#gay family... family full of gay people
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
ArrowFam + sexuality/gender headcanons... because i got bored.. Ollie- bisexual Dinah- bisexual( also trans) Hal- genderfluid Eddie- unlabelled( claims to be straight but has sucked dick WAYY too many times) Roy- bisexual Connor- gay and asexual Mia- lesbian Emi- trans and of course poly hard traveling heroes
#gay family... family full of gay people#dc#arrowfam#oliver queen#dinah lance#hal jordan#eddie fyers#roy harper#connor hawke#mia dearden#emiko queen#green arrow#uhhh#thats it i think#anyways gay people are real
87 notes
·
View notes
Text
Eddie Diaz is so “I get mean when I’m nervous like a bad dog” coded
#rip Eddie Diaz you would’ve loved Mitski#I beg you guys to go look up the lyric meanings in full to Cop Car cos you’ll get what I mean#even the “I’ve preemptively blocked all the exits’ about her ensuring she can stay in delusion#by shutting everyone out#and the references to death#and the past lovers#DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN#WHERE ARE MY MITSKI OBSESSED GAY PEOPLE GET OVER HERE#911#buddie#evan buckley#911 abc#eddie diaz#911 fox#evan buck buckley#911onfox#buckley diaz family
58 notes
·
View notes
Text
I've been thinking about how the Amell Warden and Hawke are related, and that house Trevelyan is technically distantly related to house Pavus, with a number of distant relations spread all across Thedas (Phillam, Lord Albrecht, Lady Osher...), and now I can't shake this feeling that I really, really want house Trevelyan to also be related to whatever the human Rook's last name is going to wind up being.
It just really tickles me to imagine my Inquisitor shrugging, like "Yeah, their family and us Trevelyans have about as much to do with one another as the Pavus and the Trevelyans. Or the Couslands and the Trevelyans. Or the Bayarts and the Trevelyans. The De Ghislain and the Trevelyans. Us Trevelyans have had fingers in a lot of metaphorical pies, so to speak."
(and then Dorian can have a cute moment, and say a little quip about how he's not surprised that his amatus comes from a long and prestigious line of heartbreakers, heyoooo)
#squirrel plays datv#oc: raymond trevelyan#oc: verbena mercar#i think it would be really funny if Ray's family was just full of complete and utter panty droppers#who have successfully fucked their way into every single family line of thedas#in a way that Ray himself; while handsome; is not even that remarkable#his brother is a tall and scrawny mage who looks a lot like their orlesian mother so he's kind of an outlier#his sister is pretty but severe and also looks a lot more like their mom#but his dad is a big burly salt-and-pepper gentleman whose younger son is his split image and he smells like hay and vetiver#and there's a portrait of grandpa trevelyan in the foyer that; yeah; looks like a man who has fucked and sucked his way across the marches#oh the inquisition's coffers are so bloody lucky that their inquisitor is gay#i reckon if he were interested in having sex with people who could get pregnant my dear boy would have been paying child support three ways#by the time he stumbled out of the Breach#actually let me just#dragon age#dorian pavus
14 notes
·
View notes
Text
Before otasune week ends I just want to take a moment to plug my playlist
#I just remembered it exists#otasune#snotacon#snake x otacon#mgs#metal gear solid#metal gear#solid snake#David#hal emmerich#they’re married but also have never confessed their feelings to each other#people who think that snake would be the one rejecting Otacon is obviously basing it off of their appearances only#like sorry to say but snake has definitely slept with and accepted his feelings for men#and Hal has not#Hal sleeps with women to try and keep his mind off the fact he has a full family with a man who he loves and is going to watch die#I personally hc his dads abuse had a lot of affect on his feeling of inferiority so being gay would be too weak for him#he’s like a ally who is totally cool with other gay people but freaks out when the label is pointed at him#despite literally having a husband#but I think snake knows and accepts it in his own way#never forgiving Hal for the Naomi thing though#snake looked absolutely devestated the entire time but when he rolls over to sleep on the couch when Hal leaves with her and the soft sad#romance music in the back??? crazy#and y’all don’t even want to hear about the depressing queer repression cycle parallel between him and his mom (Strangelove)#I’m so insane about them I need them to just be in their happy family and nothing bad ever happens#Spotify
14 notes
·
View notes
Text
wainwright is 100% doing this on purpose btw he Knows he's going to a wacky ass life filled planet alistair would Love to check out
#drawing this was anatomy practice sort of. turns out my anatomy SUX when using these uh#standard stick people guidelines art tutorials will tell you to use#but when i draw one random ass full guideline like. a head or arm and then other guidelines on top of that#then my anatomy is pog epic wow cool#crazy how that works#also it feels like every time i draw wainwright he gets a little fatter. Good#my post#borderlands#artstuff#wainwright jakobs#alistair hammerlock#wainlock#jakobs family values#<- as these are their jfv designs. i love gay marriage#bl3
36 notes
·
View notes
Text
idk since i made that post earlier i've just been thinking about all the ways adults were weird and shitty to me because i was gender-nonconforming as a kid. because i MIGHT grow up to be a lesbian or, worse, transgender. and how much it sucked to figure out my identity under those conditions -- where every adult i'd ever met had already figured out What I Was and hated me for it, and i had no idea. idk it's just sad. i'm sorry baby izzy went through that.
#like. i identified as a 'tomboy' until i was. fuckin. 14.#i had no clue i was gay or trans. i just knew people didn't like me because i wasn't Being A Girl The Right Way.#so when i started to realize i was actually gay and trans. it was doubly humiliating.#like. hey! yall were right! you got me! are you happy now! do you want a medal!#i mean. other kids were also weird and shitty to me for being gnc. but they didn't know any better.#there were so many full-grown adults though. who hated my fucking guts for it. especially friends' parents oh my god.#i had. MULTIPLE friends in elementary school whose parents deliberately sabotaged our friendship because they thought i was a bad influence#and i can promise you it wasn't because of anything i actually did wrong. i was a stellar student and extremely polite and well-behaved.#idk just sucks! just. sad.#i hope it's a little better for gnc kids now.#i'm sure it depends a lot on environment and specific families and their belief systems but. yeah. sighs.#izzy.txt
12 notes
·
View notes
Text
this is obviously a very premature feeling but like. i want them to keep oscar on the show and i want his scenes to be tolerable to watch and if they go full realism on consequences here i am not really sure what direction they could take it that i would be able to appreciate as an audience member for whom he is blorbo... if he like. loses his job and is ostracized i don't know how they could justify keeping him on the show in a way that is both narratively meaningful and something i am comfortable watching. he does not need to suffer extended social or material punishment.
would rather they somehow magically manage to keep the details in the immediate family and that dynamic changes but his conflict with the society in which he lives is more internal for him — e.g. having to mentally confront what Could have happened to him and his family if ada had not come to the rescue and the thought of that combined with the changed family dynamic/relationship being shameful enough on its own that it changes his mindset and behavior without like. actually ruining his life
but all the people who are like. i want him to lose his job i want George Russell to prevent him from ever working in banking again i want him to be impoverished and humiliated and suicidal etc... could not be me, sorry
#i think it would suck actually if the main gay character's life is ruined and he has a terrible reputation and is beyond social redemption.#because at that point why keep him on the show.#especially when a substantial subset of the audience is going to experience schadenfreude about it.#i do not want anyone fictional or otherwise to be feeling schadenfreude about oscar sorry!!!!#no schadenfreude allowed.#the gilded age spoilers#i literally will not be able to handle it if there's on screen gossip about the situation at all it will make me want to die#also like. the rest of the family does not deserve that either and i am not interested in literally any of this going full tragedy.#if it's problematic of me to want the protagonists of the show i watch to retain their rich people social standing and Not have to#abruptly change their lifestyle then like. sorry not sorry#also while i don't think it's out of character for oscar i think it could have been explained better for the folks at home if social media#is any indication.#& it's not a choice they Had to make either so i reserve the right to be grumpy about them making it if it goes in a direction i dislike.#i am pretty much already at my canonical whump and secondhand embarrassment limit here!
9 notes
·
View notes
Text
never in a million years I would've thought Paola e Chiara would appear on this blog
But it seems correct.
Have a playlist
#spritz is kicking in#not dragon age#tbh they're a guilty pleasure of mine and I'm 100% sure it's nostalgia talking#I remember sitting at a restaurant with my family back in the day at an um#a big adventure park in the north of the peninsula (gardaland)#a guy with a mic working at a local radio scoots by and asks me and my best friend for a song#I think it was a legit interview tho?#I wanted to ask for a song but my mouth was full of pasta so my friend goes 'festival by paola e chiara'#(or was it viva el amor? oh dear. both bangers tho)#and good thing she did that because I wanted to ask for nek I think? lmao#she grew up to be an idiot like#a licensed idiot#but that was a good deed and I owe her for that#also they're huge lgbtq+ icons << one of the few pop artists in the 90s saying that gays are people and not punchlines#u probably know paola because she was a judge on drag race italia season 3#che talento tbh#Spotify
2 notes
·
View notes
Text
Dont get me wrong I 110% agree and also partake in complaining about the morally questionable/straight up bad shit on ao3. But hearing people go "Ao3 doesnt deserve donation money/to stay up because of the bad stuff on it!!" is both headache-inducing and funny because
A nonzero amount of these complaints are people mad that there's sex on the sex fanfiction website, not even the bad shit.
Ao3 has extremely good filtering. As long as it's tagged, and up until recently it usually is, you can filter out anything as long as you take the two seconds to do so
You can just block authors who write that shit. I do.
Not to mention its funny when people say these complaints on Tumblr. Yknow, the website that blocks trans related tags for being too nsfw, allows nazis to repeatedly make blogs and keep coming back, buries the concept of blocking tags and content (you can do it though its in settings go do that), does nothing about the pornbots, and actively harvests and sells your data, and has shitty ads AND ALSO has pedophiles and other nasty sorts in here.
Yet you keep blogging here anyways. Hm. It's almost like you gotta curate your spaces no matter what website you're on. And it's almost like bad people exist everywhere even with policies in place.
#sorry i just saw the phrase 'its unethical that ao3 is getting 3x its goal during a war' and ao3 referred to as the p/do&in/est site#on the same page and saw red#Like. ao3 has flaws but so does tumblr. so does everything#its harder to enforce certain guidelines on an ARCHIVE bc of the nature of it being an archive#and the history of fanfiction in general where people use the 'nothing immoral' rule to enclude gay people. as well as just grimdark storie#and that is frustrating!!! I also despise it!!! and i also have gripes with certain fandoms that are weird about kids and/or families!!!#but that doesnt mean an entire site full of history and context and lots of legal work should be shot into the void for it.#esp with the amount of material that would be lost#ao3#fandom
7 notes
·
View notes
Text
#text posts by thea#thea plays hfw#😭😭😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭#i finished the dlc and omg i love them#so much#so freaking much#everything about the dlc is perfect btw#but THOSE TWO#i also kind of expected seyka to be the flirty one because usually it's other people flirting with aloy#but nope aloy goes full baby gay basically the second she meets her#it's so precious#so so precious#(also i love how far aloy has come from the first game#it's slow going but now looking back at the two games and two dlcs she's changed so much!#game 1 aloy would have never accepted and then asked for help from seyka#would have never accepted that she needs her found family <3#ahhhhh i love aloy so much)
9 notes
·
View notes
Text
It’s literally so cosmically unfair that the universe would give me a gay younger sister but made her not remotely interested in queer horror.
#ej.txt#she just! couldn’t care less! how!!!!!!#like sorry kid but ur GOING to hear about it#she just doesn’t care about queer media full stop#she watched gay tiktokers and that’s it#doesn’t care about queer music. or film. or books.#we’re only 5 years apart but she’s gotta be a different generation than me#our experience as queer people in the same family couldn’t be more different
6 notes
·
View notes
Text
Is it just me or are fandoms lately becoming more ship-negative? Esp if the canon portrays two characters as platonic - a few years ago it would have made a pretty popular ship and be all over tumblr and YouTube but now it's just? Not? And the fans/viewers are COMPLYING with canon??
?????
#what's going onnnn#this rant is brought to you by Buddy Daddies#the main dudes are literally the most unobjectionable ship I can think of#they're shown as friends#and they have a great friendship#and people on youtube are just.#making shorts about how it's not gay??#huh???#and all the amvs are single character focused or on the 3 of them as a family?#huhh????#not a single ship edit in sight#then I hop onto tumblr#and the tags are- again- full of gen content#literally the only sane place left is ao3#at least the fanfic ppl came thru#y'all this isn't even a quote unquote problematic ship#they're both adults and unrelated and whatnot#I'm watching it and they're v shippable but that's not a popular opinion which is v surprising#uh#lume talks
11 notes
·
View notes
Text
all animals look silly and pathetic when wet but cats are at the top of the scale
#once one of my childhood cats (saffron) fell completely into a sink full of water#luckily it wasn’t hot or full of soapy chemicals or anything just water#but he looked so small and sad when he was all wet fjfnfkf#and saffron was. A Big Cat. he was very long and large. probably a lil overweight when i think about it now#but when he was all wet he looked like. so tiny and pathetic. fat bastard (sad edition)#dove talks#i miss saffron…….. big orange fool……..#one of my mom’s friends took him and another cat from us when we couldn’t have 3 cats anymore#(my sister’s asthma was way too bad + my mom was pregnant)#i hope those two are still together they were very gay and attached to eachother.#saffron was mischief’s (my family’s cat) littermate and we adopted them the same day. siblings :)#also apparently one of my FIRST cats is still alive as of a few months ago!!!! scratchy my beloved…….#she’s like. 15+ by now? old…………#she was our first family pet that i got to have a say in#she’s a pretty grey tabby with green eyes and she was very silly. she HATED blinds with a passion#we also had one of her littermates#his name was max and he liked to chew on people’s hair. we do not know why he did this.#he was super attached to my mom and didn’t like my dad lmao#which is the opposite of mischief who thinks my dad is Her Husband#anyway that’s it for cat posts. time to sleep#snzzzzzz
2 notes
·
View notes
Text
With the Reddit 3rd party app crackdown and the ongoing horseshit Elon Musk is pulling with "X", I realize a lot of people here might be pretty new. So I put together a quick and easy guide for using Tumblr for anyone new who might need it.
Tumblr was made by David Karp and we call him Daddy around these parts (^///^)
You are not safe from fandom-gif attacks ( •̀ ω •́ )✧
Speaking of fandoms, the tumblr fandoms are always ready to grab their [object] and go to war against the Beliebers ╰(*°▽°*)╯
The only safe refuge from fandom tumblr is with hipster tumblr. If you can get a cool alt-girl to take you under her wing, you might be safe... for now (●'◡'●)
You will watch the first episode of Supernatural... and then you're part of the Winchester family. (Or if you skip right to season 4, we don't blame you. It's where Destiel starts (*/ω\*))
This is not a glomp-free zone ☆*: .。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆
Use missing e. It's the only way to make Tumblr useable on Internet Explorer (this is the most popular browser and you're probably using it right now) :-D
Our only adult-supervision is John Green... and even then does that REALLY count as supervision? DFTBA! φ(゜▽゜*)♪
Just this once, everyone lives. It's bigger on the inside. Elementary, my dear Watson.
If you see Misha Collins staring at you, the polite response is "Saving people, hunting things, the family business." O.O
I might lose followers for this, but this blog supports gay rights, and yours should too (14 gifs of Sherlock and The Hobbit)
Tumblr will teach you more about the world than you'll ever learn in school. ○( ^皿^)っ
Tread carefully... we have teh yaoiz O.o. Oh you don't know what that means? Well let's just say... it's full of lemons here.
If you see Hannibal Lector in a flower crown, tell him it looks very nice. His boyfriend Will Graham made it for him. (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)
Do not enter the dog park. The dog park will not harm you.
46K notes
·
View notes
Text
i wonder if im demiro or something
#im aromantic#so i dont know what kind of love i have for him and it kinda bugs me#im ok calling it “being in love” though#i thougt demiro was supposed to be in a much shorter timeframe#and not like ALMOST A DECADE#but maybe it depends on people#and maybe i was “in love” for a long time and it's only surfacing now#because at this point im a veteran of the “repress everything until relief comes and everything rushes back full force” pattern#happened to my tism#my trans#my gay#my shitty family life#ect#what i feel is probably more than typical romance tho#it feels deeper somehow
0 notes
Text
The nazis that you see in movies are as much a historical fantasy as vikings with horned helmets and samurai cutting people in half.
The nazis were not some vague evil that wanted to hurt people for the sake of hurting them. They had specific goals which furthered a far right agenda, and they wanted to do harm to very specific groups, (largely slavs, jews, Romani, queer people, communists/leftists, and disabled people.)
The nazis didn't use soldiers in creepy gas masks as their main imagery that they sold to the german people, they used blond haired blue eyed families. Nor did they stand up on podiums saying that would wage an endless and brutal war, they gave speeches about protecting white Christian society from degenerates just like how conservatives do today.
Nazis weren't atheists or pagans. They were deeply Christian and Christianity was part of their ideology just like it is for modern conservatives. They spoke at lengths about defending their Christian nation from godless leftism. The ones who hated the catholic church hated it for protestant reasons. Nazi occultism was fringe within the party and never expected to become mainstream, and those occultists were still Christian, none of them ever claimed to be Satanists or Asatru.
Nazis were also not queer or disabled. They killed those groups, before they had a chance to kill almost anyone else actually. Despite the amount of disabled nazis or queer/queer coded nazis you'll see in movies and on TV, in reality they were very cishet and very able bodied. There was one high ranking nazi early on who was gay and the other nazis killed him for that. Saying the nazis were gay or disabled makes about as much sense as saying they were Jewish.
The nazis weren't mentally ill. As previously mentioned they hated disabled people, and this unquestionably included anyone neurodivergent. When the surviving nazi war criminals were given psychological tests after the war, they were shown to be some of the most neurotypical people out there.
The nazis weren't socialists. Full stop. They hated socialists. They got elected on hating socialists. They killed socialists. Hating all forms of lefitsm was a big part of their ideology, and especially a big part of how they sold themselves.
The nazis were not the supervillians you see on screen, not because they didn't do horrible things in real life, they most certainly did, but because they weren't that vague apolitical evil that exists for white American action heros to fight. They did horrible things because they had a right wing authoritarian political ideology, an ideology that is fundamentally the same as what most of the modern right wing believes.
#196#my thougts#leftist#leftism#jewish#jumblr#actually mentally ill#mental illness#neurodivergent#actually neurodivergent#world war 2#world war ii#history#queer#gay#queer history#pagan#athiest#athiesm#disability rights#communist#communism#socialist#socialism#anti conservative#anti christianity#christanity#christianity#mad pride#madpunk
30K notes
·
View notes