#but it is what it is i suppose
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"Mary Kirby lied to you about Lucanis being ace" Just stop, right there. I can agree that she used "bisexual disaster" poorly and wrong before, but I don't think she lied about him being demi panromantic. First, that banter with Emmrich is pretty much the only confirmation in the game where character says it himself. Which also fits her post that she didn't really elaborated enough about him being ace since the focus of his story is differtent. Secondly, devs told us before her "bi disaster" post that all characters are pan, not bi. That's why I do believe it was just her mistakenly using the term. Last but not the least, many and many demi/ace people immediately got it when they've romanced him, long before she said anything. I saw some people thinks that was her damage control after AMA being bad af, but what's the point FOR HER to do that since she's FIRED for some time now? I see no reason why she should give af about Veilguard criticism at this point. She wrote enough of good characters and stories, so I doubt her reputation as a writer would really suffer if she'd actually made a very bad job with Lucanis. Listen, I get it. You've expected something else from him and you prefer something different in videogame romances. But if something is not what you prefer, it doesn't mean it's bad. Just move on already. At this point we're just walking in circles with this discussions about Lucanis character and romance. Nothing will change about it anyway. The game is finished and won't be updated in terms of new story content, that's confirmed. You only make yourself mad constantly thinking about "what we could have if...".
#lucanis dellamorte#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#datv#mary kirby#fandom critical#bioware critical#i can't believe i need to say obvious things#but it is what it is i suppose
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Since there's already 5 million reblogs on your Kab post, I'll just put my thoughts here: 'id love to see you make an essay of red that would be awesome i think' Funnily enough I kind of suck at analyzing people. And I also can't write above 400 words or I die. I do like ranting about Red though, and while I'd probably like to make an essay of him, I think the fandom sidelines him Hard to an extent it makes me feel like I'm going fucking crazy. I would make it for the 2 people that care about Red's character as much as I do. He's such a weird boy! 'and honestly bpd-coded red makes sense to me at least from what i know of him and id certainly believe it coming from you' To quote my work-in-progress doc he has very unstable relationships (especially his problem with rushing in on relationships on the idea of a person rather than who they actually are), has an extreme need for love and acceptance, and has a lot of abandonment issues. I also think that some of his actions can be read as him splitting on people (*especially* the Red-Kab altercation, The Mice divorce was extremely BPD coded for me). I think there's also other symptoms he displays like doubt about the future and feeling mistreated or victimized often but I think those are just the ones in broader strokes. The people want a queer man with many disorders and he delivers
this is all so real, the need for love with abandonment issues and the mice divorce being able to be read as splitting especially
we love a queer man with disorders and unstable relationships indeed, thank you for your service reddoons lifesteal <3
#mine.ask#minidoons#analysis#red#honestly im surprised red gets sidelined a lot considering he seems to be one of the more popular lsers#ig its cause hes depicted more in a swagdoons context which is unfortunate considering hes a great guy on his own#and ig its also cause the smps he gets on that arent lifesteal tend to have not very high crossover with lifesteal#but it is what it is i suppose#hes one of the more popular ppl to write fanfic about at least well from what i know anyway#< doesnt read fanfic much
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no words, just
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why.
I’m gonna spare you from my broken heart and shit (boy have I become really not good)
Oof. My heart 😭
It’s definitely been sad. I know they say the story will continue on in some form, but I’ll miss the games getting new content. I’ll probably end up replaying the whole story and going through all the Devilgrams as long as we have the apps running.
And of course I’ll be writing fic. I have so many ideas for some longer Solomon fics and I’ve been thinking about my OCs again…
Anyway, at least we still have the fandom right? This community has been so great to be part of. And we can still enjoy our favorite characters together.
#I wish they wouldn’t end too#but it is what it is I suppose#obey me#hakurei-k#cc mutuals#misc answers
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No internship to me after all
#maja talks#I'm not really that sad about it but it is.. annoying#i did consider saying no to it but then still decided to say yes but then the boss was like#“i don't feel like our approach to this is the same” and I'm like?? but oh well#it is what it is I suppose#clearly it's not the same approach when she promises me a job and then suddenly wants an internship but oh well#lowkey feel like a dodged a bullet but also feeling a bit sad and like it's my fault and idk#but it is what it is I suppose
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Being single again should feel stranger than it does. Instead it feels...right somehow this time.
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Yo i just got a comment on one of my fics that literally said "Didn't realize it was that deep in the term of ship kinda in my uncomfortable view on romance in general...so ill pass but what i read was good though" like um???? I understand the ship I'm writing (its not problematic dw) isn't everyone's thing but???
HELP ??? SORRY THATS KINDA FUNNY......... im assuming it was explicitly tagged as a romantic fic so this is just JHERKJDHKJHF
also obsessed with how they felt the need to declare that they had to stop reading it because it wasnt suitable to their tastes like yes main character you tell them !!
#in an ideal world people would just Move On when seeing things that arent to their tastes#but it is what it is i suppose#at least they still thought the fic was fire so kudos#ask
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shoutout to everyone who wants to infodump but cant string together coherent thoughts to form sentences and instead just look at you like this
#and by 'everyone' i mean me. im just hoping other people relate lmao#someone asks me about a thing i like and im just like h..................#been thinking about The Character for a solid 6 months+ and let me tell you. expldoeing soon#this is about ffxv btw . how am i supposed to say how much it lives in my brain . i cant think#text#1k#5k#10k#15k#20k#great googly moogly#30k#40k#50k#60k#boooy what da heeel#70k#80k#90k#will this be my first ever post to hit 100k... it remains to be seen#good lord. we did it#100k
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baby animals move like theyre playing a new video game & havent figured out the controls yet
#gray.txt#which i suppose is basically what's happening#<- guy who's only ever played video games experiencing reality for the first time: getting a lot of video games vibes from this
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unadulterated loathing
#wicked#gelphie#glinda x elphaba#glinda the good witch#galinda upland#elphaba thropp#wicked witch of the west#wicked the musical#wicked fanart#my art#life update in case u guys are not updated to my lore but the wicked movie had me in a chokehold#im not supposed to be online or even drawing other than work at all#but i had What Is This Feeling? on repeat and I HAD TO at least doodle them#also its about time i draw yuri
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that being said I'm not actually always opposed to conflict free fluff I am just opposed to the characters having their claws filed down for it. you can stick them in a coffee shop au it should just still feel like you sat the two worst most insane people on earth in a starbucks
#which in some cases I suppose if you did not file them down it would cease to be conflict free fluff#no matter WHAT au it was. but nevertheless
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Feeling a lil down today.
My head fricking hurts like crazy, the summer temperature pretty much dropped into winter temperature seemingly overnight, and there's a ton of drama and vitriol going through the Rain World community.... again.
You know, I've recently watched Inside Out 2 (amazing movie btw, would recommend), and it had many scenes and moments that really connected with me, but one that particularly came back today was Joy's "Of course I'm delusional!" rant.
Cus I've had that feeling a lot during my time in the community. Of course, when things don't affect you personally, you can kind of just brush them off and stay joyful, and happy, and positive. But sometimes, things just get so excessive that you just.... can't. You simply can't just sit back and happily relax while you're in a room filled with people violently screaming at each other, all of whom are people you don't want to see getting hurt.
I know a lot of people do manage just tune it out, and move past it, but I just..... I just can't. I often convince myself that it's really no big deal, and no one actually cares, and everything will be back to normal immediately, and we're never ever getting into messy situations again.
And it always turns out that I'm just completely delusional, and I just have to face the reality that none of those things are true.
I have watched YouTube drama videos, but I was never feeling any investment or anger towards what was going on. It was always just for curiosity's sake, and I would generally walk away thinking "Audience be overreacting, but the YouTuber response be horrid, and them getting exposed be good".
But unfortunately, it's a lot harder to think so nonchalantly about these things when it's happening to a game/community you are heavily invested in. It happened constantly in LoL's community - I hated it and moved to Rain World, only for it to follow me here.
It's getting pretty exhausting, and I'm honestly starting to contemplate if it's even worth staying in the community, as everyone seems to be forgetting that we're here to relax and have fun and escape from the struggles and annoyances of our day-to-day lives.
I don't know if this is just a side effect of everybody being either in their early twenties or late teens, cus I don't see these types in things in communities where everyone is older, such as Warcraft 3's. But if there's one thing I've learned is that at such a young age, we should absolutely not be thrown under the responsibility of managing and moderating hundreds/thousands of people, or to act as deciding forces in serious and heavy matters. After all, I'm also in my early twenties, and I know for a fact that I'd perform quite horribly in these kinds of situations (hence why I don't directly address them, ever).
Maybe it's best to just block and blacklist and ignore, and only interact with folks who are fully positive all the time - but just think about how much that would be, when you consider how many people post about politics, how many notes and reblogs the drama posts usually get, and how at times, even the mods of the official Discord server have shown extreme biases and vitriol. I'd love to retreat into a room where the atmosphere is fully nice and quiet all the time, but frankly, I don't think such a room exists.
I don't know. Maybe I should still stick around, cus this might be the last one.
Please please please please please please please please pleeeeeaaaaassseeeeee be the last one!!!!
#fade rambles#vent#I'm sorry#I'm just really getting sick and tired of this#Of having such a messy situation happen pretty much every 2 months#I don't even get why so many engage with that stuff either#But it is what it is I suppose#It's definitely for the best that so many of the bad actors of the community are now gone#Maybe their place will be taken by better people. Nicer people. More tolerant people.#But considering how it's extreme intolerence that chased them all away.... I have my doubts :(
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this is just a bunch of text and barely a comic sorry, but i really wanted to talk about this stuff even if i don't have the energy to properly draw
#myart#ocd#actually ocd#moral ocd#scrupulosity ocd#religious ocd#mental health#you can tell i got lazy towards the end i apologize lol#but yeah this has been on my mind ...#and the fact its so underrepresented / falsely represented is what pushed me to talk about it i suppose
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was talking with a friend about how some of dunmeshi fаndom misunderstands kabru's initial feelings towards laios.
to sum up kabru's situation via a self-contained modernized metaphor:
kabru is like a guy who lost his entire family in a highly traumatic car accident. years later he joins a discord server and takes note of laios, another server member who seems interesting, so they start chatting. then laios reveals his special interest and favorite movie of all time is David Cronenberg's Crash (1996), and invites kabru to go watch a demolition derby with him
#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#kabru#kabru already added laios as a discord friend. everyone else in the server can see laios excitedly asking kabru to go with him#what would You even Do in this situation. how would YOU feel?#basically: kabru isnt a laios-hater! hes just in shock bc Thats His Trauma. the key part is kabru still says yes#bc he wants to get to know laios. to understand why laios would be so fascinated by something horrific to him#and ALSO bc even while in shock kabru can still tell laios has unique expertise + knowledge that Could be used for Good#even if kabru doesnt fully trust laios yet (bc kabru just started talking to the guy 2 hours ago. they barely know each other)#kabru also understands that getting to know ppl (esp laios) means having to get to know their passions. even if it triggers his trauma here#but thats too much to fit in this metaphor/analogy. this is NOT an AU! its not supposed to cover everything abt kabru or laios' character!#its a self-contained metaphor written Specifically to be more easily relatable+thus easy to understand for general ppl online#(ie. assumed discord users. hence why i said (a non-specific) 'discord server' and not something specific like 'car repair subreddit')#its for ppl who mightve not fully grasped kabru's character+intentions and think hes being mean/'chaotic'/murderous.#to place ppl in kabru's shoes in an emotionally similar situation thats more possible/grounded in irl experiences and contexts.#and also for the movie punchline#mynn.txt#dm text#crossposting my tweets onto here since my friends suggested so
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If Epic the Musical was an anime
#fanart#epic the musical#2d animation#animation#WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO NOW THATS ITS JOEVER#happy almost new year!#odysseus
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remembering one of the times i was getting evaluated by a therapist to determine if i was "really trans" or not or whatever and he was like "so if you transitioned to male, how would you dress differently?"
and i was like "i.. dont know. I wouldnt?"
and he looked at me blankly and wrote something down and said "really? you wouldnt wear anything more masculine?"
and i realized i'd given the wrong answer so I just said "I would... wear... suits?"
and he smiled and wrote something else down like "ah! yes"
#scream#like- listen#clothes are not gender- i know this you know this#he doesnt know this#HOWEVER#i literally only wear jeans and t shirts or shorts and t shirts#what on earth am i supposed to be transitioning into wearing??
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hey so what the actual fuck
edit: that's the link to the video btw^^
#LIKE WHAT THE FUCK#HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO MOVE ON#WHAT. *WHAT*#ALSO NOT IT BEING CALLED UNIFICATION LIKE THE FUCKING TNG EPISODE#AKA MY FAV EPISODE OF ALL OF TREK#IM GONNA HAVE A HEART ATTACK IM GONNA THROW UP#my posts#st#star trek#tos#spirk#spock#kirk#k/s#the premise#star trek the original series#star trek tos#william shatner#leonard nimoy#star trek generations#765874#765874 unification
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