Gothic bimbo, egirl gamer, D.I.D system, autistic,

Poly, Pan, grey, queer, transfem, sub

Am 28 from Oregon

Single, but not an easy get. If u want me u better work for me. not one to fuck with. DM’s open atm 🥰

Really important part about me is my D.I.D. It stands for dissociative identity disorder. It basically means I’ve experienced so much trauma that my brain tends to literally slit creating multiple personalities/Alters. This personalities/alters are really people with their own stories and lived experiences. We can control switches (switches-switching between personalities/alters) sometimes but often I can’t control them and I even faint n black out for awhile. I also have extreme memory issues. For the most part we all (everyone in my system) have decided to try to work together to help communicate so we don’t loss so many memories but it’s not perfect. For protection of my system I don’t share names of alters with just about anyone. We also mainly live as a singlet (someone with one personality). That’s how we like it for now so just call me Celeste. If u want or need more into on D.I.D.. please research it yourself. Don’t force me to educate u on it..

Main kinks/fetishes

-Hypnosis

-Submissive

-Bimbofication

-Dumbifaction

-Dollifaction

-Feminization

-Sugar baby

-Smoking

-IQ play

-Bondage

- Biting

-Spancking

-CNC

-Safewords

-Praise

-Humiliation

-Blindfolds

-Public play

-Video game play

-Honestly

Other sub kinks I’m into.

-Baby play

-Pet play

-Cow play

Hard limits

-Piss or poop or vomit play

-Blood play

-Pedophilia

-misogyny 

-Fairarms/most weapon play

-Nonconsented grape

-No messing with my eyes

-alcohol

-nonconsensual drugging me or friends 

-Chasity (tired it before n had bad experience. Definitely my preference.)

-Cheating on your partner with me.(I won’t be ur secret. I live honestly.)

-No long term injuring to my mind an/or body that I haven’t concentrated to before hand.

-I reserve the right to add to my no list at anytime. If I feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Am out.

Hope u enjoy watching my journey to become the bimbo I’ve always known I was. I just like forget! 🤭 tehe 🥰

Am not seeking out anything more then friendship but I’m open to other types of relationships. 😜 I’m poly after all. I enjoy spending the love around while staying honest with partners about any other partners.

DM me if I wanna me friends or possible something more..? 🤷‍♀️ we’ll see how things go! 🥰🫶🏻😘

[callistoscollection]

Hard vs soft limits

Hard and soft limits are crucial concepts in BDSM, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and consent. Your limits can change with time and may be different depending on who you are with. Here's a breakdown:

Soft Limits

Soft Limits can be activities you only do when a certain level of trust is built, with someone with experience or activities you don't enjoy and wouldn't normally do but will do if your partner wants to.

- Negotiable: These are preferences or things you might be willing to try under certain conditions.

- Example: You might enjoy light spanking but have a soft limit against being hit with a certain object.

Hard Limits

Hard limits can be anything, even things others would consider tame.

- Unbreakable boundaries: These are things you absolutely will not engage in, under any circumstance.

- Non-negotiable: They reflect your personal values, safety concerns, or strong aversions.

“No limits”

You should always be cautious around people who claims to have no limits. People with “no limits” are often new to the BDSM scene, fantasists with little to no actual BDSM experience or uninformed about what limits are.

- Lack of Experience: Newcomers to BDSM may be unaware of their own limits.

- Fantasies vs. Reality: BDSM often involves exploring desires and boundaries in a safe and controlled environment. People who claim "no limits" might be operating solely on fantasies, neglecting the importance of consent, safety and ethical play.

- Potential for Harm: Someone without limits might be more likely to push boundaries, disregard safety measures, or engage in activities that could cause harm.

- Misunderstanding Consent: True consent in BDSM means understanding the potential risks and consequences of any activity. Someone claiming "no limits" may not be fully informed or capable of giving informed consent.

[ezgee-badally]

-PINNED POST- (This entire Post is OOC)

-PLEASE READ WHOLE POST BEFORE INTERACTING-

18+ NSFW

MINORS GTFO

Actual Real-Life Homophobes, Transphobes, Racists, Rapists and Misogynists Fuck off and die! This is fantasy only. I’ll find out who you are and block you.

Asks are welcome from anyone. If you’re a curious Dom looking for tips or a Sub who wants to have some kinky interactions but want to stay anon, anyone with pussy is welcome for kink interactions too regardless of gender. Read more about my boundaries and limits below before submitting any questions or you may be ignored.

28 Cis Male, Canadian, Dom

GENERAL TRIGGER WARNINGS: I regularly include in my stories kinky and MADE UP/NOT REAL/ FANTASY depictions of Sexual Assault, Misogyny, Homophobia, Verbal abuse and Physical abuse. I add specific trigger warnings to my individual stories. If you feel triggered by something you read and I forgot to put in a warning please DM me and let me know.

I call myself straight but My sexuality is that I like pussy and I’m not really picky about whether the person who has it is a man or a woman. I do like Tits but also don’t care if you’re flat. Really, I have no set “Type” I like both femme and masc presenting people. Tomboys are just as hot to me as girls in cute dresses or tight outfits as an example.

My Boundaries are firm with strangers, I understand if you make mistakes or misread the pinned post but you get 1 warning before I block. Friends and Mutuals I’m a bit more forgiving with. But will still block if they push too far.

This blog just gives me a place to get shit out of my system. I volunteer a lot of my free time to support 2SLQBTQIA+ spaces and programs, but there’s been some internalized misogyny that has come up that I’m trying to deal with in a healthy way so it doesn’t get in the way of my volunteer work. Part dealing with that includes this blog.

I don’t have a crazy sexual history it’s just very diverse and I’ve experienced a variety of things. I’ve played out some Dykebreaking scenes a few times with consenting adults IRL it’s intense and takes planning and it is very draining but intensely hot and rewarding. I’m into more than just into Orientation play but that’s mostly what this blog will be.

I like writing, and I sext a lot. So this kink blog thing was just a natural extension of that.

NOW FOR THE IMPORTANT SHIT!

✅Into Roleplay, CNC, Orientation Play (Dykebreaking, Misgendering, and occasional Acebreaking), Humiliation, Cuckolding other men and/or Cuckquean, Abduction, Anon kink, Public Sex, Drugged/Intoxicated, sometimes Hypno is fun, Breath Play, light Impact play (No tools), Light Bondage and occasionally Anal. Very hot when women/girls call me “Daddy” but I’m not seeking out a DD/LG dynamic or into age-play. I’m sure there’s more, will edit as things change.

⚠️Soft Limits (Things I’m not actively Into but will explore with a TRUSTED partner or TRUSTED mutual.) are… Somno, Foot Stuff, Heavy Impact Play (w/tools such as whips or paddles) Complex Rope Play (Needs practice), Object Insertion, Lactation, Kigurumi, Impregnation

🛑Hard Limits:

Forced Feeding, Scat, Piss Play, Snuff, permanent Injury/disfigurement, Infantilism, Haematomania, Knife Play (I’ll use a knife or scissors to cut off your clothes if you want just don’t ask me to cut you.)Furry Play, Necrophilia, Beastiality, and Age Play.

When I begin a post or DM with “OOC:”it means I’m talking “Out Of Character” as a human being outside of the fantasy.

When I begin a post with “IC” it means I’m talking “In Character” almost all my posts are In Character, you will only see me specify this if It is a post where I switch back and forth between OOC and IC and have to clarify.

Example:

OOC: Be safe, Practice Rack. Fuck homophobes.

IC: Dumb dyke whore. How does it feel cumming on your rapists cock?

I will only share Private messages/DM’s on my blog if it has been previously agreed between me and the person on the other end of the DM’s.

If you don’t tell me a specific safe-word when we start interacting we use the stoplight system by default. If you have a preferred safe word then tell me.

GREEN = Yes keep doing that

YELLOW = Take it easy or be careful.

RED = IM SAFEWORDING STOP RIGHT NOW

LAST OF ALL! BE SAFE!

Safety Tips:

- Subs, Learn boundaries from more experienced Sub’s so you can learn the difference between abuse and kink.

- New Subs should read “The New Bottoming Book”

- New Doms should read “The New Topping Book”

- Don’t doxx yourself for any reason.

- Stay anonymous online

- Be aware of the risks of sending pics and giving out your name.

- Practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

- If you are going to do something potentially dangerous then be aware of the potential dangers and put safeguards in place to minimize them.

[xanotherlostsoulx]

Would you ever write a Lawlight shoutacon fic?

Absolutely not (edited out the sorry!)

That's a hard pass for me there are a few things I will absolutely not write and they are:

1.) Shoutacon (because, you know, Peadophilia is just nasty and why on earth, even for fanfiction, would I want to subject myself to writing it?) I refuse to read it either 🤢

2.) Scat (I'm not kink shaming here) but, ew. Ecoli and infections and general grossness aside, not my cup of tea. 🤮

4.) A Ryuk/Light or Ryuk/L fic. I've tried this. I wrote 'Mine' and it had a Ryuk/L scene in it and it was an extremely difficult write I certainly wouldn't attempt again.

3.) TopL. It doesn't do it for me and I'm certain a solid 90% of the Lawlight fandom write BottomLight so I'm just going to stay where I am and do my thing 😄 (however I would totally write, and have written, a switching fic)

5.) Incest fics- Self explanatory. Incest is gross I'm not writing about that shit. 😬

So yeah...I stay clear of the above for my own sanity and self preservation. Anything else is fair game though 😊

[lands-of-misty-haven]

Let's get one thing straight in a world of crooked bullshit.

CNC (consensual non consent) does NOT cross the line of a HARD LIMIT. EVER. If someone says they're into CNC, it's not an invitation to cross their BOUNDARIES.

Don't get it fucking twisted.

[transfem-breeder]

How do you feel about using a puppygirls mouth as an ashtray :3

no no no no

That’s gross, sorry but that is way in the hell no of my hard limits along with blood, scat, vomit, and cutting.

[hazy-shades-of-fragments]

Okay, it seems I got some attention with my latest posts and a few people decided to interact with my blog and now I have to state some hard limits.

Well, at first: if you are a racial fetishist (and yes, BBC and NWBO count as it): GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BLOG.

I’m ok with sissies because I know there’s some transfems in the closet out there.

If your fantaisies include cubs, you’re not welcome here. ABDL practitioners are ok tho.

Don’t flirt with me out of nowhere, don’t ask me to trance you.

You can check my other limits in my bio.

I guess I forgot some stuff, I’ll edit this post later.

[southernbellelee]

Hey everyone!

I realize that I often get asked about my Hard Limits before a session (which is amazing!) but it doesn’t get asked about during a role play situation. That being said, I thought I would post a general list here! Things may not be removed from this list, however once I try more things, if I find I don’t like them, they may be added. I will update this list as time goes on if needed!

HARD LIMITS

No Breath Play

No Needle Play

No Weapons Play

No Fire Play

No use of any kind of drugs or alcohol. In other words, I must be sober at the time of play.

No spanking with a belt

No marks that won’t go away after a couple hours and none that can’t be hidden by clothing

No full head hoods

No use of the words “Bitch, Stupid, or Dumb” or any other words demeaning to my intelligence

I will NOT play without a Safeword. Ever!

[wildb1tch]

hard limits?

Online in messages I'm open to almost anything, I guess anything but like blood or vomit..or like bodily fluids of any kind except spit/cum, and ofcourse anything underage is off limits

But open minded to anything else I guess

[harryistheonlyoneforme]

hard limits

PLEASE READ BEFORE SENDING REQUESTS!!

i will not under any circumstances write about these things. asking for these things will result in an immediate blocking of your account

inc*st

necroph*lia

pedoph*lia

scat

noncon

beastiality (does wolfrry count as this? if so, oops)

raceplay

vomit

furryism (is that what it’s called?)

[daddyslilsubbybaby]

i am about to sob my eyes out 🤍

[alonewithwinnie]

hard limits?

Welllllll considering I’m a little too into most peoples’ hard limits (ie, stalking/kidnapping, intox, cnc/r@pe) I don’t really have a prepared list? Off the top of my head I would say Definitely Not to:

K!lling/Snvff

Vom!t

P!ss

If you have anything else specific in mind, you can just ask me!

[thesecretestsluts]

Didn't you say anal was a hard limit a little while back?

It is. When I was posting these older captions, I forgot that some of them were made from back when I was still experimenting. It is a hard limit irl, and any tasks that require using toys on myself will not include anal as an option. But fantasy can be a little more flexible. Also, that's why I put it in quotes.

But yes, in general, I don't like or do anal. If we could keep those asks to a minimum, it would be preferred. ☺️

[submissivefeminist]

What are your kinks? What are your hard limits?

I have way too many kinks to begin listing but if you follow me you should pick up on a few.

Hard limits include anything with minors, feederism, raceplay, WAM, food play of any kind, chemical play (nettles, figging, Tiger Balm, etc.), and forced role reversal (switching).

Send me dirty asks 💖

[t0ypupevergreen]

I added high impact/pain to my hard limits list. I used to be into it, but since my chronic pain is getting worse, I just can't really enjoy it anymore. Maybe one day I'll be able to get into it again, but for now, it's gonna have to be a no.

Light impact/pain is still fine, though. That includes spanking, biting, and gentle slapping. Not sure if paddles or other impact tools would be fine or not because I've never tried them, so I don't know what they'd feel like. Hair pulling is fine as long as it's very gentle and doesn't pull my head backwards at any point (I might have craniocervical instability).