#bi femme

[bi-is-beautifull]

[musenextdoor]

Ovulation horny is CRAZY I need to be chained up like a werewolf rn

[femme-experience]

Hey! Just a reminder that bisexuals and queer men/achilleans are absolutely allowed to identify as butch or femme, and I encourage you to loudly identify as butch or femme if you feel like it. This is not a discourse topic, you have always been part of, and included in, the butch & femme labels and I would love to see more bisexuals and achilleans identify as butch or femme!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED!!! And you absolutely SHOULD if you desire to!

[genderqueerdykes]

here's to every bisexual who has had their bisexuality policed. here's to every bisexual whose defintion of bisexuality differs from people who try to define it for them. here's to every bisexual who gets told they're just straight. here's to every bisexual who gets denied access to queer spaces because they "look straight" or they're "in a straight relationship." here's to every bisexual gay and lesbian. here's to every bisexual butch and femme. here's to every bigender and genderfluid bisexual who has their identity questioned because of one or more of their genders. here's to every trans bisexual person whose bisexuality comes into question when they come out or start transition. here's to every bisexual who gets told they're bisexuality is "incorrect". here's to every bisexual who gets told their idea of bisexuality is actually pansexuality and they'd be better off identifying that way instead. here's to every bisexual of color who has their bisexuality questioned due to racism.

here's to every bisexual.

[macbxth-pdf]

Femme who’s obsessed with taking Polaroid selfies + Butch/Stud who keeps their photo in their wallet/pocket

[lgbtqtext]

[bi-butches-and-bi-femmes]

[bisexual-coala]

[emeldiir]

I'm curious if you have any femme [bi] mlm OCs ?? or any butch4femme [bi] mlm OCs .... :3c

I do!!

^^ These two are in a butch4femme bisexual mlm relationship! both are trans men!

^^ And these two are butch4femme bisexuals in both a wlw and a mlm relationship. They both identify as nonbinary and genderfluid. The femme has top surgery and self identifies as a femme fag

I would love to make more femme art too, so if you have any ideas or want to see anything specific let me know!

[biwrites]

I think where some people get caught up on bisexual/pansexual butches is that they fully think we aren’t butch when we aren’t in a sapphic relationship.

Like, I’ve seen people try to use “oh, so you’re still butch when you’re with a man?” As a gotcha, but…yes? Being butch, or even just queerly masculine is part of my identity, my identity doesn’t change depending on who I’m dating.

If someone’s entire identity and personality DOES change depending on who their partner is, you should check on them, instead of making fun of them, because that isn’t a sign of a healthy relationship.

[musenextdoor]

How can I respectfully tell them that my tight little pussy needs to be filled

[bi-dykes]

Various Bi Flag Wallpapers ✨

Pastel Bi (same meaning as OG bi flag) 🩷💜💙

Bi4Bi (bisexual who dates fellow bi’s) 🩵🌙💜

Selenic (specific to bi wlw/bi sapphics) 💜🌙🤍

Bi dyke (selenics who reclaim dyke) 💜💛❤️

Bihet (selenics who reclaim bihet) 🩷🖤💙💜

Camellian (selenics choosing saph4saph) 🩷🌸💜

Bi femme (a bi who is femme) ❤️🩷💜

Bi butch (a bi who is butch) 🩵💛💙

[femmebis]

The thing is, radfems (and other biphobic lesbians) DON'T have a problem with bisexual women using "lesbian terms". Not really.

They see a woman talking about her attraction to women, and call her a lesbian with no further thought. They see a masc woman, and they call her a butch, or the d-slur (affectionately). They see a pair of women in a relationship, they call them a "lesbian couple". They see no issue with these things. If you have a problem with it, maybe you should figure out why you have such a big problem with the word "lesbian"!

It's good, when it's used for bisexual erasure. Thus, the only conclusion we can draw is that their real problem lies in bisexual women having the autonomy to call themselves these terms.

[oneofabi]

[bi-butches-and-bi-femmes]

Important message for bisexual butches & femmes:

I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you

[bisexual-coala]

hi there! fellow bi person here! i've seen your post about "butch" and "femme" *not* actually being lesbian-exclusive and i am really interested in learning more about this history. i don't know where to start though, so do you mind sharing links or giving pointers as what to search for? thanks so much in advance!

Hi! Of course! <3

Butch and femme identities come from a time where lesbian meant sapphic. Lesbian was an umbrella term back then as we didn't have the word bisexual used for people like us. If you liked women, you were a lesbian, didn't matter if you *exclusively* liked women or not. So, all sapphics used them and identified with them. Bisexuals were right beside lesbians building the butch and femme culture. Even after the word bisexual began being used, bisexual butches and femmes existed.

Here are some excerpts from historical queer books and videos. 1 2 3 (These books could be a good start)

Those identities are not even limited to only queer women. Even queer men use butch and femme.

From a New York Times article on butch existence by Kerry Manders, a butch writer, editor & photographer.

Selections from queer zines 'femmes unite!' (2007) and 'mutate' (1999)

The Butch Manual

I hope these help!