#fuck tucutes

[d-parade]

Uhhhh I think people need to realise that someone can subconsciously believe they’re something and doesn’t have to be 100% intentional and conscious about it.

And to answer the question, because it’s already normalised to not have dysphoria so why would they want to go a step further?

Why the fuck would someone go through the trouble of pretending to be in immense pain.

[whereserpentswalk]

Hate to break it to you but a massive amount transphobes will be willing the accept a small minority of trans people who are 100% passing and gender conforming, if it means they have more legitimacy when they dissmiss the identities of the vast majority of trans people who don't pass or conform to that degree.

It's very easy to mask your transphobia by saying "you'll never be a woman because you still dress masc and don't wear makeup, you're just a male pervert trying to imvade real trans people's spaces", instead of the classic "you'll never be a woman because you're xy, you're just a male pervert trying to invade real women's spaces" even though they mean the exact same thing. Most "allies" will treat to former like a legitimate concern even if they'd dissmiss the latter as bigotry.

Transphobes will be willing to begrudgingly accept the balire whites and buck angels of the world if it means they can be bigoted agaisnt basically every trans person they encounter. For some Transphobes they legitimately do accept a few model trans people and that's how they justify transphobia to themselves, to others its just a ploy to convince moderates to join their side. Either way people can go far with convincing liberals and moderates of transphobia by carving out a small space for a few trans people.

That's why you can't ever be dismissive of those who pass less then you. Why our community can't just focus on people who've medically transitioned or who pass to some degree. Why we can't forget less conforming people within the community for the case of simplicity when we talk about our issues. It's why when a medically transitioned trans woman says "I'm biologically female because of estrogen" she's telling transmasc and afab enbies who aren't on T "and so are you" (not to mention the intersexism of acting like biologically female is a real and important category).

The line every transphobe who uses these tactics for what's a good trans person and what's a dangerous pervert is diffrent for every person using that method. They'll convince you that every trans person less privileged then you deserves transphobia, and it's up to you to say no. They wish to destroy our acceptance from the bottom up, starting with the least passing, least privileged trans people, and ending with the few who allied with them, the only defense against this is accepting every trans person, nomatter what.

[tampon-eater]

The thing with the whole “nondysphoric trans people are faking being trans because they think it’s trendy” is like. If they’re lying about being trans why wouldn’t they lie about having dysphoria. Like personally if I was going to fake something I wouldn’t half-ass it. “Hmm yeah okay I’ll pretend to be a different gender but pretending to have dysphoria feels just a little too dishonest you know?” Why not go the whole hog

[sirenium]

'You need dysphoria to be trans' motherfuckers when they realize the 'trender' they 'called out' for having xenogenders is a dysphoric trans person: erm actually you're still not trans cuz I don't understand you! >:(

[terminalmetaphor]

Transmeds don't know what the word "Dysphoria" means, so they just say being transgender it's like having terminal cancer....because it's easier for them.

Focus on the parts that says "PSYCHOLOGICAL DISTRESS" "SOME PEOPLE" and "NOT ALL PEOPLE WHO ARE TRANSGENDER WILL DESIRE ALL DOMAINS OF GENDER AFFIRMATION"

You guys are just dumb asf.

[tudirkulosis]

transmeds r like fucking genderscabs who went to work at the binaryfactory during the genderstrike because of how much they get off to perceived conservapproval. conservatives are never going to fucking like us. make people uncomfortable. fuck shit up. do crime, destroy capitalism, burn down the binaryfactory and have gay sex. identity isn't real, gender isn't real, sex isn't real, destroy the idea that queerness is something that we need to get an eventual stamp of approval on. i approve of queerness and you approve of queerness and that's all that fucking matters. lets kiss

[coolasstransgay]

lol tell me something i dont know

[lumalalu]

IM HERE AND IM TRANS!!!!!!!!! RARARRWSRF!!!!!!!

[labgrowndaddyissues]

You are so misguided it's actually really sad. I hope you learn to listen to facts and science before random individuals on the internet who have communities which spread countless amounts of misinformation

Is this a sysmed or a transmed. I cannot tell.

[d-parade]

please don’t be like this

useless warning mentions of violence

my original post for context (not at all vicious or rude, just me reacting mildly to a violent comment and explaining):

here are some comments she made. she blocked me, of course, not even giving me the time to respond before blocking to make it look like she has the upper hand. but luckily i have another tumblr account.

she’s not even a trans woman… if you were a trans man before that means you were female. how is it in any way transmisogyny if you’re not a trans woman?

and… we skipped right past transphobia and straight to transmisogyny? whew what a leap.

oh and there’s other comments too. she combed through my account. lucky.

ohhhh so we misgendering now? kinda hypocritical and ironic how you believe in a mindset of respecting everyone’s “identities” until it’s someone who you don’t agree with.

at least transmedicalists misgender because of how they define dysphoria. it’s not like they purposefully want to misgender (when they don’t even see them as trans in the first place) (like if it’s a binary tucute with dysphoria they use proper pronouns). not the same for tucutes apparently. they just do it because they believe they’re the good guys and misgendering is an act of justice against evil…

and funny enough this was my post directly below the one she commented on… which sums up my experience with her nicely. i’m sure she read it too.

i’m not saying this person represents all tucutes and inclusionists of course. like i said in the above pic, there’s genuinely nice people who come from a place of love. i just don’t agree with how their ideas work.

all in all, no matter who you are, what you are, do not respond with violence. and it’s not because i’m triggered or disturbed by it or anything. it’s just straight up immature. you’re also not at all open to discussion or even try to counter argue my points, just straight up “TERF RHETORIC” “TRANSMISOGNY” “KILL YOURSELF”

do you not find it embarrassing?

this is a reminder that your actions determine how someone else perceives the communities you’re in. while it’s impossible to control other’s perception of an entire community, change starts with you. just be a respectful person. no matter how much you hate the other party, maintain dignity. by doing that, you already won the war.

it’s not so much about “being a person you want others to respect”, but more of self respect. don’t ever reduce yourself to plain, mindless hate.

it’s not that hard. so just please don’t do this. you’re only hurting yourself, and the ideologies you represent.

[whereserpentswalk]

Most passing and binary trans woman on earth: "actually I am biologically female, a real category that both exists and matters, because hormones. So obviously transphobes should respect me and its factually wrong to be transphobic agaisnt me because I've somehow managed to transition into a cisgender person."

Anyone even slightly educated on the broader queer community: "What if, now hear me out, intersex women and afab enbies tormented you using demons and magic spells."

[xqueerneurosisx]

Full offense, and sorry not sorry, but if a person tells you that they have an experience, and then they give you a name for their experience uh that’s all you fucking need*. Just call it what they named it.

You aren’t saving anyone or anything by trying to pick apart and redefine, or outright deny the existence of the name- you think you know something better about, for not your experience to begin with. In fact, that’s called gaslighting. You are gaslighting a random person based on your own ignorance. And yes, it is ignorant, because you didn’t fucking learn a damn thing about an experience- that again isn’t yours, if you didn’t fucking listen to the person who initially described it. Cut that toxic shit out!!

*Yes, I still do mean within safety/good faith reason.

[chaos-in-one]

“If you aren’t dysphoric then you’re just choosing to be trans” Me, literally having first mentioned thinking I might be a gender other than my agab when I was 8 years old:

[dkettchen]

me: *putting so much effort into covering all my bases, including disclaimers to avoid misunderstandings and prevent damage to myself and others, generally trying to be inoffensive on the internet*

annoying idiots in my comments section:

[pyrosquirrely]

This post got me permanently banned from reddit for hate speech.

[rouxaroo]

I just saw one of my former mutuals going off on some transmeds exclusionary shit calling other trans people "tucute". 🤢

I had half a mind to tell him off but then I saw his age, 15, he's a fucking child. 💀 Boy I have identified as a woman for longer than you've been alive.

By the time you was just getting your agab assigned by genital zodiacs I was learning about trans people and coming out to my birther. Don't start off with that bullshit idea we should be ashamed of who we are, that shit's the reason I didn't get to get brought up as a girl after I first came out.

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