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guys i just got an ask where someone explains insulin to me like i haven't been a diabetic for literally 20 years this is fucking amazing lmao

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i might have rustled some jimmies today, huh

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the usage i have for turgid is a literary usage, meaning boisterous or pompous primarily. it used to be theatre, but i'm not into musicals very much anymore.

you seem to misunderstand me. i don't believe it should be easier for cis women or nb people to get phallo. i believe only men - cis or trans - should be able to get phalloplasty, as the penis is a male organ. while yes, i am aware that trans women are obviously born with penises, i believe that you need to have sex dysphoria in order to be trans. if you would not wake up tomorrow with the opposite genitals, i would not consider you a transsexual. transgender, sure, but not transsex.

if cis people started getting trans surgeries, the regret rate would increase due to people who aren't dysphoric about their genitals (i.e. okay with their genitals) having to pay thousands, go through emotionally and physically intense surgeries, and now having genitals different to what they were already okay with. they will actually feel the sex dysphoria that trans men and women experience every day alongside taking resources such as appointments, doctor attention, and creating even longer wait times.

i am a transman who has gone through hysto with minimal push back and is currently going through the phallo process because i am incredibly dysphoric. my hysto took six months after the consultation to do, but my phalli consultation hasn't even been scheduled due to the overwhelming amount of people seeking this surgery.

i don't say this because i'm a republicans or because i think genitals look a certain way. fuck that. republicans are stupid and need to fuck off over obsessing over peoples' junk and just let me get my passport changed ffs, and who gives a fuck what peoples' junk looks like. i don't think cis women should be getting phallo, just like i don't think cis men should be getting vaginoplasties, as they're going to be dysphoric about it later.

what's hurting trans people is the idea that we're choosing to do these things for the fuck of it. its why republicans think they can just stop us from transitioning, because it's an aesthetic. but a lot of us are genuinely struggling wirh dysphoria, and while i support people who choose not to get bottom surgery for whatever reason, that doesn't mean i support cis people getting unnecessary surgeries that make the wait line to alleviate dysphoria longer for actual transsex individuals.

i struggle with the idea of autonomy and where the line should be drawn at enough. obviously, people with biid shouldn't be able to disable themselves because of their mental disorder, not do i believe we should allow individuals who don't have diabetes or chemo to get insulin or chemo/radiation just because they feel like it. those are medical conditions, as is gender/sex dysphoria, and i believe care for it should be limited.

but we have things like botox and face lifts that people always compare transitioning to. those are aesthtic. they don't cause distress like having the wrong genitals can have. those have higher regret rates than trans surgeries are are routinely botched, but we allow anyone to get them.

i don't know. we can't let anyone get everything they want. we can't just pass around hrt and insulin and cokr like they're cocktails for whoever wants them, but we should restrict all access like reputards do. there is a middle ground somewhere, and i think the idea of allowing open access to trans surgeries under the name of bodily autonomy has a possibility to classify these legitimately lifesaving surgeries as aestbetic.

(in case any of your followers know about these kinda stuff)

Can a cis woman get a phalloplasty simply because she wanted a peanits? Are there any records of that happening?

Good question!

Does anyone know?

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Come down to earth clown

i am standing upon the concrete, o wise one. please forgive me for my clownish ways

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when i see someone asking if a cis woman can get a penis, i assume it's a cis woman asking if she can get a penis. it seems insulting to ask such a thing imo, especially when phalloplasty is still hard to obtain for a lot of men. i've also seen it done on the r/phallo subreddit, so i'm very touchy when i see a question that harkens back to this notion.

unfortunately, it's not imaginary. they are very fringe cases, but they do count. you can see them on reddit... which, shit source, but still a source.

also republicans are fucking stupid. there are no actual cases of furries bringing litter boxes to shit in, unlike the cis women who want phallo. i'm a furry, trust me, i get enough shit from every side lmao

(in case any of your followers know about these kinda stuff)

Can a cis woman get a phalloplasty simply because she wanted a peanits? Are there any records of that happening?

Good question!

Does anyone know?

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the day some of you sluts realize that tdicks can also be a 5 inch post bottom surgery dick and a boycunt can just be an asshole, is the day I'll eat my hat

​If i hear one more 'bottom surgery is gross' comment I'll fuck your dad so hard he'd have no idea it wasnt natal

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maybe cis women shouldn't be getting surgery to have a male organ. a lot of trans men are legitimately dysphoric and hate their natal genitals, and what? cis women can just come in and be like "hmm yes i would like a penis" while trans men struggle to get it covered by insurance?? nah bruh

(in case any of your followers know about these kinda stuff)

Can a cis woman get a phalloplasty simply because she wanted a peanits? Are there any records of that happening?

Good question!

Does anyone know?

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tbh i think a lot of the people who talk about “only needing gender euphoria” to be trans just don’t realize they do actually have dysphoria because society has made us so used to hating ourselves like. you’re supposed to feel happy in your identity, that’s the standard for most people. if you feel euphoria when presenting as yourself its probably just your dysphoria being relieved finally

i actually really agree with this. a lot of people who say they don't have dysphoria will describe symptoms of dysphoria and being uncomfortable. like bro... that's dysphoria. you don't have to hate yourself, but marked distress is a requirement.

i can say that i've very rarely experienced euphoria. i've experienced happiness and comfortability, but never anything super euphoric. idk tho, i'm sure people have confused euphoria and comfort.

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i'm never drinking again holy shit

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couple of things.

you're a coward for blocking me

i am not one of the good ones. there are no good ones. i have been consistent in my stance that there is no fully good or fully evil for as long as i can remember, and to subserve to those who oppress you is cowardice at worst and an attempt to protect yourself at best.

gender/sex dysphoria - whichever you call it - is the only thing that ties all trans eople together and not having dysphoria makes you a fucking ableist who's coopting our condition

i am miserable because i'm seeing my fucking medical condition become a fucking label you can slap on when you feel like with no regard to the people who have come long before you and suffered for their dysphoria and fought to be seen as the sex we were born to be

actually fuck yourself for portraying transmen with giant tits. literally every single trans man i have met is trying to get away from the female body, regardless of feminine expression. feminine =/= female.

i'm so tired. we're never going to be seen as real fucking people with fetishists like this

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sending you a hug. sorry things are shit for you right now. you don’t deserve any of it.

i appreciate it. whether i deserve it or not, who knows. i'm just overly sensitive and tired and i need a god damn massage. i miss my ex fiancé's massages :((

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hey, are you doing okay? sorry you've been going through a rough time with breakup and friend stuff.

not particularly. the breakup has been rough and is definitely still affecting me, but i think my mental health is tanking as it is. i'm overwhelmed because of dysphoria that's reared it's ugly fucking head because one motherfucker at work is transvestigating me, but i'm also struggling due to not being in the career i want to be in.

i wish i was a cat bruh my life would be so much easier.

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ayo this looks fantastic! ngl it brings me back to 2020 seeing transmeds make art again, i miss it lol. not only does it look good, it's prett damn accurate.

i alleviate the caveat that transmen can also be feminine, because like... we can, y'know? even if something wanted to draw a transman in a dress, that's fine, but he's still a man. it can still be done respectfully and without overdoing the female characteristics

A sort of gift for @turgidscum and @d-parade cause I've been kinda obsessed with their posts recently lmao Just basically what I've gathered from their posts criticizing the depiction of trans men in media, art, comics, anime, etc...

For those wondering about the difference between 1 and 2: 1 wears form-fitting clothes as he has nothing to hide, 2 wears oversized clothes as his transition isn't over and thus he wants to pass better

Btw, before anyone comes for me, I'm not saying men can't be feminine or whatever, but how artists draw trans characters is a BIG tell on how they see them in real life. Generally speaking I haven't ever met someone who drew feminine trans guys without making them look outright like women and treating them like uwu soft bois lmao

Nude version after the cut (TW for stereotypical depictions of trans men with female-presenting bodies):

Might mute the notifs on this one pre-emptively cause ngl I don't wanna get death threats just for making a drawing lmao

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Patriarchy something something gender is not real or whatever trenders said

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it's fractured because of nonbinary ideology. transmen don't claim to be lesbians, and if they do, they're women trying to be a masculine woman, not a man.

transmen who simply are men have nothing to do with this. the difference is choice vs dysphoria.

So many young people are disconnected from reality.

Lots of young women want mastectomies and testosterone while still identifying as a lesbian. They don’t understand that for the rest of their lives after medicalization, people could be looking at them and assuming they’re trans, assuming they want to be a man.

They don’t understand that dating, making friends, finding community, and just moving through the world as a masculinized woman isn’t the idealized fantasy that they’ve created in their heads or on their social media. They don’t understand the permanence of their choices and the way it makes people perceive and judge them.

Lots of young women identify as butch and non-binary, as if being gender nonconforming isn’t what being butch is in the first place. As if the way they feel as a “non-binary” person is any different than the feelings of every other GNC woman who came before them.

Genuinely all these kids need is to talk to one GNC woman-identified woman over the age of 30, and it would all click for them.

But they just call us all terfs as if their elders haven’t been through the same exact shit that they’re going through. As if we’re dinosaurs with nothing important to say.

The lesbian community is fractured. We don’t have the multi-generational connections that we need in order for the young women to thrive. And the reason for the fracture is misogyny and trans ideology.

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I miss the days where ppl could say "I'm trans" and others knew exactly what that meant

i miss the days when we didn't need to tell people we're trans and could just live our lives tbh. the extent to which our medical condition has become mainstream drives me nuts.

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on working even when it's not working