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One of the main reasons why I silently freak out so much after talking to people in a group setting is because I listen to them (or at least try to act like I’m listening to them) but the very instant I open my mouth to speak, they start talking to someone else, or someone else talks right fucking over me even though they know I‘m trying to speak. Every. Single. Time.
And it’s not just so-called “neurotypical” people. Oh no. It’s neurodivergent people too. And the neurodivergent people I understand; but they also have to understand that not all of us are fast talkers and some of us need people to be patient or we will never get our information out. My brain-to-mouth processing speeds are extremely extremely slow and I cannot talk quickly to save my life unless I am reciting something I already have memorized. If someone cuts me off in any way before I am finished, my brain gets stuck in a buffering mode for three seconds at the very least, and more if they continue to cut me off when I’m trying to communicate “No that’s not the end of what I’m saying and that’s not what I even meant by that. Stop making hasty generalizations about a point you haven’t even heard through yet.”
But no matter who I am talking to, right before I am able to finish my extremely well-thought-out point that I’ve been formulating in my head for months or years prior in the mirror, I always, without fail get cut off because everyone gets impatient with my long pauses and doesn’t even want to attempt to listen to what I have to say because they think what they’re about to say in reaction is more important. And it’s not like I’m taking over the conversation or talking more than I listen; I’m just taking more time than they are comfortable with to say a typical amount of words.
And then those same people always tell me, in a somewhat patronizing tone, “You’re so quiet! You’re such a good listener!” Yes because that’s what you’ve made me. Why should I talk to you if you won’t fucking listen to me for three seconds. And no, after a certain point I stopped listening to you because why should I listen to you if you don’t ever listen to me?
Everyone’s nice to me and says they want me there at their social functions but they still subtly exclude me. God damn.
I suppose they want to look at me, or perhaps inhale my aroma. Like I’m a house plant.
#Not to bitch but I’ve been cut off my whole life but never quite as blatantly as today#And I’m not even mad at the person for doing it because I understand why they’re doing it#I’m just like them. I’d love to talk people’s ears clean off and make their eyes glaze over from talking too much and too fast#that is precisely the kind of personality that I have#but my brain works in blue whale time and theirs works in fruit fly time#So I’m no match for their speed#Again: I’m not mad at THEM. I’m just bitter and tired from everyone always misinterpreting me#and this specific incident (to no fault of my conversational partner) just sent me over the edge#because I’m trying my hardest to keep up with everyone’s speed and it never works#And now to have what always happens to me happen at about twenty times the intensity it usually does#Like holy shit#So if you ever find yourself wondering why I’m so obnoxiously verbose here on Tumblr… reference this post#I’m like if Data from Star Trek had the processing speed of a Dell laptop from 2002#I want to talk that much. I can talk that much… IF YOU WAIT TWO GODDAMN SECONDS
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I wish we were shown more about the Palisman carving process. I've wondered whether Flapjack's scarred eye was due to an injury when he was with Evelyn, during his time abandoned, or whether it was just a quirk/mishap of his carving. It'd also be cool if it was from a knot or a scar in the palistrom wood piece. If the bumps and scars from carving are carried over to when the palisman bonds to a witch and is animated, I feel like we would see more palismen with bumps, knots, and scars -- which is awesome. Woo!! Normalizing imperfections and quirks of beginning carvers
#it also sounds like it's pretty common to go through a trained carver#like Dell or Hunter#but I like the idea of there being young school age witches carving their own palismen#and getting asked throughout their careers about their partner's wonky leg or slightly crooked ear#i just feel like it'd help give the palismen personality#and also serve as little reminders of where the witch started#no matter how successful or powerful they get#but also on the flipside#what if that's why some palismen are abandoned#like they don't believe that their work at 14 is representative of their current status#so they replace their partner with another that will better fit their current view and opinion of themselves#and now i'm sad#clearly ive thought about this too much#palisman#toh palismen#flapjack toh#flapjack#the owl house#toh#toh theory#my unhinged thoughts
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Rafforzare la relazione di coppia: strategie efficaci
Oggi parliamo di un tema che riguarda molte coppie: Perché diventiamo freddi nei confronti del nostro partner? Se ti riconosci in questa situazione, continua a leggere perché ho cinque punti importanti da condividere con te. Punto 1: La routine quotidiana È normale che con il tempo la vita quotidiana prenda il sopravvento. Lavoro, impegni e stress possono farci dimenticare di dedicare…
#Brené Brown#coaching#coaching delle relazioni#coaching milano#daring greatly#gary chapman#john gottman#lovecoach#lovecoaching#lovepologist#partner#relazione#relazione amorosa#relazione di coppia#relazione sana#relazione tossica#routine quotidiana#sherry turkle#strategie efficaci#tecnologia#The Daimon Coach#the five love languages#thedaimoncoach#Valeria Squillante#valeriasquillante#virginia satir
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Sarah Adams | The Rule Book
The Book: The Rule Book by Sarah AdamsPublished: April 2, 2024 by DellDate read: March 14, 2024 ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Rating: 4 out of 5. The Characters: Nora and Derek Buy it on Bookshop.org | Amazon This page contains affiliate links. I may earn a small commission from qualifying purchases made through links on this site. The Plot (from Goodreads): Nora Mackenzie’s entire career lies in the hands of…
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#accidental marriage#apr24#California#Dell#fake partner#football#forced proximity#LA#Las Vegas#male BFFs#Mexico#neurodivergent rep#second-chance romance#secret pining#sports romance
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#British Asian Trust#LiftEd initiative#education#4 million kids#India#literacy#numeracy#foundational skills#consortium#partners#investment#Michael & Susan Dell Foundation#Reliance Foundation#Standard Chartered Bank#EdTech Accelerator#state governments#schools#educator training#digital solutions#at-home learning#low-income communities#social finance#King Charles III#Prince of Wales#British Asian business figures#social finance initiatives#Quality Education India Development Impact Bond#QEI DIB#UK government#Skill Impact Bond
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Dell Technologies lanza la estrategia Partner First para almacenamiento
Dell Technologies anunció su estrategia Partner First para almacenamiento, que designa a más del 99 por ciento de los clientes y potenciales clientes de Dell como partner-led para las ventas de almacenamiento. Esta nueva estrategia de comercialización combina la experiencia y el alcance de los socios con el equipo de primera clase y la cartera de almacenamiento de Dell, incluida la protección de…
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As Dell continued to touch and fondle, Taurie's tail would become increasingly harder to keep hold of. So ecstatic with his lovers ministrations Taurie couldn't keep his tail from whipping back and forth madly. As Dell scratched at the base it lifted, arching and pressing into the soft scritching of those short nails.
"Douse it with all ya got Sugar.... Feel so good... Ahm gonna..."
With a loud, baritone low that seemed to fill the forest Taurie released, splattering against Dell's belly and his own udders. Other than getting him out of breath and turning his grip to jelly it did little to extinguish the flames burning hot inside of him. That instinctual need to be bred spurring him onward, lowing sounds of encouragement for Dell to fill him with his seed.
When his wish was granted and his Texan stud had his ass filled to the brim there was a small respite. Taurie slumping forward, pushing Dell backwards onto the grass.
"Lord...ain't no machine either of us could build could make me feel the way you do... Yer so warm n' comfy..." The man practically cooed, going face down in Dell's tits. His ass starting to pulse and clench, thwarting ant escape and keeping his mate rooted in place.
When he'd feel Dell's fingers creeping toward his head he looked up, taking a breath and giving Dell the most love drunk smile he'd ever had. Oblivious that his boyfriend was about to attempt to put him under.
"Mah Dell...what ah'd ever do to deserve ya? Wish we could stay out here all night..."
“Alright, safe word is Spook, no more than two friendly shoulder pats a day and no stories about killing, maiming, arson, or unethical procedures or anything that I couldn’t tell Dolly Parton.” Dell continued to mumbled nervously as he continued to “look” for something in his pack.
He wasn’t sure of bringing the wedding ring was a good idea, the closer they got the more he was compelled to check and make sure it was still there, and it wasn’t even like he was going to ask until they were well on their way back.
After finishing reciting the rules for what felt like the 100th time in the past ten minutes Dell finally stopped and nodded to himself just as he pasted a sign confirming they were but 5 minutes away.
Seeing this Dell felt his panic welling back up but this time for a different reason. “Pull over somewhere secluded, I want to kiss ya one more time… again.”
Taurie couldn't help the amused smirk that rested on his face as he listened to Dell nervously talk himself through the rules the two of them had came up with. The longer they were in the truck the more restless Dell had become. Taurie couldn't deny his own nerves were making butterflies in his stomach, but being it was his own parents house helped.
"Sounds about right. We're just engineers that so happen to design and build weaponry." He nodded, chuckling as Dell asked him to pull over.
"Again? Ya act like ahm taken ya to death row, Dell." He teased, though Taurie did find a pull off that seemed empty.
He gave Dell a reassuring pat and offered his bottle of water after taking a quick sip. The air was hot and dry just as he'd remembered it.
"Try not to panic. Yer just a buddy that needed a break from work so ah let ya tag along." Taurie smiled, glancing around to confirm they were alone before leaning in to give his boyfriend another 'final' kiss, one of many over the past hour.
Patting Dells cheek he pulled back into the road. Taurie's excitement to see his family after being gone for several years outweighed his apprehension. After another minute or so of driving he nodded to the rolling pastures on the left side of the road.
"Property starts about out here. These fields are used later in the year, after the ones the cows are in now have grazed the grass short. Used to come out to the woods just yonder to explore when ah was little." He said, finger popping up from the steering wheel to point at a thicket of trees.
Looking over he lightly nudged Dell with his elbow, offering him a smile.
"Just breathe pardner. You've been through worse than this."
@dirty-dell
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BOYCOTTING FOR PALESTINE
The Official BDS Boycott Targets
Campaigns
Block the boat: End maritime arms transfer to Israel
Ban Apartheid Israel from Sports (FIFA, Olympics)
Consumer Boycotts - a complete boycott of these brands
Disney (SPECIFICALLY MARVEL)
Intel
Axa
Puma
Carrefour
HP
Cevron
Caltex
Israeli produce
Re/max
Ahava
Texaco
Siemens
Sodastream
Intel
Organic Boycott Targets - boycotts not initiated by BDS but still complete boycott of these brands
Macdonald's
Dominos
Papa Johns
Burger King
Pizza Hut
Wix
Divestments and exclusion - pressure governments, institutions, investment funds, city councils, etc. to exclude from procurement contracts and investments and to divest from these
Elbit Systems
CAF
Volvo
CAT
Barclays
JCB
HD Hyundai
TKH Security
HikVision
Pressure - boycotts when reasonable alternatives exist, as well as lobbying, peaceful disruptions, and social media pressure.
Google
Amazon
AirBnb
Booking.Com
Expedia
Teva
Here are some companies that strongly support Israel (but are not Boycott targets). There is no ethical consumption under capitalism and boycotting is a political strategy - not a moral one. If you did try to boycott every supporter of Israel you would struggle to survive because every major company supports Israel (as a result of attempting to keep the US economy afloat), that being said, the ones that are being boycotted by masses and not already on the organic boycott list are coloured red.
5 Star Chocolate
7Days
7Up
Apple
Arsenal FC
ALDO
Arket
Axe
Accenture
Ariel
Adidas
ActionIQ
Aquafina
Amika
AccuWeather
Activia
Adobe
Aesop
Azrieli Group
American Eagle
Amway Corp
Axel Springer
American Airlines
American Express
Atlassian
AdeS
Aquarius
Ayataka
Audi
Barqs
Bain & Company
Bayer
Bank Leumi
Bank Hapoalim
BCG (Boston Consulting Group)
Biotherm
Bershka
Bloomberg
BMW
Boeing
Booz Allen Hamilton
Burberry
Bath & Body Works
Bosch
Bristol Myers Squibb
Capri Holdings
Costa
Carita Paris
CareTrust REIT
Caterpillar
Coach
Cappy
Caudalie
CeraVe
Check Point Software Technologies
Cerelac
Chanel
Chapman and Cutler
Channel
Cheerios
Cheetos
Chevron
Chips Ahoy!
Christina Aguilera
Citi Bank
Carrefour
Codral
Cosco
Canada Dry
Citi
Clal Insurance Enterprises
Clean & Clear
Clearblue
Clinique
Champion
Club Social
Coca Cola
Coffee Mate
Colgate
Comcast
Compass
Caesars
Conde Nast
Cooley LLP
Costco
Côte d’Or
Crest
CV Starr
CyberArk Software
Cytokinetics
Crayola
Cra Z Art
Daimler
Dr Pepper
Del Valle
Daim
Doctor Pepper
Dasani
Doritos
Daz
Dior
Dell
Deloitte
Delta Air Lines
Deutsche Bank
Deutsche Telekom
DHL Group
David Off
Disney
DLA Piper
Domestos
Domino’s
Douglas Elliman
Downy
Duane Morris LLP
Dreft Baby Detergent & Laundry Products
Dreyer’s Grand Ice Cream
eBay
Edelman
Eli Lilly
Evian
Empyrean
Ericsson
Endeavor
EPAM Systems
Estee Lauder
Elbit Systems
EY
Forbes
Facebook
Fairlife
Fanta
First International Bank of Israel
Fiverr
Funyuns
Fuze
Fox News
Fritos
Fox Corp
Gatorade
Gamida Cell
GE
Glamglow
General Catalyst
General Motors
Georgia
Gold Peak
Genesys
Goldman Sachs
Grandma’s Cookies
Garnier
Guess
Greenberg Traurig
Guerlain
Givenchy
H&M
Hadiklaim
Huggies
Hanes
HSBC
Head & Shoulders
Hersheys
Herbert Smith Freehills
Hewlett Packard
Hasbro
Hyundai
Henkel
Harel Insurance Investment & Financial Services
Hewlett Packard Enterprise
HubSpot
Huntsman Corp
IBM
Innocent
Insight Partners
Inditex Group
IT Cosmetics
Instacart
Intermedia
Interpublic Group
Instagram
ICL Group
Intuit
Jazwares
Jefferies
John Lewis
JP Morgan Chase
Jaguar
Johnson & Johnson
JPMorgan
Kenon Holdings
Kate Spade
Kirks’
Kinley Water
KKR
KFC
KKW Cosmetics
Kurkure
Keebler
Kolynos
Kaufland
Kevita
Knorr
KPMG
Lemonade
Lidl
Loblaws
Levi Strauss
Louis Vuitton
Life Water
Levi’s
Levi’s Strauss
LinkedIn
Land Rover
L’Oréal
Lego
Levissima
Live Nation Entertainment
Lufthansa
La Roche-Posay
Lipton
Major League Baseball
Manpower Group
Marriott
Marsh McLennan
Maison Francis Kurkdjian
Mastercard
Mattel
Minute Maid
Monster
Monki
Mainz FC
Mellow Yellow
Mountain Dew
Migdal Insurance
Marks & Spencer
Mirinda
McDermott Will & Emery
Motorola
McKinsey
Merck
Michael Kors
Mizrahi Tefahot Bank
Merck KGaA
Micheal Kors
Milkybar
Maybelline
Mount Franklin
Meta
MeUndies
Mattle
Microsoft
Munchies
Miranda
Morgan Lewis
Moroccanoil
Morgan Stanley
MRC
Nasdaq
Naughty Dog
Nivea
Next
NOS
Nabisco
Nutter Butter
No Frills
National Basketball Association
National Geographic
Nintendo
New Balance
Nutella
Newtons
NVIDIA
Netflix
Nescafe
Nestle
Nesquick
Nike
Nussbeisser
Oreo
Oral B
Old spice
Oysho
Omeprazole
Oceanspray
Opodo
P&G (Procter and Gamble)
Pampers
Pull & Bear
Pepsi
Pfizer
Popeyes
Parker Pens
Philadelphia Cream Cheese
Pizza Hut
Powerade
Purina
Phoenix Holdings
Propel
Ponds
Pure Leaf Green Tea
Power Action Wipes
PwC
Prada
Perry Ellis
Prada Eyewear
Pringles
Payoneer
Procter & Gamble
Purelife
Pureology
Quaker Oats
Reddit
Royal Bank of Canada
Ruffles
Revlon
Ralph Lauren
Ritz
Rolls Royce
Royal
S.Pellegrino
Sabra Hummus
Sabre
Sony
SAP
Simply
Smart Water
Sprite
Schwabe
Shell
Soda Stream
Siemens
StreamElements
Schweppes
Sunsilk
Signal
Skittles
Smart Food
Sobe
Smarties
Sephora
Sam’s Club
Superbus
Samsung
Sodastream
Sunkist
Scotiabank
Sour Patch Kids
Starbucks
Sadaf
Stride
Subway
Tang
Tate’s Bake Shop
The Body Shop
Tesco
Twitch
The Ordinary
Tim Hortons
Tostitos
Timberland
Topo Chico
Tapestry
Tropicana
Tommy Hilfiger
Tommy Hilfiger Toiletries
Turbos
Tom Ford
Taco Bell
Triscuit
TUC
Twix
Tottenham Hotspurs
Twisties
Tripadvisor
Uber
Uber Eats
Urban Decay
Upfield
Unilever
Vicks
Victoria’s Secret
V8
Vaseline
Vitaminwater
Volkswagen
Volvo
Walmart
Wegmans
WhatsApp
Waitrose
Woolworths
Wheat Thins
Walkers
Warner Brothers
Warner Chilcot
Warner Music
Wells Fargo
Winston & Strawn
WingStreet
Wissotzky Tea
WWE
Wheel Washing Powder
Wrigley Company
YouTube
Yvel
Yum Brands
Ziyad
Zara
Zim Shipping
Ziff Davis
#free palestine#palestine#free gaza#israel#gaza#long post#from river to sea palestine will be free#palestinian lives matter#palestinian genocide#free free palestine#current events#fuck israel#anti zionisim#isntreal#defund israel#ceasefire#boycott israel#boycott divest sanction#boycott starbucks#boycott disney#boycott mcdonalds#boycotting#boycott divestment sanctions#my post#boycotts work
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Four Brothers and their flames 💕 🔥
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I mentioned I’d share them, so here they are! The Púca brothers with their significant others in Among Thorns and Thistles. 🥰 Their markings tend to glow when they’re feeling any strong emotions, so of course they’ll be lighting up like fireflies around their partners ✨
Altonicus, Osvaldo, Boone, and Kali all belong to @theboywithburninghands and Dawson and Dell belong to me :3
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From oldest brother to youngest:
🩺 Altonicus and Kali 🪴
🪵 Dawson and Osvaldo🎹
💥 Boone and Dell 🩸
📣 Jax and Pomni 📚
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Expect to see more of them soon, they are quite the entertaining pairs for all their own reasons! And as always, if you have any questions about any of them, my ask box is always open 😎
#the amazing digital circus#tadc folklore au#tadc jax#tadc pomni#funnybunny#tadc oc#artists on tumblr#tadc fanart
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Okay so here's everything I know about TF2. Please no one elaborate on anything I know about, because I think it's so much funnier if I have no context to anything. I have absorbed all of this through Tumblr osmosis
Emesis Blue is an excellent film
Soldier apparently was never an actual soldier, he just loves America and really wanted to kill Nazis (the second one i respect greatly)
Medic would probably give you a lobotomy for fun (i don't think this guy's even a doctor)
Two really old guys are fighting bloody wars over gravel I think and their father is named Grey Mann which was most definitely meant to make Gman enjoyers lose it but to be fair his name could also be Gary Man.
What am I on
Heavy and Medic are apparently gay but idk if this is a fandom seeing two men next to each other and going "gay" thing or a "all but confirmed gay" thing but TVTropes referred to them as "Heterosexual Life Partners" which is very funny
emesis blue is so fucking good oh my godddddd the respawn machine is horrifying just from the concept it turned scout into soup
Scout is half French and loves his mother (who is not french) and does not love his father (spy i think)
Medic presumably died went to hell and told the devil "oh I'm like a cat I have nine souls actually. So I should get to go back to being alive" and it fucking worked??????
THE FUCKING SCENE IN?? IN EMESIS BLUE??? WHERE. WHERE SOLDIER TELLS MEDIC "YOU'RE GONNA MAKE IT OUT" AND MEDIC SAYS "i KNOW" BEFORE HE JUST FUCKING DIES AND HE'S THE PROTAGONIST SO YOU'D EXPECT HIM TO LIVE RIGHT??? AND THEN HE JUST DIES AND DOESN'T APPEAR AGAIN FOR SO SO LONG
Pyro is an any pronouns warrior and it commits great atrocities while also having so much sillyness in his heart. I love her
I think Engineer blowed up his arm. I think
Spy is a cunt and also French. I do not think this I know this. I look at him and I sense his cuntery. It radiates off him. I can feel it.
SOMETHING ABOUT THE LETTER M BEING BRANDED ONTO MEDIC'S FACE BEING A REFERENCE TO THE MOVIE SCOUT WAS WATCHING WHERE THE LETTER M IS USED TO MARK A MURDERER. HE'S LITERALLY MARKED AS A MURDERER BY PYRO. SOMETHING ABOUT THE SCENE WITH DEMOMAN AND DELL'S BAR BEING A REFERENCE TO A SCENE IN THE SHINING WHERE THE MAIN CHARACTER IS LITERALLY TALKING TO A GHOST. SOMETHING ABOUT SCOUT'S MOTHER'S HEAD BEING HELD AROUND A CORNER AND DROPPED PARALLELING PYRO'S HEAD BEING HELD AROUND A CORNER AND DROPPED. SOMETHING ABOUT SCOUT'S "IF THEY EVER HIT YOU WITH SOMETHING, YOU HIT BACK TWICE AS HARD" WITH MEDIC SHOOTING SPY TWICE IN THE HEAD AFTER BEING SHOT ONCE IN THE GAME OF RUSSIAN ROULETTE WHY IS EMESIS BLUE SO GOOD
TF2 is in an eternal war with Overwatch for some reason
I was doing a poll a few days ago and the tags psychic blasted me with the information of "by the way people pay like fifty dollars to see medic's tiddies in game." I have gotten varying answers between ninety dollars to three hundred fucking dollars but the constant remains that people will pay Valve comically high amounts of money to see Medic's boobs. What
Scout almost got Earth exploded because he died a virgin???? But then God was like "Okay go back down to earth I'm giving them one last chance to all have sex with you" I'm so confused what does any of this mean none of this makes any sense but it's hilarious
Scout might be legitimately named after Jerma and bears a frightening resemblance to him (though to be fair scout is every white boy in one)
You should watch Emesis Blue it's free on youtube
Demoman's eye is sentient even though he doesn't have it????
I can't decide who's my favorite the white boy the unethical scientist or the silly nonbiney war criminal
Conclusion: What the fuck is team fortress the second one about
#cassie rambles#please don't tell me what it's about it's so much funnier if i am confused forever#tf2#emesis blue
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Nel nostro immaginario collettivo il “vero stupro” avviene nello spazio pubblico (un parcheggio, una stradina solitaria), la notte, e la donna, che indossa un abito scollato o la minigonna, è minacciata con un coltello o un’arma da fuoco da un mostruoso sconosciuto psicopatico. In realtà, questo scenario corrisponde solo a un’esigua minoranza dei casi. È dunque indispensabile decostruire questi pregiudizi sullo stupro, obiettivo che ci siamo prefissati con Noémie Renard, bioingegnera e militante femminista, che ha studiato, compilato, raccolto migliaia di statistiche e di studi sulle violenze sessuali, per farne un’opera notevole, “En finir avec la culture du viol.” Ecco le conclusioni di Renard.
– Gli stupratori non utilizzano quasi mai armi e non hanno bisogno di usare violenza fisica.12 Nel 70% dei casi le vittime non si divincolano perché sono paralizzate (dalla paura, perché non riescono a credere a quello che stanno subendo).
– Gli stupratori non sono dei “frustrati”. Non violentano per mancanza di rapporti sessuali consenzienti. Tutti gli studi sugli aggressori sessuali mostrano che hanno più partner sessuali rispetto alla media: una ricerca del 1990 rivela che l’89% degli uomini in carcere per stupro, prima della condanna, aveva rapporti regolari almeno una o due volte a settimana, di cui si diceva soddisfatto.
– Gli stupratori non violentano in preda a “pulsioni” incontrollabili: se così fosse, lo farebbero in mezzo alla strada, in pieno giorno, davanti a tutti.
– Gli stupratori non sono psicopatici. In Europa solo il 7% degli stupratori condannati ha un disturbo mentale. Al contrario, hanno un comportamento estremamente razionale: le loro azioni sono ponderate, premeditate, calcolate, per cercare di esporsi a meno rischi possibili.
– Lo stupratore è spesso “l’uomo qualunque” di ogni età ed estrazione. Il collettivo Féministe contre le viol che da anni ha una linea d’ascolto delle vittime, riporta che queste donne sono state violentate da agricoltori, medici, operai.
– Lo stupro è un reato molto più diffuso di quanto si pensi: in media tra il 25% e il 43% degli uomini dice di aver compiuto almeno una volta nella vita un’aggressione sessuale, o una penetrazione forzata.
– Gli stupratori non sono degli sconosciuti: l’80% delle vittime racconta di essere stato stuprato da uomini che conosceva: mariti, amici, vicini, professori, persone di famiglia.
Victoire Tuaillon - Fuori le palle. Privilegi e trappole della mascolinità.
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Hi! I just saw requests were open and I was wanting to request a few of the tf2 mercs (heavy, medic, and engineer) with an s/o who has night terrors. I have them due to ptsd and the medication for them doesn't work 100%
Hi, I just thought I'd let you know I have no knowledge on PTSD, so I apologise if any of this is offensive or inaccurate, I more just wrote this about people who have frequent sleep issues!
Heavy, Engineer and Medic with an s/o with night terrors
Heavy
- Heavy is a very understanding and patient man with the people he cares about, so you best know he will be here for you any time of the day/night
- If you decide to tell him about this, he appreciates it for sure
- "Thank you, (Y/n), for telling Heavy."
- He's glad you trust him with this, especially if your sleeping issues come from something that happened to you
- He has personal experience of traumatic things too when he was young, and has some nightmares too
- Depending on how long you've been together, he might just tell you all about his past too
- If you haven't been together, he'll just briefly mention the topic
- "Heavy understands this too well. Too well..."
- If you tried hiding it, he isn't angry at you of course, since he hides things too
- But he lightly scolds you the same way he scolds his sisters
- "Why did you not tell Heavy? Heavy does not judge. Do not hide from Heavy. Please."
- He loves you, and wants you to trust him with this :')
- He definitely asks Medic for advice, both about how to support you but also if there's any medication
- He does trust his Medic, but he does threaten him to give you something actually helpful and nothing suspicious
- "Doctor gives this. Helps with night problems."
- Will make you at least try it (not by force, but he'll heavily encourage it)
- If you want, he'll read to you (in Russian, preferably) if it helps you relax before sleeping
- Most nights will end with him gently holding you as you both sleep, as his unconscious way of keeping you safe
- If you wake up from a nightmare, he'll probably feel it, either that or you wake him yourself
- When he does awake, no matter what time it is, he'll still stay up and help you with whatever you need
- He loves you, he will always care for and protect you :)
Engineer
- Engineer is also very caring of his partners, so he definitely wouldn't judge either
- If you tell him straight away, he's glad
- It warms his heart to know you trust him with something like this
- He is a great listener, so if you want to talk about the cause of these he's your guy
- Dell's patient, super patient, so if you don't want to talk about it at the time he understands
- "Whenever you're ready, sweetheart."
- (When he calls you 'sweetheart' >>>>)
- If you do tell him about it in further, he can't help but furrow his brows in sympathy
- How could someone as brilliant as you deserve all this?
- After you tell him, he definitely holds you close and leaves kisses on your head
- "Thank you for sharing this, honey."
- If you do hide this from him though, he has the same sort of reaction as Heavy
- In which, he scolds you a little for not trusting him with this
- He isn't mad, but he hopes you'll be able to tell him these things sooner rather than later next time
- Anyways, he definitely has a trial and error sort of thing with your sleeping issues
- While yes, he always spends hours late at night working anyway, now he spends a couple of those hours writing notes on what helps you out
- Since he usually works late (no matter how much you try, you can't fully stop him from doing so), he doesn't usually go to bed with you when you do
- But after a bit of working here and there, he'll eventually slide into bed with you, resting your head on his chest
- He likes watching you sleep (bit creepy, tbh) for a little before drifting off
- If you have a nightmare whilst he's in bed, he definitely wakes up before you (he has a sixth sense, idk) and gently wakes you up by stroking your hair/face
- "Hey, wake up honeybee, you're alright, it's just me..."
- If he's at work when you have a nightmare, just come up to him and he'll hold you on his lap (if not possible, he'll just cup your face)
- Either way, he'll be here for you, giving you a hot chocolate/tea/warm drink, holding your hand and leaving small kisses on your shoulder and knuckes
- As previously stated before, he is very patient, so he doesn't mind staying up for hours with you
- He genuinely loves you, and if caring for you includes this, he doesn't mind at all
Medic
- He does more medical checks on you than any of the other mercs, so he probably finds out about it then
- If you tell him first, he's happy that you trust him, even if he already knows
- "Thank you, for telling me this liebe. I already knew by your check-ups, but thank you anyway!"
- Still, he appreciates your honesty and is glad that you told him
- It's better to hear it from you, since you're the one suffering from the issue
- If you talk to him about the cause of these/what they often are about, he can't help but hold your hand in support
- "I know I'm not the best with emotional support... but I am here for you. We will solve this together!"
- If you don't tell him and try to hide it, he's probably going to bring it up at some point, since he'll figure it out rather quick
- "You have... nightmares, correct? How long has it been this way?"
- He would ask quite a few questions during the discussion, writing down any important notes on his notebook
- He will try almost everything to try help, writing down the results of each trial
- By almost everything, I mean he'll be so obsessed on finding some sort of medical solution, he'll forget that sometimes just holding eachother can help too
- "You want me to... hold you? Oh, liebe, of course. How could I forget?"
- Like Engineer, he also stays up quite late sometimes, but tries to remind himself you like sleeping with him
- He always holds you close, leaving a kiss on your forehead with a smile undeniably on his face
- "Sorry for being so late, dear. I'm here now."
- When you wake up from a nightmare, he'll be there no matter what, whether he's in his medbay or he's beside you
- I think he has some sort of sixth sense like Engineer, where he just knows something has happened
- Either way, he's there for you, holding you to his chest, running his hand through your hair/rubbing your back
- "Do not worry, my liebe. I'm here..."
- If any medication can help, he's definitely encouraging you to take it
- As for his notebook with all the ideas, he's definitely going through all of them until you calm down and can try going to sleep
- He cares for you so much, he's willing to stay up anytime with you
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Jorge Luis Borges sosteneva che gli antichi greci furono i primi a pensare, ci hanno dato la poesia, la scienza, la filosofia razionale, che tutta la cultura a noi pervenuta nel corso dei secoli derivi dai greci.
I filosofi greci distinguevano l’amore in 12 tipologie diverse a seconda delle diverse emozioni umane e sfumature del sentimento:
Agape (αγάπη)
Agape è l’amore incondizionato, anche non ricambiato. Va al di là delle forze umane, è un amore puro e senza alcuna aspettativa. Viene utilizzato nei vangeli e nella religione.
Eros (έρως)
Eros è la tipologia di amore più conosciuta. Dio greco della fertilità, il suo tipo di amore rappresenta quello passionale, il desiderio carnale. Veniva definito in termini di irrazionalità, perché il desiderio ardente avrebbe potuto portare alla follia.
Philia (φιλία)
Philia indica un tipo di amicizia profonda. Amicizia come vincolo di fiducia e lealtà, come fondamenta di un rapporto solido e suggellato dalla bellezza della condivisione. Amare ed essere amati.
Storge (στοργή)
Storge è l’amore nei confronti della famiglia o dei parenti, tipico dei consanguinei, deriva da “stergo” che significa amare teneramente.
Philautia (φιλαυτία)
Philautia è l’amore per sé stessi, l’amor proprio, fonte di perfezionamento e benevolenza è definito come forma di egoismo positivo.
Mania (μανία)
Mania associato all’amore è il desiderio incondizionato di amare e possedere, l’amore tossico che vive (apparentemente) solo attraverso il possesso di ciò che brama, il partner come oggetto del desiderio. Distruttivo.
Charis (χάρις)
Charis è forse la tipologia d’amore più ambita tanto quanto appagante: idilliaco. Entrambi i partner si amano allo stesso modo, sia fisicamente che spiritualmente.
Himeros (ἵμερος)
Himeros è l’amore che arde di desiderio fisico, impulsivo, irrefrenabile, l’amore folle. Desiderio carnale, non ascolta ragioni e va appagato nell’immediato.
Anteros (αντέρως)
Anteros, fratello di Eros (si narra fossero inseparabili) è l’amore corrisposto con il rispettivo coniuge/compagno e indica la stabilità sentimentale.
Pragma (πρᾶγμα)
Pragma è associato all’amore maturo di lunga data, ma anche al compromesso e alla pazienza. Fare uno sforzo per dare amore piuttosto che solo per riceverlo.
Pothos (Πόθος)
Pothos è la personificazione del rimpianto e del senso di nostalgia che si prova quando una persona amata è lontana. È anche identificato con l’amore adolescenziale, l’infatuazione, il desiderio prima dell’incontro.
Thelema (θέλημα)
Thelema è l’amore nei confronti di ciò che si fa, il proprio lavoro, il piacere di fare qualcosa, il desiderio voler fare e non è rivolto quindi ad una persona.
— manuela g.
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questi mesi del 2024 mi sono serviti a comprendere una grande verità, non importa quanti amici tu abbia o quante volta tu esca: sei solo, essere soli è una condizione esistenziale della razza umana, puoi circondarti di trecento persone ma nei momenti in cui la tua vita spegne le luci e devi brancolare nessuno ti terrà la torcia, tu devi avere la forza di premere il tastierino e camminare finché non trovi l’uscita, non puoi fare affidamento su un partner o su un amico, non perché tutti siano delle merde ma semplicemente perché tutti hanno la propria vita ed egoisticamente è giusto che tutti siano distratti dalla propria vita e della tua non frega niente a nessuno
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