#being trans is weird lmao
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me after five minutes on tinder: yeah, no, I'm straight. Like I just barely like men. I don't find them attractive. I have to work to like men.
me seeing dabi: see this is why I keep calling myself bisexual.
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I’ve been highly confused as to why Michael “deeply openly thirsting on Twitter about David Tennant for half a decade” Sheen is half-in half-out the closet but apparently Wales is absurdly homophobic lmao what the fuck how is a country the size of New Jersey that much of a hater bruh we out number the shit out of you
#i thought googling ‘how to say gay’ in welsh would be funny but it just made me sad#i knew the uk in general had a problem with trans people but WOW it’s fucked up in wales like. there are 8 of you what are you doing#i feel bad now lmao#wales#my weird welsh hyperfixation has taken me places let me tell you#cymru#homophobia#gay#lgbt#lgbtqia#good omens#bbc staged#michael sheen#i thought he was just ‘oh i’m quiet about my personal life’ but that’s not even true like my man’s probably actually scared#what a fuckass country lmao awesome#uk politics#united kingdom#david tennant#what is it with this tiny ass island taking over the world and being shitty lmao and this is coming from an american#bisexual#<- bisexual gang gang feel bad you fuckin haters lol#yes the whole world is homophobic i know etc but it’s like outrageously bad out there apparently#stay mad that i think nationalism is dumb ‘how dare you ever have an opinion you american’#you’re white you are not going to like where the power + privilege argument inevitably goes
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You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#all this to say that we are existing on a rock hurling through space#and this universe is going to collide into another and does it all truly matter in the end?#a lot of this is based on ideas we have about what constitutes certain people and i think it can be a fun observation#so long as you do not inherently ascribe certain traits as being indicative of who somebody Is#it can be amusing when you're SO confident that somebody is a certain way until you realize how Wrong you were#the amusement for me only comes because it's like... 'you tried your best to box somebody and you FAILED lmao'#and in a weird way it's kind of comforting because it reminds me that we all come into this world with bias that Will be challenged...#...so the best thing you can do is recognize those biases and then try to overcome them through great effort...#...so yes maybe i did think that cis dude had tboy swag but. that's not inherently his problem you know?#it probably just means he's confident in his manhood in a way that reminds me of the trans men* i know and love#i noticed that in him and it reminded me of my friends who are trans so i think 'oh! maybe that's why he's giving off those vibes!'#so while i won't treat him any differently before or after finding out i was wrong i'm still going to appreciate the fact that...#...he and i are literally just Vibing on the same planet and we both don't have time for petty arguing about manhood#i'll acknowledge what inspired those thoughts in me but that is Not his problem and that's good and beautiful actually#i don't always mind the tboy/tgirl swag meme just so long as you don't treat it like an Inherent Trans Experience Only Trans People Have#just recognize where those ideas are inspired from and it's fine <3#sometimes you will be Wrong and that's actually fucking neutral <<3#anyway rant over i just think this is /generally/ harmless and fun#like astrology. sometimes you just look up your star sign without ascribing your Entire Life to it <3#i think what i lot of people mean by saying a cis person has tboy/tgirl swag is just that...#...that cis person has an understanding of themself that comes from deep introspection that isn't necessarily expected of cis folk...#...but it is often something trans people do as part of our exploration of gender...#how is this the FIRST POST to reach tag limit... ask me for more thoughts if you want lol!
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TG: bro flew off the handle TG: theres seriously something weird going on with him TT: So you finally noticed. TG: no i mean it TG: just beat him in a strife for the first time TG: he fucking lost it TT: That would imply he ever had it to begin with. TG: if you saw what i saw TG: ugh i dont even know TG: forget it
So listen, everyone loves a Decap Dirk, that's my main excuse. I thought about what if Bro tries to get Dave to finish him off early. IDK. It was a shitpost kind of idea, but I just kept making the drawing a more finished quality, and so I had to commit to finishing it.
Bro and Dave are trans men.
Still HQ versions and image text under the cut:
Image text: Fuckin' do it, Dave. C'mon, man. You won. Finish the job. DO IT! Haa Haa... [Image is from Dave's point-of-view. Bro's neck is pinned under Dave's sword, his sunglasses are askew and he has a wild grin and facial piercings. Bro holds Dave in place by grabbing his shirt. Bro's eyes are wide, and his left one shows a flash of billiard ball patterns before returning to normal.]
#homestuck#bro#bro strider#dave#dave strider#trans bro#trans bro strider#trans dave#trans dave strider#striders#homestuck fan art#fan art#art#drawing#digital art#what do i tag this#blood#the gif killed the quality i fought so hard for lmao some weird glitch was happening while i drew where i kept seeing pixels#(i have proof of that happening too bc the eyedropper was able to see the diff lol it was weird)#but yeah theres my drawing that took me ages to finish ugh the colour choices were so difficult to do#i had to do all the shading on the same layer because of the lighting being weird which was a whole challenge#i love how it looks i just wish it wasnt such a weird idea#Cori.exe#Image.exe#Create.exe#gif warning
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thoughts on transmasc Miguel? 👀
YESS, YESSSSS!! slams fists on table, rips shirt open, screams, bangs on chest. Transmasc Miguel is so huge, it's literally the best headcanon I've ever heard. I'm so so so on board.
I won't lie though, I have many things to say about these kinds of headcanons in general, but I'm just gonna keep it short for now and say thumbs up, transmasc miggy is a YES from me 🥰
#in very very very short#-I'm not a fan of people/fandoms having a fav character be a part of a gay ship and hc-ing their other half being afab#just so they don't have to feel weird about drawing/reading/writing gay sex.......#like bro#don't throw the creators a bone either' they didn't do shit to deserve that character being seen as trans#-that's another thing lmao#with miggy though it's different' cuz so many heteronormative things are left out and it's so good#ANYWAYS#huuuuge thumbs up' absolutely love transmasc mig
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would you draw an esmp 1 joel?
One slutty, slutty sculptor, coming right up!
He’s admiring his handiwork
#my art#Asks#sparklingbeanpudding#Joel Smallishbeans#joel smallishbeans fanart#empires smp#empires smp fanart#empires s1#empires Joel#Mezalian Joel#Leave is to transmascs to be weird about self portraits i guess LMAO nah he’s just a perfectionist#well I mean he is trans. That’s just not the reason he’s being weird about it. He’s being weird about it because he’s just like that#Anyways the tattoos I gave him fuck severely but they’re going to be a pain in the ass to draw every time I have to draw them so I’m not-#-sure if they’re going to be a permanent part of my esmp1 Joel design#I really like this drawing though I might rb with a crop of just him because he turned out really pretty I think#and I actually drew human feet for once instead of weird paws! Entirely too many toes if you ask me
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if you're a young queer person in fandom my greatest token of wisdom is don't fall into the trap of respectability politics.
don't make the mistake of thinking if you engage with fandom in a "palatable" or "respectful" manner to cishet normie audiences they will let you remain in the community without bother. don't for a moment bend your enjoyment or opinions to seem less "strange" to people. make your headcanons and fanfictions and make them weird. stop playing into their hand. have fun.
make that giant, hyper-masculine man trans and then ship him with his equally hyper masculine best friend. every female character can be a lesbian if it so pleases you. make that character a gender-queer, asexual, biromantic, neopronoun user. if someone calls you weird, double down and queerify another character.
and above all else, throwing your fellow queer ppl under the bus for doing it weirder than you only has the bus accelerating to take you down with them. don't fall for it.
#also before it can even be misconstrued#no being gay or trans or hypermasculine and trans or genderqueer neo pronoun users are not 'weird'#but u know what i mean here lmao#also more than just female characters can be lesbians but the way language works u get me here idk#U GET IT#thinky
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this might be a tad too personal of a post But do you guys ever come out and then stop c aring about your gender and then, some time later, realize that your loved ones slowly overtime start treating you as if youre not that gender Still just because youre just not like. scrambling to get top surgery
do you ever look at urself in the mirror a year after you came out and realize that you still dont like to talk about gender, that you let distant relatives say "oh he, or she or whatever", that you dont correct anyone calling you a "whatever" or a "they" even though youre binary, that you feel more and more insecure about it and that you like. just dont like how they talk about you as if youre nonbinary even though youve told them youre a man for two years now!
#this IS too personal LMAO#but idk. i feel like i lowk went back in the closet as i came out#its rly weird#trans#ftm#mtf#idk. its so exhausting#i wanna not care i reaally do#i dont want my transness to be my personality 24/7#but. they make it really hard#thwy just dont fucking respect it at aol#theyll never believe me about it to their core#IFGSHDGSHSV IN TIRED!!!!! IM SO TIRE#genuinely one of the hardest parts of being trans is. i WANT it to not be the center of my univers#personally i just like that idea#but its fucking impossible. because cis people just dont respect us#nyways
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i don’t know how to feel about the fact that i’ve started to see several people use they/them for taash.
like on one hand, i kind of get it. written by trick weekes, voiced by jin maley, both of whom are nonbinary. and taash is the only character whose pronouns haven’t officially appeared yet (to the best of my knowledge?) because harding, lucanis, emmrich, and neve have previous canon appearances, and bellara’s and davrin’s have appeared in promotional material, and maybe people are just trying to play it safe
on the other hand, the qunari have a long and unfortunate history of racial coding and i can’t help but feel like this is similar to the way women of color are seen as Less Feminine, combined with echoes of the weird remarks from da2 where people called aveline a man because she was a warrior
maybe i’m reaching a little. i guess we’ll see
#also the writer argument feels a little weak imo lmao#the actor argument has a bit more weight and i’d like to think they’d hire a nb actor for a nb character#but i also know. a lot of nb actors end up taking binary roles anyway#don’t get me wrong i would LOVE a nonbinary companion#i want people all over the spectrum so rook is not like. the only trans/nb person in the world lmao#i’m just like. is there any actual evidence for this or are people maybe being a little weird#(or maybe people are saying this jokingly and i’m taking it too seriously lmao)#mine#taash
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No magic AU with Harry and Tom being co-stars in an age/gender-blind casting of the phantom of the opera, 16-17 yr old Harry in the beginning and mid 20s Harry by the end, 50-60 yr old Tom throughout
Tom knows Harry is super into him, and he can see the appeal Harry has and is interested in him to a degree, but isn't really into the idea of parenting someone who wants to fuck him
Harry takes the rejection from Tom gracefully (Tom reads him like a fucking book and brings it up bluntly over tea how Harry is a lovely boy but is still rather young and Tom isn't interested in dating a child or in going to jail for dating a child) and so Harry lives his life, keeping in contact with Tom through letters and the occasional brunch, until he asks him out on a proper date and Tom does, finally, agree
#bonus: Harry is trans and figures that out only after being encouraged by Tom to do whatever seems appealing and fucking live yk#i just. love the idea of Harry being a naiive 16 yr old girl with a crush at the beginning#and then figuring out more abt himself and realizing he's trans and experiencing life and then finally getting with that weird old man!!#also notice that Tom has no issues being attracted to a young girl. he is not a good man he is just a law-abiding man#“being a criminal is too much work” -old man Tom#he would totally fuck Harry but he knows that wouldn't end well for him lmao#but he also doesn't groom Harry. grooming is just like. boring to me i guess#i want Harry to still like Tom even after becoming his own person. he just has questionable tastes
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I know they/them is an incredibly universal and widely accepted set of pronouns to use especially if u dont know someone's pronouns, but I remember seeing people say they do NOT want to be referred to as "they/them" on twt before and so now whenever I check a blog and they don't specify their pronouns, I fall to my knees in anguish like FUCKKK are my mental notes using they/them for this person gonna get leaked and am I gonna get canceled for using they/them with them... 😔
#that being said i did just use they/them but tbf i dont have anyone in mind when posting this so 💀#ALSO i know that its twitter so ofc smth like that is gonna be a cancelable offense (on twitter/not an actual offense) and i shouldnt-#-be worried abt getting in trouble ESPECIALLY since im only referring to this person in my head but i still get a little shaken up/worried😭#thinking back on it now i do find it a little ... strange ? that ppl would be so against they/them being used with them?#these ppl were part of the lgbtqia+ community too so it wasnt some cishet homo/transphobes 😭#those ppl treated it the same way trans or fem/masc presenting ppl treated having the opposite/non-preferred pronouns being used on them#except a lot. harsher ... much much harsher wudbsjdjsj#“if i had a nickel for every pronoun post i made today id have two. its not a lot but its weird that its been posted abt twice”#<idk i dont post about pronoun stuff a lot so LMAO#yapping
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UP TOP: Is the Tadpole Consumers! Sometimes being 'Power Hungry' means eating an actual worm.
Kendis Wolfcrossing (left): Bearbarian (Druid and Barbarian), She/They (nb). Romance Rolan [Maybe Minthara. Maybe Halsin. I'm just fucking around in the PT]
Kaeliana (right): aka The Dark Urge, Soradin of Kelemvor (Sorcerer and Paladin), She/her (trans). Romance Wyll.
BOTTOM DOWN: The Parental Trauma Cleric Sibs (and potentially both technically undead).
Amryl Shadowhoard (left): Ranger/War Cleric of Bahamut, They/It/She (in order; nb). Romance Wyll/Lae'zel/REDACTED [yeah that's the polyam!]. Is, technically, Isyl's younger sibling.
Isyl Shadowhoard (right): aka The Dark Urge. Cleric of Light [hhaha] of Lathander, ???? (trans and nb). Potential Romance Barcus. Is, definitely, Amryl's older sibling. Isyl remembers that fact and Isyl remembers Lathander. Everything else is secondary. Right?
#meet my tavs#grapes chars#bg3: kendis wolfcrossing#oc: kaeliana#oc: amryl shadowhoard#oc: isyl shadowhoard#bg3 tav#bg3 durge#grapecase posts#meet my ocs#the thing im most excited for isyl is tthe sibling stuff and the struggle between past and 'nature' and ofc exploring duergar shit but i#hope isyl can be a particular shit to wulbern#im more excited about the barcus 'romance' than i expected?#i need to learnmroe about him#kendis is supposed to have a scar over their black/white eye. idk if its hard to see bc of teh tadpole eating or if a mod took it off#i'll check later#this is my current [mostly] active PTs.#but i have like six others in the shadows? lol and one nebulous plan. bc i dont have a geriatric. i wanted to make an old man githyanki but#then the enbies ate my brain#also tho some people put nb as under the trans umbrella i know some people see it as a separate umbrella.#i feel isyl sees themselves as both. they transitioned but they also see themselves as nonbinary. kendis sees being nonbinary as both in#a weird way like its own seperate thing but also under the umbrella? idk a venn diagram? i just vibe for kendis#kae proudly has a girldick. and proudly is a woman. i have mixed ideaas on when she transitioned. im sure it would have been a mess. but it#HERS.#[on the one hand i dont think bhaal cares. but on the other hand idky i feel bhaalists would get very evangelical about it. like THIS IS TH#BODY BHAAL MADE. A RE YOU SAYING BHAAL ERRED???]#amryl is they/it nonbinary. trans. wte. but they're also i think one of those nonbinary unless it's 'god forbid women are allowed to do ANY#HING'#lmao#okay okay im going back to my burrow
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>start HRT
>brain finally starts producing a variety of chemicals properly
cuddle time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i love my friends!!!!!
#trans#fingors speaks#transgender#lmao this is one of the silliest things i’ve written#it’s true though#cuddling or even just being in physical contact with people is GREAT#fucking 10/10 adore it#thank you brain for finally producing the right chemical combinations at the right time for this#what a wonderful expierence#friends are great#espically when they’re also silly and weird like you
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holy shit my voice just Dropped for reals this time. Tested out my range on a virtual keyboard and I'm easily hitting a low C which like. I used to have a low alto range but, if I'm remembering right, low C was Not something I could reach. And the keyboard didn't go any lower than the C but I'm positive I can go quite a bit lower, as I wasn't straining at ALL to hit it.
Anyway, my voice has been cracking all over the place and I think half the reason for that (aside from male puberty ofc) is I'm still trying to speak within my old range, and it's officially Too High for me now. (P.S. I'm not secretly some amazing singer, not even close, but I did take piano lessons for a bunch of years plus a little bit of high school choir, hence all the talk of notes and range)
#it sounds so much different too#like there's this... lmao.. like this Baritone sound in there now#it's fucking wild#and it's weird i'm still trying to hang on to my old range#a big part of it is subconscious but there's also this uhhh not wanting to suddenly be too much different?#that idk who i'm even doing it for but i sure am doing it#it's that threshold i'm stepping over into being More Trans#and i'm personally 100% on board but there is also some fear of ppls reactions
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protip when you are in a Situation where a third party has just misgendered you in front of a new acquaintance, apparently the best way to adjust their expectations of your gender is to be like "hah weird i have no idea why she thinks i'm a girl" and they'll be like "oh you're a guy? yeah that is weird then" and just. go with it
#so much easier than being like “um i'm actually trans so...”#nope! we're putting it all on the third party for getting it wrong!#“lmao so weird that she would make that mistake”
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i’m tired. why can’t i consume things normally. or at least consume them abnormally but in the way that other people consume them abnormally and not in this weird isolating way where i feel the need to overexplain myself whenever i talk about the thing i’m consuming so people understand me and my thought process
#it’s the social anxiety or something idk i know it’s in my head#i want to talk abt the things that i like but i feel like i can’t explain to other fans my process of being a fan?#does that makes sense?#bc i know i approach it a bit differently#which is fine by itself but then i feel the need to justify lol#which is literally what i am doing right now 💀#also why i write a lot in the tags all the time lmao#and realistically is probably connected w being trans and always feeling like i’m intruding on spaces that don’t belong to me#bc i feel like although sports are very male-fan-dominated#spaces like tumblr *tend* to have more women#and a lot of the ppl i interact with (though certainly not all) are women so i always feel weird talking abt my interests/opinions#bc i think it makes my perspective difficult to related to sometimes which j understand#but it still makes me feel shit sometimes
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