#estp x infp

[kristkx]

[ENG]

When it comes to romantic relationships, the relationship between ESTPs and INFPs can be both fragrant and challenging. The emotional depth and introspective nature of the INFP can bring a sense of intimacy and vulnerability to a relationship, allowing partners to connect on a significant level. The INFP's ability to understand and empathize with their partner's feelings can create a safe and nurturing environment for ESTPs to explore their emotions.

ESTPs, in turn, can bring a sense of excitement and newness to the relationship, inspiring INFPs to embrace new experiences and challenges. Their spontaneity and love of adventure can help INFPs get out of their comfort zone, fostering personal growth and a broader view of the world.

However, differences in cognitive function can also lead to misunderstandings and conflict between INFPs and ESTPs. The INFP's need for deep emotional connection and the ESTP's preference for action and excitement can sometimes collide, requiring patience and compromise from both partners.

[RUS]

Когда речь идет о романтических отношениях, отношения между ESTP и INFP могут быть одновременно благоухающими и трудными. Эмоциональная глубина и интроспективный характер INFP могут принести чувство интимности и уязвимости в отношения, позволяя партнерам соединиться на значительном уровне. Способность INFP понимать и сочувствовать чувствам партнера может создать безопасную и заботливую атмосферу для ESTP для изучения своих эмоций.

ESTP, в свою очередь, могут принести чувство волнения и новизны в отношения, вдохновляя INFP на принятие новых переживаний и вызовов. Их спонтанность и любовь к приключениям могут помочь INFP выбраться из зоны комфорта, способствуя личностному росту и более широкому взгляду на мир.

Однако различия в когнитивных функциях также могут привести к недопониманиям и конфликтам в отношениях между INFP и ESTP. Потребность INFP в глубокой эмоциональной связи и предпочтения ESTP к действиям и волнению иногда могут сталкиваться, требуя терпения и компромиссов от обоих партнеров

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OH MY GOD! This is how I envisioned the relationship between Leo and Krystal, I even indirectly described their relationship in one post. I envision them like this: individuals who overcome their problems through each other and are willing to do anything for their love. Leo helped Krystal overcome her shyness, and Krystal helped Leo keep his temper in check and at least sometimes think about consequences. Also Leonardo enjoys being in Krystal's company, he somehow always feels at ease around her. Sometimes, to calm down, he just goes to Krystal and hugs her, and she hugs him, saying warm words. Leo, in turn, is always ready to protect her and help her, cheer her up, and make her laugh a little. As I said above, and in the post on ESTP X INFP, they complement each other, but it's very hard to maintain. Yes, there are fights between Leo and Krystal because of their personalities, but it's normal for a couple to have disagreements sometimes. That's life and there's nothing you can do about it, only try to keep what you have and overcome the difficulties, then, just Leonardo and Krystal try, because they love each other

О, БОЖЕ! Именно так я представляла себе отношения между Лео и Кристал, я даже косвенно описала их отношения в одном посте. Я представляла их так: личности, которые преодолевают свои проблемы друг через друга и готовы на все ради своей любви. Лео помог Кристал преодолеть свою застенчивость, а Кристал помогла Лео держать себя в руках и хотя бы иногда думать о последствиях. Также Леонардо нравится находиться в обществе Кристал, он почему-то всегда чувствует себя рядом с ней спокойно. Иногда, чтобы успокоиться, он просто подходит к Кристал и обнимает ее, а она обнимает его, говоря теплые слова. Лео, в свою очередь, всегда готов защитить ее и помочь, развеселить и немного побесить. Как я уже говорил выше, а также в посте про ESTP X INFP, они дополняют друг друга, но это очень сложно поддерживать. Да, между Лео и Кристал бывают ссоры из-за их характеров, но это нормально, что у пары иногда возникают разногласия. Такова жизнь, и с этим ничего не поделаешь, нужно только стараться сохранить то, что имеешь, и преодолевать трудности, тогда, как Леонардо и Кристал стараются, потому что любят друг друга

[vickyshinoa12]

Can someone explain this??

[mbtiblogfun]

MBTI INFP romantic pairings and couples:

Lol yes it’s back! A lot of people seemed to really like those posts, so I thought I'd do an update since I found a couple more examples recently. However this time I'm gonna compile them all into this one post instead doing individual all over again lol. I compiled a pretty good list so I hope you guys like it! Also Happy 69th post! Woohoo! 🥳 (Yes I’m childish like that lmao)

Carlos de Vil (INFP) and Jane (ISFJ) - Descendants

Ashlynn Ella (INFP) and Hunter Huntsman (ISFP) - Ever After High

Sybil Crawley (INFP) and Tom Branson (ENTP) - Downtown Abbey

Furukawa Nagisa (INFP) and Okazaki Tomoya (ISFP) - Clannad

Allison Cameron (INFP) and Gregory House (INTJ) - House M.D

(I was hesitant to put this one bc they technically weren't really ever a thing but they did have feelings for each other)

Allison Cameron (INFP) and Robert Chase (ISTP) - House M.D

Allen Ginsberg (INFP) and Lucien Carr (ENFP) - Kill Your Darlings

I was hesitant to include them as well because they have a complex relationship, but I don't wanna spoil lol. So for those of you who do know what I mean, I'd honestly just say it depends on your pov (like with house and cameron).

Agustin (INFP) and Julieta (ISFJ) Madrigal - Encanto

Cameron James (INFP) and Bianca Stratford (ESFJ) - 10 Things I Hate About You

Izumi Miyamura (INFP) and Kyouko Hori (ESFJ) - Horimiya

Kou Sakuragi (INFP) and Naoya Nifuji (ENFJ) - Wotaki

**Note, I think most of their screen time together as a couple is in the OVA

Dorthy Boyd (INFP) and Jerry Maguire (ESFJ/ENFJ)

It's been a while since I've seen the movie but ik he's def Fe dom.

Mia Thermopolis (INFP) and Michael Moscovitz (ISFP) - Princess Diaries

Mia Thermopolis (INFP) and Nicholas Devereaux (ESTP) - Princess Diaries 2

Alrighty that's it for now lol

Let me know what you think! :) Feel free to share any thoughts or recommendations!

[glossytreasures]

mbti personality types according to the personality database

[konishirrr]

Mbti ships!!! esfp x istj is rlly cute. Stan

[shika000]

Entp girl & INFJ boy 🤍

[thisismyanimus]

hijacking the tags

i imagine that this post will show up if you search for a combination of any two words appearing here

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[mbtimes]

INFP x ESTP

[anemoiashifts]

places to shift for your personality type !

˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖ 𐙚 ˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖

link : https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖ 𐙚 ˖ ݁𖥔 ݁˖

intj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ criminal minds

✦ scooby doo

✦ stranger things

✦ shadow hunters

intp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ gravity falls

✦ five nights at freddy’s

✦ narnia

✦ night in the woods

entj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ hunger games

✦ percy jackson

✦ alice in borderland

✦ coraline

entp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ rick & morty

✦ sherlock

✦ inside job

✦ undertale

infj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ harry potter

✦ merlin

✦ the walking dead

✦ sabrina the teenage witch

infp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ star vs the forces of evil

✦ ever after high

✦ spirit farer

✦ animal crossing

enfj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ game of thrones

✦ locke & key

✦ descendents

✦ demon slayer

enfp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ doctor who

✦ avatar

✦ dead poets society

✦ fantastic beasts

istj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ the originals

✦ the office

✦ wandavision

✦ greys anatomy

isfj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ buffy the vampire slayer

✦ my little pony friendship is magic

✦ sailor moon

✦ over the garden wall

estj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ firefly

✦ angel the series

✦ umbrella academy

✦ supernatural

esfj ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ lucifer

✦ euphoria

✦ hazbin hotel

✦ scream queens

istp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ miraculous

✦ monster high

✦ the owl house

✦ little witch academia

isfp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ amphibia

✦ pokemon

✦ hunter x hunter

✦ outer banks

estp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ the last of us

✦ scream

✦ divergent

✦ the vampire diaries

esfp ⋆˙⟡♡

✦ emily in paris

✦ once upon a time

✦ pretty little liars

✦ gilmore girls

love you ⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪ !! 🤍

[oiblackestsheep]

MBTI Hunger Games Simulation

Gonna throwback to the 2010's (shudders) (skip to bottom of post if you just want the stats and the ending/ultimate betrayal lmao)

There are eight teams of two, all of which were chosen randomly by spinning the ✨Wheel of Fate✨ Before we see how this game goes, let's take a look at the teams determined by nothing other than DESTINY and place your bets.

District 1: ISTP x ENFJ

Opposites attract, maybe? Could compliment each other well, but there could be some infighting. I'd bet on it.

District 2: INFP x ESFP

...Not a very goal driven bunch, are they? If they win... it'll be dumb luck. With style, of course! They'll be interesting to watch, nonetheless. Bet against.

District 3: ENFP x INTP

Lmao, okay, do they even want to win? That's a lot of Ne for one team. They might have better luck actually breaking out of the arena itself, instead! Bet against.

District 4: ISFP x ENTP

Interesting take... it's not what I think of when I think "winner", but honestly? I think they could pull it together in their own way. Sure, why not! Bet on.

District 5: ESTP x INFJ

This one feels like a practical joke lmao. I'm gonna say most likely to split up and do their own things. Bet against.

District 6: ISTJ x ESTJ

I'd say they're probably the scariest team on the list, I would watch out for that. It almost feels kind of unfair that they got paired up? Kinda wanna see them meet their maker. Bet against.

District 7: INTJ x ESFJ

Now these guys seem like unlikely friends, actually. I think they'll discover that they unexpectly work well together, keeping a balanced team! Bet on.

District 8: ISFJ x ENTJ

So close to the other team, but for me, no cigar. I think there's going to be power struggles and opposing priorities. Second team to split up. Bet against.

With all of that said, let's see what happens when the game starts!

Bloodbath

ENFJ convinces ISFP to not kill him only to kill her instead.

ENTJ attacks ESFP but ESTP protects her killing ENTJ.

ESFJ stays at the cornucopia for resources.

ENTP takes a handful of throwing knives from the ground and retreats.

INTJ finds a bow and some arrows.

ENFP finds a bag full of food.

INFJ takes a handful of throwing knives from the ground and retreats.

ESTJ takes a couple explosives from near the cornucopia.

ISTJ takes a handful of throwing knives from the ground and retreats.

INFP dashes to the forest to avoid the bloodbath.

INTP grabs a sword.

ISFJ runs away with a sword and some rope.

ISTP scores a bar mace from inside the cornucopia.

Total Kills ENFJ: 1 ESTP: 1

Deceased Tally ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 1

ESFP in a cruel fate, asks ISFJ to kill INFJ or ESTP. She decides to kill INFJ.

INTP fishes in the water for some food.

INTJ discovers a water source.

INFP, ENTP, and ESFJ hunt for other tributes.

ISTP begs for ENFP to kill him. She refuses, keeping ISTP alive.

ISTJ thinks about his family and starts crying.

ENFJ receives a water spile from a sponsor.

ESTJ receives a water spile from a sponsor.

Total Kills ENFJ: 1 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1

Deceased Tally INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 1

INTP bashes ENTP's head in with a mace.

ESTJ convinces ENFJ to snuggle with her for the night.

INTJ tries to sing himself to sleep.

ESFJ and INFP hold hands and cry together.

ISFJ huddles up next to a fire and cooks the meat she hunted earlier in the day.

ESFP, ENFP, and ESTP sing songs together, hoping for the best.

ISTJ and ISTP fall asleep holding hands.

Total Kills ENFJ: 1 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INTP: 1

Deceased Tally ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 2

ESTJ accidentally walks over a land mine.

ESTP hides in a bush, terrified and scared.

INTJ, ESFJ, and ENFP hunt for other tributes.

INTP, ESFP, ISTJ, and ENFJ raid INFP's camp while she is away.

ISFJ tends to ISTP's wounds.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 1 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INTP: 1

Deceased Tally ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 2

ENFP is stabbed in her sleep by ENFJ.

ESFP lets INFP into her campsite.

INTJ leaves ISFJ, ESTP, and ISTP because he does not like their plan to kill more people.

INTP tries to sing herself to sleep.

ESFJ falls asleep shivering from a fever.

ISTJ begins to cry.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INTP: 1

Deceased Tally ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 3

ISTP overwhelmed with anger, bashes ESTP's head against a rock several times.

ENFJ scares ESFP off into the distance.

INTJ and INFP create a fort out of sticks and leaves.

INTP chases ISFJ.

ISTJ receives healing ointment from a sponsor.

ESFJ discovers a hidden pathway.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INTP: 1 ISTP: 1

Deceased Tally ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 3

INTP chases ESFJ for over a mile before making the kill.

INTJ starts a campfire with materials on the ground.

ENFJ thinks about his family.

ISTJ falls alseep to the sound of people screaming.

INFP convinces ISFJ to stand guard for the night while she sleeps.

ESFP receives a hatchet and water from an unknown sponsor.

ISTP sleeps in small increments, awaking to every little noise.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1

Deceased Tally ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 4

ESFP severely wounds ISTJ and leaves him to die.

ISTP sings a song while searching for a food source. He finally finds some wild berries.

INFP runs away from ISFJ.

ENFJ discovers a hidden pathway.

INTP has a mild panic attack.

INTJ makes a wooden spear from tree branches.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 ESFP: 1

Deceased Tally ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 4

ESFP sets fire to ISTP's fort, burning him alive.

ISFJ is unable to start a fire and is extremely uncomfortable.

INTP, ENFJ, and INFP sleep in shifts, each hoping the other two do not betray them.

INTJ receives an iPad from an unknown sponsor.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESFP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1

Deceased Tally ISTP (night 4) ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 5

After hearing footsteps, INFP catches ESFP from behind guard and kills her.

INTJ dreams about home back at his district.

INTP and ISFJ create an alliance.

ENFJ tries to sleep in order to reduce stress.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESFP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INFP: 1

Deceased Tally ESFP (day 5) ISTP (night 4) ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 5

ISFJ slips on a frozen river and drowns.

INTJ, INFP, INTP, and ENFJ sleep in shifts, trying to protect each other.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESFP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1 INFP: 1

Deceased Tally ISFJ (night 5) ESFP (day 5) ISTP (night 4) ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Day 6

INTJ bleeds out from a wound left mildly treated.

After hearing footsteps, INFP catches INTP from behind guard and kills her.

ENFJ injures himself tripping over a log.

Kills Tally ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 INFP: 2 ESFP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1

Deceased Tally INTJ (day 6) INTP (day 6) ISFJ (night 5) ESFP (day 5) ISTP (night 4) ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

Night 6

ENFJ tends to INFP's wounds.

Day 7

INFP chucks a spiked ball into ENFJ's chest.

Kills Tally INFP: 3 ENFJ: 2 INTP: 2 ESFP: 2 ESTP: 1 ISFJ: 1

Deceased Tally ENFJ (day 7) INTJ (day 6) INTP (day 6) ISFJ (night 5) ESFP (day 5) ISTP (night 4) ISTJ (day 4) ESFJ (night 3) ESTP (day 3) ENFP (night 2) ESTJ (day 2) ENTP (night 1) INFJ (day 1) ISFP (bloodbath) ENTJ (bloodbath)

1st Place: INFP (3 kills)

2nd Place: ENFJ (2 kills)

3rd Place: INTP (2 kills)

Honorable Mention: INTJ (0 kills, lasted until day 6!)

[vickyshinoa12]

Ay since I couldn’t find that husband quiz, here’s a soulmate quiz instead! ;)

Basically the same thing… kinda? But other than that my ass couldn’t find it ;-; someone asked for it and I’m sorry but here’s this one instead.

Link: https://www.quotev.com/quiz/15250604/Who-Is-Your-House-of-the-Dragon-Soulmate

I mean I got the man again which is shocking but you’ll see why in a minute

It’s pretty simple really, first my MBTI is an INFP; a dreamer. It is said that the two don’t really get along but on some sighs it’s said to be an “interesting couple” which okay slay? But I looked up online and saw mostly a mix reaction between INFP x ESTP. I guess it’s for the people who like the bad boy x good girl type.

Second is my Sun, Rising, and Moon. Which are Libra, Aquarius, and Libra. Which the Aries Sun and Gemini Rising are pretty good. It’s the Libra and Scorpio Moon I have issues with. Now I’m a HUGE fan of Scorpios like I feel like I get along with them better than what other zodiac signs I’m suppose to be good with (Greatest example is my ex who was a Leo, many say that Libra’s soulmate is Leo which… no it isn’t). But most websites and compatibilies say Libra and Scorpios aren’t really a good relationship which… I don’t think so? It depends on if everyone is healthy but idk I just see that and just remember that Kim Kardashian has the same sign as me >_>.

Third, I’m a goody two shoes. In that if I was in the universe… I would most likely be in the background not participating in certain things, I will add my opinion- which is Rheanerya being the queen. Many can argue with me and say that it should have been Aegon which um- no it shouldn’t. She was said to have the reign until Viserys decided that he shouldn’t, mostly do to the Hightowers. Anyway! What I’m saying is I try not to cause trouble while Daemon is a trouble maker, he lives for the drama. Which… ima a bit nosey myself but I won’t stir the pot. Again it’s one of those cases of Bad Boy x Good Girl/ Man who causes problems x Girl who has to keep him in place sort of thing.

I will admit I’m a gift giver and to have another one, oh yeah- that’s it for me. As well as the theme being Snape’s?! Yeah I can see it now. But little things bug me. Might do a little drawing…. 🤔

Sorry I went through all this detail, but it’s been something I’ve seen on these quizzes. I always be honest and put who I truly am. Then I end with a character so drastically different then me, or someone who is like me but they are either dead or end up a bad person. Besides that I see the fanfics and bruh- it’s something, nothing bad bad just… a bit kinky? I guess? Also Aemond is basically trying to be Daemon and failing which I’m GLAD I stopped liking him, yeah he deserves better but right now yeah nuh uh. If you like him still like him awesome!

Anyway bye before I talk yalls ear off. 👋

[thelandswemadeofpaper]

Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

ISTJ - The Inspector

ISFJ - The Protector

INFJ - The Counselor

INTJ - The Mastermind

ISTP - The Craftsman

ISFP - The Composer

INFP - The Healer

INTP - The Architect

ESTP - The Dynamo

ESFP - The Performer

ENFP - The Champion

ENTP - The Visionary

ESTJ - The Supervisor

ESFJ - The Provider

ENFJ - The Teacher

ENTJ - The Commander

E - Extraversion X I - Introversion

E (Extraversion): Indicates a preference for focusing on the outer world, gaining energy from social interactions, and being more outgoing.

I (Introversion): Represents a preference for focusing on the inner world, gaining energy from solitude, and being more reserved.

S - Sensing X N - Intuition

S (Sensing): Reflects a preference for gathering information through the five senses, focusing on concrete details, and being practical and realistic.

N (Intuition): Reflects a preference for gathering information through patterns, possibilities, and abstract concepts, focusing on the big picture and future possibilities.

T - Thinking X F - Feeling

T (Thinking): Indicates a preference for making decisions based on logic, objective analysis, and rational criteria.

F (Feeling): Indicates a preference for making decisions based on personal values, emotions, and consideration of the impact on relationships.

J - Judging X P - Perceiving

J (Judging): Suggests a preference for a structured, organized lifestyle, making decisions and planning ahead.

P (Perceiving): Suggests a preference for a flexible, spontaneous lifestyle, adapting to situations as they arise.

[typing-mbti]

About MBTI romantic compatibility

In this post I want to talk about my personal thoughts based on what I observe about MBTI romantic compatibility or romantic compatibility in general.

Because remember, MBTI isn't enough when looking for a partner; there can be:

Very different people of the same type

Similar people of very different types

It also depends on what similitarities and differences mean for you.

MBTI: COMPATIBLE, SIMILIAR, DIFFERENT

Think at colors: there are colours which matches armonically to you but maybe you still preferer a "very similar" colour that accompany you or "very different" one that make you natural color stands up

1) COMPATIBLE if you look for an armonical balance between your differences (dichotomies) and similarities (same primary function but inverted and same process thoughts of the other two functions)

E/I + P/J difference or also F/T or N/S depending on what is the primary function (change the other). F/T or N/S lead to apparently more differences but deeply same way to process some thoughts (exactly same middle cognitive functions)

Example: INTJ x ENFP or ENTP

Example: ISFP x ESFJ or ENFJ

2) SIMILIAR: same type or similiar in many things (but not having the same primary function and thinking process can still lead to a not so small difference): you prefer having more similitarities with your partner (e.g. both introverted)

Change just a letter (be conscious that usually the S/N difference alone could still lead to a strong difference)

Example: INTJ x INTJ or ENTJ or INFJ or INTP (or also ISTJ)

ABOUT changing only the last 2 dichotomies: it will lead to a more complex mix between similarities and differences, usually it can be great at times but can also lead to many misunderstandings, for this reason I see more friendships than romantic partners on these.

Example: INTJ x INFP

Example: ESTP x ESFJ

3) DIFFERENT: very different type or opposite type: you feel safe with a companion that can do the things you can't do.

Example: INTJ x ESFP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ,...

Is it immature?

If all you look for is just a personality type yes, but if you consider many things among which a specifically personality type... no. People choose their partner based on physical appearance, interests, sympathy, familiarity, style of life... and choosing based on the way a person perceive and process reality that affect every part of their daily life is nothing but deep.

"BUT if you both are willing to make it work..."

I will be honest here on my opinion. We are not talking about getting along with colleagues or in family or something forced, but with romantic relationships. It's so natural to look for a "compatible" friendship, why not with romance? Friends can be many while a romantic partner is hopefully just one and for every day of our life; and every relationship is already difficult by itself without us making it more complicated. We will live and share everything with our partner, make decisions with them, see and talk to them everyday: for this reason I personally don't see why we can't be selective.

So... is MBTI compatibility important? Depends

My personal opinion is that compatibility in general is very important, but not each couple needs MBTI compatibility to work well.

Your perfect match depends on who you are and what you look for in a partner.

-> Some thoughts to consider for wishing to have MBTI compatibility or not:

If your MBTI type is a huge part of who you are and your mental process - choose YES

Passions, interests, character and other things have a huge impact of who or your partner are more than MBTI - choose NO

You are selective and look for deep understanding of who you are to feel completely gotten - choose YES

You get along easily with others and feeling get is not your primary need (or not by a partner), you enjoy and look for other things - choose NO

Your process thoughts deeply, analyse others and observe a lot - choose YES

You are in tune with the ambience more than focusing too deeply on the others, you are more practical and a doer - choose NO

IMPORTANT CONSIDERATIONS

Your answer can be different of the one of your partner. For example an INFJ chooses her ENFP for MBTI compatibility because she wants to have long conversations and feel mentally connected with him while ENFP chooses her for the way she treats him and prefers spending time doing some hobbies together. So their relationship's will won't match.

If you wish for MBTI compatibility:

I will repeat it another time: MBTI isn't enough! There are always other things that defines us as values, humour, interests, style of life, mentality. So your life partner will be one of the personalities you get along with: not all will work perfectly with you!

MBTI isn't a guarantee! There is no perfect balance and every couple needs work.

If you wish for other kind of compatibilities:

Still be conscious about your personalities! Sometimes feelings cover our differences and you are ok with how are some things now but maybe in the future you or your partner will look for other things.

Be aware! Not thinking about it doesn't remove their type and your similarities/differences, the best is knowing your MBTI types and still be sure it's the best for you! MBTI knowledge in any case could always help in your journey.

Some example of couples I know:

MBTI compatible couples:

ISFP x ENFJ: natural match and they also share the same way to see life - worked

ESFP x ISFJ: compatible but the mental disorders of one destroyed their relationships and also their interests didn't match - didn't work

Not MBTI compatible couples:

INFP x ISTJ: they have the same values of family and both looked for a companion that can do what they couldn't, and feel safe in the differences of the other - worked

INFP x ESTJ: they loved the differences because they made them feel safe, during life they realized they needed to feel understood by the other and suffered for the lack of similitarities - didn't work

FINAL THOUGHTS

Be careful and choose what is best for YOU depending on what you and your partner look for in a relationship. Because at the end knowing what you want in your love life and waiting until you find it is the most important thing! If you want read this last part by thinking at different characteristics other than MBTI.

Different partner: more work to to but they can help you with doing the things you can't do. Always looking for an opposite partner can be sometimes linked to low self esteem, or positively to a strong adaptation ability.

Similiar partner: less work to do but you will have the same limits and face the same problems. Always looking for a very similar partner can be sometimes a sign of immaturity, or positively of a sensitive trait.

I'll say it again:

I talked about MBTI compatibility but remember that MBTI doesn't describe us totally so choose wisely considering that person completely!

And work with your defects and mental disorders, with them every relationship is destined to fail or be unhealthy or toxic.

Maybe you are thinking "love is blind"... to our mind maybe yes, but unconsciously is linked to how we see ourselves deeply.

Feelings may last some time but having a partner hopefully will last a life.

I wish you all the best love life :)

[sugar-and-pearls]

Familial FOS PERSONALITY TYPES AND HOW THEY INTERACT WITH MINE

(I'm not going to lie, this will be MUCH longer than my previous ones)

INFP X INFP

INFPs will typically have a weird “mind-reading” connection with other INFPs. That said, these types are so individualistic that if they have opposing values their connection can be like a bomb about to explode. When INFPs have friendships with other like-minded INFPs they tend to feel heard, seen, and inspired. Together they can explore each other’s imaginative inner worlds, fight for similar causes, and listen to each other without fear of external pressures and rules.

INFP X ESFJ

Warmth and passion are often at the heart of this friendship or relationship. ESFJ/INFP partnerships can be tumultuous or deeply rewarding depending on how willing both types are to understand and respect each other. ESFJs often appreciate the quiet tenderness of INFPs. INFPs can help them to tap into a deeper, truer sense of who they are and what they value. In contrast, ESFJs can provide INFPs with a friendly, down-to-earth haven with which to be themselves and share their ideas.

INFP X ESFP

These two types tend to click because they have a shared passion for authenticity and adventure. ESFPs can help break INFPs out of their shell and introduce them to a variety of exciting experiences. Their enthusiasm and fun-loving nature is often endearing to INFPs. In turn, INFPs can help ESFPs to tap into their emotions more fully and experience life with more depth and imagination. These types tend to bounce ideas and possibilities off each other well, with the ESFP wanting to immediately take action on ideas and the INFP going along for the ride and frequently enjoying the thrill!

INFP X ESTJ

ESTJs and INFPs tend to have fiery interactions – sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way. They are opposites in many ways while still sharing the same cognitive functions. ESTJs are often drawn to the quiet sensitivity and creativity of INFPs while INFPs are drawn to the pragmatic, logical nature of ESTJs. If both types can be patient with each other’s differences there is a lot of opportunity in this friendship or partnership for personal growth and broader perspectives.

INFP X ISFP

ISFPs and INFPs tend to have a really strong and powerful connection almost immediately. They both are dominant introverted feeling types, so they naturally give each other space to be themselves. They are both idealistic and visionary, with ISFPs having a more down-to-earth, pragmatic bent while INFPs are more focused on imagination and conceptualization. Together they can broaden each other’s worlds and help each other to have more open-minded, balanced perspectives.

INFP X INFJ

INFJs and INFPs share a mutual love of meaningful, deep conversation. These types tend to thrive as friends when they give each other space to be their authentic selves. While they share none of the same cognitive functions, because they share three preferences (Introversion, Intuition, Feeling) they tend to respect each other’s individual needs, empathize readily, and connect over ideas and possibilities.

INFP x INTJ

While these types might seem like opposites at first glance, they actually have quite a bit in common. They both look inward to their values and outwards to efficacy when they make decisions. They are both introverts and intuitives. They enjoy exploring ideas, theories, and possibilities together. They also respect each other’s personal values and autonomy.

INFP X ESTP

ESTJs and INFPs tend to have fiery interactions – sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way. They are opposites in many ways while still sharing the same cognitive functions. ESTJs are often drawn to the quiet sensitivity and creativity of INFPs while INFPs are drawn to the pragmatic, logical nature of ESTJs. If both types can be patient with each other’s differences there is a lot of opportunity in this friendship or partnership for personal growth and broader perspectives.

INFP X INTP 

INTPs and INFPs have a shared love of freedom, exploration, and autonomy. INTPs prefer thinking over feeling so they may come across as overly blunt to INFPs, and INFPs may come across as overly-sensitive to INTPs. However, once they get to understand each other there’s usually a very strong bond and mutual appreciation. Both respect each other’s space to feel and think what they want and both have a creative energy that is inspiring to the other.

INFP X ISFJ 

ISFJs and INFPs create a bubble of warmth and empathy for each other. These types usually click very quickly. They share a mutual sense of empathy, warmth, and gentleness. At the same time, ISFJs bring a more grounded presence to the relationship while INFPs help to clarify values, bring ISFJs into their pure identity, and give a spark of imagination. These types share two cognitive functions: Extraverted Intuition and Introverted Sensation. Because of this, while they have some differences, there is still a mutual sense of comfort here.

INFP X ENTJ

ENTJs and INFPs are very different at first glance, but these two types can really help each other grow. INFPs are often inspired by the big-picture, strategic, action-oriented nature of the ENTJ. ENTJs in turn find the warmth, authenticity, and imagination of the INFP intriguing. They can both help each other in contrasting ways. ENTJs can help INFPs bring their ideas to life and tap into their thinking side. They can also help them refine their ideas and create strategies for their realization. INFPs, in turn, can help ENTJs delve into their deeper feelings and values. They can also help them to see innovative alternatives and possibilities so they don’t get stuck in tunnel vision.

INFP X ENTP

ENTPs and INFPs share a mutual love of exploration, imagination, and creativity. While these types can have some friction due to their differing judging processes (ENTPs are auxiliary thinkers and INFPs are dominant feelers), these same differences can help them grow as individuals. This friendship or relationship pairing may be a little fiery and argumentative at times, but if both types can work at understanding each other’s type preferences it can also be one of growth and refinement.

[mbti-enemies]

let's play a game, shall we? I'm gonna give you some tropes and you pick 2 MBTIs to play the roles in each one

friends to lovers

enemies to lovers

lovers to enemies

grumpy X sunshine

fake dating to lovers

obliviously pinning X obliviously pinning

monster X hunter

has dark side X loves them anyways

has dark side X turns dark too

flirts all the time X easily flustered

forbidden

@intj can we actually post it like this i love our little to-and-fros or do you think that would be messy/unprofessional or smth- honestly dont mind, we can post like this?

friends to lovers: infp and enfj (also in honour of you guys)

enemies to lovers: intj x entp? infj x intj? aaah can we do infj and intj just because acc no no thats not even; entp x intj def

lovers to enemies: esfp x estj

grumpy X sunshine: intj x enfp or entj x infp idk @infj u decide (infj: ugh this is hard because intj x enfp fits the prompt more but prefer entj x infp as a ship)

fake dating to lovers: esfj x intp

obliviously pinning X obliviously pinning: istj xi isfj? (infj: FACTS)

has dark side X loves them anyways: istp x isfp

has dark side X turns dark too: intj x infj (@intj legit you've done this to me lowkey) (intj: yes that's the point )

flirts all the time X easily flustered: estp x infj? (infj was gonna go for a classic esfp x istj)

forbidden: entj x entp

[w-ht-w]

extroversion - introversion - ambiversion

intj - infp - intp - istj - isfj - istp - infj - isfj - enfp - entp - entj - enfj - estj - esfj - esfp - estp

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