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Building a Thriving Employee-Manager Relationship
The employee-manager relationship forms the foundation of a successful organization. When this relationship is built on trust, respect, and clear communication, it boosts productivity, reduces turnover, and creates a positive workplace atmosphere. However, the key to nurturing this relationship lies in understanding the dynamics involved and continuously working towards improvement.
Understanding the Dynamics of the Employee-Manager Relationship
Unskilled Dynamics: The Roadblocks
At the heart of struggling employee-manager relationships, several barriers often hinder effective communication and mutual respect. These roadblocks include employees feeling stressed or uneasy, which limits open dialogue and constructive feedback. When employees cannot voice their concerns or receive guidance from their managers, transparency erodes, leaving issues unresolved. This weakens the team's morale and overall effectiveness. Recognizing these unskilled dynamics is the first step in improving the employee-manager relationship.
Skilled Interactions: A Pathway to Excellence
On the other hand, a skilled employee-manager relationship thrives on an open exchange of ideas, feedback, and learning. Employees who feel respected and valued are more likely to engage positively with their managers, leading to personal and professional growth. This, in turn, enhances productivity and job satisfaction. Open communication where both employees and managers can freely share challenges and successes builds a strong, thriving relationship.
Balancing Dependence and Independence
An important aspect of a successful employee-manager relationship is finding the right balance between guidance and autonomy. While employees may rely on their managers for support, overdependence can stifle innovation and problem-solving. Managers should aim to empower their employees by encouraging independent decision-making and fostering creativity. This balanced dynamic creates a more resilient and innovative team.
Navigating Conflicts in the Employee-Manager Relationship
Identifying and Addressing Conflict Causes
Conflicts between employees and managers often arise from differing goals, working styles, or resource competition. Addressing these conflicts effectively is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship. Openly discussing issues before they escalate can prevent misunderstandings and foster a collaborative environment. Key conflict triggers include:
Conflicting Resources: Limited resources can lead to tension between managers and employees. Establishing a fair system for resource distribution helps mitigate these conflicts.
Conflicting Styles: Diverse working styles can create friction, especially in team settings. Aligning complementary skills can help mitigate this challenge.
Conflicting Goals: When leaders set divergent goals for their teams, it creates confusion. Clear communication about organizational priorities helps resolve this issue.
Constructive Conflict Resolution
Implementing effective conflict resolution strategies can significantly improve the employee-manager relationship. Creating a workplace culture where different viewpoints are respected allows for a deeper understanding of individual contributions. Activities such as regular feedback sessions and open forums for discussion provide opportunities to address and resolve issues in a constructive manner.
Best Practices for Strengthening the Employee-Manager Relationship
Promoting Open Communication
Open and frequent communication is the backbone of a strong employee-manager relationship. Regular check-ins, feedback sessions, and open-door policies create a culture of transparency, allowing for clear and honest dialogue. This builds trust and prevents misunderstandings.
Fostering Mutual Respect
Mutual respect is essential for a successful employee-manager relationship. Acknowledging achievements, recognizing efforts, and valuing diverse perspectives are crucial steps in fostering respect. This not only strengthens the relationship but also creates a positive work environment where both parties feel valued.
Encouraging Professional Development
Managers who invest in their employees' development cultivate stronger relationships and foster loyalty. Tailoring development opportunities to align with individual career goals helps employees feel supported, enhancing job satisfaction and commitment to the organization.
Building Trust Through Consistency
Trust is built over time through consistent actions and communication. When managers are reliable, fair, and transparent, they lay the foundation for a trusting relationship. Employees who feel their managers genuinely care about their growth are more likely to contribute positively to the organization.
Providing Support and Empowerment
A successful employee-manager relationship requires a balance of support and empowerment. Managers can empower their teams by delegating meaningful tasks and encouraging problem-solving. This builds confidence, fosters skill development, and demonstrates trust in employees' abilities.
Encouraging Collaboration and Teamwork
Fostering collaboration within teams strengthens the employee-manager relationship. When employees work together toward shared goals, it builds a sense of community. Managers play a crucial role in facilitating collaboration by creating opportunities for team members to share knowledge and skills.
Recognizing and Rewarding Contributions
Regular recognition and appreciation are essential for maintaining high morale. By acknowledging employees' efforts and contributions, managers demonstrate that they value their team. Whether through formal rewards or simple gestures of appreciation, recognizing achievements fosters loyalty and strengthens the employee-manager relationship.
Addressing Challenges Proactively
Challenges in the employee-manager relationship are inevitable, but how they are addressed makes all the difference. Proactive managers who address issues early show employees that their concerns are important. This not only resolves immediate problems but also strengthens the overall relationship.
Committing to Continuous Improvement
A thriving employee-manager relationship is a journey of continuous improvement. Both managers and employees should regularly assess their relationship and seek ways to enhance it. Feedback loops, professional development opportunities, and open discussions contribute to the ongoing improvement of this critical relationship.
Conclusion
The employee-manager relationship is a key driver of organizational success. By promoting open communication, mutual respect, trust, and a commitment to continuous improvement, managers and employees can build strong, productive relationships that benefit the entire organization. In today’s dynamic workplace, investing in these relationships is essential for fostering a resilient and adaptable workforce.
#employee-manager relationship#workplace dynamics#employee engagement#fostering trust at work#conflict resolution at work
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"not all men" but not in a men's rights way, in a "it's important to remember that men aren't the only perpetrators of cruelty, abuse, and evil and that subconsciously or consciously training yourself to view men as inherently evil and everyone else as inherently safe inadvertently puts you in a position where you're both vulnerable to attack or harm from people you otherwise wouldn't suspect, AND causes you to limit the number of allies you might have in a time of need" kind of way.
#This is why I worry a lot about young women (teens and twenties) who seek comfort and validation in r//adf//em circles. Many of them have#been hurt through rape or abuse—commonly at the hands of fathers/brothers/uncles or otherwise trusted adults—and have decided that men must#be cruel because both they and their female/female + queer friends have similar stories of abuse. So they seek out others who share this#belief but in doing so they make themselves vulnerable to further abuse and manipulation. I haven't really observed r//adf//em circles long#enough to be able to say what I'm about to say with certainty but I would put money on the idea that being a RF on social media shares the#same hallmarks as being in a cult because the behavior of the adherents is far too similar than that of tradwives or any other modern cult.#Other RF's use the hurt and abuse these young women have experienced and twist and manipulate their truth to foster a sense of#us-against-them cruelty against a population that could in actuality be their fiercest allies. It's such a vicious and relentless cycle.#That's why when I see RF's on here all I feel is pity — both for the cruelty and abuse they've witnessed and suffered but ALSO for the way#they've allowed that abuse to be weaponized against them... many before they were too young to realize it was even happening. We as a#society have got to get better at protecting our young girls and women from r//adf//em ideology. I don't even mean that in a#“destroy the patriarchy” kind of way because that's such a lofty and disorganized goal. I mean it in a “we have to go into uncomfortable#spaces and show these girls love and empathy because right now the only people validating them are people who use their hate and mistrust#against them and if we want to save our young girls and Queer sisters from this pipeline we have to do the dirty work“ kind of way.#But anyway.#jack.txt
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I'm not dead btw more cc will happen there's just so much going on
#moved into house mostly#adopted a cat#learned that I apparently developed a cat allergy in adulthood#am now fostering the cat while I work on rehoming her#because sending her back to the shelter would have broken my heart and I can deal with a few weeks of allergies#I just can't deal with 15-20 years of allergies#(good news is I have a friend who's great with cats and has contacts and I absolutely trust them to know good people)#(I'm gonna make sure she ends up in a good permanent home it's not her fault I'm allergic to her)#but yeah I'm looking after a little creature and also organizing all my shit and putting my house together#a bit later into fall I should start putting stuff out again
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headcanon that as sophie ages, she gets more and more off-put by how she still looks twenty at some age past 40. the only wrinkles she has are smile lines and a barely-there crease between her eyebrows that never leaves. no gray hairs. it doesn’t feel like there’s any physical evidence of how much stress aged her too fast.
(maybe she dyes more grays into her hair to feel better about her reflection, the more time passes by. maybe, on bad days, she contours wrinkles into her skin with makeup. maybe the bad days get more frequent as she ages outside the human lifespan. maybe.)
#i feel like fitz and dex are the only friends of hers that really get it#since fitz understands more surrounding human cultures than most elves thanks to his firsthand experience in the search#and dex grew up with his mom’s romcoms#which would probably show some human perspectives on aging#and his mom explaining some things that didn’t quite make sense to Smol Dex#but i’ve always imagined sophie turning up on fitz’s doorstep in the middle of the night#with tears running down her face and saying she didn’t know who else to talk to about almost-immortality feeling so so so wrong as she#gets older. not necessarily just because he knows more about humanity than most of her group#but also because like. there’s some part of her that says ‘if he can help you through learning to be an elf at 12 maybe he can help you at#42 too’. and they’re cognates. and they’ve gotten old enough to set aside teenage grievances with one another#and i like the idea of them sitting on a couch together by lamplight and trying to navigate the cultural and personal differences#in how the two of them and humanity and the lost cities view mortality#and not really reaching a concrete conclusion. but rather. a conclusion that keeps the two of them sane until they reach triple digits.#and then they have the conversation again. and come up with a plan to stay sane in their triple digits. and the same thing pops up in their#thousands. idk man the whole thing screams trust down to the bone and that’s what they should have when the war is over#is there anything more Cognate than talking through wildly different fears surrounding the same thing that make both parties#super vulnerable??? down to how your minds work in the face - or lack of - death?#maybe so but i can’t think of them off top of my head#kotlc#sophie foster#kotlc headcanons#keeper of the lost cities
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100% don't punish the growl and listen to your dog and your puppy is not an evil mastermind AND ALSO seeing how Melis behaved today and latey, feeling very validated in our approach to her outbursts of screaming thrashing gnashing teeth being less "sorry sorry never mind" and more "ok buddy are u sure though"
time will tell if she has another ride on the melty brain hormone train coming (Sparta didn't - but she might) but at this moment in time, Melis is a pretty tolerant, people-oriented, socially intelligent little dog who's displaying some very pleasant traits. and who has not growled or snarled or gotten near threshold in many months. at this rate our worst puppy might end up our best dog
#her impulse control is tons better (as one expects when they start to hormonally mature a bit)#and its not so much about teaching her to moderate her behaviour anymore as it seems like she finally understands#that the best way to the best outcome for her is simply to#behave. and take it easy. and trust us and the environment to make things work out in good ways#conflict free resolutions etc#to be fair i think melis has ALWAYS been socially intelligent#i dont think she wouldve adopted the behaviour style she had if she wasnt. she learned VERY EARLY (pre-8wks)#that if she blustered big enough she'd win anything. and that became the most convenient and successful way for her to behave#so all we really had to do was make that behaviour inefficient. not punish it - that wasnt necessary#because the wanted behaviour requires less of her than the unwanted one does#anyway i love her and her remorselessness to bits and now we can foster her need for chaos and violence in productive and harmonious ways#<3
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not fic related but you and your wife seem so happy! any advice for a couple of newly married queer ladies?
Hey, I love any excuse to talk about being gay and happy! Congrats on being newly married! I dunno, my advice is always really straightforward. Like. Keep prioritizing communication, keep talking to each other about your day, your headspace, the stuff you love, the stuff that freaks you out. Keep that line open no matter how long you're together, because I really do think marriages fall apart when you start just assuming you can read one another's minds. My wife and I are always really careful to be honest with one another; for example, in the event that one of us is having a bad day and the other person's jokes aren't landing, 'cuz we're just sensitive that day, we talk about it. it soothes hurt feelings before they can really take root.
And find ways of making your own fun. Try new foods together, travel if you're into that, remind yourself that intimacy (if that's your bag) is an excuse to just play with one another and learn about the other person. Cherish the comfort of knowing your person is there for you no matter what, make sure you're on equal footing together, make sure you're allowing each other the space to change and grow and learn. And just take as much joy as you can out of being in love. It's not an easy thing, living in the world right now, but love makes it a damn sight more bearable. Queer love is awesome, queer joy is awesome. I wish you all the best, friend.
#ask#marriage advice#lgbt#my advice is always stuff like 'talk to each other. foster trust. make each other laugh.'#i dunno that it's ever groundbreaking but it's worked really well for us so far#and i think it helps lay a strong foundation for the future so we don't wind up being that old couple that's always bickering#also: having separate hobbies is great. it gives you space to be in your own head and your own vibes sometimes#and then you can get back with your person and tell them all about what you've been up to#parallel play is also really excellent. one of my favorite things. i'll just hang out with a book while she's gardening or whatever#it's a good time
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ugh i’m so far removed from anything even resembling a broadway fandom at this point but i need to know…why do we feel icky listening to laura osnes?
Ooooh Laura Osnes lol (also know I spent like thirty minutes looking for these screenshots lmfao)
For me I already had some weird vibes after seeing her in Broadway princess party in 2018 (went mainly for her and left a bigger fan of pretty much everyone else? She just seemed very inauthentic in some way) but the bigger thing was with covid vaccinations.
Basically there was some big backlash when an article was published about her not being allowed to perform in something because she wasn’t covid vaccinated. I don’t know what the article said exactly because I only saw it through her response, I think, but it basically was something about her being rude or upset or whatever because she had to be vaccinated (if anyone knows that part feel free to jump in).
At the end of 2022 (at least in interviews, maybe it was sooner if you still followed her) she started talking about cancel culture and how this basically ended her Broadway career.
The vaccination stuff then revealed other beliefs, like her being pro-guns.
So yeah, since then it just has tainted some of my enjoyment of these songs I really love. I’ll leave some other things in the tags that are more my personal feelings, but that’s the gist.
#at first it was pretty black and white for me#the vaccinations#but I had a practicum client who surprised me when she said she wasn’t vaccinated#except she explained why and it’s that she’s Black and the covid vaccine was so new#and she didn’t trust that the vaccine was safe for her specifically given things like the Tuskegee experiment#so for me it was the fact that she’s a white woman#and argued it was about family planning and personal choice#which I get but also… if you die of Covid you can’t have a family#and if it’s about parenthood there are other ways to become a parent#<- which is not me saying foster/adoption is an alternative to birth control#I literally work with foster and adoptive families#but it felt especially insensitive given how personal this was to the Broadway community#and people like nick cordero/amanda kloots#anyway#anon#answered
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BREAKING NEWS i said yeah on the phone and rascal meowed back at me from across the room hehe
#ALSO. PARENTS JUST INFORMED ME WE MAY BE ADOPTING/FOSTERING A DOG#IT'S SUPER SHORT NOTICE BC HE'S A SHELTER GUY AND HE'S SET TO BE EUTHANIZED SOON#IM. FREAKING OUT I WANNA MEET HIM SO BAD I WANT THE DETAILS BUT IM ON CAMPUS RN#8 MONTH OLD SHEPHERD MIX (not sure what kind of shepherd but ig probably german?). IM COMIN TO GET YOU#this may mess with my 'what if we got a cat after my senior dogs are gone' idea but. but oupy dog#god i love dogs so much uaughhh.... im getting my hopes up so much you guys don't even know#i mean they wouldn't tell us only to say no right#update they are going to meet him + tomorrow we'll bring our dogs and the whole family to meet him#assuming my mom's allergies don't act up around him#but he looks and seems so sweet and goofy and weirdly gentle which is good bc sometimes shepherds can be a bit rough#and that's also good bc like. we have two senior dogs and we don't want him to stress them out or injure them by being a puppy all over them#one of the shelter videos respectfully pans away as he squats to take a shit which is very charming to me#but yeah i really really hope it works out bc like. he seems like such a guy + i love animals So So Much + i don't think anyone else would#swoop in in time if we don't. our shelter is perpetually full and they're a kill shelter#and im choosing not to think about the possibility of us not at least fostering him for the time being#bc i need to keep working and thinking I Killed This Dog By Not Somehow Forcing My Parents Into It is not going to help that#and i have no reason to believe it Will go wrong. all signs point to good atm so im going to trust that#even if it means i eventually get charlie brown footballed by my dogs hating him or something
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i kind of hate every single thing about my new job <3
#like i love the kids i work with but the facility staff and upper mgmt ….#like. we are well over capacity. we are understaffed and the staff all have insane beef with each other#the only people i trust there are the clinical staff and i don’t work directly with them#there is no structure or consistent scheduling#like bbg many of these kids should be at places with at least two higher security ratings#as a facility we aren’t even equipped to handle many of the pt types we have ?#i’ve only been here for a month and have almost cried in-house three times in the past week#i haven’t cried three times in two years#personal /#would love to specify that i work at a foster home for kids w severe trauma and psychiatric tx needs#not a fucking juvie or whatever the hell else that ^ could be interpreted as
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So anyways my plan for the next two months is to kickass at work while I get another job and then leave their asses.
#I'm so mad about this#I've been at this company for 6 years and for the most part everyone I've worked with has been great#Easy to get along with. Smart. Caring.#I've had some not so great bosses and every once in a while I've encountered problem people#But repeatedly one person (not in my vertical but a key person in my org)#Has repeatedly made me feel like shit. Even if she claims to mean well or whatever#I absolutely never feel like we're ok the same team. It always feels like it's her team or death#Which is not an environment I thrive in#And then her boss (who is also my bosses boss) either feeds into that or exacerbates it#I wish I had had the words during our engagement survey because I'm not the only one who feels this way#So many people go into a meeting with her expecting to talk about one thing and instead she asks for something else entirely#It consistently feels like she has no trust in her team and she does not want to foster a culture of 'we're in the same team'#She is fostering a culture of 'im the boss so I'll dictate exactly what I want and I am free to change it at any time'#So. Anyways. If you know of companies hiring in their product or portfolio space hit me up.#I spent 10 hours trying not to cry at work today and then had three separate little cries#Going to going with my boss a little about taking a week off soon#He's going to be alarmed and concerned but like. He should be.#(my boss is generally great my only complaint is that he hasn't figure out how to work with his boss yet so that's compounding my issues.#But that is not all on him. And he has never once made me feel like we're not on the same team)#Blah blah ok. Tomorrow I work and then do the life shit I didn't do today#The day after that I do a second pass at my resume#And use a working block at work to figure out what I want (and sketch out my teams pain points and potential solutions)
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There's so much fucked about the My.stra's daughters situation, but what happened with Elue breaks my heart the most. Because Mys.tra didn't have to possess someone in order to have children. Evidence points to the contrary. But, what's important to remember is that Mys.tra didn't get hit by baby fever. No, she was specifically breeding potential Chosen she hoped would fit her needs and loyalty requirements. Possessing Elue's body to birth them ensured they would be completely mortal, albeit with a few advantages. There's no indication they have a shred of divinity beyond what Mys.tra imparted when they became her Chosen. There's no risk of losing control / them trying to usurp her — or at least there's significantly less risk. And, Elue paid the price in blood.
#OOC / HOLLY.#god I cannot find the quote now#but it was noted I think in The Seven Sisters sourcebook that Mys.tra *liked* when they had bad relationships with their foster parents#she wanted there to be turmoil and distance#supposedly so said foster parents wouldn't be able to manipulate the girls for their power#but it's clear most of them had unhappy upbringings not helped by the trauma of their mother's death + father abandoning them#El is probably the only foster parent Mys.tra trusted not to use them but El still had specific prohibitions#and they were left to raise 3 girls in a dilapidated tower on their own with really no resources except their wits#they also got probably the most troubled of the girls + they were still being sent on missions as a Chosen#I mean it worked out El has a great relationship with all 3 + the other 4 when they finally met much later#but like. damn. Mys.tra talks a good game of loving her faithful but treats them so often as pawns#I understand why she does this but that doesn't make it right#Mys.tra critical
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Re: sex-worker alice— Have you written jasper finding out the alice he left is a sex worker? Cause oof i need to see the reaction to that
The initial meeting between Alice and the Cullens - from Alice's POV - happens on the street accidentally, and Edward identifies the bruises Alice has as something she does for work and is consensual - Jasper is definitely more focused on finding and harming the person who inflicted harm on Alice than comprehending what Alice actually did as a job.
There are also notes for a scene where the various Cullens try to get Jasper to talk about Alice's career choice and Jasper very stubbornly refuses to talk.
The below is the closest I've gotten to the first kind of confrontation, and is a very very rough draft
I'd say I was surprised to see another Cullen waiting for me after work, but I would have been more surprised to be left alone honestly. The surprising part is that it was Jasper. I was sure Carlisle and Esme would make another bonding attempt before Jasper came near me.
He stood up like a gentleman when I walked over, looking every bit as good as I remembered, but I had long since stopped caring what the Cullens thought of my clothing or how I looked. Not everyone was as wealthy and privileged as they were, and sometimes food and shelter came before plush winter coats and buttery-soft leather boots. Not all of us could have flawless skin and glossy hair every moment of the day.
…Maybe I was still a little jealous.
"Hi." Jasper's voice is soft, and I can feel his eyes search mine for a moment before I look away, to jam my phone in my bag.
“Hi. Wasn’t sure who to expect today,” I said in a wry voice. “Figured it would be Esme again.”
He chuckled. “Are we that transparent?”
“Mmm-hmm.”
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"Just because you didn't want to see me naked, doesn't mean other people don't," I said calmly, taking a sip of my milkshake.
Jasper scoffed, and for a moment, he looked annoyed. "That's not true," he began, and I raised my eyebrows. That was probably the closest we’d ever gotten to actually discussing sex. Some very restrained and polite kisses were the closest we got - the singular time we came close to making out, he’d insisted he leave. And I know my sixteen- and seventeen- year old self in her Hello Kitty underwear and thrift shop dresses wasn’t exactly the stuff of teenage fantasies, but I had definitely wanted more back then.
Jasper gritted his teeth and changed the subject. "I thought you got free college through the state?”
"I get free tuition. I still need to pay for food and shelter and clothing and books,” I said. “Plus I need a car, and new glasses and a whole bunch of human things. The details don’t matter, Jasper, I need to work to afford school.”
“Not like this,” he snapped, and I realised this was as upset as I had ever seen him.
"An hour of my time starts at one hundred dollars, Jasper," I retorted. "The house pays me sixty from that. There are no jobs for nineteen year old high school graduates that pay close to that. I've had nights where I’ve made a thousand dollars.”
He turned his head away from me. "I don't want to know that.”
"Why?" I demanded. "Because if it's some antiquated notion that I should have stayed virginal and pining for you - after you left without saying a word - whilst being screamed at by women who wanted extra foam in their coffee for ten bucks an hour we have nothing left to say to one another. We both know that you haven't sat around since the Civil War waiting patiently for marriage, so why was I supposed to? Especially when you had no intention of ever seeing me again?”
"You're selling your body, Alice. You can't expect me to be okay with that.”
“It’s my body,” I hissed, standing up. I almost missed Esme’s sad eyes and flowery euphemisms about saving me from my bad choices. “You don’t get to fuck off secretly and then turn up two years later - by accident - to judge me and complain and send your family to try and save me from myself. I needed saving when I was sixteen. Not now.”
Shouldering my bag, I turned to leave when his hand whipped out and clamped around my wrist suddenly and I tried not to flinch, the old bruises protesting at his tight grip.
“You were supposed to be mine,” he said in a low tone that made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. Whether it was something supernatural or just the anger in his voice, I didn’t know.
I pulled my wrist away and he let me go. “No,” I said quietly. “I’m not property, Jasper. And whatever we were supposed to be was over the minute you left me in Forks alone. Tell your family that I don’t work Wednesdays.”
And with that, I walked away.
#anon#memes#alice cullen#jasper hale#jalice#my fic: sex worker alice#jasper's more angry with himself than with alice#he remembers her as a sunny high school student#not as this wary girl who doesn't smile as much#mostly because she doesn't trust them anymore#and the transition between high school foster kid to working independent adult with no support system was hard on her
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Oh I think I might be due for another discacc reread soon. Last one was done last September, so it's been 4 months. Less that I need to refresh my memory on things and more that I need to bask in the whole of it to rly get a feel for the characters again. Writing past goro so much rly made me lose touch with current goro I think lol
#speculation nation#discacc shit#also i think it'll be fascinating if i reread the journal then reread the main fic#approaching main discacc with the context of the detailed knowledge of how things were for goro as a kid#like i already knew it for the most part. but there r some things it gives new context to#like how he just does Not believe when sojiro says he cares about him#calls back to when goro was a kid and his first foster parents said they cared about him#but then they ended up giving him up.#it's hard for him to trust that sojiro really means it. that he wont end up abandoning him in the end#when all's said and done he really only trusts akira. and that's just bc hes had literally 12 years with him#12 years of being told that akira cares about him. and akira Proving it by still being in his life after all this time.#it'll take a lot of work for anyone else to earn goro's trust too.#but yea. just. i need to rotate them in my mind. and a reread is just the way to do it.
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dear americans,
as a polish queer woman and human rights activist, i know exactly how you're feeling right now and what to expect from these elections. i lived through the 2015-2023 regime of pis, a right-wing populist party that divided families in the same way trump did. i’ve experienced the rise of fascism in poland, the influence of far-right parties like konfederacja, and their “santa’s little helpers”—ordo iuris, an ultra-conservative catholic organization (banned in many countries, mind you) that helped enforce a near-total abortion ban and runs anti-queer campaigns in public spaces. i supported the black protests in 2016 as a middle schooler when they first tried to ban abortion. as an adult, i actively participated in the 2020 women’s strike, running from police tear gas daily after they finally passed the ban. i supported friends who faced charges.
i’ve lived through intense homophobia in poland as a queer teen and adult. i survived the first pride march in my hometown, where far-right extremists threw stones and glass at us. i endured the anti-queer propaganda spread by the ruling party in state-owned media. i survived the “rainbow night,” poland’s own stonewall moment in summer 2020, when police arrested around 50 queer activists following the arrest of margo, a nonbinary activist. i survived the "lgbt-free zones," the targeted violence, the slurs from strangers on the street, and the protests i held against queerphobia. it was hard as fuck, but i survived.
but just because i survived, it doesn’t mean others did. many women died because of the abortion ban—marta, justyna, izabela, dorota, joanna, maria, and many others who didn’t survive pis’s draconian anti-abortion laws. milo, kacper, michał, zuzia (she was 12), wiktor, and other queer and trans kids and young adults took their own lives because of the relentless queerphobia.
despite all of this, our experience in poland can serve as a guide now. here are some tips for staying safe and how we, polish queers and women, organized under the regime:
safety first, always. if you know someone who’s had an abortion, no you don’t. if you know someone is trans, no you don’t. if you know people who help with safe abortions, no you don’t—at least not until you know it’s 100% safe to share. if you are queer or have had an abortion, only share this with people you trust fully. most importantly, not everyone has to be an activist just because they’re part of a minority. if it feels unsafe to share that you're queer, trans, etc., then don’t. it doesn’t make you any less queer.
use secure, encrypted messaging like signal for conversations on potentially risky topics, such as queerness, abortion, organizing counter-actions, protests—anything that might be used against you.
stay anonymous online. if you want to research or report something without surveillance, do not use regular internet. get a vpn (mullvad is affordable and reliable), download the tor browser (for both onion and standard links), and if you plan to whistleblow, consider using a riseup email account.
organize and build networks. community is everything now. support each other, foster independence, because your government won’t have your back. set up collectives, grassroots movements. create lists of trusted professionals—lawyers, doctors, etc.—who can offer support.
to lawyers and doctors: please consider pro-bono work. this is what got us through poland’s hardest times. your work will be needed now more than ever.
for protests or risky actions: always write a pro-bono lawyer’s number on your arm with a permanent marker.
get to know the anarchist black cross federation and other resources on safety culture: "Starting an anarchist black cross group: A guide"; Still We Rise - A resource pack for transgender and non-gender conforming people in prison; Safe OUTside the system by the Audre Lorde Project;
for safe abortion info or involvement: get familiar with womenhelpwomen.
stay radical, stay strong, stay informed: The Anarchist Library
if i forgot to (or didn't) include something, don't hesitate to reblog this post with other resources.
#kinda heartbroken i've gotta post something like this#but now my experience is needed more than ever and i AM going to share it#we are going to get through this#together#activism#anarchism#grassroots#anarchist#resources#useful#helpful#human rights#abortion#abortion rights#reproductive rights#queer#trans#transgender#lgbtq#us politics#usa#us elections#america#donald trump#kamala harris#stay safe#moira speaks
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1.) I’d rather have cats keeping mouse populations under control over people leaving poison out, which is way more harmful to the environment and other animals
2.) Some places are safer for cats than others. Busy roads or places with a lot of predators are good reasons to keep your cat inside. But it’s up to the individual owners to assess their circumstances and make an informed decision
3.) Letting your cats out is not inherently neglectful. Done right, it’s actually safer for them. A cat that’s determined to escape WILL get out, and they’re safer if they’re supervised, familiar with the environment, brought in at night, know how to get back in, have the skills to fend for themselves, trained to come in when called, are wearing a tracker, etc, etc. It’s the same way teaching your kid to swim is better at preventing drowning over a lifetime than banning them from going to pools as children
4.) Same thing with vaccinating your cats, fixing them, and knowing how to patch them up. They’re much better off being medically prepared to be out than getting out anyway and being way more vulnerable to health threats
5.) Cats have different personalities. Some are happy exclusively indoors and would hate being outside, others are not satisfied indoors at all. Some cats are happier/healthier indoors, but others are healthier/happier with access to the outside. It’s again up to individual owners to make a decision based on the specific circumstances, not just black and white
6.) If you embrace the cat’s natural instincts rather than trying to suppress them, you can actually teach cats to hunt mice/rats specifically. Again, it’s not about it’s always right/wrong to let cats hunt, it’s about being intentional with whichever choice you make
7.) Cats in homes are better than cats on the street. All the arguments you’ve listed are larger threats with larger stray populations than with a well cared for cat being allowed outside in a controlled way. That cat that you advocate for re-homing despite having a home would be taking that home from another cat who needs it way more
8.) The blanket claim that all cat owners who let their cats out are unqualified is not only misleading, it’s actively harmful. It’s not realistic to be all or nothing. Do you also think all farm cats should be re-homed?? Reminder that farm cats are typically feral and not determined to be good candidates to be adopted as pets, so the alternative is them being strays. Are you anti tnr too?? It’s not the perfect solution so why bother at all??
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, overdramatic accusations do more harm than good. Calling people abusive/neglectful for making an informed decision about their pets both waters down the impact of calling out ACTUAL abuse and negatively impacts those pet owners and their pets. Maybe find a way to actually concretely help cats (or local bird populations if that’s your bigger concern) rather than being nasty (in a naive way, no less) on tumblr
Friendly reminder to "outdoor cat" proponents that the common housecat (felis catus) is on the list of top 100 most dangerous invasive alien species and are listed as a worldwide threat.
Friendly reminder that the common housecat (felis catus) are credited with the extinction of at least 33 species of wildlife globally, primarily birds, small reptiles, and rodents.
Friendly reminder of all the hazards that exist out in the world including diseases, other animals, humans, cars, environmental dangers, and so on.
Friendly reminder that domesticated species are not suited to natural environments and can not support or defend themselves.
Friendly reminder that negligence is a form of animal cruelty.
Keep your cats indoors. I don't care that you think your cat is so much happier outside. I don't care that you think he's living a fuller life by being able to massacre local fauna. Either keep him inside and enrich him properly like a good pet owner, or rehome him to someone who can and never own an animal again. This is non-negotiable.
#keep the self righteousness to yourself and let those of us doing the ACTUAL work to solve these problems do our thing 🙄🙄#source: I’m a lifelong cat owner and foster#I volunteer at a rescue and am studying as a vet tech#I help care for stray populations and am part of my community’s tnr efforts#I’ve worked multiple jobs with cats#fun fact! cats can be trained to hunt in one specific place or one specific species#I’ve helped multiple people I know teach their kittens to hunt#the cats I’ve taught NEVER kill birds#they don’t even care about birds bc we’re directing their natural instincts instead of suppressing them#and are most of the time strays specifically adopted as an alternative to poison pest control#aka if they weren’t being used as hunting cats they’d be strays#instead they’re fixed and vaccinated and chipped and brought in at night#I’ve personally seen cats eliminate the need for poison pest control#this isn’t even specifically pro outdoor cats#it’s pro nuance#it’s pro treating different circumstances differently#it’s pro path of least harm#it’s about making informed decisions for yourself#and anti overdramatic accusations#like this is just a naive thought process#you think you know everything about every situation#and since you’re so smart what are you gonna do with all the extra adoptable pet cats you’ve now created with this thought process#there’s already way more cats than people looking to adopt cats#and trust me people are fighting to control cat populations#one of our best weapons is getting cats fixed and looked after by specific humans#even if it’s a permanently outdoor cat that a whole neighborhood looks after#it’s fed? kept warm?? has access to vet care??? that cat’s way better off than a stray#as is the environment surrounding that cat#this is just fear mongering and it’s doing way more harm to everyone involved
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