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Remember, us adoptees don't stay babies forever. We grow up. Every decision you make will come bite you in the ass later or affect the adoptee. See us as future adults you have to explain yourselves to.
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sometimes i think about how Vincenzo had at least three different chances at a family —five depending on how you count – and he ended up losing all of them, and then i cry
#his birthmom - first adoptive parents - don fabio#birthmother again - geumga plaza - han seo#vincenzo#well hanseo is in malta with him at least:)#and he can stay in touch with geumga plaza#(yes chayoung i count among geumga plaza)
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You're more amazing than eye contact
Tried playing Modern Horizons 3 sealed and won my first 3 games off the back of this really cool frog
#asks#also my birthmom just visited (thus going to see a movie) so i've done a bunch of Stuff these past 2 days#gonna have a lot of Things to put in these responses i'll have to start writing them down lol#anyway the frog is VERY obnoxious lol#i can just attack with it and oh? you block it with a 3/3? lmao discard 2 cards you just lost your 3/3#it's based off of psychatog which was also very obnoxious for having instant-speed self-buffing and was good in tournaments#except this one is a lot better in a lot of ways#dies to removal tho so you gotta be careful#don't discard if you don't need to#dimir is supposed to be doing card draw synergies in limited but i haven't done that i've just been frogging my way to victory#the only downside compared to psychatog is that exiling cards costs 3 and gives flying instead of costing 2 for +1/+1#but even then flying is really good because then you get to draw cards to refuel#but you can't do the classic “i exile my whole graveyard and hit you for 20”#anyway this frog is the most Black card ever there's so much strategy around what to discard when#so much resource trading and sacrificial tactics#sometimes i discard just to fill my graveyard so i can get flying and draw a card#very nice black card
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sometimes i feel like i shouldn't liveblog watching sports like idk if im just behind the 8 ball or smthin but 😭 idk im still healing from the time i thought the spurs got two chances in the playins to push into the playoffs 😭😭😭
#i rlly thought the pelicans were my allies..#listen. yall i#when i rlly get things... i rlly do#in a way that only i can understand#but when i dont..#i rlly... Really dont 😭#in a way only i cant understand#thats why if i dont rlly love a ship or a person i just keep out of their business 😭#sorry for havjng demons. my birthmom tried drowning me so i scratched the pastor until his eye squirted red#when he tried baptizing me later
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Remember that you are your own best friend, and not only is it okay to love yourself, it is a human right. You have the right to love yourself ferociously. Your unique traits, your best qualities, your worst traits, your failures and accomplishments, these are the things that make you the person that you are, and that person is wonderful! You deserve all the kindness, grace, forgiveness and encouragement thst you have even given to somebody else. You do not need to earn it. Remember to take time today, every day, for a little bit of self care. Draw a bath, have a special snack, go for a sensory walk, do whatever brings a smile to your face and lifts some of that weight off your shoulders. #adoptionis #podcast #adoptiontrauma #selfcare #adopteetrauma #fostercare #birthmom #birthfather #adoptee #adopteestories #adoptionishard #adoptionistrauma #attachmenttrauma #grief #griefhealing #traumahealing #healingjourney #souljourney #hobbies #baking #crafts #nature #family https://www.instagram.com/p/CpEBssquFJF/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
#adoptionis#podcast#adoptiontrauma#selfcare#adopteetrauma#fostercare#birthmom#birthfather#adoptee#adopteestories#adoptionishard#adoptionistrauma#attachmenttrauma#grief#griefhealing#traumahealing#healingjourney#souljourney#hobbies#baking#crafts#nature#family
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remember or don't come
it's truly that simple
the link has not changed the date has not changed the time has not changed
we are beyond tired of babying you and sending reminders and answering questions about the same thing and reaching out to ask if you're coming every single fucking month
we're also fucking fed up with you monopolizing time group and utilitizing it as your own personal bitch fest
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She Chose Me.
I’m here today because a woman whom I’ve never met made a choice and chose me.
She chose to think of me over her own body, over her own fears, over her own uncertainties, and over her own shame she believed society would bring.
She thought of me, not fully formed, unborn, unable to speak for myself. She didn’t see me as a monster, a problem to be solved, a missed opportunity in life, a burden, or the end of her career.
She prayed. She put her faith in what the Lord had planned. I’m here today because the Lord wanted me. My adoptive parents wanted me. My children are here today because a woman whom I’ve never met made a choice to think of me, my future, and my life outside of herself.
She didn’t raise me.
She never had a chance to know me.
She wanted me to have the opportunity to be me.
Maybe some day I’ll have a chance to thank her, but in this moment I want to say that my story and many like mine have a place in the conversation our society is still having today. Adoption is a selfless act that deserves more attention and a bigger platform. Adoption is an option.
The best choice we can make is to trust in the Lord’s plan, timing, and His ability to use all things for good.
When we are in the middle of uncertainty, pain, fear, and struggle, we have a difficult time seeing the bigger picture. But there is a bigger picture, a bigger plan, healing, and a different perspective.
I’m here today because a woman whom I’ve never met made a choice and chose me.
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Soo The Christmas Diary or whatever it’s called kiinda sucked. Y’know all the posts about Halmark Movies TM? Yeah. Kinda that. Only thing missing was Fiance is actually really nice, Romo Lead isn’t a lumberjack, and instead of Smalltownsville it’s Reunion Roadtrips.
BLEH.
#and he knew she was engaged!! from the start!!#he still went to try and kiss her. his DOG interrupted that one Before chasing a rabbit#and then liiiiike~ everyone in the film just Ignores She’s Engaged because Chemistry~ TM#like. Only One Bed? buddy you should’ve slept on the floor#vs continuing to press her boundaries when she’s Sexually Attracted BUT In A Commited Relationship#buuuut no. they fucking cheat.#she leaves before he wakes. and never meets her birthmom#y’know. the whole reason they’re even on Road Trip. HE does.#and then proceeds to blow up her phone then Stalks Her To Her Family Home On Christmas#and…this is supposed to be Rrrromantic?? because…he’s attractive and a best selling novelist??#and… ‘ohh he fiiiinallyyy got over his intimacy issues For Her Only!’#fuuuck that. he needs therapy.#so does she#god that poor fiance#like yeah the compatibility issues and her using him being Dull as a security blanket were obvious#but like…don’t fucking cheat?!?#cheating and not respecting boundaries is honestly? FUCK y’all and FUCK your mutual pining#GROW UP.
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I somehow got stuck on adoptee TikTok and it is so heartbreaking to see how many adopted children had abusive adoptive parents and hoped to reconnect with their birth parents only to find out their birth parents are genuinely terrible people or they were conceived through an act of rape/child abuse and their birthmom was forced to carry the pregnancy against her will and finds it too difficult to allow their child into their life. A traumatic wound that can never heal.
#abuse /#rape /#adoption is not a sustainable alternative to abortion#and no one deserves to live with the weight of knowing they were conceived though an act of violence and born into trauma#I fear there will be so many of these stories now that roe v wade is gone
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Just a reminder.
1. Stop using adoptees in abortion debates.
2. Stop sharing the fact you've adopted and the child's story.
3. Adoption isn't the answer to abortion. Many kids are available for adoption and aren't adopted. We need more health care benefits not adoptions.
4. Adoptive parents shouldn't be seen as saviors. We shouldn't be made to feel grateful.
5. Stop it with the child to grow up to ne the next Lebron James, Steve Jobs, cure for cancer. All of these things require resources and a dedicated family. A child born into certain circumstances will have a harder time just getting a basic education. Also, Simone Biles shouldn't be made the face of adoption or foster care. Being adopted by your rich /parents grandparents doesn't represent all of us adoptees. It's rare in foster care. If her parents weren't rich, they wouldn't be able to afford gymnastics as, from what I was told, many foster parents aren't rich. So, using Simone as some kind of argument against abortion and for adoption is gross. Her family simply had the resources to afford such an expensive sport that has nothing to do with adoption. Plus she's with family not strangers. That's different. Plenty of kids currently in foster care many people don't care about.
6. The system is broken. Adoption doesn't mean better life. Some adoptees were abused or even rehomed aka disrupted from their adoptive homes. Many kids enter foster care and go from home to home until aging out. Some adoptees don't have good relationships with their adoptive parents. It's not a one size fits all.
7. Adoption is hard work for both sides. The adoptee and the adopted parent. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. I often feel I'm not good enough. I'm getting married soon and I have doubts of being a good wife and even if I'll be a good mom. Sometimes I don't like being adopted because it was something I didn't chose and it explains why I'm a control freak. Adoption leaves a huge hole in your heart and soul. My own birth mom didn't want me and that will never change. As I get older, it only gets harder.
#adoption#adoptee#adoptive parents#adoptive family#birth family#birthmom#adopted#national adoption awareness month#birth mom#birthmother#abortion#fostercare#fosterkids#Simonebiles
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i am so gocking pissered that Venturiantale Jordan Buttfrye gave Ghost like 17 different fatthers bc he refused to keep track but meanwhile literally no mothers. none.
asshole gaave us nothing to work with GIVE US WOMEN
also i refuse to call ghost's birthmom stacy bc that makes me irrationally angry for some reason?? 😭 stacy isnt real shes made up rhat's not gohst's mom
#3 am venturiantale ass shittery#im okay#theres too many men we have to kill them SLASH JAY DONT KILL MEN 😭😭#the only fathers i acknowledge are Timothy Assket and Pewie Ghost bc the rest literallly have boring ass names#ive had enough of *insert same name as their child* senior NO THATS BORING#im normal??#i love women i think there should be more#johnny ghost mother oc when guys/hj#leslie morrison-casket i love you#taleblr#venturiantale#venturiantale pie#johnny ghost#larrydacat#venturiantale headcanons#johnny ghost pie#johnny toast
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So, in your..AU?(rewrite? Better then the Orginal in every way?)
How protective is Diluc to Kaeya? What is their relationship like?
Did you change anything about their backstory?
They are very similar to cannon, even their backstory(mainly because it is so vague) however there is a few differences
Their relationship is a bit worse (more complicated is a better way to describe it) than it currently is in cannon.
Diluc is A LOT more secretive regarding his “trip” and he lies a lot about it. (The parallels between him and his brother are very strong because I hate them😁😁😁)
Kaeya knows a LOT more about Dilucs mother than diluc does but he’s kinda withholding that information because of their rocky relationship and also because he doesn’t know how much his brother knows
Diluc knows a lot about kaeyas birthmom and doesn’t really say anything for the same reason
For the most part though, it’s just me fleshing out their story. Not a whole lot is presented directly so there isn’t much to change. Here’s a few points that i think I should mention
Diluc lied about “traveling the world”. He went straight to snezhnaya
During his second year. He was taken (by force) by the doctor to one of his many labs to be fitted with experimental prosthetics. (Aka dottore being dottore)
This was not intended to be torture or interrogation because dottore doesn’t really gaf about that. He thought diluc was an interesting subject and wanted to see if his body would reject the implants.
The rest of the fatui harbingers DID NOT know about this. (Except for one) Dottore kept it a secret because they had previously told him that they were cutting his funding but more importantly because dottore wanted a personal trump card should he ever have to face another harbinger. (Basically he has his suspicions about some of his colleagues. He thinks they might actually oppose the tsaritsa)
His experiments only work halfway. If the prosthetics aren’t rejected then they don’t serve their original purpose correctly. Eventually Diluc manages to escape thanks to a third party and fucks off to terrorize the Fatui for another year.
This is mostly where it connects back with cannon. The harbingers eventually lock in and find diluc, he’s saved by a different third party and he says hell nah I’m going back home
I wish I could think of something interesting for kaeya other than him prying information about dilucs mother from Alice but I think that clutters the story. Kaeya just waiting and making his moves in silence adds a really interesting piece of tension that really grows between him and his brother as he slowly figures out wtf happened while diluc was gone and also about both of their parents.
There’s more but I want to make comics about it so it’s kinda short n simple here.
Thank you anon for enabling me to yap
#just a side note#the prosthetics diluc has are not cyberpunk 2077 super futuristic#they are very clunky and inconvenient#and they barely work#and also his body IS actually beginning to reject them#but he can’t just pull up to dragonspine and ask sucrose for help#these are one of a kind hunks of metal 💯#so he has to figure that out#SOON#genshin impact#diluc ragnvindr#diluc angst#diluc and kaeya#diluc gi#ragbros#diluc#kaeya gi#kaeya genshin impact#kaeya ragnvindr#diluc genshin impact#genshin lore#I have not idea what to call my stuff??? is it a rewrite??? au????#it’s brainrot💔
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Starling’s birthmom was showing us pics of her new fiancés family and pointed out his mom and stepmom and I was immediately “oh that’s nice that they get along so well”
And she just looked at me, maybe trying not to laugh at me.
THEN I realized “OH THEY’RE LESBIANS” while she still, graciously, didn’t laugh at me.
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Brain. Why.
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Welcome to Camp Half Blood Part 3
Part 2
Summary: Y/n is a newly discovered demigod who finds out she is destined to be as great as her older brother… Percy Jackson.
Warnings: None
By the time I finished, it was 6:30am and the sun was coming up. I knew I was screwed because I had no sleep and had to be up and getting ready now.
I ran to the cabin with my laptop, folder, and pencil and by the time I got there, Percy was up and about to leave the cabin to look for me. “Where were you? I was getting worried” Percy asked and I responded “I couldn’t sleep so I went out of the cabin so I wouldn’t disturb you guys.”
He continued “What were you doing?” “Just going on my laptop” i replied vaguely. “Then why do you have a folder and a pencil?” Percy asked curiously as I went to put down the pencil and said ��nothing.”
Percy grabbed the folder out of my hands and opened it to see a picture of him. Becoming even more curious, Percy went through the rest of the pictures to see 2 pictures of everyone; old and new friends, and my birthmom.
“Oh my god Y/n! These are really good” he said astonishly. I put them all back in the folder and closed it and hid it from him and replied shyly “they aren’t that good. They’re traced. I could never actually draw something that good.”
“They ARE good Y/n! Now go get dressed. We have a quest to do” Percy said reassuringly and I replied “ok.” I grabbed my clothes and went into the bathroom to get dressed.
When I came back out, Percy, Tyson, and Leo were ready to go but I still needed to pack a bag. I quickly packed a backpack with extra clothes and water bottles and anything I thought was important.
Once I was ready, the four of us went to go meet the others at breakfast to grab same food before heading off on the quest. “What took you guys so long? We have to leave before 7:30 or we’ll be behind schedule” Annabeth asked Percy pulling him intoa hug and gesturing for him to sit next to her.
“Packing took a little bit longer than I thought.” Percy paused and looked over at Y/n. “I was helping make sure Tyson had everything he would need” he responded, covering for me.
Annabeth noticed the glance between Percy and I and put 2-in-2 together. “Ok guys, if you haven’t ate yet, grab something quickly but we need to start heading to the ship” she announced slightly annoyed.
I quickly grabbed a bagel and cream cheese and wrapped it up in a paper towel and stuck it in my bag. Percy quickly ran off after Annabeth to apologize more for being late. I noticed Tyson was still sitting alone at the table eating so I helped him pack his food to go and we rejoined the others.
“Y/n, be real with me. Why were you guys late?” Julian asked out of earshot of the others. “I didn’t sleep last night so I went out to the dining hall and was tracing stuff off of my laptop and made it back to the cabin late” I replied.
“You really know how to make a first impression” he responded jokingly. “Yeah, yeah. Annabeth seems to like me alot” I stated sarcastically. “So, I see Jason has a crush on you. Do you like…” Julian started and I intervened “Julian, we’re not talking about this.”
“Oh, come on. Where’s the fun in that” he replied. “If you must know, he's cute yeah but I don’t like his vibe” I responded reluctantly. “Yeah, definitely not your type” he added.
“Do you have your eye on anyone else?” Julian continued. “And we’re done with this conversation” I replied while looking over at Leo. Julian caught my glance and said “Omg you like…” and I cut him off yelling “Shut up!”
“The ship should be right over there” Leo said while pointing, ending me and Julian’s conversation. Everyone started heading in the direction Leo pointed as Jason waited to join the back of the group with me.
“So Y/n, you got a boyfriend back home?” Jason asked me while smirking. “No, I’m not seeing anyone at the moment” I reply quickly, not interested in the conversation. “Do you have your eye on anyone here at camp?” he continued. I brushed him off once I noticed that we arrived at the ship.
“Here she is!” Leo said excitedly. We all took in the ship and its beauty. Leo showed us around the ship and we sailed off to Rome to meet Nico.
It would take about a week or two to get to Rome and find Nico. It was going to be a long day with nothing to do so I decided, since I am a child of Poseidon, why don’t I go into the ocean to see all the sealife.
So I started taking off my shoes and Percy looked at me and said “Y/n, what are you doing?” “Might as well go for a swim because there’s nothing better to do” I replied grinning.
“How will you keep up with the boat?” he asked worringly. “I will find a way” I reassured. And with that, I jumped off the boat and into the water.
Of course I didn’t think ahead and it started getting cold but I adjusted to the temperature after a while. I dived under the water and was looking at all the fish, dolphins, and whales, until a huge shark started coming towards me.
I started panicked and decided to swim up and the shark started catching up with me. Percy sensed that I was in trouble so he was about to jump in after me until Jason jumped out of the boat and started flying towards me.
By the time he reached me, the shark was only 5ft away. Jason grabbed me and flew straight up 15ft to make sure the shark couldn’t reach us and then flew us towards the boat.
When we reached the boat and Jason put me on it, Percy looked at me unamused and said “told you this wasn’t a good idea! You almost got eaten by a shark!” and I said “the key word is almost.”
Percy gave me a disappointed look and glared at Jason before heading inside the boat. “That was a close one. You were lucky I was here to save you” Jason said with a big grin. “Thank you for your help but I had it” I replied sharply, not in the mood for him.
Julian came up to me and ask “What was all that about?” “I don’t know. Percy seemed really disappointed in me.” I responded. “Hey, just give him some time. You’ll be ok” he reassured me.
He continued “Come find me if you need anything.” “I will, I just kinda want to be alone rn” I said sadly.
I just sat there in silence thinking about what happened earlier until the day started to end and everyone fell asleep but me again. For some reason I couldn’t sleep, so I decided to stay up and protect everyone while they slept.
I noticed that Leo was still up too, so I walked over to join him and said “you could sleep if you want. I can keep watch.” “I can’t sleep either and plus I have to captain the ship so I have to stay awake” he replied. I responded “ok, I’ll leave you to it” but Leo stopped me before I could leave.
“Hey, do you wanna talk about what happened earlier? I don’t know what’s going on between Jason and Percy but it’s pretty obvious something is up” Leo asked.
“Yeah I don’t know. Julian thinks it’s because Jason has a crush on me or something and Percy is acting like and overprotected older brother” I responded laughing it off.
“Yeah I picked up on that too. Do you like Jason?” Leo asked boldly. Taken back I replied “No, he’s not really my type. He gives off jock vibes and that’s not for me.”
“Oh ok” Leo replied secretly relived by my response. “What is your type?” he continued. “I usually like the more quiet and shy kind of guys because I guess I can relate with them. I don’t really know.” I reply shyly.
“Good to know. You should really get some sleep, I’ll keep watch” Leo insisted. “I’m not really tired. I could stay up and keep you company” I replied.
Leo nodded in agreement. And with that, we sat in silence for the rest of the night.
Author’s Note:
Hey guys! I hope you liked part 3 of Welcome to Camp Half Blood! What’s going on between Percy and Y/n? Will they move past their fight? Will it spark some tension between Annabeth and Y/n? Who will Y/n end up with? Let me know what you think!
Dividers by @saradika-graphics
Taglist: @breeloveschris @disturbedwoodelf @luverboychris @worldlxvlys @junnniiieee07
#percy jackson#camp half blood#annabeth chase#grover underwood#tyson#jason grace#piper mclean#leo valdez#the lost hero#y/n#yn#fanfiction#fanfic
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I've now been asked not to touch my receptionist's picture of her daughter. She'll try to be mindful and not have it "in my vicinity" but it really bothers her that it keeps moving.
Well bitch, it really fucking bothers me that I'm certain you're fully aware that to seeing your daughter every time I cover your lunch is a trigger for me and you don't seem to give even a fraction of a shit about it.
This is just further proving that my observations are correct. You're a self-absorbed, entitled bitch who doesn't care about her job. You want what you want when you want it, regardless of who it inconveniences. Or triggers.
#work life#ranting#selfish child#inconsiderate idiot#stupidity#birthmom trauma#trigger#lack of empathy#entitled bitch#she needs to grow the fuck up#june 7 2023
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