#grayromantic culture is

[aro-culture-is]

Grey-ro culture is those moments of doubt you're aro or even queer, and then looking at your allo friends and no shade, but whatever I'm doing is not the same as that, even if I don't always understand myself

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[demi-romantics]

I’ve told multiple of my friends about what a squish is over the last couple days and both of them were really excited to learn what it means. So this is your sign to tell an allo about aromantic terms!

[aro-lesbian-culture-is]

Grayromantic femme4butch lesbian culture is hating the hey mamas stereotype bc it just seems like a way to unfairly demonize butches and mascs for liking casual sex, when feminine lesbians and ppl of other genders/orientations don't face the same degree of scrutiny for the exact same thing.

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[that-one-aroace-friend]

The first episode of my webcomic is on Tapas now. To say i rushed into it would be an understatement but whatever its fine. The art isn't amazing but I feel like the fact that it's about aroacespec highschoolers is all that matters. anyways I'm rambling but if you want to see the first episode I'd really appreciate it. Its very small, like very very small, but I already have more drawn up it just needs to be colored.

Tumblr wont let me add the link but it's called What is Love? on Tapas

[questioning-aspec-culture-is]

Questioning aspec culture is "Am I demiromantic and don't get outside enough and interact with ppl enough to get crushes that often" or "am I greyromantic but bc I'm aplatonic the crushes arn't on complete strangers or that it's just complete luck that I only had crushes on people that i know."

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[aspec-culture]

Aego-greyromantic culture is Love for Love by Love of Love.

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[beloved-cat-gremlin]

This post isn't meant to upset or attack anyone! Please keep that in mind when reading this.

I know I'm already on the chopping block alone for the fact that I'm talking about Hazbin Hotel in the first place.

And I know this kind of discussion has been done many times on Tumblr already. And yes this is about the very much talked about topic of "Alastor and him being AroAce".

Or at the very least Asexual (but it's kinda assumed from Rosie's joke that Aromantic is also hinted at).

Before I start I wanna say that it's totally OK if you ship Alastor out of good old fashion fun or because you wanna explore character and/or ship dynamics with him. And the same goes for people who ship him because they want to explore their own experiences or orientation through a fictional character. This especially goes for anyone who identifies as Graysexual and/or Grayromantic.

It's alright if you want to explore yourself through fictional characters. As long as it's done with the thought in mind that it's not meant to erase a character's actual and canon orientation.

However as an AroAce who doesn't experience any romantic and sexual attraction whatsoever it still feels kind of discerning that people are still trying to push the card of "well AroAce people can still love!"

Yes!

That is true!

But not for all of us!

And it felt so refreshing to finally have such a widely popular character -and a fan favorite at that- to be described as AroAce and very heavily implied to be on the romance- and sex-repulsed side.

And people throwing the argument "oh but him being the one character to be oriented as AroAce is harmful to the community. Cause it portrays us as loveless and evil beings who are incapable of love of any kind!" is such a dumb and sorry excuse.

Because Alastor in the show is very much capable of love, just not the romantic kind.

He and Rosie have one of the best portrayed friendships I've seen in a while. It's especially dear to me because people don't make their relationship to be that of a family one. Rosie and Al are just friends. Best friends. And that's that.

So to have the only (as of now known) AroAce character in the show be the one to actually have a very strong planotic friendship shows that he isn't a heartless monster.

All I'm asking is that if Alastor is going to be in fact fully confirmed AroAce within the show; please! Just let us, who don't feel any attraction both romantic and sexual, or us who are romance- and sex-repulsed AroAce people have a character of our own as well. Don't try to push it that "he can still love" just so you can erase AroAce culture and representation from media.

It's already hard enough in real life for many of us who identify as AroAce or any term that falls into the spectrum.

[chairteeth]

have u ever explained ur aro-ace hcs for tounemu

Hmm, I don't think I have. They're partially based off of my own experiences as an aroace lesbian as well as those of my partner and other members of the community, which I felt vibed with the characters. The headcanons vary depending on the fic/AU, but there's some general stuff I can easily share, I think. A lot of this is just gonna be vibes and what I believe fits the characters/is most interesting to play around with. Since this is a sexuality rant, fully expect me to talk about the characters beyond the scope of their ages in canon. In case it gets really long, have a readmore.

First, assume a lesbian layer under the aspec layer of the characters. So, let me try Touka first, because she's probably easier to talk about. I like to headcanon her as demiromantic specifically, because I just cannot see her getting crushes or falling for anyone she doesn't already have a significant emotional connection to, but she does seem like she would feel romantic attraction. Only in a very demi way, though. Very "over the course of years of having a close bond" type. She doesn't feel to me like she'd be interested in traditional romance in any way, shape, or form. Sexually, I'm... I'm so tempted to say demi sapiosexual you have no idea. That's because I feel like both Touka and Nemu (especially Touka) are attracted to high intellect, mind you. If I had to say, though, for Touka I'd classify her as a gray-ace. It feels right. I believe that she has this base, very mild relatively "constant" level of it, ssssorta like the allo way, but when she does feel strong sexual attraction, it hits her like a powerful and relatively sudden slap in the face and is only triggered by highly specific things. And also you have to know exactly how to work her, etc. I really, really think it's more about the mind games and stuff for her, that's what she's into. Same for Nemu, but I like doing something a tad different with Nemu, give me a second to rant.

I have many gripes about what people do with characters like Nemu, especially when it comes from people who are clearly ignorant or insufficiently educated on the aroace spectrum. See, Nemu has a very specific set of traits that often make people go "oh I see her as asexual" but attaching that headcanon to these specific traits when you don't even have a solid basis of what that even means grinds my gears pretty bad. Some of these traits are: quiet, glasses, bookworm/nerd, wheelchair user/physically disabled. Fandom culture around these kinds of characters is rancid. And whenever I've seen people write ace characters, it's one of two things: exotic allo or completely celibate. Which is just so far off from reality. The aspec is a lot more varied than people may think, and while being asexual does not equate to being celibate, that also doesn't mean that sexual experiences are the same for an ace person as they are for an allo person. You cannot simply say "oh they're ace but they enjoy sex" and then depict them acting exactly like an allo person, the approach is completely different. And then there is the camp that thinks ace = celibate. Some aces are celibate, some aren't. Don't even pretend libido isn't a completely separate thing too. So most of the time, it feels like internalized ableism, ignorance, the general assumption of "nerds don't fuck" (while this is the case for some, a majority of nerds are freaks) etc., and since it especially applies to female characters, also some level of internalized purity standards or something. Which absolutely maddens me.

Anyway, I see Nemu as grayromantic asexual. To elaborate a little, I feel like through her passion for literature and just how much poetry and how many books she must've read, Nemu feels some level of curiosity towards romance and approaches it from a pretty writerly perspective that would likely only ever work on another weirdo. It feels like she's more of an observer, but although rarely, she does feel romantic attraction, and in a relationship it's like a permanent little warmth in her chest. Not overwhelming, not loud, but like the tiniest ever-present flame of pure fondness. My ace interpretation of her, however, differs from others I have talked to. For example, my partner does understand my interpretation but sees her as gray-ace instead. Now, I see Nemu as completely asexual, but much like Touka, academically interested in the whole... everything surrounding sex and kink. My personal explanation for that one "people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, Touka" scene in Miyuri's MGS is actually just that, simply put, the girls probably have conversations about sex and kink/fetishes. Not in a sexual way, but in a curious, intellectually-driven way, and that curiosity is what may lead them into experimenting when they get older.

The most fun thing about my interpretation of ace Nemu, in my honest opinion, is how it combines with other traits, like her high libido (headcanon we derived from canon, there are words in the background of Nemu's henshin and they're all philosophical concepts or other relevant stuff except for the word libido, that's where that headcanon comes from and it's interesting, so we're keeping it), her being a Buddhist, or her sadism, or the funny kink we suspect her of having (if you know you know). This is something I tend to touch upon more in AUs by honing her trauma to specifically highlight the issues she already has. Ace + high libido is already a potentially fascinating combination of traits, but when you add the religion thing and the kink aspects born from trauma, not to mention the rest of the trauma? It's so incredibly crunchy to rotate in your brain and analyze and play around with.

I think both of them would enjoy planning outings and the like just because they like planning things and they love quality time. They'd probably be trying to one-up each other often, Touka would delight in finding ways to fluster Nemu I think, and same in reverse, but Nemu does tend to be more dramatic, so she might enjoy the occasional theatrics as part of their little ludus thing. Who am I kidding, Touka "let's explode in a cool pose!" Satomi is also dramatic. I mentioned in my love styles essay that I feel like physical touch is vitally important to them, because of sensory craving and having been touch/affection starved as kids (yk, in a hospital, particularly Nemu), so that is one part of why I think they'd enjoy physical affection, from handholding to sex. The intellectual aspect of the kink experience also feels important. You can explore so much fascinating stuff about a character through their sexuality (general usage of the word, not specifically referring to identities here), and it bugs me a little that most nsfw works I've seen (not necessarily TouNemu), particularly Eastern ones, are just... character assassination galore. From my point of view, I don't understand why you'd ever want to do that, but I can at least comprehend the concept of "this is meant to be fapping material and that's why it's like that". It's not what personally interests me about nsfw, so I tend to stay away from any that isn't produced by myself or recommended to me specifically by someone in the aspec who I trust.

To summarize:

Touka demiromantic gray-ace

Nemu grayromantic ace

Both dramatic enough to pull off romantic stunts for funsies

Both hungry enough for enrichment and/or horny enough to indulge at some point (probably their teens, maybe their 20s if they're stupid enough, I could easily see them sharing a house and possibly a bed for like ten years and acting every bit like a married couple without realizing- this includes sharing a bed because as per new canon info, Nemu requires a body pillow, and Touka is probably the perfect size to be hugged while sleeping), but not the way an allo person/couple would. Being the freaks they are though, you probably couldn't even tell they're aspec as an external observer

[simslegacy5083]

🎮In Detail: Luigi Lawbourne💚

I debated doing a side character but figured folks would be most interested in my main. He's still new enough to being the heir I thought it could be interesting!

[ PERSONAL]

Financial: wealthy / moderate/ poor / in poverty - or at least his family is!

Medical: fit/ moderate / sickly / disabled / disadvantaged / non applicable

Class or Caste: upper/ middle / working / unsure / other

Education: qualified / unqualified / studying / other

Criminal Record: yes, for major crimes / yes, for minor crimes / no / has committed crimes, but not caught yet/ yes, but charges were dismissed

[ FAMILY]

Children: had a child or children / has no children / wants children

Relationship with Family: close with sibling(s) / not close with sibling(s) / has no siblings/ sibling(s) is deceased

Affiliation: orphaned / adopted/ disowned/ raised by birth parent/ not applicable

[ TRAITS + TENDENCIES]

extroverted / introverted /in between

disorganized / organized/ in between

close minded / open-minded / in between

calm / anxious / in between

disagreeable / agreeable / in between

cautious/ reckless / in between

patient / impatient / in between

outspoken/ reserved / in between

leader / follower /in between

empathetic / vicious bastard / in between

optimistic / pessimistic / in between

traditional / modern / in between

hard-working/ lazy / in between

cultured / uncultured / in between / unknown

loyal / disloyal / unknown

faithful / unfaithful / unknown

[ BELIEFS ]

Faith: monotheist / polytheist / atheist/ agnostic

Belief in Ghosts or Spirits: yes / no / don’t know / don’t care

Belief in an Afterlife: yes / no / don’t know / don’t care

Belief in Reincarnation: yes / no / don’t know / don’t care

Belief in Aliens: yes/ no / don’t know / don’t care

Religious: orthodox / liberal / in between / not religious

Philosophical: yes / no

[ SEXUALITY & ROMANTIC INCLINATION ]

Sexuality: heterosexual / homosexual / bisexual / asexual / pansexual

Sex: sex repulsed / sex neutral / sex favorable / naive and clueless

Romance: romance repulsed / romance neutral / romance favorable / naïve and clueless / romance suspicious - specifically he identifies as grayromantic like his papa before him

Sexually: adventurous / experienced / naive / inexperienced / curious

Potential Sexual Partners: male / female / agender / other / none / all

Potential Romantic Partners: male / female / agender / other / none / all

[ ABILITIES ]

Combat Skills: excellent / good / moderate / poor / none

Literacy Skills: excellent/ good / moderate / poor / none

Artistic Skills: excellent / good/ moderate / poor / none

Technical Skills: excellent / good / moderate / poor/ none

[ HABITS ]

Drinking Alcohol: never / special occasions / sometimes/ frequently / alcoholic

Smoking: tried it / trying to quit / quit / never / rarely / sometimes / frequently / Chain-smoker

Recreational Drugs: never / quit / special occasions / sometimes / frequently / addict

Medicinal Drugs: never / no longer needs medication / some medication needed / frequently / to excess

Unhealthy Food: never / special occasions / sometimes / frequently / binge eater

Splurge Spending: never / sometimes / frequently / shopaholic

Gambling: never / rarely / sometimes / frequently / compulsive gambler

tagging @sharona-sims, @tedsies

[valkxrie]

Roleplaying Profile Meme:

PLEASE REPOST, DO NOT REBLOG!  Feel free to add to any of your answers!  The purpose is to tell your partners about the way you write!  For the multiple-choice ones, BOLD all that apply and, if you want, italicize if it’s a conditional answer!

– B A S I C S –

NAME:  Alex

ARE YOU OVER 18? Yes / No

IS YOUR MUSE? Yes / No

ARE YOU SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO YOU WRITE WITH ON THIS BLOG? No / Semi / Yes / Highly / Private

ARE YOU SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO YOU FOLLOW ON THIS BLOG? No / Semi / Yes / Highly / private

IF YOUR MUSE IS CANON, HOW MUCH DO YOU ADHERE TO CANON? Not at all / A little / Somewhat / Mostly / Strictly / OC

(there are a lot of myths/poems/stories about Brunnhilde, and they all vary - plus interpretations in modern culture. my character was born of multiple things)

WHAT POST LENGTHS DO YOU WRITE? One Liners / Single-Para / Multi-Para / Novella 

DO YOU USE ICONS AND/OR GIFS? No / Gifs /Icons/ Gifcons

DO YOU WRITE ON OTHER PLATFORMS? No / Yes

WHAT LEVEL OF PLOTS DO YOU WRITE? Unplotted / Open-Ended Plots / Semi-Plotted / Fully Plotted Epics

(i am open to general direction, seeing how it goes, full blown plots across extended timelines, little one-offs... etc. throw it at me).

HOW QUICKLY DO YOU USUALLY RESPOND TO THREADS? I am a Turtle on wheels /Slow / Fast  / Very Fast*

(i am usually quick to reply - within 24 hours if not less. however, there is no obligation to reply as quickly. take days. take weeks. take months - i only ask that you reply because you want to)

WHAT TYPES OF THEMES DO YOU LIKE? (feel free to add!) Fluff / Angst / Smut / Action / Tragedy / Domestic / Family / Conversational / Hurt-Comfort / Fantasy / Dark

(i will write most things. i am drawn to anything that contributes to the depth / texture / study of a character / relationship)

WHAT GENRES DO YOU LIKE? (feel free to add!) Fantasy / Supernatural / Science Fiction / Historical / Horror / Comedy / Romance / Drama / Action / Adventure / Espionage / Everything

ARE THERE ANY THEMES YOU’RE UNCOMFORTABLE WRITING ON YOUR BLOG? No / Yes  

DO YOU HAVE ANY TRIGGERS? HOW DO YOU REQUEST IT TAGGED? No/ Yes

(but i do try to tag anything that may trigger others - let me know if there is anything you need me to tag more specifically and i will)

– S H I P P I N G –

WHAT TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? Romantic / Platonic /Familial / Physical / Sexual / Enemies

WHAT TYPES OF PRE-ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? Romantic / Platonic / Familial / Physical / Sexual

DO YOU HAVE OTPS? No / Chemistry only / Yes

WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S SEXUAL ORIENTATION? - Heterosexual / Heteroflexible / Bisexual / Homoflexible / Homosexual / Pansexual / Demisexual / Asexual / Questioning

(verse dependent - human B is bi, valkyrie b is pan)

WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S ROMANTIC ORIENTATION? - Heteroromantic / Heteroflexible / Biromantic / Homoflexible / Homoromantic / Panromantic / Demiromantic / Grayromantic / Aromantic / Polyamorous / Questioning

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE WRITING SMUT? No / Selectively / Yes

ARE YOU AN EXCLUSIVE SHIPPER? No / Sometimes / Yes

DOES CRACK SHIPPING EVER HAPPEN? No /Sometimes / Yes

DOES CROSSOVER SHIPPING EVER HAPPEN? No / Yes / Depends

tagged by:// @kylo-wrecked

tagging:// you

[aro-culture-is]

Greyromantic culture is not realizing that you’re on the aro spectrum until you actually feel romantic attraction for the first time and realize that all the crushes you’ve had were not actually crushes at all

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[littlebirdy0301]

Realizing that I’m probably demiromantic made me understand a little more why some demi & grayromantic ppl identify as aro-spec. Like Ik that by definition they are aro-spec but me experiencing romantic attraction quite strongly, I always felt very far away from anything labeled aromantic even during the times I suspected being Demi or gray romantic. I’ve always had relationships start just naturally after being friends with someone I already knew for a bit, & that’s how all my previous relationships and romantic experiences started. But now I’ve stepped into Modern Western Dating Culture. And I still don’t really label myself “aro-spec” but I have gained a bit of an understanding of aro-spec experiences I think? Like I’ve started talking to people in online dating spaces & even if I vibe with someone I don’t have an urge to go out with them and I don’t really wanna flirt or anything. And after going out with someone who seemed like a great match on paper and really getting along with them, I didn’t fully understand why the idea of going out again seemed exhausting and not like something I wanted. even though I really did like them as a person! & it felt like I was playing the part of “person on date” thinking about what I was “supposed” to do to open myself up to romantic interest & experience without stopping to think if that’s what I wanted, & I was tired with how performative it felt. And left wondering why I didn’t feel how I thought I was supposed to feel after a good-on-paper date

& if I grew up with that version of dating instead of lucking out being able to date only people I had already grown comfortable with starting out as friends, I would probably find some sense of belonging in the aromantic community too

[lillianrs]

Hello Tumblr! ➶

I thought I'd make a proper introductory post since I want to start actively using my blogs more, rather than just being a lurker. Despite being on this site for YEARS I've never really interacted with other users. I wanna change that!

So, hi! My professional name is Lillian RS, but you can call me Max or Lian. I'm a queer writer who likes to write queer stories (of course). At the time of writing this, I'm currently 21. I identify as genderqueer and genderfluid, and use they/he/she pronouns. I'm a bi grayromantic graysexual, but LOVE fictional romance and sex (when it's done well). Just don't touch me IRL for the love of the gods.

My art blog @lillianrs-art

My photography blog: @lillianrs-pics

My book series / writing blog: @multimagical

My whump blog: @whumping-valentine

My YouTube channel: Lillian R.S.

This blog is my main blog, so I'll have a bunch of miscellaneous stuff on here. If you wanna hear about writing and my book series specifically, check out my Multimagical blog! If you wanna see some personal photography and all of my character art, you know which ones to follow. Below the cut are some facts about me (which may be edited in the future) 👇🏻

Name: Lillian (Lian) // Pronouns: They/He/She

Age: 22 // Birthday: November 7th

Height: 4'11 

INFP-T // Scorpio 

Genderqueer / Genderfluid

Bi Greyromantic Greysexual

Mildly disabled though still very much disabled

My favorite colors are navy blue and sea green! :D

My native language is English 🇺🇸 // I know a good amount of French (learning on pause) 🇨🇵 // Currently learning Japanese 🇯🇵 (because I'll be going to Japan with my brother!)

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Likes

Writing, Musicals, The Ocean, Pirates, Clowns and Jesters, Circus Vibes, Theater Vibes, Rain and wild weather, Language learning, Daydreaming, Music, Collecting sea shells, Traveling, Digital art, Watercolor, Cloudy days, Autumn and Halloween, Cats, Butterflies and Moths, The moon, Enemies to Lovers, Lovers TO Enemies! W H U M P !!

Tortured characters (see above), Short, frail characters with scars, glasses, freckles, red hair, dark circles, and buck teeth >>>> All of those are technically considered imperfections but God damn it I fucking LOVE imperfections then!! I'm a slut for anyone who has all of those features. Or any of them.

Dislikes 

Writing, Direct sunlight, Hot sunny days (though actually I'm coming to appreciate them recently!), My damn anxiety, My height (shortness is only good on OTHER people!!), Stink bugs, Cynical people, Cynical discourse, Drama, Cringe culture, Man I hate stink bugs.

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Favorite Media

Shows (Animated): My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic, Gravity Falls, Star vs. The Forces of Evil, Invader Zim, Helluva boss, Hazbin Hotel, The Amazing Digital Circus, Tangled the Series/Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure, The Owl House, Amphibia, She-ra Netflix reboot, Bojack Horseman, Avatar the Last Airbender, The Legend of Korra

Shows (Live-Action): Squid Game, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Hannibal

Movies: Coraline, Nimona, Wolfwalkers, Song of the Sea, How to Train your Dragon, Tangled

Games: The Sims 4, Minecraft, Little Nightmares Franchise, Fran Bow, Little Misfortune, Sally Face, Slay the Princess, Vampire Survivors (HELP), How Fish is Made (specifically for the parasite musical because that changed my brain chemistry)

Youtubers: Dan and Phil, Markiplier, Jacksepticeye, Drew Gooden, Brandon Rogers, Nick Crowley, James Turner, Kitboga

Bands: Twenty one pilots, My Chemical Romance, Get Scared, Of Monsters and Men, The Crane Wives, Mother Mother

I'm also just a general enjoyer of fairytales and old stories. I'll enjoy any kind of adaptation of Brothers Grimm fairytales, or adaptations of stories like Alice in Wonderland.

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[romo-aro-culture-is]

greyro/aroflux culture is having a crush-intensive period for a few years, then it just Vanishing and missing the feeling

(technically erasromantic but shhhhhhh)

totally fair!!

[epiceneandroid]

Sorry for digging up your post because I was looking for stuff in your futch tag for selfies for futch outfit inspo (im epicene pxngender pansexual grayromantic and sapphic leaning bc of the whole epicene pxngender things, bc epicene to me is having aspects of all genders while being your own gender apart to itself and pxngender is like being all AND none genders within your life experience and by default to me epicene and pxngender include womanhood, as well as futchness as a gender which i am definitely futch as a gender and feel most comfortable presenting on the futch to butch spectrum, usually most comfortable from futch to soft butch) because I too am a fat futch (I'm just not a trans lesbian bc...curse of the theyfab grayromantic pansexual) but instead of finding outfits I found this incredibly relatable post

For me I'm like if samwell tarly was a futch epicene pxngender xenogender (though to be fair CANON samwell, if he knew about xenogenders, would absolutely be a couple; from what little i know of a song of ice and fire because the book series' length intimidates me as someone whos longest book read for leisure as of recent was only 482 pages and I'm too scared to watch the tv series because admittedly the most graphic non-animated film ive seen in recent memory is kevin smith's tusk (which everyone should see as its an AMAZING critique on cringe culture and ableism through a villain protagonist asshole victim whos basically an ableist something awful podcaster who THEMATICALLY, connecting naziism to ableism and eugenics because even the barest amounts of research shows how ableist nazis were, named his podcast the Not-See Party, a homonym for the nazi party that he pronounces on PURPOSE in a german accent because kevin smith KNOWS the irony poisoned ableist something awful podcaster demographif SO FUCKING WELL) and the most graphic animated film ive ever recently seen was perfect blue which iirc is pretty tame compared to game of thrones but ANYWAY if samwell knew xenogenders existed hed be fairygender/faeriegender/faegender, mermaidgender, forestgender, bibliogender, lettragender, and a whole host of genders related to books, writing, linguistics, and the written word in general) androgyne (bc I'm feeling that as a gender lately) who got a lot of bitches AND one of said bitches was his canonical best friend he gets shipped a lot with on tumblr, John snow and the OTHER bitch was a hot butch nonbinary trans girl who uses they/she/fae

I don't know if I'm a blend of multiple characters aside from that (god I hope I'm not like danaerys considering she's basically the "I hope the next bomb is sent by a woman" drawing by Matt rife according to my gender apathetic they/it bestie who I've talked about game of thrones with) but I'm absolutely futch samwell tarly

...futch as a gender samwell tarly would be genuinely hot thank you for this mental image unintentionally

I'm like if Brienne of Tarth became a genderbent Robert Baratheon because while I'm a large knightly woman I'm also a fat depressed drunk dying in my bed saying "gods I was strong then" to myself (I am thinking of when I could stay up past 1am easily)

[funkyfruta]

I've been having allosexual thoughts

It is disturbing