#cdds

[sysmedsaresexist]

Reminder :) the ISSTD says that DID is not rare

[butterednuttered]

🌈SYSTEM EDUCATION DISCORD SERVER!⭐

🌀HELLO! DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT COMPLEX DISSOCIATIVE DISORDERS SUCH AS DID, OSDD, OR PARTIAL DID? WE HAVE A WONDERFUL SERVER FOR YOU! 🌌WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS SERVER

a diverse group of people with different experiences

research papers, case studies, dsm-5 pages, books, etc on dissociation

a silly funny community

an application system for gaining access to channels that discuss personal experiences, questions, and general chat

a screenreader and dyslexic friendly environment!

a syskid safe environment

we accept tons of people into our server!

🪐SOME BASIC RULES

endos and their supportters are heavily encouraged not to join, as we don't support endos in this server, however, people who are neutral on the topic are fine

if you are found to have been actively fakeclaiming people, especially on r/SystemsCringe, you are still welcome to stay, but you will be perma-banned from social and discussions channels! (we have had to do this before.)

13+ server!! meaning NO NSFW. INVITE: https://discord.com/invite/E2raRCk6QR

[mischiefmanifold]

okay kind of interested in this so

didn't include an option for neither because I don't want screwy results. also endos do not touch thanks

reblog for reach please 🙏

[circulars-reasoning]

Hey! I’m not touching this discourse directly with a 10 foot pole, especially since drama hungry folks are on the prowl for anything with an acronym in it, but!

I started using CDD as an acronym to take the place of DIDOSDD, primarily because CDD felt more obviously inclusive of the disorders often unmentioned. I feel like writing out DIDOSDDDDNOSUDDPDIDMPD would be… a mouthful.

I’ve seen a few folks stirring up this idea that it was being used as a way to exclude traumagenic non-disordered systems or endogenic systems… Nope! I feel like I’m partially why it gained so much popularity in syscourse since I started using it so regularly, and I can attest, it had literally nothing to do with non-disordered individuals. I just wanted a clearer way to abbreviate “any dissociative disorder with a medically complex structure that forms a system.” ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[flirts-with-dragons]

Girls with DID will be thinking everything is normal until they full blackout switch in the middle of therapy with no idea why they have tears all over their face

It's me im Girls

[multiplicity-positivity]

is it normal for people with cdd's to have less dissociative barriers or more disociative barriers ? or just the same amount as an adult ?

it’s definitely normal for people with cdds to have more dissociative barriers than their peers without dissociative disorders.

that’s a big part of the nature of dissociative disorders. these disorders create dissociative barriers between alters which in turn blocks alters and memories off from each other.

we’re not certain about the existence of dissociative barriers in singlets, but we have a strong feeling that people without dissociative disorders deal with dissociative barriers incredibly rarely, if at all.

you can learn more about dissociative disorders in our resource post for questioning systems. there is a whole section with links to articles and info on dissociative disorders.

🐢 kip, 💫 parker, and 🌸 margo

edit: it’s also true that people with ptsd and other trauma disorders may struggle with dissociation and dissociative barriers!

[system-confession-blog]

The ugly thing about CDD is also the discomfort generated by the comorbidity that coexists, if I have to put up with this shit, along with other shit, it's just more discomforting :(

[boyswillbedogz]

trauma so bad my coping mechanisms have names and pronouns

[aurangg]

Something really not talked about with trauma disorders is the paranoia.

Being scared and jumping to conclusions when people stand a little too close to you, not believing people’s compliments and thinking they have hidden motives, not believing when people tell you they like/love you, thinking that strangers you see on the street want to hurt you, etc.

[clutching-our-plurals]

Shout out to all the kids who always picked shape-shifting as their hypothetical power growing up and assumed it was for gender affirmation but now realize it was also a plurality thing.

[sysmedsaresexist]

Hot Take

Functional multiplicity and final fusion aren't really all that different in practice and experience, and you should all stop overthinking it

Worrying, fussing, and arguing is only going to stress you out, and we all know what stress does to systems

Relax and stop policing and scaring others, especially if you're not currently experiencing either

Slow down, take things one day a time, recognize and accept that your goals can change, that you collectively have more of a say in what happens than you think, and consider, maybe they're surprisingly similar experiences that are rewarding in ultimately similar ways

[butterednuttered]

🌈SYSTEM EDUCATION DISCORD SERVER!⭐

🌀HELLO! DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT COMPLEX DISSOCIATIVE DISORDERS SUCH AS DID, OSDD, OR PARTIAL DID? WE HAVE A WONDERFUL SERVER FOR YOU! 🌌WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS SERVER

a diverse group of people with different experiences

research papers, case studies, dsm-5 pages, books, etc on dissociation

a silly funny community

an application system for gaining access to channels that discuss personal experiences, questions, and general chat

a pretty good middle ground for people who use typing quirks and keep proxies for comfort as well as people who use screen readers and/or are dyslexic

a syskid safe and non-infantilizing environment

🪐SOME BASIC RULES

endos and their supporters are heavily encouraged not to join, as we don't support endos in this server, however, people who are neutral on the topic are fine

if you are found to have been actively fakeclaiming people, especially on r/SystemsCringe and r/FakeDisorderCringe, you will be perma-banned from social and discussions channels, or even the entire server. (we have had to do this before.)

13+ server!! meaning NO NSFW. INVITE: https://discord.com/invite/E2raRCk6QR

[orbitposting]

DID but not as in presence of "evil murderer alter", DID as in buying two drinks instead of one because someone came to front after seeing a blue raspberry slushie and DEMANDED to have it, but the alter who walked all the way to the gas station refused to leave without getting what they wanted to get initially.

[botanical-garden-system]

Hey, it’s not your fault. You were just a kid. You may still BE a kid. But I know a few things for certain:

You didn’t ask to be born into this world.

You didn’t ask to be treated the way that you were treated—whether it was by bullies, parents, or other family members.

You didn’t ask to “be a burden” to your caregivers, you deserved that space to be loved and safe

You didn’t ask for your consent to be broken.

You didn’t ask for the shame and guilt someone put you through.

You aren’t bad for something happening to you. You aren’t your trauma.

I’m sorry if you were ever made to feel that way, and I know that may never mean much coming from a stranger, but I know it’s something I wish I heard more.

[candyrain-collective]

a comic about my experience with other people's perception of my DID/OSDD. might do more pages in the future? we'll see.

[thefluxsystem]

You know what the worst part of having a dissociative disorder is, for me personally?

The emotional amnesia.

Your entire life feels like something that you watched on TV, rather than something that you actually lived through.

You know that some of the most horrific things imaginable have happened to you, and you feel nothing about it. Sure, the memories disgust you on principle, but you don’t feel anything.

It makes you question if anything that you remember is real. If that actually happened, shouldn’t it feel significant? Shouldn’t you be sad, angry, hurt, something?

And to top it all off, nobody understands. Not even yourself.