#femme community

[femme-experience]

Hey! Just a reminder that bisexuals and queer men/achilleans are absolutely allowed to identify as butch or femme, and I encourage you to loudly identify as butch or femme if you feel like it. This is not a discourse topic, you have always been part of, and included in, the butch & femme labels and I would love to see more bisexuals and achilleans identify as butch or femme!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED!!! And you absolutely SHOULD if you desire to!

[brattyfemmebaby]

there are so many ways to be femme & all too often people focus exclusively on our clothes/makeup/presentation not what femme feels like to us

💕 my flavor of femme is old fashioned old school, soft & warm, the smell of fresh baked cookies, quiet sunsets on Lake Superior, a kitchen where i kiss my butch every morning & feed my family every night, pinky promises, wild strawberries, pretty pink flowers, & feeling like you’re finally home 💕

femmes, show (and tell if you want!) what your femme identity feels like to you or what it means to you. i want everyone to see how varied and wonderful our community is

im gonna tag @hello-kitty-milkshake @daddyslittlelunita @femmedummy @chokecherryfemme & any other femme who sees this! tag your favorite femmes too 🩷

[macbxth-pdf]

Can someone explain to me the use of rabbit imagery and the fascination with rabbits with femmes? It could just be a coincidence but most femmes that I’ve in the online butchfemme community seem to really like rabbits. Is it cause rabbits are associated with femininity like what is it?!?

[fairy-switchblade]

Hello! I’m collecting some info for a personal research project (nothing official) and I’d like to know what age you were when you first started identifying as ‘butch’ or ‘femme’, specifically.

if you could pass this around to friends and community members that’d be great! Thanks x

[star-princess-princess]

Hi, I’m a young black/indigenous autistic married lesbian in the middle over nowhere in the midwest, I genuinely have no community or life outside of my marriage and direct family, I don’t have any opportunity to travel and i’m absolutely desperate for some type of platonic connection with someone like me.

please, could someone tell me what to do?

- with love, a lonely femme

[deathtokillian]

If you are trans I need you to stay alive.

Stay alive for every other trans person fighting, stay alive for every trans person who is no longer here, and most importantly stay alive for yourself.

They don’t get to erase us! They don’t get to take away our rights, and treat us as less than human. Don’t let them erase us, and don’t let them make you a statistic. Don’t let them win.

Stay alive

If you won’t do it for yourself, then do it for others. Do it out of spite.

[bebs-art-gallery]

Sorrow

Source: †

[riotkittiesarchive]

beware of attack lesbian!! reblog if you too are, indeed, an attack lesbian

[femme-experience]

Some of my favourite sections from the Femmes Unite! #2 (2007) zine, that really speak to me as a bisexual trans achillean femme man! You can read this zine here!

[butchqueersapphic]

Paris lesbian club, 1934

[macbxth-pdf]

The queer community on social media would be a different place if people learned queer history and lived the queer experience.

[fairy-switchblade]

I’ve really backed off making content for this blog the last few weeks as I’ve had to redirect my energy towards my masters dissertation, and I feel really bad. In the spirit of catching up, hey femmes (and the other people that follow me, butches especially hi sweetie) , tell me about something you’ve started or something that’s coming up soon that you’re proud of/are looking forward to.

I’m starting running on Tuesday! As someone who leads a mostly sedentary lifestyle between my degree and work and placement, I wanted to do something to be more active that was also inexpensive. My goal is 5k in 8 weeks, wish me luck!

[martyr0l0gy]

femmes supporting femmes is actually about discussing your weapon of choice in great detail.

@glitter-knives-andeverythingnice can confirm.

[dawuukie]

i wanna finger my girl while i’m making out with her just so she struggles to keep kissing back