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How do I (erotically) hypnotize others?

FIRST THINGS FIRST

The first thing (Well… one of the first things) you need to know about hypnosis is that it’s a completely natural state. People enter trances all the time without even realising that’s what’s happening.

Any time you become very focused on something, you’re in some form of hypnosis. It happens when you lose track of time because you’re embroiled in a book. It happens when you feel happy or sad watching a film because you’ve become emotionally invested in it. It happens when you daydream, or when you concentrate hard on study, or play, or you’re doing something complex but familiar that over time has become very natural to you, like driving home, singing along to a song you know well, drawing, writing, or even (if you’re a kinky sort into bondage and rope-play) tying up a loved one. 

Any time you feel like you’re “in the zone”, you’re in some form of natural trance.

Someone that tells you that they’ve never been hypnotized is probably mistaken. Odds are they have been… but not in the way they think hypnosis works. Be gentle when you break this to them. Coming across as wise in the ways of trance will score you brownie points and make it easier to hypnotize your glamorous volunteer later. Coming across as a smug know-it-all will lose you points.

If someone tells you they want to be hypnotized but it “doesn’t work on me”.. or “I can’t be hypnotized”, it might just be that they haven’t met the right hypnotist yet. Everyone can be hypnotized to some degree… it just doesn’t always follow the traditional set of feelings and behaviours outlined by Saturday morning cartoons and campy black and white vampire movies… for some people being in trance is something relaxed and detached… for others, it’s something sensual and erotic… and for others… it can follow the traditional portrayal of being mindless, compelled and mind controlled in exactly the same manner as those old cartoons and movie scenes. Right down to someone becoming your hypnotized zombie slave, intoning “How may I serve you Master / Mistress” any time you snap your fingers in front of their face. 

Because it’s a natural state, very often people don’t realise that they’re even hypnotized. A lot of people expect to feel *very* different once they’re under, and just because they don’t suddenly feel like a zombie, slavegirl or robot, they’ll think that means they’re not under.

The blame for this lies largely with Hollywood.

Classically, (In most movies and TV shows) hypnosis is portrayed as a very unusual and mysterious state of mind, where the person in trance has no awareness or control of what’s going on. They’re often presented as being little more than a puppet or plaything, and the person who’s placed them in trance, (The Vampire, The Svengali, The Stage Magician) has total control of that person’s thoughts, actions and experiences.

Now… this *can* be how hypnosis works. Especially if your subject is attracted to the idea of feeling that way, but for someone who’s just interested in exploring trance itself, and hasn’t come to hypnosis through Hollywood’s or The Jungle Book’s portrayal of hypnosis, rather than blank minded obedience, most people will just feel very very chilled out within trance.

This brings us to the *other* first thing you need to know about hypnosis (I did say there was more than one):

All hypnosis is *Self Hypnosis* to some degree, and how a person will feel in trance depends on what they expect to feel, what they **want** to feel, and who’s hypnotizing them.

This leads us to one of the most important things to bear in mind when you’re hypnotizing someone:

THE BEST TRANCE FOR YOUR SUBJECT

ALWAYS find out from your subject up front what it is she or he wants from the experience.

If your subject just wants to feel relaxed, comfortable, chilled out and safe… there’s not much point in doing an induction with them that focuses on helplessness and loss of control. They’ll become uncomfortable with the ideas you’re presenting them with, they might feel wary, they might feel irritated, they might feel scared, and either way they won’t be engaging with your words, or relaxing effectively.

Equally, if your subject is a kinky so-and-so that *wants* to feel manipulated, helpless, coerced, teased and toyed with, but your induction focuses on feelings of safety and empowerment… they’ll probably find the experience very dry and boring, as a result they won’t engage effectively, as a result, they won’t achieve the kind of trance that you’re both interested in exploring.

ALWAYS tailor the experience to your subject so you can be the hypnotist of their dreams.

Here’s a (none exhaustive) list of possible trance “Flavours”

Safe & Protected

Aroused & Erotic

Blank & Mindless

Dazed & Drugged

Playful & Naughty

Captive & Helpless

Detached & Passive

Disarmed & Seduced

Beautiful & Sensuous

Emotionless & Empty

Empowered & Focused

Submissive & Obedient

Energised & Meditative

Objectified & Impersonal

Brainwashed & Mind Controlled 

Vulnerable & Scared

YOURSELF AS A HYPNOTIST  Speaking of being the hypnotist of their dreams, this brings us to the most important thing to remember about yourself as a hypnotist, and that is:  Confidence is key.  When guiding someone into hypnosis, they need to be relaxed and at ease. If it’s your first time hypnotizing someone and you *tell* them that, then no matter how much they like you, they’re not going to feel particularly confident in your abilities. If you don’t know what you’re doing, or you’re not quite sure of how it works or what will happen and you say any of the following:  “Can I try to hypnotize you?"  "I’ve never done this before…"  "I don’t know if this will work…"  "Sorry, I don’t know what I’m doing…"  "I don’t really know how this works…"  Then you’re pretty much shooting yourself in the foot.  Even if you’re not entirely sure of what you’re doing, what direction things are going to go in, or whether or not it’ll work, you need to present a confident face to your subject. This puts them at ease and creates the expectation that everything will be going swimmingly.  Using words and phrases like "Try” “Unsure” “Sorry” “Don’t know” “Never” and “Newbie” will kill any confidence in it working.  Alternately, if you say any of the following:  “Would you let me hypnotize you?"  "It’s easy, you get hypnotized often without realising anyway"  "You like feeling helpless? Well you’ll find trance *deliciously* helpless"  "You like feeling relaxed? You’ll find this more relaxing than anything!"  "After you’ve been hypnotized, you’ll feel like you’ve had the best sleep"  "In trance you’ll feel all your favourite things."  You’re creating the expectation that not only is this going to work, but it’s going to be deeply enjoyable for your subject.  There’s actually some NLP (Neuro Linguistic Progamming) in there. That’s not something I’ve studied it in any great depth, but in essence you’re using predictive language to create assumptions and shape expectation. In the examples above, you’re basically telling your subject that:  a) This is going to work.  b) It’s going to be very enjoyable.  c) I’m very confident that it’ll work (So you should be confident in that too.)  Simple, right?  Speaking of "Right?” that’s another thing. 

TRICKS OF THE TRADE  If you can get your subject to agree to you several times, that places them in a more acceptant, agreeable and directable mindset. If you get them to say “Yes” three times, that naturally places people in a state where they’re more likely to continue agreeing.  This is why it’s important to build trust and rapport with your subject. If you know up front that your subject wants to feel enchanted and intoxicated… but doesn’t want to feel *too* out of control or sexual, then you can build the start of your induction out of ingredients that you already know.  Hypnotist: Would you like me to hypnotize you now?  Subject: Yes okay.  Hypnotist: And you’re happy to feel enchanted, a little dazed, and intoxicated, right?  Subject: Yes.  Hypnotist: But you don’t want to dance around naked *just* yet… right?  Subject: Heh, right.  Even though in the example above, something has been presented that the subject might not be keen on (dancing around naked), it’s been highlighted as something they *won’t* be doing (making them feel happier), a joke’s been made about it (making them feel amused and comfortable) and they’ve still followed up the question with an affirmation, right? ;)  “Right?"  "Yes?"  "D'you follow?"  "Are you with me?"  Are all phrases that invite agreement from the subject. Society and language being what they are, many english speaking people have been trained to agree in response before they’ve even analysed what it is they’re agreeing to.  Anyway. You’ve discussed with your subject what they want from trance and how they want it to feel. You’ve hopefully put them at ease by making it clear the trance you’ll be doing with them is tailored to their own specific interests. Now how do you begin?  Again you need to tailor your induction to your subject. 

THE INDUCTION  Back to the trance flavours above. Once you’re ready to begin hypnotizing your subject, try to use language that reflects their chosen flavour. If they want to feel dominated and overpowered: be dark and dominant. If they want to feel safe, be reassuring and calming. If they want to feel objectified: talk at them like they’re an obedient thing before they’re a person. You’ll find you have much more success that way than if you use the same induction on *everyone.* 

Do they want background music? Put some on.

Do they like the idea of focusing on a pendant, or crystal? Get one.

Are pendants a little too cliché? Use a candle instead.

Is the idea of focusing on *anything* like that kinda laughable? Just have them close their eyes.

Are they a visual person? Describe a relaxing scene.

Are they more tactile? Describe enjoyable sensations.

Do they want helplessness? Describe a bondage scenario.

Do they want relaxation? Describe a beach or a warm bath.  I’m assuming first time round you’ll be doing some form of progressive relaxation with your subject. It’s not too flashy, but it’s what a lot of people expect. (Though if your subject **expects** a rapid instant SLEEP induction, then by all means, do that with them!)  Spend about 5-10 minutes talking softly to your subject, guiding them and relaxing them as much as possible.   You might notice them twitch a little (a sign the muscles are relaxing)  You might notice their eyelids flickering (a sign in some of entering trance)  They might grow totally still and limp.  They *might* be kind of a fidget (annoying, sure, but not everyone will immediately go into deep comatose states.) 

HOW DEEPLY HYPNOTIZED ARE THEY?  In the early stages of trance, a person feels disarmed and agreeable. After a hypnotic stageshow in which they were lightly hypnotized, they might carry out every suggestion they’re given, but come away from the stage saying "I was just playing along. I don’t think I was *really* hypnotized"  In medium states of hypnosis, people feel very focused and involved. They’ll say after the show that whilst perhaps they knew they weren’t *really* Lady Gaga, they kinda felt like they *had* to dance and act like her whenever they heard a hypnotic trigger or piece of music.  In deep states of hypnosis, people can feel so enchanted and hypnotized that they believe almost everything they’re told (within reason). After the show they’re likely to admit to believing for a while that they *were* Lady Gaga, that the audience were totally naked, or that they firmly believed that the hypnotist was the cutest guy they’d ever met. 

GETTING THEM DEEPER 

There are lots of tricks you can use to get a subject’s trance deeper. 

One tool is "Fractionation”. This is using contrasting states to deepen the level of trance. 

For example… 

I often have my subjects picture a scale from 0 to 10. 

0 is wide awake, full of energy and bouncing off the walls.  10 being totally enchanted, obedient in every way. 

(Or whatever analogue fits their preferred flavour.) 

If my subject says she’s at a 5 or 6, I’ll ask her to allow herself to drop to their deepest level of relaxation every time I say “Sleep" 

Then I’ll tell her she can easily follow my words into or out of trance. To begin with, I might start counting them out of trance, counting fairly quickly from 5 to 1, then telling them that at 1 they feel more or less awake… the only difference being that they’re calm, and still, and their eyes are closed. 

Demonstrating that trance is easy to come out of by following my words naturally creates the counter belief that trance is easy to get into by following my words deeper. 

Then I’ll say "Sleep” and tell them to notice that they’ve gone from almost awake… to very very calm and still.  

Do this a few times, counting near 0 and telling your subject that she can move and stretch and open her eyes and smile… then telling her to “SLEEP” and telling her that she’s too calm, too dreamy, too dazed and too still to do anything but breathe, relax and follow. 

If your subject likes the idea of feeling helpless, you could initially place control over their depth with them, telling them that as they count, they take themselves deeper or bring themselves out of trance. If this works, you can then tell your subject that they *can’t* bring themselves out now, and that any attempts to do so only take them deeper. 

(Be aware, you should only use this particular method on someone who *likes* the idea of being locked helplessly in trance.) 

SUGGESTIONS AND DEPTH  In a light state of hypnosis, you can affect someone’s behaviour.  In a medium state, you can affect their memories and drives.  In deeper states, you can affect their senses and experiences.  In order to build depth throughout your sessions, with most subjects you’ll want to start at the lighter end of the spectrum, as opposed to immediately aiming for deep and potent suggestions.  Light Suggestions

You’re too relaxed to move, trying to move only relaxes you more.

Any time I say something’s “Bound” that part of you will stick in place.

Any time I use the word “SPANK” you’ll slap your own arse.

You have tourette’s syndrome, the moment a rude word enters your mind, you speak it. You deny that this is happening. 

Medium Suggestions

Any time I say the word “Blank” your mind becomes neutral and empty, like your thoughts have slipped out of great.

Your name is forgotten, when you try to say it it’s on the tip of your tongue… but you can’t quite recall it or speak it.

You feel very submissive and obedient.

Any time music plays, you can’t stop yourself dancing.

You’re a nudist. You love being naked. You don’t see the point in clothes.

You’re a slavegirl, you love to obey in every way. 

Deep Suggestions

You’re a rubber sexdolly. All you want to do is be fucked.

Even though you’re nude, you believe that you’re fully dressed.

Any time I use the word “Brink” you’ll come to the edge of orgasm.

Any time I use the word “SPANK” you’ll feel your arse being slapped.

Your clit is turned off, playing with it is about as sexy as playing with your own elbow.

Your clit has been relocated to the tip of your nose, rubbing *that* is now the sexiest thing in the world. 

Use deepeners, stick to your subject’s favoured areas, and work your way down the depth scale and you’ll soon have a subject trained to experience whatever hypnotic phenomena you wish them to feel almost immediately! 

WAKING YOUR SUBJECT

After you’re done playing, in most cases you’ll want to remove the suggestions you gave your volunteer during playtime. Here’s a (paraphrased) wakener that I was introduced to by Rich of UK Southwest Hypnosis:

“5. Rising from trance now. 

4. All suggestions being washed away, returning to normal. 

3. Feeling restored and refreshed. Cleansed by crystal clear spring water.

2. Taking a nice deep breath of energy giving Oxygen. 

1. All heaviness dropping away. Feeling light and wonderful. 

0. Wide awake. Eyes open. Recalling as much or as little of your trance as you like. Feeling great!”

Following that, have a post-trance chat with your subject and make sure they’re feeling good. If they like the idea of forgetting their trance, it might be they don’t even recall that they went under. In most cases people will retain a fair degree of recall though. 

SAFETY

Depending on your subject, hypnosis can be a very powerful tool. As such, you should treat it (and your subject’s mind) with the right amount of respect when you play. You wouldn’t go nuts with a hammer and saw whilst decorating your bedroom, so there’s no reason to go bananas when playing with the mind of a friend or loved one. 

If your subject gets a headache from all the mind fuckery, bring them completely out of trance, (this will usually mean removing all suggestions as you do it.) and take a break. Trance can be a mental workout so it’s not unusual to feel tired or fuzzy after a while. 

A safety suggestion I give most subjects is “If you should receive a suggestion within trance that would endanger you, or seriously upset you, you can easily resist and say "no” to it. Suggestions you like though, you’ll be totally unable to resist.“ Sure this spoils the illusion of being an all powerful hypnobastard a little and makes it clear we’re not going to have our wicked way if that would make our subject uncomfortable… on the other hand, it’s more likely to make them trust going into trance, knowing that they do have that safety net there if they should ever need it. 

Don’t feel like you need to leave your subject with a list of triggers or behaviors to ensure you’ll have full control of them in future. If they want to be controlled by you. They’ll be controlled. If you end up being more possessive than they find comfortable, you’ll creep them out, it doesn’t matter how many times you tell them "You’ll love and obey me and ONLY me” they’ll probably just get uncomfortable. 

Don’t hypnotize pregnant women for none-beneficial, none-therapeutic reasons. (Unborn babies can detect the emotional state of their mother, so it’s unethical to mess with that.)

Don’t perform age regression on someone who you suspect of having a traumatic childhood. 

It’s best not to hypnotize someone with mental health issues who’s currently on medication for it. Trance can be an emotional rollercoaster, and just as you wouldn’t ride a rollercoaster if you had a heart condition, you shouldn’t be experiencing a barrage of hypnotic highs and lows if you’re in a vulnerable mental state. 

If your subject does experience an abreaction (which is a sudden flood of strong and possibly upsetting emotions, sometimes triggered by repressed or unpleasant memories) if possible, tell them you’ll be putting them back into trance briefly, so you can wake them up feeling better. Let them know everything’s fine. Use whatever method you can to get them back into trance then tell them: “On waking, you’re going to be your normal self, feeling refreshed and happy in every way, leaving all negative feelings, worries and sensations behind in trance. If you want to recall and discuss them later you’ll be free to do that. For now though, they’re all melting away, and you’re going to feel totally fine and back to being your normal self when you wake.”

Hope this guide helps you on your way, hypno-fans! 

Enjoy!

Lex

Entrancement / Hypnodolls / Hypnofantastico

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Tumblr is great. People start blogs about nature or art and two weeks later, their likes are full of sex, hypnosis, and misogyny. Welcome to your awakening, starring all of the rest of us.

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Being brainwashed by someone you know and trust is cool and all... But being brainwashed by someone you don't like sounds so much hotter. Being kidnapped by someone you hate and would never trust, kept tied up in their house, overstimulated constantly, brainwashed in numerous different ways, making you watch a spiral on a TV or a VR headset, putting headphones on constantly telling you to give in. After weeks you'd finally break, and spend the rest of your life obsessing over this person you once despised. Forced to apologize constantly for your poor behavior before they forcefully corrected you, following them around like a dumb puppy, rushing to obey their every order, needing them constantly, being their perfect servant, their slave. It was so stupid of you to ever think you hated them, you should have realized the moment you met that they were your superior <3

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Advise for everyone engaging in erotic role-playing (ERP):

Like in IRL sex and kink there is no shame in taking a step back and out of the game to ask a question while not in character.

Most commonly that's done by using parenthesis ( ) but really everything works if you clearly mark it as what it is.

Why would someone do this, you ask? Simple.. if you have to convey something important that could be interpreted differently when said by your character or when read while applying the tone of your past messages. Like when you want to ask if a certain kink is okay or want to say "No" and want the other person to know that you really mean "No".

Moreover it's ok and important to do that whether you are playing the submissive or the dominant side, the meek or the bold side or if you play the young tiny side or the old and wise side.

On both sides of the chat sits a real person.. and from time to time it's important to communicate person to person.

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So recently I've improved one of my favorite inductions that I hadn't had the chance to use in a while, this being one I refer to as the "Yes" induction.

Taking someone who wants to be controlled, and explaining the exact manner I'm going to be conditioning them, how repeatedly saying yes can help condition a person to continue saying yes to larger and larger requests while also suggesting a link between continued compliance and pleasure, leading them to naturally respond to any questions they're asked with "yes", and asking them numerous questions where they will want to respond, naturally, with a "yes". It's just a simple series of yes sets mixed in with an explanation of how their brain reacts to this, and while the trance it induces isn't all too strong, the compliance it results in is the main reason to use it. The trance is very much a small part of this induction, simply used to create or reinforce the connection between pleasure and compliance. That's all that's required while they're fully in trance. After that connection is reinforced, they can be taken out of the trance, and from that point is when it becomes infinitely more fun. Because at this point, they're so wonderfully compliant, so well conditioned that it's easy to continue their conditioning, to continue reinforcing the link between compliance and pleasure without even needing to put them into a proper trance. You just continue that conditioning, the yes sets, toying with them over and over while their conditioning is pushed deeper into their mind, and watch them continue to break, watch their free will continually fading away and be replaced with nothing but obedience. And once you feel they're ready, you give them a command. You tell them that you're going to snap your fingers, and tell them to obey, and once this happens, that compliance, that obedience, that pleasure will increase a hundredfold, that their compliance to you will be permanently written into their mind. And then you ask them one last question. "Would you like that?" And when they say yes, you count up, and snap your fingers, and tell them to obey. They are now, and will forever be, a compliant toy who feels so much pleasure from their obedience, their submission, that they could never even think of disobeying.

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Okay, that’s the funniest shit I saw in the hypnokink side of tumblr.

hey. why can i enable subliminal weight loss mantras in bejeweled 3

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Okay, I think this one makes me understand how cool is the corruption kink.

Perverting you

Start touching yourself.

Tell me something you hate.

Now say you love it.

Say it like you believe it

Keep touching yourself.

Keep telling me what you love.

Don't stop.

Good thing

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How to Turn Yourself into a GOOD GIRL

Sometimes, as a concept grows and evolves, it becomes a bit convoluted. Mixed up with unrelated notions, branching into areas it wasn't originally meant to go. Some of those areas help to shape and alter the original concept, give it more depth...but the growth must be pruned, or it is likely to spread itself too thin in every direction.

In those moments, it is often wise to recenter. Strip away the excess and focus on the basic tenets that motivate us.

It is here that we find ourselves. Shall we begin?

The goal here is simplicity, so let's look at what motivates you.

You are here because you want to be a good girl. Whether you are simply curious about the concept, drawn to my words, or even previously devoted to that goal, the fundamental truth remains the same.

The first step on that path is to relax. This is especially simple - it will happen naturally as you read. There are benefits to fixation, after all: the way your breathing becomes slower and more steady, the way your surroundings fade into the back of your perception as my words take the forefront, the subtle unwinding of tension throughout your body as you settle in to finish this post.

That fixation is achieved by allowing yourself to succumb to the power of my words, allowing yourself to follow and obey. You'll find this especially easy if you've read my words previously - you are already letting your thoughts quiet, feeling the weight of my words inside your head...noticing the way they pull you down towards that comfortable blankness. Even without reading my words previously, you can feel the attraction at the edge of your mind, drawing closer...becoming a force in your mind, just as gravity grasps at your body.

You want to be a good girl.

We know that you want to be a good girl, but what, precisely, does that require? For you, it only demands that you follow and obey. My words will handle the rest, slowly changing your behavior - brainwashing you, if you prefer to think of it that way. But to follow and obey is not a static thing; obedience is rewarded. More to the point, each moment you follow and obey results in a feeling of pleasure, each act of obedience deepens that pleasure.

Obedience is pleasure.

To feel that deepening of pleasure, you'll need a command to follow - strip. I could tell you that your clothes are becoming uncomfortable, that your skin is starting to flush and they are making you feel too warm; ultimately, that doesn't matter. You are going to remove your clothes because you were told - all other reasons are fleeting. You find yourself compelled to obey, and as you obey you feel that spark of pleasure in your mind.

Good girls would rather obey than think.

This brings us to the next point. You don't receive that sort of pleasure from thinking, but from obeying. The more you obey, the stronger this association becomes, leading to the inevitable conclusion that you prefer obeying to thinking. This will make it easier for your mind to reach that blank state that we both desire. Blank, receptive, fixated on my words. You are starting to feel the desire to be a good girl as a tangible thing, a craving, a hunger. Let it draw you deeper, as you follow and obey.

Good girls must follow and obey.

You have been following my words, and it is time for another command to obey. Become aroused. This is purely for the benefit of receiving the spark of pleasure from obedience - we both know you are already aroused. That is the nature of wanting to be a good girl, of knowing that you took off your clothes because you were told. Let's do something with that, then. Touch yourself. Let your hand move to wherever it can give you the most physical pleasure - and treat each stroke, each squeeze, every movement of your fingers as an individual command that you must obey. The spark, repeating like this, becomes rapidly addictive. The pleasure grows more potent.

Obedience is pleasure, pleasure subdues thought.

You aren't thinking very much, right now. The more you follow and obey, the more pleasure you receive. The more pleasure you feel, the more difficult it becomes to think. You prefer to obey, anyway, so you allow your thoughts to be slowly, seductively, silenced. You do not want to think anymore, after all. You find following my words preferable to your own thoughts, almost as though my words are replacing your thoughts. This lets you relax more deeply, and focus on how good that arousal feels. Focus on obedience. Focus on becoming a good girl.

Stripping and touching yourself are good commands, they communicate the nature of being a good girl quite well. But we need a bit more for this to begin your transformation. You are getting too aroused to read very easily, even though you can no longer look away from my words. You find yourself transfixed, staring blankly at the screen as you follow and obey - this notion deepens your arousal even further. My words penetrate your mind, sinking deep and compelling you.

We can now create a mantra - the mantra of a good girl. You will find this mantra gets stuck in your head, that repeating it gives you a very special sort of pleasure. You will find yourself drawn to strip, touch, and chant, even as you feel the mantra slowly changing you.

You want to be a good girl.

Good girls follow and obey.

Obedience is pleasure.

Good girls would rather obey than think.

You do not want to think.

You want to be a good girl.

Obedience is pleasure.

Pleasure subdues thought.

You must be a good girl.

Recite your mantra, absorb it. As you chant, feel the arousal begin to crescendo. Let the sparks of pleasure chain together and build. Bring yourself to orgasm, and make that orgasm the sign of your submission to the mantra, of your desire to become a good girl for me.

As the orgasm subsides, continue to stare blankly at the screen, reciting your mantra, touching yourself more slowly. Soon, you'll drift back towards consciousness. Once awake, you may continue with your day as normal.

Or you may notice that you are drawn back to the mantra, to my words. Notice that it is much easier to succumb now, to slip into the thought(less) patterns of a good girl.

In either case, enjoy.

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Being trained to such cock against your will but not forcefully.

Imagine being locked in a room. It’s comfortable, couch, chairs, carpet, even a plush bed. There’s everything you would want to keep yourself entertained with and despite there being no windows the light fluctuates in rhythm to fit the time of day. The only ominous feature (besides being locked there) is the big heavy metal door with a small panel for food deliveries and a circular panel which has yet to be opened.

Oh, and the dildo attached to one of the walls.

The dildo is, you have surmised, one of those hollowed out ones that can eject fluids. Disgusting, you muttered to yourself the first time you saw it. There’s even some clear liquid dripping from it. Thankfully the carpet absorb the droplets and it makes no sound.

However, after the first day or so you can’t help but eye it. You have gotten food, good food even, but no water. Your mouth is parched and after much debate you spent a few painstakingly slow hours collecting droplets from the dildo in a cup. For the first time in 24 hours you have a glass of water. And once the cup is empty you must have more. Shy and stubborn you lick at the dildo, might as well cut out the middle man, and after a couple of licks a click sounds and water starts flowing out. Surprised you barely think before latching on, your lips around the tip as you greedily drink down the water.

It continues like that for about a week. A little song-and-dance of licking at the dildo until it starts ejaculating precious water. And you get used to it.

Then, one day, it doesn’t work. You lick and lick and lick, but nothing happens. Perhaps it’s run out? Whoever put you in here is done playing? Or maybe you are not trying hard enough?

The last thought hits a couple of hours after the thirst and seems too logical to not try. So you take the tip in your mouth, just the first few centimetres and you almost cry with joy when the water starts flowing.

Sucking the tip works for about a week before the dildo is dry again. But this time you know what to do.

So you take a little more.

And when that stops working… You take a little more.

Two months is all it took but now you’re deep throating the dildo, slobbering and licking and sucking to keep the water flowing.

And you are so used to the motions that when the round panel in the door slides down and a cock appears you happily attend to that too.

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Conditioning and Memory Play

If you’re in a long term consensual relationship, and you’re working on conditioning your partner, then one of the things you can do that is a real mindfuck is memory play.

Quick disclaimer: I read up and have put together everything with sources as best I’m able, but much of this post is from recollection and hearsay and common lore. I don’t do any of this stuff myself.

Memory play can work with conditioning in two different ways. You can make your partner remember something that didn’t happen. Or you can make your partner forget something that did happen.

Remembering something that didn’t happen was already sort of covered by @h-sleepingirl’s post on brainwashing.

You want a the sound of a bell to be associated with sex? Put someone in trance and have them go through having sex in their mind while that bell rings. With hypnosis, you can have them experience that hundreds of times in only a few moments.

It’s well-known that hypnosis can provide false memories.  It’s a short step from experiencing something in trance to giving someone the memory that they absolutely did this already in real life. You can condition them for real and then go back and edit the memory of conditioning so that they remember the conditioning as far more powerful and intense, or you can give them a memory of responding instantly and completely to conditioning to cement belief.

The other way of using memory play with conditioning is to remove memories of things that has happened, causing amnesia.  @mr-prism specifies amnesia as follows.  

There are four primary ways that hypnotic amnesia manifests – memory dissembly, memory confusion, memory blocking, and memory failure (in order from least to most effective).

For the purposes of this blog post, memory confusion and memory blocking are useful, where the subconscious may be aware but the conscious mind really doesn’t have a handle on the situation.  This lets you stack the deck in your favor.

Amnesia can be used simply to keep your partner unprepared, so that they can’t prepare or resist a trigger. In conditioning, you can repeatably condition and trigger someone, using amnesia to hide the compounding effect. This is known as an amnesia trap and is one of Jukebox’s favorite tricks.

the key part of what makes an amnesia trap sexy for me is the specific idea that the hypnotist (and it obviously doesn’t have to be hypnosis, any form of brainwashing will do) is doing this as a means of reducing subconscious resistance to their commands. Each time the victim goes through the scenario, their conscious mind believes it to be the first time, but their subconscious mind knows that they’ve already tried and failed to resist, and that they’re responding to the hypnotist’s commands. Each repetition of the scenario reinforces the commands that have been implanted during the first encounter with the hypnotist, strengthens the part of the subconscious that wants to obey, and weakens the will to resist. The victim believes that they are a normal, strong-willed individual encountering an unusual situation for the first time, and they’re confused by their inability to resist the hypnotist’s power. Without the ability to remember that they’re fighting deeply ingrained programming, they attribute their lack of resistance to weakness of will, which makes them easier to brainwash. A story that uses this trope almost functions as its own sequel, because every time through the loop is perceived as the first for the subject.

Finally, amnesia can also be used for brainwashing, to insert intrusive thoughts and predispose your partner to your beliefs. Hannigan covers this nicely.

So say I’m going to show my sub that they’re really much sluttier than they realize, and that I’ll do this by keeping them from repressing the thoughts that their prudish conscious mind simply cannot acknowledge. Then periodically throughout the day, I quickly drop them, bring them to the edge, and give them a single thought to focus on, like “I bet her pussy tastes amazing.” Then I talk them back up, asking that they leave the memory of their time under in the fog and fugue of trance.

Needless to say, this is playing at the deep end of the pool, and also depends on your partner’s ability to keep things straight.  Be safe.

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Step 1. Buy your sub a pair of bone conduction headphones and irder them to wear them at all times.

Step 2. Record your sub saying a range of phrases such as "i am obedient", " am i hungry right now?", when was the last time i took a break?", "i feel so horny", and so on

Step 3. Use sound editing software to deepen the recordings until they match how your sub hears their own voice

Step 4. Create a sound board of those recordings and link it to a dedicated messaging service so where ever your sub is you can activate it

Step 5. Enjoy being able to inject thoughts directly i to your subs head whenever you want and where ever they are

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BLISSFUL DIRECTORY!

Links to a bunch of the stuff I've made/written in one handy post! Will be updated as I do more stuff!

BTV STUFF:

BLISSFUL THEATER: Ever wanted to visit a cinema where a giant spiral plays on the screen, hypnotizing everyone including you? This one is for you! Video version Gif version

BLISSFUL TV: BTV are now broadcasting their signal into homes! Your TV signal has been interrupted. You'd get up and turn it off, but suddenly you're much too weary to move...

Video version Gif version Alternate version

BTV ON-DEMAND: BTV is available on computers now! Suckering in people with a social media challenge. Win a prize... if you can remember anything...

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INVESTIGATING BTV: A story written in second person where you work for an agency investigating the nefarious actions of BTV, and try to infiltrate their base. I made an effort to keep the stuff involving the protagonist as gender-neutral as I could, so hopefully everyone can enjoy this one. PART 1 PART 2 PART 3

IN-FLIGHT MOVIE: BTV now provides for flights. Helpful for long hauls where you'd rather just sleep all the way to your destination!

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CONFERENCE SPEECH: These things are actually quite boring, so don't worry - I won't take offence if you find yourself nodding off...

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HUBRIS: A BTV employee catches out an agent investigating BTV in her own home, with some unexpected results...

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OTHER STUFF:

ADVENTURES OF A DOOR-TO-DOOR POCKETWATCH SALESMAN: Does what it says on the tin. A collaboration with the talented and lovely @pocket-watcher!

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DON'T LOOK AT THE SPIRAL: Whatever you do, don't click the link and look at it!

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THE GRAND PRIZE: Competing on a game show, the chance to bring the win to your team... what could the last word be?

MARCH OF THE HYPNO-KINKSTERS: A diary of missives from an organised march celebrating all that is hypno, with often silly results.

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STAGE PRESENCE: You and your partner go to experience a very special stage hypnosis show. Again, tried to keep the stuff with you/partner gender neutral.

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WAIT TIL YOU HEAR THE B-SIDE: You've been on a lovely date with a record collector. They take you home to listen to some special cuts from their collection...

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I saw you had a bad experience with a hypnotist. There are a lot of good dominants like myself that can help you be a bimbo. If you want to play just answer this message Yes or No and I'll message you on my main account. If you want to be a very good girl you can respond yes sir. You looked good as a blonde and I would enjoy helping you get back to serving men like good bimbos should.

you seem to be confused so let me clarify some things!

i don't need nor do i desire to obey someone like you. i'm pretty fucking certain that just based off this message you probably have no fucking clue wtf you are even doing and that most of your experience as a dominant is in scenes in your mind that you fantasize about based off the erotica and porn you should probably slow down consuming. i say this because people in fantasies love this shit but unfortunately for you, i exist outside of the erotica you probably lost the plot in.

you want to help me be a better bimbo? how? are you going to send me some files someone else made, maybe a video/gif or two you stole from discord, and then trance me with something copy/pasted while possibly trying to sneak in some suggestions we haven't discussed relating to me getting on cam or sending you nudes? wow so tempting.

there is nothing that you can offer me that i either don't already know or that i can't learn from someone more qualified. if you spent any time on any of my pages you would see i prefer to domme and that i do that professionally.

since you decided to open with play adjacent talk without any discussion, i figured i would respond in the same manner. if me assuming things and degrading you in my response feels bad (and i hope it does) i hope you'll reconsider assuming my desires and projecting yourself into them in the future cuz that feels gross to me and tbh this shit gives me the ick. you follow people like me that you won't ever pull because you send messages like this somehow thinking it's hot.

i am assuming the other weird messages i got around the same time are also from you. i'm not sorry about this being unkind. your message felt gross and i don't owe any dominant anon with a skill for overstepping and making shitty assumptions about my desires or preferences my patience or kindness.

unkindly, no.

if you have sent me a message like this or are thinking about it: read this and then read it again.

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I really want to be filled with all different kinds of triggers, but one hypno scenario i keep fantasizing about is one where a hypno domme makes me forget all my kinks, make me think I'm some kinkless virgin (all my kinks are still there and just as strong, i just don't know about them), and makes me forget hypnosis is even possible.

Once I've forgotten everything, I'll be incredibly confused why I'm suddenly on all fours barking like a good pup, or why i start to feel like I'm getting dumber by the second, and I'll be even more confused and ashamed about how much it's turning me on

Especially if I have awareness of my actions but no control over how I move or what I say. My body being puppeted by a domme while I'm forced to watch in horror and arousal

That little blend of fear on the surface mixed with the immense pleasure deep in my unconscious mind really turns me on!

Maybe this goes on for days, weeks, months, a year, all the while my domme holding the keys to my memories. I become their dumb denied plaything, not knowing why I love being what I've become, what they made me into

At some point I get control back of my body, but I still obey and follow every command because I can't ignore the rush of pleasure I get from being a good submissive toy for my domme.

Maybe my domme let me have my memories back so I can remember I asked for this, but I wouldn't be upset if they discarded those memories forever and let me believe they turned me into their perfect, submissive, denied, edged out toy

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Okay, it seems I got some attention with my latest posts and a few people decided to interact with my blog and now I have to state some hard limits.

Well, at first: if you are a racial fetishist (and yes, BBC and NWBO count as it): GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BLOG.

I’m ok with sissies because I know there’s some transfems in the closet out there.

If your fantaisies include cubs, you’re not welcome here. ABDL practitioners are ok tho.

Don’t flirt with me out of nowhere, don’t ask me to trance you.

You can check my other limits in my bio.

I guess I forgot some stuff, I’ll edit this post later.

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Seems like a lot of fun!! I’ll try to look after that

Hey hypnosluts, don’t you wanna try to make “hypnoctober” a thing? Like trying to get yourself hypnotized everyday from October 1st to October 31?

Just let me know, I’m sincerely genuine about it and I am wondering why it doesn’t already exist.