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Atp it’s gotta be something abt me
#why do I only ever get the guys who send mixed signals#why can’t I get a boy who actually seeks me out#also it would be fine if these guys didn’t get me to care about them#but to make me care#and then make me feel like you never liked me at all?????#what the genuine fuck#I mean atp it’s gotta be something up with my attachment style#or the type of guys I go after#I don’t know anymore#but what an asshole move#to switch up so drastically and so fast#and how dare a BOY!!! a MAN!!!! make me feel so stupid???? I’m not stupid#it’s so over
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they really put alicent in bridgerton blue on the reunion and genuinely expected me to think that she didn’t in fact march all the way to dragonstone to get wifed up? bfr
#I am only a girl living in a society#I make connections#she looks so pretty in blue though I want more#also you’re telling me that rhaenyra saw her walk in all cute looking to not completely crumble at the sight of her?#like my girl got all dolled up for you do something#rhaenyra IS a puppy dog when it comes to those bambi eyes shut up#Alicent was like you think you want her? I’m the love of your life you moron#and rhaenyra is like I KNOW#like she’s been trying to get the other woman to realize that very thing for the last 15+ years#and alicent’s all heartbroken like oh so you’re taking her to wife#and rhaenyra is like nO? WHAT?? all dumb and speechless cause jealous alicent was definitely not on her bingo card this year#whilst also having her own mental breakdown#because how on earth is she meant to explain this to her councel#or jace for that matter#that sure was goint to be a fun future conversation to have with her heir#but also Alicent just strutted into the room and started acting like a scorned wife?#which left rhaenyra feeling like the asshole parent who stopped paying for child support after the divorce#but also she never wanted a divorce in the first place?? and alicent doesn’t seem to get this?#like she’s already figuring out how to most efficiently empty daemon’s chambers for the woman to move in permanently#but alicent’s still yapping off about not having a place in court anymore and fleeing across the sea#and rhaenyra can’t help the bitter taste in her mouth as she states how that ship came in a little too late for them and it is messyyyy#hotd leaks#house of the dragon leaks#hotd spoilers#house of the dragon#house of the dragon spoilers#rhaenicent#alicent hightower#rhaenyra targaryen#bridgerton
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One liners the sequel
#acontextual house#house md#gregory house#james wilson#thirteen#remy hadley#robert chase#“irene adler” fucking killed me first time I heard it#Wilson you're fucking asshole lmao#now did he made up a name or the Sherlock series existence is canon#but ducklings didn't seem to catch on to the reference so its prob random#or was it losely based on someone real who house knew and who did “win” like irene in sherlock did#the fact that this is wilson (watson) telling (making up) us the story of irene is very neat adaptation move to me#is it even adaptation lol. just a reference I guess#anyway#still i laughed at that line#and whats in the porntitle is “Making room for Daddy's hot bisexual with boyfriend problems.”#ridiculous#applies to them both#long post#longpost
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the rage I feel when reading Blood of Olympus chapters 45-56 is almost equivalent in magnitude to the absolute joy I experience when reading The Last Olympian chapters 1-23.
remember when percabeth was good? when they meant the world to each other but had other people they cared about (nico, for one. both of them. so much), other worries and other storylines aside from their romantic plot? and when nico's completed arc wasn't repeated for no reason other than to dump more trauma on the youngest character in the series? when background characters were included in the story not for all the unnecessary last minute romantic subplots but because they were fun and fascinating to learn more about? and were actually friends with main characters? remember when grover was percy and annabeth's best friend forever? and antagonists were actually interesting and intimidating and had compelling goals? and the story revolved around friendship and family and loyalty? and death was definite and loss was palpable and battles were thrilling?
yeah. good times.
#rr crit#pjo#hoo#hoo crit#percy jackson#annabeth chase#percabeth#oh how i love them in pjo. how they loved.#grover underwood#<- remember him?#nico di angelo#will solace#dumpster fire of a canon relationship ->#solangelo#anyway!#last olympian will forever be the best book this man wrote#how can you finish one of your series so perfectly then fuck up so bad while ending the next story#cuz goddamn does blood of olympus boil MY blood#ESPECIALLY those last fucking chapters omg#why would you massacre my boys rick#putting nico and will in a room together for the first time just to turn will into a total asshole. great move thanks a lot!#will had so much potential from his previous appearances#you could've left it at that dream message nico had#that was nice!!! actually!!#instead you ruined all of it with a few chapters#justice for tlo-tlh will solace cuz that was one nice background character with potential to become a great main one day#nico deserves THAT will. not this piece of shit he meets#also nico and percy friendship in hoo is... nonexistent???#what is that about#fucking hell richard
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reminder to everyone that trauma IS a valid reason to use aspec labels. "i don't know if i'm aspec or just traumatized—" protip!!! you can be both!!!! the thing about labels is that they're not immutable states of being that you're born as. they're literally just words that we use to describe our lived experiences, and if asexual or aromantic or any related label feel relevant to the way that you experience attraction, whether it's a result of trauma or not, they're there for you to use. having trauma as a cause does not invalidate the fact that someone is experiencing lesser or no attraction. that's still the aspec experience babey. use the label if you want it's there for you <3
#kissing every traumatized aspec person on the forehead. with permission of course#obviously the labels aren't gonna be right for everyone but like...#i see a lot of discussion around this topic and it's actually SO important to me to bring up every time#that labels are just little signs you put up to tell people something about yourself.#it's not an immutable unchangeable fact. it's a little sign. it's a label just like you make with a label maker.#its purpose is to be there and communicate something about your experience to the people around you.#so if you want to communicate that you don't experience attraction in an allo way! that's literally what it's there for!#really i feel like denying people access to those labels cause they weren't born that way is like.#first. an asshole move. why don't you shut the fuck up and let other people decide what they experience#second. perpetuating the idea that if you don't experience attraction you're broken? but just in a different way?#'you can experience limited/no attraction IF you're ace and born that way. otherwise you're ACTUALLY fucked up.'#'you're straight/gay/bi you're just broken right now.' actually maybe they're experiencing something that aligns with asexuality.#ever thought about that...#intent here is NOT to speak for anyone with that experience. however i meet like seven people a year who say that they're unsure#if they're aspec or just traumatized#and it's SO important to me to say that you can be both. you can use the label. your experiences are valid#whether they're internally or environmentally caused.#kiss kiss ily everybody (/aro)#<— tone indicator that indicates that i meant it aromantically#aspec#aromantic#aromanticism#aroace#arospec#aro positivity#asexual#ace pride#acespec#ace positivity#ace inclusion. turn the tables
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Alastor’s so obnoxious im sobbing
#HE’S AN ASSHOLE AND I LOVE THAT FOR HIM#one of the girlies tho fr#listening to charlie’s problems in her room#HIS KICKIE LEGS?? CRYING#also i’m glad to see Charlie struggling about the vaggie reveal is gonna be an ongoing conflict in the ep#kinda had the thought they’d squish it in the beginning but looks like that’s not the case#ik they’ll make up but im interested to see how and what they’ll do moving forward#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel spoilers#charlie morningstar#hazbin hotel charlie#hazbin hotel alastor
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no but the fact that korn would shoot win in that instant after knowing they're fucking behind him woah 😮 🙏🏻
Anon, I won't say much about this, I'll just proceed to copy and paste the words I sent to some friends about this specific moment and call it a day: HE UNDERSTOOD HOW FUCKED UP THE WHOLE SITUATION IS, HE UNDERSTOOD WHY TONKLA DID EVERY SINGLE FUCKING THING, HE EVEN UNDERSTOOD THE CHEATING BECAUSE HELL, HE BARELY PAID ATTENTION TO HIM, HE KNOWS, HE APOLOGIZED FOR IT, HE HAD FASAI ON THE SIDE, SO OF COURSE HE'D TURN HIS GUN ON WIN, HE'S THE EASIEST OUTLET FOR HIS FRUSTRATION, FUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK, THIS FUCKING SHOOOOOOOOOW!!!!
#Korn was laughing at the tragedy of the situation and I can't blame him#I'd laugh too#Tonkla laughed as well in ep7 but his laughter had a different tone to it#due to his role in the narrative#Anyway if you think Korn doesn't love Tonkla then we can't be friends#He's an asshole and a huge idiot and a massive piece of shit and the fucking worst at times#but he loves Tonkla he loves him he LOVES HIM SO MUCH HE TOOK HIS OWN LIFE TO MEET HIM IN THE NEXT ONE#VegasPete walked so KornTonkla could run#and what a fucking sprint that was#I'm not moving on anytime soon#4 minutes#korntonkla#asks
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I have chronic back pain, have for a while. It’s not so bad now that I had surgery, but I lived with it for years. I tried to go to a doctor for it, but they just said to lose weight, so I learned to live with the pain until one morning I couldn’t get up from bed. Couldn’t move without feeling like electricity was running up and down my back, burning my spine and leg from the inside.
This had me back in front of a doctor who (thankfully) listened and then for an entire year my insurance jerked me around requiring that I try different methods to manage the pain before finally agreeing to cover surgery.
In that year leading up to surgery something inside me broke. I couldn’t do the most basic tasks. Having to learn how to move my body in just the right way so that I wouldn’t lock up trying to wipe my own ass is one of my least favorite memories. Next to it is a tie between falling at my sister’s wedding because my leg gave out and being in so much pain I couldn’t sleep for days on end. I couldn’t sit, couldn’t drive, couldn’t bend or twist or even lay down without feeling like my nerves were on fire.
Work accommodated but I felt useless. I couldn’t lift inventory anymore. Couldn’t do a key part of my job that I (oddly) enjoyed doing. Commuting the hour to school twice a week was excruciating, but it was my first year of grad school. I had to push through. My professors were kind, they accommodated so that I could be as comfortable as possible in class. But I felt like a distraction, a nuisance, a bother. It was so hard to focus on lectures and homework when 90% of the input my brain was receiving was that of pain.
I grit my teeth and bore it, my mental health hit a new all time low, and I broke down in front my my mother more times than I can count. And I did this for a year because insurance refused to cover surgery unless I proved to them I needed it. I had to jump through their hoops and play by their rules to get the procedure I needed and that my care team knew I needed. I lost feeling in my leg and foot because they made me wait.
I will forever be grateful for the doctors who listened, for the physical therapist who advocated for me, for my mom who surprisingly became my rock during the whole ordeal. But my insurance company? They can go fuck themselves.
My pain before that year was bad, but not excruciating. My pain now? It’s minimal. Sometimes I still lock up and I’ll likely never have all of the sensation return to my left foot, but I’ll take the constant pins and needles over that year of pain any day. That said, had it gone on much longer I genuinely don’t know if I’d be here typing this.
Anyways…I guess what I’m saying is IF he did it, I get it. I really really get it.
#chronic pain#healthcare#personal ramblings#luigi mangione#don’t even get me started on all the money I spent on the ‘alternative options’ they required#PT and pain injections helped but those providers told me point blank it would not be enough to fix the problem#and guess what! the professionals with degrees were right!#those methods would relieve the pain for a very short amount of time and then it’d come right back!#it’s almost like some asshole at a desk without a medical degree shouldn’t be making decisions about people’s healthcare!#our system is broken#united states#OH AND FOR THE DOCTOR THAT SAID IT WAS CUZ I WAS FAT???#FUCK YOU TOO#I HAD A FUCKING SPINAL INFECTION THAT ATE AT MY DISCS YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE#I DONT REMEMBER YOUR NAME BUT I HOPE YOU LOST YOUR LICENSE#ROT#I WAS 17 WHEN I WENT TO YOU FOR HELP#YOU SHAMED ME INTO NOT GETTING A SECOND OPINION#I WAS 24 WHEN I WOKE UP AND COULDNT MOVE#this post wasn’t about fatphobia in the medical field but fuck it sure could’ve turned into one#I think about that doctor and I get so angry for 17 year old me#you didn’t deserve that#WE DIDNT DESERVE THAT#if he’d just listened maybe it never would’ve gotten so bad later
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it's honestly so funny how everyone in this tag seems to be so involved in characters getting redemption and being good and perfect when like. none of them are. literally wait five fucking seconds for the show to Happen. have you guys never watched a show before
#first caitlyn and now jayce#like idk it's pretty obvious for me that jayce isn't just doing that for funsies? maybe wait for the plot to happen?#people r so obsessed with the morality of character in this show but like not in a fun way in a there has to be a good guy I can like way#they're all assholes to some extent. they're all making terrible mistakes. what are you doing#as for the general feeling of I WANT REDEMPTION AND GOOD ACTIONS AND FIXES NOW!!!!!!! I keep seeing.#maybe it's because of that whole being used to everything dropping at once. god forbid you have to wait a week or two to know the rest of#the story. Jesus#moving on. i am loving everything I am seeing#arcane#mumbles mumbles about arcane#arcane season 2 spoilers#arcane season 2
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hi people can see your tags!! i know we like to talk about how 'safe' screaming in the tags feels and to an extent it is safe, indirect communication. but it is communication and the OP is very likely to see them. if its not something you'd say to them don't put it in the tags, maybe. (:
#OOC#I do not understand some of you#if you don't like something why reblog it just to say how much you don't like it?????#Do you need attention that badly that you're gonna tear someone's hard work down??????????????????????#Don't answer that I don't care#It costs 0 dollars to not be an asshole and some of you are in asshole debt so bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#a real live person worked on that art/gpose/writing#and you reblogged it SOLEY to say how much you didn't like it???? that's!!! wild!!!!!!!!!!!#I still remember every weird or mean tag I've ever gotten so maybe just don't#why spend any energy on engaging with something you don't like i cannot fathom that!!!!!!!#pathetic behavior.#no one has done this to me recently and much like any weird anons I get i just#block them and move on#but I've been seeing some MEAN tags lately in reblogs and like#what the FUCK#here i go again asking people to have some self reflection (':
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“you’re easy to talk to” yeah awk dude who keeps saying ‘m’lady’ you would fckn say that
#he’s said it twice now#what am i doing#going on this date was legit an asshole move on my part#i know better#alli [sic]#basically i’m channeling the maries from daisies#but this poor lug doesn’t deserve it
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Ok but like.
Saw a post like "this isnt rpf but my stories..."
Rpf is stories??? Fiction is RIGHT in the name???? I am stuffing dollies with details about real people and making them kiss?
Honestly sick of being conflated with parasocial conspiracy theorists who lack boundaries.
#i am deffo parasocial too but#its not like THEY BETTER ACT HOW I BELIEVE THEY DO#its more like i hope he had a nice breakfast today and hears his favorite song what is wrong w some of yall#also dont fucking slippery slope me ive been rpfing for years and when i find out someone's an asshole I shrug and move on#ALSO i love a good conspiracy but they are only true when an alphabet agency is involved cmon
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I haaaaate when ppl treat ford being upset over his identity being taken and his house getting turned into essentially a mockery of his research was completely unreasonable
like, was stan doing his best with a terrible situation? absolutely! would ford kicking him out be an actually fair option? fuck no!
but he's been in this dimension for probably 12 hours. god knows the last time he's slept. he'd been nearly dead prior to going thru the portal and now has to deal with the fact that he's lost everything. he doesn't even have his own identity anymore.
I honestly don't even think half the shit ford says to stan is truly about stanley or ford's opinion of him, so much as it is about his own issues and how weighed down with guilt he is.
I think its worth noting that ford only ever says mean things about stan when he's pissed off- when he's not angry, he's much more willing to actually discuss things and try to find common ground (such as when he invites stan to play d,d&d).
it honestly comes off more as him not knowing how to communicate anger outside of hurting people than it does genuine malice towards stan. and also I don't think ford ever really internalized that stan was homeless in the duration of the show
#☢️.txt#ford pines#gravity falls#like again its an asshole move but the sentiment (im upset that you brought me back to the apocalypse i caused and i cant even have my name#isnt like. abnormal??#ford is really really bad at just fucking telling stan how hes feeling and instead chooses to be vague and then explode#and again its not stans fault! he didnt have a whole lot of choices! and what ford said WAS hurtful#also yeah i genuinely do not think ford has processed like anything stan has said about his past#like hes told about it while having a psychotic breakdown and again after nearly getting killed#and then getting dragged back into his own dimension and realizing that bill is almost certainly going to win#hes not processing 'i was homeless' all hes thinking is how he personally has doomed everyone in this room#he has the realization at 4 am months later and feels Fucking Terrible#90% sure the reason i read his actions this way is my autism tends to make me do this#and having a dad with anger issues teaches you to have worse anger issues so that hes fucking sick of dealing with you
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finished gravity falls today, still thinking about a tale of two stans. i love the way you can see everything ford and stan did and perfectly understand why they did it. good god there's no saving these two!!!
i like how it's not really even about west coast tech for ford. if it was about west coast tech, i think he would've gotten over it sooner rather than later (not that his feelings on west coast tech weren't important, just that things turned out okay for him at backupsmore). it's about ford feeling like he has no one left in the world now. it's about feeling betrayed and abandoned by the one person who was never supposed to do this to him. the fact that stan tries to make him feel better by joking/suggesting the stan o' war treasure hunt, but it just twists the knife in even further and makes ford angrier. and yeah! i'd be furious! i can't even imagine how hurt i would be if i were him! and obviously it was an accident but ford doesn't really know that he just knows his brother broke his invention and shattered any trust between them!
and the whole "i can't even get a thank you!" thing from stan! i think in some respect he really does want a thank you, but i think it's more about wanting to see that ford still cares. he was desperately seeking it 30 years ago and he's still searching for it. he just wants his brother back! fuck!!!
also, the fact that ford gives the abridged version of his whole. portal test paranoid era. thingy. the fact that he doesn't even mention bill by name. i'd be willing to guess its in part out of the shame he still feels for ever trusting him, but i think its also a kinda touchy subject for him fresh out of the portal, since he's spent the last 30 years trying to kill him, and then got pulled away at the last minute.
+ the fact that stan is visibly worried and concerned about ford during his paranoid era, you know before they start kicking the shit out of eachother. i can't even imagine how stan must've felt during his early days at the shack.
just! what a devastating episode! good god the stan twins still fuck me up!
#fords paranoid era in particular is getting to me#i can't imagine how scared i would be. this goes for both of them!#its kind of an asshole move for ford to call stan give him the journal and immediately tell him to fuck off#but. fuck. i get it!!! i understand!!!#idk what i would've done if i were him!#i think it really was a show of trust in a way#god. god god god god god#good show i guess i need to reread journal 3#gravity falls#srry non gravity fall mutuals. going insane over a 12 yr old disney channel show#what can i say its still good!
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Tbh I think reposting someone's tumblr post because they turned off reblogs is an asshole move regardless of your intention or the content of the post itself. People don't lose the right to privacy and autonomy just because you decide they deserve to.
#It's especially an asshole move when it's a harmless or funny or nice post and you're just stealing atp#But I think also even when you're attempting to show others how awful someone is or “warn people” it's still Bad.#Because first off all. If you're actually concerned about other people's safety you can just send them the post or account link#But second of all sharing a harmful thing only spreads the harm.#Even if your intention is to warn others or whatever you are still actively spreading harm.#It is less harmful to just. Let the post die. It's a good thing they turned off reblogs to stop the post's spread#and it is not your job to spread that harm further.#Also also. When you cross the threshold of choosing which people you can withold privacy and autonomy from just bc you think they deserve it#you open up a world of Bad. Like I hope you understand how that is Bad.#You do not have the right to decide what other people deserve to lose theirs#And yes it is that deep.
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More art of Freddy. I have an unhealthy attachment to this fictional computer program if you couldn’t tell. Even if it turns out he’s not sentient, he’s sentient in my heart.
#fr3-d1#tmagp#the magnus protocol#freddy tmagp#tmagp freddy#my precious#I gotta give him a personality but I’m not sure what#asshole or cinnamon role#tis the question#leaning more towards Ass hole#my boy#robot art#no he does not move using pistons or whatever. he moves through spooks and brute force#art#fanart#tmagp fanart#thothdraws
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