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Whatever today evokes in you is valid. 🖤 "Every family loves differently. Every love is unique."
So, let's just celebrate our Murder MILFs.
#hannibal and will#hannibal nbc#hannigram#will graham#hannibal lecter#nbc hannibal#murder husbands#murder mothers#milfs and dilfs#feeling paternal will#pointlessly gendered#daughters of narcissistic mothers#my dad killed my dad#my mom killed my dad#hannibal memes#abigail hobbs#will graham my beloved#world's worst mothers#surrogate daughter
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As a teen, I pooled my money and got my abusive mother a knock-off Pandora bracelet. It was expensive despite being off-brand, and I didn’t have a job- I saved as much as I could to buy one for her. Pandora too much for me to afford, the one I got was identical.
My mother refused to wear it. She threw it into her least-favourite jewellery box. She wouldn’t even try it on. She demanded jewellery as gifts from people, and from then on, I tried my hardest to buy her real gold, real diamonds- but it was never enough. I could never be enough for her tastes.
When I was in my mid-20′s, I bought her the real, name-brand Pandora bracelet. One of my siblings insisted that I buy it for my mother, because they’d bought a couple of charms. I was left with the bulk of the cost, and against my better judgement, I bought it. I also got her some gold diamond owl earrings. She liked owls, they were ‘real’ metal and gemstones, surely it’d be enough?
I think I just wanted any bare scrap of affection, or gratitude, or even acknowledgement.
My mother told everyone that my sister brought the bracelet. She told everyone that would listen. She told people I bought her “nothing”, that she “got nothing at all from [me]”. People said I was a disgusting daughter, that they couldn’t believe that I did that to my poor mother. They also COULD believe that I’d done something so mean, because my mother had smeared my name so thoroughly, it was seen as “just another [me] thing” to add to the long list of grievances they had against me.
I went No Contact a few short months later.
#abusive mother#abusive parents#daughters of narcissistic mothers#raised by narcissists#narcissistic mothers#Daughter of Narcissistic Mother#pandora#cptsd#just cptsd things#ptsd#abuse#domestic abuse#child abuse
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You know there’s no escaping when even Catherine the Great had a narcissistic mother 🙈 they are everywhere!
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#daughtersofnarcissisticmothers
Prozac Nation (2001)
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My favorite joke ever was one i read here years ago and lost track of. It said:
Why did my narcissistic mother cross the road?
She thought they were my boundaries.
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Me and my egg donor's other children rolling up to her funeral like
#toxic mother#toxic parents#narcissistic abuse#narcissistic parents#narcissistic mother#narcissist#daughters of narcissistic mothers
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Katie Maria / Katherine Fabrizio A Poem From the Adult Daughter to the Narcissistic Mother: Not Your Fault, Not Mine, Just Is / pinterest / Annie Ernaux / Christina Bothwell Incessant Dreamer (2022) / pinterest / pinterest / pinterest
#more venting lol#on childhood#on growing up#on mothers#on fathers#katie maria#katherine fabrizio#a poem from the adult daughter to the narcissistic mother#not your fault not mine just is#annie ernaux#christina bothwell#incessant dreamer#poem#spilled poetry#spilled thoughts#spilled ink#dark academia#words#dark academia poetry#writing#dark academia quote#poetry#on loneliness#on sadness#on emotion
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I wish I could meet you in the street
Maybe one of us will be lost and would stop the other to ask for directions
We will share a laugh on how we are the worst people to ask for directions
You would feel comfortable enough to have coffee with me
I would remind you of your daughter that looks like me
Maybe you would say some kind words about her
Maybe you would ask me for advice on being a better mother
Maybe if I met you as a woman and not a mother we would like each other
I pray that you never know how much you hurt me
I hope you never realize how you tortured and broke me every day
It would kill you mother
I hope you never know
#sadnees#tw depressing thoughts#depressing shit#tw depressing stuff#mother#did you miss me?#childhood ptsd#childhood truama#crying child#inner child#child abuse#tw abuse#narcissistic abuse#emotional abuse#toxic parents#i am in pain#generational truama#truamacore#tw truama#tw ptsd#ptsd vent#living with ptsd#trauma#mentally fucked#thought daughter#deppressed#past lives#you broke my heart#please help#healing
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"you still belong to me"
#mother daughter issues#mother daughter relationship#white oleander#mother!#narcissistic mother#narc mom#astrid magnussen#ingrid magnussen#alison lohman#michelle pfeiffer#girl interrupted#girl problems#pale grunge#thirteen movie#thirteen 2003#thirteen#disorganized attachment#lizzy grant#lana del rey#female experience#my post
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#narcissist mother daughter relationship#scapegoat daughter#Youtube#emotional abuse#Psychological abuse
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In a home where cold indifference finds its place,
A child lights a flame with a fragile grace.
Burning memories of what could have been,
To warmth the heart that once locked within.
Seeking solace in the fire's glow,
A warmth they'd never come to know.
In the crackling grow, they find a space,
A fleeting comfort in the fire's embrace.
#childhood emotional neglect#childhood trauma#neurodivergent#original poem#poem#toxic parents#youngest daughter#psychological abuse#mommy issues#daddy issues#trauma recovery#living with cptsd#absent father#narcissistic mother
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Three years ago, I almost died. I have a severe anaphylactic allergy to an ingredient in dyes. I learnt this the hard way- the hospital way. The multiple-doctors-pumping-me-with-meds-to-keep-me-alive sort of way. I didn't tell any biological family that I'd nearly died until a week after getting out of hospital, as I was swollen to the point of being disfigured, and didn't feel like dealing with guests. When I told my father, and explained what it meant for me moving forward and the restrictions I now have to live with, like potentially being unable to get more tattoos in future, he replied with "Good." He himself has an anaphylaxis allergy. He's been hospitalised a couple of times due to his allergy. He knows how terrifying anaphylaxis is. He knows. "Good." Some days the guilt of estrangement is crushing, a huge weight upon my chest, a self-flagellation of shame. I feel so bad for cutting off my elderly father, knowing that he says I am his "purpose in life"- and then some days I remember.
I remember that he tried to drown me as a child. I remember the drug and alcohol abuse that featured through most of my childhood. I remember the physical violence he inflicted. I remember that he didn't come visit me after I'd told him that I'd nearly died. He didn't even ask how I was feeling. He didn't call to check up on me. He didn't ask how I was healing, or show any empathy at all. I remember that he told me "good." "Good."
#daughters of narcissistic mothers#child abuse#child abuse survivor#estranged#no contact#donam#daughters of narcissistic fathers#donaf#anaphylaxis#allergies#allergic#epipen#estrangement#estranged child#estranged family#drowning#bad parenting#neglect#tw abuse#emotional abuse
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Elizabeth Wurtzel in Prozac Nation (2001)
#my stuff#film tumblr#women in film#elizabeth wurtzel#prozac nation#gloomy coquette#lana del rey aesthetic#lana del rey#girlblog#eldest daughter#eldest sibling#eldest child#narcissistic mother#girlblog aesthetic#girlhood#im just a girl#female hysteria#feminine urge#feminine rage#girlrotting#hell is a teenage girl#this is what makes us girls#girlblogging#girl interrupted#manic pixie dream girl#cinnamon girl#sadgirl#2014 tumblr#2014 aesthetic#2014 grunge
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I feel like I'm just going through the motions today. Send me sweet anons or pics of the boys pls. I love y'all.
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#holy shit holy shit#dimension 20 neverafter#dimension 20#d20 neverafter#neverafter spoilers#neverafter#the lines between#brennan lee mulligan#this resonates with my trauma of being a daughter of an untreated narcissist mother
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my parents are so against divorces it baffles me honestly
#this concerns my mama mami ok so like#they have the most toxic marriage#he used to work#doesn't anymore even tho he has a shop#he just doesn't go to the shop#she works as a teche6#they fight ALL THE TIME#everyone knows they fight#their daughter told me she wishes her dad didn't exist because hes a pathetic man#and my grandma. that narcissistic bitch#always fighting#yelling hitting abusing u name it#she's a horrible person and im sad my mother doesn't just go NC#(that's another issue altogether)#anyways so today i suggested ki theu should get a divorce#bhaisahab. the way my mom got heated up#it makes no sense to me#yes my mami isn't a good person either but all this could be solves if they just separate?#like. its an easy solution for me#“she wants the money so she doesn't get divorced HAVE YOU HEARD ABOUT ALIMONY#i just don't get it#my mom literally yelled at me#and called me a negative thinker?? no ma'am im a practical thinker#that family is yelling at each other everyday. not making food for one another#avoiding each other every moment of the say#day*#and ur telling me there are other options? what options 😭😂😭😂#anyways#indian parents need to grow up and stop being so old fashioned and conservative
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