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FTM Dick Grayson will always be real to me because it makes it canon that Dick is the funniest character of all time for picking his name.
#dick grayson#dc comics#like cmon#I think it’s the perfect way to explain why his name is that now in the modern day#because that’s not a popular nickname for Richard anymore#but a trans person would 100% do that#trans dick grayson#also imagine finding out his secret identity#like young Wally or something like I’m you’re best friend and ally and all that but really dude#titans#young justice#I wish yj show had a tag because I always feel weird because I’m a yj comics girly before a yj show girly ya know
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one thing I really really appreciate abt riz gukgak as a character is that he is un-self-aware to the max. he inhabits his body so completely. the arc that would usually be run as "I'm different and unable to connect with my friends in this way that everyone seems to be able to do and so something's wrong with me and I don't like myself" when it comes to riz is actually like no! I have literally no problems or praises for myself personally. I don't stand outside of my own self and judge it. it's phrased as "other people will eventually find someone more important to them than you" rather than centering it on his self-perception. he doesn't know why he doesn't have the best social life on earth even though he's not afraid at all to talk to other people. every time he sees himself in someone else's actions or behaviour he gets startled by it. his latest epilogue is realizing seemingly for the first time that he's not just an agent of causes but an actual character. he's my hero and I want to be him when I grow up
#not art#fantasy high#this trait with him is kinda why I don't really ascribe any prominent trans narrative to him. even though hes very gender#I think I said once like bc he didn't just walk into the girls bathroom I don't think he finds himself on that axis in general#bc if he's any less attached to his gender he would 100% have done it lmao#and the great thing is the more he gets comfortable with his friends the less self aware he becomes#saying shit like ''chop his head off so he doesn't revive'' fully uncaring for the optics. I love him#its honestly great esp. with the Living While Goblin stuff going on too. no inner conflict with that dude#he's fully great! he's awesome he's all gucci. the world is just fucked and that's why shit sucks for him#(this makes me doing something model-minority-adjacent for bard!riz a bit harrowing shdjsh I dont wanna lose this)#(he's dictated by fear but it doesn't mean he reflects those fears back onto himself as a person lol. at least kid got better)
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Bit of a shame I left hp before I entered svsss because one of my favourite tropes at the time was 'dumbledore calls in External Support from different fandom during ootp and they show up to grimmauld to help (and utterly upstage everyone in the process)'.
And needless to say Sqq, at any point, would have been perfect.
Like. He's a teacher too. A scholar. Secretly from the modern world so he'd have no trouble with its intricate and mysterious workings, incidentally making himself look very cool and competent in the process. He'd have So Many Opinions. He'd incite bloody war with umbridge. He'd project his feelings for sj onto Snape with a side of commiseration for his role and fate. He'd mostly pretend to know so much less about hp than he actually does (which, hilariously, he canonically name drops in svsss, AND his system is pretty heavily implied to have previously worked in, like wow). He'd be constantly comparing Harry with lbh. He'd have a running internal dialogue bemoaning the world building, the characters, Harry's fate, the general decision making process, maybe some death of the author. Geeking out about magic. Raiding the library whenever he's free.
He might bring his students as part of an exchange, he might bring a fellow peak lord if it was a serious mission (liushen anyone?) he could bring adult lbh. Maybe sqh? Or sqh could be the messenger with the system and/or mbj.
A self aware character who couldn't live with himself if he didn't at least try to change Harry's fate whether or not he actually likes the kid? He could canon that divergence before you could say horcrux. That kind, oblivious, smoking hot exotic teacher who had people ruining their lives for him in a world that was used to people that pretty and also hated him specifically?? The hogwarts students wouldn't stand a CHANCE.
Man the scenes are coming to me so strongly I almost want to write it just as a like. Satire piece or something. Just Sqq ripping everything to shreds, accidentally or not. Diatribes on the author biases. Unintentional themes. Iffy world building choices. Nothing new, but through the lens of svsss' Sqq it'd be something for sure XD.
#Okay imagine. Sqq and umbridge being introduced side by side at the start feast.#And you've got a) condescending ugly old government stooge invader. Short and round. Terrible fashion sense. Trying too hard.#B) the most ethereal person you've ever seen in your life. Flawless glossy classy af. Tall and slender. Immortal from a distant land. Sword#This makes umbridge feel humiliated and inferior (this makes her much more vicious from the start) and Sqq is just ranting internally#About the meta textual correlation of beauty and morality which a) yikes b) he's wondering if anyone in the hp universe has realised#Or used to their advantage (he has a paragraph on riddles beauty he weaponised and then lost)#Kind patient a good teacher he's got a sword and supports the Prank Resistance those poor boarding school kids would WORSHIP#And they'd make it so hard to be oblivious lmao.#Ooooh flying swords vs brooms quidditch?#He'd 100% do a class or session on trans issues just to be petty#I do miss hp and the sheer size and breadth of the fandom on occasion but well. You know how it is#svsss#hp#harry potter#scum villain#crossover#fic ideas#fic prompt#He'd join spew and in a day everyone in school would support it lmao#shen qingqiu
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I have Got to get more transgender
#100% секретный дневник левы НЕ ЧИТАЙ#transmasc#trans ftm#transgender#i like 2 say i'm very trans already but unforch i am Not Really. mostly boring ftm Guy Ever#so tempted to cut my hair again but my sense of what i look like is already so fuzzy i dont think it'd help..#want to dye my hair anyways. at this point i'd take whatever color i can get if not purple LOL#it's almost everything i could want and yet ... still me. still the same life. stuck.#soooo high functioning like you wouldnt believe EXCEPT istg i need an emotional support human who will guide me through tasks#such as 'pay with your Moneys Card at the Store'#or... idk that's it really. maybe go grocery shopping without feeling like i'm not meant to be there also#or like. exist in general maybe#reasons why not emotional support Animal: creature cannot understand capitalism. and also is not as necessary as a service dog specifically#idk! every time i come on here i fall apart (in text) and then pull myself back together for another day of ... this i guess.#i'm not even having like crying breakdowns or anything to go along with it i'm just held inside this shell of a body. typing away again#i'm soso tempted to make things worse. progress wouldn't matter anymore... at least maybe it would feel real that i'm like this#i wish my face fit on my body right. and also that i did not look quite so much like a vaguely gnc lesbian#like at LEAST let me look butch as hell but no. curse of sad hair & uncertainty#miss my little mullety thing from that brief period in october... miss my short hair from back in 2017 ...#just dont feel satisfied with what i am now. in general.#top surgery is literally Within my reach but i'm not sure about cost and i need to wait because of doing guard now......#my list of do i want t i kept for the past month turned out to be a bunch of maybes#partially cause i got sick. partially cause it stopped being shark week and i forgot about it#as always happens...#still unsure in my new(er) name. only heard it once#didn't feel the same way as with my old one? but idk. just don't know.#missing guard also but feeling conflicted about not having time for other hobbies...#since winter season is over i've had so much time to play guitar! that's insane! mostly cause i stopped playing for unrelated reasons...#just tired again. wonder if i need more sleep than what i always get. kind of restless.#there's nothing else to say i guess. just wish i could be a person the way everyone else seems to be.
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Miss Peregrine feels like she has the most on point queerdar you have ever seen
Like, she saw Horace and immediately knew, she just knew
I saw and 100% agree with your hc that Enoch is transmasc because I am too and he’s my favorite and that’s how this works, and I can just see him being the most distraught he’s been going to her trying to explain he’s a boy not a girl and just so upset because he’s scared she’ll hate him or something
And she’s just trying not to say “honey, I’ve known-“ like obviously she doesn’t care and supports him, but she wants to say she’s known for so long sooo bad
Oh absolutely. Her gaydar is so accurate it’s not even funny, like I’d argue it’s as accurate as her finding-peculiars sense
In my personal headcanons about Enoch’s past (which are traumatizing and horrible and very fun to make him cry over in the second chapter of Forging Friendships) I don’t think Miss Peregrine ever knew him at all point where he didn’t pass on his own, but she absolutely knew both because as stated best gaydar in the world and also because I like to think when she met him and brought him back to the loop she had a conversation with him one-on-one that was very much “I know there’s something up, you’re not in trouble by any means I just need to know how to take care of you properly so will you tell me please so I can do that” which is a question she asks everybody (because in my head like. Half those kids are trans) and he was blunt about it but he did tell her because she told him many many many times that whatever happened because of it in his old loop would never happen again especially not under her watch
It was absolutely not like when a transphobe is like “you can always tell you know” it’s like if you’re at the ER and they’re like “what does your body do. What are you on. I don’t care about how illegal the drugs you took are I just need to know what they are so I do not poison you trying to fix it” but like. Gentler. If that makes any sense at all I don’t know it’s 12:30 am for me
#i have many thoughts on trans!enoch and enoch’s backstory in general#many of them are my personal struggles as a trans man myself who is not on any hormonal treatment or anything#most of it is from a dream i had where i experienced horrendous abuse from his perspective and then i was like yes. this is it#if ransom won’t give me his backstory i’ll make him one myself and it will be darker than ransom would dare.#but on the original point you are 100% correct anon#miss p’s got the best gaydar why do you think all her kids are gay#she knows man#mphfpc#alma peregrine#enoch o'connor#dragon’s headcanons
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You know my tags on that last post, about what would that guy do if they left their house and saw the wide array of people that just like exist in the world, reminded me of something that happened the other week in Philly lmao
My friend and I were walking down a Street that was right next to the gayborhood and there was a homeless person asking for cash, as happens, and not even a block away some old man stops my friend and i, points to that person, and goes
"isn't that ridiculous? Can you believe that man thinks he's a woman? Can you believe that?"
Just like so incredulous and upset about it. We kept walking but I just said in passing "oh good for her" and the guy scoffed so hard "good for her- tch!" I thought he was going to actually keel over. Like severely shocked and appalled.
Dude you are literally in philadelphia, and not only that my guy, but you are like in the gayborhood? You literally can't go like 5 minutes without seeing a visibly queer person especially in this part of the city? Do you bring yourself to the brink of an aneurysm every time you leave your house like what are you doing here how do you live?
Absolutely wild, but we're the triggered snowflakes, amirite?
#also to be honest I'm not even convinced that the person was actually a trans woman#The vibes I got from that old man were very much the type of vibes of someone that would call just a visibly 'fruity' gay man a woman anyway#like my guy how do you actually live your life is your brain just on fire 100% of the time you leave your house?#cw transphobia#my friend and I were so confused like did that really just happen? what year is it
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I know you said you find wade easier to write, but who do you think you relate to more? Peter or wade?
I don't really relate to characters like that. I think that I put traits of myself into both of them by nature of being their writer, but I feel like I'm a very different person than the both of them.
#mailbox#love-punch peter obviously is relatable to me as I am a trans and alternative but my anger issues are very different#but that's such a cop out and he's not a self insert by any means#we would just go to the same gsa club in college u know#the only character I've ever truly related to in media is john silver from black sails#I also think if I were to share what specific traits I relate to I would be getting too personal on here and I don't want to <3#anon you are a never ending treasure trove of specific questions I am impressed at your ability to come up with variety#I do like answering asks so that is a compliment 100%
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I love that Zazie and Elendira r my fav Gung ho guns bc of the Trans Vibes. And who's my third favorite? Well, I'm glad you asked!
Mid freak the horn valley
#speculation nation#this isnt counting wolfwood or livio bc Obviously theyre both favs too#for the actual antagonists who stay antagonists. these 3 r my favs#for midvalley it's 100% bc of itnl making me think about him enough that im just like#damn he's such an asshole & an objectively awful person. he compels me tho#elendira is a BITCH and i love her so much. every time she's snippy at Legato im just like yessss go offff#also canon trans woman. she could do anything and i would support her.#and then me the nonbinary/genderfluid person LOVING zazie's vibes. the bugs shit is so cool and so is the 0 care about gender#This Is A Trigun Maximum Love Zone. 98 Zazie Do Not Interact.#yeah. theyre all just real cool. i cant wait for the midvalley & wolfwood vibes in itnl bc the double double agents vibe is gonna b Great#like that spiderman meme. double agents but in the opposite directions. Love It.#id say Legato is more of a love to hate kind of character. awful awful person. really interesting character tho#idk i love the gung ho guns in general. what an eclectic group. Wonderful#trigun spoilers/#itnl shit
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Trying to stitch together my new voice reel for an audition and as it’s for a video game I’m using a lot of clips from this sci-fi plane game I did last year. Problem is I got sent every single line recording by the director so I’m sorting through about 12 recordings of the same line trying to pick lol (I could just record it straight from gameplay but I’ll just get distracted flying around and crashing + I forgot where I have lines)
#for a trans guy who’s sensitive about my voice I fucking love voice acting#also this game was genuinely so much fun to play — it’s a game I would 100% get stoned and play if I wasn’t in it#I got jumpscared at the pre-launch by my own voice#but yeah this audition is really well paying too#like. a week of work can cover 2 months of rent kind of good#I also have an animated short film audition tomorrow#genuinely a relaxing game until the disembodied voice of yours truly starts making talking and making very suspicious remarks#currently in my own personal hell but at least I can still do voices into a microphone
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cutting commentary? dead space remake adds nonbinary character and all-gender restrooms but keeps promotional article about the ishimura containing the phrase "the men and women who serve aboard her" unaltered from the original
#dead space#(i don't think it's commentary) i think it's either they didn't think about it OR#they didn't want to be /too/ overtly 'divisive' right at the beginning of the game bc that's the second text log you find#& the stuff about jacob being bi or rousseau being NB are buried much farther in the game and the jacob one especially is extremely missabl#they 100% knew the all gender restrooms would get people up in arms im sure that it was a calculated decision not just to do it but also#where /not/ to push the envelope#that or they didn't register the contradiction#it definitely um mirrors the experience of being a trans person workin for a big company lmao#reminds me of how my work's employee handbook had a whole section about how they handle transition in the workplace (!!)#and the title of that section was 'office transgender'#i.e. 'look how inclusive we are! no we haven't actually talked to any trans people why do you ask?'#(it doesn't say that anymore bc me and another nb coworker went through and compiled a ton of suggestions that eventually got integrated in#the new handbook bc the whole section was kind of a mess)
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feeling bad
#I WANT A DICK and a stomach and body hair and height and to feel like i look like a man#i want to grow my hair out but i cant look in the mirror and see a man with it long#i want facial hair. i want to smell bad. i want to be fat. i need it so bad. its getting really bad#i hate the way i look. i hate the way i look. i hatw the way i look so much. i wish fixing it didnt cost money. i wish i was born a man#its great that people say to me ‘oh i think u look like a dude’ but its not actually helpful at all. its really not bc yknow what#it doesnt matter. its nice okay even if i cant bring myself to believe you and i know you wouldnt think that if you didnt know i was a man#but it doesnt matter because i dont want to look like this even if ill be read as a man 100% of the time its just not what i want to be and#ill never be what i want to be is the worst part. my height especially. ‘who would potentially disable themself for life for 3 inches’ ME I#WOULD ME ME ME ME. i would die in 5 years if i could live those 5 years taller. idc. you dont get it. you wont get it#im so scared that. and this is so mean to say and im sorry but im scared that im gonna look like a Trans Guy forever. im never gonna pass#bc i look like that specific type of person who you theythem bc you think theyre supposed to be a dude but you dont want to offend if not#they dont read as a dude but you know thats what theyre going for. god thats so mean and im being transphobic but its how i feel and i dont#want to look like that!!!!! i dont want to i dont want to!!!!!! im so attached to my fursona bc#i know im never gonna be a dog it makes my fursona so appealing to me. if i drew myself how i wanted to look id sob. if i drew myself how#i do look id sob. i hate being a human with human limitations. i dont want this#i hate being trans. happy pride ig.#vent :(#simons spouting
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ik its 4am I just woke up but I can't believe my roommate got upset with me bc she thought I thought she was "anti feminist" for shaving. girl I literally never fucking said that. sorry I was incessantly bullied by strangers friends and family for not shaving as a teen and so body hair positivity is important to me + sorry I like body hair on myself and other ppl and have explicitly said I find it attractive before. I don't care that u shave but I'm not going to clap and cheer abt it? ur already fulfilling societal expectations so why do u need my approval on top of that? its such a non issue like how the fuck is a masc dyke making u feel insecure abt ur cis femininity lmao
#can 100% understand where shes coming from abt some of the other things she was upset abt bc that was def on me#and i genuinely am sorry and ive said so. but this one is just petty#if she was a trans woman then i would get if she felt like i was judging her for shaving in order to pass or whatever#which i wouldnt judge anyway bc not my body so i dont care what u do with it!!! but i could understand the fear of judgement#i dont even know im so tired... i just dont understand her at all sometimes. and i feel like she really doesnt understand me either#and ik im easily misunderstandable bc im often emotionally unpredictable and autistic as fuck. but it makes me sad that weve known each-#other years now and are probably the person both of us talk to most and there are still so many fundamental miscommunications between us#and im trying to understand!! but sometimes i just have to accept that i really dont. we're just so different and thats ok#just so hard to know what she thinks bc she immediately dismissed my reply to her yesterday. but if she said its ok then i guess it is#im just gonna take her at her word even if shes being dishonest w me im not fucking around with this anymore#anyway whatever.. rolling over and going back to sleep. i hope i have a better day at work today regardless#.diaries
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since we're talking about call outs lately, i've been called out many times, most of which are made from lies and sometimes by altering screenshots, but the most effective call out i ever got was like, in early 2015 there was a tumblr user everyone knew was a terf, but she would say "actually i support trans women" this was before crypto terfs were as talked about so the language wasn't really there to say "hey this person is a crypto terf." but yeah some people put posts of this woman on my dash and i made a random post on my blog "why do yall reblog her shes a terf" and of course she searches her own name daily, found my post, and replied to it that me calling her a terf was racist. that was it. no other interaction. but she went on all night talking about me being racist and just making things up as she went "oh i bet she says the n word all the time irl" kind of shit that had, like no basis? But her follower base took it 100% and i literally had thousands of anons telling me to kill myself, trying to goad me into being racist (didnt work), and the most concerning thing was i got hundreds of anons being like "what was the point of doing hrt if you still look like that, you should kill yourself." It was like, violent and overwhelming. and on top of it I'd get random young teenager trans people who followed her and bought into her bioessentialism showing up in my messages being like "you give trans people a bad name" "you're why transphobia exists" etc etc it was fucking crazy.
but i lost like, no followers because everyone around me understood, this woman was a terf. this all set up the real one though.
later in the year a teenage "communist" trans girl made some snarky comment about me being racist on a post of mine blowing up. i ignored her cuz like, who cares it's just some random teenager. but i guess people were looking for a reason to hate me cuz that blew up, lots of people just took that at face value no need to investigate. when someone finally did send the girl an ask being like "hey how is she racist" she replied "I dont remember but I know she is" and even more people just took this as 100%. the thing is, i do remember her being one of those "you make trans people look bad" terf following young trans people, it's not that she didn't remember, it's that she didnt want to admit she followed a terf and she believed a terf just saying shit. I lost like 3/4s of my followers, i had a lot of people i thought were my friends just stop talking to me, and going forward every time i got a call out there would usually be a line of like "also she's racist, everyone already knows this" all cuz this girl needed to make a snarky comment cuz she just loves terfs.
the thing about the "i dont remember" bit is it made some weird game of telephone. "I dont remember" became "oh she's racist, i think she says the n word" which became "she called black bloggers the n word" like people just made shit up about me and connected it to this call out. and when id be like this isnt true id be met with a "this is just known, youre a known racist" and it's like, to this day i will still find people be like "hey good on you for growing as a person and not doing that any more" and its like I NEVER DID IT TO BEGIN WITH
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ranting abt my roommate in the tags dont look at me
#bro i really like them a lot but they have been getting on my NERVES since moving in omg. they're my partner's best friend and there's#a lot of good reasons for that but also as im getting to know them more closely im realizing they can be soooo pretentious#its both my partner's birthday and their birthday today so i went to the store at 7am to get breakfast stuff#2 diff types of biscuits. cinnamon rolls. hash browns. sausage plus plant-based sausage for them. fruit. juice. red bull.#that one brand of sparkling water i know they like. ingredients for a birthday cake. plus 2 bottles of champagne and OJ for mimosas#i spent like $130 on this and then when we finished making breakfast they wanted to take a photo of our plates & mimosa glasses & stuff#and they turned the champagne bottle around so you couldn't see the brand name and were like 'uhh nobody needs to know this is andré lol'#(andré is an inexpensive but common brand of champagne if you're unaware)#like dude. i went out of my way to do this and already spent a significant amount of money#and you're gonna comment about the quality of the champagne i got? wack#this happened like 6 hours ago and im still feeling very wtf about it lol#they're weirdly hella pretentious about southern culture too and reference all sorts of tiny things as being innately southern...#which my partner (who is literally also southern? we're talking virginia vs north carolina) doesn't understand#and im just tired of it. they make mildly fatphobic comments and kinda uphold traditional beauty/body standards for women and they dont#seem to have much self-reflection for this. which is fuckin weird coming from a queer trans person who is incredibly interested in the#very granular aspects of queer history and 'theory'#there's literally so many other things about them that either mildly bother me or otherwise fully piss me off and im refraining from#listing them because i would 100% sound like an asshole but. i really just wish i lived only with my partner still.#god ok one more: the other day they asked me if i needed to use the bathroom before they showered (its a 1 bathroom house)#and i said nah. then they proceeded to not shower for 2+ hours#at that point i asked them if they minded if i took a quick shower cause i'd also been meaning to and like. it'd been over 2 hours#and they got kinda short and were like 'oh well i guess not. i was kinda making my way in there though. i can wait though.#no thats ok i still need to shower i was slowly gettin there but i can wait'#like thanks and sorry and i'll be quick but also IT HAS BEEN 2+ HOURS
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I saw someone passionately arguing against trans teens getting gender affirming surgeries. And it is clear they have researched this to great lengths. And it is clearly a super important issue for them. And they probably talk about it constantly online.
And the frustrating thing I feel is... it isn't happening.
I mean, it is.
But from a statistical point of view, it's not. In fact, these surgeries could increase in frequency by 200% and it would still not be happening.
I think 200-300 top surgeries per year. And maybe 2 or 3 bottom surgeries with very special circumstances.
I can't even imagine what percentage of the population that is.
Compare that to the 230,000 cosmetic procedures done on cisgender 13-19 year olds.
People will say, "Oh well I'm against that too."
But are you really? Are you supporting legislation to stop it? Are you spending hours researching it? Are you having constant debates about it online? Seems pretty low on the priority scale considering it involves like a zillion percent more people.
It's the same with athletics too. My state banned K-12 trans students from participating in sports.
All 8 of them.
People were commenting they could just compete in a special trans league. That was their solution. So a 2nd grade soccer player could maybe do the backstroke against a freshman swimmer.
Good thought. A+ idea.
Also, the NCAA has 226,000 women athletes. Estimates say maybe 100 or so are trans.
You have a higher chance of getting into a car accident on the way to a match than actually competing with a trans person.
I can't remember any other issue that was prioritized this much in the public discourse that involved so few people. It's mind boggling.
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Do you think that cis men feel the same way as trans men do? Like with how men get treated by society as being inherently evil and as predators?
I think maybe both cis and trans men experience these issues but it's easier for a trans guy to point it out because he gets to see people so quickly turn on him for being a man while transitioning
oh yeah definitely
I find "meninists" fucking obnoxious, especially as any of their VALID concerns fall under the bracket of feminism, but there does exist a presence of radfems and terfs that are scarily eager to lash out at anything resembling masculine that. Definitely needs to be addressed somehow
Like. There's a mile of middle ground between "Um yeah women have problems, whatever, but what about ME and MY FEELINGS 😢" and "I am genuinely trying my best to be thoughtful and considerate of others, and everything I do is being met with bad-faith interpretations and dismissal"
And I think the best advice I have for anyone else getting bogged down by this is that. like.
If someone is determined to see the worst in you, nothing you can do to prove otherwise will be enough. You will never change that person's mind. They don't want you to change their mind. So like... just focus on you, and keep doing your best, and learn, and know that people determined to find something nasty don't really have an issue with YOU- they have their own experiences and traumas coloring their worldview.
Someone who is determined to see you as a monster will only ever see a monster. So it's better to ask yourself, "would a monster do what I'm doing?". If the answer is yes, take steps to change that. If the answer is no, then it's not about you, and you can give yourself permission to move on.
So... yeah, I imagine cis men probably do feel the way I feel about this sorta thing sometimes.
Except, like. After a lifetime being a girl, living as a girl, fighting for equality as the only girl in a lot of men's spaces, being a feminist girl and an Eldest Daughter girl and calling out the bullshit only to later realize I'm not a girl... and that Im actually mostly a dude, still a feminist... at least when people call me a mysoginist, I know they're talking out their ass
I can kinda see where young men encounter their very first radfems calling themselves feminists and immediately become radicalized right-wing conservatives cause like. If I as a teen thought feminism meant Radfems and Terfs, I'd probably start running too
It's all just so exhausting
Any one group being wholesale grouped as "100% helpless gentle victim" or "100% selfish malevolent monster" is doomed, imo
(Now watch the notes blow up with "this is just 'not all men' rhetoric, lol)
But anyways I hate nuance I hate interpretation I hate implication and symbolism and context and I wish everything in the world was simpler so we could all blow a collective joint together and invent some new soups
#Teaboot#Don't even get me started on TIRFS#Yeah boys and girls are statistically raised different in our society but that's not divine fate bruh we're all still people#All this infighting pitting queers like me against queers like me when we SHOULD be tackling bigotry as a whole together#My family isn't my enemy#I'm tired#Lol corrected the piss typo
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